1. Act like a man 2. Stand up for yourself 3. Be honest 4. Build mental toughness 5. Be self-sufficient 6. Respect her 7. Respect yourself Ad ends at 5:37
*Setting clear boundaries and communicating openly not only shows confidence but also fosters mutual respect. It's about being assertive without being aggressive - definitely something everyone should strive for!*
I came to see what I can do but instead I learnt exactly why I was dumped. Each and every point, I committed those exact mistakes. Even though I knew those were the loose ends, I never thought it could actually cost me. Thanks for this
Aaron: I'd like to request on a vid for social isolation during the holidays. As someone who tries to prevent suicide, this is the time of year where it starts to skyrocket from lack of community to neglecting family & friends.
Bro I understand you, I have passed some hard times myself. What I would do would be to plan a small adventure for the holidays to treat myself, like I would take a small vacation if possible, to a place I think it would be interesting to me and I would go with the flow, low-key try meet random people there, you know try but chill, see the place etc. If going to another town is not an option, I would do that in my own city, you know some days just for myself to do what I want. If you don't like that , then chose some days in the holidays to take a leave and pass them in a way you would have as much fun as you can for yourself, but outside not in the house. Apart from that I suggest you start hitting the gym if not already, it is a major mood changer, and also think of a hobby you would like to do and do that, I suggest one where you will meet new people. Anyways hang in there brother, better days always come. If you ever need anyone to talk to hit me back. I wish you the best.
Good stuff, but I'm not at risk. Just requesting for others sake since Aaron has a larger platform to broadcast. I'm a fit author who's doing decent with the women; happy as can be.
Let me guess: "AT POSITION NUMBER 5 WE HAVE, GENTLEMEN, WE HAVE THESE STUNNING ENEMY SUNGLASSES! WOMEN WILL INSTANTLY START RESPECTING YOU IF THEY SEE YOU AROUND WEARING THESE BAD BOYS!"
1. Act like a man 2. Stand up for yourself 3. Be honest 4. Build mental toughness (audible ad) 5. Be self-sufficient 6. Respect her 7. Respect yourself
I've followed you for almost 3 months now ... and I've got the love of my life...my beautiful girlfriend.. I literally love you Alpha M . I've made u my IDOL .. LOVEEE YOU 👏👏👏
Setting boundaries early on in your interactions...increases her respect for you. As a Hollywood promoter and dating coach, I teach this to my students.
That's way sup respect I be on the same shit I ain't even go lie to you my brother me and my brother coming out 2020 we don't have no links to our music we have it recorded on our phone our stuff so hot it'll make your hands melt when you touch it I appreciate the chance and opportunity but my brother have a Facebook page for the custom clothes and shoes he designs by hand Trying get shit popping for 2020💯 its our year to prosper and I'm still trying to link up with you and your people i appreciate the chance and opportunity to do some networking with you and doing some futre business Teamworks makes the dream work so im ready to work and so is my brother when ever you get the chance i would like for you to check it out my brother page on Facebook page look through photos and albums then when you have some free time on your hand cuz i know you be busy as a jewler give my big brother a call and give him the rundown on how yall can get straight to it like tee grizzley last but not least it was a blessing for us meeting one another on this social media site so at the end of the day this is Gods plans not ours so lets go live in prosperity royalty loyalty wit a Dab of Hennessy and lets get it from AZ we also do music we BMTMG Brothers moving together music group the chain you see around my neck my brother made that by hand one man one blade and we can create a product for you to market and strengthen your brand we also do free shipping and handling all I need is one shot and I ain't talking no liquor I'm just talking about a chance and another opportunity to take it all the way for 2020 😎💯🌊💖🤑 I'm not the designer or the jeweler I'm just the promoter looking for like minded people who want to experience a pop
Personally as a woman I think another thing that women find as highly respectable is being emotionally open a lot of the time men can seem closed off like their being reserved not fully sure of committing to the relationship and that can make a woman really uneasy too . showing open emotion like concern , enjoyment and even sadness ,knowing that doesnt make you any less of a man in our eyes is a heart melter we dont want a robot we want a human , a human that can respect us and themselves . Both parties are supposed respect and care for one another so acting like the stereotypical 'man' that doesnt show sadness or any other 'unmanly' emotions isnt giving us the chance to do that. At the same time that doesnt mean to wear your heart on your sleeve this is advice for when you trust someone or want to get closer. even as friends , if you trust your lady friend then this is also something that'll strengthen that bond between you .curiosity is also very endearing to women , showing interest in something about us or a subject , even if it's to the point of childish can be very attractive , it's very human to be curious about things , knowing your open to learn shows an open mind set , its shows us you can take information in and learn from it which is another good trait for a possible partner . That's how me and quite a few of my lady friends see it .
@@Bunny_195 You think you want this. But it gets given to you, and you lose interest in the man and leave him. It's basic female psychology. I would know because I've been in that position.
