If you're dealing with a toxic narc you probably won't get closure or a reason for the silent treatment or the block, having gone through this with not only my mother, my dad, siblings, friend & exes...I stop caring anymore, and choose to just move on, live my life and pray for them. If they choose to return, that's on them, but they better hope I haven't changed my number or blocked them by that time. Life is too short to keep allowing others to have this kinda power over my emotions and removing my options..Wish everyone the best in their endeavor...but my peace is priceless
My ex told me she loved me, wanted kids and the world. 1 week later she was talking to another guy. 3 weeks later she wants nothing to do with me. Her actions speak a lot louder than her words lol.
Recent situation… she blocked me.. I knew she was seeing someone else.. she was being very cold with me.. so… she literally texted me.. “I need to close this chapter with you and can’t keep bothering you.. focus on your things” then she blocked be for 3 weeks.. then I unexpectedly received a call from her.. FaceTime… her crying saying she was having found emotions and that she missed me a lot… and she kept saying that… all I can say is I’ve been focusing on me.. I talk to her but she’s not my priority nor care to get back with her.. she is an emotional mess and I do not need that in my life.. good luck to all of you who have been broken up with.. focus on your purpose .. put God 1st..
Exactly. If someone blocked you. Do No not pick up when they call you back. Ignore them forever. Because if you give them a chance they will do it again forever.
My ex blocked me after I found out she was cheating and monkey branching I was so pissed off and we had a nasty fight. I don't care anyway don't need a cheater in my life.
if youre ever in a point in your relationship where your ex blocks you and you feel like youre the one that needs to change itll never work. a partnership is just that partners 50/50. its not all one sided. you should never feel like from youre partner youre a problem and need to change partner that love each other should recognize each others problems and help each other thru them. you should accept each other and change together for the better. if youve been blocked its gone to far and to much damage is done and its time to move on.
My ex is a evil coward. 2 weeks ago we were talking and then she unfollowed me for doing nothing. I wasn’t even posting. At this point I hope she gets what’s coming to her because I’ve been her best relationship for 8 years. Good luck to her rebound, the toxicity will come out soon enough. She needs to change, not me.
Even tho I got no hope, these videos are an absolute pain killer ❤ . Thank you so much for making me feel ok. I'm currently trying to get myself back and chase my goals.
Alex, what you saying is so true... because he persued me for so long... almost 4years.... for a moment i forgot his a very patient man.... Thank you for the reminder 🎗️...let me do what i do best....mind my own and act as though i have never met him before....😊❤....let me go fetch my life🎉
U r absolutely right distance works like hell it makes u feel v confident n awesome which ur x won't b able to resist u can bet on that n u rock man keep it up
I don't own anybody, I blocked my ex and I don't have any fake account not even a regular because I need to free myself from a toxic person. When I blocked him I found peace again.
It’s not just men, women can also be quite mean as well, and can be quick to be mean and once they/she are called out, then she blocks him without reason as oppose to talking things out. It’s not cool to block just for anything unless it’s a repeated pattern of demeaning comments, humiliation etc. but it seems like people can just block whomever for the slightest thing, whether you know the person one year or many years, it’s very disheartening and it’s a reflection of mental instability in regards to the blocker if it’s for a minor thing.
After the breakup she blocked me everywhere. Went into 4 weeks of nc. After this time we accidentaly ran into each other outside. I tried to stay calm and keep my cool. She on the other hand approached me with anger, meaniness and coldness. After that 3min meet up she blocked me again and un-blocks me whenever she has something ‚to say‘. I can‘t wrap my head around this girl. She‘s extremely emotional and reactive. She broke up with me because she didn‘t feel emotionally supported be me.
It will also depend on how you broke up, whether there are hard feelings/hurt feelings. I broke up with a guy because he lied to me so I said bunch of “mean” things when I had anger. So when I talked to him again after 1 month, he said I need to read what I texted him, and those made him don’t wanna go date me again lol so really depends
Thank you so much for this. I am in this exact situation right now. Long story short, my ex girlfriend had suffered some emotional trauma before she met me and was vulnerable. I had another toxic ex who would capitalize on this and ultimately broke us up. I meet her every weekend to pick up our son and can see she is still angry. I didn't cheat on her but made a few mistakes with transparency.
