Rich VS Poor || Is POVERTY a choice?

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  • @jointhecruise
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  • @ajourneytoremember12
    @ajourneytoremember12 วันที่ผ่านมา +74

    To be able to come this show to talk about your situation is really underrated. Not many can do this

    • @TheWestAfricanCritic
      @TheWestAfricanCritic วันที่ผ่านมา

      yea that's true. the whole country is in your business now

  • @adeifeadeoye
    @adeifeadeoye วันที่ผ่านมา +108

    Thank you so much for including me in this discussion. I had so much fun shooting this and it was such an eye-opener ❤

    • @dighilaemieshofonie5487
      @dighilaemieshofonie5487 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

      Hi, I want to make a comment on what you said in the discussion about “equality in wealth”.
      From a glance it might seem appropriate to have everyone maintain an equal level of wealth but the idea is fundamentally flawed. Reason:
      1. People do not put in the same amount of work and effort for them to be making the same thing as someone who does less.
      2. People (by nature) tend to not want to put in the work when everything is handed to them (do you get where I’m going with this?)
      3. When these two factors come into play, it’ll cause an imbalance and the crumble of a functioning society. The only thing that motivates people to work is a need to provide or survive and when this factor has been removed, society grinds to a halt. For instance, if you’re given answers to an exam, what’s the purpose of the examination? You’ll no longer see a reason to study. Same thing applies here.
      What should be given to people is equity (a fair chance to the less privileged to stand on their own feet through government programs and the likes) not equality. The only way the society you were talking about can work without crumbling is through government totalitarian power (where everyone’s work output is monitored) this takes away free will, privacy and freedom. Communism might seem innocent and humane on the surface but it’s way worse than capitalism. I’d advise to do some more research on this (preferably through twitter, google and most platforms are censored and manipulated)
      Capitalism >>> communism

    • @Whitebeards_omo_ileri
      @Whitebeards_omo_ileri วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Omo I just realized a lot that you said to me on the show
      But I no para sha 😂😂

    • @Oluwatimilehinfgt
      @Oluwatimilehinfgt วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      I knew your face looked familiar 😅

    • @trippn8522
      @trippn8522 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

      Hello, you're so smart! I really enjoyed all you said thank you

    • @agbojocaleb1367
      @agbojocaleb1367 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +6

      Many of your points were right
      But you bullied the others

  • @ifedayoayoade9433
    @ifedayoayoade9433 วันที่ผ่านมา +93

    Highly insensitive to think poverty is a choice in a country where a significant majority lives below the poverty line

  • @RaphaelDraco-g3n
    @RaphaelDraco-g3n วันที่ผ่านมา +54

    The difference in the mindset is sooo clear

    • @ajisegbedeadejokeaanuoluwa9640
      @ajisegbedeadejokeaanuoluwa9640 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Yea, it's the mindset, it's a pity that most of our parents think this way..

    • @bamefybambam7066
      @bamefybambam7066 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Who gives man the zeal and mindset to do these things?! Who gives some people no zeal or mindset to do these things?!
      Something's are genetic(nature),some are conditional(nuture).

  • @boluwatifeidowu3793
    @boluwatifeidowu3793 วันที่ผ่านมา +66

    With the way Christopher spoke, I believe he will soon be rich.
    He seems to have dropped the poverty mentality, just that the results haven’t shown yet.

    • @TheWestAfricanCritic
      @TheWestAfricanCritic วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      i don't see it. he has a degree in social work. he's not getting wealthy with that. He needs to learn a skill more valuable to the marketplace and then be exceptional because he is in Nigeria.

    • @tamiausten873
      @tamiausten873 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      5:28 he actually started hot. I love how he talked about people's zeal being dead. They were saying some of the "poor" side are being religious, they are actually acting like a lot religious people. You can't be talking about anything without any space for consideration of emotions. Many of us still have passion, personally I'm struggling to keep my passion alive everyday in this country. People have worked and struggled until they stop one day without knowing that they've even stopped because it's become so hard. 9:11 I'm poor right now, it's definitely not my choice. When it comes to begging, I can't even beg someone who owes me for my money. I don't like to have to ask for things, it's either I deserve it or I don't and in either case I feel it's on the person to do the right thing. I shouldn't have to beg for what is mine, same for what isn't mine, the owner will choose to give me 🤷🏾‍♀️. Some people have better mindset, yet they don't have much more than me either. They've forgotten that Nigeria steals the fire in many people's eyes.

