I'm as white as a ghost and I Can tell you I'm not white in those areas, dark skin is gorgeous don't bleach it. If he wants you to harm your body to fit his standards then that guy doesn't deserve you. When a guy loves someone the colour of their skin is nothing. 💜
It's all colour. Some of us of suffer from hyper pigmentation. We can't help it. To sit up here and ridicule us. I'm so glad she asked Sid n Dina this question. It's not okay for him to do that. AT ALL.
to the girl who emailed: your husband is not very thoughtful. maybe he's not evil but he definitely did not take time to think about what was about to come out of his mouth and how it would affect you. you should tell him to stop watching porn and learn to respect your feelings.
You guys crack me up! You just gained another fan. I love the comment of racism in Asian and African cultures. My boyfriend is from North Africa and when I visited his family there, he pointed a dark person and said "look honey, its an African" I about died laughing and told him "you ARE African" but he doesn't see himself that way. Keep these videos coming- too funny!
this video was very informative as these issues do need to be addressed coming from a black/Egyptian background and dealing with similar problems this video has really helped me thank you sid and dina
I love how real you guys are. Prejudice against people with dark skin is a huge problem in Arab and Asian countries, or anywhere that has been touched by imperialism. I've had to deal with it a lot in my life. I moved to Egypt when I was 12 to study Quran and Arabic and I was surprised by how mean and racist a lot of the people were. I couldn't go a day without someone calling me names or making fun of my dark skin. Many of us call ourselves Muslims but forget the basic principle that no one man can exceed another in the eyes of Allah except by what they carry in their hearts. I pray inshallah that one day the umma will come together again.
When Dina was reading the email my Reaction was EXACTLY SAME LIKE SID and tbh that's pretty disgusting and how insensitive that guy is, hitting someone's insecurity is really effin rude!!! the girl should tell him MENS FIRST if he tell her to bleach again!!!
The *only* time a muslim man is allowed to lie is to make his wife believe she's beatiful or that he's attracted to her, to make her feel good about herself. Islam literally makes an exception for this sole instance, there's no other time where a muslim is allowed to lie, not even to joke. This guy should read up a bit on hadith.
We need more humans like you guys, especially Sid! I absolutely love how Sid is so outspoken and how Dina is understanding. Hana is so fucking blessed to have beautiful parents like you guys. Much, much love from Florida ❤️
Glad you covered this! Everyone has different beauty standards for women regardless of the country you live in. Also, it always seems people want what they don't have instead of being happy with their natural God given color.Why can't we all just realize a person is beautiful regardless of skin color?
aw i love how you guys started off on camera and you can actually see your relationship and connection grow on camera- if you watch ur old videos and dina is still a bit more shy with sid and flirty
i feel for this sister, we all have insecurities and women have so much to live up too due to pornography and societies image of women. Nobody is perfect and your husband should love you the way you are. I hate colourism, DARK SKIN IS BEAUTIFUL, please don't bleach your skin Allah blessed you with what you have which makes you beautiful x
My husband used to think women dont grow body hair and especially in those certain areas. I had to show him so many real life examples for him to understand that majority of women grow body hair its normal...men are sometimes drawn in to the imaginary world where they see women as though they are the softest angels with the most shiniest soft skin with twinkling eyes big breasts, big butt slim arms toned legs..tiny waist...ugh its so hard to live in this world
absolutely love you guys. This video was one of the best I've watched for you and I love how honest and open you are as a couple. Definitely inspiration!
