How to Overcome Instant Gratification

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  • @alux
    @alux  ปีที่แล้ว +7

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  • @briandodd9024
    @briandodd9024 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    The most helpful thing I've learned over time is this: first, decide what type of person you want to become (imagine this in detail and do a reality check); then figure out what types of things that person would do and wouldn't do. There's your habits. Adopt one habit the person would do, drop one of the things they wouldn't do. Rinse and repeat.

    • @brain4thoughts
      @brain4thoughts ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree 👍 very wise advice

    • @yokoso2386
      @yokoso2386 ปีที่แล้ว

      did this technique solve the instant gratififation problem?

    • @briandodd9024
      @briandodd9024 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@yokoso2386 For some things, yes. If I can't justify a habit in relation to my personal aim point, I have a choice - change (or cancel) the habit, or just ignore it for now. Either is acceptable in the short term.

  • @vanessajowel8655
    @vanessajowel8655 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    It's a very good idea if people get to setup some stuffs aside for themselves that could be bringing them money apart from there businesses.

    • @sariaadem842
      @sariaadem842 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I was so excited when I opened my wallet and saw my payment of $25,550. What a boost! You knew exactly what I wanted. Thank you so much for the payment

    • @lucasbryant1613
      @lucasbryant1613 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I really appreciate so many people that tries to put smiles on others face. Just did my first withdraw off a $3000 start up plan.

    • @karenjohnson9208
      @karenjohnson9208 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Same here I started with $500
      Now earning $4,500 bi-weekly profits from Ms Dora Gray's investment.

    • @oliviajohnson8349
      @oliviajohnson8349 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Please how do I find her?

    • @karenjohnson9208
      @karenjohnson9208 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Here’s her name on the telegrams 👈👈

  • @maheshg34
    @maheshg34 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you Alux.
    This video helped me to control my urge to click on the next video that you have recommended at the end.😌
    And I'll definitely try other things that you mentioned in the video.

  • @goodpoints
    @goodpoints ปีที่แล้ว +24

    1. Set clear long-term goal
    2. Develop self-awareness
    3. Strengthening self-discipline
    4. Delay gratification
    5. Implement the power of habits

    • @brain4thoughts
      @brain4thoughts ปีที่แล้ว +1

      👍

    • @yokoso2386
      @yokoso2386 ปีที่แล้ว

      is this technique works for you? do you solve the problem of instant gratification

    • @goodpoints
      @goodpoints ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes that helped me, did you apply that also?

  • @sanjaydawda324
    @sanjaydawda324 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Any book you can recommend on delayed gratification?

  • @pavprograms
    @pavprograms ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm glad you are back. It's been almost a week I haven't seen a notification from Alux

  • @watsonkashala99
    @watsonkashala99 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    00:00 - Intro
    00:31 - Defining Instant Gratification
    01:13 - The psychological basis of instant gratification
    03:23 - Strategies for overcoming instant gratification
    08:03 - Create a supportive environment
    09:10 - Embrace failure and learn from setbacks
    11:27 - Know your priorities

  • @jricrianne
    @jricrianne ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The funny thing is, I consider watching Alux videos as instant gratification. The Alux lady's voice is quite satisfying

  • @larryjordan9720
    @larryjordan9720 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey Alux lady I am so in love with your voice. May I please have a picture of you on one of the videos

  • @gosobro
    @gosobro ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Just put the phone away and notifications off? 🎉❤

    • @RockyVegaTV
      @RockyVegaTV ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's what I do. When I'm working, my phone is on silent and flipped over.

    • @futurestark5125
      @futurestark5125 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I do nothing in most of with my time so when I do something I'm very focused

    • @gosobro
      @gosobro ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@futurestark5125 😂😂

    • @gosobro
      @gosobro ปีที่แล้ว

      @@RockyVegaTV only way to do it. If you not need to make any cold-calls.
      Then the calls would be really cold.

    • @shaheemjackson283
      @shaheemjackson283 ปีที่แล้ว

      BIG facts haha!

