My little one has a hard time in public places especially with strangers. Recently we were on a plane and the closeness of others around him was a real issue. He cried most of the trip and I was alone trying my hardest to help him feel safe. I know it was unpleasant for other passengers to hear him crying constantly but the added looks of disgust only made the situation worse and harder for me to handle. You’re not alone!
@@aussieautismfamily Hi thank you for posting this video. I was not able to have children but it has helped me to remember to be patient with parents of young children. It is very demanding and children do not play up just to get on others nerves. I would never stare or make unkind comments. I think you two are wonderful parents and your children are both beautiful. I have panic attacks and anxiety and shopping centres can get to me. I find the light too bright and the sounds too loud and I never go on planes I really could not. As an adult I know what it is like to feel scared, sick and terrified so it must be so much worse for your son. Hope all goes well for all of you. Best Wishes from Leicester UK.
It’s only over recent years that I’ve found out my son is autistic, the meltdowns in shopping centres were epic, as a young child my inability to cope with him regularly had me in tears of frustration. I tried to return to work but childminders kept refusing to have back, they feared for the safety of the other children, he was excluded from primary school and two senior schools on behavioural grounds. I spent so many years knowing there was something wrong but nobody would listen, other parents blamed me the Drs, Social Workers & Teachers simply said “Some children are born naughty”. My son is 45 now and still can’t deal with social situations. His life, and many other older peoples lives has been blighted by this condition not being recognised when they were children. Thank goodness this condition is now recognised and there is help available for thee children and their parents.
Thank you! I have had a few comment on my 'exploitation' but I believe if people see it happen in real life they will understand better from me making these videos.
Your little man is adorable. What a sweet face. Anyway, I have a nephew with Autism. He is an adult now. Lives in a group home. His meltdowns look like your sons. His meltdowns changed when he got older and also his vocabulary. My sister worked with him all the time. I did also since I babysit for her. He had a aid when he stared school. After so many years of help from people who specialized in Autism he no longer needed his aid. Now I have a grandson who was 2 last month. I am 98 % positive he is Autistic too. My daughter, I think, is in a bit of denial about him. I got her to ask his doctor, but he didn't do a thing about finding out for sure. He just looked at my daughter and said he is fine. I dont know how to help now. I can't keep pushing her. I know the earlier they diagnose him the better he will do. I just don't know what to do next. I do have a question, did or does your son get extremely upset if you pick him up and try to keep him with you? My grandson freaks out. Sorry for being so,long winded. Also, I realize you probably don't have time to answer me and I understand. Good luck and God bless.
That is so hard lovely! You finally got her to the doctor and they told her he doesn’t have any difficulties. I would just keep an eye out, it’ll be hard to convince her but I would try for a second opinion! A clinical psychologist or a good reviewed professional !
@@aussieautismfamily thank so much for getting back to me. I am hoping my daughter will look at your video. This is so like my grandson. I thank you again and will keep all of you in our prayers
You should try some sensory headphones for him! Sometimes they dont like the feeling of them on their heads, but other times they like the noises blocked out and can be calmer and have more fun
We don't have a diagnosis for our two year old son but he behaves very similar to your son. My son loves hold people though. We are having him tested. I have spent many hours in the bathroom at shops trying to calm him down. I know in my heart that my big guy is on the spectrum, I have to remind my husband that Ryan isn't throwing a fit he is having a melt down. It's hard because the other members of our family do not want admit that there is something special about him. I always get told he doesn't need testing he is a normal busy two year old boy....
thanks i saw your video tonight the first made me cry my grandson hasnt been diagnosed but almost certain he does have delays from premature...you really helped with this one and shopping centers broken down I get it now before i was like were out its different didnt think about lights and music. thank you all god bless your family
I hate going to the shopping centre with my son by myself as he hates to sit in the trolley and wants to walk. He hates being touched yet old ladies like to touch his hair as he is a red head and they love his hair. It's frustrating and they are so judgemental when he gets overwhelmed and I have to help him through it.
@@aussieautismfamily we are teaching him it is okay to say no and push there hand away. He is only two but I feel like they need to respect his boundaries. We have also just started putting a badge on his shirt to help let people know.
Thank you for sharing your real life videos. It helps educate others especially those who work with children like me to understand children in this spectrum..
