Months into my journey I discovered I had been married to an NPD for 30 years. This video was an excellent source of info and so bang on. Dealing with my codependency and empathic nature and learning to truly love myself has been its reward. Thank you for the guest speaker today Mark!
Setting boundaries made me feel like the narcissist because I wasn’t compromising but he was asking me to agree to things that weren’t real and self sabotage. My intuition was 💯 every time.
His accusations of insecurity and years of gaslighting led me to do my own work. Makes him easier to heal from. Grateful the depth of love led to healing deeper wounds.
Thank you, Mark, for yet another deeply insightful podcast. And many thanks to Stefanos as well, for speaking on a dark topic that needs all the light it can get. Well done gentleman. ❤️👏👏👏
As I have been conquering a spirit of reactive abuse to a female narc who smeared me half a decade ago (battled feelings of wanting to expose her, go off on her, even get physical with her), I just wanna say to her: "You do know God is and has been watching you acting aggressive towards people with the intention of getting negative reactions, watched you when you acted aggressive towards me hoping I'd react and then use my reactive abuse to smear me, watched you when you DID smear me when I called out you on your bad behavior, is watching you now if you still have any evil intentions if I break no contact to reach out to you and ask you WHY you did the vindictive things you do (not to mention ask her how you can claim to be a Christian yet feel comfortable uploading vulgar posts online that are still viewable years later)?" 😤
you guys are incredible but most of the pathological narcissists we get involved with in trauma bonds ( not typical avoidant types ) are beyond the realm of getting help or the right questions at the right times. I am a woman in my 40s with definite codependent tendencies but really more of an empath and there was no way and is no way he can or will ever be introspective enough to really change. i’ve tried everything over the past 2 years. the lack of self awareness is too deeply ingrained in their 30s. amazing interview.
Months into my journey I discovered I had been married to an NPD for 30 years. This video was an excellent source of info and so bang on. Dealing with my codependency and empathic nature and learning to truly love myself has been its reward. Thank you for the guest speaker today Mark!
Setting boundaries made me feel like the narcissist because I wasn’t compromising but he was asking me to agree to things that weren’t real and self sabotage. My intuition was 💯 every time.
His accusations of insecurity and years of gaslighting led me to do my own work. Makes him easier to heal from. Grateful the depth of love led to healing deeper wounds.
I’m an extroverted HSP and I couldn’t have agreed more with all of this!
Thank you, Mark, for yet another deeply insightful podcast. And many thanks to Stefanos as well, for speaking on a dark topic that needs all the light it can get. Well done gentleman. ❤️👏👏👏
In my experience, covert narcissists are self-deprecating rather than grandiose. That so-called vulnerability is also a hook.
The two of you together, in service of education and growth, amazing ✨🙏🏻 Deep appreciation for your work, thank you🙏🏻❤️
Phenomenal video. Thank you both 🙏
Base camp at Everest - yeahhhhh pretty much
As I have been conquering a spirit of reactive abuse to a female narc who smeared me half a decade ago (battled feelings of wanting to expose her, go off on her, even get physical with her), I just wanna say to her:
"You do know God is and has been watching you acting aggressive towards people with the intention of getting negative reactions, watched you when you acted aggressive towards me hoping I'd react and then use my reactive abuse to smear me, watched you when you DID smear me when I called out you on your bad behavior, is watching you now if you still have any evil intentions if I break no contact to reach out to you and ask you WHY you did the vindictive things you do (not to mention ask her how you can claim to be a Christian yet feel comfortable uploading vulgar posts online that are still viewable years later)?" 😤
you guys are incredible but most of the pathological narcissists we get involved with in trauma bonds ( not typical avoidant types ) are beyond the realm of getting help or the right questions at the right times. I am a woman in my 40s with definite codependent tendencies but really more of an empath and there was no way and is no way he can or will ever be introspective enough to really change. i’ve tried everything over the past 2 years. the lack of self awareness is too deeply ingrained in their 30s. amazing interview.