@Jocelyn Gardner I would like to encourage you. I know how you can overcome all of these negative characteristics and it’s not difficult. Please bare with me. I can be long winded but I will try to be as brief as possible. Jesus said whoever sins is a slave to sin but whom the Son sets free is free indeed. Jesus was saying that because every person that has ever lived and that will live in the future has sinned, and because we have sinned we are separated from God, the giver of life. We have to be freed from what the Bible calls our sinful nature. The sinful nature are the characteristics described in this video. Jesus said whoever he sets free from sin is truly free. I will tell you how you can be free from your sinful nature as well as free from the condemnation you may feel because of your mistakes and failures and sins. Jesus said whoever believes in him passes from death to life but whoever does not believe in him stands condemned already and Gods wrath abides on them. The key to being free from all of these horrible characteristics described in the video is you have to be set free from the power of the sin in your life that has made you a slave to repeat that sin and mistakes over and over again. The ability to overcome sin comes from God himself. It comes from his Holy Spirit. Jesus said that in order for a person to enter the kingdom of heaven or even see heaven you have to be born again with Gods spirit. Without being born again by Gods spirit you cannot see heaven or ever enter it. You stand condemned in your sinful nature and you need Jesus Christ to free you from that sinful nature which is powerless to sins temptations. Sure without the Holy Spirit you can do good for a day or two but what always happens? You return to your sins again to repeat them over and over again. The problem is not the temptations. The problem is you do not have the will in your sinful nature to continually fight off these temptations. You actually enjoy certain sins that keep you in bondage like a slave. You need to be freed from them by Jesus Christ. You become free from every sin you have ever committed in your life when you truly have faith in Jesus Christ. See many people claim to believe in Jesus Christ the person but what they have never truly done is truly believed in their heart all their sins have been forgiven by God because of what Jesus Christ did on the cross. Jesus said when you believe in him you pass from death to life and every sin you have ever committed and will ever commit in the future is forgiven. God takes your sins and separates them from you as far as the East is from the West and God remembers them no more. God wipes your slate clean and you are no longer under Gods wrath. You become a new creation in Christ Jesus and Jesus gives you his Holy Spirit which gives you the spiritual power you need to resist those temptations that you use to struggle with so much. Also when you become born again spiritually God changes your heart and gives you a new Godly nature that desires to serve him and obey him. The proof of being born again is the infilling of the Holy Spirit in you. It’s called the baptism of the Holy Spirit. John the Baptist said “I baptize you with water but one is coming after me who’s sandal straps I am unworthy to untie and he will baptize you with the Holy Spirit.” John the Baptist was talking about Jesus Christ and he was saying that Jesus Christ will give you power to overcome sin when you receive the Holy Spirit from Jesus Christ. Jesus Christ gives you the Holy Spirit when you repent of your sins and believe in Jesus Christ in your heart. The moment you have truly believed in Jesus Christ as your savior and believed in your heart that Jesus died on the cross to take your sins that you have personally committed and you believe that God raised Jesus back to life and that he now sits at the right hand of God as Lord of the heavens and the earth your sins can be forgiven and are forgiven immediately never to be remembered any longer. You will be born again and as long as your faith was genuine and you have repented in your heart of your sins you are born again. If your faith in Jesus Christ as your Lord and savior is real you will follow Jesus Christ and obey his commandments. Jesus said if you love me you will obey my commandments. Just remember though. You don’t get born again by doing good works. You can only truly come to God and be saved by believing in Jesus Christ and repenting of your sins. That means giving up your sins. It doesn’t mean you’re perfect. Nobody is perfect. It just means you trust in Jesus Christ for salvation and you commit with all your heart to follow him and obey his commandments and love him. Jesus Christ is the Lord of the universe. That’s how you overcome sin. Jesus said the flesh is weak but when you let Jesus Christ live in your heart, and reign in your heart, and lead you, all things are possible with God. Jesus said all evil thoughts and actions originate in our hearts. This is why you need to be born again by believing in Jesus. Jesus changes your heart and forgives you of your sins when you believe in him as Lord and savior. Jesus promises to give you eternal life when you believe in him. That’s all you have to do. Do you believe truly. Ask yourself if you have truly believed all your sins are forgiven because of Jesus Christ.
