Thanks! Your channel very recently showed up in my feed. I am very grateful for that. The way you talk through your discussion topic and tie in Bible verses and Christs Love really has helped me to see some of the things that I need to bring forth to God to move on from some of my behaviors that distract from my relationship with God and those around me. Thank you for the wisdom you share!
This video was so good I had to listen to it twice🙌🏾. I have been struggling so much recently with my journey with God. At some points I was scared to listen to him because I couldn’t silence the voices in my head. I am at a transition point in my life where I am unpacking the trauma I experienced growing up. Thanks for these videos. You have no idea how much they are impacting my life 👏🏾
One phrase I've heard in relation to perfectionism and creativity is 'judgement prevents joy', and I think there's a lot of truth in that. Thanks for the video, important topic 👍
"Be ye therefore perfect, even as your Father which is in heaven is perfect." Matthew 5:48 I think that repenting from the sin of pride is in and of itself striving to be better.
Thank you for this video. I had attended an online Christian course in the past which ultimately helped me figure out what my gifts/calling is and the main problem the devil uses against me to hold me back from my calling. The main problem is insecurity. I understand this. God bless.
Thanks Gabby you have great insight into the subject of perfectionism. I found this helpful as I have been a perfectionist most of my life. I'm now going to stop putting unrealistic expectations on myself and just rest in the lord and enjoy the journey and stop being presumptious and anxious about the destination, amen. God bless you. ❤🙏
I've had this little issue my whole life, I just like to make things the best it can be on whatever I do and it has helped me with some things, but on the other side it makes me exhausted so now if I'm tired i don't push beyond my strength to try to make it perfect
Thank you so much for sharing the truth as usual. I got to pray for a lady while working and Jesus gave her a brand new knee after doctors said it was toast and this is in public parking lot. I called on Jesus the doctor of doctors! Though I'd share something with you since you're always feeding me good stuff ❤🎉
"Therefore you shall be perfect, just as your Father in heaven is perfect." God created us. We cannot be less than He is. We are less in what we know, but not in who we are. Forgiveness is the means to remembering who we are. " If you had known what these words mean, 'I desire mercy, not sacrifice,' you would not have condemned the innocent."
I suffer from a serious case of perfectionism. It is hard for .e to be content or satisfied. God has to remind me at times to stop and enjoy where I am or the season I am in.
AMEN! Very insightful, and introspective, achoti. It is clearly evident that you have a close relationship with Ruach-YHVH; something that I myself have fallen/been torn away from. Barukh HaShem, that he is drawing me back to him, to then lead me further than I have been into him! Prayerfully, perfectionism is next on the chopping block, b'Shem Yeshua-Tzva'ot! Shalom Aleikhem, achoti.
I struggle with perfectionism daily. Your video is Really true and to the point, thank you. I am going to listen to this a few times Thank You. Gabby I just found you Praise JESUS. The only true perfection in this world is imperfection. JESUS CHRIST at the cross took imperfect people and made them perfect in GOD's sight. Roman 5:8. Praying for you right now. GOD Bless You.
You really hit the nail on the head with this topic. Perfectionism has been a big problem for me at times, and I wonder how much it has affected relationships beyond the more visible effects (i.e. my work, endeavors in recreational sports, hobbies, and other things where I hold myself to a ridiculous, unrealistic standard). It honestly takes a toll on me when I see myself unable to meet the misguided, high standards I set myself to sometimes. Comparing oneself to others can be part of it, perhaps for others, too. It's very draining, yet it can feel so ingrained -- a beast within that needs to be calmed and tamed. God bless you, Gabby, for being a great means to making myself and others here reflect on the many things you've talked about. Even if we have never met, God certainly put you into my life in this small way to help me along my journey to growing deeper in my faith and relationship with God, and to help me grow as a man and a person. 🙏🏼
Makes me think of Christ's imputed righteousness. His righteousness (perfection) is counted as ours and we cancel it out when we try to go by our own perfection. I've never thought of perfectionism in this way before.
I definitely struggle with this sin. But moreso than that, trying to be motivated and enthusiastic about what He wants me to do, when I have no desire for some of things He has made clear I am to do.
