He’s a narcissist🤦🏾♀️ I know cause I’m married to one. They never change. I left a few months ago. I’m recovering from the emotional abuse. Pray for me yall🙏🏿
Dear Lord, thank you for supplying Star Stellar with the inner strength she needed to separate herself from the situation she found herself in. And as she continues her life’s journey I pray you continue to shine your light on her so that even in the dark hours that are yet to come, she can always see well enough to keep putting one foot in front of the other. Give her patience Lord as she takes the time to put the pieces back together, not just to rebuild what was broken, but to create a version of herself that is better than she’s ever been before. A Star Stellar who is kind to herself, who has forgiveness in her heart to those who have wronged her and most importantly for herself. Amen. 🙏🏽
@@handsomeprince215 Such a wide vocabulary 👏👏. Nonetheless, as indicated my statement I was referring to him not her. So your lack of comprehension skills CLEARLY shows. You can talk about one without the other. Nice try, I give you a gold ⭐for the attempt.
@@monk-monk-dj You are but why not get a gym membership and shed some of that unwanted weight you will be so glad you did and so will he diet/exercise doll is also good for relieving stress good luck!!!!
Love bomb, devalue, discard. That’s the cycle he’s doing to her, she nailed it when she said he’s narcissistic. He love bombed her in the beginning, devalues her by criticizing her regularly and Discards her through triangulation by dealing with ex’s. Then he tops it off by gaslighting her throughout by calling her insecure or distorting her reality of the situation. People like this don’t change, unfortunately.
Post partum depression is REAL!!! ...she just had a baby 7wks, why would he expect her to be at 💯 to get all the housework done? He needs to come home and ask her what can he do to help her out
come home and ask to help after working 13 and 14 hour days dude? the man must be hella tired after. he is definitely an ass but you can't expect him to be doing anything after working such long days.
@@elisejackson2854 so what would you say to the single mothers who do it? I get it but he can definitely come in and ask if she wants to shower or something. I know I've busted double shifts then had to wait for the baby to finally go to sleep. #noexcuse
@@annabella7188 i'm a single parent and i stand by what i say. neither of them are single parents. if you're staying home while the other parent works and the other parent is the breadwinner then you're responsible for household ish. after her c section though she needs the help until she's healed up. but otherwise unless she plans to work she's responsible for taking care of the house.
Aint going lie. This one got to me. I agree with her that he is a low key narcissist. Plus her hormones ramping up with childbirth. Focus on your queen bro. Sis you are beautiful, kind and loving.
If his a narcissist then she got to go they do not change and bring your self worth, confidence and identity to the ground as well as doubt your reality.
I understand where she is coming from. He has emotionally drained her by his actions. He does undercover pokes at her to get her to react then say she is crazy or over reacting. He is a narcissist and always twist the issue to her.
Yeah, I saw the way he was smirking when she was being emotional and unable to clearly explain herself, I think he is a narcissist and enjoys her making herself look crazy so it makes him look sane, reasonable and nice. I hope better for her.
If he is a NARSASIST he will never change everything is always about them and what they want they belittle their wives or girlfriends they also are CHEATER, over and over again she should probably leave him pick up herself esteem and walk away before he makes her completely crazy NARSASIST really have no EMPATHY for others they really don't care and your pain gives them pleasure make them feel better than their wife or girlfriend 🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️
@@hobbyhive Yep he is the one who has the Personality disorder they love to see others in pain and hurting always doing or saying something negative about or to the other person she will still have to deal with him because they have children I pray he doesn't make the children mental cases.
Nahh she's the narcissist and very manipulative. She's lazy,lousy, & ratchett as all get out. And thinks the world revolves around her. She clearly showed her self to be every bit of what the man said she was . Not to mention she's Insecure. Clearly she doesn't desire to be a house wife, so it will never work with her for any man. I feel sorry for those kid's, we all know his 14 hr work days is going to more child support real soon #ConfidenceIsAttractive
The wife needs self-esteem and counseling. She sounds depressed. It could be post partum depression. Her baby is only 7 weeks. So, I'm sure she's super sensitive because of that and other things she is isn't talking about.
Men don't really understand all the things women can go through after having a baby. Your hormonal. Your body has changed. She may not feel attractive (which she kind of mentioned). At this time she is going to be alot more sensitive. She needs him to be alot more supportive emotionally and complimentary at this time. Him being critical of her house keeping when she doesn't feel good physically isn't the way to go. Him talking to these ex's when she has just given birth is very hurtful for him to do also. He is treating her like he married her but like she isn't a good enough wife to him. Like these other women are better than her.
Her hurt isn't about one thing, it's lots of little things and big things piled on top of each other and it's weighing her down, those tears were running down her chest!
yep. she is a cooking , cleaning, baby- making INSTALLED appliance. He now begins to chip her off and tryna dislodge her. When the babies are grown and money is tight she better be not crying over his narc ass because she put up with it.
Thundercat I don’t think he doesn’t like her I think she wasn’t the best cook or best cleaner or best whatever he thought she would be. And seriously picked at her instead of encouraging and it just went left over time
@@kadams857 not very smart if you don't think the person you love and had children with, the person who promised to love and protect you has no effect on how you see yourself. This person is your everything and they keep telling you that you are nothing really beats you down. It's actually called verbal abuse and it does harm your self-esteem.
@@kee-ta3487 once again that's why it's called SELF esteem, you are in control of that, that's like saying someone can control how YOU feel when actually they don't you make yourself feel a certain way
She's better off without him.. the judge is 100% correct .. I feel he's the cause of all her insecurities .. As soon as he married her he's looking up his ex... im not surprised that she's looking to divorce him.. he's a flirt..
Amen is Hidden He felt entitled.. like it was no big deal to him to see his ex the day after he got married , when in fact he did sound stupid , what a douche bag.
I dated a man like this ... seems like a “good guy “ but really has deep issues and always tried to make me seem like I was overreacting when he was clearly either disregarding or disrespecting me ! ( and he was always dealing w/ his exes) #narcissist
I hate when men do that. She's supposed to be your better half and in the heat of an argument you practice mental warfare on her. Then they get shocked when she's miserable and falling apart.
Ain't anything lazy about her. She had a baby 7wks ago via cesarean. And her husband's working now, he wasn't always working. How did y'all not hear anything this woman said? Who hurt y'all?
@@mamigotz4 I don't think that they been hurt so much as there age. One don't know what better-half means. The other ding dong talking about a woman working after just given birth. Sound like jr high kids.
The judge said that was an old school reference. That is not my idea of old school. A reference from a movie made before that decade might be old school.
As a married man, this case made me want to review my actions. Literally I took a moment to reflect if I’m making my wife feel like this woman in anyway. This is not a good look and i never want this energy in my marriage.
