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Well it’s different for women. With guys there’s a refractory period where you can’t arrive. I don’t think women have that so they can do wilder. It the refractory period also varies from guy to guy. Some are longer than others. Heh budm pisss
@@dishonorabledimensions1683 It's not the same but some women, myself included, struggle to do multiple in a row. Can be due to over-sensitivity or in my case, I take SSRI antidepressants so it's a struggle to do one sometimes lol.
If they took pills for that then it was most likely a hormonal imbalance, which is a physical condition, not a mental one like addiction, there is a big difference between both
Fully agree. When I lived in Korea my ex-gf and I were on a vacation and we were stuck indoors due to a storm. partially out of curiosity and partially because, ya know, it feels really good we wanted to see how many times we could reasonably go at it. Even with Lube it was starting to get sore for the both of us after the 4th time. I think it's because we neglected self-care and rest. At 12 times I can see how Mel put herself in the hospital.
No, there are legitimately pills made to lower someone’s sex drive. They aren’t antidepressants, even if they share the lowering libido part with them.
I have a friend, in similar work ethics as Mel, who had a stream to celebrate a milestone. In said stream, she (my friend, not Mel) went on for hours pushing her body to the “end game” 32 times as far as I can remember. I was surprised she wasn’t tired after that night, and she typically don’t reach such numbers, but it was just a wild moment to hear about
@@kreze9696 I wouldn't go as far to say that, I'm just saying that you shouldn't overdo it, if you're truly in a dark place, indulging in pleasure isn't harmful but you should still focus on your health. Don't just force yourself to have to be in misery because that would affect your mental health and no one should go through that
@@yonarulezIf I had known the correct answers to give when I was a highschool teenage male I would have given them to minimize my sex drive, I didn't like it as it felt useless to me as I received no female attention other than as a friend and I wanted to focus on excelling in intellectual pursuits sufficiently enough to achieve great enough feats in the intellectual field to compensate sufficiently for my social deficiencies caused by a lack of nurturing and neurodivergence. I never learned how to purposefully be funny and land every time due to executive dysfunction (being born ADHD with autism is not a curse I'd wish upon anyone and I'm sorry if you're like me especially how I've ended up). After taking an antipsychotic to try and wipe my mind by acting psychotic because I was tired of the cyclical nature of being a modern human with finally getting some semblance of hope of building something stable only to have missed something or the old flaws in the neurology trigger because you tried to avoid the "hotfix" of self harming to reinforce impulse control with a condition that causes impaired control and stimulants being a restricted drug class that apparently a childhood diagnosis doesn't clear you for to get what you need... I'm getting off track anyway I read online about how even atypicals could lead to "escape from life", so being desperate I did what I had to do to get them prescribed to me unaware that permanent impairment would happen I just wanted to have an easy time like I was demanded or expected to just being able to emotionlessly take tests without intrusive emotional flashbacks filling me with conflicting emotions that I had to just ignore to continue taking the test holding out for when what I was doing would become enjoyable again because there's no time to grieve losses in this world.
Yeah, anything that disrupts your life is to be taken seriously and you should take care of it. There is no such thing too embarrassing or too insignificant to see an expert about, in such case.
I'm not an expert in bodily conditions so take with a pitch of salt for what its worth, but Mel could have some sort of Hormonal imbalance since I'm Pretty sure Bao had a similar condition to mel and took similar treatment. The pills they both took I think helped Throttle down the production of Reproductive hormones in the body in order to stabilize the balance of hormones in their bodies which were thrown into overdrive, allowing Mel and Bao to "Calm Down" so to speak.
The pills were most likely either antidepressants or pregnancy pills. Both are extremely common, both are used by many women, and both have the side effect of drastically reducing the libido.
Houshou marine has talked about having similar issues to Mel and bao as well and from what I remember she said it could be pretty crippling with how bad it could get at times
It call hypersexuality I have it, it also pretty common with people who have bipolar issues or straight up autism or the two. It not the greatest thing to deal with especially in serious relationships, as guy I can’t imagine the struggle for girl who contrary to guy don’t have to wait to continue
Im not too sure if it was real... but pretty sure I heard of someone doing that 28 times in a single day... apparently they didnt make it to the hospital in time. How true is that, idk.