She is angry because she still loves you. You need to focus on self improvement and just stay quiet. No social media posts, just disappear and let her be curious about your life. Trust me she will be back. Being angry is a good sign
He said goodbye then i treat it with goodbye. Process my emotions. Ive no control over him. He will do what he wants to do. If he decides he wants to come back, we will see at that time.❤
I’ve been in two serious relationships, first one was 2 and half years. I didn’t chase.. I didn’t really care even though she broke up with me. I was working on myself during that time. And somethings she said really disgusted me.. however my most recent ex I was with her for three and half years I miss her.. we had a lot of issues… but I have unconditional love for her and believe we are meant to be together. I have always been faithful and did my best to be there for her.
Blocked my ex for five years take down fb change phone numbers moved states. Best thing i ever did. Now he came to my door two days ago trying to break in my house he never lived in. Police did nothing because he didn’t get in and hurt me or take anything.
Listen up folks, I have had my own experience. Best advice is never get blinded by the background noise. By nature we are emotional beings. We don't operate on 1's and 0's.
I immediately agreed to her wanting space & backed off completely. I've never reached out once. She unfollows me on IG. I guess to get a reaction is the only thing I can think of. I was so good to her & love her
We were together last for 4 years and working together in the same company and now he is seeing some other girls for marriage and I am unable to see him to talk and meet other girls and he wants me too in his life. I don’t want to be treated like a option or a doormat. So i have asked him to let me go and he said Okay and then I blocked him. But I miss him a lot.
My ex blocked me recently because we argued and I said some things I shouldn’t have said…I don’t think he’s coming back…it’s been about 2 weeks..I’m heartbroken
He is asking me not to message him too much and he wants space. His life is his own. He doesn't like anyone to enter his space. But this happened before also and he calls me when drunk and showers love upon me. And behaves cold the next day. I'm fed up. But I still loves him and can't forget him
When it’s done it’s done. I blocked her back. She wasn’t enough smart to see how an amazing person I am. And she said I’m a great person but then became cold from hot . So , f….off. I don’t have time even if I loved her that much and like no one. I’ve been hurt but I’m not unblocking her . Ever. She’s a perfect looser .
Also, I'm blocked on everything... She's so angry that I'm blocked on social media, her phone, and even Google.... Wtf.... But I understand why, I still want her back, willingness to change, and can careless about what anybody thinks or says about me because I'm me, so...... To the ones saying why wait or contact somebody blah blah blah.... Yeah... Blah blah blah... I don't want to live my life with what if's or regrets.
My ex randomly contacted me saying she didnt want to be with me anymore even though were already broke up lol. I said its cool no worries i understand and thanked her for giving me closire. Wish you all the best goodbye. I did this as i accepted her request and then she blocked me
I’m sorry to hear that, it must be so painful. But I think it’s also for you and her protection, my ex dumped me almost just a month ago (he is my first boyfriend) and I blocked him asap, it is because he said that we can still message each other and it’s not the ideal break up for me. It’s for my protection because I don’t want to hope that he will still message me and want me back, because if I didn’t blocked him i’ll wait for his message every minute, and if he didn’t message me at all it will also break my heart for him cutting all of it permanently, it is also for him because I don’t want to reply to him if he message me, then his heart will be hurt also because of me not replying to him at all. That’s for both of you. I still love him dearly but it’s for the best of us to cut our connetion maybe forever. Regardless, if you’re meant for each other the universe will find its way for you to be together again no matter what. It’s not okay, it’s suck @huggclow2254 but it WILL be okay soon.
I want to quote the line I’ve taken away from the movie Briget Jones: The Edge of reason “one minute you are close to someone than anyone else in the world, the next minute you’ll never gonna see them again”
My ex is really stubborn, but I think I am too. Our last great conservation was her basically pointing out (teaching me) things about myself that I never noticed about myself before. These are the things that I need to change, and she said what you said, "I will be watching you from a distance, call you when I call you, and you may never know, "... Well stubborn me didn't listen, tried reaching out, buying gifts, running into her etc.... All that did was made her colder and colder. That last good conversation was about 3 or months ago, and I'm afraid that during this period, she will forget about me, love someone else, and so on. Just the thought of someone touching her, and looking at her the way we used to makes me more afraid. I don't know what to do...