At this point, I think Judge Toler should do couples counseling through Zoom or something else, deal with actual couples and broadcast it on TH-cam or an app. It would be more fulfilling and entertaining than seeing a bunch of ratchet couples coming to Atlanta for a vacation or a bunch of actors trying to make it.
You are right but she should put it on a platform that grown people who aren't Instagram junkies will see. Every body is not on social media including me. I think doing it on Instagram is following the same demographic that the new producers are trying to follow the annoying millenials. Judge Toler is not a millenial and unfortunately her advice seems to go right over their heads
It's hard to explain to others about your life with a narcissist. Because they are so charming, people look at you like something wrong with you. My heart goes out to her because I know what she feels.
Omg when she started breaking down, and said," He told me he's been in a better relationship before.. He feel like I'm his roommate...I've never felt this ugly in a relationship before."Adding insult to injury he's ALSO reaching out to ex's after fight???? I would lose it if my husband even tried that mess. He's manipulative, and he thinks criticizing her will force her into being the person he thinks she should be.🤦🏾♀️
Me too😢She so freakin pretty and her personality is so very engaging and she's funny! I'm looking at this episode and thinkin to myself,"What she want him for?" SHE SHINES!!!🤗
I hope you're no longer with the person who makes you feel that way. You deserve more. You deserve better. And there is a lot of better out there for you.
@@Adjoba I’m definitely working on it, at that time I was with a man who made me feel ugly! But in reality I knew I was too good to be with him. I’m no longer with him anymore Thank God!!! And I’m working on self love. Thank you for your comment! ❤️
Elle Gregory that was my argument in a nutshell. Even how he tried to play me with not cooking and cleaning. If I just had a c section why would you expect a spotless house and I’m helping you pay bills by doing Lyft and other hustles? They edited a lot of this clip
He should be respectful to her. She should stay out of his phone, that's an invasion of privacy. Some women don't like to cook. I wonder did she cook when she was a single mom. Black women have worked outside the home and still cooked. There are slow cookers and all kinds of ways to cook . You can cook on weekends and meal prep for the family
@@monk-monk-dj I feel you sis and i know exactly what you mean ...you deserve better and need time to love yourself again and it will happen just give yourself time to heal ❤
Awesome and lovely content its so good. Whoever is reading and feels stressed, lonely, despised, ostracized, sick and in pain. Stand firm you will be victorious
He’s ridiculous 🤦🏾♀️ he’s justifying cheating on the first month of their marriage like it’s normal. It’s sad to see someone give their best to a man/woman and never get nothing in return. Men who don’t respect nor care for their wives never support them when they just had a baby. She had a baby 7 weeks ago and he’s still expecting meals and a clean house when the focus should be on her health.
I love they way she talks, she has a great demeanor. She’s so confident in what she saying, she says things in a way that doesn’t minimize or exaggerated them. I wish I had her demeanor.
Men.pls make sure ur woman /wife feel loved before u complimenting outsiders.love her dress n hair. Wow when she said I've never felt this ugly with anyone before I felt so sad for her😥
She made me cry when she started crying. I felt everything she said in the depths of the pit of my spirit. She's beautiful inside and out, I hope she's sees this and realizes that.
When a spouse fixes his/her mouth to say that their exes are better than you, it's a wrap. I've known 2 other couples to have that occur--one is divorced and the other couple is miserable together.
@J Peavy this is all true. Especially when you are done....go numb and are finally sick and tired of being sick and tired. I accepted this behavior from a man and it broke me to nothing. I was literally a shell of my former self, even in regards to my weight. I had to remember who I was before him and regain that sense of self. One of my hardest, but most fulfilling lessons....NEVER LOSE YOURSELF FOR ANYBODY, IT ISNT SELFISH TO PUT YOU FIRST AND THE ONLY MALE (NOT MAN) YOU CAN RAISE IS THE ONE YOU BIRTH, AND EVEN HE WILL BECOME WHO HE WANTS TO BE.
Bambidaydreamer3 I’m prepared for whatever I look for. I’d rather have the truth. Keep it 💯 and we will have no problems. Cheaters need to keep it real you want this one and that one that’s fine. But let go of one before you get another
My first impression from the thumbnail when I was going through my suggestions was wow....what a beautiful sister. So for her to feel that way saddens me deeply. My sister you are ridiculously gorgeous. And I rebuke anything or anyone that puts the lies in your mind that makes you feel otherwise. My prayers is that you find yourself again. You are worthy sis.
These comments are crazy. They were still dating and folks are expecting her to cook for him. Remember she shouldn't be giving wife privileges at girlfriend prices. Now they're married. No one is saying that she shouldn't have helped him pay his child support. Or how he's jumping to ask her to work and no one is saying he needs to man up! The double standard is real. And unfortunate. She's feeling insecure because she just had a baby, anyone would feel a little insecure if you feel your man is not focused on you. Throwing exes in her face. She is beautiful and I wish her the best.
This is a very odd couple to me. I always wonder how these people meet! 🔻Update: by that hug he does NOT like that lady and those roommate comments-HE MEANT IT!
You are right. He doesn't love her like she loves him. He thinks he can do better. Try it buddy! Bet the next not gonna love you like this one. She gonna find real love and THAT man is gonna get all her goodness.
@@asabifatosin1150 Let me answer that question for you; I was married to a narcissist just like him, and he became more abusive with time. My third child is here due to marital rape. I actually considered abortion and I cried for three months because he took my choice away. I didn't have the abortion because it wasn't the baby's fault. I'm divorced now and happier than ever. I took my kids and left with nothing. I got tired of being hit, cursed at, choked out, forced to have sex, and all the other dispicable things he did. Found out after the divorce that he was having an affair for our entire marriage. It took me 20 years to get the fortitude and strength to leave, and unfortunately, I see a lot of heartache and wasted time in this woman's future if she stays with him. He's already breaking her down.
A woman should cook for her husband if he's working and she is a stay at home mother, hell no he is not suppose to work , pay all the bills and come home and cook his own dinner
Don't have a problem with cooking for her husband her problem is she just had a baby she had a C-section she was in pain so she's unable to keep up with cooking and cleaning as of now some people do not heal from C-sections the same
A C-section is very painful and it's hard to get around without pain medication because it's real surgery. Ain't nobody cleaning house and cooking dinner when someone should be doing it for them...
Every woman just ain't cut out for all that cooking and cleaning, just like every man ain't capable for all that working and making money , MAYBE IT'S TIME WE AS A PEOPLE LET THAT OLD WAY OF THINKING CEASE TO EXIST????
