I have a toxic mother.Fear of being one myself or being hated by my newborn child scares me..She still yells and shouts at me even after telling multiple times. I am scared of her presence around my newborn . She shouts at me in front of my baby also sometimes.
You need to go through some therapy to get some confidence and learn how to have boundaries with her. Only then you'll be able to stop her from abusing you. Your baby will learn from that. Meanwhile you go through gentle parenting classes to learn how to do parenting differently
Village area yil വളർന്ന എല്ലാവരും തന്നെ ഇതൊക്കെ അനുഭവിച്ച് കടന്ന് വന്നവർ ആയിരിക്കും.. ഒരു പ്രണയത്തിൽ chadiyathode 20 year കൊണ്ട് life totally change ആയി e world എന്താണെന്ന് ഒരു spiritual way ലേക്ക് എത്തി ഇപ്പൊ ഒന്നിനും ടെൻഷൻ ഇല്ല e നിമിഷം മരിച്ചാലും happy ayi e world വിടും ആരോടും പരാതി ഇല്ല ഒന്നിനോടും ആഗ്രഹങ്ങൾ ഇല്ല
As somebody who just got out of a very short relationship because of the insecurity that you mentioned, your video gave me the closure that I was looking for. Although I am realising this at a very late stage in my life, I am trying to fix this by understanding and applying it in my life. Thank you 😊 Traveling to coimbatore will be difficult for me. Do you conduct online counseling sessions?
You get all my recorded sessions available on my app in 3 languages. Some sessions are available in Malayalam too. Rest you can try in English. Every session gives clarity on various subjects related to topics I have my heart & soul into. Do give it a try and let me know. We can discuss. Download maya's Amma App on playstore. IPhone users download my institute app and use the code CEAYA. App queries can be mailed to admin@mayasamma.com. You have 7 days to watch the course after purchase. There are zoom calls available after sessions.
Ma'am njn oru disabled person anu. Enikk enne pole disability ulla oru girl ne girl friend akanam enn undayirunnu. But njn enikk interest thoniya aa girl committed ayi poyi. Njn ayale orupadu shalyam cheythy. Aa penkutty ente mind il ninnum pokunnilla. Vere arenkilum kandupidichu friend akam. Ennu vicharichial appo ayale kurichu chintha varum. Enikk vayya
My gf said I look ugly one day and when asked her whether me or his one friend looks better she told his name spontaneously . She never told me I looked good even once unless I asked once she told 'vrithikedu onnum illa'😢. My ex had complimented me about my looks geniunely . I always finds her attractive. But I couldn't accept her words now I fell verry much insecure even to talk to her confidently angin and again this thought came to my mind. I used to tell jokes and sing songs but now I can't . But she tells she loves me every day
People in a healthy relationship usually don't do that to each other. Remember, we need to build each other up in a good relationship, not make the other person feel bad about themselves. Reevaluate your relationship.
എന്റെ അച്ചനും അമ്മയും ചെറുപ്പത്തിൽ മരിച്ചു. ഓർഫൻ ലൈഫ് ആയിരുന്നു. വളരെ മോശമായിരുന്നു . അതിന്റെ കുറെ പ്രോബ്ലം ഉണ്ട് ആരും പരിഗണിക്കുന്നില്ല . എന്നൊരു തോന്നൽ
@@swathikm01 as you grow under your parents and siblings..you understand that you can't share your private feelings with them... Of course you feel irritated..is it right? What do you say
@@swathikm01 I can understand more than what you say.... As we grow up...we need to get care along with satisfying our secret and private emotions and needs... Otherwise we get irritated and agitated... I have also felt the same... So I can understand you well.
Parenting എന്നത് ഒരു task തന്നെയാണല്ലേ. ശ്രദ്ധിക്കണം😊😊
Theerchayayum sradhikkanam.!☺️
Ma'am simply this is my life... I was weeping while watching 🥺... Good luck nxt gen for having people like swathi ma'am🫶🏼
Take care 👥
@@Bookmarkmalayalam Thank you.. U too❣️
Leave your home
I had that 'Nallakutti' image. Still I have that problem. Trying to get out of it now.
Mee tooo
Was crying while listening. U said well about me. And I shared to my family group.
Couldn't make it to halfway without tears, Great job ma'am 🥂
Hugs
It's very difficult to overcome ..
Mam.. Njan anxious ayittullu person aanu.. Mam. Paranjathu full correct aanu my case epooo change avan nokkunnu.. Thanku.. Super video..
I have a toxic mother.Fear of being one myself or being hated by my newborn child scares me..She still yells and shouts at me even after telling multiple times. I am scared of her presence around my newborn . She shouts at me in front of my baby also sometimes.
You need to go through some therapy to get some confidence and learn how to have boundaries with her. Only then you'll be able to stop her from abusing you. Your baby will learn from that. Meanwhile you go through gentle parenting classes to learn how to do parenting differently
Everyone should be kind to be each other right?😊
It's small thing.. but means alot...
Omg..I’m thankful to you for doing these videos..All of them are extremely helpful
You are so welcome!
This is very informative. Thanks ❤
Do this inner child trauma affects our parenting. I am a very bad parent. That's why i am asking
Your speeches are very useful ❤❤❤
Glad you think so!
