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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 12 พ.ย. 2019
  • Eventually a woman gets tired of compromising her self-respect for love. Syncere says Mark has lied and disrespected her on several occasions and she’s not going to stand for it anymore. Mark says he cheats on Syncere because she has a bad attitude and she gets on his nerves. Can Judge Lynn Toler help figure this mess out and set this couple straight or are they too far gone?
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  • @koffe323
    @koffe323 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3547

    i would rather be in a cold bed alone than be in a warm bed with the enemy

    • @83ttaylor
      @83ttaylor 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      You said a mouth full🙌🏾🙌🏾🤗🤗

    • @queenredbone7405
      @queenredbone7405 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Sunshine Diaz you better preach Hunnti!!!!!

    • @rae_akila
      @rae_akila 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Girl!

    • @Beast_Lee
      @Beast_Lee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      The reason for my last divorce

    • @Passion85031
      @Passion85031 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      She desperate & very insecure

  • @queentasia9455
    @queentasia9455 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4031

    I respect the fact she gave to the homeless instead of tearing the clothes up👏🏽👏🏽

    • @Keati1708
      @Keati1708 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @messiahlove6909
      @messiahlove6909 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Tasia Pittman right

    • @ondreahall1536
      @ondreahall1536 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      No respect from me on that.
      We women have got to stop being controlled by our emotions!

    • @whitneydavis8341
      @whitneydavis8341 4 ปีที่แล้ว +137

      @@ondreahall1536 I feel like her emotions was well under control she gave it away instead of messing it up I would have did the same thing

    • @kenzhernandez6276
      @kenzhernandez6276 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      No honestly! Gonna have to remember that lol

  • @lilmakori
    @lilmakori 3 ปีที่แล้ว +442

    I just wanna hug her. Girl being single is not a disease. It's a luxury. You have the freedom to do what you want when you want.

    • @sspears4559
      @sspears4559 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes!!!!!

    • @SISTAGURL
      @SISTAGURL ปีที่แล้ว +1

      These dumb men keep saying we’re going to die alone with cats so they can keep doing this to BW. Alone does not mean lonely sistas

    • @lilmakori
      @lilmakori ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@SISTAGURL exactly. Some people like their own company

    • @darkpisces8125
      @darkpisces8125 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She deserves no sympathy. Females like her show how desperate women are to keep a man.

    • @tonshmar
      @tonshmar ปีที่แล้ว

      Is she an influencer? She looks awfully familiar?? 🤔 She looks like this gal who is now married to a white guy??

  • @carriemtsh9648
    @carriemtsh9648 2 ปีที่แล้ว +270

    She spoke and healed many people with her wise words ❤️

    • @QueenGleaux
      @QueenGleaux ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I just saw the ending to this on IG had to find the t=full video!!

    • @bgwalking1
      @bgwalking1 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same girl same 😁

    • @brittanymckinney1141
      @brittanymckinney1141 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I was one of them

    • @devontafranklin5068
      @devontafranklin5068 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Literally had a tear come down my face

  • @haworoblay9327
    @haworoblay9327 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1669

    She is so lucky that they don't have kids.

    • @jackkofalltrades6873
      @jackkofalltrades6873 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      hawo roblay they actually have one child 😕

    • @gamegirl85
      @gamegirl85 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      jackk Of All Trades not together

    • @asabifatosin1150
      @asabifatosin1150 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      They have a child

    • @Feenyx118
      @Feenyx118 4 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      @@jackkofalltrades6873 HE has a child, she doesn't have a kid.

    • @shaynation2634
      @shaynation2634 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Exactly

  • @Whistlesonthewind
    @Whistlesonthewind 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2370

    She is literally gorgeous. Bathed in melanin and pretty as a doll. This is sad.

    • @ISUPKSTLOUIS-kk1ny
      @ISUPKSTLOUIS-kk1ny 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      WHAT DOES HER SKIN HAVE TO DO WITH ANYTHING

    • @makaylacotton0928
      @makaylacotton0928 4 ปีที่แล้ว +203

      ISUPK ST.LOUIS damn they just saying she’s a beautiful black woman. What’s your problem?

    • @Whistlesonthewind
      @Whistlesonthewind 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      Makayla cotton Right! Plus, this dude is supposed to be apart of the one of those religions that encourages black people to love themselves; yet he has an issue with a black woman being praised for how beautiful she is. Smh Talk about a confused mind.

    • @kocominaj6599
      @kocominaj6599 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      She is gorgeous

    • @kocominaj6599
      @kocominaj6599 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      @@ISUPKSTLOUIS-kk1ny it has everything to do with it

  • @azrcn_
    @azrcn_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    I watched this video 2 years ago when I was in relationship with someone who didnt value me and put me through a lot of pain. Now Im watching this 2 years after . Im doing so good in life. Thanks to Judge Lynn’s advice. Shes so right , this is the best thing that ever happened to me.

    • @msg3156
      @msg3156 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lmao value is something you create how can you value someone if they dont value themselves enough to be healthy

  • @asheenprince8803
    @asheenprince8803 4 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    I got tears in my eyes for this young lady .He is a narcissist and will never change .

  • @LadyLikeBabyKay
    @LadyLikeBabyKay 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2364

    She's drowning in tears, snot all over her face, talking about "the sex is good" whet??? Ladies, level up.

    • @shalanathomas7751
      @shalanathomas7751 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      LOL IKR!!!!

    • @staywinning3299
      @staywinning3299 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      LadyLikeBabyKay sad

    • @nakiastringer2992
      @nakiastringer2992 4 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      FACTS, she better rock the boat like Aliyah said and find another one.

    • @PranaChi369
      @PranaChi369 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @Elyse George they have to master the skill of dick-matizing....

    • @catyjones6295
      @catyjones6295 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I do not know. Not enough MEN to go around. In jail, drug addicts,or whatever else. Side bar So, we just love hard

  • @trlive5942
    @trlive5942 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1533

    She better be glad she didn’t have kids with him.