    • @Whitebeards_omo_ileri
      @Whitebeards_omo_ileri วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I am only advocating for my fellow Poor people

    • @DavidSamuel-gz7cf
      @DavidSamuel-gz7cf 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Exactly. It's because of him I'm rethinking my stance that "poverty is a choice". If it was only red polo guy and black polo lady, I will not shake. Funny enough, I'm poor and because of Chris, I think I espouse that whole poverty is a choice axiom simply because I've not done as much work as he's most probably done only to end up with nothing to show for it. I'm still young. I have more years ahead of me. So I think I'll rather be humbler from henceforth. Poverty is a choice but not in all cases

  • @Adrian-xc4nw
    @Adrian-xc4nw วันที่ผ่านมา +56

    from this video, my two cents
    Adeife just gave me the vibe that she doesn't understand things from other perspectives and only sees things from her own way, she gave valid points ngl,but at times,i felt like she sounded inconsiderate
    Noah uses religion as all, which can be both good and bad
    Lawrence, tbf i think he works in that forex academy
    favor just seemed like a good person and yes her English may not be the best, but i just felt nothing butgood energy from her
    i liked the chief, cuz he sees things from both perspective and from what he said, being rich didn't change him from wanting to help ppl
    i really liked Christopher as well, he seemed like a genuinely good guy ready to do better and i truly hope and pray he gets noticed from this video

    • @Whitebeards_omo_ileri
      @Whitebeards_omo_ileri 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @@Adrian-xc4nw I like you too my bro
      And I pray too

  • @itorobassey4471
    @itorobassey4471 วันที่ผ่านมา +228

    To a degree, both sides are blinded by their reality.

    • @jaughnekow
      @jaughnekow วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      true, we all have different experiences...

    • @ritamanafa
      @ritamanafa วันที่ผ่านมา

      True!

    • @tutublossom8545
      @tutublossom8545 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@itorobassey4471 exactly

    • @ifeanyiobiadoh5323
      @ifeanyiobiadoh5323 วันที่ผ่านมา

      True 😅
      Both sides are so soaked into their reality. 😅

    • @andrewiyanya447
      @andrewiyanya447 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      100% correct.

  • @Favour_VirtualAssistant-f8i
    @Favour_VirtualAssistant-f8i วันที่ผ่านมา +23

    Lawrence, struck the balance in this conversation, very smart guy… I’m of his school of thought

  • @lawrenceoghor4598
    @lawrenceoghor4598 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    Thank you for having me on this episode. It was enlightening

    • @ThatSweetBoy-g5e
      @ThatSweetBoy-g5e วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Lawrence!!!

    • @Abigailmhide_
      @Abigailmhide_ วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      You really spoke well. Very intelligent ❤

    • @lawrenceoghor4598
      @lawrenceoghor4598 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@Abigailmhide_thank you

    • @olowoyeyebukola3204
      @olowoyeyebukola3204 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      Brilliant guy❤

    • @lawrenceoghor4598
      @lawrenceoghor4598 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @@olowoyeyebukola3204 thank you

  • @ameenhusseinah397
    @ameenhusseinah397 วันที่ผ่านมา +53

    what i see here is privilege at full blown play. you can tell people to get up and do something, but don’t ever think the 100% reward for hardwork is success; it’s not!
    success is often a complex interplay of circumstances, opportunities, and sometimes sheer luck. we’ve seen it play out a lot; it’s as mundane as that classmate that won’t read as much as you’ve ‘diligently’ read in school, and still pass than you. some don’t even write as substantial as you.
    also, privilege isn’t just about money; it’s also about knowledge, exposure, accessibility, opportunities, ableism (this is one whole big conversation on its own). even to not have “poor mentality”, is also a privilege. many hardworking individuals face systemic barriers that make it challenging to translate their efforts into success, and this is practically what the speakers on the ‘poor’ end of the discussion are trying to tell you.
    and saying nigeria is an enabling environment, that’s a blatant dishonest statement. nigeria has dampened potentials more than you can ever think of. and the only thing that largely makes you different from these people is the said privilege; you need to go out there and see for yourself, how much nigerians are incredibly talented and potentially endowed but what stand between then and where they want to be is simply resources and opportunities. please go out and touch grass more, so you can be in tune with reality.
    societal conversations as this; your narrowed privileged position shouldn’t be the bar (measure of impact or influence), it only makes sense that the standards for judgment should reflect the 'average man’s reality’, or at least, the experiences of the most affected populations. deal with data, statistics; not personal anecdotes or isolated experiences.
    you can walk people through the path of success (at least, so that they can be as successful as you are), but you can’t separate these limiting factors in judging or deciding if they ‘choose to be poor’.
    ciao!

    • @dexterity_1st
      @dexterity_1st วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      well said

    • @Whitebeards_omo_ileri
      @Whitebeards_omo_ileri วันที่ผ่านมา

      I for read everything…but I don talk my mint already

    • @toluo2944
      @toluo2944 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      You are so brilliant, thank you for putting the words to my thoughts.

    • @itorobassey4471
      @itorobassey4471 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@ameenhusseinah397 Very well put. Thank you.

    • @yahushasdaughter9106
      @yahushasdaughter9106 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      You are wise and thank you.

  • @savethebees412
    @savethebees412 วันที่ผ่านมา +43

    Anyway I’m still early so I think the comment has a good chance of being seen by the people behind this channel. Thank you so so much for the content you guys make. Hearing people talk about concepts and have what are often difficult conversations can be a very helpful way to use entertainment to enrich the conversations we have in our culture (and consequently that discourse shapes our culture). So thank you for doing what you do! Supposing I live in Lagos I would’ve already applied to work with you guys because I truly think this channel is giving both entertainment and substance and I wish to help with that in any way I can.