Hi Gabby, could you make a video on encouraging someone when they barely come to faith, have recently gave their life to Christ but is still alone. (I hope that makes sense)They been to many churches but is not able to find community. I am asking on behalf of my cousin. Personally it took me two years with no friends(just Jesus, the bible, me, & visiting churches) until i found my church that i could call home. I know Jesus will bless her soon with many Christian friends but thought maybe this subject would be good to talk about. God bless you sister!
Gabby please pray for me as I fly ✈️ from Brisbane Australia 🇦🇺 to Toronto Canada 🇨🇦 as I have never done this before. God Bless you always my sister in Jesus amen 🙏 ♥️🙏
@@ItsGabbySings You made my day ♥️ My Plane ✈️ has just arrived from Vancouver my flight ✈️ is at 10 am Monday 19 August what you said means a lot 🙏♥️🙏
@@ItsGabbySings Greetings please my name's are Akum Byron komineke Arrey from Cameroon Please I attend government high school mamfe were I had my ordinary and advance level I had 7 papers in the ordinary level Which comprised my science subjects and three papers in the advance level which are biology chemistry maths Please I have a partion of becoming an astronaut but my country Cameroon doesn't have such facilities so I have decided to travel abroad and study in the united states'but I come from a poor back ground And my parents can't afford to see me through my dreams So I decided to look for someone by God's grace to help me to achieve my dreams I have been looking for someone to help me for three months but no one has said anything about it Some one even abuse me that blacks are very stupid and some people have even block me But I decided to stay strong and continue looking believeing the one that I shall find someone genuine
@@ItsGabbySings Greetings please my name's are Akum Byron komineke Arrey from Cameroon Please I attend government high school mamfe were I had my ordinary and advance level I had 7 papers in the ordinary level Which comprised my science subjects and three papers in the advance level which are biology chemistry maths Please I have a partion of becoming an astronaut but my country Cameroon doesn't have such facilities so I have decided to travel abroad and study in the united states'but I come from a poor back ground And my parents can't afford to see me through my dreams So I decided to look for someone by God's grace to help me to achieve my dreams I have been looking for someone to help me for three months but no one has said anything about it Some one even abuse me that blacks are very stupid and some people have even block me But I decided to stay strong and continue looking believeing the one that I shall find someone genuine
Greetings please my name's are Akum Byron komineke Arrey from Cameroon Please I attend government high school mamfe were I had my ordinary and advance level I had 7 papers in the ordinary level Which comprised my science subjects and three papers in the advance level which are biology chemistry maths Please I have a partion of becoming an astronaut but my country Cameroon doesn't have such facilities so I have decided to travel abroad and study in the united states'but I come from a poor back ground And my parents can't afford to see me through my dreams So I decided to look for someone by God's grace to help me to achieve my dreams I have been looking for someone to help me for three months but no one has said anything about it Some one even abuse me that blacks are very stupid and some people have even block me But I decided to stay strong and continue looking believeing the one that I shall find someone genuine
Should I loose myself just to be paul in the bible a little while? About the thing I have to do he said I do the things I wasn't suppose to do, but the ones I need to do I do them not
Hey Gabby , really nice video ! I was wondering if I could help you with more Quality Editing in your videos and also make a highly engaging Thumbnail and also help you with the overall youtube strategy and growth ! Pls let me know what do you think ?
You flee from sin and acknowledge that you need Jesus to give you strength daily. It’s acknowledging that we can’t do anything without Jesus and need him in every aspect of our lives. Loving the Father means we will do everything to live a righteous life and walk in love. Which means we will hate sin and flee from it.
'Self critical thoughts are prideful'? ehhhhhhh.........not really? I would tend to think that ZERO self critical thinking is prideful. By saying that God created flawed, imperfect beings, namely yourself is in and of itself self critical thinking which contradicts the whole idea that it is being prideful. So then are positive thinking thoughts more humble?