You might be right. She said she was in school (at some point) so there's probably a job in her future. Like Judge Lynn's husband told her, she wasn't cut out for the stay at home life. Whatever works for you...
she's hurt you can tell he barely says nice things to her especially after having the kids she felt she has lost her charm and beauty girl noo calm down you beautiful
This dude is not cool. There is nothing ok about telling your wife that you settled for her, constant criticism, & comparing her to your ex. Nothing she does will make him happy because she isn't what he wants. He makes her feel like nothing. How can he be a cool dude. Seems pretty lame to me
Because he was out of work and he was falling behind so I picked it up b4 I had our kids. I was working at a time he wasn’t so I looked out because I love him and my stepdaughter.
I cringed hearing this woman express herself. It’s almost like she’s being heard for the first time in a while. Since she accepts her husband as the head of the house who will lead them and provide, she receives what he feeds her. After listening to the case, he is being overly critical. The man may be a good person, father and provider but he is losing his wife.
whew i know exactly what she’s going through. i’m sending her happiness and health. it actually took me getting pregnant to realize i didn’t want to be with him. i didn’t want to raise my child in an environment where i wasn’t happy. I truly wish her the best, seriously.
Crazy how folks still would rather stay attached to an unhappy situation instead of taking the slight loss and working on their own self care & happiness. If only she really knew her worth she’d let him bounce and figure out what he missed out on until he gets his own demons resolved.
She’s insecure, & he’s a flirt. That’s not a good mix. But I do think he loves her, like he said “you STILL are the bomb!” They need to work on communication and understanding/meeting each other’s needs.
@@monk-monk-dj Is he a Capricorn? His actions are very much the trait of a Capricorn man. Always taking people who love them for granted thinking they had or could find better. Anyway, I am glad you left him. ( Olney in the building)🙂
She is so pretty. I love how she said she wasn’t going to cook or clean for him in the dating stage lol!! & she got the ring, You go girl. More girls should take a page out of her book, Don’t do wifely things for dudes. 🤣
@@RayBoomBoomRoom -- Definitely not surprised there was no comment about him stocking her refrigerator without being a husband. I.E., you can buy me food, but you can't eat any of it.
I was pleasantly surprised by this case, an actual marriage instead of 2 people looking for tv clout. I'm not surprised things didn't get better after the show. He said he understood what Judge Lynn was saying, but I don't believe he agreed with here. He came on her fully expecting Judge Lynn to get his wife together, but wasn't expecting to be told HE was a problem.
@stop judging She was a problem because if he's making all the money then she should be handling home. But he was ALSO a problem running to exes. Regardless of the crying, just seemed unwilling to accept that he wasn't without fault.
Her self esteem was low before they meet. Previous relationships with other people cause this. If he mistreated her so badly in the beginning she should have left him then. He is pretty Rickey and she's wondering why he chose me. That's low self esteem.
WOW! I love how Judge Toler sees through almost all of these sessions! I loved it when Judge Toler saw Mrs Glover's Pain and cut right through the matter. Mrs. Glover broke my heart with the hurt she was enduring. I also loved how Mr Glover expressed pain too when Judge Toler reached his heart! His hug at the end!!
That dude isn't as committed as the woman is in this marriage. She is coming with 100% energy, and he is coming with maybe 60 to 70, where the other 30 going? Sad, she seems to be a good wife, and going by the show he wants to have his cake and eat it. My guy step your game up, you ain't perfect, once she starts picking at every single thing that annoys her about you, you won't like it either, it goes both way.
Husband is tall, fit, and handsome, with plenty of dating options, and he knows it. Wife is insecure about her looks, and weight gain, after the last baby, and she feels totally burned out and overwhelmed, because she's not built to be a stay at home wife and mother. Relationship is damaged beyond repair. Divorce is the only solution at this point.
I'm tired of him already!! She loves him to the moon and back. But she has got to figure out how to love herself to the moon and back. Or keep dealing with pain
He's acting like he doesn't know what's going on.. he's systematically undermining and destroying her to keep her small so she'll never rise up.. RISE MY QUEEN YOU'RE SO BEAUTIFUL AND WORTHY
He can definitely improve his communication and realize that being a SAHM is WORK. I did it for 9 years...cooking, cleaning, running errands, making lunches, keeping the children clean and teaching them, making time for yourself, being intimate with him, I mean the list is practically endless. But, it doesn't look like she's working to him because the things she has to take care of isn't being taken care of.
I know exactly where she's coming from. I went through the same with my husband. We went to marriage counseling so many times for ten years. Finally, I couldn't take it anymore and wanted a divorce. Our last attempt at our relationship we sat down with a beautiful black couple who broke down the importance of treating eachother like the king and queen we are. Now our relationship is so much better.
Hang Tyme yes he did and see that was edited too. This clip made him look extra bad. They just showed my emotional parts but there was a lot of conversation in the court room pertaining to his ex like they pieced stuff together, I talked about how he step up in the beginning of our marriage, and etc that’s why the judge said that he was descent to her. It was more to this episode and they just made me look completely week and he was the villain. It was sad to watch.
Both need counseling and also you can't change anyone,but i paid attention when she said that she was never taught how to be a wife,it was interesting.
It's sad that in today's society, only a very lucky few are "thought" to be an ideal husband or wife. You're a product of your parents and unfortunately the "role models" just aren't there anymore.
What a refreshing episode. ☺️ Everyone acted their age, the guy opened his eyes to a different point of view by the end, and Judge Lynn got out of there without a headache. 😂
I think she's got some serious depression and self esteem issues, she needs counseling, as for her not cleaning, if she's a stay at home wife and she's home all day, there is no reason she can't clean. She reminds me of people in my family that keep a dirty house, they home all day and things just get worse and worse, roaches out of control, trash over flowing and dishes ain't been washed in weeks. Somebody has to be the grown up and have the conversation, this marriage is a partnership, you take care of the house and I take care of the finances. It's not fair for a person to work all day and then have to come home and still have to work more when you've been home all day. It doesn't matter whom the bread winner is if it's the man or the woman, whomever is home to be a house wife or house husband or even just home because they are unemployed you need to be nice enough to make sure your mate comes home to at a minimum a clean house. Aside from that, I think the judge is right, there is something else going on that the wife is not articulating and that's the real problem.
@@SoapFam no, you said there's no excuse for not cleaning, meanwhile she stated in the show that she had a C-section. How can you be severed in half and still be expected to do house work?
“I never felt this ugly with anybody”
Wow, that hurt my feelings.
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that got me
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Me too😫
That’s really sad
He’s a narcissist🤦🏾♀️ I know cause I’m
married to one. They never change. I left a few months ago. I’m recovering from the emotional abuse. Pray for me yall🙏🏿
Praying for you. 6 months narc free, after 14 years. Smh... I'm taking it a day at a time. You'll be just fine sis.
lizz beth Thank you so much 😘 glad you got out!!! Praying for you as well!
