I have seen this situation happen to me. But it instead of it being a woman, it was a man trying to provoke me. He did everything he could to get a reaction out of me and I just ignored him. He got more frustrated by complaining to my family. I still ignored him and called one day to threaten me and I have it saved a criminal threat and if he tried to do anything, it would backfire in his face.
Its sad because I let him into my life after 16 years of not seeing him since he kept on reaching out to me. Then he tried to ruin my plans on my career goals because his life is not going well for him.
+ Eric Brown So true. I realized I had a future with success so I was advised from my friends to leave him alone. I was going to knock him out but realized if the cops come, they could charge me with assault which was his plan. If I didnt have a positive future, I would have beaten him up.
this is so on the money. I used to have a dramatic moody violent girlfriend. this described her to a T. the control & victim/abuser concept is so true.
Dude I love your videos because I can relate to you in a lot of ways including the whole job thing such as having social anxiety on the job, getting fired, having backstabbers at work etc
All that You are speaking of in this video I've experienced Shawn. As You said the best thing to do is get out! Staying at home gives You an advantage simply because You can save resources faster and easier! You should be in a constant state of planning. Once You've got Your ducks lined up LEAVE!
GREAT video. Yep, AVOID ARGUMENTS at ALLLLL cost. Like they say, ' NEVER ARGUE WITH A FOOL, CAUSE THEY'LL BRING YOU DOWN TO THEIR LEVEL, AND BEAT YOU WITH THEIR EXPERTISE.' Or MOVE, if you can.
Believe or not, Shawn. There are males who act just like that. I know a guy who lives to argue over nonsense and is resentful when you have your own opinion. Not sure what its like in the Bronx but around my way there are men who sadly possess those traits.
And when Shawn says take constructive action, you are not to reveal your plans. You may not even want to tell your loved ones or coworkers of your plans. Save your money, go to work; after work and on the weekends, you may want to go to the library and relax for a minute.
I have been through this before. I have seen bitch made men acting like women and try to sabotage other's from working on their goals because of their own lack of success in life.
Unfortunately you are right. My wife was acting like this and I had to finally draw the line in the sand. It was absolutely insane. The game played is emotional dysfunction, manipulation and victim-hood to get control. I noticed that when I had big successes and accomplishment she kind of was depressesd and hating instead of congratulating! At the same time she would prop up something small she did as the same level. I thought it was a joke and blew it off in the beginning of the relationship . Then when some challenges showed up she was clowning. I had to kind of shut it down with truth talk on character and values. She was stomped..
Man I am glad I’m done with that type of bad bad woman behavior...I feel for a man who has a fighting argumentative woman. Nobody is worth my freedom, I left her standing there and never looked back... I thank Jesus every time I think of where I could have been 🙏🏾
Hey only thing that can defeat a big mouth and a bad attitude is a bigger mouth and badder attitude...if you don’t have that keep it moving. A person that constantly has a bad attitude is determined to screw up your day that is why you cannot win, they are hell bent on disturbing the peace!!!
Broda Shawn I am dealing with this situstion know as I am listening to these classic video...I had to restrain myself from choking somebody the fk out becaue I know that what my worthless sista and her ingrates want tommorrow I should be out of here in my own Pad.. The ungratefullness and mind you broda i was paying their bills... which kept me from accumulating what i neede it to move months ago... I just started working again anf only beem in my job 6 months and i am happy about that and do to the storm Irma i statywd getting paid more because two of my co workers got fired so the remaining had to pick the slack ... I being the work a holic...that i am jump rigjt on ot and recently after two months of working straight threw i got a weekend off...
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I have seen this situation happen to me. But it instead of it being a woman, it was a man trying to provoke me. He did everything he could to get a reaction out of me and I just ignored him. He got more frustrated by complaining to my family. I still ignored him and called one day to threaten me and I have it saved a criminal threat and if he tried to do anything, it would backfire in his face.
Yeah, some of these guys are just as emotional as females. Dude was probably from a single mother household.
Its sad because I let him into my life after 16 years of not seeing him since he kept on reaching out to me. Then he tried to ruin my plans on my career goals because his life is not going well for him.
+ Eric Brown So true. I realized I had a future with success so I was advised from my friends to leave him alone. I was going to knock him out but realized if the cops come, they could charge me with assault which was his plan. If I didnt have a positive future, I would have beaten him up.
this is so on the money. I used to have a dramatic moody violent girlfriend. this described her to a T. the control & victim/abuser concept is so true.
shawn IS an intelligent spirit!! best to listen to this wise brother!! you might learn a thing or two!!!
