he can grieve the loss of his mistress, and while he's grieving , he can go ahead and grieve the loss of his marriage because he's been disrespecting you this whole time.
Plus if he already did it once more than likely he will do it again he obviously doesn’t care about the marriage otherwise he would’ve went to marriage counseling like she asked.
Exactly, I would hire a private investigator to research the deceased and her husband. If what the investigator found was indeed true, then I would use that information in divorce court against him!!! So, he could grieve for the loss of everything else while he was at it!!! The nerve of her husband!!! She needs to have a "Waiting to Exhale Moment" on his tail!!!
@@InnerRise movie starts with dude narrating from beyond the grave or the wife telling the story from behind bars. Orange is the new black type ish. In any event, he’s dead and the coworker/side chick taking a beatdown, even if she’s preggo.
God does not want His children to be abused. This is emotional abuse. Divorce is not a sin. This person has also come between another marriage. If God sanctioned this marriage, He will bless her with a husband that is true to Him, then he will be faithful to her.
Quietly and straight away. Let him work thru his grieve on his own. Forsake: The trauma bond to support him in this. Whatever. ONCE he’s done grieving, we the can both decide if we want any marriage together but definitely NOT the one we once had!!!
YES you NEED to give him space & time to grieve ...how about the rest of his life? because clearly the person he was in love with DIED....run while you still can! you deserve better & certainly to be loved!
That would be the best thing to do...he's not even willing to go to therapy so he's bound to cheat again. Plus he was too invested in the mistress and thats too far gone for me. I will be done and let him mourn in peace
That's what I'm saying. Ain't no way I'd put up with this absolute bs. If you feel that guilty, ghost him. No reason to even talk about it you'll just end up being guilted into staying in an awful relationship and he's going to cheat again anyway. Ghost him.
😂😂...yeah right! Most of ya'll won't ever leave a ninja even if ya'll caught him with the other chick. That's the problem. Ya'll would rather go after the side chick then leave the cheater. So please spare acting like you bout that life on the internet! 🥱 Females put too much faith in these dudes and can't leave because you didn't handle your own business...
When the next man and men cheat and they are not your husband. This is why women are baby mamas. You only operate in emotions. You don't apply logic. Life after a divorce will be hard. Good luck with dating. You already know that because you have never been married.
I'm thankful your comments are not like the others. There is no telling how God can turn their marriage around and give them a testimony, and they give the glory to God. Yes, prayer is the best thing for them.
Even if their marriage can't be saved she needs to tune out all of the noise of "friends" because she would end up doing something that can't be undone. Prayers help keep you grounded and focused on the Lord and the plan He has for them. But it will be a testimony either way. And like you said God can turn things around and this mess will become their message.
He would be grieving me next after having an affair, and quitting his job. I would be at the court house filing my paperwork. I don't believe in kicking you when you are down but this would be a Field Goal!!!!!!
Life after divorce and still paying your divorce attorney. The effect the divorce will take on your kids and you will not be a field goal. Counseling costs money and it still might not help your kids. When your kids start acting out because of the divorce. When you are struggling financially, it's because you said forget better or worse. When you are out here single and other men cheat on you or they only want to have sex, you choose a divorce.
@@termainefields3342 Not in all cases. All three of my kids from my ex husband are productive citizens, 2 college grads and one currently enrolled who is autistic and doing excellent. Never paid for an attorney because I didn't need one. I Split everything up equally and left.We were both making decent money. If you put out negative energy you get it back. I bought my own home within months of the divorce and am about to retire early. Just know your worth and keep it cute.
Just like my mom who is married to a dude on the registered sex offenders list….and who use to molest me as a child going into my teen years………females are very desperate. I just keep praising god
Her even asking if she should allow him to grieve says she's with the $#!+s. That's a terrible situation to be in and I hope she realizes that she deserves better sooner than later.
Cheated on his wife, doesn't know if the baby she was carrying was his, quit his job, AND grieving in her face? Not only doesn't he respect her, he doesn't fear any consequences, like the wife unaliving him in his sleep. He knows she ain't gonna do anything. He feels comfortable disrespecting his wife because she's not the one he really wants.
I do agree with part of what the king said. She and the recent widow should have joint and individual counseling. To complete this lifetime movie saga, they would get married. Shania Twain divorced her husband for cheating with a married woman. Shania later bonded and married the adulterer's former.