Definitely TMI but there's weeks where I go without it, and there's days where I reach 3, sometimes even 4 times. As for how I have the time for that, well, I just neglect other things, sometimes important things, but that's a problem for future me.
My max of just not being horny enough to bother was like a week, i usually can go 3-6 times depending on how i feel at any given moment but tbh i hate doing it at all because of PNC enhancing my depression
I remember once when I was a teen seeing blood from whacking it too many times in a day. Don't do that especially if you are a guy who just uses tissues or TP it's a terrible idea.
In the spirit of telling people not to do things you did as a horny teen, I will chime in and say "do whack it using soap" yes it feels nice and slippery like lube, but soap is literally meant to pull oils and dirt off of your skin, and the skin down there is very thin and very sensitive, and not only does your skin naturally produce oils, it is also partially MADE of oils. So if you combine that with soap and a lot of friction over a few minutes, it will feel good... And then it will start to feel very painful as the soap literally will start to *rip your skin apart.* I had to deal with what looked like sandpaper burns on my meat for about a week before I was even willing to touch it again.
I actually tore a hole in my scrote once. Tore right at the seam made from being circumcised. It formed into a scab and took like 1 to 2 weeks to heal. Stories of real problems from the people with above average libidos.
@@nosville22so... The issue is I'm not beeing productive?? Dude, we are watching three v-tubers roleplay having a job... Wdym do something more productive??
not if you're trans. being put on hormones and transitioning is called second puberty by trans people. I'll update you when that happens for me, but I'm not sure if the hyper libido happens again
@@MagiRemmie considering how awful first puberty has been for me, not looking forward to the emotions second puberty brings. but, I already went through it once, so I have experience, and I can learn to control it. I'm curious though. how was it for you?
@@violetbean8928 Depending on your viewpoint, worse than the first time. For the first month or so I had zero libido. Then suddenly I had very bad mood swings and my libido jumped into high gear.
i didnt even know masturbation could feel good until i was like 22 🤯 i didn't masturbate a single time until then, problem is when i realized that. I couldn't stop jerking it.
This makes me feel better about my 2 to 3 times a day, because I've read some people only do it 2-3x A WEEK. I can't even imagine going more than a day without just once. Mel seemed normal to me personally, those #'s seem the avg I was hitting when I was going through puberty and had no responsibilities LOL
It's one of those things that sounds fun but fake, but is real and also torturous. Even 2 Nympho's together isn't a fix cause they just feed into each other and multiple symptoms. Unless the physical exhaustion from real activity manages to slow em down.
Hypersexuality is no joke either. I know some people might think that it sounds sexy to imagine someone masturbating that often, but the reality of excessive sexual behavior is huge. In order to dull the libido, some people can turn to substance abuse when they cannot feel satiated, and other times they may even genuinely consider suicide an option to escape the endless sexual hunger that can ruin your social life. Especially for a woman (as there is no refractory period), the possibility of hypersexuality causing problems can be quite high. Skipping friend outings, spending excessive time away from family, or even just ducking out of a party to go masturbate in a secluded spot can be real problems. The emotional damage of feeling so out-of-control can genuinely lead to those aforementioned coping mechanisms, especially if people aren't taking your condition seriously. Often partners of Hypersexuals will become exhausted trying to keep up with the libido of their partner, which leads to relationship strife, which leads to splitting up, and which leads to further depression as the individual blames their incessant drive for the failure of the relationship. In addition, sometimes the drive is so great that a Hypersexual will seek out just anybody they can to get a little relief, and numerous partners with no attempt to vet their background can be risky. There's nothing wrong with two consenting adults having casual sex, but when you're just taking anybody and at such a high rate, you're risking STD's. It's genuinely good to hear Mel was able to recognize there was an issue and to try and reclaim some control. It can feel embarrassing to admit it to a doctor, but if you can relate to Mel's plight of just needing to stop, or masturbating to the point of it becoming an injury or problematic to reach the next orgasm and still continuing anyways, seek help.
