@DarkCoreX i believe they meant episode 445. not the first time, or second, that someone has ask for a baby. what i want to know is how they remembered the exact episode number.
I'm a high functioning autistic person too, but instead of controlling me my mum helps me manage my Bill's and save my money and only takes money for herself after asking and getting a yes which I usually agree to because most of the time it's for her car, mostly fuel, which is used to help me do my shopping, go to appointments etc. My diagnosis was this year but my mum has guessed I'm autistic my entire life. Even before we knew she helped me a lot, I'm dreading the inevitable day she dies even if it is unlikely to happen anytime soon lol.
Also as a high functioning autistic person, I am so thankful that my mam has made my home comforting and welcoming for me. It's cases like the third story that makes me so thankful that my mam is sane
Dad: "I know you will do the right thing." OP: **Packs her things and leaves, not giving them the baby** Mom and dad: "No, no, that's not how you're supposed to play the game."
That's third story is heartbreaking to me. I have a 21-year-old son who is autistic. He is not particularly high functioning. He truly does need to live at home at least for a long while yet. I also manage his Social Security. But I would never consider embezzling that money. We keep every receipt. I create a monthly income expense report. I keep an annual expense report. I mean the government can audit that account. Abuse of disabled people is unfortunately not uncommon and quite sickening to me.
I'm also autistic, and lived with my parents until I was 27. Then I moved out and coped fine. I'm less than two months off my thirtieth birthday now, and I've never been better.
Story 1: I'll tell you the worst part, that this isn't the worst thing she ever done. Using her daughter baby to trap her BF then telling everyone when your daughter said no should be the the worst but if it's not then no way should this woman have anymore kids.
Story 2: So another person covered this, and I left a question on why she would have children if she were just going to treat them like financial burdens and then toss an invoice at them. An answer I got was that she probably only wanted children for the benefits that she would get. She would get extra money, and then just get back all the money she spent on the kids. So basically, it's triple S-tier greed. Story 3: This basically sums it up easier. The mom only sees OP as nothing more than a ticket to money, and her rage basically cost her said ticket.
Story 2: Not exactly the same situation, but my dad dated a woman who got pregnant by him then disappeared and didn't tell him. Why did she do this? Because the intense career field she wanted to go into required a PHD. Something she could obtain freely through a program if she was a SINGLE MOTHER. So she got pregnant on purpose, had my oldest brother, only cared for him enough to get through college, then when she finished she literally dropped him on my dad's doorstep and left him with us. You are exactly correct. Some people only have kids for the benefit: Through attention or through physical gains.
@@JHyde-tv3if holy crap your brother’s bio mom is the worst kind of human. Imagine creating an entire human being and traumatizing them by abandoning them as a small child because you want to use them as a coupon.
Anyone billed for expenses incurred for raising them should just pull an unit#01-306 reverse card with the I DIDN’T ASK TO BE BORN ILL SUE YOU FIR DAMAGES
Last story: any parent that would ask to go with on their kid's honeymoon is up to something. Don't care what reason they claim to have, no parent should want to go unless they're intent is to ruin it for their child and SO.
The only exception (and I use this term loosely here in this case) is if the parents are having their own separate vacation in that same area as the honeymoon; they just join up with the wedding couple a day or two before the vacation/honeymoon is over. That way no one is being impeded on.
Story 1: Not only is Op's mother crazy, but the rest of the family that agreed that she should give up her baby so that her mother could try and baby-trap her boyfriend! Terrible people, the lot of them. That's a no-contact situation if ever I've heard one. Yikes! Story 2: No. People like that shouldn't have kids because it is not the child's duty to pay back every single cent from the moment they are conceived onwords. They didn't have any say in being brought into the world. Op and their sibling don't owe her a damn thing at this point.
Story 2: I have 3 daughters, two are teens. The idea that they owe me ANYTHING for raising them is absolute insanity that should land her in an asylum. I feel like my job is to raise them well, with good morals and compassion. Then, when they're ready, support them getting into/through college or a trade school, teach them to manage their lives and finances, then co-sign if necessary for their first home. I won't buy them a car, but I will co-sign so they can build credit. After they succeed at moving out, I'll always be an emergency fall-back position if their situation out of the nest goes bad. My parents did all of this for me and my siblings, I will do it for my children. We live in a time where my daughters are likely to go to college from home and my home will be free and available to them if that's what they want. If they want to move out and have that independence, so be it. I don't keep any records of how much they've cost us to raise because it's irrelevant. And, when they get old enough to work, I still won't keep records. That mother disgusts me to my core. No child asked to be born, parents have and raise children for selfish reasons, which is fine because those reasons create a benefit for the children.
Yeah, when my "dad" married my step mother, the emotional abuse began (granted I had been abused by my father since I was a baby). They wouldn't buy me any food, so I got a job so I wouldn't go hungry. However, my father forced me to open an account that was connected to his. Every time I bought something he didn't agree with, he'd steal all my money. Never got a cent of it back either. Glad I'm out of that situation and am married to my amazing wife. She helped me heal from all the abuse
@@lollybirdy Well, the thing is, I was constantly kept away from everyone while growing up. He didn't even let me go to public school and I had to teach myself. I had no friends and no family who lived around me, he even actively sabotaged any attempt on my part to contact my mother and half brothers. He manipulated me throughout my whole life, and since I grew up that way, I didn't know how bad it truly was until I met my wife. She and her family showed me what real love looks like. Of course, by then it was too late to do anything except to move on and try to heal. Unfortunately the man now has 3 kids with a fourth on the way and I'm trying to see if there's anything I can do to keep him from doing the same to them
First Story: This story belongs on r/insaneparents because both OP's mom and dad are equally insane. OP's mom threw a tantrum because she couldn’t take OP's child and pass it off as hers, then decided to air out OP's business on social media. OP's dad shows up setting appointments on OP's behalf to have the kid put up for adoption. These two are insane Second Story: Bro, this has to be r/insaneparents right?! This is insane; OP's mom charged her for expenses SINCE BIRTH!? This woman is insanely greedy and a horrible mother. Kids aren’t asked to be born so those same kids don’t owe their parents a damn thing Third Story: Three stories back to back of insanely greedy mothers. OP had to deal with this woman for years and I honestly feel bad for OP. Glad they are getting away from this walking sin of greed. Good on OP for screwing this lady over Fourth Story: U would think its never a good idea to park on someone's property. At least OP was able to mess with this person before she can leave Comment: There are signs that says the road is private property but somehow entitled parents read that as "public". That one lady is stupid to try and run someone over in front of the cops Fifth Story: Imagine thinking u deserve a free trip somewhere because u gave birth to a child 😂. She really tried to take credit for a wedding because she birth the soon-to-be groom
Not only that I the second story, but it's a parents legal responsibility to provide a warm safe environment for the child, food and water, and a working shower. There's a reason cps gets involved if each of those needs don't get met.
Bro, the whiplash I got from how the mother from the first story responded to her 19 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER saying she was pregnant. I would think that maybe some disappointment or even a supportive parent would have sufficed but this is just a whole nother level of crazy
Story 3: Hang on was she getting less money or something? It just seems weird to me that she threw you out over something so small after years of guilt tripping to make you stay. It feels like there's something missing that I don't think OP knows. Also it doesn't seem like it's just OP being abuse, the dad in this story is so weak to the mom that I'm a bit concerned about it
oh that woman was never going to throw OP out. she was just going to make her life miserable all the while stressing OP out about not having anywhere to live for as long as she could get away with it before giving OP "another chance" and letting OP stay. remember, she didn't think OP had anyone else to turn to other than her, so when she "changes her mind" at the last moment OP would have felt grateful for letting him continue to stay and OP would have fallen deeper into the trap. only OP wasn't so dependent on his mom as she thought and it backfired big time.
@@abiean222 Yep. That was the plan. OP's mom felt she had a chance to be mean, get away with it, and make her kid grateful for it all at the same time. Platinum grade awful.
Strange that the only time OPs dad is mentioned is when he notified his wife about eviction policy. He sounds like a spineless enabler and I’m glad OP is done with them
@@abiean222 OP is a guy, not a female. Says so in the beginning. Also, OP mentions a boyfriend and "mom" hating all of OP's friends as "liberals". I think the 'something missing' that people keep wondering about is pretty obvious.
Story 4: This was something that happens in my area as well. I live in a suburb in CA outside of LA. I live between two condo buildings and across from another gated off collection of homes. Because of this, there is little parking and I have an unusually large driveway for the size of my house. If you do it right, you can fit six cars into the driveway. Well, on the rainy day two weeks ago, some idiot decided to park in front of my driveway because they couldn't find a place to park. Another person had the same bright idea and didn't see the car that was already there and ended up crashing right into it. The result was two totaled cars and one damaged one. The clowns didn't even have the decency to sweep up the parts of the car that were left until the manager of the condo building near my house finally decided to sweep it up himself so that people could park there.
My son is autistic, he has never wanted to move out of the family home, and I have no plans to push him out. He gets a disability stipend that is deposited into my checking account. I write him a check every month, he wants me to keep a small amount of his check. He is free to spend his money as he wishes. I pay for food, clothing, entertainment, all household costs etc, as if he were my child living in my house. Because He IS my child and lives with his mother and father. Having children is not an 18 year sacrifice, its a choice and a privilege. I love that I have my kids around, and their friends and the friends kids too. It keeps me young and very happy. 😊
There have been times when situations like in story 2 actually go to court. Usually its deemed that there is no requirement or need for a child to pay their parents for being raised.
isn't the legal responsibility of the parent to provide for the child? like to the point of jail time if you fail/refuse to do so? yeah, you can't charge your kid for raising them until they become a legal adult. after that, its a different story, but i felt so bad hearing how OP and their sister just paid their shit mom that money. i wish they could sue their mom for that money back, but its not likely to happen. thank goodness that they are out of that awful situation now though.