This is just to much no way would I be in bed with my So called husband as he is crying in the night and trembling no way.... Truly it sounds like you are the side chick not her
He betrayed you and had an affair, so you don't owe him any type of sympathy! The fact that he's "grieving" and claiming he misses her speaks volumes. Kick him to the curb and let him grieve for the dead side-chick and you!
Love is unconditional. When things happen people like you forget the vows that you made to God. For better or worse. You are not thinking about your kids and how this will affect them. You are all in your emotions . Divorce is like death. Marriage is a sacred union with God. God said what he joined together should not separate. Women filed for the most divorce and are complaining and miserable after the divorce.
Your next step is a divorce attorney consultation. Brother man is delusional and needs to grieve not only losing the mistress but his marriage being gone. How in the hell is he coming to you for comfort over some other dead chick. Buddy is outta pocket. She can’t even go through her full range of emotions due to this raggedy dude.
There is a scene in the movie Ray, where Ray Charles breaks down crying when he learns of the death of his "road wife." The look on his wife's face says it all. She realizes that he clearly loved this woman. Y'all menfolk be some funny creatures! 🤔
@@tinytt854Most women do this type of thing, old tea🍵. My great granny and her husband had this type of marriage. He had a travel job that took him everywhere. Months at a time he'd be gone for "work" but he paid the bills, was a family man when he came home and made her feel special with gifts.
I worked with a guy back in 2000 whose girlfriend suddenly died. He was grieving and couldn't understand why his wife didn't understand. I was an open ear for him, but I was thinking this man is nuts. They eventually divorced. Some years later, he married a woman he knew for a very short time. I heard it wasn't going well.
The last sentence of that message is troubling my soul. She wrote, *"...Or should I demand he focus on our marriage?"* Listen, I hate to be the one to smack you in the face with truth, but, dear, 📢 *YOU DO NOT HAVE A MARRIAGE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!* The dude you are inexplicably allowing to remain in your home does not give a crap about you. He destroyed your marriage with some homewrecking garden tool, and now that she's in Hell, he is STILL cheating on you with her foul spirit. He ain't 💩 and neither was she. You need to get your Elsa on and *LET IT GO!!!*
He is deeply in love with his dead mistress, and her memory will always be a 3rd person in their marriage, and his wife will never be able to compete with that. The best thing his wife can do is give him all the time he needs to grieve his mistress by divorcing him and giving him his freedom.
I will be going to divorce court because if she would have still been living and had the baby he would still be messing with that other woman so he can just cry his ass on in the divorce court Period!!!!!
Leave him sis, she was clearly the love of his life. There is no MF way my husband would be in our marital bed crying and trembling over his side chick and playing the victim!
🤨 Wake up! He didn’t plan to leave b/c she wasn’t leaving her husband. You don’t have a husband. You have someone else’s widower. Take control of your life and get rid of this dead weight. Pun intended! 😂
This letter should be titled "how do i develop self-respect and self-esteem?" The fact that he is comfortable telling you all of this and has the NERVE to TELL you to be considerate of him grieving is undeniable proof that he has NO respect for you and knows you are a doormat. Only a doormat of a woman wouldnt punch a man dead in his mouth talking to her like this!
WOW! Unfortunately, this type of thing does exist. My cousin’s husband did this, the mistress even purchased a house around the corner from them. When the mistress passed away my cousins husband was depressed. She told him “Lick your wounds like the dog you are, get it together and keep it moving!” When asked why she stayed, her response was “He is getting that fat ass pension and I’m not about to part with it!”
May no man ever have me like this in Jesus name!😭😂 Ma’am! If you were the one mourning your dead work bf who had died suddenly would he be doing what you’re doing? Sheesshhh😂
Whew, a woman died in the sin of adultery 😢😢. Ma'am, u on the other hand still have life in your body. Make everyday count. Build your relationship with God and let Him handle your "husband".
If the man doesn't want to work on the marriage and prefers to go to a grief counselor, he's telling you that woman was and is above you in his heart. Leave! leave! leave! The conversation is over. He told you what it was, believe him!
He in so many ways, even in grieving, told you he has no love or respect for you. He just doesn’t want to lose wife benefits from you. Divorce him. That way he can spend the rest of his life mourning his dead mistress in peace.