Your not alone lovely! Thank you for sharing!! I completely understand how you feel with shopping centres! The footage at caves beach is beautiful! Looks like a wonderful morning!! 💕
My daughter was recently diagnosed with sensory processing disorder and now I understand the reason of her meltdowns 😪 and you said something so important "don't stare" yyyeeeess!! As mothers with children with these types of issues we already have so much stress/anxiety so that on top of that people staring at us as if we were bad moms.
Layla doesn’t have autism, but I’ve had a fair few tantrums happen in public. Most of the time I can talk to her and calm her down but I remember one time I just had to leave, because I had no idea what to do and people wouldn’t stop staring!
it suddenly all makes sense when you get that diagnosis. Before Jacob's diagnosis I was rethinking my parenting and everything! The stares are the WORST and make the whole situation more stressful. I hope your daughter is doing well :)
I honestly think anyone , even adults could be too overwhelmed in certain situations from sensory overload! aw I hate that people stare, it makes the whole thing so much more stressful
I have autism and when I go shopping I have to have some fidget toys sensory toys chew necklace ear defenders to block out the noise and sunglasses for bright lights
My daughter had one when I stopped at a hotel late. She was tired and overstimulated with it being a place she didn’t know and she was tired… it was horrible… we had to sleep in the car
Awww sweetheart. You know your babe best which is why I think you know how to handle to situation best ❤️ I have a cousin who is high functioning so there is a special place in my heart for people and children on the spectrum. You’re doing wonderfully.
Would it help the child to cut back on some of the triggers for instance, wear ear muffs to cut back on noises and sunglasses to cut down the brightness?
My little one has a hard time in public places especially with strangers. Recently we were on a plane and the closeness of others around him was a real issue. He cried most of the trip and I was alone trying my hardest to help him feel safe. I know it was unpleasant for other passengers to hear him crying constantly but the added looks of disgust only made the situation worse and harder for me to handle. You’re not alone!
@@aussieautismfamily Hi thank you for posting this video. I was not able to have children but it has helped me to remember to be patient with parents of young children. It is very demanding and children do not play up just to get on others nerves. I would never stare or make unkind comments. I think you two are wonderful parents and your children are both beautiful.
I have panic attacks and anxiety and shopping centres can get to me. I find the light too bright and the sounds too loud and I never go on planes I really could not.
As an adult I know what it is like to feel scared, sick and terrified so it must be so much worse for your son. Hope all goes well for all of you. Best Wishes from Leicester UK.
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It’s only over recent years that I’ve found out my son is autistic, the meltdowns in shopping centres were epic, as a young child my inability to cope with him regularly had me in tears of frustration. I tried to return to work but childminders kept refusing to have back, they feared for the safety of the other children, he was excluded from primary school and two senior schools on behavioural grounds. I spent so many years knowing there was something wrong but nobody would listen, other parents blamed me the Drs, Social Workers & Teachers simply said “Some children are born naughty”. My son is 45 now and still can’t deal with social situations. His life, and many other older peoples lives has been blighted by this condition not being recognised when they were children. Thank goodness this condition is now recognised and there is help available for thee children and their parents.
Jacob is a beautiful child. Thank you for sharing your family with us. I absolutely love you family.❤
I can’t begin to know your struggle but just know it’s great to raise awareness so others can try to understand
Thank you! I have had a few comment on my 'exploitation' but I believe if people see it happen in real life they will understand better from me making these videos.
@@aussieautismfamily Would noise canceling headphones help?
Thanks for sharing this - I think you’ll make heaps of other mums feel less alone 💕💕
aww thank you for watching!!
Your little man is adorable. What a sweet face. Anyway, I have a nephew with Autism. He is an adult now. Lives in a group home. His meltdowns look like your sons. His meltdowns changed when he got older and also his vocabulary. My sister worked with him all the time. I did also since I babysit for her. He had a aid when he stared school. After so many years of help from people who specialized in Autism he no longer needed his aid. Now I have a grandson who was 2 last month. I am 98 % positive he is Autistic too. My daughter, I think, is in a bit of denial about him. I got her to ask his doctor, but he didn't do a thing about finding out for sure. He just looked at my daughter and said he is fine. I dont know how to help now. I can't keep pushing her. I know the earlier they diagnose him the better he will do. I just don't know what to do next. I do have a question, did or does your son get extremely upset if you pick him up and try to keep him with you? My grandson freaks out. Sorry for being so,long winded. Also, I realize you probably don't have time to answer me and I understand. Good luck and God bless.