@@abiean222 Yeah, it's probably illegal. Hell, one of Roald Dahl's characters was physically, mentally, emotionally and financially abused by their legal guardian and then she was forced to hand over all her money from her job save for a pound a week for raising her. If a Roald Dahl villain does something, you KNOW it's messed up. Thankfully, that character just went missing after thinking the ghost of her brother was threatening her, and after that, his will turned up, leaving everything (and there was a lot) to his daughter.
That last one, kids used to go through my yard constantly when going to school. Then we fenced our yard because we got a dog and my husband didn't want to put her on a leash. He wanted her to be able to run around and play without risking tangling up into anything. Holy HELL you should've heard the bitching the people in the cult-de-sac did when they realized their kids would have to walk to the end of their street and walk down the road, instead of saving themselves four blocks of walking by cutting through people's yards. They even called the cops, SIX TIMES. Demanding that they force us to take down our fence. LOL In the end, they simply gave up. I think the cops put their foot down about all the calls.
I feel so sorry for the guy on the spectrum. It's so often the case that they become a cash cow for their parents. Even when their parents don't mean to put them down, little moments of dismissal, sowing seeds of doubt to outright financial domination because "they're only trying to help" all lead to a pretty horrible and abusive situation that the poor person doesn't even realise is abuse (and potentially doesn't want to call abuse because they may not have independent support that's not connected to their parents in some way... e.g. a place to live). (RSlash did cut out a few details because the guy was quite articulate, but some of the details paint a fuller picture, like the earlier mention of PSW, which was only revealed later to mean Personal Support Worker... generally a parent being a Personal Support Worker or whatever the equivalent is in different countries might be considered a conflict of interest. Also, the poster mentions some pets that were hidden from inspections)
I genuinely LOLed at the first story. Imagine telling someone you're pregnant, and they asked for the baby like you just told them you found a wrist watch.
Sadly that 3rd story is very common. A family member of mine works for a company that houses and takes care of people with mental disabilities. 2 of the clients she knows have mothers who take care of their finances but the mothers just take the money except for a couple bucks for food which mostly consists of cheap junkfood.
Story 2: op don't give your mom a cent, you shouldn't have to pay back the cost that it took to keep you alive up until you were 18, a parent is supposed to do those things for their kids because it's the right thing to do and not expect the money back, recommended you cut all contact with your mom and advise your siblings to do the same cause she clearly doesn't deserve or care about kids.
3rd story: Wow, that's almost word for word my life with a few adjustments. I'm high functioning autistic, my government support money had been paying the mortgage and electricity bills since I was 14, difference is my dad was the manchild, not my mom, though she was manipulative in her own ways. I was also told I'd never make it on my own. TLDR, dad went to prison and mum ran away leaving me the house. When they came back to the house 4 years later, now divorced, they were gonna split the house. I told them I wanted a share. They said "haha no" but I had gone to the bank, showed them my statements and explained that it was ME paying the mortgage for over 5 years now, giving me a legal stake. I technically had rights to 1/3rd of the house, but I generously told my parents I'd only take 10%. When they said no, I threatened to bump it up to 20% and keep going to 33% if I had to. I used the money to get myself a job, rent a little granny flat, finish some higher education and now I'm a freelance 3D character animator. Dad married a very rich Chinese woman so she can cook and clean while he spends all her money. Mom is living with my entitled sister and they argue 25 hours a day.
The car parking story sounds so different to anyone outside of America who isn't foaming at the mouth to call the police at every small inconvenience. Like, you're not going anywhere, your cars don't need moving, she was there to pick her kid up which would take max 15-20 minutes, she's visibly nervous and apologetic (avoiding eye contact), she just wants to leave, and you think about *teaching her a lesson* by making her think her son will have to watch her get arrested. YOU know the street is fully packed. A normal person would just see the car, see the packed street and go "Oh, i hope they come back soon to move their car." It's not like she ruined the property or anything. Imo there is one Karen and its not the mom. Imagine loosing your cool over such a small matter when you don't even have to use the driveway.
4rth story: I feel personally conflicted on this matter, where there is no evidence of anything malicious outside of waiting to pick up ones kid. On the one hand, people work EXTREMELY hard these days to be able to have the legal right to claim any amount of property as any amount of theirs (since the story doesn't clarify if OP bought their house is renting, and the ownership of those two things varies). On the other hand, this is exactly the kind of attitude that keeps people from coming together as one community instead of multiple families living ina neighborhood. I totally understand both sides here, so I'm not going to give either side a major butthole score, but I'll say they each deserve 1/5 buttholes for simply not being neighborly by communicating before assuming anything so that the problem could have been entirely avoided. The entitled parents can simply ask the owner or renter of the property if they can use their parking spot momentarily, explaining the situation that she's just have to pick up their kid, they don't want to have to wait because maybe they are in a hurry for something, and maybe offer some small compensation. That's what the parents should do before just assuming their neighbors are going to be neighborly. On that same token, I feel that OP jumping straight to police is also not really being neighborly. I know all too well that often times people won't get the hint the first time, and should that be the case then you absolutely have full right from there to ring the non emergency line. Like I said, people work too damn hard these days to have the legal right to say "this property is YYY% mine". You work hard for people who don't appreciate your work and lose most of your money to a system that allows one class of people to rule over another class like slave owners just because "well clearly we worked harder than you so we deserve to be able to raise the rent as high as we want". And then you get told you have to let some random stranger use your parking lot that you worked so hard for? I TOTALLY understand getting so angry about that! I would be too! THESE are the kind of stories I wish we heard more about. The kind of stories where it's really just a matter of perspective that determines who gets the bigger bad guy score. The kind of stories that show that we are all just bunch of evolved hairless monkeys thinking we know what's best for 7B other evolved hairless monkeys. This is the kind of drama that helps stitch open wounds and shines light on the things the different Classes don't see of each other. I hope this serves as a teaching lesson for those who might need it.
My mom literally did the opposite of this and built up my confidence and did everything she could to make me believe i was capable of anything and now I'm living on my own! My mom is even helping out with rent.
I would love to have seen the mom in story 2 try to sue her kids for not paying her what the ‘owe’ and end up on judge Judy and just end up being ripped apart!
Related to Story 2. My plan is to ask my son for rent whenever he starts working. Put that rent money into a savings account. When he says he wants to move out and rent somewhere I say hold up no way. Here's your rent money go buy a house
. . . How much are you planning to charge for rent if it's going to be enough to buy a _house_ in your area afterwards? 😟 Or are you planning on chipping in, too?
I think you should maybe reconsider that plan. I get what you're trying to do, but I think it's more likely to end up with your kid resenting you than anything else, and also they'd have to live with you for a very long time to afford a down payment on a house...
I love my parents. My mom and dad had me when they were 18. Some mistakes were made in my early years raising me . They got the help they needed and I’m so blessed that they have learned from they’re mistakes. I’m very proud of them for getting help with mental illness and I’m very proud of the people they’ve become.
Glad I'm not the only one who noticed. It bother me too. It's already bad I see other people in the comments talking about that story calling OP a female too
As an autistic guy, I just want to clarify: *there is no such thing as "high/low functioning autism". It's all bs. Some of us are just better at masking our autistic traits and we "look more normal" by societal standards, but we suffer just as much from all the stigma.
Lol My dad actually asked my brother if he could come on their honeymoon to San Antonio Texas.He didn't make it like a big deal but he just asked and after we talked to him down he understood and stopped. What happened next was even funnier is that my sister-in-law said that my brother acted like her father when she would go on trips with him lol. The old saying that girls choose guys that are like their fathers is true.
5:20 I had a friend who had high functioning autism. (Not really, his mom literally faked him having it so he could get on social security. No joke.) His mom made him get social security at a young age. She took ALL OF IT to pay for her alcohol and shit for HER. She was physically abusive, going as far as putting a gun to my friends’ head once when he didn’t take her out to buy more beer. She would constantly guilt him for growing up, wanted more money, and soon enough, he finally moved out. He got his social security taken off since he made MORE than enough to live off of. She got divorced from his dad, his sister and him cut her off and she went homeless after the landlord took the house away from her when she wasn’t paying anything. We have literally no idea where she is now, but she was SEVERELY messed up. She drunk NAIL POLISH AND RUBBING ALCOHOL when she didn’t have alcohol around and no transportation. That friend is now my adopted brother! And he’s the best brother in the world. We live together and support each other. My mom loves him and his dad loves me. Hell he’s CPR certified and gave me CPR when I had a grand mal seizure. Not all heros wear capes. (Edit: no worries, I got permission from my brother to post this!)
For story three (the mother comping 2 paychecks to take "care" of their austitic child) I have seen a lot of cases almost identical to this. I'm a high functioning autistic myself which led to a lot of my friends going up also having autism. Of those that had issues taking care of themselves after adulthood came around a good deal of them were treated like this by their parents. The cause differed from person to person as to why they were treated so badly, but a common theme was that the parents wanted the money they would bring in but resented having to spend any of it on them after they became an adult. One of the most heartbreaking cases was a friend of mine that dealt with really bad parentification abuse. Being forced to take care of her younger siblings, handle all the bills, scramble to fix the mistakes her mother would make that left them with no money to handle bills, ect all while she was still in school. She basically got tricked into signing her mom up as her carer only to give her mom to quit her job and stop bothering to even bring money into the equation.
Sheesh 😮😮😮! 7:04 When I was around those ages, I had already learned how to manipulate those situations, just to keep on my feed, and match that energy. I know how to read those signs today. All you really need is to observe and calculate.
The story about the individual with ASD… I work as an RBT helping children with ASD with developmental and social delays work towards being able to be independent. This can involve literally anything they struggle with. What this mom is doing would put me in a situation as a mandated reporter to report the abuse. So glad OP is getting out of that situation.