I find Sid and Dina always discuss things that no one else would talk about; it makes them so original and to be honest something which probably isn't uncommon, I bet there is someone else going through the same situation that thinks it's okay for her husband to speak to that way about the way she looks! It is not okay to degrade your partner! Go Sid and Dina!!!! ❤️
Very good pointed noted Dina. I'm really impressed how you put that forward. Can you please go into this topic further. I think young people need to be aware of these issues. But I'm so happy you touched on this issue briefly. I love your videos guys xxxxx
Growing up as Pashtun all my family are light skinned wether it's my mum, dad, brothers cousins etc... I'm not dark skinned but I'm slightly tanned. I was a very fair baby growing up but as I got older I got darker. All I ever hear now is 'your so yellow', 'you were so white as a kid' bla bla bla.... I don't get bullied or shamed for it but it is used against me as a diss a lot and my brothers always get praised for being light skinned. It never bothered me before but the older I got the more insecure about my skin colour I got. A lot of Pashtuns are light skinned, with green or blue eyes, it's one of the things there known for, and to be a tanned Pashtun with brownish green eyes isn't good enough. I always as a 'joke' get told I'm not Pashtun I'm too dark. In Sha Allah I hope this infectious thought that the only fair girls are pretty leaves the Earth because it's been around for too long now.
Your Mother cmoooon they cant be saying that coz to the majority and specially white people, pashtuns are people of colour and classed as light or dark brown
I live in Somalia and girls bleach their skin like they're putting on lotion. It's sad because because my dark skin is seen as ugly and people will tell me to my face how dark I am and how i should whiten my self. Honestly I experienced less hate and racism when I was living in England. I know it's really hard but please don't ever give in to others peoples pressure. If they feel comfortable telling you you're physically ugly....tell them they have have an ugly soul and maybe they should whiten their dead black heart. You don't need to use man made products because God created you and that alone should let you know you are perfect the way you are.
Warniigley warniigley you are beautiful. Let them bleach themselves when they all start to look alike they will be jealous of your naturally beautiful, acne free/cancer free complexion inshAllah never join them instead educate them.
My husband is Indian I have changed him so much talking to him ..... I find Indian/ Pakistanis people so racist towards darker skin it makes me sick I am afghani never seen this much racism amongst us....
Yeah I think thats what they think in India too .... my husband grew up in India so I didn't blame him for thinking like that in the beginning it was confusing to me because I didn't grow up in that kinda of environment we never talked about color even though we have darker skin in Afghanistan it is never looked as dark or light ....
What I love about this channel is that you guys talk about some of the most important issues. You guys gave great suggestions, most importantly you explained exactly how wrong that man is in what he said.
I was self conscience about my underarms being darker so used natural remedies that could help and while it's still not the same colour as the rest of my body and probably never will be it has lightened up a bit and it's not because I'm not proud of my skin colour I just wanted it to look the same everywhere
i've been subscribed to you guys for a while now, but never really watched much of your videos until recently which i've been binge watching them all.. I love you guys you're hysterical full of character, and straight to the point. I really respect you guys as individuals, and a couple 😊 anyways Insha'Allah all is well xx
What's so stupid too is that no matter which girl her were to marry, they'll ALL have dark skin down there. It's something you will find in probably majority of women because it's just how our bodies are. If he has such a problem with it, then he simply shouldn't get married lol.
Thanks for this vid. Someone is FINALLY addressing the issue of racism in these cultures and hopefully people realize their behavior is unsightly and discriminatory. We're all lovely, beautiful people.
Once a darker skinned friend of mine, from school, used it for a couple months and it lightened her skin. Then she stopped and it left a permanent Africa shaped patch on her cheek!
Omg this video is so important!!!! Everyone needs to see this. Life isn't just about how you look ffs. The media has brainwashed people to such extends where they are willing to harm themselves to look a certain way. I'm actually doing a paper on body image in my English class and the topics you guys touched on, can be so helpful. It's ridiculous how in the society, only if you look a "certain" way, you are "beautiful". Like wtf bruh?! Why can't we all be happy with how god created us?
I think this is one of the main reasons why Islam teaches men and women to cover and lower the gaze and refrain from seeing or doing any sexual acts so that when they eventually get married and have sex the male or woman isn't really judging their husband or wife's body or skills on someone else...so it gives them abit more confidence because they don't really have anyone to compare themselves to...I dunno it's just a thought and to add *HE AINT SHIT*
I love you both for being real and honest. Not many would recognise and admit racism within their own countries. As always...enjoyed the video but just had to comment for once.
