In all of this, you don't need external validation whatsoever. Whether it attracts black men, or white men,how you think of your hair is all that matters ❤. If you struggle with embracing your natural hair,kindly check out this video > th-cam.com/video/k6Ps0Ooyy5o/w-d-xo.htmlsi=DTc4W9YEBPHKJQTR
Love yourself stop relying on people that don’t look like you to make you love yourself.When they contributed openly to causing you to hate your hair.Denying you jobs and space in society if your hair didn’t look like theirs.Causing to go through so many chemical burns and torture to be like them some leading to cancer
Those of us who date white and non black men usually don’t worry about slicked edges and baby hairs. That’s what happens when you date men that actually like the natural texture of your hair.
@@SC-pg7jrAs a married woman myself, BM belong to Becky’s, that’s where you belong, that’s who you have more in common with. We need more Becky’s to come pack yall up and go. You’re the one here complaining in our territory. 🎯💯🤷🏾♀️
@@SC-pg7jr Black men dating black women isn't even the subject matter.☠️ Moreover there are still many black men that date black women which outnumbers black men dating white women. Relax😂
As a black woman dating a white guy. He hardly says anything about my hair. In the 5 years we have being together, I have being rocking my natural hair.
@@sidra4456Stockholm syndrome is real.So they make us hate it hence why you straighten the hair now “Allegedly “ they love it so you love it😂😂😂😂.Girl go heal they are playing mind games with you.That stuff yo yoing is what mental illness is made of.
My partner is Asian & loves how I naturally look. He doesn’t notice Frizz, Unslicked hair. He just thinks it’s so Full & Healthy looking. He hypes up all my hair styles & gives GREAT scalp Massages 😊
My first long term boyfriend was white. 3 years. He would literally pull my hair in place and take the picture to help me length check. My husband is full blooded Irish. He literally MELTS when he smells my hair, burying his face in my curls. A ghetto type Latino told me my curls look like pubic hair. Also, black men said I have long full hair but it's too nappy. It's not that difficult to pick who wants you ladies. My husband is white for a reason.
Yes girl. We have learned to go where we are appreciated. When my white husband and I have children, they will definitely grow up in a loving non toxic household.
My husband said “Sweetheart, whatever you do to your hair, I love it! You can do any style….cornbread, or anything.” Me: “Did you just say ‘cornbread?’ IT’S CORNROWS BABE!”🤣😆🤣
Right. My husband is white also. He has never complained about whatever I do to my hair, wigs I wear, or whatever. He has never so much as suggested what I should or shouldn't do on my head.
I have been married to a black man for 21 years and he absolutely adores my natural hair. He wants it as natural as possible. I don’t wear wigs or weaves only natural styles. If I could wear my hair in an Afro everyday he’d be so happy but I change it up every now and then. Our daughter’s natural as well and he’s so happy that we both embrace the hair God gave us with pride.
I have 4c hair and my husband loved my hair, he never cared about the texture of my hair maybe because I have a lot of hair and I think his mother being natural helped as well.
I am married to a black man, and he was the one that encouraged me to wear my natural hair not because they can't afford wigs and weave; it was because he wanted me to feel secure about myself and my natural hair. Nowadays, that is all I rock; I don't feel comfortable anymore wearing a wig. Some/many black women associate natural hair with poverty, however, natural hair can be styled in many different ways and be warned at formal events and professional settings. Keep up the good job in self-awareness and self-love 💙.
Love yourself first. When you love yourself you will always choose someone who also loves you. Married to a black man for ten years. We have been together about 18 years now. I have done so many styles with my natural hair. Wear your natural hair ladies. You will attract the man for you. It’s important that his favorite look on you is the most authentic. He will love you as you are.
I'm engaged to an Asian man. We met when I was wearing braids. He enjoyed seeing me in braids, but he encouraged me to try wearing my natural hair out. When I wore my hair in a short afro, he was on me like white on rice 🍚.
Blacks in general judge eachother so hard on daily basis. Yessss that’s how we are. We stand and look People up and down,judging. "Look at the way she dresses,she does her hair,she could do something to her hair " yessss i have heard that so many times. This is not fair at all.