I just broke up yesterday with my girl because I felt she didn't respect me. I thought maybe i did something wrong but now after watching this video i realized that I'm amazing! She doesn't deserve me🤷🏻♂️ Thank you so much aplha for everything man! Like your channel has really helped me grow as a person. I've realized I don't need anyone to make me happy. I'm amazing I'm self sufficient. Also for people who doubt his product line.. Tiege Hanley is dope I've been using it for 5 months now
Alpha is the best youtuber because he's real, down to earth, and helpful. He's also wise because he's beeb there and done that and he wishes for none of us to repeat his previoud actions thathe relents
this dude is my big brother for life!!!!!!!.. been listening to him for about 6months and my life.. my personal growth.. especially the way i feel about myself has grown so much.. Thanks Alpha.. *fist pump*
After a huge job loss I was crushed. I didn’t handle it right. At all! I lost my wife’s respect because of how I led myself and her AND how I lost respect for myself. It ended the marriage and I started a journey on rebuilding myself and Alpha thank you for being in my corner! Much love.
You're not alone. I was so disrespected in the marriage I just came out of. I stood up for myself till the end but I was with someone that was just not going to respect me. I could have done some things differently but I'm no longer going to let someone blame me for everything.
One of the aspects you mentioned realy hit the nail: we don't want a guy who has it all set living like in sort of dream or fairytale. While we women fight our own, that makes us stronger. We as women need to feel empowered to have a man. we also need some kind of mutuality. Without it sucks. What happens needs to be for our own good sake. Not make us feel far Less, Insecure, far Above, far Down or Behind the guy. But close Enough. Best is forehead in reliant situations, next in other teamwork situations and protected in danger. And if a guy takes distance it must have been for our own good sake. Because if we want distance ourself it is a clear signal. Trust and feeling grounded is the most important thing in the relationship. Taking the parts and the roles. Resting on time. Like you are on a trip. And provide for eachother. We also can forgive and take the lead ourselves. But we can't easily forgive fear. If we fear you it's done
So I just sent a message to this girl. “ yo mama I’m into you I think you’re super fine and sassy, and I definitely want a piece of that action.” And then when I came back here to continue the video Alpha says that’s never gonna work and it’s too late for me now. 😕
You love her, You don't need her. You are with her because you want to be with her, not because you have to. That's the trick. Thats why mental toughness and emotional stability are so important. Because if you depend on her emotionally she leaves. If you don't depend on her but still choose her, she is the most loving and amazing girl to you ever been. It is though to learn but not impossible
Thank you for always the voice of reasoning, putting things in better perspective. I appreciate you Aaron! We usually have share the same mindset as but you have greater experience and with that being said we are GENTLEMEN!
Earn Respect and Keep It 1. Act like a man - a lot of men try to mould themselves into something that they think a woman wants which is a softer version of themselves. 2. Stand up for yourself - don’t kiss her ass or let her walk all over you. Learn to say ‘no’ and learn to be nice without being a people-pleasing push-over. 3. Be upfront and honest with her - don’t play ridiculous games. Be upfront and tell her what’s up. If you want her, go out and figuratively grab it. 4. Build mental toughness - nothing will hit you harder than life itself because life will throw you a bunch of punches. You have to pick yourself up and fight again. 5. Be self-sufficient - don’t rely on her emotionally or financially. She won’t respect you if you’re too needy. 6. Respect her both when she’s around and when she’s not around - don’t flirt and act like you’re single as you’ll look like a huge dick. Plus she’ll lose respect for you when she hears what you’ve been doing. 7. Respect yourself - don’t do self-destructive things. You need self-respect! Just in case yall didn't read the description and need the summary.
Pay attention to this one, gentlemen. Spot on advice. IMO, the definition of a “man” vs. boy/guy is the embodiment of honor, integrity, sense of team, kind, boundaries + respect for self and others. Women are instinctually attracted to this inner strength (caveat: quality women not superficial ones). We women WANT to respect you. If you develop a strong honorable inner core, it will shine to everyone and you will have quite the reputation (because it’s so rare!).
A little mindset to get you started, the respect will come later: 1. Just watching videos won't get you anywhere until you put yourself out there and do something, as alpha said. If you start doing something, the motivation and inspiration will follow. I'm a 20 years student in engineering, when i have a big project i'm sitting there like 15 minutes wondering how the hell do i get started. In the end i say "oh well, let's at least do some basic programming and let's see where we get" and as soon as i start doing something, i'm programming for hours. 2. Accept that you're not awesome. You're average so put your a55 to work and do something productive. 3. Don't think about the final result, think about the process, the effort required, and accept that you have to work hard and constantly to accomplish it. 4. If you want a boost in confidence, take a shower, go to the gym, volunteer, practice a skill. The confidence comes from the pain you suffer to achieve something good. 5. Keep in mind that failure is inevitable, but it's healthy as soon as you learn from it. So track your steps, see where you messed up, and go back to work. 6. The most important thing is not the negative event, but the way you react to it. It's such a basic advice but people don't consider it enough. When something bad happens ask yourself if it's really worth to let that sh*t blow your mind. Many times when someone annoys me i get a little angry, of course. But few seconds later i start laughing at myself and say "silly me, i really let that person to disturb my peace?" i started thinking like this about small events and as i practiced it i can even think like that about some serious stuff like my ex gf who broke up with me. I could lay in bed, cry, fall in depression, but what i did? Exactly, i didn't give a sht and i kept doing my things like nothing happened 7. Just in case you didn't get the point: "DO SOMETHING"
Thanks for this video it has some really good points. Also David Goggins. If you want to rise up to your higher self check him out. He say’s excuses are reasons your minds comes up with to talk you out of doing something.