I have highly functioning autism too, 33 years old, and have lived alone since I was 19. My parents always made sure to raise me to be as independent as possible.
School Parking story: There was an update-After contacting the school, someone did call op back and looked into the parking/pickup situation. I think even the mayor or superintendent got involved. The higher up was even at op's home when it happened again. They agreed to make more room for parking at the school.
The massive entitlement in that last one is astounding. If you live in Spain and haven't left the country in your entire life you either haven't wanted to or can't afford to. So, not only did she want to tag along on the honeymoon, she wanted them to foot the bill.
Story 4: schools in residential neighborhoods needs to have a pick up system that includes cycling the block so parents don’t block traffic or disrupt the residents. I feel like I’ve always lived in an elementary school neighborhood and that has always been the case.
Story One: And you wonder why OP's mother would be so afraid her boyfriend would break up with her, Here's Your Sign. 🤣🤣 Story Two: I'm sorry OP you need to report your DOLT of a mother to APS! She wanting to charge you for her deciding to give birth to you really shows she is not all there in the head. If anything I would go get my last name changed from her last name or made name if your last name is the same as her last name. I'd do this and then let her know that you no longer want to associate yourself with her in any way. I would just stop paying her and take her to court and sue her for the fact that she is going to charge you for her giving birth to you and for Christmas Gifts? If you still have any of the gifts I'd just hand those back to her and say, Here are the gifts that are not really gifts since you want to charge me for them. Story Three: If I were OP I would have your mom AUDITED! I would make sure that she was not hiding more money and I would call CPS if there are any other kids in the house and make sure that they aren't being abused. At the same time, I would call APS and see how you could get your mom committed to the nut house. Story Five: If I were you OP I would lead her on and I would give her a date for when you are going to go and you leave a day or two before she would want to leave but give her a fake ticket and when she goes to the airport she will get there and have no ticket to get on the plane and you will be gone.
That 3rd story hit me hard. I'm also autistic and while I haven't gone through the abuse OP did, I do frequently battle self doubt and insecurities regarding ever truly being independent or ever living on my own. I second guess every single thing I ever do. I can't imagine that level of abuse and how much that would exacerbate it. I'm glad OP made it out of that awful situation.
11:00 this is why in my country, every house has walls and a gate. Although, I HAVE had one guy park in front of the gate. (Common sense in our country is to NEVER park in front of a gate. Sometimes, it can even be illegal.) I saw him there on my way home, and couldn't get into my gate. I just parked behind the guy and my neighbour parked in front of him. So the guy needed one of us to move our cars to move in order to leave. The guy was angry, but his friends kept telling both him and me, that everything is forgiven. As if HE was the one who can forgive ME!!!
Story 2: wtf. Idk where OP lives, but where I live there's a law that parents need to support their children and their education (college etc). Of course if they can't provide money for higher education after high school like training (idk what's the right word in english, I mean like a training to be a handyman, baker, etc) or university, because they don't earn enough money, the government pays and you have loans. But if your parents can, they have to provide for you by law! OP could've sued her mom.
I'm high-functioning autistic as well. I never see my SSI money. My stepdad takes it and disperses it for rent and my student loans. If I ask to do something, he and my mother ask, "With what money?!" So...yeah...
Second story: girly chose to be a parent and (despite money not being a problem for her) knew it would be expensive to have multiple kids. A parent provides and shouldn’t ask for all of the money back from when they were being raised- she could’ve just said no to buying certain things. Or did she just want to have a consistent flow of money from her children so be forever rich? That’s a lot of financial and possibly emotional abuse due to how careful they’d have to be when asking for things.
I was raised by a woman who constantly reminded me "I gave you life so I can take it" 5 years no contact. 45 and thankfully not a serial killer. Love u mom. 😊
It wasn't a school but a daycare across the street from our home in a residential neighborhood. Between seven and eight every morning and four-thirty to wrll after five in the afternoon it was almost impossible to leave our driveway. People were constantly parking in front of our driveway. It was so bad that when we backing out we had to either wait for a spot to open up or have another family member try to direct traffic for us to get out of our own driveway. The people across the street refused to help the situation and the parents, mostly entitled moms tried to brush it off by saying, "We'll only be a minute." But even then, when they left, another car would take their place. What made it even more aggravating was that when they left, there was only one way out because we lived at the front end on a cul-de-sac, so they left the parking spot, turned around, and came back. Then the had the stop sign to contend with, again, directly in front of our home. This went on for months and it seemed that we couldn't get relief from anyone, no matter how hard we pleaded. Then I happened to meet a, "city official" at my place of work. I didn't know who he was because he wasn't wearing his, "identifying uniform". We were doing a favor for his department and he came in to to pick up the final product himself and thank us personally. We were casually talking when I asked him what the city by-laws were for a daycare operation in our town. I still remember those beautiful golden words to this day, "It doesn't matter, because use we don't have and daycares in our town." Thenche said, Why do you ask? I smiled from the bottom of my heart and answered by telling him my little story. His eyes got really big. He was the fire chief. Within an hour he called me back, telling me that when they arrived to the home across the street from us, they found THIRTY-TWO kids, all between the ages of about eight months and four years old. He said that they also found out that older young kids would be there in the afternoon because kindergarten in our local school only operated in the morning. The most alarming part was that there was only one person watching all those kids. The fire department had the authority to shut it down immediately because of the obvious fire safety issues, not to mention the hazards of grossly inadequate child care.
That last sentence killed me. Who the hell wants someone else to pay for their wedding, it makes no sense. What a terrible reason to leave your parents out. Maybe it's a cultural thing, but if you're not willing to pay for a wedding, you probably shouldn't be getting married to that person.
Used to be girls didn’t have a real job or income and it was considered the parents’ responsibility to provide for them until marriage (though chores at home were also a child’s obligation). Weddings were also social occasions, family reunions, introduction of extended family to each other, and of course a gifting time for the new couple. But a young couple wouldn’t have the resources for a big event and since there were social status points if you gave one, the parents were the ones who paid.
@@madgevanness4011 yup, brides parents responsiblity to pay for the couples wedding, specifically the father of the bride, because, same reason: men were the bread winners of the family. Don't know about how it is/was in other parts of the world, but that's how the tradition went in the US.
In the second story OP's parents didn't lose a free maid, free implies no income being given to or taken from either party. Instead OP's mom lost a maid that PAID her.
Story about SSI: What mom was doing was MAJOR illegal! As a Payee, she is to care for the SSI recipient while controlling the money safely. Also SSA does send forms and makes the Payee account for EVERY penny sent. Assuming she filled the forms out, she lied so that's fraud as well. If Op wanted, she could turn her mother into the SSA for abuse and fraud. That's gov money so the charges will be a FELONY. I should know, I went through the same thing with my mom (made over $100k/yr but wanted my SSI too), until I found out the rules and threaten to report her. I moved and haven't spoken to her since. FYI, I could report her anytime I like after the fact because I still have records of her fraud. Don't treat your kids like a pay check! A lot of folks told me to file on her but I've got a better revenge. I'm an Author! *evil laugh* Folks love to read about the Tea ya know.
The driveway...a little extreme. If the mom was parked there for just a few minutes, what's the big deal? People park briefly in my driveway, directly in front of my house pretty often...it is ok to give people a little grace. Not everything has to be so legalistic...sometimes it is ok to just be a nice person.