    • @angelalopez8897
      @angelalopez8897 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      They have one child together.

    • @iamapearl5952
      @iamapearl5952 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Glad he didn’t give her any STIs

    • @shioriryukaze
      @shioriryukaze 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@iamapearl5952 that was the first thing I said! Honey you need to go get yourself checked for STDs, mdt's and mpqs!!!

    • @MalcolmJosephMJCross
      @MalcolmJosephMJCross 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Dodged that bullet like the matrix

    • @laurieg.3016
      @laurieg.3016 4 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      No, HE has one. She does not. Lord only knows what he's teaching his son or daughter with his behavior and attitude.

  • @mydigitalspace13
    @mydigitalspace13 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    When the judge said,"you are gorgeous" ....some dude loudly said Yessssss 😍

  • @DREAMENTERTAINMENT-DE
    @DREAMENTERTAINMENT-DE 3 ปีที่แล้ว +238

    She inspires me a lot and I’m only 12 watching this but I can use the tips for later when i get older. I love this woman

    • @gabybitch6994
      @gabybitch6994 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Yess please listen to her cus she is so right keep ur head up baby girl don’t let these boys play u

    • @Cal-xo3fj
      @Cal-xo3fj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Absolutely darlin this amazing woman is being 100% real, don’t let yourself break over a guy

    • @owlfeathers6615
      @owlfeathers6615 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yaaaasss!

    • @delishme2
      @delishme2 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Good on you sweetheart, thats so smart of you. From one woman to a future one, i would reiterate what she says and break down what is underneath this. Love on yourself !!!. Set boundaries, work out what they are. By that i mean, what are the behaviours/ actions of others you will NOT tollerate. What are the base line things you know will hurt you and hurt a healthy relationship. These cases probably show you what that stuff is, and what people do to each other out of selfishness and ignorance, so it's good to watch. When you know what you don't want, then it's easy to let the men you are with know from the start. When they know and still do, then you have your answer about who they are, and how much of yourself you should invest. People that care, respect and love you, just don't do those things, only broken people do. Don't let people cross your boundaries and when they do, back yourself with confidence amd walk away or send them packing. That is how you stay whole, by loving on yourself and respecting yourself and holding yourself and others to the standards you set for good and healthy relationships. Until you can do all that with confidence, don't date, and definately don't have sex. It's like going into a snake pit without a weapon, you will get bitten. Good luck honey.

  • @crechb6050
    @crechb6050 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1372

    He is a narcissist. He Has no empathy, and emotionally abusive. Girl run... actually sprint.

    • @AuthorJanaeMarie
      @AuthorJanaeMarie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Yup, and she's a codependent.

    • @iconikei
      @iconikei 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Nah forget a sprint she better HAUL ASS

    • @dcoleimpact2063
      @dcoleimpact2063 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Crech B 😂😂😂👏👏👏👊🏾

    • @miawilliams6653
      @miawilliams6653 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Yes that dusty bum is a narcissist. He will reap many stripes .no worries. 😡😡😡😡🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

    • @dyheshataylor869
      @dyheshataylor869 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Crech B teleport! My ex was like that! I cried to the Lord saying I didn’t want to hurt anymore. Me being naive and didn’t leave God had him LEAVE me, laughed in my face in the rain!
      Now I am Happily married to THE MAN OF MY DREAMS❗️❤️

  • @SharpieDarlingLLC
    @SharpieDarlingLLC 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2333

    Judge Toler’s delivery when she is giving advice is powerful.

    • @shamaneikajohnson7117
      @shamaneikajohnson7117 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      I was in tears as she was talking to her at the end 😢

    • @k.b.8994
      @k.b.8994 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      That was one of the saddest episodes. Girl is far gone... she needs to go into rehab for that man.

    • @bucckjones6420
      @bucckjones6420 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Courtney Takia yes, she has a gift with how she speaks

    • @oseanferguson7470
      @oseanferguson7470 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I get goosebumps everytime!!

    • @tonyahurt6058
      @tonyahurt6058 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      YES!! Wish she was still on DC

  • @Danad0ll
    @Danad0ll 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    “why would he changed you’ll never leave” 🥺

  • @araisininthesun5958
    @araisininthesun5958 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I can't even shed a tear. This hits so deeply in my soul!
    Ladies, ladies, girls, daughters!!!!!!! PLEASE!
    Love from a distance! Don't put up with this evil from men in our lives.
    Don't fuss, don't fight, just walk away.

  • @Summerbreeze345
    @Summerbreeze345 4 ปีที่แล้ว +714

    He ain't even all that walking like he's God's gift to a woman 😒

    • @SiimplyAngie7088
      @SiimplyAngie7088 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Meme 1981 PREACH ❌❌

    • @BernardBethea6339
      @BernardBethea6339 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      These are the men you women choose each and everyday not giving the good man the time of day and get on here talking like it's not you yall love the pritty boys the thugs and men with money married or not when you get burned you won't take responsibility for your choices and say all men are bad most of you been in this situation this is why you hate it such but keep in mind no man will want you after you been ran through by these sorry men you choose then complain where are all the good men. Give me a break

    • @TruValidity
      @TruValidity 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@BernardBethea6339 You really came in the comments to blame women after watching this? Wow

    • @amberdagoddess111
      @amberdagoddess111 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I approve this message lmmlll he is weak he cant deal with a strong woman bet that and he's insecure his damn self clearly smh I hope she drops his behind

    • @Anthony80x
      @Anthony80x 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Men like that will continue to act like that as long as seemingly good women continue to fall all over them and take thier crap.

  • @christainyancy54
    @christainyancy54 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1062

    Judge Toler was mad and even went up to her and hugged her. Man she felt this case

    • @felicialatson6910
      @felicialatson6910 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Yes she did! I felt that too

    • @tonishaegidden5260
      @tonishaegidden5260 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Judge Toler is right there are man like that and they don't want to take responsibility say what th're about. their want to trample on the female and spirit their crushed I endure Mrs Toler talk don't mess up my community...