As painful as this sounds, ask yourself this, do you really want to be with someone who has made it expressly clear that they don't wanna be with you by blocking you? Go complete No-contact, assume she died, and stop watching her stories, wait and watch the magic, yes it may take time, that's because time is part of the elements for re-attracting your ex
16 years ago when we just met, he told me how he got no feelings when his ex called. Now we got arguments and he told me the same story, he said he got no feelings at all. It’s the most scary thing...... I like him but I always got him angry and now he blocked me. Because he said I hurt him too much
My mother wrecked my childhood with alcohol addiction. My ex husband wrecked our marriage with alcohol addiction. I told a guy I’m not having anything with him when i realized he was impaired every night & thought it funny. He ghosted & blocked me. He’s some other low vibrational girls problem now 😅
I got blocked on all social media and her phone. I reacted and said some nasty stuff and used some "sensitive information" from her past to insult her when she ghosted me for some legit reasons. She was having problems within herself and i lost patience. I regret for acting that way. She said she will not be disresepcted again and she says shes repecting herself as a woman. Mind you she had gotten out from a emotional abusive relationship from a ex husband that she lived with for 10 years. My ex and i were good for 10-1/2 months and it only took one day for me "acting like her ex" to lose all types of feelings for me. We have a mutual friend and she said my ex wants nothing to do with me. I had apologized and sent messages thru our mutual friend to no avail of persuading her. I guess ill just have to wait now.
I'm sorry to hear about your situation. It's never easy when things end on a sour note. It's important to learn from our mistakes and grow as individuals. Hopefully, with time, you'll both be able to have a conversation and show your changes.
Thank you for this. Had a blow out bad break up. I somewhat begged the next day after he broke up with me on text. He said no hard feelings and don’t feel afraid to say hi if we cross paths in the future. I somewhat begged against then he blocked me. Hurts .
I do the most low thing I could do. I posted her dead mother’s grave and her pictures she shared publicly on social media. her attention, but it didn’t work. Her, babushka, grandmother seen everything and was shocked. She said she doesn’t wanna do anything with me
Mine. Blocked me all the time for everything. Not agreeing, different opinions, if she was in bad mood atm, really for almost anything unless it was her talking with me about loving me or being cute. Any convo etc she would block me
I’m sorry but this makes very little sense. You can’t ask your ex anything if you’re completely blocked. You’re basically saying hope is your tactic. Hoping they contact me after seeing I’ve changed.
My ex has blocked me for d second tym for no reason he just stopped speaking, first time he blocked me he was back exactly after a month n den v spoke for about 2 months now again he stopped talking to me, what should I do plz suggest will he come back?
Well after breakup no contact 1 month i sent nice little text ex was mad so another month no contact and another nice little text still mad not sure how it will turn out
Unfortunately for the second time we're apart, 2-3 months now, he never looked at my social media. He has no interest. Another girl got in the way and she's satisfying his needs and being territorial to the point of making him very uninterested. I talked to him today, after these months of radio silence on my part to ask about her...mistake, I know. And he denied they're dating, fought with me and blocked me. Says he'll never look at me again.
He’s has had me blocked for 3 months but drove by my job. This is absolutely driving me crazy with why?! He doesn’t have social media, no interest in it.
My estranged wife blocked me everywhere, but I can still see her Facebook and she is single. But she even changed her number. I don't want a divorce, but I messaged her and asked to talk to me one more time, because I need to know the truth about some things, then I'd send the divorce papers. That's when she reblocked me on Facebook and now her number is non working. I'm hurting bad, and can't think right; I need to know if anyone has been in a situation like this, and what can I maybe expect.
My wife and I have been separated for a very short time. She changed her relationship status from married to single today. I am hoping that this is just part of the distancing process. She doesn't miss me yet. It has not been long enough. Thoughts?
How do you know if she misses you or not you don't really know people put up all kinds of fronts on social media and with other people but if you know what was going on in her head and you might be surprised
Have a question I was really needy reaching out to the point where she blocked me everywhere and she changed her phone number. We did communicate after her email but then she blocked me there too because of the heated discussion. Is this a wrap if I do what you say to I still have a chance or is it pretty much gone?
Hi Alex. What would you make of this. Separated since beginning of year. Watching socials since but i recently posted a picture of my weightloss and i was blocked on that platform but not other's?
You guys are forgetting one very important aspect of it all. Not time, not “words of endearment”. The only thing that will settle the storm if your partner forgives you. If they dont know how to forgive. Either you are not showing sincere asking of it, or they just dont know how to through jesus christ. Unless this happens there will be underlying resentment and anger, and no matter if NC is applied they will hold your shortcomings agaisnt you. Oh yea, and dont forget to clean up your act
Hi sir Alex,,my bf he always abused me by he's words,,im so hurts he always say i leave him,i block him.wht i will do?so now i decide to not messaging him i stop all,,that's good?
Hey Alex, if I texted her too much when she said she didn’t want me to, and then she said since her words clearly didn’t matter mine didn’t anymore, and that she was blocking me, what do I do? We have the same friends and I will likely see her in friend group hang outs. Should I avoid those? She’ll be in town for about a month.