  • @wlady4000
    @wlady4000 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hi Alux I missed you guys. I love Alux

  • @PRONDERI
    @PRONDERI ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Create a supportive environment...I needed this Thank you Alux

  • @europebasedvlogs1251
    @europebasedvlogs1251 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    - emotions vs
    5
    - clear goals (discipline, awareness)
    - journaling
    - delay it (now happy, then happy)
    if then
    - environment
    - urgency based (consequences)
    eisenhower

  • @dima-rafael
    @dima-rafael ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Pay attention : 2 neighbors the first was a successful strict business man who obviously was the row model of avoiding instant gratification was hit by a car and eventually died the second neighbor most of the time is playing traveling the row model of instant gratification still a live , said to me at least he doing whatever he wants to because he knows that it could be the end any time so I ask you what’s the point?

    • @brain4thoughts
      @brain4thoughts ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True 👍

    • @overflow1789
      @overflow1789 ปีที่แล้ว

      The point is that statistically most of us will end up living until a ripe old age and have to support ourselves until then - its not either/or, you can create good habits for the future and still live a fulfilling life now, it's about finding joy in even the smallest things

  • @danielb-c9100
    @danielb-c9100 ปีที่แล้ว

    So what do I do about if apart that I want for my truck? But i'm worthy gonna become discontinuous and then everybody help me out here

  • @SevenDeMagnus
    @SevenDeMagnus ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks so important, self-control.
    God bless.

  • @christineedgehill7533
    @christineedgehill7533 ปีที่แล้ว

    Never smoke or drink in quite a long time which states I shouldn't be high or feeling strange.

  • @rahulrdamle6373
    @rahulrdamle6373 ปีที่แล้ว

    Exercise and Mediation increases grey matter in prefrontal cortex thereby increasing your will power - More on this in Willpower instinct and how self control works by Neuroscientist Kelly Mcgonigal

  • @unparalleledpunk6826
    @unparalleledpunk6826 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Very informative video.👍

    • @ManoharYerramYT
      @ManoharYerramYT ปีที่แล้ว

      How'd you watch a 10-mins-long video in less than 5 mins of it being uploaded? 2X speed?

    • @unparalleledpunk6826
      @unparalleledpunk6826 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ManoharYerramYT Yeah ofc i watched it at 2X speed,Ikr!!

  • @auro1986
    @auro1986 ปีที่แล้ว

    ask narrator how and answer will be to stay gratified watch 15 videos in alux channel daily

  • @JW-jn4if
    @JW-jn4if ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing thumbnail. Just tell yourself you want it later not now.

  • @striveprosper295
    @striveprosper295 ปีที่แล้ว

    The rubber band rule helped me

  • @mohammedkj1239
    @mohammedkj1239 ปีที่แล้ว

    This marshmallow experiment are flawed for one reason, if a kid come from a poor family he will eat it immediately because he knew there are no food tomorrow so absolutely he will eat it asap. On the opposite side the rich kid he will wait because there a tons of available food so he someone told him to stop eating for 30 minutes he will stop

  • @samuelkamotho4958
    @samuelkamotho4958 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You need to chase and commit to your God-given dreams

  • @sethkomagum1849
    @sethkomagum1849 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I didn't know i needed to here this...thank you so much Alux...

  • @westsidebilling
    @westsidebilling ปีที่แล้ว

    Website blocker. Great idea!

  • @kuotemmanuelmevergreen1658
    @kuotemmanuelmevergreen1658 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    💚💙💛🧡❤

  • @jasminebuabe4315
    @jasminebuabe4315 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Missed you guys! Welcome back

  • @jackwegman7537
    @jackwegman7537 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Add a comment

  • @yandroid
    @yandroid ปีที่แล้ว

    Not me watching this video, procrastinating.

  • @gyanprakashraj4062
    @gyanprakashraj4062 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    KHOON HI IMBALAMCED HAIN....GRATIFICATION JHAANT KAA BANEGAA YE SABB...

  • @onlypescador
    @onlypescador ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are my everyday inspiration

  • @spacepeanut8993
    @spacepeanut8993 ปีที่แล้ว

    Welcome back Alux lady!!!