Babies aren't props My mom pulled a similar stunt as the second and third story, it was so toxic to hear how much of a financial burden I was and giving her $600 a paycheck, every week. As soon as I lost my car, lost my job, I had to do housework. She'd complain how I wasn't making money, but wasn't letting me get a job. She'd call me every insult under the sun, saying how I was lazy and never did anything despite me doing a lot of the chores. When I finally got fed up, I locked myself in my room all day. That evening she barged into my room and threatened to start throwing things out of the window. I already had a backpack packed and I left. Over the next few weeks I was able to get my stuff, she wanted to take my phone but I kept it. I'm fully living on my own, I got a new job, walking to work everyday, and I feel so amazing that I don't have to deal with her anymore
2/3 autistics have experienced homelessness, suicidal ideation, & in autistic women, chronic pain conditions (1/4 in men). Most autistics cannot live independently, whether due to being deemed too "low functioning", being on disability & not able to afford rent, having frequent meltdowns in apartment housing due to sensory overwhelm (noise/smells/light), needing assistance animal & not being able to afford care independently, or situations just like OP described, which happen a LOT. Parents of autistics get sucked into Autism Speaks propaganda about autism being a burden on them, so they end up demanding their adult child pays them back for THEM having to suffer thru years of meltdowns or one parent leaves because they cant handle a disabled child & the parent who stays develops dependency & emotional incest with their (adult) child. It doesn't seem to occur to many parents that it was THEIR neurodivergent genes, whether they were (un)diagnosed as autistic/adhd or just carriers who may have had some neurodivergent traits, but had internalize ableism hammered so deep within themselves that they lashed out whenever they saw their children display some behavior that they were told over & over was a moral defect that needed aggressive correction. Autistic children, adults & minors, are often left to suffer generational trauma that our parents went through, but we can't leave it behind like other adults who escape abuse. Many parents avoided getting us diagnosed as kids on purpose, thinking wed use it as an "excuse" to not be functional or that it would cause people to bully us, even when we were already being bullied, but we also believed the bullies words, having no reason behind why people hated us. Having no history of disability before experiencing autistic burnout in college or while trying to "enter the work force", our parents screwed us out of thousands of dollars every year in SSDI. Claiming disability/SSDI between 21 & 50 grants an avg of just under the poverty line with work credits, but before 21 you get whatever your parents earned, which could be 2x as much & enough for rent. Many autistics, especially with the prescence of ADHD, never get enough work credits to qualify for SSDI & have to go on SSA, which is about 1/3rd (or $300-400) less. OP was lucky to find social support. Most of us struggle to make friends or our friends are in the same situation as we are. Yesterday, there was a story where OP's roommate had a likely autistic gf & everyone loved piling on her. Misunderstandings & assumptions that we pick up on subtle, passive aggressive communication, accommodating disabilities being seen as burdens. No, OP didn't have to, but his hatred of her disability, seeing her as self absorbed for not picking up his passive aggression, & blaming her for a boundary he never set with the roommate was the problem. So, while he could have solved the issue with better communication. Once he actually told them he didn't want gf moving in without rent, they moved out, but its likely he didn't want to pay all the rent himself & agreed the gf could move in until food smells became an issue. This is the kind of shit that happens when we try to make friends with neurotypicals. Many autistics end up in abusive relationships, too. Just like other adults who have grown up with emotional abuse to teach them low self worth, but we also have a harder time seeing red flags & finding resources (financial & social) to leave these situations. Us, autistic women, also have a higher rate of comorbid pain conditions, like migraines, ehlers danos, & fibromyalgia, which means we also get abused by a medical system that gas lights chronic pain disabled & knows nothing about how autistic bodies/brains experience pain. Autistic women will usually get misdiagnosed with borderline pd, especially if we are self advocating, which is seen as "argumentative" in medicine. Most women don't even suspect they are autistic until they have a child (usually a son, of course) being assessed for ASD & see all the similarities they share, even if they've been in therapy (likely misdiagnosed) for years. There are certainly some autistic that have managed to find accommodations in the work place, like STEM often offers, or manage to go under the radar & just trying to stay afloat, staving off autistic burnout as best as they can. Unfortunately, with most of us trying to avoid the streets, living in poverty, we don't have much power to self advocate for better lives & the gov seems to be quite successful with enabling class warfare against us in the underclass. The DEA is killing us off as they take away the few pain medicine physicians still willing to treat us & opioiphobic propaganda about the meds we often need has made even illicit treatment dangerous. But then, the gov knew that would happen from their attempt at alcohol prohibition, when moonshine was killing people who tried to make their own. They knew when they blamed oxycodone for deaths by methadone (ya, that's real), then created limits, jailing any providers not willing to comply with their "recommendations", that chronic pain disabled would take their lives. They may not have cared if there were genetic or injuries that caused opioids to be needed, they just saw opioids as immediately causing addiction...despite evidence against that belief before & after guidelines as they tightened. Even now, when many different sources have proven no connection between rx opioids (other than methadone & now buprenorphine/suboxone) & increases in OD, OUD, or deaths. In fact, ODs, OUD, & death has only increased substantially as the restrictions tightened, because even when addicts were getting a hold of extra ex opioids someone didn't take all of, they were safer than illicit substances are now. I suppose this got slightly off topic, but chronic pain & opioid access advocacy IS autistic advocacy.
For the 2nd story they should go to the most expensive therapist available then charge their mother with the reasoning "I didn't ask to be born u birthed me pay for my therapy"
on story one: love how the dad makes an appointment without her knowledge or consent because he assumes she doesn't want the baby, but still expects her to carry it to term. Like no, buster. I'm pro choice, but if I carry a baby to full term you bet yo ass I'm *keeping* it.
I was kidnapped as a baby, sort of. My grandma was baby sitting me at my house and randomly decided to take me to her house without telling anyone. There was some period of time when my parents had no idea where we were.
I think the parking story should be on AITA because my god did they overreact!! I get being frustrated about the whole school situation, but let’s be real, you decided to live there!! OP could have been nicer and said something like, “Hey, I know parking is a bitch around here, but please don’t park in my driveway.” Then, if they did it again, maybe call the cops? Honestly, cops have better things to do than deal with your petty situation. Instead, they went full nuclear, called the cops, and then blocked them in in some sort of citizen’s arrest attempt. So over the top and uncalled for and this is coming from someone who lived by not one, but TWO schools: an elementary school and jr. high school. We rarely had people parking in our driveway due to there being ample street parking, however, we would have tons of kids sitting on our wall (our house was on the corner and had a huge front yard with a big ass brick fence around it), sitting in our driveway, etc. An ice cream truck would come around and park right in front of our house every school day as well. Didn’t bother us at all because we’re not assholes.
Story 2, the OP needs to say to her mum exactly what I told my mum when she started to blame me and wanted me to pay for it. I sat down and explained actions have consequences, I am not to blame for your 30 seconds of fun.
My dad did a similar thing to OP's mum, he took all my child support to pay forhis alcohol. Going to the police station tomorrow to talk about the abuse. Wish me luck!
To the kids that got billed by their mom. Have you thought about getting in touch with your grandmother? Lay it all out for her, and I bet she sends your mom a bill. Unfortunately for your mom, the inflation and interest on her bill is going to be astronomical.
Story 4 B: I'm wondering if a towing company could legally come in, boot all of the cars once the drivers leave, and just start towing them to an impound lot for parking illegally... If they could, that would be a lot of money made and NOBODY would do it again... especially if it was taken to court and the court sided with the towing company.
For the driveway store OP could have potentially gotten in trouble for wrongful imprisonment for something that like due to the trespasser trying to leave but OP sitting in the car not allowing them to
Awful Mother story: no hate at all, I think it's funny that in the beginning of the story, Rslash reads "I'm a 27 year old guy" 4:50 and then misgenders him at the end of the story 8:54 because he talked about his boyfriend😭
The last story’s MiL does not deserve a vacation to another country. My aunt has an aggressive form of lung cancer, and had a mini stroke while on the ventilator fighting off covid in the hospital. She has maybe a year to live. The only kind of vacations she had been on were trips to South Carolina, and it has been a very very long time since she was able to go. My mom is planning on taking her on a cruise if she is able to handle the chemo and can spend a week away. She deserves a vacation.
Story 2: No, it is not legal for a parent to sue their child for expenses when raising them. The judge would immediately throw this out as ridiculous and has before. At least in America. The thought process is, you chose to have the child (in this case, at least) so the child isnt responsible nor can they control the market or what you biy for them. Its your responsibility to raise them, that includes financial responsibility. You cannot go after your kid for "backpay" for being born.
Story 1 and 2 : I wouldn't even call those things "parents" I would call them mobsters.. Story 3 : This op mom and dad will come crawling back once the payments stop..for sure . Story 4 : You're not the a hole op it's your property and the entitled parent parked there with your permission .. it doesn't matter if a kid is involved or not.. next time if it happens call a tow truck and tow the car.. Story 4 other story: yikes.. not only is this loser getting ticked for trespassing and blocking a fire lane now attempted murder as well.. dumb is dumb do. Story 5 : she's not there to travel she's there to keep her son and op from bumping 2 Japanese cartoon mouths together..
My driveway story - calling the school did absolutely no good, there is nothing they can do even if they wanted to. Keep calling the police though, there are things they can do. Be prepared for future battles, being that close to the school, you will have a few.
I've been sitting here refreshing the screen for this video and there are still 71 views ahead of me. We're all waiting here for some good reddit stories!
Something about entitled and insane parents brings out the most violent side in me. Maybe because I still have no vengeance against 1 such parent that I haven't seen in about a decade. And I guess I need some sort of vengeance to let it go.
“Can I have it?!”
Lady, it’s a human being; not a cupcake.
Op mom made the baby sound like the last slice of pizza...
@DarkCoreX let's pretend that he never existed...
@DarkCoreX Good question.. lol..
@DarkCoreX i believe they meant episode 445. not the first time, or second, that someone has ask for a baby. what i want to know is how they remembered the exact episode number.
It’S nOt A hUmAN uNtIl It’S bOrN
I'm a high functioning autistic person too, but instead of controlling me my mum helps me manage my Bill's and save my money and only takes money for herself after asking and getting a yes which I usually agree to because most of the time it's for her car, mostly fuel, which is used to help me do my shopping, go to appointments etc. My diagnosis was this year but my mum has guessed I'm autistic my entire life. Even before we knew she helped me a lot, I'm dreading the inevitable day she dies even if it is unlikely to happen anytime soon lol.
everyone with a loving parent dreads thinking about when their parent is going to die. but your mom sounds really awesome
Hopefully you don't face your mom's end for a long long long time..as she sounds like a great human being..
Also as a high functioning autistic person, I am so thankful that my mam has made my home comforting and welcoming for me.
It's cases like the third story that makes me so thankful that my mam is sane
5:36 5:37 5:57
7:11 7:11 7:24
Dad: "I know you will do the right thing."
OP: **Packs her things and leaves, not giving them the baby**
Mom and dad: "No, no, that's not how you're supposed to play the game."
Parents: No No No! We meant you will do what is right for us!
Oh, it is. It’s how she’s going to play *her* game.
@@jacksonhopp2003 "You thought I was playing your game... but I'm playing my own game."
@@soulofflame9999 play how ever you want, I'm not in.
That's third story is heartbreaking to me. I have a 21-year-old son who is autistic. He is not particularly high functioning. He truly does need to live at home at least for a long while yet. I also manage his Social Security. But I would never consider embezzling that money. We keep every receipt. I create a monthly income expense report. I keep an annual expense report. I mean the government can audit that account. Abuse of disabled people is unfortunately not uncommon and quite sickening to me.
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I'm also autistic, and lived with my parents until I was 27. Then I moved out and coped fine. I'm less than two months off my thirtieth birthday now, and I've never been better.
sis billed her kids for the delivery fees💀
and no, not FedX
Story 1: I'll tell you the worst part, that this isn't the worst thing she ever done. Using her daughter baby to trap her BF then telling everyone when your daughter said no should be the the worst but if it's not then no way should this woman have anymore kids.
Also makes sense as to why her boyfriend is potentially leaving her. He’s realised how many shade of messed up she is!!
This woman has more red flags than the Soviet Union
Story 2: So another person covered this, and I left a question on why she would have children if she were just going to treat them like financial burdens and then toss an invoice at them. An answer I got was that she probably only wanted children for the benefits that she would get. She would get extra money, and then just get back all the money she spent on the kids.