I always find it fucked up how people with darker skin want to get lighter and people with white skin are obsessed with getting tanned. How about we just stop obsessing about our skin colour? Skin is skin, who cares what colour it is. Next thing we're gonna be bleaching our eyeballs cause they're not white enough 😠
Melanie Avans Dark skinned people of color wanting to be light skinned and white people wanting to be tan are not the same thing and can't be compared. When people of color want to be light it comes from shame. They basically want to be white. White people, on the other hand, get tans simply because they don't want to be pasty- they don't actually want to be as dark as the people of color who are trying to look like them. They enjoy getting a little tanned because they know they'll never get THAT dark and they'll still look white. They would never trade places with dark skinned people of color but the dark skinned people would gladly trade places with them.
Melanie Avans It's naïve to tell people to simply stop obsessing over the color of their skin when racism and shame are deeply ingrained in their societies. You can't just erase centuries of hate... I'm guessing you're white yourself and don't actually experience this problem.
I am white and I like getting tanned for the skin benefits that the sun gives me..I don't have any acne when I do tan and my mood feels much better when I get sun tanned.
You know what's more shocking and upsetting? His NOT the only guy who thinks like that there are millions of guys who think the same. May Allah bless them with some education
Uma Abdi I have so many questions (I'm not Muslim, btw): how are Muslim men supposed to receive education if they're not allowed to even discuss sex or sexuality before marriage?... Are Muslims allowed to take sex education classes in school?? Also, if men and women aren't supposed to discuss sex with each other then that leaves the men to educate other men about women's bodies, which obviously is not being done properly or there wouldn't be so much ignorance about the female body. These are just my opinions (and not even coming from a very educated place lol). What does Islam say about this?
Hey Sid & Dina, thanks for highlighting this topic because it's too prevalent in Black culture and Asian culture it can't be perpetuated any longer. As Sid said "Dark is Not Ugly". Thanks for drawing attention to this because it really is a problem and people are being put down all the time for having dark skin, a genetic trait that is natural that you can't control. I love you two and your advice, you guys are brilliant!
I have heard of people bleaching their genitals and the bleach has burnt their skin because of the sensitivity down there.the skin bleaching is a lot stronger than fair and lovely. It is quite sad but I have heard horror stories of people having scar tissue there because of the trauma from the burns. Women and men please be careful don't succumb to societies unrealistic expectations.
Bleach his eyes.
chaima Id mansour LOOOOOOOOOL
chaima Id mansour yas
chaima Id mansour best comment 👑
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chaima Id mansour Looooool yup
Sid is an amazing husband bruv
Mashallah, he is, literally they seem like bffs and he is so supportive of Dina!
I'm as white as a ghost and I Can tell you I'm not white in those areas,
dark skin is gorgeous don't bleach it. If he wants you to harm your body to fit his standards then that guy doesn't deserve you. When a guy loves someone the colour of their skin is nothing. 💜
MissMcCafferty beautifully said💖
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100th like and 💯 agreed 😉
MissMcCafferty beautiful answer, 100%right👏
Thats right!
Everyone of us is sooo unique and should be proud of
Tell him to bleach his future cuz it ain't looking too bright.
openmindead1 excellent
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It's all colour. Some of us of suffer from hyper pigmentation. We can't help it. To sit up here and ridicule us. I'm so glad she asked Sid n Dina this question. It's not okay for him to do that. AT ALL.
*reads title* first thought: He aint the one then.
Exactly.
Divorce him asap what a tit
you guys nailed this ! I love how open you guys are without being rude or nasty.
Sid hit the nail on the head with the whole Asian culture and the ridiculous obsession with fair skin 👏🏽👏🏽
hit the 'nail on the head' hahahah !!!!
that guy is a nasty person and disrespectful
He needs to go online and educate himself. The fact that hes so insensitive is what bothers me the most
chabelis alegria exactly if you love a person you won't see through those things bc you love them entirely
Divorce him....he's got to go.
chabelis alegria agreed 🙌
to the girl who emailed: your husband is not very thoughtful. maybe he's not evil but he definitely did not take time to think about what was about to come out of his mouth and how it would affect you. you should tell him to stop watching porn and learn to respect your feelings.