I feel this one. Never took medicine for it as I have a pretty good handle on myself now-a-days, but the rest... Yups. I wonder of this is a more common thing among girls as I never met a guy with this problem.
Well as a guy your limits catch up with you way sooner. Women can get multiple feelgood moments during a single sploinky session so the 3X the extreme guy amount makes sense.
It depends on a number of factors, but especially your age. You definitely feel more compelled when you're younger, the urge mellows out a bit as your hormones stabilize.
Imagine being a male and already having trouble/pain on your third attempt... biology needs to adjust these things. We already knew Mel was chaotic horni but holy moly... that is a lot of exercise to do in a day.
The colour of my skin changed to that brown colour you get between your thighs coz I used to edge it for 6 hours straight. When I went onto cyproterone it helped though.
That's actually a clever way to use the side effect of a lot of antidepressants out there, because most antidepressants on the market that I know of have the side effect that they massively put a tamper on your libido.
I could see it being difficult to decide to take pills to do it less with her other streams in mind. But, that just sounds exhausting. It's good most people are responding with actual concern and understanding from what I can see, probably because of what a viscerally unpleasant image that is. 12 times a day? Ffs my dopamine system is already broken.
Honestly even as a guy I can do it four to six times a day in if I want to. Heck I can just keep going for multiple rounds in a row without going soft. I just stay hard for some reason.
Lol I imagine it, after doing the deed you wait for it to go soft, but it does not fast enough, and then you just think "eh, while I’m at it, why not go for another shot ?"
@@Serom_974 I once had that problem and by the time I was done and went to get a drink my mom asked "why I was up so early"; I had jacked off a full eight hours on a school night.
Yeah, when I was in my 20's and 30's I was also doing it 4-6 times a day. And a few more on weekend getaways to the beach... Now I'm just shy of 50, with a degenerative, terminal illness and I'm still managing 2-3 times a day. I really can't relate to people who talk about this stuff in per-week or per-month timeframes; I'd be so fucking backed-up.
People talk about casual sex, they also talk about competitive sex. May I introduce you, to sex on single player? It turns out she was playing the equivalent of darksouls of single player sex.
it's strange cause there are days that i do it once or three times and then there are times i just am awake all night and reupping literally every 30 mins or so until dawn comes and i realize I've been up all night
man, I wish ... likely ... I mean, it's a nice thing to enjoy if 3 times a day ... I'm slowly moving toward 3 times a _month_ ... - life is about enjoying life, right? ...
Man, that's wild. Thought was the only one. It's harsh in a way; I remember days not going to university or canceling plans with my friends just for that. I remember one day at my mid teens, that i started on a friday at 10:00pm and stopped the next day at 2:30 pm. (Was so depresed and had inverted time schedule at that time) I counted it between 15-17 times. Man, probably just carving for something to feel good. (I've never done drugs or smoke. Alcohol just a little)
it's really hard to control your desires .. sometimes medication helps but sometimes not controllable anymore and just go with instinct...but yeah .. take care yourself people... doing it 4 times or more is kinda normal but to others it's kinda excessive... always clean up and take a break
male 28, a couple of years ago i could reach 6 times on my days offs but if i tried to go beyond that my pp hurt............ now it dosent hurt anymore and i go beyond that xD
That's nuts. good for her for seeking help. I cant remember who, but i heard a story on VH1 rock stories about a gut who was having so much sex, his phallus split in half from too much work.
Oh it's not fun. It's all consuming and demoralizing, not due to "sex bad" but because it's basically a druggies "Why can't I stop?!" Full [Reproduction] addicts have it even worse, cause human bodies aren't optimized for "relay races" without taking damage.
it's worse for me, I used to do it about 5 times a day when I was younger...then I injured myself...legit started peeing blood a little I got kinda worried, but it did heal up, it took about a week or 2...so now I limit myself to about 2 times a day, I still can go for 3 but that's REALLY pushing it lol
I've seen a meme recently that said that orgasm is a "shut down" button for men... but a "reboot" button for women. Seems like that was a tad too literally true for Mel.
