@@flo_ridaa7074 Don’ try to change her, I suggest you to move on to the next. Because even if you’re able to change her (so she’ll have to read it 10-15 times which is really not gonna happen unless she’s into it a lot) it’ll take a lot of time. Best wishes.
20 years ago I read a book I didn't fully understand: "Age of Access: The New Culture of Hypercapitalism, Where All of Life is a Paid-for Experience". It's a book of Jeremy Rifkin. Many years later I get the point. I understand why people, of certain age, they want to buy a lifestyle. A few years ago I started to feel uncomfortable because of my possessions. I started to feel my possessions weren't make me happy; on the contrary, I noticed, I was feeling bad. So I started to sell many of my belongings, and this is making me feel better, every time I got rid of something it's a relief. Last week I had a 40 liter bag, not even full, hand luggage only, for a trip of 15 days. I had a great time in a flat I rented. I had sex with 20 different women. I realised I was feeling at home there, in this foreign country, I couldn't live there. And I didn't need anything more than what I had. A laptop, a phone, and clothes. I just get what I need for a living. I realised, for example, I don't need to own a house, because I want to be free to move to another country, anytime. I want to retire at 55, and I'm saving money for that. I also realised what I want and what I need. And a woman is not in the plan. I make enough money I can be with any woman I want, when I need one. I can buy a service, for an hour or two. I don't want a child, therefore I do not need a woman. I need friends. I can (and I'm) friend with women and men. I don't need to be with a woman and isolate myself from the rest of the world. I need sex, once in a while, but I can afford it. I'm focusing on myself, my career, and I do not go after any woman, I do not chase. Nevertheless some women would be happy to be with me. My ex, which is a good girl, 20 years old younger, very attractive, would love to be with me, once again. An ex colleague as well. But I don't want to be with them. I want to be alone, enjoy my time, invest in myself and my future, plan to retire in a cheap country where I can have a good life: good weather, good food, nice women. People get stuck in a miserable life. I made a mistake years ago, I bought an house that lost a lot of value and I can't sell it. It's the same with women. You make an investment, you marry one, you think she is the one, then you realise she is not, maybe just because you change and you want a different woman over the years. I don't want getting stuck in a schema, live in a house I hate, keep a miserable job, stay with a woman I do not like anymore because I got a child from her, or a divorce is going to cost me a fortune. I see my friends, all married. They are all miserable. One of them cried in front of me, years ago. A grown up man. Another one told me: the only good thing of a marriage, in the end, is the daughter I had. We are 7 billions, we don't need to have children, it's selfish and stupid having children in 2020 when the world is falling apart. Focus on yourself, make a plan for the future, don't get stuck in a schema, take all the opportunities, have fun, and spend your money on experiences not on a car or a television. Make a trip, go on adventures, get a mindblowing escort for two hours. Don't buy a 20 grand watch just to show off or a Mercedes, put away that money and invest in your future.
This video makes me proud of myself. I caught my ex cheating, laid low, hustled her for the money she owed me and then dumped her ass. Never ever ever tolerate disrespect from a woman.
Women who are constantly in touch with all of their exes are the most toxic, manipulative, controlling people. Relationships to them are a game... a power struggle. It's about being in control of all the pieces, creating drama, inviting jealousy, creating "games" among the pieces. I've been involved with multiple women like this over the course of my life. I came from an emotionally and verbally abusive home, and was a codependent constantly attracting narcisstic, avoidant, and emotionally manipulative women. Get out while you can. Find a good, secure, ehalthy womejn.
The creating drama / inviting jealousy is so true. Mine told me that jealousy was a "major turnoff", then preceded to do everything she could during the relationship to invoke it in me. The levels of triangulation and gaslighting was insane
It is easy to overlook that the Coach didn't have the upbringing he knows would have been ideal, yet he became a totally grounded man by his own willpower and growth. You are worthy of admiration based on that alone, Corey.
You need to be sharp, these red flags appear long before the train wreck. It's far worse ignoring them, building bonds with their children and family - instead of getting out early and avoiding the pain.
correct, if u got blindsided u only have urself to blame, they love to brag, they are careless, test them early on and see how easy it is to trigger them
All women have backup boyfriends (even the guys in her friendzone), it´s her hypergamy. She asks herself every day: can I do better than this guy? Cold hard truth.
Thinking all women are like that is a very toxic mindset, which will stop men from developing healthy relationships. Coach himself says there are good quality women as well, you just need to screen them properly.
Correct. Typically, they have at least two men in their lives, one who they screw for free -the alpha -and the other the faithful provider. Your choice, lads. Choose wisely.
@@matthewschwartz6607 Anyone can get cheated on, it depends on the cheater, not the person getting cheated. A cheater would cheat even in the best relationship. Also you said you consider him alpha, you dont know how he is showing up to his girlfriend.
He isnt wrong its true if they can find a guy with more money or better in bed theyl always have a back up boo. Poor fucks think their in a serious relationship little do they know their not the only marriage or not. Not the womens fault either their manipulated by society im only 28 every girl im smashing has a family or is married or is in a relationship fact is they just dont care
My only Beef it when Men find out he's being rejected or replaced, Now you want to fight! I'll never step too another Man. Especially a woman who wasn't forced to sleep with the Other Man . Wake up Men 🤔
Its called thinking with the lil head, instead of the big head..ignoring red flags in women will cost in the long run..you'll end up with a broken heart and hit in your bank account
I ended up with a broken heart even if I declined all the expensive offer of my ex because I preferred he would save up the money to meet me. Turns out he was dating multiple women.
No, the problem is that, for most men, women are not easily replaceable. If they were as replaceable as men are to women, few men would accept living with that time bomb tied to their balls, being in addition fully aware that time is running.
These types of women need a HUGE amount of validation, the other guys she hangs out with give her little validation, she tries to get it from them but can't as they have an abundance mindset, so she finds a desperate beta male with a scarcity mindset, who will validate her for free, she treats him like a low value simp as she sees him as beneath her so she simply uses him for dates, compliments, money, phone calls, gifts. She knows this beta will do anything for her and she can treat him however she likes. So the lesson is to never validate them. If you guys need any help, just ask.
Matthew Schwartz 6 years, broke up 3 times every two years and just kept going back cause i thought she would change, and she lives in my small town it was hard for me to get away from her being a beta
The reason why Corey's advice in his book brings out the toxic/narcissist in women is because the advice tells and teaches to create boundaries by being congruent. Toxic women hate boundaries because they want to have their fucked up way with you.
That's why when a woman attempts to break my boundaries, I tell her once and only ONCE now. If she does it again, she takes the door. Toxicity in dating has become totally unacceptable to me. Go meet another fucked up dude to have a fucked up relationship.
@@cesarherrera1926 Yeah, its the literal "dont hate the player" she has the odds in some ways but is feeble or powerless in ohers. We all like the game. Why deny it for either?
@@juliopadua641 well having a lot of male co-workers aren't bad per se but if she starts randomly bringing up one in particular like complimenting them or talking to the extent where it makes you uncomfortable you may be on alert
Julio ... it means one of two things: Either she grew up with a single mum, and had very little male influence (which she now overcompensates for by surrounding herself with men)... Or, she grew up with 5 brothers, and no sisters, and is more comfortable around masculine energy. If she's a genuine Alpha chick, then you'll have no problems (as long as you don't act like a beta-cuck simp and start sooking about the attention they give her), BUT, if she's weak and insecure, then she'll use them to keep you in line, by keeping them as her constant back-up... Which is a recipe for disaster. Only you'll know which one she is. 😉
Sounds very much like my ex and me. Me being the weak beta unsecure naive relationship rookie and her, the narcissistic feminist with the tendencies to break up, manipulating, cause severe drama, call one of her two flames and send them love messages at times and much more. I put up with her selfish, disrespectful crap for way too long because she acted like I "trained her to". It has fueled me almost to the extreme to build myself up properly after that - mainly by watching a lot of your videos, reading your book countless of times (and still going), reaching new heights in my dream job as a physical therapist, gotten into a much more mature friend group with real alpha males instead of the weak betas I was only hanging out with before, talking to various therapists and dating other women. This has strengthened me a lot because I now know my boundaries better and what I want and don't want in a relationship. Since I now see those red flags from a mile away, I won't even date these type of female narcissist anymore.