I don't even understand what that is, I'm not sure if I want to get married anymore ☝️
Dear Lord, thank you for supplying Star Stellar with the inner strength she needed to separate herself from the situation she found herself in. And as she continues her life’s journey I pray you continue to shine your light on her so that even in the dark hours that are yet to come, she can always see well enough to keep putting one foot in front of the other. Give her patience Lord as she takes the time to put the pieces back together, not just to rebuild what was broken, but to create a version of herself that is better than she’s ever been before. A Star Stellar who is kind to herself, who has forgiveness in her heart to those who have wronged her and most importantly for herself. Amen. 🙏🏽
prayers sis and self care is the best care!! do WHATEVER you want to do that makes you feel happy and beautiful
He told his wife, he settled for her?! Wow. I dont think I could hear those words from the man I dedicated my life to, and still be with him.
MK right
Yup I would’ve headed out bye
Women said it all the time! Hell, I hear it at work with all the women talking about there last man or boyfriend they want back.
Those words you can’t take back... bye boy .
Exactly!
I’m like a sponge, just be soaking in all of Judge Lynn’s wisdom.
Don't do that
Right!! She's so rational and intelligent!
@anger & rage I don't plan on watching after she's gone.
You go young lady👍
Faith the Fashionista me too!
He was clearly DISRESPECTING his relationship 😠
Cadillac Deville 🙄🙄🙄🙄
@@handsomeprince215 Such a wide vocabulary 👏👏. Nonetheless, as indicated my statement I was referring to him not her. So your lack of comprehension skills CLEARLY shows. You can talk about one without the other. Nice try, I give you a gold ⭐for the attempt.
@@cadillacdeville5828 So this dude from the video is a swine, everyone saw that. If you think otherwise, well, guess you are defending your own kind
Wow. This woman is Viola Davis Beautiful. Nothing more beautiful than Dark Chocolate.
Melani Y. Thank you
I agree.. But we light skin girls are beautiful too.. 🥰 Self love that's all
@@FAAL95 nobody said light skin women weren't pretty. I also think there's nothing more pretty than dark chocolate It's just stunning(for me).
@@neisci I agree.. but I was just saying we need love
Yes, and she doesn't even know it, smdh
she’s funny and I love her attitude. She gonna be just fine without him
Rebecca Louisthelmy thank you
I like her. I swear she wasted her time with this clown!
@@WhoCares3001 yup clown in a crown
Funny and good attitude dont pay Bills or take care of the home
I love how she so out spoken...and she has a sense of humor with it....my heart goes out to her...she will be just fine
This woman is so pretty, I hope she gets her self esteem up with or without him. Pretty mama! ❤️❤️
Elsa MyQueen thank you I am.
@@monk-monk-dj You are but why not get a gym membership and shed some of that unwanted weight you will be so glad you did and so will he diet/exercise doll is also good for relieving stress good luck!!!!
@@ddnquestion1 wtf.... how do you know she isn't working out at home or the gym?! She just gave birth and might be breastfeeding.
@@monk-monk-dj beautiful 😊😋💕
@@ddnquestion1 Shut your old ugly ass up!
If this dude was at his exes house a day after marrriage, ahh I’m done. He still hangin on.
That would have sent me over the deep end.
Annulment would’ve been filed ASAP
@ Let me guess, you're married and cheating like this guy and that somehow is better than being single? Get psychiatric help asap!
How disrespectful is that!
Kevwe Tony awww tink tink who pissed in your cereal this morning??? What makes you think I’m single???
I really like this dress on her.
The color's perfect.
Trainurmind 2C thank you
@@monk-monk-dj l hope youre in a healthier and happier place now. Youre beautiful, hold your head up high sis 🌹
Annie Wilkes thank you. They edited a lot of our video
Elega Abdulateef Adeola thank you
Agreed it's flattering to her body especially having just gave birth and it's flattering to her skin tone.
Love bomb, devalue, discard. That’s the cycle he’s doing to her, she nailed it when she said he’s narcissistic. He love bombed her in the beginning, devalues her by criticizing her regularly and Discards her through triangulation by dealing with ex’s. Then he tops it off by gaslighting her throughout by calling her insecure or distorting her reality of the situation. People like this don’t change, unfortunately.
Linda J. Nicole sounds like you watched an episode of RedTable Talks on Narcissism. Lol
Sounds personal
He really didn’t love bomb her, according to her she was cooking dinners and working overtime to get him.
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That was completely wrong!
When she FINALLY LEAVES HIM ..... he gon feel it !!! 💯
No he's gonna
Replace her with someone better
Child support , that's about it
Nah
I don’t think he was that invested. This doesn’t seem like one of those situations.
Yes he will if she paying his child support
Post partum depression is REAL!!! ...she just had a baby 7wks, why would he expect her to be at 💯 to get all the housework done? He needs to come home and ask her what can he do to help her out
N Noire that’s what I use to tell him
@@monk-monk-djHow are you doing now?
come home and ask to help after working 13 and 14 hour days dude? the man must be hella tired after. he is definitely an ass but you can't expect him to be doing anything after working such long days.
@@elisejackson2854 so what would you say to the single mothers who do it? I get it but he can definitely come in and ask if she wants to shower or something. I know I've busted double shifts then had to wait for the baby to finally go to sleep. #noexcuse
@@annabella7188 i'm a single parent and i stand by what i say. neither of them are single parents. if you're staying home while the other parent works and the other parent is the breadwinner then you're responsible for household ish. after her c section though she needs the help until she's healed up. but otherwise unless she plans to work she's responsible for taking care of the house.
Aint going lie. This one got to me. I agree with her that he is a low key narcissist. Plus her hormones ramping up with childbirth. Focus on your queen bro. Sis you are beautiful, kind and loving.
Yep, covert narcissists are silent killers of the very life within your soul
He does that while sis is weak from having those babies. I'd say leave his ass soon as she gets her strength back. He ain't getting any better.
@Goal Diggeryou are officially my first troll. Thank you. Have a nice day.
If his a narcissist then she got to go they do not change and bring your self worth, confidence and identity to the ground as well as doubt your reality.
I know you are single.
I understand where she is coming from. He has emotionally drained her by his actions. He does undercover pokes at her to get her to react then say she is crazy or over reacting. He is a narcissist and always twist the issue to her.
Yeah, I saw the way he was smirking when she was being emotional and unable to clearly explain herself, I think he is a narcissist and enjoys her making herself look crazy so it makes him look sane, reasonable and nice. I hope better for her.
If he is a NARSASIST he will never change everything is always about them and what they want they belittle their wives or girlfriends they also are CHEATER, over and over again she should probably leave him pick up herself esteem and walk away before he makes her completely crazy NARSASIST really have no EMPATHY for others they really don't care and your pain gives them pleasure make them feel better than their wife or girlfriend 🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️
Wow, so it's just his fault ijs
@@hobbyhive Yep he is the one who has the Personality disorder they love to see others in pain and hurting always doing or saying something negative about or to the other person she will still have to deal with him because they have children I pray he doesn't make the children mental cases.
