Dr D. Clarke is a no-nonsense therapist. I love his teachings. I left the Jezebelic demonic narcissist 4 years ago. And divorced him 16 months ago. Best decision I ever made thus far. I only wish I had stayed away 19yrs ago. I didn't know what I didn't know. He calls himself a "Christian." Smh! He is delusional living in clown 🤡 land. I wish I knew of Dr Clarke back then or even 4yrs ago. If I did, I wouldn't be experiencing the fight for my children, especially my teenage daughter, as I am at the moment. However, Jehova is a covenant keeping God and what he promises he fulfills. Our children shall be taught by God and shall be delivered from narc abuse in their mind, bodies, and soul. Restoration is ours. Hallelujah 🙌🏾
I CAN RELATE!!!!! How I WISH I knew this years ago because this is exactly what took place. I tried to do this, but I didn’t know how to do it in this particular way. PLEASE PEOPLE…. take this advice! This is a nightmare, but I do know that the Lord will return my kids emotionally and mentally back to me. Please, please do not wait. I did not even know he was a covert narcissist. This information was not out there. From JANESVILLE, WISCONSIN USA
I agree, and though I didn't have this knowledge, God has lead me to take the resources I have obtained that brought me wisdom and revelation and tell others.. our experiences are not wasted with the lord.. may God grant our children and their fathers salvation ❤ may all these curses be broken by the power of the blood❤ keep fighting the good fight of faith til the end!! ❤❤
@@Heseesyou AAAAAAA-MEN…. What wonderful words to read thank you so much. Yes, I agree with you. God bless you so very very much and I pray all the veil be stripped from our loved ones eyes, and that they will see Jesus in all traumas in everything in our lives will be erased from the Lord Jesus.
I praise God for this resource.. i have exchanged wasted time for educating me and others. I pray for the one who is scared and is on the fence.. i regret not leaving sooner😢 i regret not coming to God and surrendering my life to him sooner. Please step out and ask for radical faith ❤ im a witness.. i let him have it all and even checked the box for no spousal support 😮 but my god my God, he substained me and mine. He set the captive free.. please dont delay.. stay in the seat of the holy spirit.. he will lead you by the minute, if you choose to do it his way❤ Im praying for you and your enemies. I pray God will keep you from the evil one, i pray you retain this wisdom and apply it to your situation, i pray for your strength, courage and boldness. I pray you go very deep and release all pain and memories to the lord, he is faithful, safe and sends the comforter.. you will overcome and be able to help others❤
Thank you!! I have heard " dont talk bad about the other parent " I have been open and honest with my kids, they need to know the truth. My ex abused my kids behind my back, then told them that I asked him to abuse them " he was such a scumbag that he lost his parental rights. As parents we need to protect our kids and educate them on narcs.
We have 6 kids. My six-year-old tells me mommy I want kids, but I do not want a husband. I don’t need one and I don’t like them. It’s so sad that my six-year-old is like looking through him like she knows he’s full of crap.
My kids know who he. is but they are not allowed to have their own thoughts or feelings, and if my kids show me any type of compassion or they stand up for me, he completely cuts them off. no new shoes no new clothes for a while. I allowed my kids to be this way so that they would be taken care of and now I’m just like nope not anymore.
Girl mine does too! And then flips out and says you were not home all day! Like that’s why you have cameras. He wouldn’t look at them because God forbid. I was actually home. He wouldn’t have anything to argue about.😢😢
He’s a covert narc. He doesn’t show anything in public. He’s Mr Mom now and Disney Dad. The kids have never seen him blow a gasket because he doesn’t do that. He stonewalls and ignores. Not sure how to prepare them for backlash when it’s so subtle, yet constant. I have no idea what the kids have already endured at his hands or his parents’ hands…because I completely trusted all three of them. I was basically brainwashed.