I got engaged this year to the love of my life (who just happens to be white). We've been together 6 years and when he met me I was a straight natural. Then I big chopped and had like 1 inch of hair. Then I started a natural hair journey where tp this day I'm discovering my curls and fro for the first time. And through every stage, my man always sees me as the most beautiful woman on the planet. And when he met my curls for the first time he said they matched my personality because of how bouncy and free they are. Even in my hair's most frizzy undefined state, I'll walk into the room and he will tell me how gorgeous I look with my hair that way even if two minutes ago I was looking in the mirror feeling a bit insecure. I'm almost 3 years since my big chop and I'm planning to wear my natural hair on my wedding next year. 💜
Black men do. Most of the black men in Africa are with black women with all kinds of hairstyles. And not all white men are into natural hair either. People just have hairstyle preferences. I personally like a buzz cut or something short on a man. Long hair is okay but I’m not into it.
I wear my natural hair and do not straighten it often. If a man has an issue with me and my hair, he can exit stage left. Fortunately, I have not had many issues with men over it.
@ that’s because men in general, especially black love black women with natural hair. No one knows why y’all wear those awful weaves and wigs. You don’t need to straighten it either.
I'm married to a white man. He doesn't care what I do to my hair as long as its attractive to ME. He loves it when I wear different wigs and colors because I look different and he likes the variety. But if I decided to wear my hair in a ponytail for the rest of my life, he'd still love me and think I'm beautiful. He just isn't concerned with my hair as a focal point of our relationship.
I love this, I cut my locs after my black bf ( now ex) stressed me out to the point I started balding. He would laugh and say I look like a man. My white / Mexican male coworkers gave me so many compliments see it .
The black men i have dated never liked me wearing wigs. All of them were praising me to do cornrows or any other natural thing with my hair. I beleive when we are with black men we tend to impose what we like and around white, we feel like they don’t like artificial hair and we do what is suit for them. More over, blacks always judge eachother severely.
It’s not really black men hating black women’s hair. It’s about a man not loving a woman. Any man who doesn’t love you will criticise something about you.
I feel like it's both, the internalized self-hatred borne out of colonialism combined with misogyny = misogynoir. You are right though, they will find any excuse and hair is but one of many.
I was married to a white man for 15 years…he never cared about my hair…long…short…black color hair…blue hair…he only said your hair looks nice or you at the salon again…LoL
I’m Nigerian married to a Nigerian, and my husband is so relieved that I’ve gotten rid of wigs and hairstyles like braiding with extensions that puts tension on my edges. 😄 He totally supports me in my natural hair journey ever since I went bald early this year. He screams anytime he sees me pulling my hair, for example, to check length, reminding me not to pull it too hard…😅it is just so sweet and funny how he takes my hair so personal like it’s his own.
2:42 In my 26 years on this earth, black men are the only ones who 1) only showed attraction to me when my hair was heat straightened. 2) acted like I didn't exist when I went natural All other guys found me beautiful at all stages and still treated me like a human. If my hair wasn't straight or in butt length braids, black men pretend I don't exist. 🤷🏿♀️
My husband is Mexican and I feel so free with my hair. 😢 He likes it best when it’s just natural. Like a 5 day old wash n go that’s his favorite lol that’s when he compliments me like every 5 minutes 😂❤
I am married to a black man but I grew up with a mom who did hair for a living and sometimes it’s in the culture. I understand 100% that it didn’t start within ourselves but in white culture and the racism that occurred through othering us with our skin and our hair, it was still just a majority of my life comments and negative responses to my hair coming from black people in my life. I hope our community heals and begins to love one another.
It’s the crown 👑 that makes a queen and true royalty is unseen. Pearls diamonds and gold hidden away inside the earth…no man can ever determine your worth. The one who sees you looks within and discovers the treasure that others chagrin 🧘🏽♀️
I’ve only dated one black man that has ever loved my natural hair, but he was also broke. But that did caused me to go on a self love journey when it comes to my hair so kudos to that one blackeye. Nearly every white man I’ve ever dated does not know anything about my hair and loves what the heck I do with it. The last guy I dated was European and was so fascinated by bonnets and my natural hair begged me to see my natural hair.
Ngl as a Melanated man Aka "bm", I thought she was going to be one of those biased raccoons, but she made an excellent video and she wasn't what I thought she would be 😅. In these times we have so many haters and enemies, so this was so good to see. A video full of fairness and for everybody. Good vid sis, I enjoyed it 💯
My husband has never seen my natural texture. He asked me multiple times to stop straightening. Im growing out my hair now. I have a TWA and he loves it.