  • @ameenhusseinah397
    @ameenhusseinah397 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    Christopher is the smartest guy in this room!

  • @cie-cuche3302
    @cie-cuche3302 วันที่ผ่านมา +47

    "If I have money but don't have husband where is the happiness" 😂😂💔 that lady cracked me up

    • @menpostingw
      @menpostingw วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      So dull😅

    • @yomide_naturals
      @yomide_naturals วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      That's how far her mind goes, she would rather be married and dependent on her husband than be married and rich

    • @yomide_naturals
      @yomide_naturals วันที่ผ่านมา

      That's how far her mind goes, she would rather be married and dependent on her husband than be married and rich

    • @thecatholicnextdoor3058
      @thecatholicnextdoor3058 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      ​@@yomide_naturals
      That's where the concept of privilege sets in-education is far fetched luxury for the majority.
      Listen to them well, their minds are too far apart.
      Those poor ones cannot see past their immediate woes and those rich ones cannot see beyond their current luxury.

    • @patrickrumbu2902
      @patrickrumbu2902 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Every malam with em Buta 😃

  • @jaobillionaire
    @jaobillionaire วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    This is one of the best episodes yet... Would like another one like this but with different participants.

  • @SamTheHitmaker
    @SamTheHitmaker วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Chief’s explanation of ‘Money doesn’t buy happiness’ 👍👍👍👍👍👍

  • @AJBam-xc5rd
    @AJBam-xc5rd วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Christopher, the real guy...i pray you find your breakthrough 😊

  • @SimplyLila-y7t
    @SimplyLila-y7t วันที่ผ่านมา +22

    Poverty is a choice as well as it's not a choice...

  • @obembeoluwadarasimi5475
    @obembeoluwadarasimi5475 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    This is a mindset thing.
    I celebrate everyone for coming on the show...🎉

  • @Jayeoba.Faanubomi
    @Jayeoba.Faanubomi วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    I really wish Christopher great success!

  • @KafuiKuwornu-eh5yq
    @KafuiKuwornu-eh5yq วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    People that say that religion is only for prayers and sweet thanks to God and rituals. I don't know but that's the wrong thing. Religion or let me say Christianity covers all topics related to our daily life! JESUS loves us and HE wants to have a personal relationship with us!💗✝️

  • @JomilojuOyeyemi
    @JomilojuOyeyemi วันที่ผ่านมา +27

    The lady makes sense to some extent but she sounds opportuned so probably she doesn't understand the issue most people in Nigeria face

  • @somtoobiorah206
    @somtoobiorah206 วันที่ผ่านมา +44

    In Nigeria ppl are really saying poverty is a choice
    The audacity that being privileged gives you ppl ehn
    Mtcheeewwwww

    • @ISRAELFAMOYIN
      @ISRAELFAMOYIN วันที่ผ่านมา +23

      You better learn rather than being bitter.
      I'm not rich YET but i agree with the RICH mentality.
      Poverty is a choice!! Being rich is also a CHOICE. You'll choose one whether actively or passively. And if you decide not to choose, that's also a choice. Life would choose for you and you may not like what it gives you. It's better to take accountability and work one's life out to the top.

    • @somtoobiorah206
      @somtoobiorah206 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

      @ISRAELFAMOYIN I live a privileged life, that's why I said what I said.
      Many Nigerians, especially those from poor homes, lack the support ppl need to actually build wealth.
      I know a lot of my acquaintances who not only have to support themselves from a very young age but also have to support their parents and their siblings.
      At the end of the day, any income they get is consumed and not even enough, talk more of having money enough to set aside to make certain investments that would improve their economic status. Poverty is not about mindset or mentality or anything like that, If you don't have support, it's very hard to be rich.
      Especially as a young, hustling Nigerian.
      if you don't have adequate support and your parents know nobody wealthy, you are going to be poor for a long time.
      Are there things poor ppl can do to slightly improve their economic status? Yes
      But moving from being poor to being rich is not very attainable.
      Nigeria is a very stifling country for poor ppl.

    • @itorobassey4471
      @itorobassey4471 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@somtoobiorah206 Thank you. Privilege blinds.