Nahh she's the narcissist and very manipulative. She's lazy,lousy, & ratchett as all get out. And thinks the world revolves around her. She clearly showed her self to be every bit of what the man said she was . Not to mention she's Insecure. Clearly she doesn't desire to be a house wife, so it will never work with her for any man. I feel sorry for those kid's, we all know his 14 hr work days is going to more child support real soon #ConfidenceIsAttractive
The wife needs self-esteem and counseling. She sounds depressed. It could be post partum depression. Her baby is only 7 weeks. So, I'm sure she's super sensitive because of that and other things she is isn't talking about.
I agree she has post partum depression a bad case of it.
I was saying the same thing...she definitely needs some help.
Men don't really understand all the things women can go through after having a baby. Your hormonal. Your body has changed. She may not feel attractive (which she kind of mentioned). At this time she is going to be alot more sensitive. She needs him to be alot more supportive emotionally and complimentary at this time. Him being critical of her house keeping when she doesn't feel good physically isn't the way to go. Him talking to these ex's when she has just given birth is very hurtful for him to do also. He is treating her like he married her but like she isn't a good enough wife to him. Like these other women are better than her.
Her hurt isn't about one thing, it's lots of little things and big things piled on top of each other and it's weighing her down, those tears were running down her chest!
@@preciousjemstone2816 on point!you need to be the judge,honey..
Go ahead on sister!!✌
He doesn't really like her, doesn't really want to be with her. But he don't mind using her.
yep. she is a cooking , cleaning, baby- making INSTALLED appliance. He now begins to chip her off and tryna dislodge her. When the babies are grown and money is tight she better be not crying over his narc ass because she put up with it.
Yeah, he ain't doing nothing but going to work and paying the bills what a bad guy gtfoh
Thundercat I don’t think he doesn’t like her I think she wasn’t the best cook or best cleaner or best whatever he thought she would be. And seriously picked at her instead of encouraging and it just went left over time
Also didn't she say if you put food in my refrigerator I'll cook he did that and at 2:57 it turn to I'm good at making sandwiches
I don't know she missed this
The problem is he broke her self esteem end of story she’s brokin.
That's why it's called SELF esteem ijs
@@kadams857 not very smart if you don't think the person you love and had children with, the person who promised to love and protect you has no effect on how you see yourself. This person is your everything and they keep telling you that you are nothing really beats you down. It's actually called verbal abuse and it does harm your self-esteem.
@@kee-ta3487 once again that's why it's called SELF esteem, you are in control of that, that's like saying someone can control how YOU feel when actually they don't you make yourself feel a certain way
Naw...she broke her self esteem
How you break someone’s SELF esteem... you sound crazy
She's better off without him.. the judge is 100% correct .. I feel he's the cause of all her insecurities .. As soon as he married her he's looking up his ex... im not surprised that she's looking to divorce him.. he's a flirt..
Dude did sound silly saying they had just got married
Amen is Hidden He felt entitled.. like it was no big deal to him to see his ex the day after he got married , when in fact he did sound stupid , what a douche bag.
Bang on!
@Realjayrome Bruh my man
And he’s better off without her.
I dated a man like this ... seems like a “good guy “ but really has deep issues and always tried to make me seem like I was overreacting when he was clearly either disregarding or disrespecting me ! ( and he was always dealing w/ his exes) #narcissist
once i heard she said she paying his child support i was like 🏃♀️💨
洁馨 exactly so how was he just the bread winner? They edited the clip so much that it’s crazy
Just hearing that mad me mad. I wish women would stop paying for these men responsibility.
She cray cray lol
C.C. Rose I was thinking that I was helping out a brother. However, yeah this situation taught me not to be so reliable to unstable folks.
Imani Myheart Ctfu yes I was and in love
I hate when men do that. She's supposed to be your better half and in the heat of an argument you practice mental warfare on her. Then they get shocked when she's miserable and falling apart.
Better half? Y'all ever stop to read what you post before sending it?
Ms Mommi she should be working too if you want me to go half half
3 single men got offended by a married woman pointing out where married men mess up. 😒
Ain't anything lazy about her. She had a baby 7wks ago via cesarean. And her husband's working now, he wasn't always working. How did y'all not hear anything this woman said? Who hurt y'all?
@@mamigotz4 I don't think that they been hurt so much as there age. One don't know what better-half means. The other ding dong talking about a woman working after just given birth. Sound like jr high kids.
His wife has a beautiful spirit. He'll be a fool to leave her.
True
Easily replaced.
she'll be smart to leave him
When she said “you made me this way Jody” it sent me into orbit.
Yes Men can break you with out touching you
The judge said that was an old school reference. That is not my idea of old school. A reference from a movie made before that decade might be old school.
The original reference to Jody IS old school. There was a song out in 1970 by Johnny Taylor called " Jody Got Your Girl and Gone".
I REALLY FELT SORRY FOR HER WISH I COULD HUG HER GREAT ADVICE JUDGE WITH YOUR PRETTY SELF
Exactly I'm glad that she not with him anymore
@@dashawnalong6144 were did it say that I must have missed it🤔
Ok
Natanael Morales santos thank you
@@monk-monk-dj YOUR WELCOME U ARE BEAUTIFUL I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST BLESSINGS
As a married man, this case made me want to review my actions. Literally I took a moment to reflect if I’m making my wife feel like this woman in anyway. This is not a good look and i never want this energy in my marriage.
At this point, I think Judge Toler should do couples counseling through Zoom or something else, deal with actual couples and broadcast it on TH-cam or an app. It would be more fulfilling and entertaining than seeing a bunch of ratchet couples coming to Atlanta for a vacation or a bunch of actors trying to make it.
Andre Thomas She been doing it on her Instagram account during this pandemic.
I reallt think this couple is real.
You are right but she should put it on a platform that grown people who aren't Instagram junkies will see. Every body is not on social media including me. I think doing it on Instagram is following the same demographic that the new producers are trying to follow the annoying millenials. Judge Toler is not a millenial and unfortunately her advice seems to go right over their heads
@@CreationsByRachel She's leaving after this
Season. Judge Faith is taking over.
Lucky Libra I concur.
It's hard to explain to others about your life with a narcissist. Because they are so charming, people look at you like something wrong with you. My heart goes out to her because I know what she feels.