    • @jessisrael535
      @jessisrael535 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      The girl was broken. Only a shell of a person. I was in tears looking at this.

    • @ingridjohn3455
      @ingridjohn3455 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      She sees that she is weak and needs all the support she gets..... judge Toler is always 💯 be strong girl once u get yourself straight you will be ok

    • @skywatchersdreams
      @skywatchersdreams 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I love the hug at the end. This woman has big brain and heart.

  • @foxyroxy1010
    @foxyroxy1010 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I love that " a man should be an option not a definition " women please listen and believe that.

  • @Msvonea
    @Msvonea 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    This was me for 2 years I left while he was sleep and never looked back

  • @TheSoftLifeMeditations
    @TheSoftLifeMeditations 4 ปีที่แล้ว +501

    Whyyyyy is sheee stiiiiillll theeeeeeeeeeeeeereeeee

    • @JuanitaMichelle
      @JuanitaMichelle 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      gänsefüßchen thai self esteem on the ground

    • @Passion85031
      @Passion85031 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Because she stupid

    • @hiddenpayne9130
      @hiddenpayne9130 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Exaccccccccctly!!!!

    • @be_you_til_fulljourney2033
      @be_you_til_fulljourney2033 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      gänsefüßchen thai Because she doesn’t see her self-worth. She measures it by a man

    • @nnamdiphilip3011
      @nnamdiphilip3011 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Well, if you don't know your worth you can tolerate this rubbish.

  • @780baby
    @780baby 4 ปีที่แล้ว +695

    Sometimes leaving is the ONLY thing left to do.

    • @misstinahamilton5714
      @misstinahamilton5714 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yes queen ! She needs to bounce - there is no other solution !

    • @melanatedaboriginal4752
      @melanatedaboriginal4752 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      The ONLY THING & THE BEST THING TO DO!

    • @alexanderbemar2637
      @alexanderbemar2637 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      But even leaving gets some being murdered.

    • @juliajulia1835
      @juliajulia1835 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      She ended up staying.

    • @hurricaneheli79
      @hurricaneheli79 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@alexanderbemar2637
      You watch too many crime shows but your not wrong either.

  • @AlwaysClassyTV
    @AlwaysClassyTV 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I at first got mad at her for staying but I was there at one point. I was afraid of starting over. Once I let that go everything fell into place ended up with two associate degrees, finishing my bachelors degree, and enjoying life.

  • @laetitiaausborn8130
    @laetitiaausborn8130 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I do like that she gave the clothes to the homeless, and didn’t destroy them. This is how you know she’s a good woman, with a good heart, and deserves so much better.

    • @JenessaAndKingston
      @JenessaAndKingston ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lol that’s funny imagine him driving down the road and seeing a homeless person in his clothes and shoes 😅 im dead.

  • @shaqriusmaddox2325
    @shaqriusmaddox2325 4 ปีที่แล้ว +439

    She’s way too beautiful !! Once she realizes her worth she will not put up with anything ! All women should realize their worth and not take anything from a man!

    • @jesterarts734
      @jesterarts734 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      First and foremost, he's trash. My question...if she wasn't too beautiful, let's say she was overweight... would that change anything?

    • @zee.234
      @zee.234 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ShayMarie.00 agreed!!

    • @wkhristafer
      @wkhristafer 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This is false. What'll happen is, she'll put on her stern face and make decent men jump thru hoops before eventually going back to this type of men. Are we really gonna act like this isn't how these situations play out?

    • @jesterarts734
      @jesterarts734 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I ask because you say, "she's way too beautiful" as if, if she was ugly...she should accept it. lol

    • @lewischinquita4278
      @lewischinquita4278 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      If and when she realized her worth then she will stop the unclean videos, she will stop sending nude pictures to strangers and ect. She do not respect herself and he do not respect her either. People will treat you how you allow them to.

  • @gogoscorner1111
    @gogoscorner1111 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1140

    He is a true narcissist to the core! He's with her because she feeds his ego by being hurt. He's evil. I hope she listens.... and he's not even cute with that beard! Ugh 😒

    • @Shabzana
      @Shabzana 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      wow, ha

    • @dashawnalong6144
      @dashawnalong6144 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @John Smith exactly hes trash and nasty

    • @stacytucker
      @stacytucker 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Damn right

    • @roznichols371
      @roznichols371 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      In the update show she went back to him.

    • @AmayaRue2360
      @AmayaRue2360 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@roznichols371 really?🙄 some women. Do you have the link by any chance?

  • @samonethomas8099
    @samonethomas8099 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I understand the pain she went through. It’s better to be alone until someone values you and respects your loyalty.

  • @xandra_5099
    @xandra_5099 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I lived this life for almost a decade....literally every person in my life knew and tried to warn me to leave. Trauma bonding is no joke. This type of relationship will destroy you. Its been 4 years since I left him, I'm still healing from it today.

    • @DomeknoCJonez
      @DomeknoCJonez 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ❤❤❤❤ keep going. My dumbazz did 17 yrs..

  • @LYJmusic
    @LYJmusic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +826

    He’s not cute, he’s arrogant, he isn’t supportive, he’s negative, he’s a cheater. He’s a liability. I hope she really leaves him.

    • @asmaj.631
      @asmaj.631 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      LYJmusic he ain’t shit but he’s cute, unfortunately 😭

    • @luvashxo
      @luvashxo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      He’s a narcissist, you can’t cure narcissism! People like that you run! Far!

    • @mosesomorogbe3678
      @mosesomorogbe3678 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Those are the qualities girls like. That's why she's crying for him. She won't like a good guy.

    • @ashabifatosinrich5403
      @ashabifatosinrich5403 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      All that, yes. So worthless!

    • @nanakadija1557
      @nanakadija1557 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He ain't shit but he is cute fosho

  • @feliciahepburn2854
    @feliciahepburn2854 4 ปีที่แล้ว +763

    "In my defense, I can't kill him" I felt that in my soul!