I just wanted to say Alpha M thank you for posting brother I right now I'm struggling in a relationship with my wife but she doesn't respect me at all as a man and some of the stuff that you talked on really hit home and made a lot of sense one of my downfalls is that I love and care way too much and I just want to help and be there for my wife and family is best I can and be a good provider but obviously I'm failing in my relationship because my wife does not respect me at all and she's told me that she feels like she just walks all over me and I just let her well in truth yes and some way she does and then I guess my reaction to her walking all over me is that of somebody who just cares about somebody way too much and just wants to help them through their issues besides taking control and telling her how it is but I guess you can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink So currently me and my wife are separated she is in another state with my child which is very sad but it's mostly her choice and cuz she wanted a chance to grow as an adult and has some Life Experiences without going into too much detail I do see a lot of the things you talked on in my life which really kind of sucks so for right now I'm just going to let her grow and find out that life is not easy it is very hard especially when you're trying to provide for yourself and your child hopefully one day she comes to grips with how much I really do care and love her and I only wanted what was best for her to help her with her life struggles that she dealt with through anxiety and depression she always preferred going to others for advice instead of talking to me about what was happening so I just listen to her when she actually did wanted to tell me what was bothering her and gave her the best advice I could but it was like talking to a brick wall and half is probably cuz she just didn't respect me as a person and the man of the relationship so I am going to take your advice and start working on myself and become stronger in my mind and try real hard not to revert to my old ways of putting my heart into caring and loving and trying to help her as best I can just let her learn I guess and I need to become stronger in my mind so that's going to come through training. and also she said that she was sick and tired of the codependent relationship we had. In my mind I never even heard of that word until she mentioned it. the only things that I really just depended on her in all reality was just some of the technical things with our finances and that's about it the rest of it was mostly me just working a job making money and thriving and being successful and getting business taken care of. and being there for her when she needs me not to mention I have a four-year-old daughter with her that I love to pieces so also being a good provider for us all what's my number one priority. so thank you for posting this video Alpha m you really open my eyes to some of the reasons why my wife wants to and is and has left me so it probably is based around a lot of respect for me as a man of the house I guess me being so busy with working and entertaining the child and always trying to get things done has led to our love fading in due time.So the plan for now is I'm going to just work on self-growth becoming stronger in my own mind taking care of business and getting. sorry about the rant but I just want to say thank you for posting God bless you have a nice day Marky Mark
This is some risky stuff. I pretty much behave like this already, but the thing that makes me suspicious is not relying or asking for help. Not being a native english speaker my writing isnt that great and i had to ask my girlfriend to help edit and ideas on how to write my graduate school essay. Maybe that's why she was upset because I asked her for help once even though I recognize my own current limitations.
As soon as you are successful people that aren't will try to pull you down as they are insecure and hate themselves. As soon as you recognize these types of toxic people get them out of your life, no one needs that negative shit In their life. Everyone keep doing what you are doing but do it for yourself and do it cause it makes you happy 👍👍
"Do not be at her beck and call." "Do not play games, be upfront and honest." "Respect her, both when she is and is not around." Those are three of the best pieces of advice in this video, in my opinion. Definitely follow it. Regarding the first part, if you are not able to see her for a day, or a night, that's okay. You have your life to live, just as she does, and you have keep yourself going as a person. Plus you need to have a life outside of her. Nothing wrong with putting her first, but don't let her dominate your life. (Just make sure if you're not available to hang out, so she doesnt get the wrong idea, is to offer an alternative date as to when you can get together. However make sure you can commit to the date and time you suggest, before throwing it out there.) Regarding the 2nd part, it all comes down to being a man of your word. Do what you say you will, even if it means walking out her door and never looking back, (specifically when she starts talking smack about you), and thus you show yourself respect.
Bros I cutoff and blocked a woman who was not treating me right. I completely blocked her ass for 2 weeks. It drove her absolutely nuts and she found crazy ways to try to contact me. Then she acted mad when we finally got back into contact but by listening to some of this advice I told her exactly how she was acting and how it was effecting me she heard me and the respect was rebuilt. It’s scary to cut her off but it pays off!
"First heard of him from JRE" Which btw, has alpha ever considered being on the JRE Podcast? Alpha has an amazing story and a great message, would LOVE to hear that show tbh Joe: "You ever try DMT?" Alpha:" You ever rub Teige on your face?"