Dude I love your videos because I can relate to you in a lot of ways including the whole job thing such as having social anxiety on the job, getting fired, having backstabbers at work etc
All that You are speaking of in this video I've experienced Shawn. As You said the best thing to do is get out! Staying at home gives You an advantage simply because You can save resources faster and easier! You should be in a constant state of planning. Once You've got Your ducks lined up LEAVE!
...AND OH HOW THEY LOVE TO SPREAD RUMORS JUST TO START A FIGHT....
GREAT video. Yep, AVOID ARGUMENTS at ALLLLL cost. Like they say, ' NEVER ARGUE WITH A FOOL, CAUSE THEY'LL BRING YOU DOWN TO THEIR LEVEL, AND BEAT YOU WITH THEIR EXPERTISE.' Or MOVE, if you can.
Believe or not, Shawn. There are males who act just like that. I know a guy who lives to argue over nonsense and is resentful when you have your own opinion. Not sure what its like in the Bronx but around my way there are men who sadly possess those traits.
I ran into many of those kinds of guys since Junior high. Most were raised by single mothers. And they learned how to socialize from them.
It's an epidemic!
self control is the word of the day every day;)
Very sharp observations and really good suggestions.
And when Shawn says take constructive action, you are not to reveal your plans. You may not even want to tell your loved ones or coworkers of your plans. Save your money, go to work; after work and on the weekends, you may want to go to the library and relax for a minute.
Yep. The less people who know what you're doing the less people to sabotage your plans.
I have been through this before. I have seen bitch made men acting like women and try to sabotage other's from working on their goals because of their own lack of success in life.
Unfortunately you are right. My wife was acting like this and I had to finally draw the line in the sand. It was absolutely insane. The game played is emotional dysfunction, manipulation and victim-hood to get control. I noticed that when I had big successes and accomplishment she kind of was depressesd and hating instead of congratulating! At the same time she would prop up something small she did as the same level. I thought it was a joke and blew it off in the beginning of the relationship . Then when some challenges showed up she was clowning. I had to kind of shut it down with truth talk on character and values. She was stomped..
Bravo Brotha Shawn!!! Whatta Masterpiece!!!
Man I am glad I’m done with that type of bad bad woman behavior...I feel for a man who has a fighting argumentative woman. Nobody is worth my freedom, I left her standing there and never looked back... I thank Jesus every time I think of where I could have been 🙏🏾
get a gym membership to get away from them while u re doing something to benefit urself :p
Yep, One of the things you can do. Plus the gym is a great place to relax.
@@ShawnSJames indeed
Hey only thing that can defeat a big mouth and a bad attitude is a bigger mouth and badder attitude...if you don’t have that keep it moving. A person that constantly has a bad attitude is determined to screw up your day that is why you cannot win, they are hell bent on disturbing the peace!!!
Another Classic , your subs are growing too..
Great video Shawn...
Brilliant absolutely true.
Agreed. She should stack her paper up to get her own place. Get a second job if she has to.
Outstanding video brother
Very good video I agree 100 percent
'bringing a butter-knife to a gunfight'
Beautifully said sir, couldn't have said it better.
excellent advice!!
This video change my life to redpill knowledge
Broda Shawn I am dealing with this situstion know as I am listening to these classic video...I had to restrain myself from choking somebody the fk out becaue I know that what my worthless sista and her ingrates want tommorrow I should be out of here in my own Pad.. The ungratefullness and mind you broda i was paying their bills... which kept me from accumulating what i neede it to move months ago... I just started working again anf only beem in my job 6 months and i am happy about that and do to the storm Irma i statywd getting paid more because two of my co workers got fired so the remaining had to pick the slack ... I being the work a holic...that i am jump rigjt on ot and recently after two months of working straight threw i got a weekend off...
....I WISH I HAD THIS VIDEO WHEN I WAS A KID...
.....A BLACK WOMAN ADMITTED SHE STEALS HER BOYFRIENDS STUFF, THEN HELPS HIM LOOK FOR IT..... REAL FUNNY DON'T YOU THINK...
.....YOU COULD NOT HAVE SAID IT ANY CLEARER... RIGHT ON POINT WITH THIS TOPIC SHAWN.....
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
...YOU JUST DESCRIBED A MAJORITY OF BLACK WOMEN IN AMERICA.....
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