A priest in love: The story of Christophe and Valérie

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    We bring you the third episode in our eight-part series on forbidden love. In this edition we head to the south of France, where Father Périchon gave up the priesthood for the love of Valérie. They are now free to live their love, but the judgmental looks of many parishioners, the anonymous letters and the insults cast a dark shadow over their relationship.
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ความคิดเห็น • 78

  • @CarlaMcCarthyPomegranate96
    @CarlaMcCarthyPomegranate96 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    He's the second Roman Catholic priest I've heard about who got married to a parishioner.

  • @Pretty-Pink-Mink
    @Pretty-Pink-Mink 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Love is Love. They should be together. The Catholic church imposed celibacy. It is not a normal way of life and quite stupid. This was not the intent of Jesus. The catholic church imposed these rules. God Bless this couple for finding true love. In 25 years I guarantee the Catholic church will change its mind. So few vocations now. My church is splitting up because both priests died. No one could be found to take their place. Sad.

  • @CajunAdrienne
    @CajunAdrienne 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    He is no longer a priest. Priesthood wasn't meant for him. I respect him more by leaving than continue to lead the woman on, and cheat his vows to the church.

    • @ginterka381996
      @ginterka381996 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He is still a priest, forever.

  • @chiajoegm1045
    @chiajoegm1045 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    The priest is in the wrong, if he cannot keep his vow of celebecy then he should have applied for laciasation and leave the church to get married. Not staying on and having an affair.

    • @glyndiakarenia9454
      @glyndiakarenia9454 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're a computer commenting

    • @bijogeojose7209
      @bijogeojose7209 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@glyndiakarenia9454 Does that mean you are an AI programmed to comment to a comment?

    • @steckihnreinhart8152
      @steckihnreinhart8152 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Brother, you need to undertsand that we are all humans and have feelings. All priest should marry again as i was for 1400 Years in Christian History.

  • @tzaoriana
    @tzaoriana 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    They took it so lightly

  • @michaelrg3836
    @michaelrg3836 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I love this story so much. God bless them!!

  • @sjcobra84
    @sjcobra84 6 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    She's hot. At least he didn't touch a kid. This was a victim less "crime" and an act between 2 consenting grown adults. Hate how religion rambles on about how the female body is a sin. Let them be and let's show understanding and forgiveness.

    • @johnfountain5770
      @johnfountain5770 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      According to Catholicism, the human body is the temple of the Holy Spirit. We don't regard anyone's body as evil. If one violates the sixth COMMANDMENT, then yes, THAT;S EVIL!

    • @joestim8707
      @joestim8707 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sherbet_Bomb. she IS HOT; but the priest conviently had forgotten His vows- the clergy,and I do not care in which Church- tell the Laity what to do, and, they ca not even keep the Law of Chastity themselves#

    • @CajunAdrienne
      @CajunAdrienne 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree!

  • @ralucadudescu
    @ralucadudescu 6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I never understood why the catholic church after 1200 requested.priests to live without getting married. The ortodox church kept the tradition - St. Peter was married - and for this reason it had very few sex scandals.

    • @elizabethmccandliss8146
      @elizabethmccandliss8146 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Raluca Dudescu at was not a priest and when he became pope he was a widower!

    • @ralucadudescu
      @ralucadudescu 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@elizabethmccandliss8146It is obvious that the apostoles were the first priests of the Christian church. St Peter was an apostle, so he was a priest all his life, receiving his mission directly from Jesus. He was married -nobody can become widow without being first married. Its true that he did not have a second wife and he became the first leader of the Christian church, but he was married while being a priest and he would have continued to be married also as a "pope" if his wife did not die. Until 1200 the catholic priests were also married, but they gave up the tradition St. Peter left.

    • @elizabethmccandliss8146
      @elizabethmccandliss8146 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Raluca Dudescu not considered priests but followers of Christ. Check it out if important to you.

    • @Anon.5216
      @Anon.5216 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sex scandals are rampant in all protestant denominations. To date in 2019, 10,000 protestant pastors in the USA alone have been convicted of paedophilia. Nothing to do with celibacy. She's certainly no oil painting!

    • @CajunAdrienne
      @CajunAdrienne 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Alexander P. Goddard no...but the wife could work and pay for her own kids.

  • @rucamo1
    @rucamo1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It's your soul friend. Be aware we are talking of all eternity. Say the act of contrition constantly.

  • @thomaspanmei7769
    @thomaspanmei7769 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    If you become priest and marriede is wrong

  • @bridgetdoman1386
    @bridgetdoman1386 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    It might sound simplistic but leave the area, or even the country.

    • @littlekiwi9724
      @littlekiwi9724 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      With what money? I bet the church didn't give him a cent.

    • @gloriakelpinski5858
      @gloriakelpinski5858 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Easier, just leave the church

  • @johnquinn6351
    @johnquinn6351 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Jesus did not require celibacy

    • @Anon.5216
      @Anon.5216 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Jesus WAS celibate.

    • @mirjamgut5617
      @mirjamgut5617 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Anon.5216 As far as we know, he was. But who knows really? And John Quinn is right: he didn't request it from others. There are only hints in the bible, in the letters of the Roman, and a first decree had been made at the synode of Elvira.

    • @nuns8126
      @nuns8126 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The Jewish law required Jews keep the 10 Commandments. Sex outside of marriage was condemned & resulting in stoneing. Remember Joseph betroth to pregnant Virgin Mary to protect her from the Jews.

  • @commess1
    @commess1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Great for you. Pave the way of change in the church.

  • @expo1706
    @expo1706 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I don't know what he saw or didn't see. For one he is much younger than she is. She looks like she also has a problem with her eyes.