@@Sidney051 thanks for letting THE HOLY SPIRIT use you...a child could understand how you said it..the world complicates it.so most won't understand..Be Bless and stay saved .IN JESUS NAME
2 Timothy 3: 1-5 1. Lovers of themselves - relationships should be about mutually self sacrifice 2. Love of money 💰 3, Boastful - let someone else compliment you 4. Proud 5. Abusive 6. Disobedience to parents 7. Ungrateful 8. Unholy 9. Without love 10. Unforgiving 11. Slanderous 12. Without self-control 13. Brutal 14. Not lovers of the good 15. Treacherous 16. Brash 17. Conceited 18. Prideful 19. Lovers of pleasure than God
I recently broke up with someone who had most of these qualities. God revealed this and I realised I couldn't have a future with him. I'm praying that I'll meet the right guy one day. Thank you for this, it's very helpful advice!
Mirror mirror on the wall.... Often these wonderful video's don't just help us navigate relationships with others, but allow us to see what to be mindful with ourselves. There are times I cringe and say ouch... Yep I'm guilty of doing that sometimes.. But it's never a bad thing, I welcome the opportunity to grow in Christ and become the best version of myself I can be. Thank you once again, spot on. 🙏
Thank you for your Godly wisdom! I am blessed from your ministry. My heart was broken after being in a 5 year relationship. A counterfeit was sent while my heart was broken. He was a non believer, but my emotions were deceiving me. I prayed and God released the relationship. "Above all things, guard your heart. The heart is deceitful above all things. Who can know it?"
I think God has brought me to this video, I have gotten out of a 6 year relationship which I was engaged, I am ashamed to have to admit this truth, but I am guilty of 19 red flags of this video and I am submitting myself to Jesus and I don't want to be the man I used to be, and sadly I'm learning this now to become a better man and to learn my lessons even though it was tough to watch this and I have lost my fiance, but I seriously believe I was to watch this, and I gave my whole heart to Jesus and I trust him as my lord and savior. I am ashamed of who I was because I lost the most amazing woman that God had blessed me with and I live in regret today and alone and now I lost her for good because what I've done and I was not living with God at the time , I pray earnestly to be better than I used to be, God bless you and may God bless your family and for helping spreading the word of God to help people like me to learn and to walk with God and be protected by our lord and savior Jesus Christ.
All the bad qualities you've listed here all resemble me. I'm very humbled and sad. I've been blind for quite some time now. All glory to Jesus Christ and the father!
Coming from an abusive relationship, this was really good. I think we had all the bad stuff you mentioned and guess what's the reason: a Godless person.
Hey, I have watched 2 of your videos, How to differentiate God's Voice and yours and the other one is How to know God is calling you. Now i know i'm a bit off topic, but i just want to say, God speaks and called me through his work, God gives us what we need not what we want. I trust in God when it comes to the stuffs regarding what i will eat and all of my needs. So many things that God has done to me, as an example when i was in highschool when i didn't have the money to buy any of the books, my mom prayed and outta nowhere there's a Teacher called me and gave me almost all the books that i needed, i know its God's work. Another example is when i have no food to eat about a few weeks ago(i'm in the Uni now), and once again i saw how God worked, He gave me food through my friend, even today He gave me food(I prayed the Prayer that Jesus taught all of us in the afternoon) when i don't have enough money to buy food. God will never give his Son or Daughter stones to eat, instead He will give us bread, and from now on i know that i have no worries about what i should eat for tomorrow and what i should wear. Our God, Jesus Christ Bless you all.
Wow! My relationship was a mess and everything that I would complain about is there on the list... the weird thing is that the person was actually responsible for bringing me to your channel... Thank you so much for opening my eyes to see to the truth. I still pray for him to change. God bless!
Thank you for this helpful advice based on the red flags in relationships from scripture as this has truly been so helpful to me as i love God and believe in Him with all my with all my heart . May the good Lord bless you richly brother Mark and your family always. 💖💖
How about someone who continues to gossip behind your back and report privacy in the relationship to everyone and anyone than laugh and lie about it. Thank God he continues to show me. God bless you!
