Father Accused OP of Killing His Wife Because She Died While Giving Birth to OP, and OP Told This...
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 21 ต.ค. 2024
- 00"00 1st story:
AITA for cooking my BF's family Chinese food instead of "Chinese food (u/real-chinese-food in r/AmItheAsshole)
12:22 nd story:
AITA for revealing to my dad’s wife the real reason why me and him were never close? (u/toldhiswifeee in r/AmItheAsshole)
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Oh man, OP in story 1 dodged a freaking full blown missile barrage by breaking it off with her BF. If he was willing to do that over being dumped, I don’t want to see what would have happened if the relationship had gone all the way to marriage.
White rice is literally the first thing I’d expect when it comes to Chinese food… That’s a staple Asian cuisine, but especially Chinese in Japanese.
They know that, they’re just racist bullies, she could’ve made anything else and they’d react the same
Goddamn, they weren't just casual racist, they were pro-league racist
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@@idonthavegoodhumorwhat???
Story 2, you saved that woman from a marriage based on lies.
Also if your mother could see him she would be ashamed
This dude broke the record by going from sugar to shit in 2.2 seconds in that relationship!
White rice is literally the first food I'd expect in a Chinese meal...
I agree only because most Chinese foods that I hear involve white rice or have it as a side.
I had the opposite from this story, in junior school I had a close Chinese friend and his parents lived near the school so they offered to have me over a couple of nights a week for dinner while my mother was working late, when I was about 11 my aunt ordered Chinese food from a restaurant and I was all "nah mate this isn't right"
wow, second story dad is garbage. blaming a baby. Get therapy.
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Whats sad though, its a scarily common thing :(
1st story: I wouldn’t take that disrespect laying down, children are a reflection of their parents. (Most of the time)
You would have be some kind of evil to raise kids like this. WTF
Story 1, darling you dodge a cannon ball. Wow pos boyfriend. Take your time when and if you get into a relationship take care dear,your dad's the best
Second story, definitely Nta and even if op's dna sharer was badly effected after op's mom's death,
Op didn't deserve that at all and op's dna sharer was the one who flat out lied and hide the fact from his future wife he treated op poorly as a child up until literally now,
So no this woman needs to know what type of man she was marry, because even dna sharer knew she would be disgusted with what he did to op, that's why he lied, so I'm glad op told her give her the choice to stay or not unlike dna sharer here.
Story 1 - If BF asks for Chinese food, and that’s what she makes… problem solved. (I assume that’s the case here.). There is NO WAY OP could know that her family meant something different by that same term.
Here’s a good counter example: I (a gringo) moved to Texas for college. My mother visited, and we went to my favorite Mexican joint. She grabbed a tortilla chip from the basket and used it to scoop a giant amount of salsa. I had to interrupt her and reminded her that we were at a Tex-Mex restaurant, and that she was about to melt her own face off. Because I knew that their idea of “mild salsa” would count as three-pepper food anywhere else in America (except CA, AZ, and NM).
I also had a friend who was Chinese-Canadian. At Chinese restaurants, when asked how hot he wanted a dish, he’d tell them in Cantonese that he was a native… I guess every Chinese restaurant in the county had a secret “five-pepper” level that was reserved for natives.
So when a group of Spanish gweilo ask for authentic food… whose job is it to make them sign the disclaimer forms? I’d argue it’s the Spanish-speaking gweilo who lives there and knows what the people from his country consider “hot”, or “gross”, etc. How is OP supposed to know what Spanish people consider to be Chinese food to be? But her boyfriend has lived there long enough to know the difference between “Chinese Food” and food in China.
And honestly, if the boyfriend knew that this whole visit was a test (will OP realize we want mild when we ask for authentic), he did a piss-poor job of explaining that fact. But, they asked for authentic Chinese food, they got authentic food. Any sub-textual meaning of that is on the boyfriend to communicate.
OP’s parents are awesome. They have their priorities in order.
"shin-shan pu" got me rolling
Damn, I'd be the one asking if he meant he wanted fake American Chinese to that little boy. I'd have also intervened when he first asked about it. Always funny how people confuse Americanized versions as authentic food from different cultures. Poor girl needed to be told the truth about that ex.
I do have to wonder what she made and in what world that assholes family thought white rice wasnt chinese food
For god sake at every single chinese restaurant, no matter how americanized it is, THEY SERVE WHITE RICE
Story 1: Made me think of Peter Griffins impression of a spanish soap opera.