    • @youmakemelaugh1797
      @youmakemelaugh1797 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Honnnnnnnnney yes they play too much🙇🏿‍♀️

    • @k.b.8994
      @k.b.8994 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      If she feels that badly bout him... why? Her self esteem is low down dirty shame.

    • @tumama030
      @tumama030 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Yet, she stay with him. Smh

    • @lakeishacampbell2780
      @lakeishacampbell2780 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Looool rolling dwl

    • @asjeje
      @asjeje 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      But if a man said that it would be a problem

  • @dspenderella9671
    @dspenderella9671 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    "Starting over" is really "just getting started" when you finally get it right.
    Saying you don't wanna start over is like saying, "I know I'm going the wrong way, but instead of making a u-turn & going the right way, I'm just gonna continue to get further and further lost until I run out of gas - that doesn't make any sense.

  • @CindyPaul
    @CindyPaul 2 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    I recently left a relationship due to this reason its been a month and its been hard and after watching this video. I feel stronger and understand that I do deserve better and I would rather be by myself then be with someone that doesn't treat me right.

    • @suchafknladyyy5780
      @suchafknladyyy5780 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Period sis and u deserve happy and peace and I know the universe got u....

    • @brittthecancerqueenempress9137
      @brittthecancerqueenempress9137 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Right I was just in a situation like this as well with low down trifling trash individual just like him n I’m done of being sick n tired I felt like she was talking to me in this episode too although it’s been hard n was I know I don’t deserve this and he put me through trying ti destroy when out destroying others

    • @VenishaButler
      @VenishaButler ปีที่แล้ว

      How are you now?

  • @thickseptember
    @thickseptember 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2548

    Sis said “in my defense, I can’t kill him”😂😂😂😂😂😂🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿

    • @shaym754
      @shaym754 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      thick september I’m saying lmfaoooo

    • @coriesmith2633
      @coriesmith2633 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      He isn’t even trying to hide it he is blatant with it..... but is waiting for him to step up to the plate. She better off going to get one of them thirsty niggas she shaking for

    • @dyheshataylor869
      @dyheshataylor869 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      The GraceFX well...,ya know....... good point 😂😂😂😂

    • @Acecentricsp05
      @Acecentricsp05 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Threats of murder are only toxic coming from males I guess

    • @la-trelboss4599
      @la-trelboss4599 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I'm with you 😁😁😁

  • @justtracie7950
    @justtracie7950 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1217

    This guy is the most disrespectful guy I’ve ever seen, but he can only do to her what she allows. I pray that she learns her self worth.

    • @heatlifer3640
      @heatlifer3640 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Being in a relationship and being twerk queen on social media is also disrespectful.

    • @sufundasamuels2313
      @sufundasamuels2313 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Exactly, once she can take care of her own being, I believe she will be in a better place.

    • @lenisesanders912
      @lenisesanders912 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes, I agree with you. And he is proud of it.

    • @shan5623
      @shan5623 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He is very disrespectful

    • @heatlifer3640
      @heatlifer3640 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Catherine Gutierrez because aint no committed woman gonna be showing her body to other people. She ain’t doing it for other women. It’s for men. That’s how it’s disrespectful. A RESPECTFUL woman won’t twerk for other men.

  • @eboniebo1367
    @eboniebo1367 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Judge Toler words were POWERFUL!

  • @realblackman45
    @realblackman45 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    "You cant make people do right by you. But you can decide how often you let them do you wrong." Bars.

  • @blackkjuice
    @blackkjuice 4 ปีที่แล้ว +538

    Dammm he's a gaslighting narcissist and she don't think she can get anyone else. No self esteem!!

    • @BernardBethea6339
      @BernardBethea6339 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      She can get any simp she wants shaki g her ass all over ig

    • @Passion85031
      @Passion85031 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      None at all I don’t get it. Even if it’s daddy issues come on. Look how that booty meat move look at her beauty she can get ANY man she wants hell she can have a plethora of men financing all her needs. Sis plz plz plz I am begging u to wake up baby girl u r worth so much more than his nasty ass 🤬

    • @shesabeauty8027
      @shesabeauty8027 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yep and it’s so sad

    • @Passion85031
      @Passion85031 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Beverly Allen I understand what u r saying but come on now 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @sterfry3182
      @sterfry3182 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      He didn't gaslight I this, he admitted to everything she said he did.

  • @126677dede
    @126677dede 4 ปีที่แล้ว +533

    She is so pretty, how dare she be in love with a pile of feces with a beard

    • @tyrishasmith-grady703
      @tyrishasmith-grady703 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Denise DeShields 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Shabzana
      @Shabzana 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      lol lol lol

    • @debbiethomas4472
      @debbiethomas4472 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂👏

    • @sashawilson6949
      @sashawilson6949 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂😂

    • @PiscesPrincess87
      @PiscesPrincess87 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Right she needs to learn her worth. Some women sitting around waiting for men to get old and get it right.

  • @erinjohnson4273
    @erinjohnson4273 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I remember this case. I wanted to shake her and ask how much does he need to disrespect you, in order to wake up

  • @MrOctober510
    @MrOctober510 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I love the wisdom that Judge Toler pours into people

  • @zenz1624
    @zenz1624 4 ปีที่แล้ว +538

    People need to be strong enough to stay single 😆

    • @veronicawatson2525
      @veronicawatson2525 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I've been single for 18 years

    • @nicoladavis580
      @nicoladavis580 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Zenz 1 girl nail on the head. You have a lot of happy single people living fulfilled lives

    • @venessakamau4144
      @venessakamau4144 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You couldn't have said it better. If you cant be satisfied by being alone, then you cant satisfy anyone your with. We should learn to appreciate and love our selves first before we allow anyone in our lives.i learnt alot from Dr. Myles Maroe teachings of "love being single" before loving Anyone else.