My husband is white. We’ve been married for 25 years. It never bothers him how I wear my hair however he only comments that he prefers natural hair over a wig.
I’m dating a non Black man and I have not changed how I wear my hair at all. I wear my hair how I want. I slick my edges and do my baby hair because that’s what I like for me. Only thing different is, the guy I’m dating always says he likes my hair.
My mom married a white man, and early in the marriage she did the big chop. 14 years later, her hair is the longest it’s ever been 🤷🏾♀️ i don’t think it’s a correlation in her case, she just needed to cut off her damaged hair
No man here but love and comfortable in my own short hair. I noticed that on days l just use a twisting brush white men stare. I am convinced it’s the black women’s hair that started racial issues.
I find that they like me either way. With my big fro or “hard” wig. They just like cute hairstyles period and don’t care about texture, layed edges, tracks, lace, etc. Like the girl at the 2:50 I had the same experience with BM telling me my hair was “nappy”.
I had this same sentiment. U can tell a black woman who is either mostly surrounded by white ppl by the way her hair looks and typically I see their hair is always straightened. It’s an observation for me.
I’ve been with my husband 25 years and I haven’t straightened my hair in 6 years nor have I ever in my life worn a wig or weave-it’s weird to me to wear fake hair. I have had my hair braided only twice in my life. I’m 43.
@ It’s weird for me to wear wigs as well. Since I was young my mom would do weave as well as natural hairstyles in my hair but ever since I started doing my own hair, I’ve only ever gotten weave once. But I enjoy having my own hair the most and letting it do what it wants. Slick is a no go for me. But I should edit my comment and say I’ve only ever observed straightened hair on bw who were mostly surrounded by white ppl most of their lives. And not all ofc, but I see it a lot online.
It's crazy cause I always been a natural woman that embrace my natural beauty & I can say honestly that white men seem to be more attracted to natural black women then black men. I've got many genuine compliments from white men then my own men. & I am ok with that being a woman that practice self love & take honor in my natural beauty
Real men are not worried about your hair and they love your natural hair. White men love ,love natural hair styles. Even faux locs,african hairstyles and everything else. They just love you because of who you are.Most bw that i see with wm men and they ussually look taking cared off and with natural hair stylrs. Not with 30 inch straight wigs.
This is like the third time I've heard this. Because I want my hair in an Afro people assumed my partner wasn't black. My ex partner is Latino and we have children together.
I i've been PRAISED when i had a big gorgeous afro by both white folks and some black men. My preference is not black males, tho in norway where i live, most black men have been praising afro hair, and they a lot easier to talk to then norwegians. AND white folks ONLY are all up in my space when i have big pretty afro wigs on (whit different hair colors). Norwegians DO NOT come in your space just like that so its says a lot when they up in my space because they mesmerized by the afro😂🤣
White people do love our natural hair. My son wore his natural hair in an afro and all the white kids were touching his hair and stating that his hair feels like a soft cloud as if there ever touch a cloud before.😂
ßlàçk males are the main ones tæriñg down African ßlàçk women though…especially given that African ßlàçk women are usually the group of ßlàçk women with the darkest skin, kinkiest hair, & broadest facial features.🤷🏿♀️ ßlàçk males, especially ßlàçk americans, ALWAYS hype up the "preferences" for looking exactly opposite to African ßlàçk women.
Appreciation and attraction are very different. A head nod and tripping over people just get to you leave different impressions of how you think those men see you. It is what it is.
In all of this, you don't need external validation whatsoever. Whether it attracts black men, or white men,how you think of your hair is all that matters ❤.
If you struggle with embracing your natural hair,kindly check out this video > th-cam.com/video/k6Ps0Ooyy5o/w-d-xo.htmlsi=DTc4W9YEBPHKJQTR
THIS! 👆🏾💜
I really enjoyed the topic. You are insightful and made me think about this topic. Keep doing what you are doing. xoxo.
Love yourself stop relying on people that don’t look like you to make you love yourself.When they contributed openly to causing you to hate your hair.Denying you jobs and space in society if your hair didn’t look like theirs.Causing to go through so many chemical burns and torture to be like them some leading to cancer
Those of us who date white and non black men usually don’t worry about slicked edges and baby hairs. That’s what happens when you date men that actually like the natural texture of your hair.