Im in the uk and would like to purchase adult children who break your heart. I have four, i left, it was terrible to start, slowly improving but i know they dont trust me anymore and usually do not answer the phone to me or want me to see them too often. We were so close. Thank you for all your material i have found it so affirming.
What if I’ve been passive-aggressively threatened to be harmed and threatened to be taken to court for child custody? The harm threat was veiled and indirect therefore can be easily covered. The court thread seemed like intimidation but could also be real.
I did all the things Dr Clarke suggests, but when my ex narc and I separated, on visitations he was saying all sorts of things about me and although I tried to counter those things, he was so skilful that she stopped telling me what he would say and instead it became evident, due to my daughter beginning to abuse me too like her dad did, that he had turned her against me. My 15 year old daughter is now a worse narc than her father and he is laughing and rubbing his hands with glee. 3:00 Yep, my ex said all of those things to my daughter, that i didnt want her, dont love her and am pretending to be disabled so i dont have to spend time with her (despite me having her 98% of the week).
It’s too late to prep the kids. He left 1 year and 7 months ago. Kids were 4 and 7 at the time. I’ve told the kids some truth. I told them he has a girlfriend pretty quickly after he moved out. That it’s wrong. It’s not God’s plan. That he has lied about specific things etc etc. Now I am trying to do damage control. There are two specific past situations that I think I need to address. What do you think about addressing things that happened 2 months ago and a few weeks ago?
What do you do if the he “offers to help support” the children financially? He tends to hold things like that over my head, but when I don’t take the money he punishes me by trying to make me feel guilty or make life difficult
Dr D. Clarke is a no-nonsense therapist. I love his teachings.
I left the Jezebelic demonic narcissist 4 years ago. And divorced him 16 months ago. Best decision I ever made thus far. I only wish I had stayed away 19yrs ago.
I didn't know what I didn't know. He calls himself a "Christian." Smh! He is delusional living in clown 🤡 land.
I wish I knew of Dr Clarke back then or even 4yrs ago. If I did, I wouldn't be experiencing the fight for my children, especially my teenage daughter, as I am at the moment.
However, Jehova is a covenant keeping God and what he promises he fulfills.
Our children shall be taught by God and shall be delivered from narc abuse in their mind, bodies, and soul.
Restoration is ours. Hallelujah 🙌🏾
I CAN RELATE!!!!!
How I WISH I knew this years ago because this is exactly what took place.
I tried to do this, but I didn’t know how to do it in this particular way.
PLEASE PEOPLE…. take this advice!
This is a nightmare, but I do know that the Lord will return my kids emotionally and mentally back to me. Please, please do not wait. I did not even know he was a covert narcissist.
This information was not out there.
From JANESVILLE, WISCONSIN USA
I agree, and though I didn't have this knowledge, God has lead me to take the resources I have obtained that brought me wisdom and revelation and tell others.. our experiences are not wasted with the lord.. may God grant our children and their fathers salvation ❤ may all these curses be broken by the power of the blood❤ keep fighting the good fight of faith til the end!! ❤❤
@@Heseesyou AAAAAAA-MEN…. What wonderful words to read thank you so much. Yes, I agree with you. God bless you so very very much and I pray all the veil be stripped from our loved ones eyes, and that they will see Jesus in all traumas in everything in our lives will be erased from the Lord Jesus.
My kids know exactly who their father is, they have watched him. Everyone has seen him in action. He's proud of his abuse.
I praise God for this resource.. i have exchanged wasted time for educating me and others. I pray for the one who is scared and is on the fence.. i regret not leaving sooner😢 i regret not coming to God and surrendering my life to him sooner. Please step out and ask for radical faith ❤ im a witness.. i let him have it all and even checked the box for no spousal support 😮 but my god my God, he substained me and mine. He set the captive free.. please dont delay.. stay in the seat of the holy spirit.. he will lead you by the minute, if you choose to do it his way❤
Im praying for you and your enemies. I pray God will keep you from the evil one, i pray you retain this wisdom and apply it to your situation, i pray for your strength, courage and boldness. I pray you go very deep and release all pain and memories to the lord, he is faithful, safe and sends the comforter.. you will overcome and be able to help others❤
Right on 💯 Dr. ClarkE 👍🏻👍🏻 God bless you man 🇨🇦
Thank you!! I have heard " dont talk bad about the other parent " I have been open and honest with my kids, they need to know the truth. My ex abused my kids behind my back, then told them that I asked him to abuse them " he was such a scumbag that he lost his parental rights. As parents we need to protect our kids and educate them on narcs.
