Wenze you've done it again! Seriously you touched on something I was thinking about the last few days. Started crying and felt kinda crappy afterwards. Realized that as crappy as my current situation is, I can make it better. I understood what you meant about wanting to be a hero. that's my fantasy world since I was a teen. that I can save everyone, that everyone will love me if I do xyz, but reality is that I can't. I died inside a few montha back. I neglected my desired and pursuits for other peoples wishes and goals. Now I am accepting my reality and making my own path. Scary, but I've never felt so confident before. I wonder if INFJs are symbolic to a Phoenix. We go through hell, be it self made or otherwise, and eventually we can't take all that pain and crash and burn. Fom that we're trapoed in the void, where we come face to face with reality. only here we're reborn. We make new patterns, new perspectives. We discover that the only way to be happy, to find that one thing were searching for, to make an impact in this world is to ACCEPT, BE, CREATE and DO. Repeat. Thank you so much for what you do, you have no idea how much each of your videos have kept me going the last few months! I'm so grateful to have came across your videos!! It makes the battle that much more victorious!!
+Shaheen S Glad to hear I can be helpful! And don't give up on being able to help people at some point but not for the price of not saving yourself. We have to cherish our own lives as well :) And yes, I have felt like a pheonix too and still do very often...I think that is what happens to people to wanna know and wanna keep on growing. And the more and more we find ourselves in the process
Thanks for helping us Wenzes. I want to call you mighty warrior and not in a joking way. I see humans as very much pack animals that unfortunately let sociopaths rise to an alpha level, simply because they will use any and all destructive/manipulative tools to succeed without the least thought of the hurt and damage of others. And they do succeed at this. Our goal must be to develop a countervailing force alternative for our sake and for the sake of others. The biggest gift we have is that the Sociopaths are blind to the heart and we as INFJs contain in us a profound knowledge of the heart in all of humanity and we as leaders can appeal to this force in ourselves and others. That's an aspect of Wenzes use of the concept of "fighting for ourselves."
...and the best part about it is that when you develop in that direction all ‚sociopaths‘ etc. vanish from your life! I have zero contact with negative people and that wasn‘t always the case...once we raise the standard for the energy we surround ourselves with our reality surely changes as well
Good Video you, INFJ... Imagination starts in the mind first and then you manifest it in reality, and that can come in many formats... Yes the world is a cold place, and there is a lot of misunderstanding between people, My solution is to build up my own internal system, then that reflects in the environment around me, and that's a form of encouragement to others who see my positive transfiguration with out saying many words just action! What I learned is for me I need a balanced support system, and My Ti-Ne Has to connect all the dots in a logical formation, then transfiguration takes place, and internal harmony takes root... Ti-Ne-Si-Fe!
Glad to be back in touch!!! You are Right on target here!!!! Purpose in life, making a difference....keeping focus on all of us in this together...loving & Sharing & Enjoying the process.....each moment of our Journey!
I've created a whole world in my mind and completely neglected the real world. For some reason I fear the real world in many ways. And yes I agree that art saves us from the truth. It's a perfect distraction which is why I couldn't live without my music.
I sometimes think life can be a call to live on your knees with those abusive people in your life, or die on your feet alone. I think that fear of isolation which feels like a death and literally may be, makes people accept abusive destructive people around them. Wenzes is trying to point out a third possible way to deal with those people, including getting rid of them, with energy and knowledge. I think I get how energy draining those people are and how it becomes a cycle of defeat if we don't have the energy we need to be empowered to take control and not hide the light of our candle but we must use every skill we can muster to shine the candle. Like she says we're a gift and I'm beginning to see the biggest tragedy is to not let that gift shine.
It's a case of our having to take initiative and proactively build our lives even when you don't like what's happening. And we do it right in the middle of it. I liked the comparison/contrast with us Ni's and Sensors. Lots of good thoughts here.
Easier said than done. The older I get the more evil I see in others. A lot of people act against each other or screw people's lives up just for sport or fun or power. I just don't get it. It's hard to accept but this world is jam packed full of takers and abusers and people who just don't care. I liked your video though. :)
Richard Peate Are you choosing to let others define your purpose in life? You cannot just reject the existence of difficult people. By saying "But what about the bad people out there?" you aren't taking responsibility for you acquiring the skills and knowledge to manage difficult people. When it rains, we find shelter, or if we can't, endure getting wet and get dry as asap. Use the same strategy and be proactive in equipping yourself to cope with such people. There are books, articles, and videos on assertiveness and interpersonal skills. There are also classes in these subjects. Learn how to manage your emotions and take care of yourself. All these will give you the tools and confidence to manage this aspect of being in the world.
Wenze you've done it again! Seriously you touched on something I was thinking about the last few days. Started crying and felt kinda crappy afterwards. Realized that as crappy as my current situation is, I can make it better. I understood what you meant about wanting to be a hero. that's my fantasy world since I was a teen. that I can save everyone, that everyone will love me if I do xyz, but reality is that I can't. I died inside a few montha back. I neglected my desired and pursuits for other peoples wishes and goals. Now I am accepting my reality and making my own path. Scary, but I've never felt so confident before.
