Hey Toups! I will be married 44 years on Dec 1. I agree, both people need to have a relationship with God. And trust is most important. I trusted my husband from the moment I met him. Still do to this day. He always treats me special. I love it!
Do you guys realize how you are blessing us? Seriously! You are teaching grown adults who were not taught how to live through Christ! I’m in awe and shed tears almost ever video I watch. I’ve been binge “watching” really listening to your videos as I go about my chores. Yes, at 59 years old, I’m still in the kitchen, cooking and doing laundry and listening. I keep learning from you in ever single video! I truly wish all the best for you both and your family. I prayed for you this morning during my rosary. How could I not? How could you not continue to be in my prayers when you have made such a beautiful and soulful imprint in my heart? 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭❤️
You sure do know how to make someone’s day! Thank you so much for always commenting and giving us feedback and encouragement on every video that you watch! God bless you LB!
Best advice I've heard in finding a partner. I live in the UK, and believe me, finding those qualities in a woman seems impossible. I thought I came close when I met a widow 3 wks ago on the March for Life, but she didn't want another relationship. Thanks and I trust many will follow what you say !!! May the good Lord, creator of heaven and earth, be with you and your family !!
I love your advice!! I must confess to being an anxious individual myself, who worries quite often. Stress gives me headaches… I may be one of those people who just isn’t suited for marriage but I am continuously depending on Jesus and working on trusting Him.
Keep up the incredible content!! You guys have inspired me more than I can explain! You are both incredible!! Keep being the light you are to many!! 🙏🏼
Great video 🥰 Not only did I look for someone who was a Christian, but I asked myself "Is God number one in this person's life?" If God called me/us to do something big for Him, would this person abandon our house or career to support that? If two people are putting God first, then they will treat each other right and go down the path God has for them. If God is not first in everything, then we will show selfishness because that's our human nature. (Not saying we wouldn't do that from time to time even if God is first in our lives, we're not perfect yet 😁).
If something is bothering her about the Relationship she should talk to her boyfriend and settle the issue or give time to his boyfriend to change. Without telling anything just Ghosting and becoming more distant is not a Good idea.
Hi, Toups! I know this isn't what you were talking about on this video, but I have a question. Do you have any advice on talking with a loved one when you see them straying away from God? how to approach them in love, and point out that what they are doing is wrong? I am a Born again Christian, and I have been reading my Bible and trying to find answers to my question, but it is good to have other people to talk with. I am praying for this person. Thank you, and I love your channel. So encouraging.
First off, I’m sorry you are having to with was this. We have seen it all too many times. How do you approach this? I would say, you approach this from a standpoint of love. In most cases, a “you’re gonnna’ go straight to hell for this” tactic only makes things worse. By the way, you worded your question, I am assuming that they were raised in a Christian household? Which means that they know who Christ is, and at one point believed in him, one way or another. If they have this Christian foundation, we need to first get to the root of the issue. Maybe you approach them in a casual conversation asking them what is it that is pushing them away from God. What is it a that has them no longer believing that he is real. Has someone said something that resonates with them that made them question their belief in God? Someone “falling” from God at some point or another is either mad at God or as lost faith in his existence. You should try to figure out, lovingly, what has them questioning Gods existence and sovereignty because someone who truly believes in God would not be acting the way they are acting. Once you figure out what specifically the issue is, you will know what specifically to pray about, and what answers to look for in order to guide them. I hope this helps a little bit. It’s kind of like treating a sickness. You have to find the root of the problem and fix that first and then go from there. Do it all out of a loving and humble heart. Do not approach them full of judgment and condemnation. It will more than likely just push them away. God bless you Jessica. I look forward to hearing back from you. -Cody
@@OurFruitfulFamily Thank you for responding, it has been really helpful and encouraging. I know what the problem is, and my mom and I are praying for him. The person is my brother, so it is really hard to talk to him about this. I don't want to lose our relationship by saying the wrong things. I think the best thing I can do is continue to pray for him, and show him Jesus through my actions and the way I treat him.
Singleness can be a gift if used in a way that honors and draws you closer to Christ. This doesn’t mean that as a human, we aren’t drawn to others, desiring intimacy. That’s why God designed marriage!