    • @iamstela4012
      @iamstela4012 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thats true

    • @chelseyp.6860
      @chelseyp.6860 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Been single 24 years and I’m 24 lol. It’s hard sometimes but chileee it’s worth it.

  • @uncommoninspiration8859
    @uncommoninspiration8859 4 ปีที่แล้ว +913

    There's a saying, "What goes around comes around." He will meet a woman he's head over heels with one day, and she will drag him through the mud.

    • @shaynamonique1906
      @shaynamonique1906 4 ปีที่แล้ว +102

      That or he will reap what he sows in different ways in his life. People like this always feel the wrath eventually.

    • @anditsreyna020
      @anditsreyna020 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Boomerang

    • @shioriryukaze
      @shioriryukaze 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@anditsreyna020 He is Eddie Murphy for real!!!! Or Martin Laurence if.you remember that movie....

    • @drethethinker6418
      @drethethinker6418 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Doubt it. Women are apparently more head over heels for him. He can tell them he has a wife and they will still sleep with him for months apparently.

    • @misslauren6798
      @misslauren6798 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@drethethinker6418 I agree with you. I doubt it as well.

  • @briannatathamrhoden3190
    @briannatathamrhoden3190 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    That speech that the Judge gave her‼️, and this ain’t for her alone this for all my ladies out there who feel like they are stuck.

  • @HorseGirl4
    @HorseGirl4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    After everything the judge had to say to her, of course she didn't listen... 😢

  • @sebrinaalarcon6572
    @sebrinaalarcon6572 4 ปีที่แล้ว +589

    Steve Harvey put it like this:
    You went through 5yrs of that situation. Do you want to go through 5 more years? If the answer is no, then run.

    • @honeylilies1
      @honeylilies1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Grace Munich clearly people need to hear it like this cause we have girls like in the video that don’t got to common sense to RUN from bullshit like this

    • @neresycoote9740
      @neresycoote9740 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      An what if u have kids have no help no job help needed please

    • @kadracliot5840
      @kadracliot5840 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Neresy Coote my mom walked out with two kids no place no job no money no clothes and went to a whole new country but that was the best decision she ever made because after that she found a place a job and she became healthy including her two children and one of them is me. Trust me those kids should never make u feel like u need to stay, at the end of the day u will end up hurting yourself and them🤷‍♀️ Also one day your kids will applause you for taking a big step. Speaking for my self I have learned from my mom that I should never let a man treat me how he wants but how I want if that ain’t happening them open the door and walk out You will see the light 💡

    • @14omoon
      @14omoon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kadracliot5840 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @tinybootykia4411
      @tinybootykia4411 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      True 💯💯💯

  • @Yuli2013
    @Yuli2013 4 ปีที่แล้ว +508

    A man will go as far as you’re willing to let him.

    • @manisyaya3199
      @manisyaya3199 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      True

    • @loranbolding8670
      @loranbolding8670 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Fact...women need greater standards and more respect for themselves. We need to lift each other up or men like that will rip us apart

    • @ISUPKSTLOUIS-kk1ny
      @ISUPKSTLOUIS-kk1ny 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      A MAN IS A MAN AND NO WOMAN IS LETTING HIM DO ANYTHING!

    • @amaripoole4847
      @amaripoole4847 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      A BOY maybe. Real men have respect.

    • @iamstela4012
      @iamstela4012 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@amaripoole4847 true

  • @sidracula2.050
    @sidracula2.050 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This judge is one hell of a woman! ❤

  • @Tajographist
    @Tajographist 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "You are gooooooor-geous. GOOOOOORGEOUS" SHE NEEDED that

  • @miztinkerbellno2
    @miztinkerbellno2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +248

    This man cares nothing about her....nothing! He does this because she allows him to!

    • @lolag.9620
      @lolag.9620 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      loving the natural me exactly.

    • @multyz1
      @multyz1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      She also cares nothing about herself to be with a man like that.

    • @Mrstookie101
      @Mrstookie101 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      PERIOD!!

    • @tamaradula
      @tamaradula 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      loving the natural me ... 👏🏾👏🏾Period ! They can only do what you allow them to do . She needs to get a backbone instead of a Wishbone

    • @alexvensel5730
      @alexvensel5730 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah, but he's just going to do it to the next girl and the next, five at once, who knows knowing demons like him. He's a toxic, no good fool.

  • @kristine6829
    @kristine6829 4 ปีที่แล้ว +875

    “In my defense, I can’t kill him”... I felt her pain and frustration

    • @sweetsweet81
      @sweetsweet81 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I felt that too!!!!

    • @ande1805
      @ande1805 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Bruh!! If someone got you in so much pain like that, you need to x him all the way out of your life

    • @qdeezy5011
      @qdeezy5011 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Y’all crazy as hell

    • @shalanathomas7751
      @shalanathomas7751 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yesss!!

    • @shaynamonique1906
      @shaynamonique1906 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too.

  • @ebonieadams1394
    @ebonieadams1394 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The clip of Judge telling Ms. Ma'am how it is brought me here.. I wonder what happened.. I hope she found happiness❤

  • @AreUTakingTheBubble
    @AreUTakingTheBubble 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I love how calmly the judge hears them both out even though she’s hearing nonsense.

  • @LYJmusic
    @LYJmusic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +570

    “You do not need a man to define you. A man should be an option not a definition” Judge Lynn Toler

    • @reginathomas2154
      @reginathomas2154 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      That's right!

    • @yenh1144
      @yenh1144 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      To this day I still use that

  • @reddqueen9722
    @reddqueen9722 4 ปีที่แล้ว +429

    This dude is a clown he's blatantly disrespectful and shows no sign of remorse.

  • @angelawilliams6913
    @angelawilliams6913 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The way she said GORGEOUS in deep vocal is FACTS

  • @TheLaShawnya
    @TheLaShawnya 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I saw a clip of this on Facebook, and had to come here to see the whole episode! Wow!😳

  • @The.S.M.Evans.91
    @The.S.M.Evans.91 4 ปีที่แล้ว +192

    I wish Judge Toler could call Sallie Mae and kick her out my life like she kicked that guy out her courtroom.