Hey Alpha new subscriber, big fan already, thanks for this video. I have been the people pleaser and try to do all for the woman I'm involved with and it leads to being a doormat . No more tho, I'm gaining the skills and confidence with self respect and loving myself , thanks to your videos. Much love and props Antonio
Duuuudddeeee, Wow this was your Best ever talk. I have enjoyed your postings four some yrs now and thank you for your energy and direction you bring to your talks. Keep up your good works and fights. Proud to know you. Ace P a real Las Vegas
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1. Act like a man
2. Stand up for yourself
3. Be honest
4. Build mental toughness
5. Be self-sufficient
6. Respect her
7. Respect yourself
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GENTLEMAN
I respect people like you!
you're a mate dude
Homie.....
I’m pretty sure ppl like you that do this go to heaven no questions asked
*Setting clear boundaries and communicating openly not only shows confidence but also fosters mutual respect. It's about being assertive without being aggressive - definitely something everyone should strive for!*
*The best way to make women respect you is by showing strength.*
- Say No
- Be your #1
- Focus on your success, not women
O'SSÉIN - Master Your Mind With Me I literally see you everywhere 💀
Show that your strong willed 👍
You let a bitch take you off your success by distraction, then you're a bitch
True
100%
OMG YOU ARE A GENIUS
SAVED MY LIFE
NOW SHE IS RESPECTING ME WITHOUT ME BEATING HER UP
Omg lol nobody gave you a comment lol your acting like a dumbass
Bro..
Wait so she’s respecting u? Don’t play with me plz I’m desperate to know if this wrks
@@thunderplayz9798 she'll never respect you. Your desperate
hahahah.
That's not funny at all. Go outside and get a life.
alpha: posts a video
me 31.6 seconds later: damn I'm late
Same
Fan boys
3.5 sec later
Me: dayum 5 comments already.. I'm late 😑
Imagine how I feel lol it’s been hours and I am just now watching
998th like
Can’t Hurt Me is amazing, I highly recommend the audiobook
Just get Tiege, everything else is automatically done
My comment is 69-nth
Freak of the fall you mean like?
@@jasonloera3358 Yes i do hentai 2
“Carpe señorita”
- Alpha M
What does it mean
gaming badsha it’s a saying carpe diem meaning seize the day. He uses it as , seize the senorita
I laughed so hard at that :'D
Loved this video. Not only it makes sense, he says it in a way that tickles my funny bone a lot.
I'm in love with Brenda.
Brenda is actually the name of Alpha's wife
Thanos my sister, her name is
You truly believed me right LMFAO
Brenda is in a relationship with Brian!
Brenda got ass
Uncle Barry loves you
Huge huge props for the David Goggins bit he is majorly inspirational
Someone is gonna have him as dad
Gotou he’s getting pretty old and has been married for a while so I feel like he isn’t going to have kids
@Hydrax 313 did he mention the reason
He actually has kids. He said it one of his first videos and they work with him in his company
*THE ULTIMATE CHAD*
It’s 2019! Who the fuck would want kids nowadays? LOL
I came to see what I can do but instead I learnt exactly why I was dumped. Each and every point, I committed those exact mistakes. Even though I knew those were the loose ends, I never thought it could actually cost me. Thanks for this
David Groggins is absolutely amazing! The book Alpha mentions is a MUST listen for anyone
Aaron: I'd like to request on a vid for social isolation during the holidays.
As someone who tries to prevent suicide, this is the time of year where it starts to skyrocket from lack of community to neglecting family & friends.
Bro I understand you, I have passed some hard times myself. What I would do would be to plan a small adventure for the holidays to treat myself, like I would take a small vacation if possible, to a place I think it would be interesting to me and I would go with the flow, low-key try meet random people there, you know try but chill, see the place etc. If going to another town is not an option, I would do that in my own city, you know some days just for myself to do what I want. If you don't like that , then chose some days in the holidays to take a leave and pass them in a way you would have as much fun as you can for yourself, but outside not in the house. Apart from that I suggest you start hitting the gym if not already, it is a major mood changer, and also think of a hobby you would like to do and do that, I suggest one where you will meet new people. Anyways hang in there brother, better days always come. If you ever need anyone to talk to hit me back. I wish you the best.
Good stuff, but I'm not at risk. Just requesting for others sake since Aaron has a larger platform to broadcast.
I'm a fit author who's doing decent with the women; happy as can be.
@@psychodiver Glad to hear, my bad, all the best.
Telling her that I'm suscribed to alpha m.
Instant respect
Instant brake up
Then she will know where you get all those 😉
@@mustardroshi418 😂
please tell me the name of that shirt he wear in video please
The second he said mental toughness, I thought of David Goggins. What an amazing dude! The book is fantastic; alpha is speaking truth!
