10 LEGITIMATE REASONS TO LET PEOPLE GO
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10 LEGITIMATE REASONS TO LET PEOPLE GO
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1. The relationship becomes toxic.
2. Your personal growth is hindered.
3. You have different paths.
4. Betrayal
5. Incompatibility
6. They are an emotional drain.
7. Manipulation
8. They waste your time.
9. The relationship is one-sided.
10. The other person is disrespecting you.
Thank you for these notes Angela. Bless you
Thank you for this!
Thank you
You described my marriage for 38 years it was hell
Thank you for these notes, Angela❣️
Reasons to Let People Go
- When the relationship is toxic (it hurts me to be with you)
- When your personal growth is hindered
- When you have different paths
- When they consistently betray you
- When you are incompatible
- When they emotionally drain you
- When they are a manipulator
- When they squander your time (dating - if after 3 mos. a guy hasnt articulated that he wants to be in a relationship, move on)
- When the relationship is one sided
-When not letting the relationship go disrespects yourself (ex. someone constantly cheating on you)
Thank you for making this list
This is a great message my husband has disrespected me several times he stepped outside the marriage cheating ,treating me foul he is a narcissist I let him go I choose to respect myself Bishop RC Blakes has taught me so much.
Best thing to do my dear. Let him move on and claim your peace.
Awesome Message Pastor R C BLAKES 🙌
Great
Amen, my sister l divorced my husband this year September 6 will makes 2 years l've been divorced and he was a Nac as well and Bishop RC Blake helped me to let go and leave my ex-husband also so, who the son has set free is free indeed Glory to God. ❤
Divorce is not of God. Separation for a while is. Sad
“someone who betrays you is not going to give you closure”. 💯 I’m glad to hear this
Powerful
Yea that was powerful, someone who betrays you is not going to give you closure, Amen all day
This message was for me. I have struggled for years with toxic family relationships. My family is very small, but disjointed. Constant back biting, and emotional turmoil ,has plagued us for years. The disloyalty and betrayel has caused depression and many sleepless nights. God finally blessed me to move away, but I kept going back hoping things would change, but the ugliness always rears its head. I have struggled with survival guilt, so Ive tried to include everyone in my blessings, but Ive been unsuccessful. It has hurt me terribly but I've had to let go. As a southern woman family is everything to me, but peace is liberating. Thanks for confirmation that I've made the right decision❤Thank you pastor🙏🏽
You have took the words out of my mouth
@@iamTiffanyEmpowermentPodcast ❤️😢
Sister, for your peace & joy some ppl u must let go! I've let my DNA relatives & I feel so very free. JESUS set me free indeed when I let go of this toxic world & totally gave myself to him. U be Blessed. U may have some lonely days, but peace of mind is worth more than lunacy in fam. Some ppl are in your life to hold u down & hold u back from your destiny!!!
@@bridgettetraveler658 Thanks so much, I appreciate your supportive words❤️
You are not alone with family issues iam going threw the same thing .
I married a toxic man and the pastors just told me to stay in the relationship.i stayed for 5 years and it got worse.finally i said i dont think God would want me to stay here so i left. New beginning. He was constantly yelling and fighting with me. And he was a believer but he had anger problems.and major ocd about how the house looked but it was pretty clean so he had the problem from his childhood.his mother was very abusive and he took that out on me.we had a lot in common but his problem was he just had anger issues.
Those same pastors won't stay with someone who treats them like that
I will never settle for anything less than God's best!!!! Never.
Poison is poison no matter the container...hurt while moving in the right direction not the wrong direction....well stated, thank you Bishop 👍🏽👌🏽
I’ve been out of a 13 year emotionally abusive relationship for a few years now and have remained single the whole time. Your channel is the most uplifting/encouraging channel I have found. My standards are SKY HIGH now. Thank you for changing my life : )
That’s amazing! I was in one too for 5 and a half years. My suggestion for you is to find God if you haven’t already and ask Him to help you be released from the past soul tie with that person and be redeemed from the abuse ❤ sometimes therapy is really good too because we don’t always see the internal damage that person has done to us
Wow !! “ It’s better to hurt in the right direction than the wrong one” this alone brought clarity and healing , Gos bless you Pastor and thank you !