P.S Also striving for excellence??? isn't the same as perfectionism. I think God has given you so much potential, if you just set your mind to it you can achieve it (not so much worldly achievements but then you can use those things to serve God in some way as long as that is not your sole motivation). "Jesus said unto him, If thou canst believe, all things are possible to him that believeth." Mark 9:23 You are denying yourself God given gifts that he has bestowed upon you. By doing this you are in and of itself taking away from the glory of God. "Neither do men light a candle, and put it under a bushel, but on a candlestick; and it giveth light unto all that are in the house." "Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven." Matthew 5:15-16
Gabby thank you 🙏 for being a sister in Jesus my people. Listening to what you said I didn’t realise a lot of my actions are pride related I have struggled with this my whole life. I don’t know if this is pride related trying to fit in. Now I realise Jesus may have better plans for me. A movie I Love is I still believe here is a song from the movie and I Love You 🙏♥️🙏 th-cam.com/video/gckQU4MH-is/w-d-xo.htmlsi=EcZuCAyL_2AbiZaa
I have been broken and lost thank you for your support and Love ♥️ a verse I have held on to my whole life psalm 23 and John 3: 16 Thank You Heavenly Father for our Lord Jesus who through unconditional Love took our sins upon himself so that we can be saved I Love You my Lord Jesus I say this prayer 🙏 for you too. I Love the movie Ghost at the ending Love is all you truly take with you a miracle of God thanks 🙏 be to God for Love ♥️🤗💋🙏
@@ItsGabbySings Gabby when you say project your feelings on to another. If only we gave each other time and a moment to understand another’s Heart ♥️ I miss connection based on time and moments which leave with fragments of moments in time. Love is a miracle of God our Father and a gift. People reject others based on silly things not knowing intent only Jesus knows this. Gabby we live in a broken world 🌍 with walls so high no one can get over like Everest. What are your thoughts 💭 🌻
Any Student Students From Preschool If Finland 7 years old to go School? Its mean Stories telling from 🏡 Grand 👵 Mother , Fathers if available ?To P.hd ?Which part you are?We Believe that its 🕙 to Fundraising less Fortunate ?Not too much Far & Away?Too much Billions 💵 Dollars not helpful to reach Real Peace or Happiness Thanks if Neighbors to try to invite to Tea Table Talks Its 🕙 The Religions BELIEVE that Jesus Coming Soon .Interfaith to helpful to build a Noble Nice Neighborhood Thanks Lady
Thanks! Your channel very recently showed up in my feed. I am very grateful for that. The way you talk through your discussion topic and tie in Bible verses and Christs Love really has helped me to see some of the things that I need to bring forth to God to move on from some of my behaviors that distract from my relationship with God and those around me. Thank you for the wisdom you share!
Thank you so much, I’m overjoyed that these videos are making a difference and that it has for you!! God is GOOD! God bless. 🙏
Perfectionism is really insecurity, an attempt to control too much. Really good points Gabby!
Thanks for watching! ☺️
I totally agree with you!!!
Not Perfect but my God is....
The overall truth is that we ALL need Jesus on a day to day basic
Moment by moment amen
I’m guilty! Thank you for this ! Praise God
This video was so good I had to listen to it twice🙌🏾. I have been struggling so much recently with my journey with God. At some points I was scared to listen to him because I couldn’t silence the voices in my head. I am at a transition point in my life where I am unpacking the trauma I experienced growing up. Thanks for these videos. You have no idea how much they are impacting my life 👏🏾
Life changing! You have such a clear understanding of these things. Thank you! May God help us in this journey
One phrase I've heard in relation to perfectionism and creativity is 'judgement prevents joy', and I think there's a lot of truth in that. Thanks for the video, important topic 👍
"Be ye therefore perfect, even as your Father which is in heaven is perfect."
Matthew 5:48
I think that repenting from the sin of pride is in and of itself striving to be better.
Well🗿.... you're on fire with this one 💪😕👍
Thank you! 🙏🙌
I REALLY needed to hear this right now!!! This message really spoke to me! Thank you so much. Stay blessed and continue to bring spiritual messages!
Thank you for this video. I had attended an online Christian course in the past which ultimately helped me figure out what my gifts/calling is and the main problem the devil uses against me to hold me back from my calling. The main problem is insecurity. I understand this. God bless.
Wow!! So glad God used that to clarify that for you! Keep going! 🙌
Thanks Gabby you have great insight into the subject of perfectionism. I found this helpful as I have been a perfectionist most of my life.