@@matthewschwartz6607 I can see that from your pwrspective and that what I wrote do sound black and white - like it's always better to be alpha and not be beta. That is not my opinion. I'd claim that the average beta is more likely to be a bit more likable and friendly to more than the average alpha (I'm generalizing) some alphas do tend to run into ego driven trouble at times more than betas. And yes you do not have to be either or. MY new friendgroup however are very alpha and the former was extremely beta.
@@matthewschwartz6607 i see what you're saying. Sure there are layers to it. I applaud you for your mindset and mission, which I'm sure is still realistic. But my best advice is not to overcompatesate. This is being refered to by Dr David Tian, a combined dating coach and psychologist, that this is what often happens to males with beta tendencies who after bad luck in dating becomes obsessed with being super alpha and therefore actually develops a false personality, almost split personality since his ego won't accept his old self. That strategy won't get you what you want. It's not as affective as working on your self, your lifestyle, inner voice and healing your traumas. Things started progressing for me when I did that more than reading Corey's book to be honest with you.
I'm just getting out of an entanglement with a woman that I found out was a narcissist and had so many guys that she was involved with and I was totally dooped and got emotionally invested, best sex I've ever had but I had to walk away.. I feel this video was directed right at me. Back to reading the book. Thanks Coach
It always makes me feel good when I listen to a newsletter and think "Holy shit I didn't even act like that before I knew about corey". I'm doing really well right now thanks to you corey, and I truly appreciate your work. I've read "how to become a 3% man" seven times now, and I plan on reading "mastering yourself" soon.
This gave me some insight as to why the toxic women I’ve encountered in my life continue to be toxic (along with me at times). Nothing ever changed as months/years went by and I knew I didn’t have self control. Only time I did when I was actively working on myself. Thanks for the advice!
in general women with many guy friends arent exactly her backups cause she knows that those guys arent her type but she will probably have backups outside her friend circle.
The hardest part is being too emotionally invested like I've been with the ex. Every girl I meet that has bad qualities is so easy to avoid without the emotional investment but I believe it's a process to learn. Stay away from insecure, toxic behavioral woman its literally a nightmare thank God she dumped me!
Same bro! I dated a toxic girl for the past few months. She has daddy issues snd told me her dad degraded her all her life. She started dating me 2 weeks after getting out of a 4 year relationship. That relationship was right after a 3 year relationship. Both guys cheated on her and she admitted it was toxic. I got too emotionally invested and got crushed. I know it’s for the best, but it’s hard right now to see clearly. I finally give up on her though and I’m already dating other women. I also bought coaches book and am working on myself
His views have changed . I started following him 5 years ago but I see that his views have been changed. The main theme from his lectures is similar to other coaches: toxic femininity. Unfortunately our society is soaked in this toxicity.
Information is correct. I recently finally got away from my toxic girlfriend. She's like a 20 out of a 10 and she's got such a black heart she's toxic and horrible.
Well I just stopped texting such a girl. No matter how much it hurts, you have to learn that you deserve better and that there are some things that you cannot fix. So...you have to move on. The problem is not with you but with them.
Been in this situation twice. Long story short I just let it go and moved on in life without her. It was the best decision I've made so far and it led me to be the happiest I've ever been Guys a girl who only sees you as a backup is not worth the effort, save yourself heartache and move on Fun fact: you'll also live a longer and healthier life too Edit: She's not a bad person, we're just better off going in separate directions. The toxicity goes both ways
@@MrSamadolfo vile/no respect for anyone one! Relationships Ha there to blame! I had mine little mousey thing texting lad had mad feeling odd feeling “cant wait to ride you D on Saturday” i was working when found that or had mad psychic/gut feeling (odd but ignored) then months later “Much wants more” By the way this isn’t first time seen this way or lack of morals
I am keep reading "3% man" over and over until I find the relationship i truly want and deserve! I began reading mastering yourself, such a great and valuable information! Hello from Brazil! Have a great day everbody!
Dont smash women dont waste your time getting emotionally attached it doesnt work shes fuckn someone else. If hes better in bed or has more money 10/10 times shel find that other person and your relationship is gg
These two stories remind me all too much of a manager who wanted me, but at that point in my life it was just a bad time to be dating. So at a company Christmas party she brought a gay dude to the party in the hopes of getting me jealous, when her "friends" told me what she was attempting to do, it just repulsed me more rather than draw me in to her. Women who do that nonsense, it's no wonder now 20 years later they are unhappy and have to settle for any man who even looks as her.
u have to see it from her point of u, she was vetting u, another type of guy would get jealous, thats the type of guy shes looking for, its not about u, its about finding the rite guy to turn into a slave. Lots of these women are honest up front, they tell u their past trauma abuse etc, if u stick around they know they found a winner
Discovered Corey's work about a year ago and promptly walked away from a very toxic woman/relationship. She was hot as hell but not worth the headache. Now I don't even entertain the thought of dating women like this. Friends with benefits or they go in the spank bank! I have no problem hanging back and having fun until I meet one that blows my mind as much as I blow hers. Thanks Coach! - 5x and counting!
I was dating a chick like this and it drove me crazy. I ended up putting far too much blame on myself. Fortunately I only let her push me away and pull me back once. After she tried to do it a second time, I said "Hell no." And told her to get her act together if she ever wants to try to talk to me again. It took me a while to get over her and the drama hurricane, but I know I'm definitely WAY better off without someone like that in my life.
Congrats, u got away, i went thru this in a 12yr LTR, it was a roller coaster of manipulation, im still recovering, on utube the best name i could find for them is The Female Covert Narc, toxic is not enuf they are much more Sinister than anyone can imagine
Hell yeah brother. I hope it’s going well. I first found the coach about six months ago during my first real break up with my relationship I’ve had for the last three years and at first I was listening to his videos trying to figure out how to get her back and now I’m back listening to them again realizing that I need to fucking run and run far away from her. It’s not easy I love her very much I thought she was the one that goddamn the coach is always right
@@CoachKevanKillsit Richard Grannon uploaded a few videos around New Years Eve, hes a Narc Survivor himself, he mentions the same that he loved his ex very very much, i loved my ex as well, theres nothing wrong with that, but when your in love with a Narc or Cluster B or Dark Triad female then your going to get destroyed and zero out. These women cannot be helped nor cured. Once you identify them you must GOSO Get Out and Stay Out. I would suggest everyone chkout the Narc channels then afterwards Mgtow channels.
Some hot sauce right here. I was in this exact situation. The ironic thing is I was the BAD GUY. Called a liar etc. She said she could not trust me and lost her feelings, after speaking with my ex's. Thanks for throwing this video out there.
this exact thing is happening all over the world rite now, its the Age of The Covert Narc, they love the new technogys to find victims easily, its a smorgasborg & ur the main dish!
5:16 Problem is, the healthy women aren't attracted to those who haven't healed their own wounds from the past (i.e. the mother wound). Healthy people don't want codependent, self-love-lacking partners. So we gotta heal our own shit and learn setting BOUNDARIES.
one thing i noticed is there is always somebody else. women HATE being alone, i mean they cannot stand it. so when you guys break up be sure she’s seeing someone else within a week or two. they embody the “to get over someone get under someone” mentality.