Thank you for reaching out and sharing your situation. It's never easy to navigate through these kinds of relationship challenges, but it's important to be respectful and understanding. Take some time to reflect on your actions and learn from the experience. When you'll see her with your friends you'll be able to show her that you have changed.
Oh i got that lil boy so traumatized 😂 thats why he blocked me. Cuz he exactly KNOWS that unless he dms me, i dont text him, so there were no reason to block me 😂 just so pathetic
Alex,we had an argument and she said that very day she accepted someone's proposal but a friend of her tell me that she was lying, she just don't want me to disturb her again.Yesterday she said is over and don't want me again, this morning i realized she blocked my WhatsApp but didn't block my calls number. What should I do to get her back, i love her
My ex recently broke up with me after I said some mean things to her and blocked my phone number and on social media. It was the only time I said hurtful things to her. Any advice on how to win her back?
yes true I have time to think and realize everything I don't do anything wrong he broke up with me because he said that he is a gay but I don't believe him my mistake is I keep begging and annoying him so he block me🥺😂
What about when they send a nasty vibe video with a hateful song on WhatsApp..then they block you! you didn't get chance to reply! And this is out of the blue BTW! After 8 months yet they've seen your online active in WhatsApp but they don't do anything or say anything! Yet you've just got on with life not bothered them and that happens.btw I broke up with him! He was abusive drug use and alcohol.anger issues. He just wants attention from me! He ain't getting it.toxic much.
I am alice from camerooun i have a situations where me and boy friend in America with whom we used to text ,call and even make love on phone . After travel to school in a near by town, comunication got limited until now ,becouse when i travel to school i took some time to text and call him . Becouse of chellenges i got in school. And he did not even border to call or text me to find out about school and life there .
Hi coach, so my ex didn’t block me on Instagram but he silenced my stories and posts. Shall I block him or remove him from my followers? Also… shall I do the same to his friends who are always watching?
Not gonna happen after i left UK for 3 months she slept with my best mate we was 8 years now she blocked me say she don't want me back and never go back to me i love her so much after she told me she slept with my mate and him confirmed i call her bad names its finish for good all dome and dusted 😢
Recent issue she blocked me after we both commented on a mutual post …her response to me was Taylor Swift song Karma….it’s been a couple weeks or more now ….no contact …who, how and when should one reach out ?
Best point, if they have the emotion to block you they have the emotions to love you again
Eh, tried talking to one of my exes from a year ago. And she unblocked me and talked to me fort awhile, then blocked me again
Same 😂😂😂bruh
Blocking is so immature. Anything can be fixed by communication
God fixis it all
Absolutely
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Agreed!
I said this for years, but she would not talk about the problems. Just blocked..
If you're dealing with a toxic narc you probably won't get closure or a reason for the silent treatment or the block, having gone through this with not only my mother, my dad, siblings, friend & exes...I stop caring anymore, and choose to just move on, live my life and pray for them. If they choose to return, that's on them, but they better hope I haven't changed my number or blocked them by that time. Life is too short to keep allowing others to have this kinda power over my emotions and removing my options..Wish everyone the best in their endeavor...but my peace is priceless
Never listen to her words. Listen to her actions.
This right here. 💯
My ex told me she loved me, wanted kids and the world. 1 week later she was talking to another guy. 3 weeks later she wants nothing to do with me.
Her actions speak a lot louder than her words lol.
@@TheGreyWolf94 never believe what a woman says. They say what they mean in that moment. Emotional creatures. They’re not real people
His words n actions was mix
@@TheGreyWolf94 fucked up
Recent situation… she blocked me.. I knew she was seeing someone else.. she was being very cold with me.. so… she literally texted me.. “I need to close this chapter with you and can’t keep bothering you.. focus on your things” then she blocked be for 3 weeks.. then I unexpectedly received a call from her.. FaceTime… her crying saying she was having found emotions and that she missed me a lot… and she kept saying that… all I can say is I’ve been focusing on me.. I talk to her but she’s not my priority nor care to get back with her.. she is an emotional mess and I do not need that in my life.. good luck to all of you who have been broken up with.. focus on your purpose .. put God 1st..
Exactly. If someone blocked you. Do No not pick up when they call you back. Ignore them forever. Because if you give them a chance they will do it again forever.
Ultimately all there is is God and his love. I just focus on projecting love to those people who want it. Sometimes fear holds one back.
My ex blocked me after I found out she was cheating and monkey branching I was so pissed off and we had a nasty fight. I don't care anyway don't need a cheater in my life.