You guys always wear wigs that’s why bm don’t wanna date you guys to begin with but bm are happy in the snow so complain all you want😂
@@SC-pg7jrAs a married woman myself, BM belong to Becky’s, that’s where you belong, that’s who you have more in common with. We need more Becky’s to come pack yall up and go. You’re the one here complaining in our territory. 🎯💯🤷🏾♀️
Like your own texture. Don’t rely on them to like it
@@SC-pg7jr Black men dating black women isn't even the subject matter.☠️ Moreover there are still many black men that date black women which outnumbers black men dating white women. Relax😂
@@SC-pg7jr This isn't about black men. Stop feeling triggered☠️
As a black woman dating a white guy. He hardly says anything about my hair. In the 5 years we have being together, I have being rocking my natural hair.
@@MGold00 love this for you 💘
And if you change it from natural he will be the one to probably say "Honey why did you change your hair" Although he would like it all;-) Rock on!
Go heal.He probably says it behind your back.
@@sidra4456Stockholm syndrome is real.So they make us hate it hence why you straighten the hair now “Allegedly “ they love it so you love it😂😂😂😂.Girl go heal they are playing mind games with you.That stuff yo yoing is what mental illness is made of.
@@sidra4456you are the black girls that get with the Travis Kelce types that use you until they get their Becky type back.
WHEN A MEN TELLS YOU I DONT LIKE YOUR HAIR.
LEAVE HIM ALONEEEE
Yup, my husband is white and he has never asked me to change anything about myself.
This narrative is similar to black women are rubbish and white women are the best...how about we interracially quietly without negative comparisons
My black husband ADORES my natural hair. The first words he ever said to me were “I like your hair” 😅. 10 years in and he melts every time.
Good Black men love everything about us💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿.
Yes,Everything ❤
Thnx
My partner is Asian & loves how I naturally look. He doesn’t notice Frizz, Unslicked hair. He just thinks it’s so Full & Healthy looking. He hypes up all my hair styles & gives GREAT scalp Massages 😊
My first long term boyfriend was white. 3 years. He would literally pull my hair in place and take the picture to help me length check. My husband is full blooded Irish. He literally MELTS when he smells my hair, burying his face in my curls. A ghetto type Latino told me my curls look like pubic hair. Also, black men said I have long full hair but it's too nappy. It's not that difficult to pick who wants you ladies. My husband is white for a reason.
Yes girl. We have learned to go where we are appreciated. When my white husband and I have children, they will definitely grow up in a loving non toxic household.
Where do yall find these wh ite guys that actually appreciate you? I can’t seem to find them anywhere.
@@IYelevendon’t find them yourself, let them find you. You’re the prize😉 (please don’t take this as objectification😭😭)
My husband said “Sweetheart, whatever you do to your hair, I love it! You can do any style….cornbread, or anything.”
Me: “Did you just say ‘cornbread?’ IT’S CORNROWS BABE!”🤣😆🤣
😂😂 love it!
😂😂😂🤣🤣
Right. My husband is white also. He has never complained about whatever I do to my hair, wigs I wear, or whatever. He has never so much as suggested what I should or shouldn't do on my head.
@@lifespanwellnessbeauty-60i64That's how you know you have a keeper. He loves you regardless of your looks.
😂😂😂😂😂😂 cornbread 😂😂😂😂😂
I have been married to a black man for 21 years and he absolutely adores my natural hair. He wants it as natural as possible. I don’t wear wigs or weaves only natural styles. If I could wear my hair in an Afro everyday he’d be so happy but I change it up every now and then. Our daughter’s natural as well and he’s so happy that we both embrace the hair God gave us with pride.
@@kei2life-nolagirlcaliworld this was a sweet read 😍
Exactly and very beautiful
I bet you don't have 4c hair.
You don't even have 4c hair, your hair looks 4a and 4b.
I have 4c hair and my husband loved my hair, he never cared about the texture of my hair maybe because I have a lot of hair and I think his mother being natural helped as well.
My husband is Latino and Italian and he prefers when i wear my hair big and natural.
Exactly!
I’m married to a white man and he LOVES my natural hair.
Same!
Yep.me too😊
I am married to a black man, and he was the one that encouraged me to wear my natural hair not because they can't afford wigs and weave; it was because he wanted me to feel secure about myself and my natural hair. Nowadays, that is all I rock; I don't feel comfortable anymore wearing a wig. Some/many black women associate natural hair with poverty, however, natural hair can be styled in many different ways and be warned at formal events and professional settings. Keep up the good job in self-awareness and self-love 💙.