Your french is hilarious ! Good content because most of the guys learn all the fundamentals and yet get into a scarcity mindset and settle for less. Bad way to go. Have a nice day Corey !
Can’t imagine the future that children & women face. My grandma had 3 boys by another less than put together addict of a man. She met my current grandfather while she was broken down on the side of a highway with my 3 very young uncles. He was a trucker at the time & fixed her transmission right then & there. He worked on the road most of their relationship & was also a vet. Their relationship is the one I look up to and honor. But these days it’s so different. Having to navigate the access to people on social media & with phones etc where women don’t get validation from the family & children or building a legacy, but get the fill of it with consumerism & constant flattery.
So if someone is attracted to this kind of woman in the first place, what makes you think that finishing it off with the current one and improving himself will do the trick? Attraction is not random, people have their type and someone's type is a exactly this kind of woman[1]. I don't believe for a second that reading a book will fix the root issue, not until the person first fixes whatever it is he has in himself that makes him attracted to this type: which are nearly always deep-rooted childhood issues that the person has absolutely no awareness off. Let's say such guy will find himself a girl that's normal or at least less messed up than he is. What will he do? He will miss the psychotic woman and will not appreciate the current one and eventually end up with some other psychotic one. Reading the comments, there are a few that demonstrates exactly this (either directly on the connection with the woman, but also probably a majority of the "best sex ever" comments). The video is great in identification of the issue (especially the relationship with the father), but I really don't think that the solution is that simple. Years of therapy is more likely going to help, maybe family constelations, but generally something including more people. Self-help is great, but it only goes so far, the main issue is one doesn't know what one doesn't know. Additionally it makes people believe that change is faster and way easier than it really is, which simply is not true. Of course people will comment that it worked for them and what not and sure it could work for some without going overly deep and being able to do the work on his own with a book, but the comments will have a lot of "I made a change in my life last week and now it's all great" bias. That's simply how it is. I've been doing self-help since the age of nine, went to therapy for a significant time, and it just really takes a lot of time and much more work than it seems. Like in this video, not talking about "what to do with your issues that make one attracted to these women" is a sign of a huge oversimplification since it's the root cause of the whole issue in the first place. --- [1] One possible scenario of how this often plays out: a subset of these toxic women will admit and even build their identity around them being "broken". She get together with a guy who seems perfect, at least on the paper. He would be taking care of her, even though she's potentially also highly dysfunctional (had she have also violence in the family), he would have a good job, would always fix what she messes up and so on. Why? Because he doesn't want a real connection (which he's unable to give), so he finds himself her, which is his "project" that let him forget about his miserable inner emptiness. So such guy seems to be helping her, but that's only a smoke cloak, because he doesn't want her to get better or he looses his project. (And such guy would very typically come from the same family dynamic, at least from what I've seen, that is, weak father and overly dominant mother.)
Great comment. I agree, what is always overlooked is that if you keep attracting problematic women it is because you yourself have some of the same issues, even if less severe. If one doesn't resolve those issues he will keep attracting a certain kind of woman.
Corey's work is often just the first step into the Pandora box of relationships. Of understanding ourselves our childhood effects upon our present way we show up in life. I find it fascinating and always try to look at it in a adventure which is both painful ( the hard lessons) and is great fun as well.. We are blessed with so much good information now available to us. The big ones for me are have close buddies that you trust, exercise, keep learning and always have your own thing going on.. The rest will take care of its self. Guys need to have each others backs..
@@RarelyCheckdefinitely yes, but those other conditions are more obvious than being a narcissist. A narcissist will be everything you want without a hint. And when you find out, it's usually too late cuz now you love them 🤷
@@RarelyCheckit was informal when did that video. I usually wait 60 days before trying to get at the female. It takes 60 days for a person to completely be themselves without thinking of anything that they shouldn't say in front of you. You'll definitely know that they are actually a genuine person
THE MOST IMPORTANT LESSON A PERSON CAN LEARN: The one who cares the least holds all the power, and always wins. Being willing to walk away gives you the upper hand and control. The ball needs to be in your court. Make them come to you. Don’t be a jerk about things, but if you’re willing to let go, a sense of loss is instilled in them. People always want what they can’t have. This holds true for every area of life.
The best thing said here is that every man needs to feel like he's making progress. Toxic women, no matter how beautiful and how attached you are because you've been sleeping with them, will never lead to a place of contentment, trust, acceptance, and building together toward real progress. They will rather lead to drama, false accusations, and moving you backwards in all areas of life until she cheats on you anyways. And the whole time, you're preventing the next good woman from entering your life while you're pining away at and putting up with crazy's dysfunction. Take a deep breath and also look at crazy's mother. If crazy's mother is insane you might want to just disappear. Crazy is never at fault and seldom takes responsibility for anything. Crazy's idea of responsibility, at best, is she was the victim of someone else's bad behavior (nothing to do with her, of course). This is one way crazy fools you. Another example is crazy will pretend to take responsibility (because by golly, she was caught red handed) and then crazy will circle back to attack you and blame you for everything. Crazy needs to make her dysfunction okay by making sure you know that you're no better than her and she will seek out ways to do this very stealthily. This makes your enemies more safe than crazy. At least your enemies are straightforward about the whole matter. Crazy has a grenade and other booby traps waiting.
I had a girl like this in my life, there a bundle of fun! thankfully i found this shaved headed bastards work and read it 10 to 15 times. When it all inevitably went south i was able to land on my feet and find my now girlfriend. As coach always says, you end up with her or find someone a 1000 times better
This happened recently to me. I told her when we were together that these male orbiters that she had that were using her would disappear one by one once they got girlfriends. Didn’t listen to my advice and one of them that she depends on the most is in a steady relationship with another girl. Low and behold she s back contacting me through desperation
I love your videos and your two books/audiobooks have been a revelation literally. I wish I’d read/listened to them 8 years ago when they first came out but better late than never.
I learned the hard way about how horrible these women can be. I thought I was the only guy in her life but it turned out she was actually talking with many guys at once so when I tried to make her completely mine she backed out and ghosted me. She still has an entourage of simps who take turns doing things for her. I honestly don't know how those guys do it, I think you need to have very little respect for yourself to be ok with that.
He needs to leave her alone. She doesn’t want him. He’s annoying her and that’s why she’s messing with his head. He won’t leave her alone. I’m convinced so many men get caught up with these kinds of women and find the ones that would treat right them right boring. And the nice ones may be prettier. The guy craves the head games.
Red Flags. Recently had a first coffee date with a woman who’s got guy friends, dating another guy, and hanging out with her first of 2 husbands at his house alone. Tried to convince me she’s just 100% “friends” with her ex and he feels nothing sexual for her. Hahaha 😂
Thanks, i have been dealing with these kind of difficulties lately. Much needed support As always, thanks Coach i hope i get your reply im considering to work in the near future with you as a client
Most women keep a back up as should ALL men. Dating for young men should be like hiring a temp agency. You’ll go thru some bums before you get one that’s willing to put in the work
Thanks for this video coach, just like more-less all of your videos and newsletters, it came at the right time! If I would of scheduled a phone session with you, it would have been very similar to this topic of discussion. And to be honest with myself, I still might. Much appreciated!
Corey is right. His methods weed them out. Once they reveal themselves… starting aborting mission. Not being a nice guy and running towards the fire trying to fix them. You deserve peace in a woman.
We attract this shit because we aren't healed in some way. We gotta take responsibility for that. I'm trying to change. I'm tired of attracting the same shit. We draw in people who reflect what we haven't healed within ourselves. Childhood trauma leads to this shit. NO, not all women are like this. But if that is how some of you in this comment section think, well, you will never experience true joy or intimacy.