"Jodie....baby boy y'all get it" the white boy behind her confused asf😆
I was wondering who else was going to notice that too😂🤣🤣😂
You are all to quick 😂
5:28-5:31 baby boy reference lol the look on his face 😂
Thought I was the only one who peeped it🤣
Lol
Omg when she started breaking down, and said," He told me he's been in a better relationship before.. He feel like I'm his roommate...I've never felt this ugly in a relationship before."Adding insult to injury he's ALSO reaching out to ex's after fight???? I would lose it if my husband even tried that mess. He's manipulative, and he thinks criticizing her will force her into being the person he thinks she should be.🤦🏾♀️
She made me cry when she said I never felt this ugly with anybody else. I felt that 😢💔
I feel that way a lot 😔
I wish that you will tell yourself the opposite every day and that your heart and eyes receive it
Me too😢She so freakin pretty and her personality is so very engaging and she's funny! I'm looking at this episode and thinkin to myself,"What she want him for?" SHE SHINES!!!🤗
I hope you're no longer with the person who makes you feel that way. You deserve more. You deserve better. And there is a lot of better out there for you.
You are beautiful, please know this!!
@@Adjoba I’m definitely working on it, at that time I was with a man who made me feel ugly! But in reality I knew I was too good to be with him. I’m no longer with him anymore Thank God!!! And I’m working on self love. Thank you for your comment! ❤️
He TOLD her that he settled with her...he doesn't value nor appreciate her. His actions supports the fact that he doesn't care for her.
Elle Gregory that was my argument in a nutshell. Even how he tried to play me with not cooking and cleaning. If I just had a c section why would you expect a spotless house and I’m helping you pay bills by doing Lyft and other hustles? They edited a lot of this clip
@@monk-monk-dj trust your intuition...run. Do not go back to what GOD has delivered you from. A peace of mind is better than a frazzled mind.
When did he say that?
Once she heals, a stay at home Mom should cook and clean after she heals. I must have a clean house.
He should be respectful to her. She should stay out of his phone, that's an invasion of privacy. Some women don't like to cook. I wonder did she cook when she was a single mom. Black women have worked outside the home and still cooked. There are slow cookers and all kinds of ways to cook . You can cook on weekends and meal prep for the family
Cheating at the beginning of your marriage means you shouldn't be married right 🤦🏾♀️
He was such a liar he was using me. This was his second marriage! Something is really wrong with him! He prey on single mother with children
@@monk-monk-dj You are beautiful. I hope you found your peace far away from him.
I feel bad for her. His commentary truly broke her down. I hope she's finally free.
My girl is ok and healing!
This man is literally driving this woman CRAZY. She needs to go and seek therapy directly right after.
HeresMyBit I did
@@monk-monk-dj ✔️
She has low self-esteem and is looking for him to tell her he loves her. He needs to tell her love😂her and that he appreciates her.
I think she loses her self esteem after her body changes after having the babies...i feel her😔
Saudiya Hussain I really did and my expectations of him to make feel good was unrealistic
@@monk-monk-dj I feel you sis and i know exactly what you mean ...you deserve better and need time to love yourself again and it will happen just give yourself time to heal ❤
She gave him the greatest gift any man can have, a child, and he treats her like that. What a weak man.
I think the reason she couldn't pinpoint her emotions is because it's emotional abuse+narcissism. Run sis
YOU MADE ME THIS WAY JODI!
😁😂😂
Taylor Hall that was funny🤣🤣
Baby boy
Awesome and lovely content its so good. Whoever is reading and feels stressed, lonely, despised, ostracized, sick and in pain. Stand firm you will be victorious
She is beautiful and Her skin🔥🔥😍
alex zander thank you
@@monk-monk-dj That's you in the profile pic? Wow! Gorgeous! Hope you're really done with this clown and moving forward.
She need to move on with her life / get child support.
@@monk-monk-dj wish you the best I really hope you find a real brother that will appreciate you and cherish you🖤✊🏿
RAGENKING I will one day. I have to get me together now first. Thank you sweetheart
He’s ridiculous 🤦🏾♀️ he’s justifying cheating on the first month of their marriage like it’s normal. It’s sad to see someone give their best to a man/woman and never get nothing in return. Men who don’t respect nor care for their wives never support them when they just had a baby. She had a baby 7 weeks ago and he’s still expecting meals and a clean house when the focus should be on her health.
I love they way she talks, she has a great demeanor. She’s so confident in what she saying, she says things in a way that doesn’t minimize or exaggerated them. I wish I had her demeanor.
Men.pls make sure ur woman /wife feel loved before u complimenting outsiders.love her dress n hair. Wow when she said I've never felt this ugly with anyone before I felt so sad for her😥
It’s amazing to me how Judge Lynn hits it on the head 99% of the time! This lady is GOOD! You just can’t beat life experience!❤️❤️❤️✊🏽
They seem like a mismatched/odd couple to me. I think I like her...not so sure about him.
Jenni M they do seem like an odd couple
She made me cry when she started crying. I felt everything she said in the depths of the pit of my spirit. She's beautiful inside and out, I hope she's sees this and realizes that.
When a spouse fixes his/her mouth to say that their exes are better than you, it's a wrap. I've known 2 other couples to have that occur--one is divorced and the other couple is miserable together.
I felt so bad when she broke down. We've all been there. If he loses her he's crazy !
He wanted a cook from jump, but she married him anyway WTH & WTF did she expect 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
Deneice Redd-Wafer I thought he would change
Quiana Glover girl don’t we always think that 😪 sending your happiness
@J Peavy this is all true. Especially when you are done....go numb and are finally sick and tired of being sick and tired.
I accepted this behavior from a man and it broke me to nothing. I was literally a shell of my former self, even in regards to my weight. I had to remember who I was before him and regain that sense of self.
One of my hardest, but most fulfilling lessons....NEVER LOSE YOURSELF FOR ANYBODY, IT ISNT SELFISH TO PUT YOU FIRST AND THE ONLY MALE (NOT MAN) YOU CAN RAISE IS THE ONE YOU BIRTH, AND EVEN HE WILL BECOME WHO HE WANTS TO BE.
Here come the cheaters and their, “stay out of my phone before you go finding what you lookin for” comments.
😂 Right!
😂
Bambidaydreamer3 I’m prepared for whatever I look for. I’d rather have the truth. Keep it 💯 and we will have no problems. Cheaters need to keep it real you want this one and that one that’s fine. But let go of one before you get another
Very true
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Tears always win. Most of what she's feeling is internal. Never another person make you feel unworthy. U should always know your worth. FACTS!
D WILL yea you should know your worth but people make children and get married before they know their worth.
I love the judge's hair when it frames her face instead of spiking it up at the front.
She's adorable.
My first impression from the thumbnail when I was going through my suggestions was wow....what a beautiful sister. So for her to feel that way saddens me deeply. My sister you are ridiculously gorgeous. And I rebuke anything or anyone that puts the lies in your mind that makes you feel otherwise. My prayers is that you find yourself again. You are worthy sis.
I love that his first reaction was to go and hug his wife. It says alot
These comments are crazy. They were still dating and folks are expecting her to cook for him. Remember she shouldn't be giving wife privileges at girlfriend prices.