    • @unalteredbeauty1246
      @unalteredbeauty1246 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Spencer Evans 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. And let the church say, “Amen!!!”

    • @SoulSista6579
      @SoulSista6579 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      For real for real 😭😭😭😭

    • @tickles14
      @tickles14 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Unaltered Beauty AMEN sista! 🙏🏾🙌🏾

    • @beemonique8466
      @beemonique8466 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hilarious

    • @hazelscorpio85
      @hazelscorpio85 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Spencer Evans 😂

  • @BlackgirlStan
    @BlackgirlStan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +238

    she's gorgeous. sis, please bounce! you're better than this mess

  • @makingmovesvips
    @makingmovesvips 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I hope they got it together or left it alone 🤦🏾‍♀️🙏🏾🙌🏾
    28 years old. OMG she has so much life ahead of her. 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @StarrJ2912
    @StarrJ2912 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The ending is sad… he’s still trying to be toxic and she’s still considering. 😢😢😢 Prayers to her 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @annie.j2167
    @annie.j2167 4 ปีที่แล้ว +665

    She is literally STUNNING and deserves WAY better.

    • @kondwanimututa2302
      @kondwanimututa2302 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      No she doesn't shes crazy, doesn't think before she does things, has no values or self respect. I think it's a perfect match

    • @austinabanidoni5835
      @austinabanidoni5835 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She isn’t stunning. Nice bum though

    • @sandrastephens
      @sandrastephens 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      She looks stunning to me. She deserves better than that gentleman.

    • @dabathiam9339
      @dabathiam9339 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Austin Abanidoni pleaseee she’s gorgeous.

    • @austinabanidoni5835
      @austinabanidoni5835 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Daba Thiam she’s ok. Nice pert bum.

  • @AllThingsMyTV
    @AllThingsMyTV 4 ปีที่แล้ว +928

    *This was soooo hard to watch!🥺 Made me realize how far I've come...This could never be me again, and DON'T LET IT BE YOU*

  • @JocelyneMWandiofficial
    @JocelyneMWandiofficial 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Remember this man’s face. If you see him ladies run lol

  • @BabyDonZie
    @BabyDonZie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I came here after seeing Judge Toler Post on Instagram. Had to watch this case

  • @marthapage9270
    @marthapage9270 4 ปีที่แล้ว +176

    He really think he's something, boy stop fooling yourself.

    • @sweetsweet81
      @sweetsweet81 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Of course he thinks he's something. These females out here making him feel that way!!!!

    • @sweetsweet81
      @sweetsweet81 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Piatequila he needs a Jacqueline Broyer in his life (from Boomerang)

    • @Ms-Jones
      @Ms-Jones 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      He doesn't even have his own car! I don't get it smdh

    • @brooklynforever1990
      @brooklynforever1990 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He’s a joke and he will never change

    • @ondreahall1536
      @ondreahall1536 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      But the sistas' keep letting him do it...so whose fooling who???

  • @Jan.S
    @Jan.S 4 ปีที่แล้ว +733

    I actually feel bad for her!! She was very honest when she said. “Its all that I know! I pray god bless her to move in and find someone worth her love. I wanted to smack that grin off his face😡😡

    • @j.t.7671
      @j.t.7671 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      He was smiling the whole time. I wanted to punch him.

    • @itsme3k
      @itsme3k 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      She's in her peak years! Guys will be chasing her down.

    • @smoothking5873
      @smoothking5873 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I dont feel bad for her a bit guess Lynn toler waste her time and energy of her because she went right back to the dude.

    • @ShadesofSage
      @ShadesofSage 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Right?! 😡😤😡

    • @sufundasamuels2313
      @sufundasamuels2313 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I felt her hurt and frustration too! I hope she left his ass and started focusing on herself.

  • @willymase02
    @willymase02 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This episode went Viral all across social media and I bumped into it and I’m glad that I did. So much rawness and truth. So many people identify because we have all been there. Those words by Judge Lynn were so powerful and I needed to hear that just how many others needed to. If you’re reading this I hope it gets better. You won’t be stuck there forever.

  • @alexismclean7667
    @alexismclean7667 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This EXACTLY HOW MY child’s father treats me I’m almost 9 months pregnant 🤰🏾 & it hurts this episode broke me

    • @marimarielove
      @marimarielove 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I've been there and I know you think you have to stay for that baby, but you don't, when you see that beautiful baby for the first time, all you'll want to do is protect them and you can't protect them while you're bleeding all over them and that man will keep cutting you, but now instead of just bleeding on yourself, everytime you allow him to cut you, you're bleeding all over your baby, please don't do it to either of you, I'm adding you to my daily prayer list and I'm going to pray for you and your baby every day

    • @alexismclean7667
      @alexismclean7667 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@marimarielove I really appreciate you ❤️seriously thank you

    • @SusieQ156
      @SusieQ156 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Sis - leave - trust me you will feel better & blessed- lve been there- if you have a mother - go stay with your mother so she can support you until you have the baby - and after for a short period- love you first and your baby - Be Blessed 🙏🏿

    • @alexismclean7667
      @alexismclean7667 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@SusieQ156 Thanks so much & yes feeling a lot better just had the baby less than 48 hours ago

    • @blessingyoung3116
      @blessingyoung3116 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hey hun, how's your little one? I understand how you feel, I'm in that shoe, married to him with 2kids. I feel excited nowadays when I think of my life without him after 5years of marriage. I hope you're in a place where you could free yourself of the pain because trust me, it won't end.

  • @blackkjuice
    @blackkjuice 4 ปีที่แล้ว +175

    Judge Toler quote: "Isn't it better to be happy and whole and feel good about yourself by yourself then it is to feel low and degraded and unloved with another dude!!!!"
    HAMERCY JEEZUS!! "YOU DO NOT NEED A MAN TO DEFINE YOU!!!"