I have a laugh, the pool of persons who have the capabilities you ask for is so small, that probably is better to die alone than hoping for a unicorn. I visited few churches in USA ,and man, was left with a very bitter taste in my mouth. The internet twisted the will and the way of the new generations,especially woman’s, that is unrecognizable. Walking in many churches feels no different than being at the mall or even worse, a nightclub. Even what I believed to be very conservative churches,slowly but surely are on a downhill trajectory.
You’re never going to find anyone who is perfect. These are just things to think about. I agree with you about churches. Churches have strayed so far from what Christ intended for his children. This is a huge problem, largely in American churches. We have to be that change. People with these qualities do exist. Remember though, no one is perfect t. We all fall short of the glory of Christ. God bless you Benjamin.
God gives us free will as his children. If you aren’t handling stress in a beneficial way, pray to God and ask for guidance on how to better handle your anxiety. Believing that Christ came to save and deliver us from this depraved world is a good start. Also, believing that this world and these bodies given to us by God are only temporary is a huge relief. I hope this helps. God bless you Amber.
@@OurFruitfulFamily but I’m still a single virgin at 28. Do I need to beg a plastic surgeon to make my breasts small or dye my hair blonde at this point?
Wonderful advice! For some crazy reason, the YT algorithm is recommending nursing videos with this one on. I guess this is nursing my spirit, lol!
Haha! That’s a strange recommendation pair!
Hey Toups! I will be married 44 years on Dec 1. I agree, both people need to have a relationship with God. And trust is most important. I trusted my husband from the moment I met him. Still do to this day. He always treats me special. I love it!
Thank you for sharing Jacqueline! God bless you!
Wonderful to hear this! I also have anniversary December 1st. God bless you guys
Do you guys realize how you are blessing us? Seriously! You are teaching grown adults who were not taught how to live through Christ! I’m in awe and shed tears almost ever video I watch. I’ve been binge “watching” really listening to your videos as I go about my chores. Yes, at 59 years old, I’m still in the kitchen, cooking and doing laundry and listening. I keep learning from you in ever single video! I truly wish all the best for you both and your family. I prayed for you this morning during my rosary. How could I not? How could you not continue to be in my prayers when you have made such a beautiful and soulful imprint in my heart? 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭❤️
You sure do know how to make someone’s day! Thank you so much for always commenting and giving us feedback and encouragement on every video that you watch! God bless you LB!
@@OurFruitfulFamily And thank you for commenting and blessing me. Have a great day! ❤️🙏🏻😘❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Best advice I've heard in finding a partner. I live in the UK, and believe me, finding those qualities in a woman seems impossible. I thought I came close when I met a widow 3 wks ago on the March for Life, but she didn't want another relationship. Thanks and I trust many will follow what you say !!! May the good Lord, creator of heaven and earth, be with you and your family !!
God bless you Dom!
I love your advice!! I must confess to being an anxious individual myself, who worries quite often. Stress gives me headaches… I may be one of those people who just isn’t suited for marriage but I am continuously depending on Jesus and working on trusting Him.
We all have worries in life… but who do you lean on to handle them? Lean on Jesus. We all struggle with this one. We are human. God bless you Jacob.
This is all great advice 😃🙌 God bless you both and your family 😃🙌
Thank you so much! God bless you and yours as well Jeremy!
The one who is committed to you and God.
Leaving and getting into Relationships is not FUN.
Keep up the incredible content!! You guys have inspired me more than I can explain! You are both incredible!! Keep being the light you are to many!! 🙏🏼
Wow… you just made my evening! Thank you Shaun. God bless you.
Great video 🥰 Not only did I look for someone who was a Christian, but I asked myself "Is God number one in this person's life?" If God called me/us to do something big for Him, would this person abandon our house or career to support that?
If two people are putting God first, then they will treat each other right and go down the path God has for them. If God is not first in everything, then we will show selfishness because that's our human nature. (Not saying we wouldn't do that from time to time even if God is first in our lives, we're not perfect yet 😁).
This was very sweet and insightful, thank you! I'm feeling so close to meeting the One God has for me and I'm so excited 🙏🥰
Wow! This video made things clear for me. Thank you so much 💕
God bless you!!!
You guys are a blessing! I hope you know that, thank you so much for the advice ❤
All this is so true, love you
Thanks for your videos and the sharing of God's Word that you share.
