Lost Innocence: Dealing with the death of a young child
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 5 ต.ค. 2024
- In this program you will meet three parents who have experienced the death of a young child. These parents speak openly about their children and the many grief experiences they have encountered. This program explored the following topics:
• Facing the reality
• Unimaginable grief
• What helped
• Social situations
• Grief over time
• Special memories
• Words for other parents
This program will be helpful not only to bereaved parents but to family, friends and professionals to gain insight into the unique experiences associated with such a loss.
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I truly never realized that bereaved parents would feel embarrassed. That is heartbreaking to me. My friend just lost her 9 year old and I pray she would never feel embarrassed. I wish I could take their pain away
Rip
Sadly, yes that's a normal feeling, embarrassing to be felt sorry for
R.I.P, I hope everything to get better for you and your friend and everyone in this situation ❤
When a parent loses a child, it does not mean we are at fault or that anyone is to blame. We are here to learn and to grow. Loss is part of joy. Your child and my child just didn't need to endure all of this world.
lost my twin brother last year. we both were 15. the pain of not seeing him anymore has ruined me. i’ve not go much longer in this earth for that reason.
I'm so sorry ❤ please don't give up ❤ you're really stressed and brave for keep going after that! I'm sure that your brother would want you to keep going and never forget him but still alive and enjoying ❤
I lost my 14 year old son. I'm glad you expressed how it feels as a sibling because my remaining son won't talk to me about it.
Yesterday marked 1 year of my precious son's death, I'm still in shock 💔
I'm sorry for your loss
Rip
"Barb" mentioned about being asked, "How many children do you have?" I, too, never felt good about saying three. Eventually, a good three decades later, I said, "We were blessed with six, and the opportunity to raise the last three." Yes, we don't wish to err.. on either side of it..... and we must delicately convey the truth with the spirit of establishing that we do not wish to receive sympathy. God is good. Peace to those who have lost.
You deserve empathy. I am so sorry. I lost one, to a late miscarriage. All these 16 years later, it still feels like someone is missing.
I have two sons ages 11 & 13 and I can not even begin to imagine losing either of them. Parents should never have to bury their children.
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I wish no parent EVER had to know. It's HELLLLLLL.
Finally I have understood the meaning of the word LOST. I lost my dad, my sister and other relatives but when I lost my son on 24th July at the age of 4 years 6 month its all a different kind of pain. I have never felt such pain. my heart bleeds, my joy is gone, I don't want to have happy thoughts, I don't want to see photos where I was smiling. I feel embarrassed for losing my son and it feels like everyone is laughing at me. No parent should go through such pain.
I just lost my baby on the 24th of July. I hate this world now. She was everything to me, including my purpose for being here.
@@newjunemama I'm so sorry my dear😭😭😭😭. We share the same pain. When it hurts so much cry out to God, tell him to give you peace and strength to carry on. As hard as it is, I'm hoping God's abundant grace will fill our hearts with peace.
I just lost my son on Dec 8th and I wanted God to take me as well so I can be with him. I want to talk to him so badly and even the sight of his leftover food when he was still here breaks my heart. My heart is in constant agony. So I know how you feel. Watching near death experience have helped me because I know we are only temporary here and we will meet our kids in our beloved beautiful eternal home. Where it’s much more beautiful and peaceful then here. Someone mentioned they went there and got to see how they live. They can eat if they want too and get this even pee! If they want to continue living with earth habits. It’s just like earth but in a much higher power and much more beautiful. Others saw families having picnics together on a beautiful meadow. I can not wait to have that picnic with my son on that meadow. Also kids continue to grow with their parents! Your boy will be a handsome young man when you see him! We will unite with them one day!
@@mistyn380 my sincere condolences dear. I'm so sorry. Hang on to God for now. 5 months down the line, I'm feeling a lot better. Although the pain grows 💔more coming to terms with reality. With faith and God's grace we shall me meet again.