I wonder if INFJs are symbolic to a Phoenix. We go through hell, be it self made or otherwise, and eventually we can't take all that pain and crash and burn. Fom that we're trapoed in the void, where we come face to face with reality. only here we're reborn. We make new patterns, new perspectives. We discover that the only way to be happy, to find that one thing were searching for, to make an impact in this world is to ACCEPT, BE, CREATE and DO. Repeat.
Thank you so much for what you do, you have no idea how much each of your videos have kept me going the last few months! I'm so grateful to have came across your videos!! It makes the battle that much more victorious!!
+Shaheen S Glad to hear I can be helpful! And don't give up on being able to help people at some point but not for the price of not saving yourself. We have to cherish our own lives as well :) And yes, I have felt like a pheonix too and still do very often...I think that is what happens to people to wanna know and wanna keep on growing. And the more and more we find ourselves in the process
Ahhhh.. So MUCH, I agree! Thank you!!!
Wow...your comment is pure fire 🔥
Thanks for helping us Wenzes. I want to call you mighty warrior and not in a joking way. I see humans as very much pack animals that unfortunately let sociopaths rise to an alpha level, simply because they will use any and all destructive/manipulative tools to succeed without the least thought of the hurt and damage of others. And they do succeed at this. Our goal must be to develop a countervailing force alternative for our sake and for the sake of others. The biggest gift we have is that the Sociopaths are blind to the heart and we as INFJs contain in us a profound knowledge of the heart in all of humanity and we as leaders can appeal to this force in ourselves and others. That's an aspect of Wenzes use of the concept of "fighting for ourselves."
...and the best part about it is that when you develop in that direction all ‚sociopaths‘ etc. vanish from your life! I have zero contact with negative people and that wasn‘t always the case...once we raise the standard for the energy we surround ourselves with our reality surely changes as well
Right on! Thank.you
Good Video you, INFJ... Imagination starts in the mind first and then you manifest it in reality, and that can come in many formats... Yes the world is a cold place, and there is a lot of misunderstanding between people, My solution is to build up my own internal system, then that reflects in the environment around me, and that's a form of encouragement to others who see my positive transfiguration with out saying many words just action! What I learned is for me I need a balanced support system, and My Ti-Ne Has to connect all the dots in a logical formation, then transfiguration takes place, and internal harmony takes root... Ti-Ne-Si-Fe!
Glad to be back in touch!!! You are Right on target here!!!! Purpose in life, making a difference....keeping focus on all of us in this together...loving & Sharing & Enjoying the process.....each moment of our Journey!
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Im rewatching your videos and still benefiting fron them ! Thanks for being part of my self-growth journey ;)
Thank you!!!
Insightful and genuine , thank you!
I've created a whole world in my mind and completely neglected the real world. For some reason I fear the real world in many ways. And yes I agree that art saves us from the truth. It's a perfect distraction which is why I couldn't live without my music.
Me too
I sometimes think life can be a call to live on your knees with those abusive people in your life, or die on your feet alone. I think that fear of isolation which feels like a death and literally may be, makes people accept abusive destructive people around them. Wenzes is trying to point out a third possible way to deal with those people, including getting rid of them, with energy and knowledge. I think I get how energy draining those people are and how it becomes a cycle of defeat if we don't have the energy we need to be empowered to take control and not hide the light of our candle but we must use every skill we can muster to shine the candle. Like she says we're a gift and I'm beginning to see the biggest tragedy is to not let that gift shine.
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It's a case of our having to take initiative and proactively build our lives even when you don't like what's happening. And we do it right in the middle of it. I liked the comparison/contrast with us Ni's and Sensors. Lots of good thoughts here.
just found out im an infj and seen your videos and theyre really good xxx
Wenzes really great video. I related so much. I really appreciate it. It was the most important thing that I needed to hear nowadays.
+kiritik thank you Irmak!
I mean amazing
great video wenzes
Easier said than done. The older I get the more evil I see in others. A lot of people act against each other or screw people's lives up just for sport or fun or power. I just don't get it. It's hard to accept but this world is jam packed full of takers and abusers and people who just don't care.
I liked your video though. :)
Richard Peate Are you choosing to let others define your purpose in life? You cannot just reject the existence of difficult people. By saying "But what about the bad people out there?" you aren't taking responsibility for you acquiring the skills and knowledge to manage difficult people. When it rains, we find shelter, or if we can't, endure getting wet and get dry as asap. Use the same strategy and be proactive in equipping yourself to cope with such people. There are books, articles, and videos on assertiveness and interpersonal skills. There are also classes in these subjects. Learn how to manage your emotions and take care of yourself. All these will give you the tools and confidence to manage this aspect of being in the world.
You are my twin.
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