Coach,Sean connery,the first ever 007,just died today(on my birthday of all days) im Irish and grew up with a grandfather who idolised both him and the James bond character. I wonder if you might ,on your next video give a little shout out to him for your new younger viewers who maybe never heard of him,and direct them to watch some of those old movies which started it all. Connery made the character,and thats why i think this is quite relevant to mention him.
@@Don-pk2uy 🙂 oh ok thats cool, checkout the Sun Lion channel, hes got some classic feemale narc videos that are cool, also Narcissist Chronicles he has a unique way of explaining it. Also u should subscribe to the various redpill and migtow channels because the narc chanels dont explain enough, the message is watered down because the viewership is mostly feemales so if your a guy your not going to get all the necesarry information. As for this channel this coach doesnt warn you enuf that if you ever become the 1% guy you become a target for Predators. So be careful out there and keep moving forward. 🙏
I just ended a 2 year relationship with a girl who in her most recent passive aggresive episode towrds me,instead of communicating,for over four weeks,came back to my city,didnt call me and spent a week with her male "friend"...spent a week with him every day,went to his appartment,gym,lots of stuff...plastered it ALL OVER SOCIAL MEDIA,including his gifts he bought her lol oh my god,the dude is a beta,i actually feel sorry for him. Her public display of her time with him(inluding captions in pics of how amazing he has been sticking by her all these years) was aimed soley at me...i decided then and there to walk away.But i gave her a choice first...him or me...she said she wouldnt hang around with him anymore but couldnt delete him...she said it wasnt fair...i said either is you ignoring your BF and spending a week with another dude....and that once you find a reason to be unhappy with me in the future i know exactly where youll go....no thanks dear. Dont let the door hit your ass on the way out,because i hope your in one piece when you take a flying fucking role in a donut :D I feel liberated,i know i made the correct choice....even if she never cheated ,her behavour is NOT something want in my future partner,possibly wife if it got there...which it wont now...because....Good ole Corey entered my life years ago and i just finished my 10th read of the book before this happened(yes i read it years after finding him,trust me,dont be like me,these videos are great but you WILL have a knowledge gap! READ THE FUCKING BOOK DUUUUDE,10 - 15 TIMES!)...Hah,timing is impecible. Thanks Coach
I am glade I did the same like you did. The moment she put me in the friend zone and was dating a friend I then told her my terms and walked away when my feelings weren't being reciprocated. I am NOT going to be a women's option when I want to be a PRIORITY.
she did it premeditated & preplanned for months, she is an Overt Narc, she loves to brag to the public her evil ways, she shows off the new supply, shes only good for short term hookups and only if shes not violent or likes to call the cops. Now if this was a Long Term then there was no need to give her a choice or talk to her. Next time u immediately Ghost Her, Block Her and Go Blackout and Move On. Next.
Do yer selves a favor and read the fuck out of the book. Greetings from California Corey. You're crushing it! Your lessons changed my life. Entirely. I'm currently in a long tern relationship. My girlfriend is healthy, its night and day. There is no need for drama, and i feel in control of the direction. As a musician, that helps me focus entirely on writing and developing, instead of fretting about "what did she mean?" Etc. It's insane because after you've mastered this stuff, you can recognize who people are. It pours into all aspects of your life.
Finding a smart , peaceful, respectful and feminine women is rare
Not really when you apply manifestation techniques and go out there and seek and accept the rejections.
Best wishes.
@@flo_ridaa7074 Don’ try to change her, I suggest you to move on to the next. Because even if you’re able to change her (so she’ll have to read it 10-15 times which is really not gonna happen unless she’s into it a lot) it’ll take a lot of time. Best wishes.
20 years ago I read a book I didn't fully understand: "Age of Access: The New Culture of Hypercapitalism, Where All of Life is a Paid-for Experience". It's a book of Jeremy Rifkin. Many years later I get the point. I understand why people, of certain age, they want to buy a lifestyle. A few years ago I started to feel uncomfortable because of my possessions. I started to feel my possessions weren't make me happy; on the contrary, I noticed, I was feeling bad. So I started to sell many of my belongings, and this is making me feel better, every time I got rid of something it's a relief. Last week I had a 40 liter bag, not even full, hand luggage only, for a trip of 15 days. I had a great time in a flat I rented. I had sex with 20 different women. I realised I was feeling at home there, in this foreign country, I couldn't live there. And I didn't need anything more than what I had. A laptop, a phone, and clothes. I just get what I need for a living. I realised, for example, I don't need to own a house, because I want to be free to move to another country, anytime. I want to retire at 55, and I'm saving money for that. I also realised what I want and what I need. And a woman is not in the plan. I make enough money I can be with any woman I want, when I need one. I can buy a service, for an hour or two. I don't want a child, therefore I do not need a woman. I need friends. I can (and I'm) friend with women and men. I don't need to be with a woman and isolate myself from the rest of the world. I need sex, once in a while, but I can afford it. I'm focusing on myself, my career, and I do not go after any woman, I do not chase. Nevertheless some women would be happy to be with me. My ex, which is a good girl, 20 years old younger, very attractive, would love to be with me, once again. An ex colleague as well. But I don't want to be with them. I want to be alone, enjoy my time, invest in myself and my future, plan to retire in a cheap country where I can have a good life: good weather, good food, nice women. People get stuck in a miserable life. I made a mistake years ago, I bought an house that lost a lot of value and I can't sell it. It's the same with women. You make an investment, you marry one, you think she is the one, then you realise she is not, maybe just because you change and you want a different woman over the years. I don't want getting stuck in a schema, live in a house I hate, keep a miserable job, stay with a woman I do not like anymore because I got a child from her, or a divorce is going to cost me a fortune. I see my friends, all married. They are all miserable. One of them cried in front of me, years ago. A grown up man. Another one told me: the only good thing of a marriage, in the end, is the daughter I had. We are 7 billions, we don't need to have children, it's selfish and stupid having children in 2020 when the world is falling apart. Focus on yourself, make a plan for the future, don't get stuck in a schema, take all the opportunities, have fun, and spend your money on experiences not on a car or a television. Make a trip, go on adventures, get a mindblowing escort for two hours. Don't buy a 20 grand watch just to show off or a Mercedes, put away that money and invest in your future.
@Adrian Fuentes You still believe in the myth of the one.
@@biomorphic what a Beta male you are. Satan is your dady.
This video makes me proud of myself. I caught my ex cheating, laid low, hustled her for the money she owed me and then dumped her ass. Never ever ever tolerate disrespect from a woman.
How did u catch her?
Women who are constantly in touch with all of their exes are the most toxic, manipulative, controlling people. Relationships to them are a game... a power struggle. It's about being in control of all the pieces, creating drama, inviting jealousy, creating "games" among the pieces. I've been involved with multiple women like this over the course of my life. I came from an emotionally and verbally abusive home, and was a codependent constantly attracting narcisstic, avoidant, and emotionally manipulative women. Get out while you can. Find a good, secure, ehalthy womejn.
Same mate. Terrible times
Soooo true...
Just have them as play mates however don't attach feelings to them.
If you can do that..
Yeah so true , the damaged ones are the worse
The creating drama / inviting jealousy is so true. Mine told me that jealousy was a "major turnoff", then preceded to do everything she could during the relationship to invoke it in me. The levels of triangulation and gaslighting was insane
It is easy to overlook that the Coach didn't have the upbringing he knows would have been ideal, yet he became a totally grounded man by his own willpower and growth. You are worthy of admiration based on that alone, Corey.
Women always have a backup plan way before they break up with you. They plan in advance.
@Namorada Brasil Ain't that just true.