    • @emmymuchie
      @emmymuchie วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      ​@@somtoobiorah206thanks for this comment

    • @tamiausten873
      @tamiausten873 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      ​@@somtoobiorah206 bless you. They don't even realize that the gap or rather gulf between both sides is almost uncrossable. I know that some people have decided to continue begging but we are plenty in this country abeg, you can't believe that 100 million of us are begging 😮😮. Many of us are hustling, these people are giving strong Buhari vibes, just gave a blanket statement about Nigerian youths (that nearly the whole population of the country sef). I don't even have rich friends, at best I have relatives that are better off, but not the actual rich. Proximity to wealth is something people under estimate, many of us don't get to even witness wealth in real life, how do we now get the mindset or idea of it 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @bashiradeleke5463
    @bashiradeleke5463 วันที่ผ่านมา +50

    The lady that wore green had lot of success than failure in her life. She is talking from perspectives of personality not reality . She isn't from mixed world and her starting background is rich. I am happy for her she explore better because she is opportunist ( Having dad as a freelancer)

    • @missrandom247
      @missrandom247 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      She did speak from reality
      It was her reality, people have different realities
      Just because her reality is different from yours doesn't make it any less reality

    • @missrandom247
      @missrandom247 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      She did speak from reality
      It was her reality, people have different realities
      Just because her reality is different from yours doesn't make it any less reality

    • @bashiradeleke5463
      @bashiradeleke5463 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@missrandom247 saying same thing her reality is personification not generalize. I was born breed to average rich family and before unfortunately scene came around Alhamdulilah I start over like I was born extremely poor my dear I know the difference I talk from experience

    • @niyoleo
      @niyoleo วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      Exactly. She was already born into wealth. Her father was a freelancer. She doesn’t have a rags to riches story.

    • @ama.rachee
      @ama.rachee วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Her father was a freelancer doesn't mean she grew up rich, I've followed her story and journey up to this point. She just has maintained the ideology that giving up on your dreams wont take you anywhere

  • @trippn8522
    @trippn8522 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    I feel Favour is comfortable with what she has, and wouldn't want to reach for more. Comfort is the enemy to growth

  • @PreciousOchimana
    @PreciousOchimana วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Mindset is everything

  • @AlabiQuadri-vl6vj
    @AlabiQuadri-vl6vj 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    Life is not a sprint ,is a marathon

  • @ajakaiyegodson
    @ajakaiyegodson 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

    My heart goes out to the Christopher guy, I pray it works out for him eventually ❤

  • @yomide_naturals
    @yomide_naturals วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    This topic can never reach a consensus 😂😂😂 because there are different perspectives to it

  • @smithusman8557
    @smithusman8557 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    I think this would of have been better if we had a perspective of a rich person born in a rich family

  • @estarbablo5972
    @estarbablo5972 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    Christopher is a smart man! Uou can tell he applies some level headed reasoning

    • @Whitebeards_omo_ileri
      @Whitebeards_omo_ileri 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      I was there to represent poor people

  • @marthangafor6414
    @marthangafor6414 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Very interesting conversation. Poverty can be a choice, but I think it's a more complex situation. Circumstances of birth, exposure to opportunities, political factors etc matter. The guy whose friend didn't help him out when he needed money for his forex course is v understanding. Sometimes people are just cruel.

  • @Blueorangered
    @Blueorangered วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I was looking forward to a video from cruise. And they didn’t disappoint.

  • @sharonosaze
    @sharonosaze วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I really appreciate discussions like this

  • @Truthundilutedwitholuwabukola
    @Truthundilutedwitholuwabukola วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    Seeing Adeife and I know it’s about to go downnnnnnn

  • @HelyBel
    @HelyBel วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I love this can’t wait to hear the rest of this discussion 😅.

  • @tobilobaololade-wj3xl
    @tobilobaololade-wj3xl วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Finally cruise don post✊🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🇳🇬🇳🇬🔥🔥

  • @byadetayo
    @byadetayo 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Having the right mindset is the best thing one can ever have and the funny thing about mindsets is that you have to keep updating it and checking yourself to be sure you are not just existing.

  • @UrbanBoy1
    @UrbanBoy1 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Nigeria has let Mr Christopher down and that’s so sad, he needs to first build up his mindset (first things first) before any thing else!

  • @ifeanyiobiadoh5323
    @ifeanyiobiadoh5323 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    37:00
    I agree with her.
    We have been brainwashed.
    We have accepted imperfection to be the best, but it shouldn't be.

  • @callme_pere
    @callme_pere วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    From my point of view,I will say being rich is a choice but being poor isn't

    • @Stephanieuche
      @Stephanieuche วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      If being rich is a choice then that means being poor is also a choice because it means you have to choose between the two

    • @LordListowell-iy9kh
      @LordListowell-iy9kh วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Right dear

  • @somtochukwuakpuru
    @somtochukwuakpuru วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    This guy on red, no anger me o😂

  • @patrickrumbu2902
    @patrickrumbu2902 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    SDC put it best; 'welcome to Nigeria, where your birth right is stolen'.

  • @PreciousOchimana
    @PreciousOchimana วันที่ผ่านมา +22

    Noah’s mindset might keep him down for a long time…. Bro, take responsibility…. The Chief seems like a kind person, Adeife was abit insensitive with her words at some point… overall beautiful conversation

    • @ifeifesi
      @ifeifesi วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Yes, he uses the Bible to justify his terrible mindset but that same Bible tells us to work hard, find a skill to excel in etc. He will always be poor the way he is

    • @TheWestAfricanCritic
      @TheWestAfricanCritic วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@ifeifesi yea he seems to have given up.