I lost my 11month old son on February 2, 2005 and I miss him everyday! He’d be graduating High-school this year 🤍🕊
I lost my Christopher when he was 29 years of age:( He passed early April 2014. I know to some people, it seems like a long time but to me . Most days it feels like it was recent:(I loved my Chris birdie more than my own life:( There is nothing or no one who can stop or eliminate this deep, sorrowful pain I suffer every single day except my Christopher! He is the only one who can make this pain go away!! One day, I know we will be together!
We all will be. It's just a matter of time. As parents It's devastating for us to see our kids go away first
Christopher ❤
Rip
You are absolutely incredible parents. We lost our Son aged 4yrs 6mths.1993. Freak/tragic accident according to Coroner. Every thing you all say is so so accurate. 💕
I understand how it feels. I lost my 6 year old the same way
Rip
I lost my 2.5 yr duaghter on this month 7th still in shock and grief trying to fill that hole in my heart, but can't cry as a father so manage in the middle of the night alone....not sure how to deal with her...... may God don't every give this moment to anyone, please !!!! she was my life
Rip
Sounds like you're trying to hold back your tears because you're trying to be strong as a man, as a father. But please, tears are not sign of weakness.. it's good to just let go and cry some times
I lost my mom and dad at a little age i have been fighting life all by my self nobody to advise nobody to give me food am still trying to make a life mom am sorry you lost your son I love you mom
I lost Aubrey, my 23 year old, almost three years ago to Covid-19. It was very sudden, just dropped dead, gone! I had just had hernia surgery three days before, was experiencing a lot of physical pain, but when the bad news about Aubrey came, it just vanished, no more pain meds needed. My pain shifted from one type of pain to another. We rushed to the hospital that night, and that is still an experience I don’t even want to try to give an account of, too painful. She was our special child, the one I felt closest to, my flagship for the future. What can I say, I am broken forever. Didn’t think my heart could be so broken, literally and figuratively. 7 months after, I almost died after an old heart bypass graft became torn from all the stress and heartache. I had to rehab my heart for a few months and was lucky to survive. Wait, lucky? I have almost died a few times already, multiple bypass, six stents, a few heart attacks. I ask, why not me instead of her? I am no longer my old, happy go lucky, easy-going self. This type of grief changes you, changes everything forever! The trauma of child loss rips through every facet of life. I don’t even think it is possible for me to ever really have relationships with others any more. All pretense is stripped away, along with my ego. I grapple to hold onto any sense of pleasure from doing the things I have always enjoyed. Finding joy at all is rare, and when I do it can come fast and furious out of nowhere, in a heightened manner, extreme. And the sadness, when that comes it floors me. What the hell! What is this sick joke that life is playing on me? Don’t talk to me about what god you believe in, because even that fairytale means nothing to me, just a bedtime story. Nothing can bring her back. Loneliness is just a way of life now, my new life. I spend most of my time alone, but it is okay, I have my memories and thoughts of her. People are just disappointments, and I dare anyone I know to try to survive this, but at the same time I wouldn’t wish this on anyone. I generally just hate people now, which is one reason I prefer to remain alone. I feel broken, and I want others to understand that I will be this way forever! I have a handicap which others cannot see or understand. I am thankful for a very few people in my life who care and try to be present, the ones who are able to stay the course. Most people can’t, fine! Most people live in a dream state. I however, am awake. I think about death a lot, we have a special relationship. We have an understanding if you will. I never imagined feeling this helpless and vulnerable, and I have a very difficult time when things don’t go well or work out. I have to stop, step back, get a perspective, and push forward, because that is what I do, survive. If I smile, it doesn’t mean I am happy or okay. If you think you can’t imagine my pain (which I know most of you here can), at least try to understand instead of avoiding the subject. Aubrey passed away, but my relationship with her continues. She is with me all the time. Saying he name brings me joy, please honor her and my loss by acknowledging her, because she lived, she was a light of this world, she was my world. I miss you Aubrey!
When Sean's mom talked about getting asked the question "how many children do you have" is hard to answer. Not wanting to see the look people give you and wanting to honor the memory of your child.