Amen sis
I like that "It's better to hurt in the right direction" what a Word
My Last betrayal was 2020/2021. I cut him off permanently ! It’s over my healing ❤️🩹 and closure came from Jesus Christ. I’m healed and I have matured from it.
Had to remove myself and working on this. The biggest heartache ever. I need prayers, I feel guilty. Coparenting has not being easy. But cheating and the verbal abuse was too much
My sister you r not alone. If you haven't chosen God. Choose Him now. And if you have draw closer to Him. He will meet you right where you r.
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'Let people go in peace." Enough said.
Yes let people go in peace
Block in the name of Jesus 😆 guard your heart ❤
WOW you keep reaping disrespect because you are sowing disrespect into yourself..... i felt the earth move on that one!!! Never heard that wow that is a game changer!!! THANK YOU so much for that
"Hurt while you are moving in the right direction. Don't hurt while moving in the wrong direction." ❤
You're so very right about ppl learning themselves after 25. GOD tried to reach me early in my teens, but I had too many toxic ppl in my life preventing me from reaching my spiritual destination. They tried to destroy me, but they've only made me stronger. I've learned to be alone without being lonely. I've learned I have the Great Comforter (The HOLY SPIRIT)! This is a beautiful message. Children really didn't ask to come into this world. Parents have a great duty to raise children & we parents should do what we do out of LOVE for our children!!!
Oh well! I'm so BLESSED listening to Bishop Blake's!!!
Better late than never. Wonder if I would have listened to you as intently in my 20’s as I am today in my 50’s. Either way, the lessons I’ve learned from digesting your videos now, gives me hope that I will make better choices moving forward. I’ve spent the last 3 years alone becoming the woman I deserve to attract in the right man. Thank you Pastor! Prayers for you and Lisa🙏
Amen 🙏🏽 im right with you !! God bless u on your journey 🙌🏽🙏🏽🦋
I am there with you as well 🙏🏾🙌🏾
Amen exactly my position
Persons drain you emotionally and then when you listen for yrs to all their dramas and you really cared then, they leave you when they no longer need you and go start a new life with someone else.
Yes I unfortunately had a child who drained my life it was so sad 😭 the worst part she never listened to myself or my mother. May she Rip 😢. I miss her terribly but I don’t miss the bipolar behavior that came with her drama and lies negativity bad company it was a lot
😢
I'm so sorry 4 your loss💜
Please pray for me, i am in this position of growth, my bf is not. We are in a LDR and we have a 2 year old. I’ve been a christian since i was saved at 12, but i did not know who i was and RC has been undoing my brainwashing from the past ❤
I was born Muslim & your teaching has blessed me so much!, In my ❤ you are MY pastor. Thank you😊
True Nola thing! We can not take being disrespected!! Brings out the worst in us
Facts⚜️
They refuse to go, so I go alone, but not really because I have platform's like this that are always helping with personal growth.
Seems like to me there has been a lot of people betraying and ignoring, hopefully the clouds will break apart soon
Thank you so much because of you and Lisa I walked away from a toxic two year situationship.
My closure was in my ability to let go! Thanks Pastor!
Emotionally draining talking people off the ledge.. that was funny... but true. Let them go. Thank you Pastor.
Sometimes we are part of the problem. It takes 2 to tango. I'm thinking about friends rather than spouses. Some friends have left me because I was too difficult and demanding, when I was hurting really badly. I realized I would destroy all my relationships so I withdrew from everyone. I'm alot more healed now.
I love the opening statements about letting people go , where we have to make a choice about either God or something/ someone we put before God.Anything we placed before God is considered our god.Sometimes we put manmade traditions before God .God said if you love me you will keep all my commandments John 14: 15.