    • @Whitebeards_omo_ileri
      @Whitebeards_omo_ileri วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Adeife came after me 😂😂

    • @yiojoshuaterungwa
      @yiojoshuaterungwa 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      You nigerians dont ever say what it is the way it is someone says nigeria is not an enabling economy and someone else says theyre making excuses meanwhile even with digital skills you have to look for employment with international companies because nigerians and nigerian companies that claim to be hiring digitals skill cant pay you your worth because of the poor labour laws and they literally cant afford it

  • @magn1fique
    @magn1fique วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Some of the rich people contradict themselves. They say being poor is a choice, but in the end are talking about how some people are 'supposed' to be poor, and some people are 'supposed' to be rich...

    • @davidadekoya5605
      @davidadekoya5605 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      yes it still a choice. humans will always be humans. some people will always be poor. because that's just how the world works. but it is still up to you whether to let the laws of the universe be your fate or you defy it.

    • @tamiausten873
      @tamiausten873 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Exactly, they understand that people are poor by the design of our current society. So they actually need some people to stay down 😅. However, the world hasn't always been this way.

    • @Whitebeards_omo_ileri
      @Whitebeards_omo_ileri วันที่ผ่านมา

      So you guys noticed …I think the percentage of the Rich people in Nigeria is too small

    • @magn1fique
      @magn1fique วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@davidadekoya5605 but when you guys say poverty is a “choice”, do you mean you think people actually *choose* to be poor?

    • @chi3775
      @chi3775 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@magn1fique
      Exactly why would anyone choose a bad thing for themselves.
      Being privileged/ rich is not a crime. Its what you do with those privileges that count .

  • @MoneyOverEmotions
    @MoneyOverEmotions วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    38:48 Excellent episode! Thank you!

  • @LadyT234
    @LadyT234 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    Christopher and the man in the red t-shirt (Noah) were my faves. The lady in green was a bit insensitive and condescending, in my opinion.

    • @Whitebeards_omo_ileri
      @Whitebeards_omo_ileri วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you 🙏

    • @mikolowiskamikolowiska4993
      @mikolowiskamikolowiska4993 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      You like being lied to abi.

    • @MileyAfolabi
      @MileyAfolabi 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Exactly. She actually made a lot of sensible points but relayed them very rudely

  • @user-db1um8ct8z
    @user-db1um8ct8z วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    To those that agreed that poverty is a choice, I want to know WHY they think a human being would choose to be poor? Or maybe someone else can answer this question?
    It’s an insult to the majority of working Nigerians who are up from sun up to sun down, literally the foundation of the small functionality of the country to say that they choose their condition. The country would be nothing without them. We can do without Obi Cubana but we cannot do without the farmers and market women.
    Also, it was totally unnecessary to point out that the woman in black misinterpreted the question. The viewers can ascertain that on their own. No need to set her up for laughs. Nigerians already look down on poor people.

    • @mikolowiskamikolowiska4993
      @mikolowiskamikolowiska4993 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      It's easier to be lazy. For pot require any effort or risk. They're comfortable in the poverty

  • @trippn8522
    @trippn8522 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    I would love to be on this show one day to talk on the power of your mindset which lots of nigerians neglect

  • @kerenmasangu4168
    @kerenmasangu4168 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Poverty is not a choice. Many poor people have tried to leave poverty, but we need to remember that location and circumstances of the poor man will determine how successful they will be. It will have to take one person to help that poor man to be rich in the future.
    Mindset does play a part to becoming rich, but without opportunity, there is no substance. Mindset can only take you so far. The girl in green-runs with capitalism, hence her perspective and insensitivity. The chief went through a lower socioeconomic status and built his way up, but someone helped him to get there because of the job he had.
    In Africa specifically, being poor is not a choice. Many have no choice but to be poor, no matter how much they try-education opportunities, parental guidance, career advancement, etc., it all places a part. I disagree with the girl with the green dress on education. Education is a major key to success-doesn’t have to be academia, but as long as knowledge is learnt, it’s very valuable.
    It’s very obvious that the rich see the world differently because their reality is not based on the everyday struggle of a poor man. Both live in different worlds that are interpreted differently.
    As someone who was born with a gold spoon in their mouth and never experienced poverty-I cannot imagine myself being poor, because I’ve had friends who were poor, and watching them live their life was depressing. Hence I don’t think being poor is a choice as many factors play key to keep one in poverty, especially in Africa.