So basically, it's triple S-tier greed.
Story 3: This basically sums it up easier. The mom only sees OP as nothing more than a ticket to money, and her rage basically cost her said ticket.
Story 2: Not exactly the same situation, but my dad dated a woman who got pregnant by him then disappeared and didn't tell him. Why did she do this? Because the intense career field she wanted to go into required a PHD. Something she could obtain freely through a program if she was a SINGLE MOTHER. So she got pregnant on purpose, had my oldest brother, only cared for him enough to get through college, then when she finished she literally dropped him on my dad's doorstep and left him with us.
You are exactly correct. Some people only have kids for the benefit: Through attention or through physical gains.
@@JHyde-tv3if holy crap your brother’s bio mom is the worst kind of human. Imagine creating an entire human being and traumatizing them by abandoning them as a small child because you want to use them as a coupon.
Anyone billed for expenses incurred for raising them should just pull an unit#01-306 reverse card with the I DIDN’T ASK TO BE BORN ILL SUE YOU FIR DAMAGES
Last story: any parent that would ask to go with on their kid's honeymoon is up to something. Don't care what reason they claim to have, no parent should want to go unless they're intent is to ruin it for their child and SO.
yes. why in the world do you want to be around your kid and their SO when its sexy time? like, super gross man.
The only exception (and I use this term loosely here in this case) is if the parents are having their own separate vacation in that same area as the honeymoon; they just join up with the wedding couple a day or two before the vacation/honeymoon is over. That way no one is being impeded on.
Story 1: Not only is Op's mother crazy, but the rest of the family that agreed that she should give up her baby so that her mother could try and baby-trap her boyfriend! Terrible people, the lot of them. That's a no-contact situation if ever I've heard one. Yikes!
Story 2: No. People like that shouldn't have kids because it is not the child's duty to pay back every single cent from the moment they are conceived onwords. They didn't have any say in being brought into the world. Op and their sibling don't owe her a damn thing at this point.
Story 2: I have 3 daughters, two are teens. The idea that they owe me ANYTHING for raising them is absolute insanity that should land her in an asylum. I feel like my job is to raise them well, with good morals and compassion. Then, when they're ready, support them getting into/through college or a trade school, teach them to manage their lives and finances, then co-sign if necessary for their first home. I won't buy them a car, but I will co-sign so they can build credit. After they succeed at moving out, I'll always be an emergency fall-back position if their situation out of the nest goes bad. My parents did all of this for me and my siblings, I will do it for my children. We live in a time where my daughters are likely to go to college from home and my home will be free and available to them if that's what they want. If they want to move out and have that independence, so be it.
I don't keep any records of how much they've cost us to raise because it's irrelevant. And, when they get old enough to work, I still won't keep records. That mother disgusts me to my core. No child asked to be born, parents have and raise children for selfish reasons, which is fine because those reasons create a benefit for the children.
Yeah, when my "dad" married my step mother, the emotional abuse began (granted I had been abused by my father since I was a baby). They wouldn't buy me any food, so I got a job so I wouldn't go hungry. However, my father forced me to open an account that was connected to his. Every time I bought something he didn't agree with, he'd steal all my money. Never got a cent of it back either. Glad I'm out of that situation and am married to my amazing wife. She helped me heal from all the abuse
Oh, and I'd get yelled at if I tried to eat their food. When they cooked, they'd eat everything and not even let me know they were eating
@Doodle Noodle yikes bro.. your "parents " sound like a bunch of jackasses.
Why didn't you call cps????
Sorry u went though that man... glad ur out of that family
@@lollybirdy Well, the thing is, I was constantly kept away from everyone while growing up. He didn't even let me go to public school and I had to teach myself. I had no friends and no family who lived around me, he even actively sabotaged any attempt on my part to contact my mother and half brothers. He manipulated me throughout my whole life, and since I grew up that way, I didn't know how bad it truly was until I met my wife. She and her family showed me what real love looks like. Of course, by then it was too late to do anything except to move on and try to heal. Unfortunately the man now has 3 kids with a fourth on the way and I'm trying to see if there's anything I can do to keep him from doing the same to them
First Story: This story belongs on r/insaneparents because both OP's mom and dad are equally insane. OP's mom threw a tantrum because she couldn’t take OP's child and pass it off as hers, then decided to air out OP's business on social media. OP's dad shows up setting appointments on OP's behalf to have the kid put up for adoption. These two are insane
Second Story: Bro, this has to be r/insaneparents right?! This is insane; OP's mom charged her for expenses SINCE BIRTH!? This woman is insanely greedy and a horrible mother. Kids aren’t asked to be born so those same kids don’t owe their parents a damn thing
Third Story: Three stories back to back of insanely greedy mothers. OP had to deal with this woman for years and I honestly feel bad for OP. Glad they are getting away from this walking sin of greed. Good on OP for screwing this lady over
Fourth Story: U would think its never a good idea to park on someone's property. At least OP was able to mess with this person before she can leave
Comment: There are signs that says the road is private property but somehow entitled parents read that as "public". That one lady is stupid to try and run someone over in front of the cops
Fifth Story: Imagine thinking u deserve a free trip somewhere because u gave birth to a child 😂. She really tried to take credit for a wedding because she birth the soon-to-be groom
OP1's dad isn't really insane, just a jerkass. Insane would have been filling out and forging the papers.
@@GamingForLifeGFwell I think I agree with you
3 insane parents back to back...
Not only that I the second story, but it's a parents legal responsibility to provide a warm safe environment for the child, food and water, and a working shower. There's a reason cps gets involved if each of those needs don't get met.
Where were u yesterday
Bro, the whiplash I got from how the mother from the first story responded to her 19 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER saying she was pregnant. I would think that maybe some disappointment or even a supportive parent would have sufficed but this is just a whole nother level of crazy
Story 3: Hang on was she getting less money or something? It just seems weird to me that she threw you out over something so small after years of guilt tripping to make you stay. It feels like there's something missing that I don't think OP knows. Also it doesn't seem like it's just OP being abuse, the dad in this story is so weak to the mom that I'm a bit concerned about it
oh that woman was never going to throw OP out. she was just going to make her life miserable all the while stressing OP out about not having anywhere to live for as long as she could get away with it before giving OP "another chance" and letting OP stay. remember, she didn't think OP had anyone else to turn to other than her, so when she "changes her mind" at the last moment OP would have felt grateful for letting him continue to stay and OP would have fallen deeper into the trap. only OP wasn't so dependent on his mom as she thought and it backfired big time.
@@abiean222 Yep. That was the plan. OP's mom felt she had a chance to be mean, get away with it, and make her kid grateful for it all at the same time. Platinum grade awful.
Strange that the only time OPs dad is mentioned is when he notified his wife about eviction policy. He sounds like a spineless enabler and I’m glad OP is done with them
@@abiean222 OP is a guy, not a female. Says so in the beginning. Also, OP mentions a boyfriend and "mom" hating all of OP's friends as "liberals". I think the 'something missing' that people keep wondering about is pretty obvious.
She was probably sensing she was losing the upper hand and was trying to get it back.
Story 4: This was something that happens in my area as well. I live in a suburb in CA outside of LA. I live between two condo buildings and across from another gated off collection of homes. Because of this, there is little parking and I have an unusually large driveway for the size of my house. If you do it right, you can fit six cars into the driveway. Well, on the rainy day two weeks ago, some idiot decided to park in front of my driveway because they couldn't find a place to park. Another person had the same bright idea and didn't see the car that was already there and ended up crashing right into it. The result was two totaled cars and one damaged one. The clowns didn't even have the decency to sweep up the parts of the car that were left until the manager of the condo building near my house finally decided to sweep it up himself so that people could park there.
My son is autistic, he has never wanted to move out of the family home, and I have no plans to push him out. He gets a disability stipend that is deposited into my checking account. I write him a check every month, he wants me to keep a small amount of his check. He is free to spend his money as he wishes. I pay for food, clothing, entertainment, all household costs etc, as if he were my child living in my house. Because He IS my child and lives with his mother and father. Having children is not an 18 year sacrifice, its a choice and a privilege. I love that I have my kids around, and their friends and the friends kids too. It keeps me young and very happy. 😊
*First OP:* I'm glad OP managed to leave her mom (and dad) for a better life. Hopefully the mom's boyfriend did likewise.
Why is it that most people in these stories that ask: “why can’t you just do this one thing?” Are asking for the most ridiculous things?
There have been times when situations like in story 2 actually go to court. Usually its deemed that there is no requirement or need for a child to pay their parents for being raised.
isn't the legal responsibility of the parent to provide for the child? like to the point of jail time if you fail/refuse to do so? yeah, you can't charge your kid for raising them until they become a legal adult. after that, its a different story, but i felt so bad hearing how OP and their sister just paid their shit mom that money. i wish they could sue their mom for that money back, but its not likely to happen. thank goodness that they are out of that awful situation now though.
@@abiean222 Yeah, it's probably illegal. Hell, one of Roald Dahl's characters was physically, mentally, emotionally and financially abused by their legal guardian and then she was forced to hand over all her money from her job save for a pound a week for raising her. If a Roald Dahl villain does something, you KNOW it's messed up. Thankfully, that character just went missing after thinking the ghost of her brother was threatening her, and after that, his will turned up, leaving everything (and there was a lot) to his daughter.
That last one, kids used to go through my yard constantly when going to school. Then we fenced our yard because we got a dog and my husband didn't want to put her on a leash. He wanted her to be able to run around and play without risking tangling up into anything.
Holy HELL you should've heard the bitching the people in the cult-de-sac did when they realized their kids would have to walk to the end of their street and walk down the road, instead of saving themselves four blocks of walking by cutting through people's yards. They even called the cops, SIX TIMES. Demanding that they force us to take down our fence.