@@Vj-ti6uw ❤️❤️
Love yourself first. When you love yourself you will always choose someone who also loves you. Married to a black man for ten years. We have been together about 18 years now. I have done so many styles with my natural hair. Wear your natural hair ladies. You will attract the man for you. It’s important that his favorite look on you is the most authentic. He will love you as you are.
Stay on topic
I'm engaged to an Asian man. We met when I was wearing braids. He enjoyed seeing me in braids, but he encouraged me to try wearing my natural hair out. When I wore my hair in a short afro, he was on me like white on rice 🍚.
Blacks in general judge eachother so hard on daily basis. Yessss that’s how we are. We stand and look People up and down,judging. "Look at the way she dresses,she does her hair,she could do something to her hair " yessss i have heard that so many times. This is not fair at all.
@@Emerencia41 no lies detected.
Very true
I've been single my entire life. 35 years old in January. What someone thinks of my hair for romantic interest basically doesn't matter to me at all.😂
@@jenme2390 This!!!
I got engaged this year to the love of my life (who just happens to be white). We've been together 6 years and when he met me I was a straight natural. Then I big chopped and had like 1 inch of hair. Then I started a natural hair journey where tp this day I'm discovering my curls and fro for the first time.
And through every stage, my man always sees me as the most beautiful woman on the planet. And when he met my curls for the first time he said they matched my personality because of how bouncy and free they are.
Even in my hair's most frizzy undefined state, I'll walk into the room and he will tell me how gorgeous I look with my hair that way even if two minutes ago I was looking in the mirror feeling a bit insecure. I'm almost 3 years since my big chop and I'm planning to wear my natural hair on my wedding next year. 💜
@@marajones1828 aww congratulations 🎉
I'm sure you'd make a beautiful bride 😍
That is something I notice a lot lately. Why can they accept us in our natural state but black men will not?? 🤔
Black men do. Most of the black men in Africa are with black women with all kinds of hairstyles. And not all white men are into natural hair either. People just have hairstyle preferences. I personally like a buzz cut or something short on a man. Long hair is okay but I’m not into it.
Most bm prefer natural
I wear my natural hair and do not straighten it often. If a man has an issue with me and my hair, he can exit stage left. Fortunately, I have not had many issues with men over it.
@ that’s because men in general, especially black love black women with natural hair. No one knows why y’all wear those awful weaves and wigs. You don’t need to straighten it either.
I'm married to a white man. He doesn't care what I do to my hair as long as its attractive to ME. He loves it when I wear different wigs and colors because I look different and he likes the variety. But if I decided to wear my hair in a ponytail for the rest of my life, he'd still love me and think I'm beautiful. He just isn't concerned with my hair as a focal point of our relationship.
Strongly Agreed 2:26 but I think when we as a community unlearn anti- Blackness real love can prosper
I love this, I cut my locs after my black bf ( now ex) stressed me out to the point I started balding. He would laugh and say I look like a man. My white / Mexican male coworkers gave me so many compliments see it .
Black women, we are beautiful! Please rock your natural hair.
I hate these type of conversations!!! HATE HATE...both ways
5:06 "holy cow it can touch the 🌙 "😂
Black men say they love black women’s natural hair but it’s false,white men on the other hand love their black women natural hair.
???? Who created the term nappy? Who influenced black individuals to hate there own them selfs in the first place?
white men dont care...yall are praising black men and white men all the time. stop praising men in general. yall out here looking nuts
Cap
😂😂😂
@@peachesjeter5480 stop lying
The black men i have dated never liked me wearing wigs. All of them were praising me to do cornrows or any other natural thing with my hair.
I beleive when we are with black men we tend to impose what we like and around white, we feel like they don’t like artificial hair and we do what is suit for them.
More over, blacks always judge eachother severely.
It’s not really black men hating black women’s hair. It’s about a man not loving a woman. Any man who doesn’t love you will criticise something about you.
I feel like it's both, the internalized self-hatred borne out of colonialism combined with misogyny = misogynoir. You are right though, they will find any excuse and hair is but one of many.
That part. Men don’t care about hair as long as you look good.