Let me guess:
"AT POSITION NUMBER 5 WE HAVE, GENTLEMEN, WE HAVE THESE STUNNING ENEMY SUNGLASSES! WOMEN WILL INSTANTLY START RESPECTING YOU IF THEY SEE YOU AROUND WEARING THESE BAD BOYS!"
HAHAH
1. Act like a man
2. Stand up for yourself
3. Be honest
4. Build mental toughness (audible ad)
5. Be self-sufficient
6. Respect her
7. Respect yourself
Thanks for the list
We gotta find Brenda and ask her what is her deal why she mess with my boys heart like that 🤣🤣🤣
Hahahahaha
That moment when you realize even girls are watching this video.
@Thanos they ain't commenting bro is they just watchin our tactics.👀😂
Hopefully not my first 😂😂😂
@@shamakjaved9850 i think he was talking about the lesbians
Oh yes. And I wouldn't like such man. 😂
Spicy senoritas are watching this video for sure!
I've followed you for almost 3 months now ... and I've got the love of my life...my beautiful girlfriend..
I literally love you Alpha M . I've made u
my IDOL .. LOVEEE YOU 👏👏👏
A white girl?
You are our buddy. You post summary in the description for the Alpha man who don't have much time ✌️👍😎
Setting boundaries early on in your interactions...increases her respect for you. As a Hollywood promoter and dating coach, I teach this to my students.
That's awesome! It's great advice
That's way sup respect I be on the same shit I ain't even go lie to you my brother me and my brother coming out 2020 we don't have no links to our music we have it recorded on our phone our stuff so hot it'll make your hands melt when you touch it I appreciate the chance and opportunity but my brother have a Facebook page for the custom clothes and shoes he designs by hand Trying get shit popping for 2020💯 its our year to prosper and I'm still trying to link up with you and your people i appreciate the chance and opportunity to do some networking with you and doing some futre business Teamworks makes the dream work so im ready to work and so is my brother when ever you get the chance i would like for you to check it out my brother page on Facebook page look through photos and albums then when you have some free time on your hand cuz i know you be busy as a jewler give my big brother a call and give him the rundown on how yall can get straight to it like tee grizzley last but not least it was a blessing for us meeting one another on this social media site so at the end of the day this is Gods plans not ours so lets go live in prosperity royalty loyalty wit a Dab of Hennessy and lets get it from AZ we also do music we BMTMG Brothers moving together music group the chain you see around my neck my brother made that by hand one man one blade and we can create a product for you to market and strengthen your brand we also do free shipping and handling all I need is one shot and I ain't talking no liquor I'm just talking about a chance and another opportunity to take it all the way for 2020 😎💯🌊💖🤑 I'm not the designer or the jeweler I'm just the promoter looking for like minded people who want to experience a pop
Personally as a woman I think another thing that women find as highly respectable is being emotionally open a lot of the time men can seem closed off like their being reserved not fully sure of committing to the relationship and that can make a woman really uneasy too . showing open emotion like concern , enjoyment and even sadness ,knowing that doesnt make you any less of a man in our eyes is a heart melter we dont want a robot we want a human , a human that can respect us and themselves . Both parties are supposed respect and care for one another so acting like the stereotypical 'man' that doesnt show sadness or any other 'unmanly' emotions isnt giving us the chance to do that. At the same time that doesnt mean to wear your heart on your sleeve this is advice for when you trust someone or want to get closer. even as friends , if you trust your lady friend then this is also something that'll strengthen that bond between you .curiosity is also very endearing to women , showing interest in something about us or a subject , even if it's to the point of childish can be very attractive , it's very human to be curious about things , knowing your open to learn shows an open mind set , its shows us you can take information in and learn from it which is another good trait for a possible partner . That's how me and quite a few of my lady friends see it .
@Wintermelont no, its situational
@@Bunny_195 You think you want this. But it gets given to you, and you lose interest in the man and leave him. It's basic female psychology. I would know because I've been in that position.
This guy is 100% truthful, I was in that horrible area and I’ve changed into a serious man and I can see the difference
Woman here. You are 100% right on all counts. Thanks, Alpha! You rock.
Thanks, Natasha!
Hell yeah he is
I just broke up yesterday with my girl because I felt she didn't respect me. I thought maybe i did something wrong but now after watching this video i realized that I'm amazing! She doesn't deserve me🤷🏻♂️
Thank you so much aplha for everything man! Like your channel has really helped me grow as a person. I've realized I don't need anyone to make me happy. I'm amazing I'm self sufficient.
Also for people who doubt his product line.. Tiege Hanley is dope I've been using it for 5 months now
The uncle i never had 🙂 thanks for guiding us to the true path of manliness!
I appreciate how you explain what men do wrong and what should we do to fix it to make it right. Thank you so much.
0:47 "a way of talking this pansy ass generation desperately needs" You da Man alpha❤️
Alpha is the best youtuber because he's real, down to earth, and helpful. He's also wise because he's beeb there and done that and he wishes for none of us to repeat his previoud actions thathe relents
You’re Codependent too? I’m reading “Codependency for dummies”! Good on you for doing the work and becoming assertive!!