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Lamisa Imam yasssssss best comment on here tastefully put and to the point
Lamisa Imam his husband shouldnt even watch porn it just ruins their relationship
If he’s still watching porn divorce him. U don’t wanna have kids with such a shit
Dina u can fly with those lashes 🦄
ريم ال- 😂😂😂
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ريم ال- hahahahaha lol 😂😂
ريم ال- i was thinking the same😂😂
ريم ال-
Lmao! 😂😂
Oh I thought this would be about her face 😅
omg Dina link that article please it sounds intriguing 🤔
Sayedul the pedophilia article not the email lol
nicolle akua lol sorry I just got onto that bit now lol
nicolle akua same
nicolle akua I thought that too lol
Sid is right- we "white" people are also darker in some areas-even the pale ones.This guy is living in some dreamland😂😂
Sids face throughout this video is just hilarious
This woman is going to come to this comment section and see that everybody is cussing her husband lol.
MrDarkmatterX
good
MrDarkmatterX if she showed it to him it would shut him up quickly
"What the problem with darker skin in the first place." Sid you the real MVP!!!
Husband: bbs bleach it for me...
Wife: you do yours and I'll do mine luv...
Husband:shitdenn 😑
Jannah Ahad looooool too right make him do it ! 😂
You guys crack me up! You just gained another fan. I love the comment of racism in Asian and African cultures. My boyfriend is from North Africa and when I visited his family there, he pointed a dark person and said "look honey, its an African" I about died laughing and told him "you ARE African" but he doesn't see himself that way. Keep these videos coming- too funny!
Man really said bleach your privates. The audacity of some dudes
Mena Noir the fact that the man can say that to the women but the women didn't mention it to the man, makes me so sad :(
Mood711 I know bc she's probably accepting of him as a person meanwhile he feels like he has the right to change her to his liking
lmao @ sid's face when Dina was reading the letter saying that men expect women's private areas to be the same color as skin because of porn
They don't realize it but they are of great great help to muslim kids.
this video was very informative as these issues do need to be addressed coming from a black/Egyptian background and dealing with similar problems this video has really helped me thank you sid and dina
FINNALLYY U GUYS ARE BACK!!
Zaynab Sidiqq trust me, i check everyday and get sad when they dont upload😂😂
Dina is so good at giving advice Mashallah PREACH
This marriage is honestly so admirable !!!
I love how real you guys are. Prejudice against people with dark skin is a huge problem in Arab and Asian countries, or anywhere that has been touched by imperialism. I've had to deal with it a lot in my life. I moved to Egypt when I was 12 to study Quran and Arabic and I was surprised by how mean and racist a lot of the people were. I couldn't go a day without someone calling me names or making fun of my dark skin. Many of us call ourselves Muslims but forget the basic principle that no one man can exceed another in the eyes of Allah except by what they carry in their hearts. I pray inshallah that one day the umma will come together again.
When Dina was reading the email my Reaction was EXACTLY SAME LIKE SID
and tbh that's pretty disgusting and how insensitive that guy is, hitting someone's insecurity is really effin rude!!! the girl should tell him MENS FIRST if he tell her to bleach again!!!
You're genuinely the most amazing couple mA not only physically but also mentally love the way you think and explain things ❤️
The *only* time a muslim man is allowed to lie is to make his wife believe she's beatiful or that he's attracted to her, to make her feel good about herself.
Islam literally makes an exception for this sole instance, there's no other time where a muslim is allowed to lie, not even to joke. This guy should read up a bit on hadith.
Papy Jizass that is the cutest thing I've ever heard
We need more humans like you guys, especially Sid! I absolutely love how Sid is so outspoken and how Dina is understanding. Hana is so fucking blessed to have beautiful parents like you guys. Much, much love from Florida ❤️
Glad you covered this! Everyone has different beauty standards for women regardless of the country you live in. Also, it always seems people want what they don't have instead of being happy with their natural God given color.Why can't we all just realize a person is beautiful regardless of skin color?