  • @anitharamesh73
    @anitharamesh73 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    people has to think before getting closer to priests..you can't go very closer to them .they should be respected. if they are doing something wrong it's our mistake not theirs. we know they should live holy .if you go and touch them and hug them .they can't follow holiness. they are also human being s.they also can mistake

    • @glyndiakarenia9454
      @glyndiakarenia9454 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Liar, liar, liar pants on fire.

    • @bijogeojose7209
      @bijogeojose7209 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      What you say is true. They are human beings, just like us. They too have their own crosses to carry. We must make sure to not increase their burdens mentally, physically, or spiritually. Respect should be given to them and the sacrifices they make to lead a holy life.

    • @beachgirl4
      @beachgirl4 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So true

  • @Garbanzo884
    @Garbanzo884 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    The priest is at fault, not the woman. The priest took a vow of celibacy, which he broke.

    • @taramattiemanieram9317
      @taramattiemanieram9317 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He is wicked he fall for all temptations

    • @ewaldradavich7307
      @ewaldradavich7307 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Thomas Carney. Celibacy is a stupid requirement which serves no purpose. All it does is cause trouble, & is totally unnatural. Not even scriptural.

    • @ewaldradavich7307
      @ewaldradavich7307 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Taramattie Manieram. Celibacy is stupid.

    • @tamikoestomo3275
      @tamikoestomo3275 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@taramattiemanieram9317 And who are you, to judge so cruelly? Jesus told us not to judge.

    • @HoneyBea.
      @HoneyBea. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@taramattiemanieram9317 He is human.

  • @mariad4183
    @mariad4183 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God help us all

  • @thomtorrez7618
    @thomtorrez7618 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    And the Devil laughs .

  • @RaeZoladawn777
    @RaeZoladawn777 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    love story i think it s cool

  • @IssaSia
    @IssaSia หลายเดือนก่อน

    It is only God who can judge, He did not say to His followers not to get
    married or to love a woman. It is the church law, but not God's law as far
    as I know. Why do people judge as if they are God? The priest left his
    priesthood to be with her woman then let it be.

  • @commess1
    @commess1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Why don't they get married? So as a priest you didn't know this is a sin? Get married.

  • @flowjowi8721
    @flowjowi8721 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The former priest should go to confession and denounce his priestly vows and he will no longer become a priest then he should marry that woman. But now he is in grave sin.Vow to that woman who didn't stop the priest from kissing her. Vow to her!

  • @barbarasanchezmitchell4213
    @barbarasanchezmitchell4213 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yoiu broke the celibacy vow that's the bishop reason to get rid of you you can not serve 2 master

  • @sfreply
    @sfreply 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    They should become Anglican.

  • @raymondlangat.1956
    @raymondlangat.1956 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    this is a very common practice in Africa

  • @darmikisten6129
    @darmikisten6129 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It's natural to be involved. However it depends on the one how he or she takes it

  • @commess1
    @commess1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    They got married I hope?

  • @ginterka381996
    @ginterka381996 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    :( Jesus have mercy for this poor priest.

    • @starcityrc3298
      @starcityrc3298 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yeshua Hamashiach have mercy on you!
      For you Judge remember you will be judged by the same standard you used to judge

  • @raphaelc4091
    @raphaelc4091 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This is sick. He should remember the vow he did when becoming a priest.

    • @catholics4unity
      @catholics4unity 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The fact that he had his hand near her crotch on television was also a disgusting display of public affection.

    • @lyndawilliams4570
      @lyndawilliams4570 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Have you taken a vow of celibacy?

  • @manorama12
    @manorama12 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Being the reason for the fall of a priest from his priesthood is a grave sin as per the Holy Bible. It is sad.

    • @edithbaffoe1745
      @edithbaffoe1745 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are a liar, okay if you don't lie write the scripture please and I will go read for I have read from Genesis to revelations and there is nothing such as what you wrote.

    • @tendoritah8308
      @tendoritah8308 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Quote the scripture please

  • @smash2172
    @smash2172 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have a question. Can priest like kiss someone? I mean they don't have any sexual contact aside from kissing. Is that acceptable. Someone answer me please. Thank you.

    • @chris_rubber_ducky1153
      @chris_rubber_ducky1153 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      since the priest is married to church, he can't do anything with another human. so, no he can't kiss anyone. it's like a man is married to a woman, he shouldn't kiss another person too, right? that's kind of the same. hopefully it helps. :)

    • @smash2172
      @smash2172 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@chris_rubber_ducky1153 Ohh. Thank you so much.

  • @carolbecker3152
    @carolbecker3152 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This is why I can not believe in the Catholic Church what I see written down below about these people by other Catholic people they do not know the real Bible as there Church keep them from knowing it, Glade these two people have each other they do need to get married though. And the Catholic Church needs to let the Priest and Nun's get married. From a none Catholic.

  • @melkam9917
    @melkam9917 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Much respect for the laity they lambasted the priest for his infidelity, he won't be justified in anyway.

    • @RebekahAPinto
      @RebekahAPinto ปีที่แล้ว

      Infidelity, what infidelity? He's not having an extra marital affair. The both of them were single when they met each other, therefore, are free to marry like everyone else.

    • @melkam9917
      @melkam9917 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@RebekahAPinto My dear a priest by the virtue of his clerical state is vowed to remain celibate till his death.

    • @RebekahAPinto
      @RebekahAPinto ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@melkam9917 That, I know.

  • @georgianacharlemagne4324
    @georgianacharlemagne4324 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Have mercy on this priest. The enemy is making mince meat out cof our priest, when the enemy attacks they always think it is love

    • @starcityrc3298
      @starcityrc3298 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Be Fruitful and Multiple!
      Name a Disciple who swore Celibacy?
      Peter was married! Do you think you are better than Peter?

  • @ann.m.4794
    @ann.m.4794 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    hypocrites