Now they're married. No one is saying that she shouldn't have helped him pay his child support. Or how he's jumping to ask her to work and no one is saying he needs to man up! The double standard is real. And unfortunate.
She's feeling insecure because she just had a baby, anyone would feel a little insecure if you feel your man is not focused on you. Throwing exes in her face. She is beautiful and I wish her the best.
So you missed the part where she said she would cook for him if he put food in her refrigerater and he did that right
@@kadams857 😁
@@kadams857 hahaha, I guess everybody did. I was only referring to the people who were chastising her for not cooking.
@@SheSpksDvine007 but hey 2:57 she good at making sandwiches
@@kadams857 she sure did 😂😂😂😂
This is a very odd couple to me. I always wonder how these people meet! 🔻Update: by that hug he does NOT like that lady and those roommate comments-HE MEANT IT!
QueenChee’sLife right
With all that he wasn’t, according to her, why did she get pregnant with their second child?
Asabi Fatosin because he was making an effort on trying to make it work at a time.
You are right. He doesn't love her like she loves him. He thinks he can do better.
Try it buddy! Bet the next not gonna love you like this one.
She gonna find real love and THAT man is gonna get all her goodness.
@@asabifatosin1150 Let me answer that question for you; I was married to a narcissist just like him, and he became more abusive with time. My third child is here due to marital rape. I actually considered abortion and I cried for three months because he took my choice away. I didn't have the abortion because it wasn't the baby's fault. I'm divorced now and happier than ever. I took my kids and left with nothing. I got tired of being hit, cursed at, choked out, forced to have sex, and all the other dispicable things he did. Found out after the divorce that he was having an affair for our entire marriage. It took me 20 years to get the fortitude and strength to leave, and unfortunately, I see a lot of heartache and wasted time in this woman's future if she stays with him. He's already breaking her down.
A woman should cook for her husband if he's working and she is a stay at home mother, hell no he is not suppose to work , pay all the bills and come home and cook his own dinner
Don't have a problem with cooking for her husband her problem is she just had a baby she had a C-section she was in pain so she's unable to keep up with cooking and cleaning as of now some people do not heal from C-sections the same
@@ANDTAY13 She said it herself she don't cook but she knows how to make good sandwiches
@@superaniya8895 That is not what she said
@@kuev1 yes she did say she dont cook but make good sandwiches @2:57 mark
Correct
He is not in to her that's pretty much it. He wants a wife not a relationship
A C-section is very painful and it's hard to get around without pain medication because it's real surgery. Ain't nobody cleaning house and cooking dinner when someone should be doing it for them...
Every woman just ain't cut out for all that cooking and cleaning, just like every man ain't capable for all that working and making money , MAYBE IT'S TIME WE AS A PEOPLE LET THAT OLD WAY OF THINKING CEASE TO EXIST????
You sound like a simp tge Derrick Jackson bs telling women what they want to hear gtfoh
Dwahn Denson exactly
You might be right. She said she was in school (at some point) so there's probably a job in her future. Like Judge Lynn's husband told her, she wasn't cut out for the stay at home life. Whatever works for you...
You're dead wrong
@@BernardBethea6339 hahaha 4 real
she's hurt you can tell he barely says nice things to her especially after having the kids she felt she has lost her charm and beauty
girl noo calm down you beautiful
This dude is not cool. There is nothing ok about telling your wife that you settled for her, constant criticism, & comparing her to your ex. Nothing she does will make him happy because she isn't what he wants. He makes her feel like nothing. How can he be a cool dude. Seems pretty lame to me
She needs therapist, it's deeper than him.
0oohhhlala girl you are right to some degree.
I agree. There's a deep hurt there. I can recognize it because I've been there.
0oohhhlala Yes indeedy. But now he’s going to be the “something to blame” rather than dealing with her root issues.
I think that as well on top of she may need more purpose outside the home, like a career.
@@brishaberries0101 Yrah, maybe start her own business she can run from home.
Although her voice can be annoying, I feel bad about him mistreating this woman. He is sneaky and narcissistic, don’t trust him!
Rico Taylor yhea he definitely seems like he got her at home while he is out playing the field
Rico Taylor a woman like her?
@Rico Taylor haha, good luck
Lady Barber 💯💯💯
Most men are snicky and she needs to seek counseling
As soon as she dropped "oh Brother you know we are going back there.." I knew it was going to be quality.
Why would you pay someone else's child support
Perhaps to get him out the jam. What if you lost your job like 30million Americans today and this Queen was the only person able to help you?
@@audi6329 what does that have to do with what I said? I didn't ask why he would accept it.
Because he was out of work and he was falling behind so I picked it up b4 I had our kids. I was working at a time he wasn’t so I looked out because I love him and my stepdaughter.
@@monk-monk-dj hi, it would be awesome if came on my channel and discussed this more
Narcissist are able to manipulate and get good hearted people to do this. They use peoples kindness as weakness.
Good for her if she really leaves. Hopefully she looks into counseling as well. I wish them the best
I cringed hearing this woman express herself. It’s almost like she’s being heard for the first time in a while. Since she accepts her husband as the head of the house who will lead them and provide, she receives what he feeds her. After listening to the case, he is being overly critical. The man may be a good person, father and provider but he is losing his wife.
whew i know exactly what she’s going through. i’m sending her happiness and health. it actually took me getting pregnant to realize i didn’t want to be with him. i didn’t want to raise my child in an environment where i wasn’t happy. I truly wish her the best, seriously.
At 16:48 wen judge lynn left eye closes wen she talk you kno its bout to go down🔥🔥
Crazy how folks still would rather stay attached to an unhappy situation instead of taking the slight loss and working on their own self care & happiness. If only she really knew her worth she’d let him bounce and figure out what he missed out on until he gets his own demons resolved.
the white guy behind her was so confused when she mad the reference to the movie Baby Boy 😂😂😂😂
Damn. I really felt it when Judge Touler said, "If you love your children, don't break their mother!"
She’s insecure, & he’s a flirt. That’s not a good mix. But I do think he loves her, like he said “you STILL are the bomb!” They need to work on communication and understanding/meeting each other’s needs.
I was insecure because I found out that he was lying so much about situations with others that I couldn’t understand it!
@@monk-monk-dj Is he a Capricorn? His actions are very much the trait of a Capricorn man. Always taking people who love them for granted thinking they had or could find better. Anyway, I am glad you left him. ( Olney in the building)🙂
She is so pretty. I love how she said she wasn’t going to cook or clean for him in the dating stage lol!! & she got the ring, You go girl. More girls should take a page out of her book, Don’t do wifely things for dudes. 🤣
Naé Songz thank you sooo much
Don't listen to this ladies, is how you end up single for life
Don't ask a man to do nothing for you!