Thanks so much for these videos! I've learned so much from your biblical discussions concerning relationships on this channel! Right now, Im a protestant at the Catholic University of America and its been a very eye opening experience after stumbling and finding my way back to absolute truth. Even though I might have thought that the person who I almost dated was the one, God revealed to me that she was only interested in herself and pleasures rather than a relationship with Christ. Like you said before, "God won't bless you with idols," Ive learned to be content with Christ alone and to have complete faith in his will. May God bless you! -Garrett
Some people say that love spell doesn't work but I have seen that love spell works all because of Dr ehimare spell the best spell caster in from Africa Who cast a spell for me and brought back my wife back to me and we are living as one family all thanks to DR Ehimare spell on youtube
Amen, 19 flags. I love the way you brought to the light the word and teach the message that God put in your heart. Your growing in your ministry beautiful.I've haven't seen too many people in this generation that teaches like that. It's a very clear message.wich people need to hear with all the great advice given to them as well. I thanks God for his word and may God keep blessing you and your in a very mighty way. These messages are always a blessing to me.God bless you.💛
Thank God that I ran across this channel! The way you present this information makes things so easy to understand and receive correction for my life. Thank you!
This list has opened my eyes big time. It has confirmed that I made the right choices in the exes that I left. Also it has eliminated ALOT of people that I had interest in and also some who were pursuing me. Thanks Mark. This is INDEED your calling!!!!
The first time I saw one of your video I felt they were inspired by God word. Sincerely I'm feel fulfill by every one this. May God still inspire you to help others and give you all you've always dreamed of In your ministry. The crown of life my best wish😊.
The video I've been needing for so long... I checked off on almost all of those red flags. Got a lot of fixing (with Jesus) to do on myself... Thanks a lot man. Now I see why a good relationship hasn't come by. I wasn't ready, and would've badly hurt some other soul had I gotten in a relationship. Good thing God withheld that for my own and the others good.
That was a brilliant revelation of the checklist we can regularly make throughout our journey on earth in relationships as a single or with someone as much as with family and the church. Our hearts true nature is revealed and humility has to be adhered too. "Jesus made himself of no reputation, humbling himself, taking up the place of a servant , being obedient, even to death on the cross." Basically we need to learn to do this. This is a life-tool we all need to have with us. Thank you Mark for sharing this with us.
THANK YOU MARK‼️. IM YOUR NUMBER ONE FAN‼️ THANK YOU FOR YOUR BEAUTIFUL WORDS‼️ 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️‼️ IM RUNNING AS FAST AS I CAN WANT TO RUN WITH ME? SMILES. GOD BLESS YOU ALWAYS‼️
hey. i sure dont see any unforgiveness in these comments!!!! praise God. . he can heal our hearts. for we have ALL SINNED and fallen short of the glory of God. if u want to avoid ask the Lord for discernmeny
Truer words have never been spoken. 32 years later every single one of these traits came to the surface. To use the word blindsided would and could not describe what came to light. "Seek ye first the kingdom of God" there is a safe place when this happens and developing an intimate relationship with my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ is and was the only answer. When I should have been devastated by what happened, God gave me a peace that surpassed all understanding. Thank you Jesus for pouring out the multitude of your mercy on me. My life for you. I still pray for her and always will but putting him first was the best thing I could have ever done. Thank you Jesus. This is one of the best videos I have ever seen. May God bless all who have experienced this and may he pour out his mercy on the offenders. I forgive. In Jesus name with Thanksgiving and praise I pray, Amen🙌
All these qualities reminds me of my ex boyfriend. Totally a religious hypocrite. Thank God He saved me from him. Had a really painful experience from him. But God healed me from being broken emotionally and spiritually. 😊
@@sixteen.candles.4644 really just a feed. Like a list of questions Mark could post and females answer on one feed and males answer on another feed. Then the opposite sex can reply if they are interested. I've seen it done on Facebook before. Name, age, location, and then whatever else might be useful, interesting or fun...
My old friend has EVERY. SINGLE. ONE. Praise God HALLELUJAH! I pray for him though. It is very sad. For he will never know beauty that is love in Christ Jesus . And love in general.
I feel ashamed, sad and extremely fearful cause I caused damage to the ones who love me. I’m in the midst of a long trip in a bus feeling deeply disappointed of my “walk with Christ”.