He blocked me when I loved him. It makes me not want to accept his dusty ass when he’s back
if youre ever in a point in your relationship where your ex blocks you and you feel like youre the one that needs to change itll never work. a partnership is just that partners 50/50. its not all one sided. you should never feel like from youre partner youre a problem and need to change partner that love each other should recognize each others problems and help each other thru them. you should accept each other and change together for the better. if youve been blocked its gone to far and to much damage is done and its time to move on.
My ex is a evil coward. 2 weeks ago we were talking and then she unfollowed me for doing nothing. I wasn’t even posting. At this point I hope she gets what’s coming to her because I’ve been her best relationship for 8 years. Good luck to her rebound, the toxicity will come out soon enough. She needs to change, not me.
Even tho I got no hope, these videos are an absolute pain killer ❤ . Thank you so much for making me feel ok. I'm currently trying to get myself back and chase my goals.
Thanks a lot!
No, they don't care. 😭 They throw away the key.
Alex, what you saying is so true... because he persued me for so long... almost 4years.... for a moment i forgot his a very patient man.... Thank you for the reminder 🎗️...let me do what i do best....mind my own and act as though i have never met him before....😊❤....let me go fetch my life🎉
U r absolutely right distance works like hell it makes u feel v confident n awesome which ur x won't b able to resist u can bet on that n u rock man keep it up
Move on, definitely, if my ex does this, she is not worthy of my time, period. Move on....
I don't own anybody, I blocked my ex and I don't have any fake account not even a regular because I need to free myself from a toxic person. When I blocked him I found peace again.
It’s not just men, women can also be quite mean as well, and can be quick to be mean and once they/she are called out, then she blocks him without reason as oppose to talking things out. It’s not cool to block just for anything unless it’s a repeated pattern of demeaning comments, humiliation etc. but it seems like people can just block whomever for the slightest thing, whether you know the person one year or many years, it’s very disheartening and it’s a reflection of mental instability in regards to the blocker if it’s for a minor thing.
Thank you. I needed that encouragement!
He's definitely not coming back this time!!!!
But your words still made me feel better in the moment anyway
You are so welcome!
After the breakup she blocked me everywhere. Went into 4 weeks of nc. After this time we accidentaly ran into each other outside. I tried to stay calm and keep my cool. She on the other hand approached me with anger, meaniness and coldness. After that 3min meet up she blocked me again and un-blocks me whenever she has something ‚to say‘.
I can‘t wrap my head around this girl. She‘s extremely emotional and reactive.
She broke up with me because she didn‘t feel emotionally supported be me.
Update? I have same situation
@@shoaibshaikh6323 update? I have same situation 😂
It will also depend on how you broke up, whether there are hard feelings/hurt feelings. I broke up with a guy because he lied to me so I said bunch of “mean” things when I had anger. So when I talked to him again after 1 month, he said I need to read what I texted him, and those made him don’t wanna go date me again lol so really depends
Thank you so much for this. I am in this exact situation right now. Long story short, my ex girlfriend had suffered some emotional trauma before she met me and was vulnerable. I had another toxic ex who would capitalize on this and ultimately broke us up. I meet her every weekend to pick up our son and can see she is still angry. I didn't cheat on her but made a few mistakes with transparency.
She is angry because she still loves you. You need to focus on self improvement and just stay quiet. No social media posts, just disappear and let her be curious about your life. Trust me she will be back. Being angry is a good sign
He said goodbye then i treat it with goodbye. Process my emotions. Ive no control over him. He will do what he wants to do. If he decides he wants to come back, we will see at that time.❤
Thanks for sharing your story.
I’ve been in two serious relationships, first one was 2 and half years. I didn’t chase.. I didn’t really care even though she broke up with me. I was working on myself during that time. And somethings she said really disgusted me.. however my most recent ex I was with her for three and half years I miss her.. we had a lot of issues… but I have unconditional love for her and believe we are meant to be together. I have always been faithful and did my best to be there for her.
Hello Michael,
Blocked my ex for five years take down fb change phone numbers moved states. Best thing i ever did. Now he came to my door two days ago trying to break in my house he never lived in. Police did nothing because he didn’t get in and hurt me or take anything.
Listen up folks, I have had my own experience. Best advice is never get blinded by the background noise. By nature we are emotional beings. We don't operate on 1's and 0's.
''You will be able to do the first step when u are feeling good on the best moment''. How can u do the first step when you are blocked ?