Imagine if the tables were flipped . She was grieving over her side man and all of a sudden he dies of an accident and she demands her husband to understand and to allow her to grief in peace not giving 0 F#^# of betraying her husband. I GUARANTEE YOU HER HUSBAND WOULD KICK HER OUT NO MERCY
he can grieve the loss of his mistress, and while he's grieving , he can go ahead and grieve the loss of his marriage because he's been disrespecting you this whole time.
For real 👏🏽👏🏽💯ain’t no way
Plus if he already did it once more than likely he will do it again he obviously doesn’t care about the marriage otherwise he would’ve went to marriage counseling like she asked.
Exactly, I would hire a private investigator to research the deceased and her husband. If what the investigator found was indeed true, then I would use that information in divorce court against him!!! So, he could grieve for the loss of everything else while he was at it!!! The nerve of her husband!!! She needs to have a "Waiting to Exhale Moment" on his tail!!!
Yessss
Yup, get both them birds in one fell swoop
Yes, she should give him the rest of his days to mourn and from another address! Audacity is high!
Yes indeed! Amen! Ann Stewart, I'm with you. I second your motion, 👏🏾
AMEN!!!!!!!!!!
@@annstewart8506 Time to find a new place indeed.
High indeed !😤
High😂😂😂😂
That sound like a script for a new Typer Perry Movie.
YES😂😂😂😂
Why Did I Stay Married?😂
Most definitely does
Factz no printer😂😂😂
Nah, TP scripts not that clever. Keep us outta this foolishness, it sounds like some soap opera shiii
What in the LIFETIME MOVIE NETWORK is going on here???!!!
That’s EXACTLY what I said 😂 !!! You can tell this not BET 😂
hahahaha
@@boot_leg_ramen_noodle
DEAD
How would this play out on BET?💀
@@InnerRise movie starts with dude narrating from beyond the grave or the wife telling the story from behind bars. Orange is the new black type ish. In any event, he’s dead and the coworker/side chick taking a beatdown, even if she’s preggo.
I just made your point.
Put on your most comfortable pair of shoes and walk away...and don't ever look back.
😂😂😂👟🩴
At this point, she can walk away barefoot, just go lady!!!
@@Always_Meeka😅😅😅
AMEN!!! He can mourn by himself! Cause I would be mourning the wasted years I had with a disrespectful cheater! 😠
Right. She sounds like a weak pushover. Sheesh. 🤪
There would be no conversation and
The only place I’m going is to a divorce lawyer.
God is in charge.
God does not want His children to be abused. This is emotional abuse. Divorce is not a sin. This person has also come between another marriage. If God sanctioned this marriage, He will bless her with a husband that is true to Him, then he will be faithful to her.
That's right
Quietly and straight away. Let him work thru his grieve on his own.
Forsake: The trauma bond to support him in this. Whatever.
ONCE he’s done grieving, we the can both decide if we want any marriage together but definitely NOT the one we once had!!!
@@indiagray9884 Prove all things... What bible verse says that divorce is not a sin?
Mourning your mistress in our home. I'd be in court not for a misdemeanor but a FELONY.
Ikr, I don't think I could maintain my composure, this is too much..
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Then you should've left bc he was cheating. Tf. Y'all sound silly as hell
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Thats not his first affair and will not be his last! Leave!
This dude is outta control! At the very least he should be grieving in silence. 😂
💯..
No. At the very least he needs to leave and give his wife peace.
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@Tey…… Totally agree 👍🏽
@@indiagray9884 she didn't want peace or she would've left when he was cheating...these are the breaks when you stay with your cheating ass spouse
🤔Her "husband?"🧐 From what I've read it sounds to me like the wife became the sidechick lol 😆 🤦♂️🤷♂️😅.
Yes....that's how it goes sometimes unfortunately...
I read it as the wife secretly killed her😅
The two men should met..lawd 😂
What the hell 😳😱
Sounds bout rite 😅
He wouldn't be grieving long because he would be joining her. Lol
LOL 🤣🤣🤦🏽♀️
Oh my😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
I read your response whilst drinking and sprayed all over the place in laughter. Well said ….😂😂😂😂
I'd be doing 25-30
He found himself a fool fool 😂😂😂😂
Amen amen and amen
Stupid is as stupid does
He’d be grieving and divorcing at the same time👀🤦🏽♀️
@Laura……… Well said 😂😂👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
Same d@mn time! You hear me! 👏🏾🎯
@ For real💯💯💯
Said perfectly!!