@THAI FOOD make a move? ahahha you are funny
That's why you can't take em seriously
yes i have seen females do this
for years
Coach Corey Wayne is like a spirit guide. He appears when you need help the most.
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
You need to be sharp, these red flags appear long before the train wreck. It's far worse ignoring them, building bonds with their children and family - instead of getting out early and avoiding the pain.
correct, if u got blindsided u only have urself to blame, they love to brag, they are careless, test them early on and see how easy it is to trigger them
All women have backup boyfriends (even the guys in her friendzone), it´s her hypergamy.
She asks herself every day: can I do better than this guy?
Cold hard truth.
Thinking all women are like that is a very toxic mindset, which will stop men from developing healthy relationships. Coach himself says there are good quality women as well, you just need to screen them properly.
Sounds like some rational male bs
Correct. Typically, they have at least two men in their lives, one who they screw for free -the alpha -and the other the faithful provider. Your choice, lads. Choose wisely.
@@matthewschwartz6607 Anyone can get cheated on, it depends on the cheater, not the person getting cheated. A cheater would cheat even in the best relationship. Also you said you consider him alpha, you dont know how he is showing up to his girlfriend.
He isnt wrong its true if they can find a guy with more money or better in bed theyl always have a back up boo. Poor fucks think their in a serious relationship little do they know their not the only marriage or not. Not the womens fault either their manipulated by society im only 28 every girl im smashing has a family or is married or is in a relationship fact is they just dont care
Back boyfriends is probably more common then we realize
Normality in this day and age
Very very common
It's sad some people like to be "an option" instead of "the priority"
@@TrenerBorisFarkas Then they deserve it :)
My only Beef it when Men find out he's being rejected or replaced, Now you want to fight! I'll never step too another Man. Especially a woman who wasn't forced to sleep with the Other Man . Wake up Men 🤔
Its called thinking with the lil head, instead of the big head..ignoring red flags in women will cost in the long run..you'll end up with a broken heart and hit in your bank account
You ain't joking💯
not to mention 2 bastard children added to your "family"
I ended up with a broken heart even if I declined all the expensive offer of my ex because I preferred he would save up the money to meet me. Turns out he was dating multiple women.
Well, when they hit the wall between age 30-35, that's when they regret all the decent guys that they let go.
well said!!!!
Mines hitting 30 in july. 😆 im 32 in April. Tragic. Im not being the betamale provider
Sometimes men just mess us up and we get stuck.haha
I know a 37 year old women/devil loves the instagram attention from a lot of men and all single around her age.
What a coincidence.
They will continue well into their 50s if they think they can get away with it
Girls are replaceable no matter the history or emotional bond you have/had with them
ON SATAN
No, the problem is that, for most men, women are not easily replaceable. If they were as replaceable as men are to women, few men would accept living with that time bomb tied to their balls, being in addition fully aware that time is running.
These types of women need a HUGE amount of validation, the other guys she hangs out with give her little validation, she tries to get it from them but can't as they have an abundance mindset, so she finds a desperate beta male with a scarcity mindset, who will validate her for free, she treats him like a low value simp as she sees him as beneath her so she simply uses him for dates, compliments, money, phone calls, gifts. She knows this beta will do anything for her and she can treat him however she likes. So the lesson is to never validate them. If you guys need any help, just ask.
Yes i need help
Yes i need help
This is my ex and its unfortunate but im happy im out. Lol super toxic
Matthew Schwartz 6 years, broke up 3 times every two years and just kept going back cause i thought she would change, and she lives in my small town it was hard for me to get away from her being a beta
Spot on, brother.
The reason why Corey's advice in his book brings out the toxic/narcissist in women is because the advice tells and teaches to create boundaries by being congruent. Toxic women hate boundaries because they want to have their fucked up way with you.
That's why when a woman attempts to break my boundaries, I tell her once and only ONCE now. If she does it again, she takes the door.
Toxicity in dating has become totally unacceptable to me. Go meet another fucked up dude to have a fucked up relationship.
Ever wonder why she doesn't have hobbies? Her hobby is men, Don't expect faithful loyalty from a mercenary relationship.
Jeez if this isn’t it idk what is
Hahaha for reals very true ....or when they dnt have a vice I'm not saying everyone does have one ...but her vice is men and attention
@@cesarherrera1926 Yeah, its the literal "dont hate the player" she has the odds in some ways but is feeble or powerless in ohers. We all like the game. Why deny it for either?
Mine had a lot, new guys kept comming...worst 3 mnths in my life
Corey Wayne is the one Florida man who ain’t crazy because his life is a drama free zone
Underrated comment
FLORIDA MAN GIVES GOOD ADVICE AND LIVES A HAPPY, HEALTHY LIFE
Probably only 3% of florida men who aren’t bat shit nuts and weird
@@elsquibbs lmaooo
Yeah they hunt pigs, turtles, and snakes bare handed down there man. Crazy lolol
Very important to teach guys how to screen out the toxic women from the healthy ones. It's our job as dating coaches 💯
He is better than you
I see good content in your channel.... You have so many videos too.... Spend some dollars for advertisement too 🙂🙂🙂
@@johndiengdoh4332 yeye
@@Sorlobaneee
Hahahhaaa! You're a cold one.
@@mahdman3 i m just real , bjt he has good content , still i love Corey
A female with a bunch of male "co-worker/friends" is an immediate red flag and you should find someone else
Those guys are her bullpen
can you explain to me this please, my woman has a lot of male co-workers.
@@juliopadua641 well having a lot of male co-workers aren't bad per se but if she starts randomly bringing up one in particular like complimenting them or talking to the extent where it makes you uncomfortable you may be on alert
Julio ... it means one of two things:
Either she grew up with a single mum, and had very little male influence (which she now overcompensates for by surrounding herself with men)...
Or, she grew up with 5 brothers, and no sisters, and is more comfortable around masculine energy.
If she's a genuine Alpha chick, then you'll have no problems (as long as you don't act like a beta-cuck simp and start sooking about the attention they give her), BUT, if she's weak and insecure, then she'll use them to keep you in line, by keeping them as her constant back-up...
Which is a recipe for disaster.
Only you'll know which one she is. 😉
@@juliopadua641 u are fucked , they b squeezing her after work lmao
Sounds very much like my ex and me. Me being the weak beta unsecure naive relationship rookie and her, the narcissistic feminist with the tendencies to break up, manipulating, cause severe drama, call one of her two flames and send them love messages at times and much more. I put up with her selfish, disrespectful crap for way too long because she acted like I "trained her to". It has fueled me almost to the extreme to build myself up properly after that - mainly by watching a lot of your videos, reading your book countless of times (and still going), reaching new heights in my dream job as a physical therapist, gotten into a much more mature friend group with real alpha males instead of the weak betas I was only hanging out with before, talking to various therapists and dating other women. This has strengthened me a lot because I now know my boundaries better and what I want and don't want in a relationship. Since I now see those red flags from a mile away, I won't even date these type of female narcissist anymore.
🙏🙏I could relate.
yes, the female covert narc
@@matthewschwartz6607 I can see that from your pwrspective and that what I wrote do sound black and white - like it's always better to be alpha and not be beta. That is not my opinion. I'd claim that the average beta is more likely to be a bit more likable and friendly to more than the average alpha (I'm generalizing) some alphas do tend to run into ego driven trouble at times more than betas. And yes you do not have to be either or. MY new friendgroup however are very alpha and the former was extremely beta.
@@matthewschwartz6607 i see what you're saying. Sure there are layers to it. I applaud you for your mindset and mission, which I'm sure is still realistic. But my best advice is not to overcompatesate. This is being refered to by Dr David Tian, a combined dating coach and psychologist, that this is what often happens to males with beta tendencies who after bad luck in dating becomes obsessed with being super alpha and therefore actually develops a false personality, almost split personality since his ego won't accept his old self. That strategy won't get you what you want. It's not as affective as working on your self, your lifestyle, inner voice and healing your traumas. Things started progressing for me when I did that more than reading Corey's book to be honest with you.