Agree on all points except being flirty. Women love competition and when you show you have Options…it’s a extremely Attractive
The last one really took my mind off Aaron, thankyou for always being so supportive and bringing us such beautiful content.♥️
This is a vid for picking up women? Who's Aaron?
Bhai pat gyi?
this dude is my big brother for life!!!!!!!.. been listening to him for about 6months and my life.. my personal growth.. especially the way i feel about myself has grown so much.. Thanks Alpha.. *fist pump*
*I think you've forgotten to mention Tiege Hanley and Enemy Sunglasses* 😅😂😎
After a huge job loss I was crushed. I didn’t handle it right. At all! I lost my wife’s respect because of how I led myself and her AND how I lost respect for myself. It ended the marriage and I started a journey on rebuilding myself and Alpha thank you for being in my corner! Much love.
You're not alone. I was so disrespected in the marriage I just came out of. I stood up for myself till the end but I was with someone that was just not going to respect me. I could have done some things differently but I'm no longer going to let someone blame me for everything.
I m going to respect women
Who else is home from school studying and was waiting for this upload for about an hour now?😂😂😂
#6 is 100% on point.
#7 is 95% on point.
Great Video, my dude. 👊🏼🤦🏼♂️🎉😎
I just got rejected from my crush yesterday, now I know why, imma work out at the gym harder than I ever had and become the best MAN I can I be. ✊✊✊✊
Forget about her & focus on yourself she,s not worth it
Alpha Ive been watching you since I was a Jr in highschool now It’s been 2 years after my graduation your videos have helped and inspired me so much
I wish you made this video sooner before I realized I was in a toxic relationship.
One of the aspects you mentioned realy hit the nail: we don't want a guy who has it all set living like in sort of dream or fairytale. While we women fight our own, that makes us stronger. We as women need to feel empowered to have a man. we also need some kind of mutuality. Without it sucks. What happens needs to be for our own good sake. Not make us feel far Less, Insecure, far Above, far Down or Behind the guy. But close Enough. Best is forehead in reliant situations, next in other teamwork situations and protected in danger. And if a guy takes distance it must have been for our own good sake. Because if we want distance ourself it is a clear signal. Trust and feeling grounded is the most important thing in the relationship. Taking the parts and the roles. Resting on time. Like you are on a trip. And provide for eachother. We also can forgive and take the lead ourselves. But we can't easily forgive fear. If we fear you it's done
Alpha: "don't play games."
Also Alpha: *makes dozens of videos about how to play games.
That's what I was thinking.
Fellas, he's not encouraging cheating
I dont think building self confidence and not letting anyone stomp on you is no game
He is making Non Alpha to act like Alpha
So I just sent a message to this girl. “ yo mama I’m into you I think you’re super fine and sassy, and I definitely want a piece of that action.” And then when I came back here to continue the video Alpha says that’s never gonna work and it’s too late for me now. 😕
Yo alpha love you
You are a great influencer
The being afraid your gonna upset them is a little how I failed 💯👌🏾along with not being mentally tough
This video is a mindbreaker for a lot of men. Thank you and continue the great job that you have been doing Alpha !
Hell yeah it is
if im so self reliant why would i even need her other than physical needs, then thats guy is judged as a jerk !
You love her, You don't need her. You are with her because you want to be with her, not because you have to. That's the trick. Thats why mental toughness and emotional stability are so important. Because if you depend on her emotionally she leaves. If you don't depend on her but still choose her, she is the most loving and amazing girl to you ever been. It is though to learn but not impossible
Thank you for always the voice of reasoning, putting things in better perspective. I appreciate you Aaron! We usually have share the same mindset as but you have greater experience and with that being said we are GENTLEMEN!
So do i bro
Davids Audio book is better than the paperback. He has great commentary.
Earn Respect and Keep It
1. Act like a man - a lot of men try to mould themselves into something that they think a woman wants which is a softer version of themselves.
2. Stand up for yourself - don’t kiss her ass or let her walk all over you. Learn to say ‘no’ and learn to be nice without being a people-pleasing push-over.
3. Be upfront and honest with her - don’t play ridiculous games. Be upfront and tell her what’s up. If you want her, go out and figuratively grab it.
4. Build mental toughness - nothing will hit you harder than life itself because life will throw you a bunch of punches. You have to pick yourself up and fight again.
5. Be self-sufficient - don’t rely on her emotionally or financially. She won’t respect you if you’re too needy.
6. Respect her both when she’s around and when she’s not around - don’t flirt and act like you’re single as you’ll look like a huge dick. Plus she’ll lose respect for you when she hears what you’ve been doing.
7. Respect yourself - don’t do self-destructive things. You need self-respect!
Just in case yall didn't read the description and need the summary.
Im not soft
This video! Is Gold. Thank you for sharing this brother. This video should be replayed, once a year. For reminder.
Alpha: "act like a man!"
Me: *belches loudly*
Girl: *leaves*
Me: well, s***!