I love how adamant Sid is in this video. so nice when men are this supportive !!
i love sid. hes too real.
aw i love how you guys started off on camera and you can actually see your relationship and connection grow on camera- if you watch ur old videos and dina is still a bit more shy with sid and flirty
i feel for this sister, we all have insecurities and women have so much to live up too due to pornography and societies image of women. Nobody is perfect and your husband should love you the way you are. I hate colourism, DARK SKIN IS BEAUTIFUL, please don't bleach your skin Allah blessed you with what you have which makes you beautiful x
I just watching yall today and I am bing watching...I am in LOVE WITH YALL!!! WHERE HAVE I BEEN MY WHOLE LIFE
My husband used to think women dont grow body hair and especially in those certain areas. I had to show him so many real life examples for him to understand that majority of women grow body hair its normal...men are sometimes drawn in to the imaginary world where they see women as though they are the softest angels with the most shiniest soft skin with twinkling eyes big breasts, big butt slim arms toned legs..tiny waist...ugh its so hard to live in this world
"Balanced out all the colors and shit" I just love you guys
I fucking love dark skin, I think it's lovely
I love Sid and his way of putting accross his opinions !
I'm happy at least someone is talking about these topics!!! Keep up the good work 💜
Thank you, Dina and Sid!!! More people need to hear this.
I really want to read the article Dina was talking about
absolutely love you guys. This video was one of the best I've watched for you and I love how honest and open you are as a couple. Definitely inspiration!
Dina is so lucky to have sid as a husband, mashallah
I find Sid and Dina always discuss things that no one else would talk about; it makes them so original and to be honest something which probably isn't uncommon, I bet there is someone else going through the same situation that thinks it's okay for her husband to speak to that way about the way she looks! It is not okay to degrade your partner! Go Sid and Dina!!!! ❤️
always learn so much positive stuff from your channel:) keep it up guy's
You two are adorable! Good, solid advice!!
In India , matrimonial ads specifically ask for a fair bride /groom .
And also mention that the seeker is "very fair and beautiful" SMH
C F 😒🤦🏼♀️
I LOVE Sid's reaction at the bingeing when you were reading the email hahahaha
Sid was sooooo uncomfortable 😁😂
Very good pointed noted Dina. I'm really impressed how you put that forward. Can you please go into this topic further. I think young people need to be aware of these issues. But I'm so happy you touched on this issue briefly. I love your videos guys xxxxx
Yeah she can order a bleaching cream, and when it arrives she can say; "here honey, we both can use this"
Honestly, you guys are soooo amazing. Who else, on TH-cam or real life, talks about this stuff? Thank you Sid and Dina.
Who's here without notifications of them ?
Can we all please take a moment and realise how valid both Sid and Dina's points were. like, all the time.
Masha'allah! You help loads of people.
Growing up as Pashtun all my family are light skinned wether it's my mum, dad, brothers cousins etc... I'm not dark skinned but I'm slightly tanned. I was a very fair baby growing up but as I got older I got darker. All I ever hear now is 'your so yellow', 'you were so white as a kid' bla bla bla.... I don't get bullied or shamed for it but it is used against me as a diss a lot and my brothers always get praised for being light skinned. It never bothered me before but the older I got the more insecure about my skin colour I got. A lot of Pashtuns are light skinned, with green or blue eyes, it's one of the things there known for, and to be a tanned Pashtun with brownish green eyes isn't good enough. I always as a 'joke' get told I'm not Pashtun I'm too dark. In Sha Allah I hope this infectious thought that the only fair girls are pretty leaves the Earth because it's been around for too long now.
Your Mother cmoooon they cant be saying that coz to the majority and specially white people, pashtuns are people of colour and classed as light or dark brown
I love how Sid is so chill and open like he's cool bro
I live in Somalia and girls bleach their skin like they're putting on lotion. It's sad because because my dark skin is seen as ugly and people will tell me to my face how dark I am and how i should whiten my self. Honestly I experienced less hate and racism when I was living in England. I know it's really hard but please don't ever give in to others peoples pressure. If they feel comfortable telling you you're physically ugly....tell them they have have an ugly soul and maybe they should whiten their dead black heart. You don't need to use man made products because God created you and that alone should let you know you are perfect the way you are.