![일상 속 기분 좋음 [Proto disco meme]](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/DwmEIaZ7XGQ/mqdefault.jpg)
Amazing that Mel's normal now is _FOUR TIMES LESS_ than she was before.
im struggling with that fact still
Well it’s different for women. With guys there’s a refractory period where you can’t arrive. I don’t think women have that so they can do wilder. It the refractory period also varies from guy to guy. Some are longer than others. Heh budm pisss
@@dishonorabledimensions1683Women do have that as well. It's just way shorter.
@@dishonorabledimensions1683 It's not the same but some women, myself included, struggle to do multiple in a row. Can be due to over-sensitivity or in my case, I take SSRI antidepressants so it's a struggle to do one sometimes lol.
I hate that you put it like that, what the hell 😂😂😂
Mel needed antidepressants because she had a hole that she could not fill. And trust me she tried.
Maybe it's not the hole, but the heart?
@@dra6o0n Yes, that was the joke.
@@jokhard8137 Can I have the context?
Mel is holesome.
@@woss5100 The saying is that someone has a hole in the chest that they cannot fill, meaning that something took away their heart.
Me: *used to feel guilty for doing it daily.*
Mel: "Gotta get those numbers up, those are rookie numbers."
I'm pretty sure once a day or close to it is the average for men, you're good.
As I understood it Bao had similar problems as Mel, taking days off from school and taking pills.
Except Bao was nerfed 3 times, and she still can break her record of 12 times a day...
@@adibemaxwell6111 Bao needs anti-puberty meds lol
@@adibemaxwell6111and if im not mistaken cotton is in a similar boat (though not as extreme)?
there is no fixing our favorite dented whale
Yuppppp 😅
Taking days off to do it is literally a sign of addiction btw, take care of yourselves homies.
Yeah I never let the horni interfere with my regular life.
Huge difference between hormonal problems and addiction buddy
Though i do agree that for most ppl this is a sign that there’s a problem
In their case it's mostly a hormonal problem, not addiction, considering how they are prescribes medication
If they took pills for that then it was most likely a hormonal imbalance, which is a physical condition, not a mental one like addiction, there is a big difference between both
Wish I was like that so I could avoid school😂😂😂
Mel needs anti-Viagra....Viagna?
Chat: "sounds about right"
Viagra doesn't make people horny; it just forces the penis into an erect state.
Anti-depressants. They destroy your libido. That is the anti-viagra.
She needs anti-viagra, aka Argaiv
Viag-nah
Viaganra!
People, you will injure yourself if you don't do things properly. Clean, Lube, "Self Care", Rest.
Learned that the hard way when I was a teen and went at it for a full three-day weekend.
@@joshuawells7415
JEEZUS
And clean again before rest
Fully agree. When I lived in Korea my ex-gf and I were on a vacation and we were stuck indoors due to a storm. partially out of curiosity and partially because, ya know, it feels really good we wanted to see how many times we could reasonably go at it. Even with Lube it was starting to get sore for the both of us after the 4th time. I think it's because we neglected self-care and rest. At 12 times I can see how Mel put herself in the hospital.
Amen to that. Got to do it right protect and take care of yourself.
Ah, so Mel was on antidepressants
No, there are legitimately pills made to lower someone’s sex drive. They aren’t antidepressants, even if they share the lowering libido part with them.
Yeah, that stuff kills your libido. Found out a month ago.
Self-medicated in more ways than one.
More like antipleasurance.
@@michaelkata2342 the opposite
Mel gooned too close to the sun
"Maximum horny" LMAO
I read this in the Crysis nanosuit voice it does when you switch modes.
@@ffwast I'm rewatching My Hero Academia, so I read it as All Might's Detroit Smash. 😂
That's an actual problem, and it can dedinitly ruin your life. I'm glad she was able to talk to a doctor who takes it seriously.
I've never gone above twice a day, mel is just on another level.
I have a friend, in similar work ethics as Mel, who had a stream to celebrate a milestone. In said stream, she (my friend, not Mel) went on for hours pushing her body to the “end game” 32 times as far as I can remember. I was surprised she wasn’t tired after that night, and she typically don’t reach such numbers, but it was just a wild moment to hear about
i can go maybe 3 or 4 times. Puberty has always been problematic :|
@@SecretShadowRings Easier for girls, the don't have the refractory period that guys do.