Very true with those of us who came from a violent background. Very true coach, Reading your books simultaneously and love them.
That mug shot was the best!!!!👌🏾👌🏾
This is just what I needed to hear today. Thanks, Cory! "You can't make good wine from bad grapes 🍇"
I'm just getting out of an entanglement with a woman that I found out was a narcissist and had so many guys that she was involved with and I was totally dooped and got emotionally invested, best sex I've ever had but I had to walk away.. I feel this video was directed right at me. Back to reading the book. Thanks Coach
Same happened to me
"Entanglement" 😂🤣
@@veronicalind7 I really don't know what else to call it.. lol
Stay strong Soldier, Vet these Women out
All of us men and women come here to grow together
It always makes me feel good when I listen to a newsletter and think "Holy shit I didn't even act like that before I knew about corey". I'm doing really well right now thanks to you corey, and I truly appreciate your work. I've read "how to become a 3% man" seven times now, and I plan on reading "mastering yourself" soon.
This gave me some insight as to why the toxic women I’ve encountered in my life continue to be toxic (along with me at times). Nothing ever changed as months/years went by and I knew I didn’t have self control.
Only time I did when I was actively working on myself. Thanks for the advice!
in general women with many guy friends arent exactly her backups cause she knows that those guys arent her type but she will probably have backups outside her friend circle.
The hardest part is being too emotionally invested like I've been with the ex. Every girl I meet that has bad qualities is so easy to avoid without the emotional investment but I believe it's a process to learn. Stay away from insecure, toxic behavioral woman its literally a nightmare thank God she dumped me!
Same bro! I dated a toxic girl for the past few months. She has daddy issues snd told me her dad degraded her all her life. She started dating me 2 weeks after getting out of a 4 year relationship. That relationship was right after a 3 year relationship. Both guys cheated on her and she admitted it was toxic. I got too emotionally invested and got crushed. I know it’s for the best, but it’s hard right now to see clearly. I finally give up on her though and I’m already dating other women. I also bought coaches book and am working on myself
His views have changed . I started following him 5 years ago but I see that his views have been changed. The main theme from his lectures is similar to other coaches: toxic femininity.
Unfortunately our society is soaked in this toxicity.
A few of the other male channels out there state that its aprox 95% are No Good Women.
Information is correct. I recently finally got away from my toxic girlfriend. She's like a 20 out of a 10 and she's got such a black heart she's toxic and horrible.
The Coach’s videos led me to therapy. I had no idea how toxic my childhood.
hope ur recovering
Hope you are doing better, man.
Well I just stopped texting such a girl. No matter how much it hurts, you have to learn that you deserve better and that there are some things that you cannot fix. So...you have to move on. The problem is not with you but with them.
yes
Screening is the most important part of the process guys
Been in this situation twice.
Long story short I just let it go and moved on in life without her. It was the best decision I've made so far and it led me to be the happiest I've ever been
Guys a girl who only sees you as a backup is not worth the effort, save yourself heartache and move on
Fun fact: you'll also live a longer and healthier life too
Edit:
She's not a bad person, we're just better off going in separate directions. The toxicity goes both ways
you mean that some schools girls that come back to me at 25 24 26 years i was right abou tell them to leave me alone?
An alpha male never accepts being someones backup option for any reason.
be careful, most likely u will be approached by more of these predatorz
Toxic women can destroy good men...run! they play games with the new dude and you...been there done that had the “fresh start” message
🙂 yup, i fell victimo too, she would b texting the guy rite in front of me
@@MrSamadolfo vile/no respect for anyone one! Relationships Ha there to blame!
I had mine little mousey thing texting lad had mad feeling odd feeling “cant wait to ride you D on Saturday” i was working when found that or had mad psychic/gut feeling (odd but ignored) then months later
“Much wants more”
By the way this isn’t first time seen this way or lack of morals
@@MobilediscowirralCoUk 🙂 my last ex was my wake up call, she seems to b a classic covert narc, shes kinda crazy & creepy, im glad im OUT
I came from a broken home with abuse and I will say I turned out to be a good woman with healthy boundaries because I chose this on my own.
I am keep reading "3% man" over and over until I find the relationship i truly want and deserve! I began reading mastering yourself, such a great and valuable information! Hello from Brazil! Have a great day everbody!
Dont smash women dont waste your time getting emotionally attached it doesnt work shes fuckn someone else. If hes better in bed or has more money 10/10 times shel find that other person and your relationship is gg
Just smash*
These two stories remind me all too much of a manager who wanted me, but at that point in my life it was just a bad time to be dating. So at a company Christmas party she brought a gay dude to the party in the hopes of getting me jealous, when her "friends" told me what she was attempting to do, it just repulsed me more rather than draw me in to her. Women who do that nonsense, it's no wonder now 20 years later they are unhappy and have to settle for any man who even looks as her.
u have to see it from her point of u, she was vetting u, another type of guy would get jealous, thats the type of guy shes looking for, its not about u, its about finding the rite guy to turn into a slave. Lots of these women are honest up front, they tell u their past trauma abuse etc, if u stick around they know they found a winner
Discovered Corey's work about a year ago and promptly walked away from a very toxic woman/relationship. She was hot as hell but not worth the headache. Now I don't even entertain the thought of dating women like this. Friends with benefits or they go in the spank bank! I have no problem hanging back and having fun until I meet one that blows my mind as much as I blow hers. Thanks Coach! - 5x and counting!
be careful, even just one nite u can end up in jail or bleeding out somewhere, nevrevrfkcrazy
I was dating a chick like this and it drove me crazy. I ended up putting far too much blame on myself. Fortunately I only let her push me away and pull me back once. After she tried to do it a second time, I said "Hell no." And told her to get her act together if she ever wants to try to talk to me again. It took me a while to get over her and the drama hurricane, but I know I'm definitely WAY better off without someone like that in my life.
Congrats, u got away, i went thru this in a 12yr LTR, it was a roller coaster of manipulation, im still recovering, on utube the best name i could find for them is The Female Covert Narc, toxic is not enuf they are much more Sinister than anyone can imagine
Hell yeah brother. I hope it’s going well. I first found the coach about six months ago during my first real break up with my relationship I’ve had for the last three years and at first I was listening to his videos trying to figure out how to get her back and now I’m back listening to them again realizing that I need to fucking run and run far away from her. It’s not easy I love her very much I thought she was the one that goddamn the coach is always right
@@CoachKevanKillsit Richard Grannon uploaded a few videos around New Years Eve, hes a Narc Survivor himself, he mentions the same that he loved his ex very very much, i loved my ex as well, theres nothing wrong with that, but when your in love with a Narc or Cluster B or Dark Triad female then your going to get destroyed and zero out. These women cannot be helped nor cured. Once you identify them you must GOSO Get Out and Stay Out. I would suggest everyone chkout the Narc channels then afterwards Mgtow channels.
@@MrSamadolfo dealing with one myself. They never let go. Sending relative to hoover u. (Stalk/spy on)
@@neilwilliams3639 Yes!
Some hot sauce right here. I was in this exact situation. The ironic thing is I was the BAD GUY. Called a liar etc. She said she could not trust me and lost her feelings, after speaking with my ex's. Thanks for throwing this video out there.
this exact thing is happening all over the world rite now, its the Age of The Covert Narc, they love the new technogys to find victims easily, its a smorgasborg & ur the main dish!