Glory to God
God bless you!
Thanx again for your videos! I love your advice and it’s been helping me with figuring out my goals for my current relationship. ❤
If something is bothering her about the Relationship she should talk to her boyfriend and settle the issue or give time to his boyfriend to change.
Without telling anything just Ghosting and becoming more distant is not a Good idea.
Nailed it ... as always! 😊
God bless you Sandra!!!
Hi, Toups! I know this isn't what you were talking about on this video, but I have a question. Do you have any advice on talking with a loved one when you see them straying away from God?
how to approach them in love, and point out that what they are doing is wrong? I am a Born again Christian, and I have been reading my Bible and trying to find answers to my question, but it is good to have other people to talk with. I am praying for this person. Thank you, and I love your channel. So encouraging.
First off, I’m sorry you are having to with was this. We have seen it all too many times. How do you approach this? I would say, you approach this from a standpoint of love. In most cases, a “you’re gonnna’ go straight to hell for this” tactic only makes things worse. By the way, you worded your question, I am assuming that they were raised in a Christian household? Which means that they know who Christ is, and at one point believed in him, one way or another. If they have this Christian foundation, we need to first get to the root of the issue. Maybe you approach them in a casual conversation asking them what is it that is pushing them away from God. What is it a that has them no longer believing that he is real. Has someone said something that resonates with them that made them question their belief in God? Someone “falling” from God at some point or another is either mad at God or as lost faith in his existence. You should try to figure out, lovingly, what has them questioning Gods existence and sovereignty because someone who truly believes in God would not be acting the way they are acting. Once you figure out what specifically the issue is, you will know what specifically to pray about, and what answers to look for in order to guide them. I hope this helps a little bit. It’s kind of like treating a sickness. You have to find the root of the problem and fix that first and then go from there. Do it all out of a loving and humble heart. Do not approach them full of judgment and condemnation. It will more than likely just push them away. God bless you Jessica. I look forward to hearing back from you.
-Cody
@@OurFruitfulFamily Thank you for responding, it has been really helpful and encouraging. I know what the problem is, and my mom and I are praying for him. The person is my brother, so it is really hard to talk to him about this. I don't want to lose our relationship by saying the wrong things. I think the best thing I can do is continue to pray for him, and show him Jesus through my actions and the way I treat him.
I love you guys you are the best ❤
Thank you so much! God bless you Sheila!
Personally I would like to see a video of y’all walking behind each other 😂
Hahahahhaha I know right!?
Christian’s say singleness is a gift but these people are better then us singles
Singleness can be a gift if used in a way that honors and draws you closer to Christ. This doesn’t mean that as a human, we aren’t drawn to others, desiring intimacy. That’s why God designed marriage!
@@OurFruitfulFamily well I’m still a single virgin at 28. Maybe God loves her more than me.
I have a laugh, the pool of persons who have the capabilities you ask for is so small, that probably is better to die alone than hoping for a unicorn.
I visited few churches in USA ,and man, was left with a very bitter taste in my mouth.
The internet twisted the will and the way of the new generations,especially woman’s, that is unrecognizable.
Walking in many churches feels no different than being at the mall or even worse, a nightclub.
Even what I believed to be very conservative churches,slowly but surely are on a downhill trajectory.
You’re never going to find anyone who is perfect. These are just things to think about. I agree with you about churches. Churches have strayed so far from what Christ intended for his children. This is a huge problem, largely in American churches. We have to be that change. People with these qualities do exist. Remember though, no one is perfect t. We all fall short of the glory of Christ. God bless you Benjamin.
If God is real why won’t he let me be the best at handling stress? I want to be a wife. Singleness isn’t a gift lol
God gives us free will as his children. If you aren’t handling stress in a beneficial way, pray to God and ask for guidance on how to better handle your anxiety. Believing that Christ came to save and deliver us from this depraved world is a good start. Also, believing that this world and these bodies given to us by God are only temporary is a huge relief. I hope this helps. God bless you Amber.
@@OurFruitfulFamily but I’m still a single virgin at 28. Do I need to beg a plastic surgeon to make my breasts small or dye my hair blonde at this point?
Of course not. Don’t change yourself for a man.