I'm not walking or living the faith I was taught my whole young life. I can clearly see that those who love and follow Christ have more peace, love, and purpose than those who don't. I have almost every negative trait or some version of it in my thoughts and in my heart. I have enough discipline to not act on the worst of these and detest violence but as a Christian, I wouldn't want to spend time with or even get to know me. I need a Christian therapist with a military background or experience before I can even consider trying to find a church. Maybe some baby steps, like a scheduled bible study over Zoom. Do they have something like that?
Forgiveness is important, but are there some things or words that are just unforgivable in a relationship, and you must not forgive but cut ties with this person forever? I learned that telling your wife or fiancee not to be disrespectful falls under the catergory of unforgivable.
So i recently broke up with someone that was said God said he was the one. But he was on fire for Jesus when he first got delivered & re committed his life back to Jesus but he started to get cold when it came to the lord & i'm growing in God as he calls me to him & i'm seeking first the kingdom of God & his righteousness & i don't want to be unequally yoked i know it when i see it after a good bit of relationships & living the person living for the world. My spirit couldn't deal with as a gf. And then he wasn't to sure about what he wanted for a future after a while. So i'm really disappointed i thought he was the one so to speak so i took it hard but i'm healing but i'm not interested & he got a 2nd chance & still failure that is what hurts the most. But i'm at peace.
Is it possible to fall out of love with someone? I was in a ‘relationship’(we never truly dated. We tried twice but they only lasted like a week) but it was only this long because I stuck around when nobody else would. Ive been hurt multiple times, they have said sorry for hurting me, and now they said they’re not going to give up in me even though I feel nothing romantic towards them anymore. They’re a nice person but my heart isn’t there.
I admit I have all of this characteristic . I am praying that God will change my darkness heart and teach me to be more like him.
Amen. Same here. We can overcome together
@Jocelyn Gardner I would like to encourage you. I know how you can overcome all of these negative characteristics and it’s not difficult. Please bare with me. I can be long winded but I will try to be as brief as possible. Jesus said whoever sins is a slave to sin but whom the Son sets free is free indeed. Jesus was saying that because every person that has ever lived and that will live in the future has sinned, and because we have sinned we are separated from God, the giver of life. We have to be freed from what the Bible calls our sinful nature. The sinful nature are the characteristics described in this video. Jesus said whoever he sets free from sin is truly free. I will tell you how you can be free from your sinful nature as well as free from the condemnation you may feel because of your mistakes and failures and sins. Jesus said whoever believes in him passes from death to life but whoever does not believe in him stands condemned already and Gods wrath abides on them. The key to being free from all of these horrible characteristics described in the video is you have to be set free from the power of the sin in your life that has made you a slave to repeat that sin and mistakes over and over again. The ability to overcome sin comes from God himself. It comes from his Holy Spirit. Jesus said that in order for a person to enter the kingdom of heaven or even see heaven you have to be born again with Gods spirit. Without being born again by Gods spirit you cannot see heaven or ever enter it. You stand condemned in your sinful nature and you need Jesus Christ to free you from that sinful nature which is powerless to sins temptations. Sure without the Holy Spirit you can do good for a day or two but what always happens? You return to your sins again to repeat them over and over again. The problem is not the temptations. The problem is you do not have the will in your sinful nature to continually fight off these temptations. You actually enjoy certain sins that keep you in bondage like a slave. You need to be freed from them by Jesus Christ. You become free from every sin you have ever committed in your life when you truly have faith in Jesus Christ. See many people claim to believe in Jesus Christ the person but what they have never truly done is truly believed in their heart all their sins have been forgiven by God because of what Jesus Christ did on the cross. Jesus said when you believe in him you pass from death to life and every sin you have ever committed and will ever commit in the future is forgiven. God takes your sins and separates them from you as far as the East is from the West and God remembers them no more. God wipes your slate clean and you are no longer under Gods wrath. You become a new creation in Christ Jesus and Jesus gives you his Holy Spirit which gives you the spiritual power you need to resist those temptations that you use to struggle with so much. Also when you become born again spiritually