Story 1: BF and the family really showed their true colors after the Chinese Food Incident. The fact they’re “punishing” her by talking down to her, treating her as a braindead child, and allowing and joining in racist comments and remarks are disgusting. The ex was a real abusive peach /s. OP dodged a nuke.
For those wondering what the sentence at the end of the first story says, it’s “Xavi, I hate you, rot, don't ever be happy, I hate you asshole” 😂 If its right, I’m guessing Xavi is her maniac ex’s name
Nah, she's just randomly hating on Bardem, probably didn't like him as Stilgar. :P
thats really sad for that
The only good thing the first OP got out of that relationship is learning a third language. I am so disappointed that her parents didn’t teach her to be more self-confident… it could have saved her from a whole lot of hurt and trauma. However, I’m so glad they were there when she needed it the most.
As for the 2nd story, I would be devastated if my husband would hate and emotionally abuse the only living part of me that I left behind in this world for him to love and cherish and see grow. The wretched man not only forever scarred an innocent child but desecrated his relationship’s legacy as well. Ugly, selfish creature of a “man.”
3rd: poor Sophie was given the “Cinderella’s wicked stepsister” treatment! Massive props to OP for taking the best out of the comments and really stepping up as a father for ALL of his daughters ❤
Story 1: if it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck, so...
Woah! The story 2 was quite similar to mine except that my mother is alive and my so called father ignored both of us coz my mom and that demon never loved each other 🙂
I mean they are from Spain. I don't expect much when it comes to race relations from them.
Coughsouthamericacough
The first story again I'm probably going to get hate but i blame that girl's parents for not instilling self-worth and a high self-esteem in their daughter from a young age. Its the first line of defense against these abusive psychopaths.
Story 3 - I hear a lot of Reddit stories where someone spoiled (usually a child) causes just an amazing dollar amount of damage, by destroying a thing they didn’t realize was so valuable.
A) “You broke it, you bought it.” is a pretty standard concept. More often than not, I leads to the entitled belief that if you’re rich enough, you can just consider the replacement cost as the price you pay to be an asshole. Basically, when rich people get speeding tickets, it’s relatively not valuable, so they just pay it and keep speeding. It’s not really a deterrent.
B) When the thing being replaces is surprisingly expensive, they are not emotionally equipped to deal with it, so they just refuse. Because scenario A didn’t really count as consequences.
Story 1 - It just goes to show how “English language privileged” I am, that the idea of Spanish speaking people having racist jokes about Chinese people never occurred to me. I mean, I’ve heard plenty of non-white slurs about white people, and I’ve heard lots of English-language slurs about non-Anglophiles. But it honestly never occurred to me that any of the groups white people would bother having slurs about each other.
Which is stupid. I’ve seen how anime depicts black people. Afro Samurai has some racist AF people against black people. But my 鬼佬 brain never made that connection.
Oh yeah, we're quite racist in Europe.
Story 1: I'll give the ex this, he had the balls to go toe to toe with the dad. Most boyfriends or ex-boyfriends cower before the father. So while I don't have any respect for the ex for what he did, I am shocked to say the least (if not impressed).
Story 2: DON'T BLAME THE CHILD! IT AIN'T THEIR FAULT THE CHILD DIED! Most dads protect their children after that and become helicopter parents, this dad went in the other direction
Poor coffee maker :
Maybe its bc I'm Mexican, but I knew for the moment that OP said that her BF was Spaniard it was going to be a shitshow (not all) but a LOT of Spaniards have this mentality that the world SHOULD adjust to their perception and the moment it doesn't they throw a fit (I say it from experience but again NOT ALL!!!!!) but aside from that the bf and his family we're just waiting for her to not fit in their perfect world to throw all the racist hate towards her, and it's clear on the nephew too. (Also asking for a Chinese food and then get mad at her bc she pulled out white rice, is like getting mad that you ask for tacos and there's tortillas.)
What I got from the first story is that the shit we’re served at Chinese restaurants is actually what Chinese people eat.
Story 1
Sees the boyfriend is racist: is he vasque?
Sees she wrote Xavi eith an x: yup
what is ESH?
“Everyone Sucks Here” meaning both/all people in the story are in the wrong.
What did she say at the end of the first story? Can anyone translate?
I translated it on Google and got this, I’m confident it’s right LOL. “xavi I hate you, rot, don't ever be happy, I hate you asshole” I’m guessing his name is Xavi
@@Tuco_Salamanca3that’s pretty accurate! Language is usually contextual, which gets lost when it’s directly translated. There is venom in those words, and given everything she’s been through, it probably reads more like this: “Xavi, I [despise] you. Rot [in hell]. May you never find happiness again. I hate you, asshole.”