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I'm exactly there. Holy Spirit used the same scripture for me. I know God closed the door like He did with the five foolish virgins.
This is my 10th or more confirmation.
As a clinician I always scheduled the emotionally draining people in the beginning of the week so I could recover at the end to ease into the weekend. Also very clear that family and friends were not clients and that my expectations with them were different
Are you saying you didn't allow your friends and family as patients, or you gave them special privileges. Why would your expectations for them be any different than for others. They're human beings like everyone else.
What touched me rev was the confusion of spirituality and the poison nature. I have to release my mom and my immediate family and that’s been tough but I went 6 months and felt actually better. I feel guilted to the word honor your mother and father.. how do I honor her while letting her go?
My pastor just talked about this. He said you distance yourself for your own sanity. That is apart of honoring them because your protecting them from what they could get if you allow them to keep hurting you.
Establish and maintain firm boundaries
Blessings from the UK. So wonderful to catch a premier with the time difference.
My neighbor wasted so much of our time with idle gossip that we found out was mostly lies. The biggest manipulator I've ever had the unfortunate luck to run across. Thank God in Heaven we're rid of her. A miserable user and jealous con-artist
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@@CodyCole80 don't associate with a gossip 😏
@@1010QUEEN7 don't associate with a gossip 🤥. I had to get away because she was ruining my health literally.
Thank you @bishoprcblakes and Lisa Blakes. This message came right on time. Your teachings have helped me so much. With all these other platforms out there that is causing division and toxicity in our community. And tearing down women. You lift us up. I truly appreciate and value your platform that’s pouring into women. ❤❤❤ I went and purchased some of your books on audible and I will continue to support you.
Where has this Pastor been? I am learning so much from his videos. I'm gaining knowledge that can help me be more sensible in life.
Hello thank you Lord for the word that I am about to receive in Jesus name my name is Debra Jordan I live in Newnan and I just want you to know I thank you for what you've been teaching me in the word and glory be to God
LET PEOPLE GO IN PEACE!🙏❤
Sometimes your heart has to break for your heart to heal ❤
That's true, some parents manipulated their grown children, by putting to their face all they did for them since they are baby!
If I let everyone go like this I will have no one in my life haha
When Naomi gave her two daughters-in-law Ruth and Orpah, the option to leave her and go back to their families, Ruth chose to go with Naomi, met Boaz, and became the great-grandmother of King David. Ruth was okay with leaving her people and her sister-in-law behind into her destiny. Jacob chose to leave his father-in-law Laban because he had to go toward his destiny to create
the nation of children of Israel God's chosen people.
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I'm in this position. Been married for 9years and I feel like we're not equally yoked..
That person is my mom right now and it breaks my heart but I always leave her company feeling upset / hurt and emotionally/ verbally abused . I let her Go
Block and KIck Rocks with No Socks
Another amazing teaching. I will approach next man with notes I learned from RC over 2 years. I intend to find husband❤
Let him find you work on self in this season. ❤😊
Pray God sends him don’t look
I know someone that has been in a relationship for over 30yrs, he’s not going to marry her she says she don’t want to be married, but what else is she going to say at this point it’s hurtful,but I know for me this would’ve been over 29 yrs ago!!!! It’s absolutely embarrassing to go to all the weddings they go to & be asked why y’all isn’t married, I feel a person can’t do no more then you allow them to.
My mother.😢
I got a whole Heap out of this!! Thank you so very much.. Bishop Blakes!! GOD Bless & Keep you always!! SHALOM!! 🤗🙏🏾💪🏾
Early Childhood Education is an energy taker but we have more understanding for them. Grown ups, not so much......
The Lord surround you with His favor as with a shield along with your families, friends and ministry.