@@RayBoomBoomRoom -- Definitely not surprised there was no comment about him stocking her refrigerator without being a husband. I.E., you can buy me food, but you can't eat any of it.
If a woman helps you with support on children who ain't hers that's, ONE WILLING TO RIDE WITH YOUR ASS UNTIL THE END!!!!
That's what real women do
Facts
I actually teared😢🥺 up a little when she said that "I've never felt as ugly as I do in this marriage". My heart fell and shattered 💔
I was pleasantly surprised by this case, an actual marriage instead of 2 people looking for tv clout. I'm not surprised things didn't get better after the show. He said he understood what Judge Lynn was saying, but I don't believe he agreed with here. He came on her fully expecting Judge Lynn to get his wife together, but wasn't expecting to be told HE was a problem.
@stop judging She was a problem because if he's making all the money then she should be handling home. But he was ALSO a problem running to exes. Regardless of the crying, just seemed unwilling to accept that he wasn't without fault.
Her self esteem was low before they meet. Previous relationships with other people cause this. If he mistreated her so badly in the beginning she should have left him then. He is pretty Rickey and she's wondering why he chose me. That's low self esteem.
@@jeffreylaury6549 I'm trying to figure out what that has to do with this comment...
I love this women. And judge lynn is FLAWLESS. This women is so smart
WOW! I love how Judge Toler sees through almost all of these sessions! I loved it when Judge Toler saw Mrs Glover's Pain and cut right through the matter. Mrs. Glover broke my heart with the hurt she was enduring. I also loved how Mr Glover expressed pain too when Judge Toler reached his heart! His hug at the end!!
Maybe he is cheating 🧐
I am on a divorce court binge .... Its a guide to what not to do in a marriage . Judge Toler rocks 😁🤟
Oh she is insecure, don't have any confidence and she is looking for him to lover her,more than she love herself.
Great observation, I agree.
yep yep.
Nichole Samuda somewhat true but my problem was trying to meet his expectations and I forgot about me.
@Here kitty kitty I agree! That's exactly what I saw! She couldn't put it in words, but I understood her, clearly
Nichole Samuda I completely understand her, narcissists are maladaptive, they cannot change.
Omg, I'm sending this lady so much love! You are beautiful, queen... I hope she sees her crown again!
Judge Lynn that was so beautiful the way you explain to him about his wife and God continue to be with them and you and your beautiful family
That dude isn't as committed as the woman is in this marriage. She is coming with 100% energy, and he is coming with maybe 60 to 70, where the other 30 going? Sad, she seems to be a good wife, and going by the show he wants to have his cake and eat it. My guy step your game up, you ain't perfect, once she starts picking at every single thing that annoys her about you, you won't like it either, it goes both way.
@stop judging Maybe she did, but that dude been playing her and then act all innocent. Nothing worst than a gaslighter.
“You made me this way Jody”..I felt that
Husband is tall, fit, and handsome, with plenty of dating options, and he knows it. Wife is insecure about her looks, and weight gain, after the last baby, and she feels totally burned out and overwhelmed, because she's not built to be a stay at home wife and mother. Relationship is damaged beyond repair. Divorce is the only solution at this point.
Beautiful!! ❤️ I am a fan of the judge!!
I'm tired of him already!! She loves him to the moon and back. But she has got to figure out how to love herself to the moon and back. Or keep dealing with pain
He's acting like he doesn't know what's going on.. he's systematically undermining and destroying her to keep her small so she'll never rise up.. RISE MY QUEEN YOU'RE SO BEAUTIFUL AND WORTHY
He can definitely improve his communication and realize that being a SAHM is WORK. I did it for 9 years...cooking, cleaning, running errands, making lunches, keeping the children clean and teaching them, making time for yourself, being intimate with him, I mean the list is practically endless. But, it doesn't look like she's working to him because the things she has to take care of isn't being taken care of.
I know exactly where she's coming from. I went through the same with my husband. We went to marriage counseling so many times for ten years. Finally, I couldn't take it anymore and wanted a divorce. Our last attempt at our relationship we sat down with a beautiful black couple who broke down the importance of treating eachother like the king and queen we are. Now our relationship is so much better.
Come through Judge with the insight! WOW than you! I always learn from your feed back to these married couples.
Very well said judge
She PAID HIS CHILD SUPPORT!
Jess Raw yes because I loved him
@@monk-monk-dj when you needed to love yourself, narcisstic men like this use beautiful empath women like you. ❤
Let them pay their own child support
@@monk-monk-dj -- Did he care for, provide for, and assume responsibility for the child you had that isn't biologically his?
Hang Tyme yes he did and see that was edited too. This clip made him look extra bad. They just showed my emotional parts but there was a lot of conversation in the court room pertaining to his ex like they pieced stuff together, I talked about how he step up in the beginning of our marriage, and etc that’s why the judge said that he was descent to her. It was more to this episode and they just made me look completely week and he was the villain. It was sad to watch.
@@monk-monk-dj I see. So, are you both now working on your marriage? Is couples counseling something you would both consider? I wish you all the best.
Both need counseling and also you can't change anyone,but i paid attention when she said that she was never taught how to be a wife,it was interesting.
It's sad that in today's society, only a very lucky few are "thought" to be an ideal husband or wife.
You're a product of your parents and unfortunately the "role models" just aren't there anymore.
You everywhere
What a refreshing episode. ☺️ Everyone acted their age, the guy opened his eyes to a different point of view by the end, and Judge Lynn got out of there without a headache. 😂
This is what happens when you marry a man who you only should of slept with once & kept it moving. They have zero compatibility 😟🤦🏽♀️
True
Facts
D was too good 😂🤣🤣
I think she's got some serious depression and self esteem issues, she needs counseling, as for her not cleaning, if she's a stay at home wife and she's home all day, there is no reason she can't clean. She reminds me of people in my family that keep a dirty house, they home all day and things just get worse and worse, roaches out of control, trash over flowing and dishes ain't been washed in weeks. Somebody has to be the grown up and have the conversation, this marriage is a partnership, you take care of the house and I take care of the finances. It's not fair for a person to work all day and then have to come home and still have to work more when you've been home all day. It doesn't matter whom the bread winner is if it's the man or the woman, whomever is home to be a house wife or house husband or even just home because they are unemployed you need to be nice enough to make sure your mate comes home to at a minimum a clean house. Aside from that, I think the judge is right, there is something else going on that the wife is not articulating and that's the real problem.
Phoenix Tremayne no I had the c section and that’s why I couldn’t do as much. Our house was never dirty
@@monk-monk-dj I can only go by what is shown on the show
@@SoapFam no, you said there's no excuse for not cleaning, meanwhile she stated in the show that she had a C-section. How can you be severed in half and still be expected to do house work?