  • @dennisadetoso1028
    @dennisadetoso1028 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +4

    To be tagged as poor is wild 😂😂😂

    • @yiojoshuaterungwa
      @yiojoshuaterungwa 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Absolutely crazzyy! To think this was meant to be an intelligent conversation Nigerians do away with intelligence and focus on being smart thats literally what keeps killing the country. Its made a culture in Nigeria where people hoard rather than exchange it value for value thats what the whiteman does but nigerians supposedly the most smartest people in the world are operating a democratic economy since 1999 are unable to have something as simple as a working credit system. Theres more than 250 million people in this country young sitting around using vibrators and busting nuts all over the place mean china used 15 years straight amended labour laws to fit US labour laws and asked them to always contract chinese flr manufacturing jobs uptil today when a multinational conglomerate comes to nigeria they just make a headline about how much they are going to invest instead the government say keep your money dont build and office here instead hire our citizens as expertraites to your companies and pay them in accordance to your labour laws and pay them their worth

    • @Whitebeards_omo_ileri
      @Whitebeards_omo_ileri 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      But it the reality of most Nigerians

    • @Whitebeards_omo_ileri
      @Whitebeards_omo_ileri 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      It’s our reality 😊

  • @naijaminimalist7255
    @naijaminimalist7255 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    25:48 We are the church,,,
    Its like the church going to take their money
    This guy cracks me up

  • @Mental_musingssss
    @Mental_musingssss วันที่ผ่านมา +26

    Poverty or wealth=hard work + circumstances, if you don't understand, signify let me explain.

    • @mikolowiskamikolowiska4993
      @mikolowiskamikolowiska4993 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Define circumstances. Ppl who lottery and return to poverty.

  • @preciousakuetiemhe4155
    @preciousakuetiemhe4155 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Honestly i think this lady is really misunderstood. Sometimes the truth hurts but it must be said. I really learnt alot thank you

  • @victoronyekonwea2910
    @victoronyekonwea2910 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    At the end, it starts and ends with your mind.

  • @ARajantara777
    @ARajantara777 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    There is always one woman that has low self-esteem and puts man above her being! Sad saying no husband no happiness. I pray for her to come back to her senses!

  • @salttybarber5233
    @salttybarber5233 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    War of mindsets and realities

  • @Dah_Boogeyman
    @Dah_Boogeyman วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Bro just kept mentioning Firepips till it started sounding like a promotion video. 🤔
    Was waiting for ADEIFE to use the “F” word and she didn’t disappoint 😂 😂, agreed with some of her takes except the last take on the existing Dichotomy between the rich and poor. (That’s her perspective though)
    I really enjoyed listening to the Chief speak 😂. Was dishing out unique perspectives on every prompt.
    Noah needs to work on his mindset.
    Christopher sounds like someone who’s been let down by the society and is really pained.
    These are just my opinions and do understand that everyone is entitled to his/her.
    Overall, it was a very informative and intriguing session.

    • @TheWestAfricanCritic
      @TheWestAfricanCritic วันที่ผ่านมา

      Noah gave up on trying.

    • @BelovedJohn-il6uo
      @BelovedJohn-il6uo วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Bro 😂😂😂 Adeife's Father is a freelancer. 😂 If you have a phone and Data. 😂😂 Bro some don't even know phone exist I hope Christopher will make it

    • @tamiausten873
      @tamiausten873 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@TheWestAfricanCritic he sounds like he's actually still trying. I mean he's able to get to such a platform despite the obstacles. Some people won't have made it

  • @laurynososeh5305
    @laurynososeh5305 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    I came here because of Adeife🤭

  • @ogungataiyelolu4681
    @ogungataiyelolu4681 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    I think everyone should read the book titled outliers, it opened my mind to a lot of things, especially when it comes to compound advantage.

  • @mabsademola979
    @mabsademola979 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    That guy on red might not escape poverty, bro lack accountability.
    Nobody is special on this earth

  • @tutublossom8545
    @tutublossom8545 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    Personally, I don’t think the first question, was a good choice.
    Because, there are people in war torn countries that are poor and not by choice!
    Life just happens man.
    Even the Bible says, there will always be the poor and needy amongst us.
    Not everyone will be rich or even comfortable.
    Are there lazy people? Yes.
    But the ratio is low.
    Time and chance happens to people.
    That being said, hustle ooo, insult plenty.

    • @Stephanieuche
      @Stephanieuche วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      You are bringing in exceptions.
      The reason why ppl stay poor is more than just laziness.
      Bad choices
      Weak mindset
      There are a lot of factors.

    • @tutublossom8545
      @tutublossom8545 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Stephanieuchealso ma’am, life isn’t black and white. Please get with reality.

    • @LordListowell-iy9kh
      @LordListowell-iy9kh วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@StephanieucheI love you ❤❤❤

  • @greatnnawuchi4282
    @greatnnawuchi4282 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    This guy on red sha😂😂😂

  • @BlesynYvonne
    @BlesynYvonne วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    The chief and the girl wearing green 👏👏👏👏

  • @Seyeoderinde
    @Seyeoderinde 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    I love that man in red cap

  • @tkwest09
    @tkwest09 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    i love this episode is very educative and motivational thumbs up guys

  • @edwardo2052
    @edwardo2052 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    the Chief and the lady in green (Adeife) are both right. The guy who studied social work didn't do his research, he learnt nothing in school.