God changes your heart and gives you a new Godly nature that desires to serve him and obey him. The proof of being born again is the infilling of the Holy Spirit in you. It’s called the baptism of the Holy Spirit. John the Baptist said “I baptize you with water but one is coming after me who’s sandal straps I am unworthy to untie and he will baptize you with the Holy Spirit.” John the Baptist was talking about Jesus Christ and he was saying that Jesus Christ will give you power to overcome sin when you receive the Holy Spirit from Jesus Christ. Jesus Christ gives you the Holy Spirit when you repent of your sins and believe in Jesus Christ in your heart. The moment you have truly believed in Jesus Christ as your savior and believed in your heart that Jesus died on the cross to take your sins that you have personally committed and you believe that God raised Jesus back to life and that he now sits at the right hand of God as Lord of the heavens and the earth your sins can be forgiven and are forgiven immediately never to be remembered any longer. You will be born again and as long as your faith was genuine and you have repented in your heart of your sins you are born again. If your faith in Jesus Christ as your Lord and savior is real you will follow Jesus Christ and obey his commandments. Jesus said if you love me you will obey my commandments. Just remember though. You don’t get born again by doing good works. You can only truly come to God and be saved by believing in Jesus Christ and repenting of your sins. That means giving up your sins. It doesn’t mean you’re perfect. Nobody is perfect. It just means you trust in Jesus Christ for salvation and you commit with all your heart to follow him and obey his commandments and love him. Jesus Christ is the Lord of the universe. That’s how you overcome sin. Jesus said the flesh is weak but when you let Jesus Christ live in your heart, and reign in your heart, and lead you, all things are possible with God. Jesus said all evil thoughts and actions originate in our hearts. This is why you need to be born again by believing in Jesus. Jesus changes your heart and forgives you of your sins when you believe in him as Lord and savior. Jesus promises to give you eternal life when you believe in him. That’s all you have to do. Do you believe truly. Ask yourself if you have truly believed all your sins are forgiven because of Jesus Christ.
@@Sidney051 thanks for letting THE HOLY SPIRIT use you...a child could understand how you said it..the world complicates it.so most won't understand..Be Bless and stay saved .IN JESUS NAME
@David Skeete Thank you for the compliment. I appreciate that so much.
Amen
2 Timothy 3: 1-5
1. Lovers of themselves - relationships should be about mutually self sacrifice
2. Love of money 💰
3, Boastful - let someone else compliment you
4. Proud
5. Abusive
6. Disobedience to parents
7. Ungrateful
8. Unholy
9. Without love
10. Unforgiving
11. Slanderous
12. Without self-control
13. Brutal
14. Not lovers of the good
15. Treacherous
16. Brash
17. Conceited
18. Prideful
19. Lovers of pleasure than God
Lucky duck thank you my friend☺️☺️ be blessed in Jesus name
Ugh oh.
10* Unforgiving. Godbless!!
MeltyouDAZ thank you. Updated
Lucky duck oh my god my ex had all of these! 🤷🏻♀️
I recently broke up with someone who had most of these qualities. God revealed this and I realised I couldn't have a future with him. I'm praying that I'll meet the right guy one day. Thank you for this, it's very helpful advice!
Mirror mirror on the wall.... Often these wonderful video's don't just help us navigate relationships with others, but allow us to see what to be mindful with ourselves. There are times I cringe and say ouch... Yep I'm guilty of doing that sometimes.. But it's never a bad thing, I welcome the opportunity to grow in Christ and become the best version of myself I can be. Thank you once again, spot on. 🙏
Thank you for your Godly wisdom! I am blessed from your ministry. My heart was broken after being in a 5 year relationship.
A counterfeit was sent while my heart was broken. He was a non believer, but my emotions were deceiving me. I prayed and God released the relationship.
"Above all things, guard your heart. The heart is deceitful above all things. Who can know it?"
I think God has brought me to this video, I have gotten out of a 6 year relationship which I was engaged, I am ashamed to have to admit this truth, but I am guilty of 19 red flags of this video and I am submitting myself to Jesus and I don't want to be the man I used to be, and sadly I'm learning this now to become a better man and to learn my lessons even though it was tough to watch this and I have lost my fiance, but I seriously believe I was to watch this, and I gave my whole heart to Jesus and I trust him as my lord and savior. I am ashamed of who I was because I lost the most amazing woman that God had blessed me with and I live in regret today and alone and now I lost her for good because what I've done and I was not living with God at the time , I pray earnestly to be better than I used to be, God bless you and may God bless your family and for helping spreading the word of God to help people like me to learn and to walk with God and be protected by our lord and savior Jesus Christ.