😂🤣
Act like a man doesn't mean to act like a Neanderthal
LOL!!!!!!
Pay attention to this one, gentlemen. Spot on advice. IMO, the definition of a “man” vs. boy/guy is the embodiment of honor, integrity, sense of team, kind, boundaries + respect for self and others. Women are instinctually attracted to this inner strength (caveat: quality women not superficial ones). We women WANT to respect you. If you develop a strong honorable inner core, it will shine to everyone and you will have quite the reputation (because it’s so rare!).
A little mindset to get you started, the respect will come later:
1. Just watching videos won't get you anywhere until you put yourself out there and do something, as alpha said.
If you start doing something, the motivation and inspiration will follow.
I'm a 20 years student in engineering, when i have a big project i'm sitting there like 15 minutes wondering how the hell do i get started. In the end i say "oh well, let's at least do some basic programming and let's see where we get" and as soon as i start doing something, i'm programming for hours.
2. Accept that you're not awesome. You're average so put your a55 to work and do something productive.
3. Don't think about the final result, think about the process, the effort required, and accept that you have to work hard and constantly to accomplish it.
4. If you want a boost in confidence, take a shower, go to the gym, volunteer, practice a skill. The confidence comes from the pain you suffer to achieve something good.
5. Keep in mind that failure is inevitable, but it's healthy as soon as you learn from it. So track your steps, see where you messed up, and go back to work.
6. The most important thing is not the negative event, but the way you react to it. It's such a basic advice but people don't consider it enough. When something bad happens ask yourself if it's really worth to let that sh*t blow your mind. Many times when someone annoys me i get a little angry, of course. But few seconds later i start laughing at myself and say "silly me, i really let that person to disturb my peace?" i started thinking like this about small events and as i practiced it i can even think like that about some serious stuff like my ex gf who broke up with me. I could lay in bed, cry, fall in depression, but what i did? Exactly, i didn't give a sht and i kept doing my things like nothing happened
7. Just in case you didn't get the point:
"DO SOMETHING"
Thanks for this video it has some really good points. Also David Goggins. If you want to rise up to your higher self check him out. He say’s excuses are reasons your minds comes up with to talk you out of doing something.
I'm going to buy myself for Christmas some Enemy's Shades
I just wanted to say Alpha M thank you for posting brother I right now I'm struggling in a relationship with my wife but she doesn't respect me at all as a man and some of the stuff that you talked on really hit home and made a lot of sense one of my downfalls is that I love and care way too much and I just want to help and be there for my wife and family is best I can and be a good provider but obviously I'm failing in my relationship because my wife does not respect me at all and she's told me that she feels like she just walks all over me and I just let her well in truth yes and some way she does and then I guess my reaction to her walking all over me is that of somebody who just cares about somebody way too much and just wants to help them through their issues besides taking control and telling her how it is but I guess you can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink So currently me and my wife are separated she is in another state with my child which is very sad but it's mostly her choice and cuz she wanted a chance to grow as an adult and has some Life Experiences without going into too much detail I do see a lot of the things you talked on in my life which really kind of sucks so for right now I'm just going to let her grow and find out that life is not easy it is very hard especially when you're trying to provide for yourself and your child hopefully one day she comes to grips with how much I really do care and love her and I only wanted what was best for her to help her with her life struggles that she dealt with through anxiety and depression she always preferred going to others for advice instead of talking to me about what was happening so I just listen to her when she actually did wanted to tell me what was bothering her and gave her the best advice I could but it was like talking to a brick wall and half is probably cuz she just didn't respect me as a person and the man of the relationship so I am going to take your advice and start working on myself and become stronger in my mind and try real hard not to revert to my old ways of putting my heart into caring and loving and trying to help her as best I can just let her learn I guess and I need to become stronger in my mind so that's going to come through training. and also she said that she was sick and tired of the codependent relationship we had. In my mind I never even heard of that word until she mentioned it. the only things that I really just depended on her in all reality was just some of the technical things with our finances and that's about it the rest of it was mostly me just working a job making money and thriving and being successful and getting business taken care of. and being there for her when she needs me not to mention I have a four-year-old daughter with her that I love to pieces so also being a good provider for us all what's my number one priority. so thank you for posting this video Alpha m you really open my eyes to some of the reasons why my wife wants to and is and has left me so it probably is based around a lot of respect for me as a man of the house I guess me being so busy with working and entertaining the child and always trying to get things done has led to our love fading in due time.So the plan for now is I'm going to just work on self-growth becoming stronger in my own mind taking care of business and getting. sorry about the rant but I just want to say thank you for posting God bless you have a nice day Marky Mark
broke: disrespect women
woke: respect women
bespoke: learn to be respectable
New you were gonna say David Goggins...great book
Whenever alpha posts a video,
Me: first hit the like button without watching the video.