I immediately agreed to her wanting space & backed off completely. I've never reached out once. She unfollows me on IG. I guess to get a reaction is the only thing I can think of. I was so good to her & love her
We were together last for 4 years and working together in the same company and now he is seeing some other girls for marriage and I am unable to see him to talk and meet other girls and he wants me too in his life. I don’t want to be treated like a option or a doormat. So i have asked him to let me go and he said Okay and then I blocked him. But I miss him a lot.
My ex blocked me recently because we argued and I said some things I shouldn’t have said…I don’t think he’s coming back…it’s been about 2 weeks..I’m heartbroken
I’m in the same situation now. Can you give an update please?
You know how hard it is, but I'm going to give it a try.
He is asking me not to message him too much and he wants space. His life is his own. He doesn't like anyone to enter his space. But this happened before also and he calls me when drunk and showers love upon me. And behaves cold the next day. I'm fed up. But I still loves him and can't forget him
He blocked me for no reason ,I miss him so much ,I don't know what to do
When it’s done it’s done. I blocked her back. She wasn’t enough smart to see how an amazing person I am. And she said I’m a great person but then became cold from hot . So , f….off. I don’t have time even if I loved her that much and like no one. I’ve been hurt but I’m not unblocking her . Ever. She’s a perfect looser .
I got blocked on the phone but not on social media 🤦🏾♀️ we are still friends on all social media platforms
If someone blocks you, they're the ones that need to change
Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
Also, I'm blocked on everything... She's so angry that I'm blocked on social media, her phone, and even Google.... Wtf.... But I understand why, I still want her back, willingness to change, and can careless about what anybody thinks or says about me because I'm me, so......
To the ones saying why wait or contact somebody blah blah blah.... Yeah... Blah blah blah... I don't want to live my life with what if's or regrets.
My ex randomly contacted me saying she didnt want to be with me anymore even though were already broke up lol. I said its cool no worries i understand and thanked her for giving me closire. Wish you all the best goodbye. I did this as i accepted her request and then she blocked me
I block him also..no contact ..👍🏻✌️
Thank you Alex I'm changed three weeks he blocked me. I'm not on Facebook i think I'm okay without him am happy with my life again I thank God 🙏
Its been 8 months of blocked pain, one of the worst feelings
I’m sorry to hear that, it must be so painful. But I think it’s also for you and her protection, my ex dumped me almost just a month ago (he is my first boyfriend) and I blocked him asap, it is because he said that we can still message each other and it’s not the ideal break up for me. It’s for my protection because I don’t want to hope that he will still message me and want me back, because if I didn’t blocked him i’ll wait for his message every minute, and if he didn’t message me at all it will also break my heart for him cutting all of it permanently, it is also for him because I don’t want to reply to him if he message me, then his heart will be hurt also because of me not replying to him at all. That’s for both of you. I still love him dearly but it’s for the best of us to cut our connetion maybe forever.
Regardless, if you’re meant for each other the universe will find its way for you to be together again no matter what.
It’s not okay, it’s suck @huggclow2254 but it WILL be okay soon.
I want to quote the line I’ve taken away from the movie Briget Jones: The Edge of reason “one minute you are close to someone than anyone else in the world, the next minute you’ll never gonna see them again”
It gets better I promise focus on you
My ex is really stubborn, but I think I am too. Our last great conservation was her basically pointing out (teaching me) things about myself that I never noticed about myself before. These are the things that I need to change, and she said what you said, "I will be watching you from a distance, call you when I call you, and you may never know, "...
Well stubborn me didn't listen, tried reaching out, buying gifts, running into her etc.... All that did was made her colder and colder.
That last good conversation was about 3 or months ago, and I'm afraid that during this period, she will forget about me, love someone else, and so on. Just the thought of someone touching her, and looking at her the way we used to makes me more afraid.
I don't know what to do...
Are you still blocked?
@@johnhancock8107yup I blocked her back 😢
As painful as this sounds, ask yourself this, do you really want to be with someone who has made it expressly clear that they don't wanna be with you by blocking you?
Go complete No-contact, assume she died, and stop watching her stories, wait and watch the magic, yes it may take time, that's because time is part of the elements for re-attracting your ex
16 years ago when we just met, he told me how he got no feelings when his ex called. Now we got arguments and he told me the same story, he said he got no feelings at all. It’s the most scary thing......
I like him but I always got him angry and now he blocked me. Because he said I hurt him too much
no they do not care or respect you
My mother wrecked my childhood with alcohol addiction. My ex husband wrecked our marriage with alcohol addiction. I told a guy I’m not having anything with him when i realized he was impaired every night & thought it funny. He ghosted & blocked me. He’s some other low vibrational girls problem now 😅
Have you ever had someone block you from calling and texting them but not on social media at all? What could that mean?