I'm now going to stop putting unrealistic expectations on myself and just rest in the lord and enjoy the journey and stop being presumptious and anxious about the destination, amen. God bless you. ❤🙏
That is the best thing for you. ❤️ excited for your journey!!
To him who alone doeth great wonders: for his mercy endureth for ever.
Psalm 136 : 4
never thought perfectionism would have such a negative effect...🤦♂️
I've had this little issue my whole life, I just like to make things the best it can be on whatever I do and it has helped me with some things, but on the other side it makes me exhausted so now if I'm tired i don't push beyond my strength to try to make it perfect
Gabby I was born with brain damage, I am aware of this. So connecting is short lived. I pray 🙏 that I will be saved by Jesus 🙏♥️🙏
Being kind is what makes ourselves happy as well as others. With forgiveness, our love grows.
Thank you so much for sharing the truth as usual. I got to pray for a lady while working and Jesus gave her a brand new knee after doctors said it was toast and this is in public parking lot. I called on Jesus the doctor of doctors! Though I'd share something with you since you're always feeding me good stuff ❤🎉
That is so incredible!!!! I haven’t seen that yet but anything is possible with the power of Jesus! Praise God!
"Therefore you shall be perfect, just as your Father in heaven is perfect."
God created us. We cannot be less than He is. We are less in what we know, but not in who we are.
Forgiveness is the means to remembering who we are. " If you had known what these words mean, 'I desire mercy, not sacrifice,' you would not have condemned the innocent."
I suffer from a serious case of perfectionism. It is hard for .e to be content or satisfied. God has to remind me at times to stop and enjoy where I am or the season I am in.
AMEN! Very insightful, and introspective, achoti. It is clearly evident that you have a close relationship with Ruach-YHVH; something that I myself have fallen/been torn away from. Barukh HaShem, that he is drawing me back to him, to then lead me further than I have been into him! Prayerfully, perfectionism is next on the chopping block, b'Shem Yeshua-Tzva'ot! Shalom Aleikhem, achoti.
I struggle with perfectionism daily. Your video is Really true and to the point, thank you. I am going to listen to this a few times Thank You. Gabby I just found you Praise JESUS. The only true perfection in this world is imperfection. JESUS CHRIST at the cross took imperfect people and made them perfect in GOD's sight. Roman 5:8. Praying for you right now. GOD Bless You.
That’s right!! 🙌🙌 welcome to the channel!
You really hit the nail on the head with this topic. Perfectionism has been a big problem for me at times, and I wonder how much it has affected relationships beyond the more visible effects (i.e. my work, endeavors in recreational sports, hobbies, and other things where I hold myself to a ridiculous, unrealistic standard). It honestly takes a toll on me when I see myself unable to meet the misguided, high standards I set myself to sometimes. Comparing oneself to others can be part of it, perhaps for others, too. It's very draining, yet it can feel so ingrained -- a beast within that needs to be calmed and tamed.
God bless you, Gabby, for being a great means to making myself and others here reflect on the many things you've talked about. Even if we have never met, God certainly put you into my life in this small way to help me along my journey to growing deeper in my faith and relationship with God, and to help me grow as a man and a person. 🙏🏼
So glad to have you watching and thanks for those kind words!! Take your time with perfectionism - you can break it but it takes work!
Thank you for this blessed video! God bless you Gabby!
Glad you enjoyed!! 🙌
I like it how in your thumbnail you displayed your own face LOL!
True.
Totally agree.
Great video gabby
Thank you! 🙏
Thank you Gabby this video blessed me! Praise the Lord Jesus for it!!!
Praise God!! 🙌🙌
Welcome back, Gabby :).
This video and You are such a blessing !
Thanks so much!! 🙏
Psalms 22:10
“I was cast upon thee from the womb: thou art my God from my mother's belly.”
King James Version (KJV)
Makes me think of Christ's imputed righteousness. His righteousness (perfection) is counted as ours and we cancel it out when we try to go by our own perfection. I've never thought of perfectionism in this way before.
🔥🔥🔥
I definitely struggle with this sin. But moreso than that, trying to be motivated and enthusiastic about what He wants me to do, when I have no desire for some of things He has made clear I am to do.