I think most of them have back-up boyfriends, a list of males in the "friendzone"
this is true
All women have backup boyfriends and friendzoned males. Not her fault: it is men who massively enlist as volunteers in such a self-degrading role.
5:16
Problem is, the healthy women aren't attracted to those who haven't healed their own wounds from the past (i.e. the mother wound). Healthy people don't want codependent, self-love-lacking partners. So we gotta heal our own shit and learn setting BOUNDARIES.
healthy women are in the minority now so good luck finding one
Way too many men are colour-blind to red flags.
one thing i noticed is there is always somebody else. women HATE being alone, i mean they cannot stand it. so when you guys break up be sure she’s seeing someone else within a week or two. they embody the “to get over someone get under someone” mentality.
“He’s just friend!” Well invite him round for drink then 😂
I feel the same with men who have a lot of women friends goes both ways
Your french is hilarious ! Good content because most of the guys learn all the fundamentals and yet get into a scarcity mindset and settle for less.
Bad way to go.
Have a nice day Corey !
Most coaches dont spend enuf time warning men about brain damaged women
Something positive about the pandemic, this guy is putting out videos again.
Crazy
The exact moment at which your video/message has reached me! Right On Time. The Toxicity is bad
@ 12:31 ur French is on point coach!
Au revoir and adieu!
Peace from Québec 🇨🇦✌🏾
Can’t imagine the future that children & women face. My grandma had 3 boys by another less than put together addict of a man. She met my current grandfather while she was broken down on the side of a highway with my 3 very young uncles. He was a trucker at the time & fixed her transmission right then & there.
He worked on the road most of their relationship & was also a vet. Their relationship is the one I look up to and honor. But these days it’s so different. Having to navigate the access to people on social media & with phones etc where women don’t get validation from the family & children or building a legacy, but get the fill of it with consumerism & constant flattery.
So if someone is attracted to this kind of woman in the first place, what makes you think that finishing it off with the current one and improving himself will do the trick? Attraction is not random, people have their type and someone's type is a exactly this kind of woman[1]. I don't believe for a second that reading a book will fix the root issue, not until the person first fixes whatever it is he has in himself that makes him attracted to this type: which are nearly always deep-rooted childhood issues that the person has absolutely no awareness off.
Let's say such guy will find himself a girl that's normal or at least less messed up than he is. What will he do? He will miss the psychotic woman and will not appreciate the current one and eventually end up with some other psychotic one.
Reading the comments, there are a few that demonstrates exactly this (either directly on the connection with the woman, but also probably a majority of the "best sex ever" comments).
The video is great in identification of the issue (especially the relationship with the father), but I really don't think that the solution is that simple. Years of therapy is more likely going to help, maybe family constelations, but generally something including more people. Self-help is great, but it only goes so far, the main issue is one doesn't know what one doesn't know. Additionally it makes people believe that change is faster and way easier than it really is, which simply is not true.
Of course people will comment that it worked for them and what not and sure it could work for some without going overly deep and being able to do the work on his own with a book, but the comments will have a lot of "I made a change in my life last week and now it's all great" bias.
That's simply how it is. I've been doing self-help since the age of nine, went to therapy for a significant time, and it just really takes a lot of time and much more work than it seems. Like in this video, not talking about "what to do with your issues that make one attracted to these women" is a sign of a huge oversimplification since it's the root cause of the whole issue in the first place.
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[1] One possible scenario of how this often plays out: a subset of these toxic women will admit and even build their identity around them being "broken". She get together with a guy who seems perfect, at least on the paper. He would be taking care of her, even though she's potentially also highly dysfunctional (had she have also violence in the family), he would have a good job, would always fix what she messes up and so on. Why? Because he doesn't want a real connection (which he's unable to give), so he finds himself her, which is his "project" that let him forget about his miserable inner emptiness. So such guy seems to be helping her, but that's only a smoke cloak, because he doesn't want her to get better or he looses his project. (And such guy would very typically come from the same family dynamic, at least from what I've seen, that is, weak father and overly dominant mother.)
Very insightful and well said Jakub
Great comment. I agree, what is always overlooked is that if you keep attracting problematic women it is because you yourself have some of the same issues, even if less severe. If one doesn't resolve those issues he will keep attracting a certain kind of woman.
Corey's work is often just the first step into the Pandora box of relationships.
Of understanding ourselves our childhood effects upon our present way we show up in life.
I find it fascinating and always try to look at it in a adventure which is both painful ( the hard lessons) and is great fun as well..
We are blessed with so much good information now available to us.
The big ones for me are have close buddies that you trust, exercise, keep learning and always have your own thing going on..
The rest will take care of its self.
Guys need to have each others backs..
As long as she isn't narcissistic, her past should not even matter. Being toxic has a scientific term. Narcissism
@@RarelyCheckdefinitely yes, but those other conditions are more obvious than being a narcissist. A narcissist will be everything you want without a hint. And when you find out, it's usually too late cuz now you love them 🤷
@@RarelyCheckit was informal when did that video. I usually wait 60 days before trying to get at the female. It takes 60 days for a person to completely be themselves without thinking of anything that they shouldn't say in front of you. You'll definitely know that they are actually a genuine person
It's about time, long overdue for content like this!
THE MOST IMPORTANT LESSON A PERSON CAN LEARN: The one who cares the least holds all the power, and always wins. Being willing to walk away gives you the upper hand and control. The ball needs to be in your court. Make them come to you. Don’t be a jerk about things, but if you’re willing to let go, a sense of loss is instilled in them. People always want what they can’t have. This holds true for every area of life.
Damn.... im going through this right now. Great lesson coach. Keep up the great work!!
Thanks Coach, exactly what I needed to hear! Much love from Australia
The best thing said here is that every man needs to feel like he's making progress. Toxic women, no matter how beautiful and how attached you are because you've been sleeping with them, will never lead to a place of contentment, trust, acceptance, and building together toward real progress. They will rather lead to drama, false accusations, and moving you backwards in all areas of life until she cheats on you anyways. And the whole time, you're preventing the next good woman from entering your life while you're pining away at and putting up with crazy's dysfunction. Take a deep breath and also look at crazy's mother. If crazy's mother is insane you might want to just disappear. Crazy is never at fault and seldom takes responsibility for anything. Crazy's idea of responsibility, at best, is she was the victim of someone else's bad behavior (nothing to do with her, of course). This is one way crazy fools you. Another example is crazy will pretend to take responsibility (because by golly, she was caught red handed) and then crazy will circle back to attack you and blame you for everything. Crazy needs to make her dysfunction okay by making sure you know that you're no better than her and she will seek out ways to do this very stealthily. This makes your enemies more safe than crazy. At least your enemies are straightforward about the whole matter. Crazy has a grenade and other booby traps waiting.
I had a girl like this in my life, there a bundle of fun! thankfully i found this shaved headed bastards work and read it 10 to 15 times. When it all inevitably went south i was able to land on my feet and find my now girlfriend. As coach always says, you end up with her or find someone a 1000 times better
yes its easy to upgrade her, u did not know u were swimming at the bottom of the lake
This happened recently to me. I told her when we were together that these male orbiters that she had that were using her would disappear one by one once they got girlfriends. Didn’t listen to my advice and one of them that she depends on the most is in a steady relationship with another girl. Low and behold she s back contacting me through desperation
I love your videos and your two books/audiobooks have been a revelation literally. I wish I’d read/listened to them 8 years ago when they first came out but better late than never.
I learned the hard way about how horrible these women can be. I thought I was the only guy in her life but it turned out she was actually talking with many guys at once so when I tried to make her completely mine she backed out and ghosted me. She still has an entourage of simps who take turns doing things for her. I honestly don't know how those guys do it, I think you need to have very little respect for yourself to be ok with that.