Village area yil വളർന്ന എല്ലാവരും തന്നെ ഇതൊക്കെ അനുഭവിച്ച് കടന്ന് വന്നവർ ആയിരിക്കും.. ഒരു പ്രണയത്തിൽ chadiyathode 20 year കൊണ്ട് life totally change ആയി e world എന്താണെന്ന് ഒരു spiritual way ലേക്ക് എത്തി ഇപ്പൊ ഒന്നിനും ടെൻഷൻ ഇല്ല e നിമിഷം മരിച്ചാലും happy ayi e world വിടും ആരോടും പരാതി ഇല്ല ഒന്നിനോടും ആഗ്രഹങ്ങൾ ഇല്ല
അത് നല്ലതല്ലല്ലോ.... 🙄....
@@ajf7286 ഞാൻ ഉദേശിച്ചത് മനസ്സിലായില്ല എന്ന് തോന്നുന്നു
Very good video mam. Really impressed the way u explained each points and also I was able to relate to some of the points 💯👍👍
Let’s have a video on vulnerability!!!!
Sure
Worth watching.....can relate it in many ways
Thank you so much for this video
As somebody who just got out of a very short relationship because of the insecurity that you mentioned, your video gave me the closure that I was looking for. Although I am realising this at a very late stage in my life, I am trying to fix this by understanding and applying it in my life. Thank you 😊
Traveling to coimbatore will be difficult for me. Do you conduct online counseling sessions?
You get all my recorded sessions available on my app in 3 languages. Some sessions are available in Malayalam too. Rest you can try in English. Every session gives clarity on various subjects related to topics I have my heart & soul into. Do give it a try and let me know. We can discuss. Download maya's Amma App on playstore. IPhone users download my institute app and use the code CEAYA. App queries can be mailed to admin@mayasamma.com. You have 7 days to watch the course after purchase. There are zoom calls available after sessions.
Eternally greatful dear❤
Worth watching
Ethra vegam 👍👍👍❤️❤️❤️❤️
Me too facing this same situation 😢
Extremely good ma'm❤❤👏👏
Njan karayumbo kayi kond vaa pothi oru adi koodi tharunnavar aayirunnu ente parents
Not me showing this video to my parents to see if they relate to receive "Njangalu ninne nokkeela ennaano parayane?" 🤦♀🤦♀
Can you do this channel in English for non- malayalam speakers
Is there a English version of this
😁 thanks for the video. Ith kettit karyano chirikkano enn ariyilla.
Vulnerability യെ പറ്റി ഒരു video uploadeyyaamo
10:23
Mam can we get some topics in English??
Thomas Harris, I am okay you are okay. Book pole undello
Ma'am njn oru disabled person anu.
Enikk enne pole disability ulla oru girl ne girl friend akanam enn undayirunnu.
But njn enikk interest thoniya aa girl committed ayi poyi. Njn ayale orupadu shalyam cheythy.
Aa penkutty ente mind il ninnum pokunnilla. Vere arenkilum kandupidichu friend akam. Ennu vicharichial appo ayale kurichu chintha varum.
Enikk vayya
Thankyou swathi chechii🥰
Thank you😊
So what should we do
Worth it 😀
Books listed akiyillallooo
My gf said I look ugly one day and when asked her whether me or his one friend looks better she told his name spontaneously .
She never told me I looked good even once unless I asked once she told 'vrithikedu onnum illa'😢.
My ex had complimented me about my looks geniunely .
I always finds her attractive.
But I couldn't accept her words now I fell verry much insecure even to talk to her confidently angin and again this thought came to my mind.
I used to tell jokes and sing songs but now I can't .
But she tells she loves me every day
People in a healthy relationship usually don't do that to each other. Remember, we need to build each other up in a good relationship, not make the other person feel bad about themselves. Reevaluate your relationship.
❤️ Thanks
Thank you so much😊🫂
Njn oru doctor aanu
Ippozhum veetil vazahkkitalo arelum hurt cheytalo alary karayum like njn kunjile karanja pole😢 insecurity aanu main
Hope you start your inner work and heal..
എന്റെ അച്ചനും അമ്മയും ചെറുപ്പത്തിൽ മരിച്ചു. ഓർഫൻ ലൈഫ് ആയിരുന്നു. വളരെ മോശമായിരുന്നു . അതിന്റെ കുറെ പ്രോബ്ലം ഉണ്ട് ആരും പരിഗണിക്കുന്നില്ല . എന്നൊരു തോന്നൽ
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It's me
Ippolum njaaan ok allaaa
Suicide thoughts varunnuuuuu😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
do you have a spotify podcast ??
Nice❤
👌👌❤
അനുഭവം ഗുരു ഓവർ ഇമോഷൻ അത് പോലെ എന്താ പറയാ എല്ലാം പോയി
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Thanks
Solutions
As a child there is no problem in caring..but now feel it irritating..why
Emotions
@@HD-cl3wd ?
@@swathikm01 as you grow under your parents and siblings..you understand that you can't share your private feelings with them... Of course you feel irritated..is it right? What do you say
Yes..now these caring irritating
@@swathikm01 I can understand more than what you say.... As we grow up...we need to get care along with satisfying our secret and private emotions and needs... Otherwise we get irritated and agitated... I have also felt the same... So I can understand you well.
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Mam Konjam Tamil layum solunga mam TamilNadu la irunthu neraya peru pakranga avangaluku Malayalam theriyathu, thank you Mam....
Bro, Maya's Amma Tamil innou channel iruku, antha Channella ivangha upload pannuvangha. Anga ellame tamila tha solli tharanga
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No need to talk like this. We have to learn life from each expierience.
Then who asked u to watch... Dnt watch
Thank you❤
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