I couldn't have said it no better. Bye guy.👋👋
Even got Shuler speechless on this one😂
Baby, run not walk to see a lawyer. He is mourning his love and you are still breathing
For real. He has tabanca but not for you.
Girl if u don't get your pick me ass up and get a divorce lawyer..
😂😂😂😂 Hilarious but nothing and I mean NOTHING BUT FACTSSSSSS
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
She’s pathetic! He doesn’t want you girl! Accept it and move on!
😂😂😂😂 Right! He needs time to mourn. Divorce + alimony
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YES you NEED to give him space & time to grieve ...how about the rest of his life? because clearly the person he was in love with DIED....run while you still can! you deserve better & certainly to be loved!
Why don't you go find a divorce lawyer .
Right
That would be the best thing to do...he's not even willing to go to therapy so he's bound to cheat again. Plus he was too invested in the mistress and thats too far gone for me. I will be done and let him mourn in peace
@@Kya9085THIS!
That's what I'm saying. Ain't no way I'd put up with this absolute bs. If you feel that guilty, ghost him. No reason to even talk about it you'll just end up being guilted into staying in an awful relationship and he's going to cheat again anyway. Ghost him.
😂😂...yeah right! Most of ya'll won't ever leave a ninja even if ya'll caught him with the other chick. That's the problem. Ya'll would rather go after the side chick then leave the cheater. So please spare acting like you bout that life on the internet! 🥱 Females put too much faith in these dudes and can't leave because you didn't handle your own business...
While he’s in grief counseling, go to divorce counseling sis and go get you a lawyer so you can give something to really ‘grieve’ about 😂
Absolutely
That whole situation
🎶 Looks Like A Love TKO, I Think She Better Let It Go.🎶
Let it go 🎶
Hell yeah!!!
73 years young. Yes, Lawd!!!!!! Teddy Pendergrass.😊😊
Let it go, baby. NOW! ✨️🤔💛
LET IT GOOOOOO 🎶
“Do YOU need to give HIM time”…..………Lady!! You is desperate! Pack up! Go! Run! Flee! Exit!! Get on somewhere! No ma’am!!
What kind of Mojo is this???👿
Git to be mojo cause common sense don't work like that.
“I’m free I’m free…I’m not a puppet on a string not attached to anyone”should be your song
Nah. This ain't Fences. Wish him well...but well away from you.
😂😂😂😂
Exactly!!!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽😂
Lol that's all i was thinking...Fences?
Lol not Fences! Denzel was tripping in that movie!
I wish She would STOP SAYING MY HUSBAND 👀
Right he hasn’t been her husband for a long damn time!
It IS her husband despite the consequences. Ya'll give up on relationships over petty stuff.
@ a Mistress and a Baby is petty sh*t 👌
@@niasmith3680 Marriages are not perfect. It is obvious she loves her husband and wants to continue being in the marriage.
Cant compete with a dead woman & her memory. Be blessed & gone at the same time!
Amen 🙏🏾. Sometimes the blessing is in the going.
This is too much 😂
Toooo damned much .
2 DANG MUCH
Stupid is a drug
This is too much 😔😮💨
These men know who to play with, I tell ya
Don't they though
I’m telling u…cause babyyyyy
@@lenejaia I would've become a female Dexter( from Netflix)- I'm mad just reading
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My thoughts exactly
So when he moves onto the next affair, will you give him extented time to grieve, I cannot 😂😂
When the next man and men cheat and they are not your husband. This is why women are baby mamas. You only operate in emotions. You don't apply logic. Life after a divorce will be hard. Good luck with dating. You already know that because you have never been married.
He must of been the bread winner and she was a house wife with no where else to go. Ain’t no way a working woman staying
That has to be it..ain't no way in h€ll!!!
Can’t be because the “husband” quit HIS job and she’s not even worried about it.
This woman needs so major healing and psychotherapy cuz wow….😧
We are gonna put you on the prayer list and in the words of my great grandmother..."we gon pray your strength in the Lord"......
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I'm thankful your comments are not like the others. There is no telling how God can turn their marriage around and give them a testimony, and they give the glory to God. Yes, prayer is the best thing for them.