All the bad qualities you've listed here all resemble me. I'm very humbled and sad. I've been blind for quite some time now. All glory to Jesus Christ and the father!
Same here , I need to improve but the question is how
Read the word of God it helps so much and give your life to Christ he is the way the truth and the life
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Yep
I’m giving up listening anymore about relationships. Dating today is to complicated today. Have to give it to God.
You are appreciated more than you know! Thank you for following what God has led you to do.
Give all the glory to God and God alone thru Jesus Christ!
Amen, Mr. Mark. Keep God and Christ on your mind and in your heart. Many of us hear you.
Thank you and God bless!
Thank you for more practical advice around scripture based red flags for relationships. Very helpful for me and to all. God bless :)
My pleasure John :)
🙏🏽 God forgive me, certain family members & past boyfriends crossed my mind as these were mentioned. I forgive them in Jesus name.
Coming from an abusive relationship, this was really good. I think we had all the bad stuff you mentioned and guess what's the reason: a Godless person.
Hey, I have watched 2 of your videos, How to differentiate God's Voice and yours and the other one is How to know God is calling you.
Now i know i'm a bit off topic, but i just want to say, God speaks and called me through his work, God gives us what we need not what we want. I trust in God when it comes to the stuffs regarding what i will eat and all of my needs.
So many things that God has done to me, as an example when i was in highschool when i didn't have the money to buy any of the books, my mom prayed and outta nowhere there's a Teacher called me and gave me almost all the books that i needed, i know its God's work. Another example is when i have no food to eat about a few weeks ago(i'm in the Uni now), and once again i saw how God worked, He gave me food through my friend, even today He gave me food(I prayed the Prayer that Jesus taught all of us in the afternoon) when i don't have enough money to buy food. God will never give his Son or Daughter stones to eat, instead He will give us bread, and from now on i know that i have no worries about what i should eat for tomorrow and what i should wear. Our God, Jesus Christ Bless you all.
Knowledge is power! Continue to teach in His name🙌🏽
Wow! My relationship was a mess and everything that I would complain about is there on the list... the weird thing is that the person was actually responsible for bringing me to your channel... Thank you so much for opening my eyes to see to the truth.
I still pray for him to change.
God bless!
Love your ministry.
Peace of Jesus, from Brasil.
I'm so glad you are enjoying the content!
Brasil ♥️🌱
I cannot add enough thumbs up on this video! Thank you for you effort in preparing this!
I'm so glad it was helpful!
Wow, what a great video, loaded with biblical wisdom. Thank you.
Really enjoyed your video, perfect description of my ex husband, an evil narcissist. Thank God it's finally over😊
Thank you for this helpful advice based on the red flags in relationships from scripture as this has truly been so helpful to me as i love God and believe in Him with all my with all my heart . May the good Lord bless you richly brother Mark and your family always. 💖💖
How about someone who continues to gossip behind your back and report privacy in the relationship to everyone and anyone than laugh and lie about it. Thank God he continues to show me. God bless you!
Thanks so much for these videos! I've learned so much from your biblical discussions concerning relationships on this channel! Right now, Im a protestant at the Catholic University of America and its been a very eye opening experience after stumbling and finding my way back to absolute truth. Even though I might have thought that the person who I almost dated was the one, God revealed to me that she was only interested in herself and pleasures rather than a relationship with Christ. Like you said before, "God won't bless you with idols," Ive learned to be content with Christ alone and to have complete faith in his will. May God bless you!
-Garrett
Its simple instead of looking for the "perfect" one , I work on myself and the one will come
Thank you so much for your videos. I'm praying that God leads me to my future husband one day ❤️
I think these are all great. I'd also say, it's good to keep them in mind for friendships too. 🌹
Brilliant Pastor Mark , Thank you very much!
Yes I still need deliverance in a lot of these characteristics 🙏🙏🙏
Some people say that love spell doesn't work but I have seen that love spell works all because of Dr ehimare spell the best spell caster in from Africa Who cast a spell for me and brought back my wife back to me and we are living as one family all thanks to DR Ehimare spell on youtube
Wish I knew This Years Ago
But Bless God I’m Learning
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Amen, 19 flags. I love the way you brought to the light the word and teach the message that God put in your heart. Your growing in your ministry beautiful.I've haven't seen too many people in this generation that teaches like that. It's a very clear message.wich people need to hear with all the great advice given to them as well. I thanks God for his word and may God keep blessing you and your in a very mighty way. These messages are always a blessing to me.God bless you.💛
YES I agree! Well-said! Thank you! Its very helpful to be aware of these things. God bless 🙏 your ministry. 😀
Thank God that I ran across this channel! The way you present this information makes things so easy to understand and receive correction for my life. Thank you!