@@SecretShadowRings
Bruh…thats crazy
Most I did was like 7, don't know why
Yknow I used to feel self-conscious.
I think I’ve been cured of that.
Literally took a chill pill
To anyone seeing this, pls take care of yourselves, too much of anything can be lethal to you, even pleasure, so pls be safe and take care
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Yeah sometimes you just got to be in misery without the pleasure
@@kreze9696 I wouldn't go as far to say that, I'm just saying that you shouldn't overdo it, if you're truly in a dark place, indulging in pleasure isn't harmful but you should still focus on your health. Don't just force yourself to have to be in misery because that would affect your mental health and no one should go through that
@@yonarulezIf I had known the correct answers to give when I was a highschool teenage male I would have given them to minimize my sex drive, I didn't like it as it felt useless to me as I received no female attention other than as a friend and I wanted to focus on excelling in intellectual pursuits sufficiently enough to achieve great enough feats in the intellectual field to compensate sufficiently for my social deficiencies caused by a lack of nurturing and neurodivergence. I never learned how to purposefully be funny and land every time due to executive dysfunction (being born ADHD with autism is not a curse I'd wish upon anyone and I'm sorry if you're like me especially how I've ended up). After taking an antipsychotic to try and wipe my mind by acting psychotic because I was tired of the cyclical nature of being a modern human with finally getting some semblance of hope of building something stable only to have missed something or the old flaws in the neurology trigger because you tried to avoid the "hotfix" of self harming to reinforce impulse control with a condition that causes impaired control and stimulants being a restricted drug class that apparently a childhood diagnosis doesn't clear you for to get what you need... I'm getting off track anyway I read online about how even atypicals could lead to "escape from life", so being desperate I did what I had to do to get them prescribed to me unaware that permanent impairment would happen I just wanted to have an easy time like I was demanded or expected to just being able to emotionlessly take tests without intrusive emotional flashbacks filling me with conflicting emotions that I had to just ignore to continue taking the test holding out for when what I was doing would become enjoyable again because there's no time to grieve losses in this world.
Yeah, anything that disrupts your life is to be taken seriously and you should take care of it.
There is no such thing too embarrassing or too insignificant to see an expert about, in such case.
Ironmouse yakking away about everybody's sex drives to avoid having to actually wash anything...
I'm not an expert in bodily conditions so take with a pitch of salt for what its worth, but Mel could have some sort of Hormonal imbalance since I'm Pretty sure Bao had a similar condition to mel and took similar treatment. The pills they both took I think helped Throttle down the production of Reproductive hormones in the body in order to stabilize the balance of hormones in their bodies which were thrown into overdrive, allowing Mel and Bao to "Calm Down" so to speak.
So that's what Bao meant when she said she was "fixed".
bao and mel seem ot be related irl XD (im joking) but still both have issues with lockjaw and other health conditions so they seem eerily similar
The pills were most likely either antidepressants or pregnancy pills. Both are extremely common, both are used by many women, and both have the side effect of drastically reducing the libido.
Houshou marine has talked about having similar issues to Mel and bao as well and from what I remember she said it could be pretty crippling with how bad it could get at times
It call hypersexuality I have it, it also pretty common with people who have bipolar issues or straight up autism or the two. It not the greatest thing to deal with especially in serious relationships, as guy I can’t imagine the struggle for girl who contrary to guy don’t have to wait to continue
14 times?! how is that even humanly possible? o_O
Willpower, lubrication, hydration, and a lot of good material
She went to hospital for it and now takes bonk pills for a reason
Im not too sure if it was real... but pretty sure I heard of someone doing that 28 times in a single day... apparently they didnt make it to the hospital in time.
How true is that, idk.
It's definitely possible. Assuming you are that kind of horny and don't plan on doing anything else that day, you can for sure exceed 20.
well, most people are awake for 16 hours ... not that crazy.
Definitely TMI but there's weeks where I go without it, and there's days where I reach 3, sometimes even 4 times. As for how I have the time for that, well, I just neglect other things, sometimes important things, but that's a problem for future me.
Yup future you can handle that lol
@@angelredvivarspoiler: they can't always deal with it.