Warniigley warniigley you are beautiful. Let them bleach themselves when they all start to look alike they will be jealous of your naturally beautiful, acne free/cancer free complexion inshAllah never join them instead educate them.
I love you guys you are honest role models xxx
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"Well how come I can't say penis then?"
"Because I don't want you to talk about some man's dick man"
awww this is too precious honestly
I really love Sid.. He can be so serious and funny at the same time
Can you post a link to that thing you were reading? About beauty industry and infantilizing grown women
When I watch Sid and Dina they video always changes my mood 😂😂😂 I was bored and sad now I'm laughing 😂
Oh girl you don't want to be with a man like that. I feel sorry for you.
You guys always hit the nail on the head and speak my mind! Love you both keep it up!
My husband is Indian I have changed him so much talking to him ..... I find Indian/ Pakistanis people so racist towards darker skin it makes me sick I am afghani never seen this much racism amongst us....
I heard Korean ma are do not like darker skin they use a lot of sun screen and stay away from the sun....
Mims L that's interesting ...... good to know
This is the same with afghans too, ive met some very racist afghans usually its the older generations
Yeah I think thats what they think in India too .... my husband grew up in India so I didn't blame him for thinking like that in the beginning it was confusing to me because I didn't grow up in that kinda of environment we never talked about color even though we have darker skin in Afghanistan it is never looked as dark or light ....
true
What I love about this channel is that you guys talk about some of the most important issues. You guys gave great suggestions, most importantly you explained exactly how wrong that man is in what he said.
I was self conscience about my underarms being darker so used natural remedies that could help and while it's still not the same colour as the rest of my body and probably never will be it has lightened up a bit and it's not because I'm not proud of my skin colour I just wanted it to look the same everywhere
SupergirlFaisa what natural remedies worked for you?
Baking soda mixed with coconut oil and lemon juice but you have to be really consistent with it and it won't get rid of all the hyperpigmentation
i've been subscribed to you guys for a while now, but never really watched much of your videos until recently which i've been binge watching them all.. I love you guys you're hysterical full of character, and straight to the point. I really respect you guys as individuals, and a couple 😊 anyways Insha'Allah all is well xx
What's so stupid too is that no matter which girl her were to marry, they'll ALL have dark skin down there. It's something you will find in probably majority of women because it's just how our bodies are. If he has such a problem with it, then he simply shouldn't get married lol.
Sid is on point!! Asian culture!!
Bleach get him to drink that to clean his heart!
Wish more people would discuss issues like this, well done Dina & Sid I hope you inspire others to be open and push the boundaries 😊😊😊😊
Never clicked so fast.
Sid is really sassy... i luv it!
I clicked so fast I'm a nosy bitch and this sounds juicy af
c .vague 😂😂😂😂😂
c .vague lmao! 😂😂😂
Sid's expressions are priceless :D
We need more men like Sid.
get you a man who thinks like Sid 😉
Thanks for this vid. Someone is FINALLY addressing the issue of racism in these cultures and hopefully people realize their behavior is unsightly and discriminatory. We're all lovely, beautiful people.
fam where is the Pakistani snacks video😂😏
Johir Uddin exactly what i was thinking😂
Chill out this is more important than snacks bro
Johir Uddin haha yesss
Halimuxx 25 lol actually that's true just wanna see how Pakistani food looks like😂🤔
ADOOOMYYY GANGGG just google it
Love you two ! You talk so much sense xx
Once a darker skinned friend of mine, from school, used it for a couple months and it lightened her skin. Then she stopped and it left a permanent Africa shaped patch on her cheek!
Pallavi Sanyal lol karma
Pallavi Sanyal. Africa shaped mark eh?? 🤔
The irony that it's shaped like Africa. Oh dear.