    • @sirajsoul
      @sirajsoul 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And still she goes back to him .. omgggggg!! It was obvious in her eyes she wasn't leaving .. it's infuriating

    • @blackkjuice
      @blackkjuice 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@sirajsoul she has no love for herself. Hell, she doesn't even like herself!

    • @sugarsalt6548
      @sugarsalt6548 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      AGREE

  • @mdungethulile
    @mdungethulile 4 ปีที่แล้ว +216

    What a “Wow” 🙄🙄The judge was as disgusted by him as I was.

  • @sariejoseph1999
    @sariejoseph1999 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I cried when the judge was talking to her. I'm not even in this kind of situation but it still resonates with me

  • @taylorjaye7555
    @taylorjaye7555 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I felt EVERY word the judge said to her💪🏾💪🏾 I was once in her shoes AND I can now say I am SOOO happy being single.. Not having to answer to anyone, being able to do as I please when I want please.. It’s the best feeling EVER!!

  • @camalcina
    @camalcina 4 ปีที่แล้ว +257

    I'm not religious but if Judge Lynn was a pastor, I'd go. lol

    • @sweetsweet81
      @sweetsweet81 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I would too

    • @36chinadoll
      @36chinadoll 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too

    • @aphroditeXvenus
      @aphroditeXvenus 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She went for the money maker job instead lol.

    • @grandfatherclock9937
      @grandfatherclock9937 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@aphroditeXvenus JUDGE KNOW WOMEN CANT BE PASTORS IN A CHURCH...

    • @grandfatherclock9937
      @grandfatherclock9937 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      THE JUDGE KNOW WOMEN CANT BE PASTORS IN A CHURCH...

  • @mzshunarenee
    @mzshunarenee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +193

    Sound like she about to go right back into that trap with him! He ain’t no damn good at all‼️

    • @rescuemepookie5256
      @rescuemepookie5256 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      she aint going no where...he gonna sweet talk his way back into them honey walls and keep been the honey badger that he is..

    • @mzshunarenee
      @mzshunarenee 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      hasin israel Yep sure is!

    • @mial.8368
      @mial.8368 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Soooo sad right?

    • @cyndylove4816
      @cyndylove4816 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      i knew that the moment she put "if" in her sentence

    • @tefnut93
      @tefnut93 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She definitely going back.

  • @lindaballou3517
    @lindaballou3517 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love this judge she speaks the truth always.

  • @soulflowerpeace9236
    @soulflowerpeace9236 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think the judge spoke to a lot of women on this episode...even me!!🙏🙏

  • @anyerealvine611
    @anyerealvine611 4 ปีที่แล้ว +793

    To think that I had a bf like this of 2yrs. I couldn’t take the bs either and left. Months later I’m blessed with my husband to be. Never settle sisters

    • @estieeu2364
      @estieeu2364 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Blesssings👏🏾👏🏾

    • @seasonedqueen6960
      @seasonedqueen6960 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Good for you sis 👏👏👏👏

    • @MrLiliamarina10
      @MrLiliamarina10 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I was 3 year relationship omg their all the same.

    • @31Dimo
      @31Dimo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      To God be the glory. God's blessings 🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @ShadesofSage
      @ShadesofSage 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      God bless you 🥰!

  • @Suddenlyshon
    @Suddenlyshon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +392

    "A man should be an option, not a definition!!" SPEAK JUDGE LYNN!!!

  • @janellephill5472
    @janellephill5472 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I've been looking for this episode WEEKS now. after I saw a little snippet on Facebook.. and now it's 9am. and I'm crying. y'all this woman is the BEST. you know how much cases I watch and I end up in tears. I always feel she's speaking to my soul

  • @SPEEDREDvideos
    @SPEEDREDvideos 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love love love Judge Lynn Toler. The advice and wisdom she gives is so valuable. I've learned so much from Divorce Court on what NOT to do, but her advice on each unique situation is something everyone can learn from.

  • @chantelcampbell2438
    @chantelcampbell2438 4 ปีที่แล้ว +242

    Don’t let a man tell you he doesn’t want more than ONCE.
    His actions are a very CLEAR indication of him not wanting her

    • @downbad2874
      @downbad2874 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Shit he can want her and still cheat

    • @sctemple7043
      @sctemple7043 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      He doesn't want HER, he just wants to use her and what she has.

    • @sweetsweet81
      @sweetsweet81 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@downbad2874 his actions say he doesn't want her. Period. He is using her submission to keep doing what he's doing because he knows she'll never leave.

    • @user-zx5xw4yw2e
      @user-zx5xw4yw2e 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@downbad2874 I agree. He can want her n STILL cheat. Many guys tend to be greedy like that.

    • @downbad2874
      @downbad2874 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sweet Sweet Joy hunny let me tell u one thing about a men that women seem to act oblivious to a man is going to do what he thinks he can get away with no matter what if he thinks you will never found out he is going do it 🤷🏾‍♀️ y’all need to stop saying his actions show me he don’t want her because that’s a false statement man will cheat on you but still love and want to be with you it’s your narrative that if he did he wouldn’t not his so stop it it has nothing to do with her or her submission because even with if she wasn’t if he thought he could he would

  • @blacksilkrose777
    @blacksilkrose777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +525

    The disrespect is systemic and he absolutely enjoys it. He enjoys breaking her down, because of the power he has to do so. Her feelings are meaningless to him. A typical narcissist who plays psychological games in order to turn you against yourself but blames for why he's doing it. She's in pure tears, she bottomed out..in five years he has managed to strip her of her dignity, self esteem, self respect, happiness and peace of mind. He stands there arrogant, self absorbed, gleefully evil, condescending and prideful...no regards for her pain...especially since he installed it. He is trifling, despicable, low down, disrespectful, disloyal, untrustworthy, a born again liar and a con artist. I think the only time he looks down is to see how much of her heart and soul he stepped on this time around. As a man I'm telling you ladies these types are not the end all to be all. There are phenomenal men out here who love being loyal, honest, trustworthy and loving. Stop trying to change what's in front of you to fit the paradigm you created for yourself. You all deserve way better than what you allow yourself to receive. Be Blessed.