Fala aí brasileiro! Seu único defeito é ser corintiano rsrs
those guys are probably from dysfunctional families as well, all this is a direct result of breaking down society after WW2
I blame it on social media. This shit didn't happen before the f/b era. Too many orbiters.
"tried to make her completely mine"
You didn't read the book.
@@explore3966-b8w racist
Corey with the consistent uploads 💯
He needs to leave her alone. She doesn’t want him. He’s annoying her and that’s why she’s messing with his head. He won’t leave her alone. I’m convinced so many men get caught up with these kinds of women and find the ones that would treat right them right boring. And the nice ones may be prettier. The guy craves the head games.
The problem is there are very few respectful women out there, maybe 5%.
very very well explained in this brother ! listen guys !!!
Thank you sir. I need to listen to this every day to snap out of my rut
Email number 3 = back up dancer . Great content Corey , been following for many years . Still reading , still learning.
Red Flags.
Recently had a first coffee date with a woman who’s got guy friends, dating another guy, and hanging out with her first of 2 husbands at his house alone. Tried to convince me she’s just 100% “friends” with her ex and he feels nothing sexual for her. Hahaha 😂
@WorldRunner444 Yes, haven’t seen her since. Haha 🤣
As usual Coach, you're right on point.
"There might be a couple C'mon man's coming"!!!😂 Here we go lmao
Thanks, i have been dealing with these kind of difficulties lately. Much needed support
As always, thanks Coach i hope i get your reply im considering to work in the near future with you as a client
i think this is the best video you have done so far.Thanks Corey
Most women keep a back up as should ALL men. Dating for young men should be like hiring a temp agency. You’ll go thru some bums before you get one that’s willing to put in the work
Thanks for this video coach, just like more-less all of your videos and newsletters, it came at the right time! If I would of scheduled a phone session with you, it would have been very similar to this topic of discussion. And to be honest with myself, I still might. Much appreciated!
NEVER go back , only go forwards !
COME ON MAN!!! HILARIOUS
Always a pleasure to listen too..
I slso enjoy sharing your content
Corey is right. His methods weed them out. Once they reveal themselves… starting aborting mission. Not being a nice guy and running towards the fire trying to fix them. You deserve peace in a woman.
I would never go back to someone who left me for someone else. NEVER
Narcissistic springs to mind
The Female Covert Narc
@@MrSamadolfo yep dealt with a few mate, horrible people
@@samhines5084 👍
I had a friend who was like this guy. He had a heart of gold but was lazy and very pussified
We attract this shit because we aren't healed in some way. We gotta take responsibility for that. I'm trying to change. I'm tired of attracting the same shit. We draw in people who reflect what we haven't healed within ourselves. Childhood trauma leads to this shit.
NO, not all women are like this. But if that is how some of you in this comment section think, well, you will never experience true joy or intimacy.
yes on other channels they warn that u mite be the problem if ur attracting only Vampires
She's not a unicorn. Thanks Coach I needed this, on read #9.
So sick of trying in this world. It's too complicated and I cant win. I want to quit.
Coach,Sean connery,the first ever 007,just died today(on my birthday of all days) im Irish and grew up with a grandfather who idolised both him and the James bond character. I wonder if you might ,on your next video give a little shout out to him for your new younger viewers who maybe never heard of him,and direct them to watch some of those old movies which started it all.
Connery made the character,and thats why i think this is quite relevant to mention him.
Metal Gear was influenced heavily by James Bond, too
that's a nice thought
Sean Connery made James Bond iconic in Dr. No but he wasn't the first actor to portray 007 onscreen; that honor goes to American actor Barry Nelson.
Please don't expose my ex like that Corey lmao
Hahahaha, absolutely love the way coach uses the cup as a prop
Corey Wayne . I love you . You are the man . Love you
My favorite Gerald Celente phrase is "Born on third base, thought he hit a homerun" usually refering to the Cuomo brother stooges lol.
There's so much red pill truth in these two emails.
it actually the Female Covert Narc but most people dont know, so it falls under red pill or pua or mgtow
@@MrSamadolfo 100% right
@@Don-pk2uy 🙂 thank you friend
@@MrSamadolfo i know because I'm dealing with this right now 😂
@@Don-pk2uy 🙂 oh ok thats cool, checkout the Sun Lion channel, hes got some classic feemale narc videos that are cool, also Narcissist Chronicles he has a unique way of explaining it. Also u should subscribe to the various redpill and migtow channels because the narc chanels dont explain enough, the message is watered down because the viewership is mostly feemales so if your a guy your not going to get all the necesarry information. As for this channel this coach doesnt warn you enuf that if you ever become the 1% guy you become a target for Predators. So be careful out there and keep moving forward. 🙏
Lol! Wow! I used to watch Gerald Celente regularly.... its been awhile
✌️😏 old school, i remember all the conspiracy channels & websites
This dude is my guru. Loser attitude brings losses
Sounds like someone I used to know... Run away when the signs are there. These broads will never bring or be happiness to ANYONE. Trust me.
agree, there is no cure for brain damage
22:02 For those who need to hear it
Great video and solid topic
I just ended a 2 year relationship with a girl who in her most recent passive aggresive episode towrds me,instead of communicating,for over four weeks,came back to my city,didnt call me and spent a week with her male "friend"...spent a week with him every day,went to his appartment,gym,lots of stuff...plastered it ALL OVER SOCIAL MEDIA,including his gifts he bought her lol oh my god,the dude is a beta,i actually feel sorry for him.
Her public display of her time with him(inluding captions in pics of how amazing he has been sticking by her all these years) was aimed soley at me...i decided then and there to walk away.But i gave her a choice first...him or me...she said she wouldnt hang around with him anymore but couldnt delete him...she said it wasnt fair...i said either is you ignoring your BF and spending a week with another dude....and that once you find a reason to be unhappy with me in the future i know exactly where youll go....no thanks dear. Dont let the door hit your ass on the way out,because i hope your in one piece when you take a flying fucking role in a donut :D
I feel liberated,i know i made the correct choice....even if she never cheated ,her behavour is NOT something want in my future partner,possibly wife if it got there...which it wont now...because....Good ole Corey entered my life years ago and i just finished my 10th read of the book before this happened(yes i read it years after finding him,trust me,dont be like me,these videos are great but you WILL have a knowledge gap! READ THE FUCKING BOOK DUUUUDE,10 - 15 TIMES!)...Hah,timing is impecible.
Thanks Coach
I am glade I did the same like you did. The moment she put me in the friend zone and was dating a friend I then told her my terms and walked away when my feelings weren't being reciprocated. I am NOT going to be a women's option when I want to be a PRIORITY.
@@johnkozlowski4617 sometimes u dont even have to talk , u just back of silently , no text no nothing
she did it premeditated & preplanned for months, she is an Overt Narc, she loves to brag to the public her evil ways, she shows off the new supply, shes only good for short term hookups and only if shes not violent or likes to call the cops. Now if this was a Long Term then there was no need to give her a choice or talk to her. Next time u immediately Ghost Her, Block Her and Go Blackout and Move On. Next.
Damn, sounds like cheating to me, honestly.
Damn I needed this video
Wow....so lovely to receive a
notification again, Corey. Its
been a long time!
I’ve been there. And it’s awful. Never again
Top notch bro
Do yer selves a favor and read the fuck out of the book. Greetings from California Corey. You're crushing it! Your lessons changed my life. Entirely. I'm currently in a long tern relationship. My girlfriend is healthy, its night and day. There is no need for drama, and i feel in control of the direction. As a musician, that helps me focus entirely on writing and developing, instead of fretting about "what did she mean?" Etc.
It's insane because after you've mastered this stuff, you can recognize who people are. It pours into all aspects of your life.