It's a bluff that's what my person did. He said move on so I said f* it and blocked him
This makes a lot of sense. Thank you
Needed this.
She blocked me because I told her to either smarten up or go away. She chose the path of dumb
Thank You Alex for Your Perrenial Wisdom !
My pleasure!
No communication from my ex and have been blocked for 3 months
How about year n half? 😂 live your life❤
Different people is different. I block stranger.
I got blocked on all social media and her phone. I reacted and said some nasty stuff and used some "sensitive information" from her past to insult her when she ghosted me for some legit reasons. She was having problems within herself and i lost patience. I regret for acting that way. She said she will not be disresepcted again and she says shes repecting herself as a woman. Mind you she had gotten out from a emotional abusive relationship from a ex husband that she lived with for 10 years. My ex and i were good for 10-1/2 months and it only took one day for me "acting like her ex" to lose all types of feelings for me. We have a mutual friend and she said my ex wants nothing to do with me. I had apologized and sent messages thru our mutual friend to no avail of persuading her. I guess ill just have to wait now.
I'm sorry to hear about your situation. It's never easy when things end on a sour note. It's important to learn from our mistakes and grow as individuals. Hopefully, with time, you'll both be able to have a conversation and show your changes.
Thank you for this. Had a blow out bad break up. I somewhat begged the next day after he broke up with me on text. He said no hard feelings and don’t feel afraid to say hi if we cross paths in the future. I somewhat begged against then he blocked me. Hurts .
Sorry to hear that.
he my be playing games. or using you as a option
Mhn you speak fact 🔥🔥🔥
Thank you Alex🙏🤟now I see
I'm going to go ahead wait a couple months and change make and gain happiness, and if i still would like to i'll contact him
I do the most low thing I could do. I posted her dead mother’s grave and her pictures she shared publicly on social media. her attention, but it didn’t work.
Her, babushka, grandmother seen everything and was shocked. She said she doesn’t wanna do anything with me
Your are amazing! thanks so much for this !! ❤❤
Mine. Blocked me all the time for everything. Not agreeing, different opinions, if she was in bad mood atm, really for almost anything unless it was her talking with me about loving me or being cute. Any convo etc she would block me
I’m sorry but this makes very little sense. You can’t ask your ex anything if you’re completely blocked. You’re basically saying hope is your tactic. Hoping they contact me after seeing I’ve changed.
Well most men reject ladies when they have had at least kids. Could it be another way of dodging responsibilities over the family?
My ex has blocked me for d second tym for no reason he just stopped speaking, first time he blocked me he was back exactly after a month n den v spoke for about 2 months now again he stopped talking to me, what should I do plz suggest will he come back?
Isn't he forget me through my silent treatment period? Isn't the more time passes by, more chances to forget people easily?
Well after breakup no contact 1 month i sent nice little text ex was mad so another month no contact and another nice little text still mad not sure how it will turn out
Unfortunately for the second time we're apart, 2-3 months now, he never looked at my social media. He has no interest. Another girl got in the way and she's satisfying his needs and being territorial to the point of making him very uninterested. I talked to him today, after these months of radio silence on my part to ask about her...mistake, I know. And he denied they're dating, fought with me and blocked me. Says he'll never look at me again.
Just trying to make you feel guilty and I guess it's his way to hide his wrong doings..
NEVER GO BACK ago FORFARD
How do you know they are angry when they block you?
Yeah she blocked me on everything but what if I'm still blocked in a month?
He’s has had me blocked for 3 months but drove by my job. This is absolutely driving me crazy with why?! He doesn’t have social media, no interest in it.
My estranged wife blocked me everywhere, but I can still see her Facebook and she is single. But she even changed her number. I don't want a divorce, but I messaged her and asked to talk to me one more time, because I need to know the truth about some things, then I'd send the divorce papers. That's when she reblocked me on Facebook and now her number is non working. I'm hurting bad, and can't think right; I need to know if anyone has been in a situation like this, and what can I maybe expect.
She is hurtful leave and be alone then find someone better
My ex just blocked me last night and see this vidio this morning😅
Thanks coach ❤️
How to reach out After hé blocked me
I just realized I was blocked we talked daily after our breakup for a year. I went in no contact 2 weeks ago and just found out I was blocked
Sorry to hear that!
I feel like he's being childish
My wife and I have been separated for a very short time. She changed her relationship status from married to single today. I am hoping that this is just part of the distancing process. She doesn't miss me yet. It has not been long enough.