Ikr, that's the part that gets me too
Pallavi Sanyal the universe telling her style true to mother land b
Omg this video is so important!!!! Everyone needs to see this. Life isn't just about how you look ffs. The media has brainwashed people to such extends where they are willing to harm themselves to look a certain way. I'm actually doing a paper on body image in my English class and the topics you guys touched on, can be so helpful. It's ridiculous how in the society, only if you look a "certain" way, you are "beautiful". Like wtf bruh?! Why can't we all be happy with how god created us?
I think this is one of the main reasons why Islam teaches men and women to cover and lower the gaze and refrain from seeing or doing any sexual acts so that when they eventually get married and have sex the male or woman isn't really judging their husband or wife's body or skills on someone else...so it gives them abit more confidence because they don't really have anyone to compare themselves to...I dunno it's just a thought and to add *HE AINT SHIT*
I love you both for being real and honest. Not many would recognise and admit racism within their own countries. As always...enjoyed the video but just had to comment for once.
Is it just me or is Dina's right eyelash a bit skew
Ryan Pearce no
I love to see you guys happy❤️ whic camera did you use?
Early peeps watup 👍🏼
Your best talk and video so far!
I always find it fucked up how people with darker skin want to get lighter and people with white skin are obsessed with getting tanned. How about we just stop obsessing about our skin colour? Skin is skin, who cares what colour it is. Next thing we're gonna be bleaching our eyeballs cause they're not white enough 😠
Melanie Avans Dark skinned people of color wanting to be light skinned and white people wanting to be tan are not the same thing and can't be compared. When people of color want to be light it comes from shame. They basically want to be white. White people, on the other hand, get tans simply because they don't want to be pasty- they don't actually want to be as dark as the people of color who are trying to look like them. They enjoy getting a little tanned because they know they'll never get THAT dark and they'll still look white. They would never trade places with dark skinned people of color but the dark skinned people would gladly trade places with them.
Melanie Avans It's naïve to tell people to simply stop obsessing over the color of their skin when racism and shame are deeply ingrained in their societies. You can't just erase centuries of hate... I'm guessing you're white yourself and don't actually experience this problem.
I am white and I like getting tanned for the skin benefits that the sun gives me..I don't have any acne when I do tan and my mood feels much better when I get sun tanned.
love you guyssss your videos make my day 😊
I can't focus because of her lashes :(
Omg Sid is so funny 😂😂. Love watching you guys 😄.
You know what's more shocking and upsetting? His NOT the only guy who thinks like that there are millions of guys who think the same. May Allah bless them with some education
صَاْيِمْ قَدِيِرْ I'm sorry if you misunderstood me but I didn't say all men are like that I just said there are a lot of them
صَاْيِمْ قَدِيِرْ alright I understand what you're trying to say thank you 😊
Uma Abdi I have so many questions (I'm not Muslim, btw): how are Muslim men supposed to receive education if they're not allowed to even discuss sex or sexuality before marriage?... Are Muslims allowed to take sex education classes in school?? Also, if men and women aren't supposed to discuss sex with each other then that leaves the men to educate other men about women's bodies, which obviously is not being done properly or there wouldn't be so much ignorance about the female body. These are just my opinions (and not even coming from a very educated place lol). What does Islam say about this?
@@karmakameleon113 no.. we can definitely learn abt sex lol..
Awww I loveeee how mad and upset Sid got with the "man" in the email
This is actually crazy.
Hey Sid & Dina, thanks for highlighting this topic because it's too prevalent in Black culture and Asian culture it can't be perpetuated any longer. As Sid said "Dark is Not Ugly". Thanks for drawing attention to this because it really is a problem and people are being put down all the time for having dark skin, a genetic trait that is natural that you can't control. I love you two and your advice, you guys are brilliant!
I have heard of people bleaching their genitals and the bleach has burnt their skin because of the sensitivity down there.the skin bleaching is a lot stronger than fair and lovely. It is quite sad but I have heard horror stories of people having scar tissue there because of the trauma from the burns. Women and men please be careful don't succumb to societies unrealistic expectations.
I seriously love you guys. Sid, you're the best lmaooo