Even if their marriage can't be saved she needs to tune out all of the noise of "friends" because she would end up doing something that can't be undone. Prayers help keep you grounded and focused on the Lord and the plan He has for them. But it will be a testimony either way. And like you said God can turn things around and this mess will become their message.
Jerry Springer and Maury is needed for that catastrophe.
Maury retired and Jerry is dead - they shit out of luck lol
@@theorderofthebees7308oh my😅😅
Call Iyanla 😂😂
@@theorderofthebees7308😮😮😮
Indeed🤦🏾♀️
He would be grieving me next after having an affair, and quitting his job. I would be at the court house filing my paperwork. I don't believe in kicking you when you are down but this would be a Field Goal!!!!!!
😅 straight through the goal posts!!
I wish I could like your comment more than once! 😂😂
@@EJay00 💯 agree!
Life after divorce and still paying your divorce attorney. The effect the divorce will take on your kids and you will not be a field goal. Counseling costs money and it still might not help your kids. When your kids start acting out because of the divorce. When you are struggling financially, it's because you said forget better or worse. When you are out here single and other men cheat on you or they only want to have sex, you choose a divorce.
@@termainefields3342 Not in all cases. All three of my kids from my ex husband are productive citizens, 2 college grads and one currently enrolled who is autistic and doing excellent. Never paid for an attorney because I didn't need one. I Split everything up equally and left.We were both making decent money. If you put out negative energy you get it back. I bought my own home within months of the divorce and am about to retire early. Just know your worth and keep it cute.
😂😂😂 my man is wild. She needs to leave his ass point blank period 😢
Release him and save your sleep. Let the grief counselor deal with the 3am calls.
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Her calling him still “ my husband” is more disturbing to me. She needs therapy first. Something is wrong 😂😂😂😂😂
Just like my mom who is married to a dude on the registered sex offenders list….and who use to molest me as a child going into my teen years………females are very desperate. I just keep praising god
Is she wrong? Until they divorce, that's exactly what he is. He's the one that stepped out of line and needs to get himself together. Vows are vows
Crazy how she don't feel disrespected
Some people will put up with ish just to keep a 'man'. Including share🤮
This is crazy and weird he'll be grieving right on out the door
Exactly! Grieving until he finds a new side chick replacement. This woman is crazy to be considering staying with this man 😂
This is not a man, but a man-child.
Her and her husband both need a Marriage Counselor, a Therapist, a Psychiatrist.
NOPE! He'll end up having an affair with the therapist if she's a female!
She can divorce him and get therapy cause she definitely needs it thinking she can save something he doesn't want/respect.
All she needs is a no fault divorce and some boots made for walking.
And JESUS!!
A lawyer and a new address
This is movie waiting to happen,I’ve never in my life seen or heard of this 😂😂
This has further aggravated my trust issues!! He was happily living a whole nutha' life!!! #singlemeplease 😢😢😢
Like my step father…had a whole other family across town in a nicer house too. That NASA money was a BEAST 🙄
He is now my divorce attorney's problem. He can grieve paying for these court costs and whatnot.😂
Tell him get to steppin.
Guuuuuurl...leave that man!!!! You deserve someone who appreciates and respects you!!!!
She should give him his time to grieve. Side chick's husband needs some consoling, as well. Because I'm messy like that. 😆
Nothing like some good old trauma bonding lol.
How many different ways does he need to reject and disrespect her in order for HER to pick her self esteem up and stop accepting it?!?!
Serve that fool divorce papers and let him grieve alone. Move on. ✌🏾
Her even asking if she should allow him to grieve says she's with the $#!+s. That's a terrible situation to be in and I hope she realizes that she deserves better sooner than later.
Cheated on his wife, doesn't know if the baby she was carrying was his, quit his job, AND grieving in her face? Not only doesn't he respect her, he doesn't fear any consequences, like the wife unaliving him in his sleep. He knows she ain't gonna do anything. He feels comfortable disrespecting his wife because she's not the one he really wants.
@@fudgematthew33 💯 agree!
She doesn't want or love herself
Shuler this side piece situation got you stuck🤣🤣🤣
I do agree with part of what the king said. She and the recent widow should have joint and individual counseling. To complete this lifetime movie saga, they would get married.