Thoughts?
How do you know if she misses you or not you don't really know people put up all kinds of fronts on social media and with other people but if you know what was going on in her head and you might be surprised
Have a question I was really needy reaching out to the point where she blocked me everywhere and she changed her phone number. We did communicate after her email but then she blocked me there too because of the heated discussion. Is this a wrap if I do what you say to I still have a chance or is it pretty much gone?
Hi Alex. What would you make of this. Separated since beginning of year. Watching socials since but i recently posted a picture of my weightloss and i was blocked on that platform but not other's?
A lot of pain 😔 this time
About space that's why..he block me..😊😊w/energy emotion..merroring behaviour big realise..
In conclusion try to be blocked . 😅
You guys are forgetting one very important aspect of it all. Not time, not “words of endearment”. The only thing that will settle the storm if your partner forgives you. If they dont know how to forgive. Either you are not showing sincere asking of it, or they just dont know how to through jesus christ. Unless this happens there will be underlying resentment and anger, and no matter if NC is applied they will hold your shortcomings agaisnt you. Oh yea, and dont forget to clean up your act
Do does that mean when they "Don't" unfriend you etc...that they don't care???
Not all the time! This depends on your situation 😊
Hi sir Alex,,my bf he always abused me by he's words,,im so hurts he always say i leave him,i block him.wht i will do?so now i decide to not messaging him i stop all,,that's good?
Hey Alex, if I texted her too much when she said she didn’t want me to, and then she said since her words clearly didn’t matter mine didn’t anymore, and that she was blocking me, what do I do? We have the same friends and I will likely see her in friend group hang outs. Should I avoid those? She’ll be in town for about a month.
Thank you for reaching out and sharing your situation. It's never easy to navigate through these kinds of relationship challenges, but it's important to be respectful and understanding. Take some time to reflect on your actions and learn from the experience. When you'll see her with your friends you'll be able to show her that you have changed.
Oh i got that lil boy so traumatized 😂 thats why he blocked me. Cuz he exactly KNOWS that unless he dms me, i dont text him, so there were no reason to block me 😂 just so pathetic
Alex,we had an argument and she said that very day she accepted someone's proposal but a friend of her tell me that she was lying, she just don't want me to disturb her again.Yesterday she said is over and don't want me again, this morning i realized she blocked my WhatsApp but didn't block my calls number. What should I do to get her back, i love her
My ex told she doesn’t love me anymore and she would never wanna get back with me but she cares about me
When did you break up?
My ex recently broke up with me after I said some mean things to her and blocked my phone number and on social media. It was the only time I said hurtful things to her. Any advice on how to win her back?
I’m in exactly the same situation
yes true I have time to think and realize everything I don't do anything wrong he broke up with me because he said that he is a gay but I don't believe him my mistake is I keep begging and annoying him so he block me🥺😂
Only blocked on fb for now.
What about when they send a nasty vibe video with a hateful song on WhatsApp..then they block you! you didn't get chance to reply! And this is out of the blue BTW! After 8 months yet they've seen your online active in WhatsApp but they don't do anything or say anything! Yet you've just got on with life not bothered them and that happens.btw I broke up with him! He was abusive drug use and alcohol.anger issues. He just wants attention from me! He ain't getting it.toxic much.
I would love to talk to you how can I get a in contact with you
I am alice from camerooun i have a situations where me and boy friend in America with whom we used to text ,call and even make love on phone . After travel to school in a near by town, comunication got limited until now ,becouse when i travel to school i took some time to text and call him . Becouse of chellenges i got in school. And he did not even border to call or text me to find out about school and life there .
Hi coach, so my ex didn’t block me on Instagram but he silenced my stories and posts. Shall I block him or remove him from my followers? Also… shall I do the same to his friends who are always watching?
3 weeks post breakup she blocked me after we had a small convo. Still dont understand.
Abeg I don’t have dis kind of patience I have being waiting quietly for de pass three years now,think is tym for me to use African magic😂😂😂😂
Not gonna happen after i left UK for 3 months she slept with my best mate we was 8 years now she blocked me say she don't want me back and never go back to me i love her so much after she told me she slept with my mate and him confirmed i call her bad names its finish for good all dome and dusted 😢
Recent issue she blocked me after we both commented on a mutual post …her response to me was Taylor Swift song Karma….it’s been a couple weeks or more now ….no contact …who, how and when should one reach out ?
I told her cant just be friend's during no contact when she was reaching out , now she has unfriended me everywhere . What now ????