Bishop Blakes, God's mighty hand be upon you and your wife and families. always.💚
Even persons in your church maybe on different paths as you are, sad but true where you have to let them go because they are not align with you spiritually and you notice this when you start seeing them outside of church wear and they ask you for a date.Amazingly sad what you see and hear from them.Especially when they suppose to know better.
Good morning/ afternoon everyone! ❤
Good morning beautiful.
Blessings in abundance to you and your family.
I just love u.u r a legitimate spiritual dad
Good evening Rev. Blake amen amen I Declare and Decree this message. This is where I am at today. Period letting go of people places and things that are in the way of my personal growth. My children my grandchildren. Come church folk also. Neighbor's toxic situations all the above
After 3 months is too soon imo. People are able to keep their masks on for 3 months minimal, so if you really want to know if you are a good match and want to know the person I think one year is more wise. However, he must have a wish to marry for himself.
This is all true!!! 💯 ITA!
Like a sucker punch to the gut, kicked by a horse,
I'm in so much pain. I am traumatized and terrified.
UNBEARABLE SUFFERING.
UNIMAGINABLE PAIN.
I'M DYING.
JUST DYING.
having the devil inside him, is a legit explanation for what he's done to me...
I am in misery. I am miserable. I am in hell. hell with no escape.
I can no longer take this panic; can no longer live through this pain.
he did this to me in February, and now we're in June...
the pain and the terror and the panic are unbearable.
HE FUCKING BETRAYED AND ABANDONED ME.
HOW THE ACTUAL FUCK COULD HE DO THIS TO ME?
HOW DOES HE NOT MISS ME?
HOW HOW HOW HOW HOW?????
how will I get through this?
how will I heal from this?
he purged all his dysfunctions onto me...
because he's unhealed and because he's fucked,
I ended up being the collateral damage
to his un-wellness!!
HOW WILL I EVER HEAL?
I HAVE SEVERE PTSD.
he's given me severe PTSD.
SEVERE SEVERE SEVERE.
some of the most toxic and sick people
come disguised as people that love you...
he came disguised as my best friend...
I am raped I am tortured I am tormented I am haunted
I am terrorized and terrified
and desperately panicked.
I can't breathe I don't breathe
I am paralyzed with trauma.
I want to die. I pray to die. I'm in hell with no escape.
my soul is raped.
I AM DYING OF EMOTIONAL PAIN.
THE GRIEF AND TERROR ARE ALL-CONSUMING.
the darkness. the despair. the rage. THE PANIC.
OH. MY. GOD. THE. PANIC!!!
the person whom I thought was my best friend
discarded me like garbage.
replaced me with another.
I desperately want to escape the pain that I'm in:
debilitating paralyzing all-consuming hyperventilating
panic and grief...
the guy I called my best friend,
ended up raping me.
he violently brutally viciously maliciously raped my soul.
abandoned and betrayed me.
and now I don't breathe. CAN'T BREATHE. I'M IN HELL.
I'm desperately trying to remember this. please, God, help me remember:
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I was created from all light, for I am light,
I fear no darkness. for being light, I can see beyond darkness!!! 💫
"Don't look for healing at the same feet of those who broke you."
- Rupi Kaur
Feelings are just feelings.
They are not facts!
They are not me!
And I can let them go!
♥♥♥
My narc husband of 38 years did the exact same thing to me over and over but I will not die I will live and declare the works of the Lord. Don't ever give up if you do that means he won Prayer concours every time ❤❤❤
THE SON IS GONNA SHINE 😇😇😇
THE SON IS GONNA SHINE 😇😇😇
I choose GOD 🙏
Freedom=PEACE
Me too ❤
@@1010QUEEN7
Amen 🙌
I'm so glad Pastor Blake has been speaking about what is plaguing us as "Belivers" been follow all his messages lately. Listening at work. Very enlightening ❤❤❤
Yeesss and Amen!🙏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾…
In awe!!! This is sooooo good!! Wow!!