  • @aaronaustrie
    @aaronaustrie ปีที่แล้ว

    🙌🏾❤

  • @retrogenetic-s6j
    @retrogenetic-s6j ปีที่แล้ว

    I can't even watch the video to the end because of my instant gratification issue

  • @Samuthefuturebillionaire
    @Samuthefuturebillionaire ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank You Alux, Realfly video 🙏🏽
    I definitely need to implement the Eisenhower Matrix!
    Please share where I can get accountability partners that are on the same journey as I am with personal development, it can be hard doing it alone

  • @vusimogola
    @vusimogola ปีที่แล้ว

    It's been a minute , welcome back aluxer 😅

  • @niconico1249
    @niconico1249 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sometimes life takes a unexpected wrong turn in the right direction ..)

  • @aaattt2121
    @aaattt2121 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    hi

  • @colinchandler6516
    @colinchandler6516 ปีที่แล้ว

    okay

  • @hugh009
    @hugh009 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Glad to see you back after several days of no new videos. I have found what DeVon Franklin says in Hollywood Commandments to be helpful : Setbacks are really GOD’S SETUPS!

    • @brain4thoughts
      @brain4thoughts ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So true 👍I agree

    • @hugh009
      @hugh009 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@brain4thoughts Boy have I had my share of those SETUPS 😂

    • @brain4thoughts
      @brain4thoughts ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@hugh009 I feel you. 👍I had my share too.

    • @hugh009
      @hugh009 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@brain4thoughts Any way I can help with your dream let me know.

    • @brain4thoughts
      @brain4thoughts ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hugh009 👌 thanks

  • @বিবিধ
    @বিবিধ ปีที่แล้ว

    God reward you with the best!

  • @akhilsahuodishachhatisgarh3694
    @akhilsahuodishachhatisgarh3694 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🧡💚🤍🥰 from LEO 👍🙏🇮🇳

  • @zenkaienergy3135
    @zenkaienergy3135 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Two words: boarding school💯

  • @azukaabrahamnduka5242
    @azukaabrahamnduka5242 ปีที่แล้ว

    Priorities

  • @brain4thoughts
    @brain4thoughts ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great one👍 Alux

  • @mary-janeegwunyenga1957
    @mary-janeegwunyenga1957 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Welcome backkkkkkk

  • @jonathanjohnson5216
    @jonathanjohnson5216 ปีที่แล้ว

    🙏🏿💡📝

  • @emocuta
    @emocuta ปีที่แล้ว

    👏🏼❣️

  • @luthandondlovu2863
    @luthandondlovu2863 ปีที่แล้ว

    ALUX LÀDY we miss you.

  • @titusfuller474
    @titusfuller474 ปีที่แล้ว

    Enjoyed the Video

  • @MajharulAsif
    @MajharulAsif ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello 🎉

  • @colinchandler6516
    @colinchandler6516 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you alot

  • @nenesibanda4171
    @nenesibanda4171 ปีที่แล้ว

    Best channel ever.

  • @colinchandler6516
    @colinchandler6516 ปีที่แล้ว

    needed this thank you again

  • @luthandondlovu2863
    @luthandondlovu2863 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It’s no secret that we live in the Age of Instant gratification.

  • @Robert-er9vf
    @Robert-er9vf ปีที่แล้ว

    This is true. I self affirmation for myself many times. My co worker insults me and says I am crazy because I say the same thing again.

  • @aaronaustrie
    @aaronaustrie ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Alux for putting out this video for us 🙏🏾

  • @vaishakiyer
    @vaishakiyer ปีที่แล้ว

    First

  • @frankyavery
    @frankyavery ปีที่แล้ว

    My prefrontal cortex is dead ha.

  • @60sgal99
    @60sgal99 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video 😊

  • @colinchandler6516
    @colinchandler6516 ปีที่แล้ว

    great video

  • @aaronaustrie
    @aaronaustrie ปีที่แล้ว

    Very positive video!