I was married to a white man for 15 years…he never cared about my hair…long…short…black color hair…blue hair…he only said your hair looks nice or you at the salon again…LoL
I’m Nigerian married to a Nigerian, and my husband is so relieved that I’ve gotten rid of wigs and hairstyles like braiding with extensions that puts tension on my edges. 😄
He totally supports me in my natural hair journey ever since I went bald early this year. He screams anytime he sees me pulling my hair, for example, to check length, reminding me not to pull it too hard…😅it is just so sweet and funny how he takes my hair so personal like it’s his own.
@@sharon4GG Hello sistahh 😌 🇳🇬.
Let's give it up for our bro 👏🏾
@ thank you sistur 😀😊
2:42
In my 26 years on this earth, black men are the only ones who
1) only showed attraction to me when my hair was heat straightened.
2) acted like I didn't exist when I went natural
All other guys found me beautiful at all stages and still treated me like a human. If my hair wasn't straight or in butt length braids, black men pretend I don't exist. 🤷🏿♀️
Stop the cap
My husband is Mexican and I feel so free with my hair. 😢 He likes it best when it’s just natural. Like a 5 day old wash n go that’s his favorite lol that’s when he compliments me like every 5 minutes 😂❤
I am married to a black man but I grew up with a mom who did hair for a living and sometimes it’s in the culture. I understand 100% that it didn’t start within ourselves but in white culture and the racism that occurred through othering us with our skin and our hair, it was still just a majority of my life comments and negative responses to my hair coming from black people in my life. I hope our community heals and begins to love one another.
@@christenbass380 We need that healing. We've internalized so much negativity about ourselves.
It’s the crown 👑 that makes a queen and true royalty is unseen. Pearls diamonds and gold hidden away inside the earth…no man can ever determine your worth. The one who sees you looks within and discovers the treasure that others chagrin 🧘🏽♀️
This whole video was meant to be serious and heartwarming...but girl why you had me laughing the whole time? 🤣🤣
15:02 REAL! 😂
I’ve seen that play out in school. 😅
They compliment you and then make faces...that’s absurd.
The 4c type though?
I’ve only dated one black man that has ever loved my natural hair, but he was also broke. But that did caused me to go on a self love journey when it comes to my hair so kudos to that one blackeye. Nearly every white man I’ve ever dated does not know anything about my hair and loves what the heck I do with it. The last guy I dated was European and was so fascinated by bonnets and my natural hair begged me to see my natural hair.
Ngl as a Melanated man Aka "bm", I thought she was going to be one of those biased raccoons, but she made an excellent video and she wasn't what I thought she would be 😅. In these times we have so many haters and enemies, so this was so good to see. A video full of fairness and for everybody. Good vid sis, I enjoyed it 💯
My husband has never seen my natural texture. He asked me multiple times to stop straightening. Im growing out my hair now. I have a TWA and he loves it.
TWA?
@@aviissac2628 Teenie Weenie Afro
TWA means teeny weeny afro. i have one too 💖
@@tanasa3091 Thanks
My husband is white. We’ve been married for 25 years. It never bothers him how I wear my hair however he only comments that he prefers natural hair over a wig.
I’m dating a non Black man and I have not changed how I wear my hair at all. I wear my hair how I want. I slick my edges and do my baby hair because that’s what I like for me. Only thing different is, the guy I’m dating always says he likes my hair.
Black men appreciate natural hair too
@@honks9484 true
My white husband told me that he loves me from stem to stern and however I choose to wear my hair, he’s so complimentary!💕
My mom married a white man, and early in the marriage she did the big chop. 14 years later, her hair is the longest it’s ever been 🤷🏾♀️ i don’t think it’s a correlation in her case, she just needed to cut off her damaged hair
My hair started growing when I got black men out of my life.
@@natillefoxy9881 its about raising your standards -not about skin color
My friend says a black man might want you to wear your hair like the woman he really lovesssss. Anyway, he’s NOT for you.
Cap
17:34 I know that’s right! And this skincare and makeup.
@@EbonyWhitee Clear! 💯😂
They love long blonde highlighted hair too. Weave or not. Trust me they love me. 😂😂😂
No man here but love and comfortable in my own short hair. I noticed that on days l just use a twisting brush white men stare. I am convinced it’s the black women’s hair that started racial issues.
I find that they like me either way. With my big fro or “hard” wig. They just like cute hairstyles period and don’t care about texture, layed edges, tracks, lace, etc. Like the girl at the 2:50 I had the same experience with BM telling me my hair was “nappy”.