  • @greatnnawuchi4282
    @greatnnawuchi4282 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Adeife wan kill my guy😂😂😂

  • @ameenhusseinah397
    @ameenhusseinah397 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    ‪asking someone why they chose social works for uni when they know there are no opportunities for that in nigeria is the most privileged thing ever. 😂‬
    ‪this is after when he said that he’s been applying for a while, and when he finally got in, that’s what they gave him. ‬
    you’re asking asking why didn’t he do his research?
    no, that’s the most disingenuous thing ive heard today.
    in this nigeria? you must be fucking kidding me.

    • @pelumiolufuwa
      @pelumiolufuwa วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      I totally agree with you... Sounded like she wasn't ready to listen at all... I feel to change someone's mindset you have to be ready to listen but she hardly listened... Kinda insensitive, some of the things she said

    • @amir_official2007
      @amir_official2007 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I understand you but at the same time even though you want to do a change of course of study, you should do proper research on the course you want to study and its opportunities for employment and productivity.

    • @ameenhusseinah397
      @ameenhusseinah397 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@amir_official2007 that is well put, and pretty understandable. it should be the basic thing to do, undisputed. but certain things don’t apply in generic context, especially when there’s individual circumstances. it has to apply peculiarly.
      listen to his story; this time it’s not just about research now, it’s about a system that’s not ‘working’, the way i like to say it. and this is where privilege comes to play; to save you. the connections that we have; what about people that don’t have access to this?
      according to him, he’s applied and applied, and never got him, and when they finally gave him something; it was social work he was given. what was he supposed to do?
      in this circumstance, there’s nothing research could have done; it was either he accepted it or he kept on throwing in applications, yearly (meaning, lesser drive, dampening potential, waste of time, more money leaving his pocket), and mind you this is someone that’s ’self sponsored’, and it’s funnier that this is the reality of average nigerians.
      and that’s what the other end people are failing to put into context. reality.

    • @Stephanieuche
      @Stephanieuche วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I like the fact that you said "in this Nigeria" because studying a course that has zero job opportunities practically leaves you equal to a drop out because it's the same low-paying jobs you will be hustling for. It's disingenuous to accept studying a course knowing fully well it's not practical in the country you live in and expecting a different outcome.
      The best option would have been to accept the admission then attempt a change of course because after the whole "so I should continue staying at home" it's the same thing you'll do when you are jobless.
      Let's be real abeg

    • @TheWestAfricanCritic
      @TheWestAfricanCritic วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Stephanieuche it would have been better for him not to go because he wasted his time, that he can never get back, and his money. I would say he is in a worst-off position than a jobless person

  • @jeremyajagbe
    @jeremyajagbe วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    There are many valuable lessons to be gained from watching this video.

  • @KINGDOMDAUGHTER
    @KINGDOMDAUGHTER วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Poverty is a choice, a person has to be prudent and wise on how he or she spends the money.
    Poverty can be for a time, especially when proper resources are not in reach to ascribed to success out of poverty.
    but with determination better will come and wisdom applies to one's spending habits to not go back to poor in poverty
    Many wants to keep up with the joneses to wear, drive, and spending to get the best things and not having discernment for future knowledge and wisdom in spending habits.
    POVERTY can also be spiritual, where that family and bloodline is prone to setbacks and HINDERANCE to be poor and broke, if that curse and generational cycles are not broken off to achieve prosperity.

  • @Blueorangered
    @Blueorangered วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This was a really good watch.

  • @MileyAfolabi
    @MileyAfolabi 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    The lady in green needs to learn how to argue without being rude or disrespectful. Christopher, keep on grinding! It’ll all work out.

  • @nonistar5655
    @nonistar5655 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    For those enduring the deepest poverty, the only riches they can afford to give each other are love and happiness..

  • @SamTheHitmaker
    @SamTheHitmaker วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    I love this one!

    • @savethebees412
      @savethebees412 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Damn Sam I thought I’d be first to comment

    • @SamTheHitmaker
      @SamTheHitmaker วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@savethebees412😂😂😂😂
      Today is my lucky day. Try harder next time😂😂

  • @omotolabadmus
    @omotolabadmus วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Like Adeife has said, thething is everyone can be rich
    But society had made it seem that it's wrong,hence most society rules never favours the poor
    The thing is when you have a stable economy to make people rich some people would still decide why do they need to work
    They would not want to work,but at least those that want to work has an economy that wants to help them grow

  • @ubeferakeya5788
    @ubeferakeya5788 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    I just knew this would be good

  • @AlabiQuadri-vl6vj
    @AlabiQuadri-vl6vj 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Lawrence says it all ""life is not Nollywood ""

  • @divinelove9836
    @divinelove9836 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +4

    Adeife has valid points but she came off as a bully sometimes especially when she was cutting some of the poor ppl off and even blatantly refusing to see things from other ppl's pov

    • @MileyAfolabi
      @MileyAfolabi 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Yesss!!