Always😂😂
This is some risky stuff. I pretty much behave like this already, but the thing that makes me suspicious is not relying or asking for help. Not being a native english speaker my writing isnt that great and i had to ask my girlfriend to help edit and ideas on how to write my graduate school essay. Maybe that's why she was upset because I asked her for help once even though I recognize my own current limitations.
I'm convinced Brenda's real name is actually Barbie when Alpha was growing up 😆
Dealing with a bunch of shit with women..... audible lets get this shit done! Thank you bro!
Short answer, if you wanna BE the man, you’ve gotta BEAT the man (wooooo!)
Ric flair baby
As soon as you are successful people that aren't will try to pull you down as they are insecure and hate themselves. As soon as you recognize these types of toxic people get them out of your life, no one needs that negative shit In their life. Everyone keep doing what you are doing but do it for yourself and do it cause it makes you happy 👍👍
8th way - use tiege hanley
Alpha M, a man full of wisdom and experience, keep going my friend I look up to you!
5:37 guess whats ends here...
It’s the add
Lovely that now you put the things in the description.
"Litteral grabbing will happen later"- Alpha M 2019.
Hii alpha.! I need your help..!!
I proposed my best friend and she don't like it so now she is ignoring me as hell and sticking to other guy..🤷🏻♂
"Do not be at her beck and call."
"Do not play games, be upfront and honest."
"Respect her, both when she is and is not around."
Those are three of the best pieces of advice in this video, in my opinion. Definitely follow it.
Regarding the first part, if you are not able to see her for a day, or a night, that's okay. You have your life to live, just as she does, and you have keep yourself going as a person. Plus you need to have a life outside of her. Nothing wrong with putting her first, but don't let her dominate your life.
(Just make sure if you're not available to hang out, so she doesnt get the wrong idea, is to offer an alternative date as to when you can get together. However make sure you can commit to the date and time you suggest, before throwing it out there.)
Regarding the 2nd part, it all comes down to being a man of your word. Do what you say you will, even if it means walking out her door and never looking back, (specifically when she starts talking smack about you), and thus you show yourself respect.
Right On Right On Dude,. Too cool- I"m cracking up cause around @231 in yr video(don"t beat around the bush) " WHAT" it"s FUNNY!!!!
My god, This video was all I needed at This time
Bros I cutoff and blocked a woman who was not treating me right. I completely blocked her ass for 2 weeks. It drove her absolutely nuts and she found crazy ways to try to contact me. Then she acted mad when we finally got back into contact but by listening to some of this advice I told her exactly how she was acting and how it was effecting me she heard me and the respect was rebuilt. It’s scary to cut her off but it pays off!
Yo I want to know who’s Brenda like foo, she’s keeps being mentioned in these video, if it’s made up ok but if not I want a story about her😂
Respect to how u talk and present yourself bro👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾
why you keep jumping on me now and then through the monitor
Self respect. Get out of toxic relationship. Got it.
"First heard of him from JRE"
Which btw, has alpha ever considered being on the JRE Podcast? Alpha has an amazing story and a great message, would LOVE to hear that show tbh
Joe: "You ever try DMT?"
Alpha:" You ever rub Teige on your face?"
Alpha M thanks for being awsome man! Gentlemen a great book you need to find on audible is Rational Male by Rollo tommasi
me: sees alpha m notification on phone
me again: stops parents from watching tv and putting on alpha m
Wow. What an _amazing_ delivery.
"Can you occasionally take her out and buy her.. a burrito" 😂😂 I died
Or throw one at her. I was hungry too
Man that was real talk you made my entire year and the rest of my life. A man should be a catch not a rug.
Or use this line:
Hey girl you know uses tiege hanley? Me 😉
2:55 I love how he moves away from the camera as he says that
You should have uploaded this yesterday 😂🤦♂️ lost the spicy senorita yesterday
Marck Conrado i never related to a comment so accurately before
Hey Alpha new subscriber, big fan already, thanks for this video. I have been the people pleaser and try to do all for the woman I'm involved with and it leads to being a doormat . No more tho, I'm gaining the skills and confidence with self respect and loving myself , thanks to your videos. Much love and props Antonio
Im not trying to be a doormat
Does anyone else wanna know who’s the girl in the thumbnail
Thanos u have no siblings thanos
Thank you for being the dad I never had
im not first
im not last
but when Alpha Uploads
I click fast
This should be hearted
Photoshop skills are getting better and better
Pro tip: Use Tiege Hanley
yeah that what I'm saying mental Toughness!! Thanks for that Master
“Literal grabbing will happen later” this made my day alpa! Amma give yah a 👍👍👍🏼
Duuuudddeeee, Wow this was your Best ever talk. I have enjoyed your postings four
some yrs now and thank you for your
energy and direction you bring to your talks.
Keep up your good works and fights.
Proud to know you.
Ace P a real
Las Vegas
2:29 alpha : don't play games
Alpha 1 week later: here are 10 psychological tricks to attract a girl
Mr. M I like your video because you bring in so much energy. That make anyone wants to do something for themselves. 👍🏾👍🏾