LOL In the end, they simply gave up. I think the cops put their foot down about all the calls.
I feel so sorry for the guy on the spectrum. It's so often the case that they become a cash cow for their parents. Even when their parents don't mean to put them down, little moments of dismissal, sowing seeds of doubt to outright financial domination because "they're only trying to help" all lead to a pretty horrible and abusive situation that the poor person doesn't even realise is abuse (and potentially doesn't want to call abuse because they may not have independent support that's not connected to their parents in some way... e.g. a place to live).
(RSlash did cut out a few details because the guy was quite articulate, but some of the details paint a fuller picture, like the earlier mention of PSW, which was only revealed later to mean Personal Support Worker... generally a parent being a Personal Support Worker or whatever the equivalent is in different countries might be considered a conflict of interest. Also, the poster mentions some pets that were hidden from inspections)
I genuinely LOLed at the first story.
Imagine telling someone you're pregnant, and they asked for the baby like you just told them you found a wrist watch.
The fact op’s family was acting like baby trapping someone is a completely normal thing everyone does is gross
Sadly that 3rd story is very common. A family member of mine works for a company that houses and takes care of people with mental disabilities. 2 of the clients she knows have mothers who take care of their finances but the mothers just take the money except for a couple bucks for food which mostly consists of cheap junkfood.
Story 2: op don't give your mom a cent, you shouldn't have to pay back the cost that it took to keep you alive up until you were 18, a parent is supposed to do those things for their kids because it's the right thing to do and not expect the money back, recommended you cut all contact with your mom and advise your siblings to do the same cause she clearly doesn't deserve or care about kids.
15:52 Why does the mom need to wait to travel during her child’s honeymoon. Just go! Or, was she expecting the kids to pay for her trip?
3rd story: Wow, that's almost word for word my life with a few adjustments. I'm high functioning autistic, my government support money had been paying the mortgage and electricity bills since I was 14, difference is my dad was the manchild, not my mom, though she was manipulative in her own ways. I was also told I'd never make it on my own. TLDR, dad went to prison and mum ran away leaving me the house. When they came back to the house 4 years later, now divorced, they were gonna split the house. I told them I wanted a share. They said "haha no" but I had gone to the bank, showed them my statements and explained that it was ME paying the mortgage for over 5 years now, giving me a legal stake. I technically had rights to 1/3rd of the house, but I generously told my parents I'd only take 10%. When they said no, I threatened to bump it up to 20% and keep going to 33% if I had to. I used the money to get myself a job, rent a little granny flat, finish some higher education and now I'm a freelance 3D character animator. Dad married a very rich Chinese woman so she can cook and clean while he spends all her money. Mom is living with my entitled sister and they argue 25 hours a day.
The car parking story sounds so different to anyone outside of America who isn't foaming at the mouth to call the police at every small inconvenience. Like, you're not going anywhere, your cars don't need moving, she was there to pick her kid up which would take max 15-20 minutes, she's visibly nervous and apologetic (avoiding eye contact), she just wants to leave, and you think about *teaching her a lesson* by making her think her son will have to watch her get arrested. YOU know the street is fully packed. A normal person would just see the car, see the packed street and go "Oh, i hope they come back soon to move their car." It's not like she ruined the property or anything.
Imo there is one Karen and its not the mom. Imagine loosing your cool over such a small matter when you don't even have to use the driveway.
4rth story: I feel personally conflicted on this matter, where there is no evidence of anything malicious outside of waiting to pick up ones kid. On the one hand, people work EXTREMELY hard these days to be able to have the legal right to claim any amount of property as any amount of theirs (since the story doesn't clarify if OP bought their house is renting, and the ownership of those two things varies). On the other hand, this is exactly the kind of attitude that keeps people from coming together as one community instead of multiple families living ina neighborhood.
I totally understand both sides here, so I'm not going to give either side a major butthole score, but I'll say they each deserve 1/5 buttholes for simply not being neighborly by communicating before assuming anything so that the problem could have been entirely avoided. The entitled parents can simply ask the owner or renter of the property if they can use their parking spot momentarily, explaining the situation that she's just have to pick up their kid, they don't want to have to wait because maybe they are in a hurry for something, and maybe offer some small compensation. That's what the parents should do before just assuming their neighbors are going to be neighborly.
On that same token, I feel that OP jumping straight to police is also not really being neighborly. I know all too well that often times people won't get the hint the first time, and should that be the case then you absolutely have full right from there to ring the non emergency line. Like I said, people work too damn hard these days to have the legal right to say "this property is YYY% mine". You work hard for people who don't appreciate your work and lose most of your money to a system that allows one class of people to rule over another class like slave owners just because "well clearly we worked harder than you so we deserve to be able to raise the rent as high as we want". And then you get told you have to let some random stranger use your parking lot that you worked so hard for? I TOTALLY understand getting so angry about that! I would be too!
THESE are the kind of stories I wish we heard more about. The kind of stories where it's really just a matter of perspective that determines who gets the bigger bad guy score. The kind of stories that show that we are all just bunch of evolved hairless monkeys thinking we know what's best for 7B other evolved hairless monkeys. This is the kind of drama that helps stitch open wounds and shines light on the things the different Classes don't see of each other. I hope this serves as a teaching lesson for those who might need it.
My mom literally did the opposite of this and built up my confidence and did everything she could to make me believe i was capable of anything and now I'm living on my own! My mom is even helping out with rent.
"They had already set up an appointment.."
Oh well that's nice
"..with a local adoption agency"
Well, guess I should've seen that coming
I would love to have seen the mom in story 2 try to sue her kids for not paying her what the ‘owe’ and end up on judge Judy and just end up being ripped apart!
Related to Story 2.
My plan is to ask my son for rent whenever he starts working. Put that rent money into a savings account. When he says he wants to move out and rent somewhere I say hold up no way. Here's your rent money go buy a house
. . . How much are you planning to charge for rent if it's going to be enough to buy a _house_ in your area afterwards? 😟
Or are you planning on chipping in, too?
I think you should maybe reconsider that plan. I get what you're trying to do, but I think it's more likely to end up with your kid resenting you than anything else, and also they'd have to live with you for a very long time to afford a down payment on a house...
Gotta love when RSlash uploads an R/EntitledParents video, gotta be one of my fav series.
Agreed! His EntitledParents vids always make me feel incredibly grateful for my own imperfect but amazing family!
I love my parents. My mom and dad had me when they were 18. Some mistakes were made in my early years raising me . They got the help they needed and I’m so blessed that they have learned from they’re mistakes. I’m very proud of them for getting help with mental illness and I’m very proud of the people they’ve become.
story 1: It takes a special level of insane to demand your daughter’s unborn child to baby trap your boyfriend. That child wouldn’t be loved
Story 3: I have a really similar story. I’m really glad OP had people to support them in leaving.
Awful mother: R/slash said OP was female, but OP is a gay male- it’s a small detail but it bothers me he got it wrong
Glad I'm not the only one who noticed. It bother me too. It's already bad I see other people in the comments talking about that story calling OP a female too
As an autistic guy, I just want to clarify: *there is no such thing as "high/low functioning autism". It's all bs. Some of us are just better at masking our autistic traits and we "look more normal" by societal standards, but we suffer just as much from all the stigma.
Lol My dad actually asked my brother if he could come on their honeymoon to San Antonio Texas.He didn't make it like a big deal but he just asked and after we talked to him down he understood and stopped. What happened next was even funnier is that my sister-in-law said that my brother acted like her father when she would go on trips with him lol. The old saying that girls choose guys that are like their fathers is true.
OP1: Anyone else feel like OP's mom might have baby trapped OP's dad in the first place?
5:20
I had a friend who had high functioning autism. (Not really, his mom literally faked him having it so he could get on social security. No joke.) His mom made him get social security at a young age. She took ALL OF IT to pay for her alcohol and shit for HER. She was physically abusive, going as far as putting a gun to my friends’ head once when he didn’t take her out to buy more beer. She would constantly guilt him for growing up, wanted more money, and soon enough, he finally moved out. He got his social security taken off since he made MORE than enough to live off of. She got divorced from his dad, his sister and him cut her off and she went homeless after the landlord took the house away from her when she wasn’t paying anything. We have literally no idea where she is now, but she was SEVERELY messed up. She drunk NAIL POLISH AND RUBBING ALCOHOL when she didn’t have alcohol around and no transportation.
That friend is now my adopted brother! And he’s the best brother in the world. We live together and support each other. My mom loves him and his dad loves me.
Hell he’s CPR certified and gave me CPR when I had a grand mal seizure.
Not all heros wear capes.
(Edit: no worries, I got permission from my brother to post this!)
For story three (the mother comping 2 paychecks to take "care" of their austitic child) I have seen a lot of cases almost identical to this. I'm a high functioning autistic myself which led to a lot of my friends going up also having autism. Of those that had issues taking care of themselves after adulthood came around a good deal of them were treated like this by their parents. The cause differed from person to person as to why they were treated so badly, but a common theme was that the parents wanted the money they would bring in but resented having to spend any of it on them after they became an adult. One of the most heartbreaking cases was a friend of mine that dealt with really bad parentification abuse. Being forced to take care of her younger siblings, handle all the bills, scramble to fix the mistakes her mother would make that left them with no money to handle bills, ect all while she was still in school. She basically got tricked into signing her mom up as her carer only to give her mom to quit her job and stop bothering to even bring money into the equation.
Sheesh 😮😮😮! 7:04 When I was around those ages, I had already learned how to manipulate those situations, just to keep on my feed, and match that energy. I know how to read those signs today. All you really need is to observe and calculate.
Hi everyone!! Hope you have a good morning/evening/night 🫶🏻
Thanks it's going to be a rough Friday for me hope yours is better
Thanks. You too!
Just got off work lol good morning
Same to you!