    • @Miss__bri
      @Miss__bri 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Amen !!!!!

    • @Souloflyricz23
      @Souloflyricz23 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I love this and he is so damn trifling it is Burn Me Up Inside and she is so beautiful in this said that he put her through that's that's okay he will be handled I know other than God and her ancestors.

    • @kenneldaallen9881
      @kenneldaallen9881 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      U r 100000000% correct

    • @brittthecancerqueenempress9137
      @brittthecancerqueenempress9137 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      &A Sure is & he gonna get his

    • @yordanoshaile7800
      @yordanoshaile7800 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well said !!!! 🙏🏽thank you for sharing

  • @austenowensmusic
    @austenowensmusic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Judge Toler is such a powerful motivator wow!!!

  • @ms.m7764
    @ms.m7764 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    How can you love someone that treats you this way? She's fooling herself into thinking that this is love because she doesn't know what love is. Love doesn't hurt...🇯🇲

  • @wynterbreeze1202
    @wynterbreeze1202 4 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    God didn't give Judge Lyn a daughter instead He gave her internet daughters! This case helped me so much! Her wisdom is soul reaching!

  • @ddnquestion1
    @ddnquestion1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +180

    Poor Baby she is as broken as the car windows she took that bat too my heart goes out to her!!!!

    • @malikasampson7673
      @malikasampson7673 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      😂😂😂

    • @lavelausvi
      @lavelausvi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I agree!

    • @pamelasmith7550
      @pamelasmith7550 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      She said he's all she know, so sad, I hope she realize her worth

    • @ArtisticDreams2U
      @ArtisticDreams2U 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      So sad. That's all she knows... Is him? Lord help her.

    • @fizafiza1982
      @fizafiza1982 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      His dog not a man

  • @rose-Ze
    @rose-Ze 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank God for Judge Lynn Toler;
    Those words of encouragement
    Will go a long way
    You are my favorite Judge for that statement
    Much love and respect for you and your calling

  • @jenniferpower2895
    @jenniferpower2895 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The big sisterly advice that hits the heart. What a nice lady

  • @victorrichard2988
    @victorrichard2988 4 ปีที่แล้ว +165

    This man is a liar, has no sense of humor nor integrity how could you disrespect a woman right in her face !!

    • @sheilae.9670
      @sheilae.9670 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      He's so wrong for all he's done to her however she stayed with him so he will never change

    • @victorrichard2988
      @victorrichard2988 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      michelle louise I expect them to do better than that , cause we can it’s all about discipline

    • @joshandabradford3144
      @joshandabradford3144 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol..Not right in her face..She shouldn't be disrespected PERIOD!

    • @TT-th1gb
      @TT-th1gb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @truth only Grow up youngin, the amount of hurt he put this woman through is a punchable offense right to his fugly face, he deserves the karma that is coming to him & nothing more bruh

    • @tatucorreia
      @tatucorreia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Because she accepts it...

  • @alisont6659
    @alisont6659 4 ปีที่แล้ว +147

    This woman crazy, she stayed with that foo foo bwoy.

    • @hurricaneheli79
      @hurricaneheli79 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Like that was even a surprise. It's suprising when they actually leave.

  • @Miss__bri
    @Miss__bri 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Seen a clip of this on tiktok & jus had to find the whole thing! This hands down is the best episode!!!

  • @santeriacharles3736
    @santeriacharles3736 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One of the most ICONIC clips of judge Lynn 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🥳

  • @Yorneabeauty
    @Yorneabeauty 4 ปีที่แล้ว +445

    So sad for me to watch. This should be a lesson to all of us women don't settle for less.

    • @Acecentricsp05
      @Acecentricsp05 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Or be better to actually deserve better, either or I guess

    • @kokefran3756
      @kokefran3756 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yeah right, yall love settling for trash mixed with garbage

    • @stormcrider1183
      @stormcrider1183 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Preach

  • @stella5822
    @stella5822 4 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    How does he even get any women, he can’t even articulate himself. He talks like he rode the short bus.

    • @beverlyallen8493
      @beverlyallen8493 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Like he's got a mouth full of quarters

    • @d820m
      @d820m 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Whatever it was, it worked....He got her and all of his other women and she hasn't left him

    • @kondwanimututa2302
      @kondwanimututa2302 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Stop lying he communicates fine compared to most African American.

    • @SunshyneA
      @SunshyneA 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      My aunt told me once the slow ones always got n big 🍆 from watching y years of DC i believe her cuz Lord the things they accept esp the public embarrassment its gotta be dipped in gold cuz aint no way!

  • @moniquicahatch
    @moniquicahatch 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow judge Lynn your amazing your perspective is absolutely on point intellect the way you broke that down nobody can compare

  • @kimpetway6585
    @kimpetway6585 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Judge Lynn is so wise and inspirational! Mark did syncere so dirty it hurt my feelings! God bless her

  • @way2blessed2bstressed52
    @way2blessed2bstressed52 4 ปีที่แล้ว +321

    I'd rather be single any day than miserable in a relationship. 🅿️

  • @katrinafrench1043
    @katrinafrench1043 4 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    This was me 17 yrs ago. I'm so glad I left

    • @mdungethulile
      @mdungethulile 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I have abandonment issues unfortunately I shut people out prematurely. I would never ever allow someone to treat me like that.

    • @roshondaburks942
      @roshondaburks942 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm glad you left as well 💜

  • @marygould7934
    @marygould7934 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love Judge Lynn Toler she is very smart and always gives great advice..

  • @adriandejesus4473
    @adriandejesus4473 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I REMEMBER MY MOM ALWAYS TOLD ME ITS BETTER TO BE ALONE AND HAPPY THEN BEING WITH SOMEONE AND BEING MISERABLE 🙏 ❤