Faith doesn’t match feelings sometimes but that’s why we have faith!! You got this 💪
Hi Gabby, could you make a video on encouraging someone when they barely come to faith, have recently gave their life to Christ but is still alone. (I hope that makes sense)They been to many churches but is not able to find community. I am asking on behalf of my cousin. Personally it took me two years with no friends(just Jesus, the bible, me, & visiting churches) until i found my church that i could call home. I know Jesus will bless her soon with many Christian friends but thought maybe this subject would be good to talk about. God bless you sister!
❤❤❤
Exodus 23:8
“And thou shalt take no gift: for the gift blindeth the wise, and perverteth the words of the righteous.”
King James Version (KJV)
Gabby please pray for me as I fly ✈️ from Brisbane Australia 🇦🇺 to Toronto Canada 🇨🇦 as I have never done this before. God Bless you always my sister in Jesus amen 🙏 ♥️🙏
I got you!
@@ItsGabbySings You made my day ♥️ My Plane ✈️ has just arrived from Vancouver my flight ✈️ is at 10 am Monday 19 August what you said means a lot 🙏♥️🙏
Thank you Gabby for praying for me I am now in Toronto you are a good person 🙏♥️🙏
Gabby I have someone you maybe interested in listening to C.S Lewis God Bless You 🙏♥️🙏
You're saying I have a heck of a long way to go😳
Me too!
Hahaha, awareness is the key to freedom!!
Please talk about pray
How to pray?
@@ItsGabbySings yeah
@@ItsGabbySings Greetings please my name's are Akum Byron komineke Arrey from Cameroon
Please I attend government high school mamfe were I had my ordinary and advance level
I had 7 papers in the ordinary level Which comprised my science subjects and three papers in the advance level which are biology chemistry maths
Please I have a partion of becoming an astronaut but my country Cameroon doesn't have such facilities so I have decided to travel abroad and study in the united states'but I come from a poor back ground
And my parents can't afford to see me through my dreams
So I decided to look for someone by God's grace to help me to achieve my dreams
I have been looking for someone to help me for three months but no one has said anything about it
Some one even abuse me that blacks are very stupid and some people have even block me
But I decided to stay strong and continue looking believeing the one that I shall find someone genuine
@@ItsGabbySings Greetings please my name's are Akum Byron komineke Arrey from Cameroon
Please I attend government high school mamfe were I had my ordinary and advance level
I had 7 papers in the ordinary level Which comprised my science subjects and three papers in the advance level which are biology chemistry maths
Please I have a partion of becoming an astronaut but my country Cameroon doesn't have such facilities so I have decided to travel abroad and study in the united states'but I come from a poor back ground
And my parents can't afford to see me through my dreams
So I decided to look for someone by God's grace to help me to achieve my dreams
I have been looking for someone to help me for three months but no one has said anything about it
Some one even abuse me that blacks are very stupid and some people have even block me
But I decided to stay strong and continue looking believeing the one that I shall find someone genuine
Greetings please my name's are Akum Byron komineke Arrey from Cameroon
Please I attend government high school mamfe were I had my ordinary and advance level
I had 7 papers in the ordinary level Which comprised my science subjects and three papers in the advance level which are biology chemistry maths
Please I have a partion of becoming an astronaut but my country Cameroon doesn't have such facilities so I have decided to travel abroad and study in the united states'but I come from a poor back ground
And my parents can't afford to see me through my dreams
So I decided to look for someone by God's grace to help me to achieve my dreams
I have been looking for someone to help me for three months but no one has said anything about it
Some one even abuse me that blacks are very stupid and some people have even block me
But I decided to stay strong and continue looking believeing the one that I shall find someone genuine
Should I loose myself just to be paul in the bible a little while? About the thing I have to do he said I do the things I wasn't suppose to do, but the ones I need to do I do them not
Do you do counseling, or can you recommend someone who does?
Hi Matthew, i don’t do counseling! I’d recommend looking on psychologytoday.com
Hey Gabby , really nice video ! I was wondering if I could help you with more Quality Editing in your videos and also make a highly engaging Thumbnail and also help you with the overall youtube strategy and growth ! Pls let me know what do you think ?