Thanks! Needed to have some kindness this morning! ❤
The story about the individual with ASD… I work as an RBT helping children with ASD with developmental and social delays work towards being able to be independent. This can involve literally anything they struggle with. What this mom is doing would put me in a situation as a mandated reporter to report the abuse. So glad OP is getting out of that situation.
I have highly functioning autism too, 33 years old, and have lived alone since I was 19. My parents always made sure to raise me to be as independent as possible.
School Parking story: There was an update-After contacting the school, someone did call op back and looked into the parking/pickup situation. I think even the mayor or superintendent got involved. The higher up was even at op's home when it happened again. They agreed to make more room for parking at the school.
The massive entitlement in that last one is astounding.
If you live in Spain and haven't left the country in your entire life you either haven't wanted to or can't afford to.
So, not only did she want to tag along on the honeymoon, she wanted them to foot the bill.
I didn’t think that first story could get more wild or toxic, and then they just kept proving me wrong
Story 2
She sees them as her personal bank, she gives them money and she collects them when she needs them
Story 4: schools in residential neighborhoods needs to have a pick up system that includes cycling the block so parents don’t block traffic or disrupt the residents. I feel like I’ve always lived in an elementary school neighborhood and that has always been the case.
Story One: And you wonder why OP's mother would be so afraid her boyfriend would break up with her, Here's Your Sign. 🤣🤣
Story Two: I'm sorry OP you need to report your DOLT of a mother to APS! She wanting to charge you for her deciding to give birth to you really shows she is not all there in the head. If anything I would go get my last name changed from her last name or made name if your last name is the same as her last name. I'd do this and then let her know that you no longer want to associate yourself with her in any way. I would just stop paying her and take her to court and sue her for the fact that she is going to charge you for her giving birth to you and for Christmas Gifts? If you still have any of the gifts I'd just hand those back to her and say, Here are the gifts that are not really gifts since you want to charge me for them.
Story Three: If I were OP I would have your mom AUDITED! I would make sure that she was not hiding more money and I would call CPS if there are any other kids in the house and make sure that they aren't being abused. At the same time, I would call APS and see how you could get your mom committed to the nut house.
Story Five: If I were you OP I would lead her on and I would give her a date for when you are going to go and you leave a day or two before she would want to leave but give her a fake ticket and when she goes to the airport she will get there and have no ticket to get on the plane and you will be gone.
That 3rd story hit me hard. I'm also autistic and while I haven't gone through the abuse OP did, I do frequently battle self doubt and insecurities regarding ever truly being independent or ever living on my own. I second guess every single thing I ever do. I can't imagine that level of abuse and how much that would exacerbate it. I'm glad OP made it out of that awful situation.
Story 2: What the mom is looking for is long term investment, not a family.
11:00 this is why in my country, every house has walls and a gate.
Although, I HAVE had one guy park in front of the gate. (Common sense in our country is to NEVER park in front of a gate. Sometimes, it can even be illegal.)
I saw him there on my way home, and couldn't get into my gate. I just parked behind the guy and my neighbour parked in front of him. So the guy needed one of us to move our cars to move in order to leave.
The guy was angry, but his friends kept telling both him and me, that everything is forgiven. As if HE was the one who can forgive ME!!!
Story 2: wtf. Idk where OP lives, but where I live there's a law that parents need to support their children and their education (college etc). Of course if they can't provide money for higher education after high school like training (idk what's the right word in english, I mean like a training to be a handyman, baker, etc) or university, because they don't earn enough money, the government pays and you have loans. But if your parents can, they have to provide for you by law! OP could've sued her mom.
I like this upload schedule better! 6am vids are the best Rslash
I'm high-functioning autistic as well. I never see my SSI money. My stepdad takes it and disperses it for rent and my student loans. If I ask to do something, he and my mother ask, "With what money?!" So...yeah...
My driveway story: I don’t think this needed to escalate this way.
Second story: girly chose to be a parent and (despite money not being a problem for her) knew it would be expensive to have multiple kids. A parent provides and shouldn’t ask for all of the money back from when they were being raised- she could’ve just said no to buying certain things. Or did she just want to have a consistent flow of money from her children so be forever rich? That’s a lot of financial and possibly emotional abuse due to how careful they’d have to be when asking for things.
I may be going through a breakup but at least I know I can come home from work in the morning to good ol dependable rSlash
Thanks Dabney
I enjoyed the stories, your editorial is the best part. Constantly make me more grateful for my parents who are both in their nineties now.
I was raised by a woman who constantly reminded me "I gave you life so I can take it" 5 years no contact. 45 and thankfully not a serial killer. Love u mom. 😊
I had one like that. She's dead now.
@@LemonBarProductions mine still here. 🙄
It wasn't a school but a daycare across the street from our home in a residential neighborhood. Between seven and eight every morning and four-thirty to wrll after five in the afternoon it was almost impossible to leave our driveway. People were constantly parking in front of our driveway. It was so bad that when we backing out we had to either wait for a spot to open up or have another family member try to direct traffic for us to get out of our own driveway. The people across the street refused to help the situation and the parents, mostly entitled moms tried to brush it off by saying, "We'll only be a minute." But even then, when they left, another car would take their place. What made it even more aggravating was that when they left, there was only one way out because we lived at the front end on a cul-de-sac, so they left the parking spot, turned around, and came back. Then the had the stop sign to contend with, again, directly in front of our home.
This went on for months and it seemed that we couldn't get relief from anyone, no matter how hard we pleaded.
Then I happened to meet a, "city official" at my place of work. I didn't know who he was because he wasn't wearing his, "identifying uniform". We were doing a favor for his department and he came in to to pick up the final product himself and thank us personally. We were casually talking when I asked him what the city by-laws were for a daycare operation in our town. I still remember those beautiful golden words to this day, "It doesn't matter, because use we don't have and daycares in our town." Thenche said, Why do you ask? I smiled from the bottom of my heart and answered by telling him my little story. His eyes got really big. He was the fire chief.
Within an hour he called me back, telling me that when they arrived to the home across the street from us, they found THIRTY-TWO kids, all between the ages of about eight months and four years old. He said that they also found out that older young kids would be there in the afternoon because kindergarten in our local school only operated in the morning. The most alarming part was that there was only one person watching all those kids. The fire department had the authority to shut it down immediately because of the obvious fire safety issues, not to mention the hazards of grossly inadequate child care.
Mother in third story: You'll never be able to live on your own!
Also the same mother: Do all the chores and take care of the whole family!!!!!
That last sentence killed me.
Who the hell wants someone else to pay for their wedding, it makes no sense. What a terrible reason to leave your parents out.
Maybe it's a cultural thing, but if you're not willing to pay for a wedding, you probably shouldn't be getting married to that person.
Used to be girls didn’t have a real job or income and it was considered the parents’ responsibility to provide for them until marriage (though chores at home were also a child’s obligation). Weddings were also social occasions, family reunions, introduction of extended family to each other, and of course a gifting time for the new couple. But a young couple wouldn’t have the resources for a big event and since there were social status points if you gave one, the parents were the ones who paid.
@@madgevanness4011 yup, brides parents responsiblity to pay for the couples wedding, specifically the father of the bride, because, same reason: men were the bread winners of the family.
Don't know about how it is/was in other parts of the world, but that's how the tradition went in the US.
for the last one, I could understand family coming along ONLY in the capacity of they are paying for themselves and its cheaper if we book as a group.
In the second story OP's parents didn't lose a free maid, free implies no income being given to or taken from either party. Instead OP's mom lost a maid that PAID her.
They should sue there mom in that second story.
they should totally do so. idk if they'd get anything out of it, but its worth a chance.
Or at the very least rip up the paper and eat it.
Story about SSI: What mom was doing was MAJOR illegal! As a Payee, she is to care for the SSI recipient while controlling the money safely. Also SSA does send forms and makes the Payee account for EVERY penny sent. Assuming she filled the forms out, she lied so that's fraud as well. If Op wanted, she could turn her mother into the SSA for abuse and fraud. That's gov money so the charges will be a FELONY. I should know, I went through the same thing with my mom (made over $100k/yr but wanted my SSI too), until I found out the rules and threaten to report her. I moved and haven't spoken to her since. FYI, I could report her anytime I like after the fact because I still have records of her fraud. Don't treat your kids like a pay check! A lot of folks told me to file on her but I've got a better revenge. I'm an Author! *evil laugh* Folks love to read about the Tea ya know.
The driveway...a little extreme. If the mom was parked there for just a few minutes, what's the big deal? People park briefly in my driveway, directly in front of my house pretty often...it is ok to give people a little grace. Not everything has to be so legalistic...sometimes it is ok to just be a nice person.
Babies aren't props
My mom pulled a similar stunt as the second and third story, it was so toxic to hear how much of a financial burden I was and giving her $600 a paycheck, every week. As soon as I lost my car, lost my job, I had to do housework. She'd complain how I wasn't making money, but wasn't letting me get a job. She'd call me every insult under the sun, saying how I was lazy and never did anything despite me doing a lot of the chores. When I finally got fed up, I locked myself in my room all day. That evening she barged into my room and threatened to start throwing things out of the window. I already had a backpack packed and I left. Over the next few weeks I was able to get my stuff, she wanted to take my phone but I kept it. I'm fully living on my own, I got a new job, walking to work everyday, and I feel so amazing that I don't have to deal with her anymore
Story 2: Now I don’t *usually* advocate for murder, however there are exceptions……
2/3 autistics have experienced homelessness, suicidal ideation, & in autistic women, chronic pain conditions (1/4 in men). Most autistics cannot live independently, whether due to being deemed too "low functioning", being on disability & not able to afford rent, having frequent meltdowns in apartment housing due to sensory overwhelm (noise/smells/light), needing assistance animal & not being able to afford care independently, or situations just like OP described, which happen a LOT. Parents of autistics get sucked into Autism Speaks propaganda about autism being a burden on them, so they end up demanding their adult child pays them back for THEM having to suffer thru years of meltdowns or one parent leaves because they cant handle a disabled child & the parent who stays develops dependency & emotional incest with their (adult) child. It doesn't seem to occur to many parents that it was THEIR neurodivergent genes, whether they were (un)diagnosed as autistic/adhd or just carriers who may have had some neurodivergent traits, but had internalize ableism hammered so deep within themselves that they lashed out whenever they saw their children display some behavior that they were told over & over was a moral defect that needed aggressive correction.