We have 6 kids. My six-year-old tells me mommy I want kids, but I do not want a husband. I don’t need one and I don’t like them. It’s so sad that my six-year-old is like looking through him like she knows he’s full of crap.
My kids know who he. is but they are not allowed to have their own thoughts or feelings, and if my kids show me any type of compassion or they stand up for me, he completely cuts them off. no new shoes no new clothes for a while. I allowed my kids to be this way so that they would be taken care of and now I’m just like nope not anymore.
Omg. My ex had cameras all over the house and would be controlling with them.
Girl mine does too! And then flips out and says you were not home all day! Like that’s why you have cameras. He wouldn’t look at them because God forbid. I was actually home. He wouldn’t have anything to argue about.😢😢
He’s a covert narc. He doesn’t show anything in public. He’s Mr Mom now and Disney Dad. The kids have never seen him blow a gasket because he doesn’t do that. He stonewalls and ignores. Not sure how to prepare them for backlash when it’s so subtle, yet constant. I have no idea what the kids have already endured at his hands or his parents’ hands…because I completely trusted all three of them. I was basically brainwashed.
This is my exact experience. You are not alone. About 1 1/2 years ago the Lord started opening my eyes
How do I combat a covert narc, recently deceased, that is still trying to drive a wedge between my children and me? ( crazy conditions in her will)
How??
Exactly what he did to his ex wife. Manipulated the kids to hate their mum. Evil narc man
What if your young children stick up for his wrong and rationalize his immaturity?
Im in the uk and would like to purchase adult children who break your heart. I have four, i left, it was terrible to start, slowly improving but i know they dont trust me anymore and usually do not answer the phone to me or want me to see them too often. We were so close. Thank you for all your material i have found it so affirming.
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What happens if you only discover what's happening after 40 years.
I’m from California
What if I’ve been passive-aggressively threatened to be harmed and threatened to be taken to court for child custody? The harm threat was veiled and indirect therefore can be easily covered. The court thread seemed like intimidation but could also be real.
I did all the things Dr Clarke suggests, but when my ex narc and I separated, on visitations he was saying all sorts of things about me and although I tried to counter those things, he was so skilful that she stopped telling me what he would say and instead it became evident, due to my daughter beginning to abuse me too like her dad did, that he had turned her against me. My 15 year old daughter is now a worse narc than her father and he is laughing and rubbing his hands with glee. 3:00 Yep, my ex said all of those things to my daughter, that i didnt want her, dont love her and am pretending to be disabled so i dont have to spend time with her (despite me having her 98% of the week).
Love the shirt!!
It’s too late to prep the kids. He left 1 year and 7 months ago. Kids were 4 and 7 at the time. I’ve told the kids some truth. I told them he has a girlfriend pretty quickly after he moved out. That it’s wrong. It’s not God’s plan. That he has lied about specific things etc etc. Now I am trying to do damage control. There are two specific past situations that I think I need to address. What do you think about addressing things that happened 2 months ago and a few weeks ago?
What do you do if the he “offers to help support” the children financially? He tends to hold things like that over my head, but when I don’t take the money he punishes me by trying to make me feel guilty or make life difficult
Your children come through you from God, not from you. God gave you the gift of being able to have children with your wife. Humility please.
Is It to late to tell my sons about there dad. They are 24 and 21.
the devil was a false pride narsist
the narsist is a communal narsist
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