How do you not accept perfectionism but also not accept sin and compromise? To me, it's one or another and it's confusing.
You flee from sin and acknowledge that you need Jesus to give you strength daily. It’s acknowledging that we can’t do anything without Jesus and need him in every aspect of our lives. Loving the Father means we will do everything to live a righteous life and walk in love. Which means we will hate sin and flee from it.
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'Self critical thoughts are prideful'? ehhhhhhh.........not really?
I would tend to think that ZERO self critical thinking is prideful.
By saying that God created flawed, imperfect beings, namely yourself is in and of itself self critical thinking which contradicts the whole idea that it is being prideful.
So then are positive thinking thoughts more humble?
P.S Also striving for excellence??? isn't the same as perfectionism.
I think God has given you so much potential, if you just set your mind to it you can achieve it (not so much worldly achievements but then you can use those things to serve God in some way as long as that is not your sole motivation).
"Jesus said unto him, If thou canst believe, all things are possible to him that believeth."
Mark 9:23
You are denying yourself God given gifts that he has bestowed upon you.
By doing this you are in and of itself taking away from the glory of God.
"Neither do men light a candle, and put it under a bushel, but on a candlestick; and it giveth light unto all that are in the house."
"Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven."
Matthew 5:15-16
You mention going to church, but won't you tell us the name of your church.???
Darwinist's think that human's are related to plant's......🤣😂🤣😂 Praise Yahweh, Yeshua Jesus Christ & the Holy Spirit! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤☦✝✡❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Hi you are looking beautiful and I like you💐
Gabby thank you 🙏 for being a sister in Jesus my people. Listening to what you said I didn’t realise a lot of my actions are pride related I have struggled with this my whole life. I don’t know if this is pride related trying to fit in. Now I realise Jesus may have better plans for me. A movie I Love is I still believe here is a song from the movie and I Love You 🙏♥️🙏 th-cam.com/video/gckQU4MH-is/w-d-xo.htmlsi=EcZuCAyL_2AbiZaa
I have been broken and lost thank you for your support and Love ♥️ a verse I have held on to my whole life psalm 23 and John 3: 16 Thank You Heavenly Father for our Lord Jesus who through unconditional Love took our sins upon himself so that we can be saved I Love You my Lord Jesus I say this prayer 🙏 for you too. I Love the movie Ghost at the ending Love is all you truly take with you a miracle of God thanks 🙏 be to God for Love ♥️🤗💋🙏
Thank you Gabby for walking with me
th-cam.com/video/acwsBIl15zM/w-d-xo.htmlsi=4DpNgqJoVdbQpNEe
Thanks for sharing all of this! God bless you! ❤️
@@ItsGabbySings thank you Gabby for taking the time to read and respond to my message a appreciate you ♥️🌻🙏
@@ItsGabbySings Gabby when you say project your feelings on to another. If only we gave each other time and a moment to understand another’s Heart ♥️ I miss connection based on time and moments which leave with fragments of moments in time. Love is a miracle of God our Father and a gift. People reject others based on silly things not knowing intent only Jesus knows this. Gabby we live in a broken world 🌍 with walls so high no one can get over like Everest. What are your thoughts 💭 🌻
I know something’s wrong because im more depressed following god because all i do is fear hell. I feel trapped, I can’t spread my own wings.
You’re not going to hell. Keep your faith in Jesus and let him heal you from the inside out! God does not give us a spirit of fear! 2 Timothy 1:7
Any Student Students From Preschool If Finland 7 years old to go School? Its mean Stories telling from 🏡 Grand 👵 Mother , Fathers if available ?To P.hd ?Which part you are?We Believe that its 🕙 to Fundraising less Fortunate ?Not too much Far & Away?Too much Billions 💵 Dollars not helpful to reach Real Peace or Happiness Thanks if Neighbors to try to invite to Tea Table Talks Its 🕙 The Religions BELIEVE that Jesus Coming Soon .Interfaith to helpful to build a Noble Nice Neighborhood Thanks Lady
Wow, I‘m so so so glad that I found your account!! 🤍✨