Shania Twain divorced her husband for cheating with a married woman. Shania later bonded and married the adulterer's former.
No honey, run. Run, dont walk, to a divorce attorney. This will not get better
This is just to much no way would I be in bed with my So called husband as he is crying in the night and trembling no way.... Truly it sounds like you are the side chick not her
And Trembling got the nerve to lay next to her wailing and moaning Chile ......
Like he lost the love of his life 😂
@@blaackberryHe did.
He betrayed you and had an affair, so you don't owe him any type of sympathy! The fact that he's "grieving" and claiming he misses her speaks volumes. Kick him to the curb and let him grieve for the dead side-chick and you!
💯 agree!
Man, I don’t think that it is enough love in this crazy azz world to stay with him.
Love is unconditional. When things happen people like you forget the vows that you made to God. For better or worse. You are not thinking about your kids and how this will affect them. You are all in your emotions . Divorce is like death. Marriage is a sacred union with God. God said what he joined together should not separate. Women filed for the most divorce and are complaining and miserable after the divorce.
The GASLIGHTING is in full force! Where is your value, your worth? And he quit his job?
Your next step is a divorce attorney consultation. Brother man is delusional and needs to grieve not only losing the mistress but his marriage being gone. How in the hell is he coming to you for comfort over some other dead chick. Buddy is outta pocket. She can’t even go through her full range of emotions due to this raggedy dude.
The bullshit we put up with. Low self-esteem.
Mine cheated on me with alcohol. 16 years married. I put him out almost 2 years ago.
Many of us were conditioned to put up with all kind of nonsense.
@@alluringbliss4165Sad AND true. ✨️😥💛
She must have her own side piece to be this calm about her husband's mistress
She sounds desperate to keep a man.
Deservingly she should.
I hope so, but unfortunately I get the feeling she's a total doormat.
Lawd, couldn’t be me. 😂 somehow he would have died unexpectedly too 🤷🏽♀️ijs
People do what you allow them to do, sound she doesn’t love herself.
That woman in contending to take Rasheeda Frost's place, in being the most tolerant wife on this earth, of her "hubby's" bull!🤨
He can go join her! 😅 #CasketSharp
There is a scene in the movie Ray, where Ray Charles breaks down crying when he learns of the death of his "road wife." The look on his wife's face says it all. She realizes that he clearly loved this woman. Y'all menfolk be some funny creatures! 🤔
And a baby he was sending money to.
She knew he was stepping out. She said don't bring it home.
@@tinytt854Most women do this type of thing, old tea🍵. My great granny and her husband had this type of marriage. He had a travel job that took him everywhere. Months at a time he'd be gone for "work" but he paid the bills, was a family man when he came home and made her feel special with gifts.
I worked with a guy back in 2000 whose girlfriend suddenly died. He was grieving and couldn't understand why his wife didn't understand. I was an open ear for him, but I was thinking this man is nuts. They eventually divorced. Some years later, he married a woman he knew for a very short time. I heard it wasn't going well.
The last sentence of that message is troubling my soul. She wrote, *"...Or should I demand he focus on our marriage?"*
Listen, I hate to be the one to smack you in the face with truth, but, dear, 📢 *YOU DO NOT HAVE A MARRIAGE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!* The dude you are inexplicably allowing to remain in your home does not give a crap about you. He destroyed your marriage with some homewrecking garden tool, and now that she's in Hell, he is STILL cheating on you with her foul spirit. He ain't 💩 and neither was she. You need to get your Elsa on and *LET IT GO!!!*
@@dr.braxygilkeycruises1460 best comment ever!
Divorce him. Give him all the time he needs to grieve.....
What in the Peach Patch? 😂😂 sounds like something u see on Tubi 😂😂
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The husband the wife and the dead mistress. Tomorrow at nine on The mystery channel. Whahahaha. 😂😂
I would have not naah question for or about him. He’s gone and Blocked!! Wishing you healing sir ✌🏽
QUICKLY!
He is deeply in love with his dead mistress, and her memory will always be a 3rd person in their marriage, and his wife will never be able to compete with that. The best thing his wife can do is give him all the time he needs to grieve his mistress by divorcing him and giving him his freedom.
I will be going to divorce court because if she would have still been living and had the baby he would still be messing with that other woman so he can just cry his ass on in the divorce court Period!!!!!