I'd like to share my best friend's story with you, not to compare her experience with anyone else's, but to help you find true peace, comfort and hope. God bless you!
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
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This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find our contact info there. God bless!
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
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Ethan ❤️
Thank you for speaking the truth about God. I have never had kids, but if I’d had a son I wanted to name him Ethan. Everyday is a day closer to being with Ethan again in Christ. 🌈
PS. I admire Ethan’s sense of adventure!
I lost my 6 year old son this may 2022. The words they shared in the last part of the video made me cry.
So sorry for you, Sara:( God Bless you🙏❤️🩹
❤
Your son deserved it you're just a bad person
Rip
I lost my son 23 May. Tomorrow. 2 years ago. Sorry for your loss 😢
I lost my nephew on Saturday he was 6 yrs old, yesterday was his funeral, he lived with me and my husband for a few months we where taking care of him, on Thursday 27 th he went to stay with his Grandparents while he was their he became ill and died. He was a happy healthy child and we nvr expected anything like this would ever happen. My heart hearts every day I try to concentrate on my children but it's so hard when I'm so lost he wasn't my child but I loved him like he was our own. It feels like the pain will just nvr ease no matter how hard I pray I just feel like theirs a huge void in my life. It is overwhelming.
Scarlet I am truly sorry for pain. please know Im sending a prayer out for you. I hear your pain. be strong.
My stepdaughter just passed away. Much love to you🦇
In life and death your still his Auntie.. he could not have gotten better.. he had you.. love always to you.. thanks for your post and bless you
Rip
I’ve buried two boys..
Alex when he was 4 months ( cot death ) and Michael when he was 36 years from Oesophageal Cancer.
I know what it feels like to be destroyed.
I lost my partner. Not the same as losing a child, but in many ways our grief is similar. The loss is overwhelming. Thank you for sharing.
Rip
I just lost my son this month... love the idea of a legacy book🥰💚💜
I'd like to share my best friend's story with you, not to compare her experience with anyone else's, but to help you find true peace, comfort and hope. God bless you!
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
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This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find our contact info there. God bless!
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
th-cam.com/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/w-d-xo.html
Rip
Not sure if it is appropriate to talk about my puppy loss cause everybody is talking about human loss. But in my 37 years lifetime I have never felt such terrible devastating pains, agony, loneliness and emptiness, grief and sadness of losing my 5-year-6 month old puppy baby girl to an unknown diease. I never smiled since her death. I still miss her everyday even now 8 months later. I fear I would never be able to be happy again in my future life.
There is NO relevance between a DOG and a CHILD.
It is insulting to these parents for you to bring a dog into this discussion there must be more suitable sites for you to Express your grief.
Love is love, grief is grief. Sending you love and light and prayers to your little puppy in heaven.
@@marievickers7848 I agree no fur baby can comparing to a child loss! 😢
Your pain is valid. If it's the worst pain you have ever felt, it matters. I have lost a child. I understand how you feel ❤
Thank you for sharing your stories of your children. I lost my son Kyle to suicide he was 21. I’m so heartbroken... I’m thinking aboyou moms too.. love,hope for healing for us all
Oh my sweet. I am so sorry. My 2 kids struggle with depression as do I. Helping others helps as does taking time to heal.
Rip
From: "Word Songs of Love and Life"
“Yours Is My Sorrow” Albert Moore
Yours is my sorrow, thus must we part.
Brought to our knees from same, stilled heart.
What I can give, I cannot receive.
What you so mourn, I cannot relieve.
We shared the joy, the hope and fear.
Now more suffering it is to be near.
So dark is my soul, I cannot reveal
In anguished grief the love I feel.
In time, as it comes, I desperately pray
I will find the words we need to say.
Now we must wait for pain’s release.
Only then, together, finding solace and peace.
Somewhere, beneath grief too heavy to bear,
Know that my love for you is still there.