Thanks Bishop 🙏🙌 Can you please do a topic on grieving on the passing of a loved one and how to explain to younger children. Especially when they ask where do the go after death. Thanks ‼️🙏🙌💜💛
You can tell them that God needed them back and He'll take care of them! Then find something to help them keep in touch eg a memory of a beautiful place to help them associate the absence,
This has been a challenge I have been struggling with. Am trusting God to help me walk away from what does not serve me... Thanks Pst
Thank you, your messages help affirm that I’ve done the right thing in my journey of healing and becoming
healthy.
Thank you pastor Blake's this perhaps is the most important video I have seen yet. Throughout the video I just kept saying oh I love you pastor Blake's I love you for being so honest thank you thank you from the bottom of all of our hearts! I have never had anybody speak such honesty and wisdom to me in my whole life. Once again thank you from the bottom of my heart, loved the video.
Omg! Pastor Blake preach! Especially the last one - SELF RESPECT ✊. Yep I am definitely OUT!
Thank you, Pastor Blakes for another awesome video!
We can make it, just us and God. I am to the point in my life where I just want to be alone with God. People will suck the very life out of us if we allow it. I especially love that video "Toxic Empathy", and will go back and watch it over and over again any time I feel the urge to "help" someone financially that doesn't know how to manage their money wisely. My mother used to tell me not to impose on anyone. In other words, never ask anyone for anything. She taught me to be very independent, trust myself and God. To be responsible.
Hallelujah. Hurt while you’re moving in the right direction. Don’t hurt while moving in the wrong direction
Fantastic! Excellent quality talk as always! Thank you so much!
THANKYOU HOLY ONE 👑 MY KING OF GLORY FOR ALL THY MANY BLESSINGS!!! I LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART, MIND, SOUL, BODY AND STRENGTH THAT YOU GIVE TO ME MY ONE AND ONLY TRUE LOVE ❤️ AND GOD OF MY LIFE. MY GOD ANSWERS PRAYERS!!! AMEN IN JESUS CHRIST NAME 🙏🏼❤
watching for the 4th time today, yes, it's that good!!
The message through the Holy Spirit, was the icing on the cake, confirmation, thank you Bishop
Thank you, Thank you, Thank you.
GRATITUDE 🙏🏽✨
Thank you Bishop and First Lady Lisa. 😘♥️
Thank you for your insightful messages! They are a blessing:)😇
This really helped me to also deal with forgiveness, which is hard, but to view it as getting rid of toxic influence is easier...
BLOCK & DELETE, HA...
Letting go is enough closure
Its only lonely between levels, not lonely at the top!!!Yesss!!
Mighty words RC Blakes!!🙏❤
Thanks for covering this topic.
Thank you so much, Paster Blakes. I needed to hear this today.
We are so glad to have u pastor 🙏☺️ I can't explain in words.. ty for doing the Lord's work 😊
Powerful and Timely message, Bishop! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Let it go
Freedom looks so good on us thank you, Jesus.😂❤
Wow Bishop Confirmation!! Thank you, once again for this fruit!!!🙏🏾🙌🏿
Thank You Bishop for your wholesome, wise Teaching. May the Lord God Bless You and first Lady Blakes real good. On Time Word. 🙏🏽❤
Hey sir! Could you please make a video on dealing with certain family members and whether it’s ever okay to cut them off if you don’t find the relationship beneficial. But moreso stressful etc
There’s periods where space is needed. Which can be discerned, not necessarily permanently.
This message was for me!!! THANK YOU PASTOR! :)
Amen
Thank you so much for this!!! ❤️❤️
Amen, Bishop!
This is so valuable!!!!!
AWESOME
This was for me thank you Jesus this is what in am going trough thank you holy spirit I can walk away.
You’re right Bishop
Been there to with the narcissistic people using or trying to use me sex money and even down to conversations
I’ve learned a lot listening to to you
Weather a man or just so call friends
You are such a blessing to my life. Thank you for this message.
This is such a powerful video 💯 Overflowing wisdom and revelation!🙏🕊️