This list has opened my eyes big time. It has confirmed that I made the right choices in the exes that I left. Also it has eliminated ALOT of people that I had interest in and also some who were pursuing me. Thanks Mark. This is INDEED your calling!!!!
The first time I saw one of your video I felt they were inspired by God word. Sincerely I'm feel fulfill by every one this. May God still inspire you to help others and give you all you've always dreamed of In your ministry. The crown of life my best wish😊.
Thanks for sharing brother Mark we are learning a lot. God bless you all.
Wow, you are so thorough! Thanks and God bless! :)
My pleasure! I'm so glad it was helpful :)
I think this was one of the best videos.
So glad you enjoyed this!
This channel has blessed me.
Thank you.
Great information.
My pleasure :)
Priceless INFORMATION.. 🙏🏽
Amen Amen and Amen!! Thank u vry mch Mark..God bless
I'm so glad it was helpful :)
Thank you so much for this. I knew a person of this type but l thank God for protecting me.
It's called being narcissistic
Thanks for sharing
Hello Michelle
The video I've been needing for so long...
I checked off on almost all of those red flags. Got a lot of fixing (with Jesus) to do on myself...
Thanks a lot man. Now I see why a good relationship hasn't come by. I wasn't ready, and would've badly hurt some other soul had I gotten in a relationship.
Good thing God withheld that for my own and the others good.
Powerful message sir God blessings on your ministry
That was a brilliant revelation of the checklist we can regularly make throughout our journey on earth in relationships as a single or with someone as much as with family and the church. Our hearts true nature is revealed and humility has to be adhered too. "Jesus made himself of no reputation, humbling himself, taking up the place of a servant , being obedient, even to death on the cross." Basically we need to learn to do this. This is a life-tool we all need to have with us. Thank you Mark for sharing this with us.
So glad it was helpful Shane!
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BEAUTIFUL WORDS‼️ 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️‼️ IM RUNNING AS FAST AS I CAN
WANT TO RUN WITH ME? SMILES. GOD BLESS YOU ALWAYS‼️
hey. i sure dont see any unforgiveness in these comments!!!!
praise God. . he can heal our hearts. for we have ALL SINNED and fallen short of the glory of God. if u want to avoid ask the Lord for discernmeny
God Bless u more....wisdom is speaking pay attention
Absolutely true.
This was brutally honest but very beautiful. Thank you 🙏
Thank you so much this is so helpful now that am going back to leadership 😊💓 God bless😊
Truer words have never been spoken. 32 years later every single one of these traits came to the surface. To use the word blindsided would and could not describe what came to light. "Seek ye first the kingdom of God" there is a safe place when this happens and developing an intimate relationship with my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ is and was the only answer. When I should have been devastated by what happened, God gave me a peace that surpassed all understanding. Thank you Jesus for pouring out the multitude of your mercy on me. My life for you. I still pray for her and always will but putting him first was the best thing I could have ever done. Thank you Jesus. This is one of the best videos I have ever seen. May God bless all who have experienced this and may he pour out his mercy on the offenders. I forgive. In Jesus name with Thanksgiving and praise I pray, Amen🙌
Thankyou this was so helpful bless you brother ❤️
Thank you , I sure this with my children, thank you Holy Spirit thank you man of God
Great teaching Mark!!!
Just say "No"
All these qualities reminds me of my ex boyfriend. Totally a religious hypocrite. Thank God He saved me from him. Had a really painful experience from him. But God healed me from being broken emotionally and spiritually. 😊
Thank you
My pleasure :)
This was very helpful and also caused me to look inwardly to see things I need to repent of
I'm so glad it was helpful :)
Since most people watching your videos are single looking for a relationship, have you ever thought about doing an online mixer?
Whats an online mixer?
@@sixteen.candles.4644 really just a feed. Like a list of questions Mark could post and females answer on one feed and males answer on another feed. Then the opposite sex can reply if they are interested. I've seen it done on Facebook before. Name, age, location, and then whatever else might be useful, interesting or fun...