Shut the internet down!!!
I would be gone! 😂😂😂😂😂😂 Let him grieve by himself.
We are so lost!
How he read this letter got me weak ASF 😂😂😂
I would divorce him...sorry
& would not have felt a ounce of pity for his azz.. you step out in the marriage.. now I’m out to “boo”
Not sorry.
Don’t be. That means that you have enough self-worth to walk away.
@@Kya9085 Why be sorry? I wouldn't be if I wanted to move on for better peace.
Leave him sis, she was clearly the love of his life.
There is no MF way my husband would be in our marital bed crying and trembling over his side chick and playing the victim!
Trembling😩😄
I would also make sure the life insurance policy is up-to-date, incase he decides he just can't live without her!!❤❤
🤨 Wake up! He didn’t plan to leave b/c she wasn’t leaving her husband. You don’t have a husband. You have someone else’s widower. Take control of your life and get rid of this dead weight. Pun intended! 😂
@@StephF7Red 💯 agree!
"She died unexpectedly "
She did it
😂😂😂
That’s the twist 😂
@@boot_leg_ramen_noodleinclude that part in the movie.
@@chariseh9524 we laughing but hollyweird about to make a milly 🤣 of this
🤔🧐 she is suspiciously calm considering the circumstances...I bet she's smirking when he's not looking..
She is really honoring vows. DIVORCE. THATS BIBLICAL IN THIS CASE 😅
He's basically gave the final benediction to this marriage. No further conversation needed, drop back 10 yards and punt.
Shuler this is too much😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
This letter should be titled "how do i develop self-respect and self-esteem?"
The fact that he is comfortable telling you all of this and has the NERVE to TELL you to be considerate of him grieving is undeniable proof that he has NO respect for you and knows you are a doormat. Only a doormat of a woman wouldnt punch a man dead in his mouth talking to her like this!
WOW! Unfortunately, this type of thing does exist. My cousin’s husband did this, the mistress even purchased a house around the corner from them. When the mistress passed away my cousins husband was depressed. She told him “Lick your wounds like the dog you are, get it together and keep it moving!” When asked why she stayed, her response was “He is getting that fat ass pension and I’m not about to part with it!”
🎶Well I am so in love with you, it makes no difference what you do, cause baby-baby, you can do no wrong.🎶
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Throw this whole situation away! We demand you get a divorce lawyer. Period. End of story.
He’ll be grieving with the divorce papers on the table too😭
May no man ever have me like this in Jesus name!😭😂
Ma’am! If you were the one mourning your dead work bf who had died suddenly would he be doing what you’re doing?
Sheesshhh😂
Nope
Clearly he loves her way more than he does you , give him All the time he needs to grieve , divorce
Yep
Whew, a woman died in the sin of adultery 😢😢. Ma'am, u on the other hand still have life in your body. Make everyday count. Build your relationship with God and let Him handle your "husband".
Lord have mercy, I have no words. Other than well I never and I hope that I never do. 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔!!!
Everdently he loves her more 😅
If the man doesn't want to work on the marriage and prefers to go to a grief counselor, he's telling you that woman was and is above you in his heart. Leave! leave! leave! The conversation is over. He told you what it was, believe him!
He in so many ways, even in grieving, told you he has no love or respect for you. He just doesn’t want to lose wife benefits from you. Divorce him. That way he can spend the rest of his life mourning his dead mistress in peace.
Imagine if the tables were flipped . She was grieving over her side man and all of a sudden he dies of an accident and she demands her husband to understand and to allow her to grief in peace not giving 0 F#^# of betraying her husband. I GUARANTEE YOU HER HUSBAND WOULD KICK HER OUT NO MERCY
She needs to give him time to Pack His Shit!!!!! and GET OUT!
FOOLERY!!
@@ajlocs2361 💯 facts!
Sis you better give him a real reason to be up middle of the night sweating and crying divorce and take every penny 😂😂😂the nerves of him 🤦♀️
Sounds like a good movie for Netflix..😂😂..💯
😂 This is going straight to Tubi!
@@steelheart74 Tubi FA SHO!
He would have to leave, because I would be on the First 48 ,he'll be gone with no coming back 🎉🎉🎉
Completely ridiculous....this is BEYOND crazy!
This sounds like the movie/play "Fences."