That is so hard lovely! You finally got her to the doctor and they told her he doesn’t have any difficulties. I would just keep an eye out, it’ll be hard to convince her but I would try for a second opinion! A clinical psychologist or a good reviewed professional !
@@aussieautismfamily thank so much for getting back to me. I am hoping my daughter will look at your video. This is so like my grandson. I thank you again and will keep all of you in our prayers
Yes shopping centres are the place for melt downs. I hear you lovely ♡
Your beach trip looked so lovely and you did so lovely with your creating xx
You should try some sensory headphones for him! Sometimes they dont like the feeling of them on their heads, but other times they like the noises blocked out and can be calmer and have more fun
We don't have a diagnosis for our two year old son but he behaves very similar to your son. My son loves hold people though. We are having him tested. I have spent many hours in the bathroom at shops trying to calm him down. I know in my heart that my big guy is on the spectrum, I have to remind my husband that Ryan isn't throwing a fit he is having a melt down. It's hard because the other members of our family do not want admit that there is something special about him. I always get told he doesn't need testing he is a normal busy two year old boy....
thanks i saw your video tonight the first made me cry my grandson hasnt been diagnosed but almost certain he does have delays from premature...you really helped with this one and shopping centers broken down I get it now before i was like were out its different didnt think about lights and music. thank you all god bless your family
Not to be at all controversial but did you notice any changes after vaccines ? 😫
I hate going to the shopping centre with my son by myself as he hates to sit in the trolley and wants to walk. He hates being touched yet old ladies like to touch his hair as he is a red head and they love his hair. It's frustrating and they are so judgemental when he gets overwhelmed and I have to help him through it.
oh that is so frustrating for anyone to have strangers touch them!! im so sorry!!
@@aussieautismfamily we are teaching him it is okay to say no and push there hand away. He is only two but I feel like they need to respect his boundaries. We have also just started putting a badge on his shirt to help let people know.
Try.th-cam.com/video/jtNkoWzXD14/w-d-xo.html
Your children are adorable! That shopping cart looked delicious!
Thank you Danae!!
Thank you for sharing your real life videos. It helps educate others especially those who work with children like me to understand children in this spectrum..
Aw thank you for this comment! Means the world to hear that my videos are helping people
Your not alone lovely! Thank you for sharing!! I completely understand how you feel with shopping centres! The footage at caves beach is beautiful! Looks like a wonderful morning!! 💕
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Tell me about your experience with tantrums/meltdowns and how you try to diffuse them?
Autism or not!
My daughter was recently diagnosed with sensory processing disorder and now I understand the reason of her meltdowns 😪 and you said something so important "don't stare" yyyeeeess!! As mothers with children with these types of issues we already have so much stress/anxiety so that on top of that people staring at us as if we were bad moms.
Layla doesn’t have autism, but I’ve had a fair few tantrums happen in public. Most of the time I can talk to her and calm her down but I remember one time I just had to leave, because I had no idea what to do and people wouldn’t stop staring!
it suddenly all makes sense when you get that diagnosis. Before Jacob's diagnosis I was rethinking my parenting and everything!
The stares are the WORST and make the whole situation more stressful. I hope your daughter is doing well :)
I honestly think anyone , even adults could be too overwhelmed in certain situations from sensory overload! aw I hate that people stare, it makes the whole thing so much more stressful
I have autism and when I go shopping I have to have some fidget toys sensory toys chew necklace ear defenders to block out the noise and sunglasses for bright lights
Thank you very helpful tips. Aloha🌺
I want to know if these videos are monetized….
My daughter had one when I stopped at a hotel late. She was tired and overstimulated with it being a place she didn’t know and she was tired… it was horrible… we had to sleep in the car
Awww sweetheart. You know your babe best which is why I think you know how to handle to situation best ❤️ I have a cousin who is high functioning so there is a special place in my heart for people and children on the spectrum. You’re doing wonderfully.
Thank u so much that is exactly what my two year old does as well . I am not alone as well .
I have a question… my son was just diagnosed with autism at age 2. How do I go by potty training him? It’s been hard he is about to be 3 in March.
Would it help the child to cut back on some of the triggers for instance, wear ear muffs to cut back on noises and sunglasses to cut down the brightness?
Does your child speak
Im with you!