I'm so sorry ❤i hope everything here to be alright now, don't guve up people! If you're in that situation, please, keeo going ❤
Still blaming myself, loosing a 13yrs old shuttered my life, still in denial
How are you doing Maureen
@@emmymsukwa5576 am doing good and how are you
@@maureenveraaduda6388 I'm okay dear thanx. May God continue to comfort you
@@emmymsukwa5576 amen
I'd like to share my best friend's story with you, not to compare her experience with anyone else's, but to help you find true peace, comfort and hope. God bless you!
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
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This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find our contact info there. God bless!
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Heartbreaking video..
Tomorrow marks 2 years. I'm completely debilitated.
No words. Blessings. Your brain is not working right. Pain is just a word. It affects you forever. I call it grief brain. Can’t think. Can’t believe.
2 of my nephews died. When the second one died at 38 yrs.truly everything lost it's value in my life
God can take anything else from me and I would care less. Nothing matters that much. It's like a new mental illness of apathy and indifference. It is why I didn't have children of my own.
I'm so sorry ❤I hope everything to get better, you're really a great, brave and strong person for keep going after that❤
There is Nothing to deal with a child's death. Period!
People hint I have only one child. If one of them passed away during this divorce fiasco and I wasn't notified as a biological Mother and provided a death certificate or notified of a funeral. Believe me the court system will need to rectify this situation. Because I will not take not being notified of a death of a child. An official serving to my residence was not conducted. So if you have knowledge please be respectful because I did not receive the information my child passed away. My knowledge is I gave birth to two children. My apologies for the brassness but handle the situation with respect. A business card in the mailbox is not official serving in my opinion.
Ur alive I'm griening myself
I lost my son he was 36, in a tragic accident on August 20, 2022. I dont know how to go on.
I am so so sorry. I lost my only son he was 27, on 12 November. I spoke to him 2 hours before his fatal asthma attack. He was so excited for the future - his marriage to the love of his life and the career he worked so hard for. I am shattered. He was so beautiful, smart, funny, gentle and kind. I dont want to go on…. I know your pain
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That’s the same pain am passing through 💔😢
Very difficult to hear these devastated parents
i lost my son of 16 years January 22 and my husband june in 13th with blood cancer. all relatives left even my elder son also.
I'd like to share my best friend's story with you, not to compare her experience with anyone else's, but to help you find true peace, comfort and hope. God bless you!
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
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This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find our contact info there. God bless!
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
th-cam.com/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/w-d-xo.html
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We lost our precious son of 18 months due to drawing a month ago… it helps to know we are not the only parents that have gone through this although that’s how it feels…
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Couldn’t even imagine
Words of Hope to parents after the terrible event of the loss of a child... "That beloved child addresseth thee from the hidden world: 'O thou kind Mother, thank divine Providence that I have been freed from a small and gloomy cage and, like the birds of the meadows, have soared to the divine world -- a world which is spacious, illumined, and ever gay and jubilant. Therefore, lament not, O Mother, and be not grieved; I am not of the lost, nor have I been obliterated and destroyed." ~ Abdu'l-Baha, Baha'i Faith
I also lost my child due to dilated cardiomyopathy. I
@@ashashah3778 So sorry...
Why would the guy feel embarrassed at the loss of his child? I feel so sad for these families. 💗
He felt embarrassed because he thought it was useless of him not being able to save/protect his child. That's not something unusual bro.
I'm so very very sorry for your loss 😢 but i have to disagree, after all this time, time isn't helping! Sorry but time dosnt heal, the pain NEVER ever stops 😢😭 sorry to disagree but thats my life, your children are beautiful xoxo
I'd like to share my best friend's story with you, not to compare her experience with anyone else's, but to help you find true peace, comfort and hope. God bless you!
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
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This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find our contact info there. God bless!
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
th-cam.com/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/w-d-xo.html
Get of the week to iwfvbu
Like we exist to produce perfect children to carry on the race. 😶
Who says you have to carry on the race for what certain death suffering and lots of other horrors in this world no love my kids too much to not let them be born in this hell hole