  • @ruthmoses_rm
    @ruthmoses_rm 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    All of them have points just combine all these ideas and you’re unstoppable…. Poverty isn’t funny never settle for it

  • @codtv8327
    @codtv8327 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I'm motivated by the forex guy, I'm ready to put in the work too

  • @niyoleo
    @niyoleo วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    It’s a choice to be rich but it’s not a choice to be poor especially in countries like Nigeria. It’s harder for those that are poor to escape that kind of life because they don’t have the resources and support needed. Mindset alone isn’t enough. You need support. All 3 of the rich ones got some form of support that helped them get to where they are.

  • @lujosocakes8834
    @lujosocakes8834 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Poverty is not a choice.

    • @ISRAELFAMOYIN
      @ISRAELFAMOYIN วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      You watching this video is in vain if you still say this..
      But anyways, you've MADE YOUR CHOICE...

    • @TestimonyRegina
      @TestimonyRegina 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      You made your choice already 😂😂

    • @mikolowiskamikolowiska4993
      @mikolowiskamikolowiska4993 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@ISRAELFAMOYINwhy Jesus said we will always have poor among us.

    • @ISRAELFAMOYIN
      @ISRAELFAMOYIN 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @mikolowiskamikolowiska4993 ask him, not me. Jesus prophecied as he knows the future. He knows some people would be nonchalant about their financial life which is true. Everybody can be rich, but not Everybody is rich. Make your choice to where you want to be.

  • @OladeleFlorence-l2k
    @OladeleFlorence-l2k 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    I really like this Lawrence guy ❤

  • @xiaolan1369
    @xiaolan1369 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Oh no this will be another jubilee

  • @McDimmy
    @McDimmy วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    A society cannot function properly without economic classes, as wealth disparity drives much of the demand for labor. If everyone were wealthy, there would be little incentive for people to take lower-paying jobs, which are essential to keep the economy running. For example, the wealthy would find themselves paying exorbitant prices for basic goods and services-such as $500 for a juice box-because there would be fewer workers willing to accept lower wages to produce, distribute, and sell these items. In this scenario, the rich would face the consequences of inflation, and the overall value of money would diminish as wages and prices escalate across the board, destabilizing the economy.

  • @victoria-Bamiwuye
    @victoria-Bamiwuye วันที่ผ่านมา

    immediately I saw Adeife's face, I knew this episode will be goooooooood

  • @THISISDORCAS
    @THISISDORCAS 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    Poverty only becomes a choice when you have access to information and opportunities, and you don't make use of it.

  • @trippn8522
    @trippn8522 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    This makes me excited that there are nigerians that think this way! Poverty is a choice!

  • @oluwanifemiodumosu3056
    @oluwanifemiodumosu3056 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    I think Lawrence was making an excuse for the second friend. While I agree no one owes you anything, he should have just told you outright rather than stringing you on.

  • @thecatholicnextdoor3058
    @thecatholicnextdoor3058 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    These people fail to see the different realities in play.
    Each lives in his/her own bubble

  • @fowokemiadeniji1710
    @fowokemiadeniji1710 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    I'm here for Adeife🎉🎉

  • @cerebralgeneratedimagery5785
    @cerebralgeneratedimagery5785 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    If you choose to be poor you will definitely be poor, but if you choose to be rich it doesn't mean you will be rich. Good things dont come easily.

  • @damsyawe5848
    @damsyawe5848 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I see Adeife, I watch

  • @dave-000
    @dave-000 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    35:51 the answer to her question is because this is the best we can do.
    Unless she happens to have a better system of wealth distribution that isn't outright communism or socialism.
    But till then, capitalism is the most optimal system of wealth distribution and societal function as a whole.

    • @niyoleo
      @niyoleo วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      The notion that socialism is bad is a big misconception. Historically, under socialism before colonization, Afrika and its people was doing much better than under capitalism. All of the countries labeled “underdeveloped” in the world are exploited by others the west and are a product of not only imperialists and colonialist exploitation but also by CAPITALISTS and CAPITALISM.

  • @ShinyJay
    @ShinyJay 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    This social works guy was once on Nons Miraj's Hunt's Game show 💯

  • @zumnan
    @zumnan วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Christopher is a Character 😭🤣

  • @Mary-k3j
    @Mary-k3j วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Poverty is a choice .....so am poor by choice life no balance

    • @ISRAELFAMOYIN
      @ISRAELFAMOYIN วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      😅😅 you are correct!! Poverty is a choice one make, either passively or actively.
      Take responsibility and begin working your way out. We would get there❤.

    • @Whitebeards_omo_ileri
      @Whitebeards_omo_ileri วันที่ผ่านมา

      I tire ooo

  • @peternnenji3050
    @peternnenji3050 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I love the idea of organizing this. Being able to hear things from different perspective.
    What I didn't like here is the idea of attaching the rich and poor tag to their names.
    It was not actually necessary.

  • @favourakpan7942
    @favourakpan7942 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Opportunity does not come to us anymore, we all go out to search for it in our different way. But that doesn't guarantee you'll see it early. The only secret to come out of poverty is to be consistent in yourself to become a better person.