Autistic children, adults & minors, are often left to suffer generational trauma that our parents went through, but we can't leave it behind like other adults who escape abuse. Many parents avoided getting us diagnosed as kids on purpose, thinking wed use it as an "excuse" to not be functional or that it would cause people to bully us, even when we were already being bullied, but we also believed the bullies words, having no reason behind why people hated us. Having no history of disability before experiencing autistic burnout in college or while trying to "enter the work force", our parents screwed us out of thousands of dollars every year in SSDI. Claiming disability/SSDI between 21 & 50 grants an avg of just under the poverty line with work credits, but before 21 you get whatever your parents earned, which could be 2x as much & enough for rent. Many autistics, especially with the prescence of ADHD, never get enough work credits to qualify for SSDI & have to go on SSA, which is about 1/3rd (or $300-400) less.
OP was lucky to find social support. Most of us struggle to make friends or our friends are in the same situation as we are. Yesterday, there was a story where OP's roommate had a likely autistic gf & everyone loved piling on her. Misunderstandings & assumptions that we pick up on subtle, passive aggressive communication, accommodating disabilities being seen as burdens. No, OP didn't have to, but his hatred of her disability, seeing her as self absorbed for not picking up his passive aggression, & blaming her for a boundary he never set with the roommate was the problem. So, while he could have solved the issue with better communication. Once he actually told them he didn't want gf moving in without rent, they moved out, but its likely he didn't want to pay all the rent himself & agreed the gf could move in until food smells became an issue. This is the kind of shit that happens when we try to make friends with neurotypicals.
Many autistics end up in abusive relationships, too. Just like other adults who have grown up with emotional abuse to teach them low self worth, but we also have a harder time seeing red flags & finding resources (financial & social) to leave these situations. Us, autistic women, also have a higher rate of comorbid pain conditions, like migraines, ehlers danos, & fibromyalgia, which means we also get abused by a medical system that gas lights chronic pain disabled & knows nothing about how autistic bodies/brains experience pain. Autistic women will usually get misdiagnosed with borderline pd, especially if we are self advocating, which is seen as "argumentative" in medicine. Most women don't even suspect they are autistic until they have a child (usually a son, of course) being assessed for ASD & see all the similarities they share, even if they've been in therapy (likely misdiagnosed) for years.
There are certainly some autistic that have managed to find accommodations in the work place, like STEM often offers, or manage to go under the radar & just trying to stay afloat, staving off autistic burnout as best as they can. Unfortunately, with most of us trying to avoid the streets, living in poverty, we don't have much power to self advocate for better lives & the gov seems to be quite successful with enabling class warfare against us in the underclass. The DEA is killing us off as they take away the few pain medicine physicians still willing to treat us & opioiphobic propaganda about the meds we often need has made even illicit treatment dangerous. But then, the gov knew that would happen from their attempt at alcohol prohibition, when moonshine was killing people who tried to make their own. They knew when they blamed oxycodone for deaths by methadone (ya, that's real), then created limits, jailing any providers not willing to comply with their "recommendations", that chronic pain disabled would take their lives. They may not have cared if there were genetic or injuries that caused opioids to be needed, they just saw opioids as immediately causing addiction...despite evidence against that belief before & after guidelines as they tightened. Even now, when many different sources have proven no connection between rx opioids (other than methadone & now buprenorphine/suboxone) & increases in OD, OUD, or deaths. In fact, ODs, OUD, & death has only increased substantially as the restrictions tightened, because even when addicts were getting a hold of extra ex opioids someone didn't take all of, they were safer than illicit substances are now. I suppose this got slightly off topic, but chronic pain & opioid access advocacy IS autistic advocacy.
For the 2nd story they should go to the most expensive therapist available then charge their mother with the reasoning "I didn't ask to be born u birthed me pay for my therapy"
I would have told her to sue me.
RSlash said maid, wrong, maid’s get paid
on story one: love how the dad makes an appointment without her knowledge or consent because he assumes she doesn't want the baby, but still expects her to carry it to term.
Like no, buster. I'm pro choice, but if I carry a baby to full term you bet yo ass I'm *keeping* it.
Story 1: What kind of parents see their pregnant daughter and their first thought is "gimme please". What the hell is wrong with them!
I was kidnapped as a baby, sort of. My grandma was baby sitting me at my house and randomly decided to take me to her house without telling anyone. There was some period of time when my parents had no idea where we were.
OP was looking at her sweet sweet lemon tree.
I think the parking story should be on AITA because my god did they overreact!! I get being frustrated about the whole school situation, but let’s be real, you decided to live there!! OP could have been nicer and said something like, “Hey, I know parking is a bitch around here, but please don’t park in my driveway.” Then, if they did it again, maybe call the cops? Honestly, cops have better things to do than deal with your petty situation. Instead, they went full nuclear, called the cops, and then blocked them in in some sort of citizen’s arrest attempt. So over the top and uncalled for and this is coming from someone who lived by not one, but TWO schools: an elementary school and jr. high school. We rarely had people parking in our driveway due to there being ample street parking, however, we would have tons of kids sitting on our wall (our house was on the corner and had a huge front yard with a big ass brick fence around it), sitting in our driveway, etc. An ice cream truck would come around and park right in front of our house every school day as well. Didn’t bother us at all because we’re not assholes.
Story 2, the OP needs to say to her mum exactly what I told my mum when she started to blame me and wanted me to pay for it. I sat down and explained actions have consequences, I am not to blame for your 30 seconds of fun.
My dad did a similar thing to OP's mum, he took all my child support to pay forhis alcohol. Going to the police station tomorrow to talk about the abuse.
Wish me luck!
I wish you the best
the only time you should be in a stranger’s driveway is if you’re turning around in a narrow street. in and out, no hang time
To the kids that got billed by their mom. Have you thought about getting in touch with your grandmother? Lay it all out for her, and I bet she sends your mom a bill. Unfortunately for your mom, the inflation and interest on her bill is going to be astronomical.
In the last story she should have answered:
"Sure. No problem. The bed is big enough for three"
Story 4 B:
I'm wondering if a towing company could legally come in, boot all of the cars once the drivers leave, and just start towing them to an impound lot for parking illegally... If they could, that would be a lot of money made and NOBODY would do it again... especially if it was taken to court and the court sided with the towing company.
For the driveway store OP could have potentially gotten in trouble for wrongful imprisonment for something that like due to the trespasser trying to leave but OP sitting in the car not allowing them to
Awful Mother story: no hate at all, I think it's funny that in the beginning of the story, Rslash reads "I'm a 27 year old guy" 4:50 and then misgenders him at the end of the story 8:54 because he talked about his boyfriend😭
it's 9:10 for the misgendering part, just start watching at the other time stamp for context😁
Rslash read "BF" and switched OP's gender to female real quick lol, he's usually good with that stuff.
Finally somebody mentions it lmao. Let's just hope he misremembered it.
The last story’s MiL does not deserve a vacation to another country. My aunt has an aggressive form of lung cancer, and had a mini stroke while on the ventilator fighting off covid in the hospital. She has maybe a year to live. The only kind of vacations she had been on were trips to South Carolina, and it has been a very very long time since she was able to go. My mom is planning on taking her on a cruise if she is able to handle the chemo and can spend a week away. She deserves a vacation.
Story 2: No, it is not legal for a parent to sue their child for expenses when raising them. The judge would immediately throw this out as ridiculous and has before. At least in America. The thought process is, you chose to have the child (in this case, at least) so the child isnt responsible nor can they control the market or what you biy for them. Its your responsibility to raise them, that includes financial responsibility. You cannot go after your kid for "backpay" for being born.
Story 1 and 2 : I wouldn't even call those things "parents" I would call them mobsters..
Story 3 : This op mom and dad will come crawling back once the payments stop..for sure .
Story 4 : You're not the a hole op it's your property and the entitled parent parked there with your permission .. it doesn't matter if a kid is involved or not.. next time if it happens call a tow truck and tow the car..
Story 4 other story: yikes.. not only is this loser getting ticked for trespassing and blocking a fire lane now attempted murder as well.. dumb is dumb do.
Story 5 : she's not there to travel she's there to keep her son and op from bumping 2 Japanese cartoon mouths together..
My driveway story - calling the school did absolutely no good, there is nothing they can do even if they wanted to.
Keep calling the police though, there are things they can do.
Be prepared for future battles, being that close to the school, you will have a few.
I've been sitting here refreshing the screen for this video and there are still 71 views ahead of me. We're all waiting here for some good reddit stories!
Sometimes TH-cam won't even show me the new video until a good 5 minutes after upload, even wth me sitting there refreshing the page.
1st Story: ONE THING? SHE WANTS TO MANIPULATE AND EMOTIONALLY ABUSE HIM TO STAY WITH HER BY USING HER VULNERABILITY.
3rd story made me so angry. That pathetic excuse for a mother needs to be taught a lesson.
I love the fact that you upload 5-10 minutes before I get home from school. U the best man.
Something about entitled and insane parents brings out the most violent side in me. Maybe because I still have no vengeance against 1 such parent that I haven't seen in about a decade. And I guess I need some sort of vengeance to let it go.
Last story. As a Spanish myself, leaving the country can be pretty easy and cheap. If someone doesn't do it, is becouse of lazyness.