This was really REALLY helpful. Thank you!!
Thank you! It is the best advice 😉👍
Just remember, not only do these things apply in. Intimate relationships, but any relationship, as they are all very toxic traits.
Thanks Brother
WOW! Thanks for sharing!!!
My old friend has
EVERY. SINGLE. ONE.
Praise God HALLELUJAH!
I pray for him though. It is very sad. For he will never know beauty that is love in Christ Jesus . And love in general.
I feel ashamed, sad and extremely fearful cause I caused damage to the ones who love me. I’m in the midst of a long trip in a bus feeling deeply disappointed of my “walk with Christ”.
2sd Timothy 3:1-5
God bless
Great list! Thank you 🙏
My pleasure!
good advice yet its all up to us to put into practice what God want us to do so we dont have to suffer the consequences
Love this , thank you💗
AMEN!
May Yeshua help me get better. May Yeshua help me to learn to forgive more and control my tongue. I pray this in Yeshuas holy name amen
What a great piece of advice! I'm so blessed by your videos. Thank you.
Hello which bible do you use? Can you please write the chapters you read in the summary? Thank you so much.
Love your video's
Very good video, Mark :)
I'm not walking or living the faith I was taught my whole young life. I can clearly see that those who love and follow Christ have more peace, love, and purpose than those who don't. I have almost every negative trait or some version of it in my thoughts and in my heart. I have enough discipline to not act on the worst of these and detest violence but as a Christian, I wouldn't want to spend time with or even get to know me. I need a Christian therapist with a military background or experience before I can even consider trying to find a church. Maybe some baby steps, like a scheduled bible study over Zoom. Do they have something like that?
Your videos are just great
Its definitely the last days... and people love to discredit the bible... smh These are LIVING words 🕊🕊🕊
Am praying 🙏🙏🙏 to embrace and inculcate good traits so as to be compatible with my spouse
I avoid all these types of people. This one was a no brainer for me. lol
Forgiveness is important, but are there some things or words that are just unforgivable in a relationship, and you must not forgive but cut ties with this person forever? I learned that telling your wife or fiancee not to be disrespectful falls under the catergory of unforgivable.
Lovers of money is powerful
AMEN!感恩
All I can say about this video is, oh my god
what about christian friendships? can u apply same principles
Ofc
Yes.
Very good video. Praise Jesus Praise God ❤
My question is my partner is a Christian but is still struggling with sex.. He has started staying away.. How do I help?
Anyone know of a good Christian dating site? Or should one not go down that path
Christian mingle but I believe you have to pay
learn from Jesus
He is Gentle and Humble in heart
And we will find Rest for our souls
Matthew 11 v 29
So i recently broke up with someone that was said God said he was the one. But he was on fire for Jesus when he first got delivered & re committed his life back to Jesus but he started to get cold when it came to the lord & i'm growing in God as he calls me to him & i'm seeking first the kingdom of God & his righteousness & i don't want to be unequally yoked i know it when i see it after a good bit of relationships & living the person living for the world. My spirit couldn't deal with as a gf. And then he wasn't to sure about what he wanted for a future after a while. So i'm really disappointed i thought he was the one so to speak so i took it hard but i'm healing but i'm not interested & he got a 2nd chance & still failure that is what hurts the most. But i'm at peace.
Amen I pray that the Lord restores your heart. Your husband will find you in God’s perfect time. Be blessed & encouraged sis. 🙏
@@whitneyallman8365 thank you so much sis God is good i trust he has the best for me in Jesus mighty name amen. God bless you as well.
Amen 💞😇✝️
God is good!
Is it possible to fall out of love with someone? I was in a ‘relationship’(we never truly dated. We tried twice but they only lasted like a week) but it was only this long because I stuck around when nobody else would. Ive been hurt multiple times, they have said sorry for hurting me, and now they said they’re not going to give up in me even though I feel nothing romantic towards them anymore. They’re a nice person but my heart isn’t there.
Yes, but what if parents are abusive? Should they honor an verbally and sexually abusive father?? I am very confused.
If a person has any of these could they get past it with therapy and celebrate recovery?
What advice would you offer a christian who's gay looking for a relationship?
That's an interesting question. I hope he answers
Amen