I had this same sentiment. U can tell a black woman who is either mostly surrounded by white ppl by the way her hair looks and typically I see their hair is always straightened. It’s an observation for me.
I’ve been with my husband 25 years and I haven’t straightened my hair in 6 years nor have I ever in my life worn a wig or weave-it’s weird to me to wear fake hair. I have had my hair braided only twice in my life. I’m 43.
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It’s weird for me to wear wigs as well. Since I was young my mom would do weave as well as natural hairstyles in my hair but ever since I started doing my own hair, I’ve only ever gotten weave once. But I enjoy having my own hair the most and letting it do what it wants. Slick is a no go for me. But I should edit my comment and say I’ve only ever observed straightened hair on bw who were mostly surrounded by white ppl most of their lives. And not all ofc, but I see it a lot online.
You're funny.😊
@@jenme2390 that side of me comes out sometimes 😌
THIS IS TRUE….AND HILARIOUS!!!😂
Yall betta go get yall a man that love you for you. My white boy loves mine too. Even when my curls are looking rough, he asks me why i gotta fix it.
Well I’m married to an African man and I still don’t slick my edges 😂 I just try to look presentable
It's crazy cause I always been a natural woman that embrace my natural beauty & I can say honestly that white men seem to be more attracted to natural black women then black men. I've got many genuine compliments from white men then my own men. & I am ok with that being a woman that practice self love & take honor in my natural beauty
So much unlearning!
@@ayobamioluwaranti9191 💯
5:02 she look like the female version of Eric from Arlette pop the balloon.
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Same here. Married to a white man and he would rather see my natural hair than anything else.
My theory is that it reminds them of cotton. 😳
@@Nitta43 wait...what?!
5:18 😂
Man's not HOT😂
I'm still waiting to see someone who loves my hair...because .......
@@Ricauntangled123 you loving your hair is all that matters. You'd attract someone who'd love your whole being in no time. Just take your mind off it.
Sounds so stereotypical, perhaps it's an American issue. In Africa we appreciate hair from natural, to braids etc
😊 Afro queen❤
💓🌸💓YES INDEED!...MY EUROPEAN HUSBAND ACCEPTS AND LOVES ME NATURAL...HE DOESN'T EVEN LIKE FAKE NAILS OR MAKEUP...EMBRACED ME AS I AM...PERIOD.💓🌸💓
Real men are not worried about your hair and they love your natural hair. White men love ,love natural hair styles. Even faux locs,african hairstyles and everything else. They just love you because of who you are.Most bw that i see with wm men and they ussually look taking cared off and with natural hair stylrs. Not with 30 inch straight wigs.
This is like the third time I've heard this. Because I want my hair in an Afro people assumed my partner wasn't black. My ex partner is Latino and we have children together.
5:20 ❤
What is a hat wig?
@@EbonyWhitee hard wig (fake/synthetic)
@ Oh okay. 👌🏾 Thank you.
I i've been PRAISED when i had a big gorgeous afro by both white folks and some black men. My preference is not black males, tho in norway where i live, most black men have been praising afro hair, and they a lot easier to talk to then norwegians. AND white folks ONLY are all up in my space when i have big pretty afro wigs on (whit different hair colors). Norwegians DO NOT come in your space just like that so its says a lot when they up in my space because they mesmerized by the afro😂🤣
White people do love our natural hair. My son wore his natural hair in an afro and all the white kids were touching his hair and stating that his hair feels like a soft cloud as if there ever touch a cloud before.😂
They were a fro with white men
You say Black man care about your hair style I hear g🌈 man. I’m just saying…
Just say SOME - like black hair
How many black women will go natural because a black man has asked her to?
none. The collective of black women don't have any respect for black men. Now if a none black men tells them to go natural. They would do it quickly.
African women are always hyping up white men😂 black men like all the Afro styles too,
@@514Exc they're sharing their experiences
ßlàçk males are the main ones tæriñg down African ßlàçk women though…especially given that African ßlàçk women are usually the group of ßlàçk women with the darkest skin, kinkiest hair, & broadest facial features.🤷🏿♀️
ßlàçk males, especially ßlàçk americans, ALWAYS hype up the "preferences" for looking exactly opposite to African ßlàçk women.
Appreciation and attraction are very different. A head nod and tripping over people just get to you leave different impressions of how you think those men see you. It is what it is.