My max of just not being horny enough to bother was like a week, i usually can go 3-6 times depending on how i feel at any given moment but tbh i hate doing it at all because of PNC enhancing my depression
...Yea, that's too many times.
Me and GF were doing 2-3 a day for a month straight, and then we had to take a break. I got a friction burn.
RIP Aicandii's first boyfriend. He will be remember!
Ai and Mel should hang out with Bao.
They need to hire someone to clean the floor then...
I remember once when I was a teen seeing blood from whacking it too many times in a day. Don't do that especially if you are a guy who just uses tissues or TP it's a terrible idea.
In the spirit of telling people not to do things you did as a horny teen, I will chime in and say "do whack it using soap" yes it feels nice and slippery like lube, but soap is literally meant to pull oils and dirt off of your skin, and the skin down there is very thin and very sensitive, and not only does your skin naturally produce oils, it is also partially MADE of oils. So if you combine that with soap and a lot of friction over a few minutes, it will feel good... And then it will start to feel very painful as the soap literally will start to *rip your skin apart.*
I had to deal with what looked like sandpaper burns on my meat for about a week before I was even willing to touch it again.
@@althelorI hate when it gets bruised. That's when you know it's time to dial it back a bit.
You know you have a problem when you have a stockpile of lube and have to wear a wristbrace.
I actually tore a hole in my scrote once. Tore right at the seam made from being circumcised. It formed into a scab and took like 1 to 2 weeks to heal. Stories of real problems from the people with above average libidos.
@@jackcoleman1784 oh god i cant unread that sentence. that sounds horrible.
guys in chat hearing this: massive painful ball shrinkage (like dried up raisins)
Listening to this really makes you apprechiate the built-in limits of male body. Holy fuck.
No it doesn't.
@@ffwast in that case seek ways to derive satisfaction from doing something more productive.
@@nosville22so... The issue is I'm not beeing productive?? Dude, we are watching three v-tubers roleplay having a job... Wdym do something more productive??
@@nosville22maybe you shouldn't jork it 15 times a day, but fuck productivity.
this is like if we suddenly learned that Muhammad Ali was wearing 100 pound weights during all of his fights
Mel a certified gooner
Oof, flashbacks to being a teen. There were times when my junk was just raw and sore from not being able to stop. So glad puberty only happens once.
not if you're trans. being put on hormones and transitioning is called second puberty by trans people. I'll update you when that happens for me, but I'm not sure if the hyper libido happens again
Hi, transgirl here. Had to go through puberty twice.
@@MagiRemmie considering how awful first puberty has been for me, not looking forward to the emotions second puberty brings. but, I already went through it once, so I have experience, and I can learn to control it. I'm curious though. how was it for you?
@@violetbean8928 Depending on your viewpoint, worse than the first time. For the first month or so I had zero libido. Then suddenly I had very bad mood swings and my libido jumped into high gear.
@@MagiRemmie ah, so life with ADHD
i can't imagine more the 2. or maybe rare exception if its been a really long time 3.
Damn, and here I am restraining myself for doing more than twice a day, I don’t know if Mel has a lack of willpower, or the complete opposite
you clearly arent strong enough
""That's craazy" - ironmouse
I feel bad when I do it a few times a week, I don't think my junk could handle 3 times a day.
Hello good sir, may I know your irl age ? For reference
i didnt even know masturbation could feel good until i was like 22 🤯 i didn't masturbate a single time until then, problem is when i realized that. I couldn't stop jerking it.
I get cranky if I have to go more than a couple of days without.
I don’t really think about it too much, if ur horny ur horny
That post nut clarity sucks ass though sometimes
Skill issue
This makes me feel better about my 2 to 3 times a day, because I've read some people only do it 2-3x A WEEK. I can't even imagine going more than a day without just once. Mel seemed normal to me personally, those #'s seem the avg I was hitting when I was going through puberty and had no responsibilities LOL
Your hormones must be out of whack, the average is as you mentioned 2-3 times a week.
Nymphomania. Huh. Turns out that’s a real thing, I guess.
It's one of those things that sounds fun but fake, but is real and also torturous.
Even 2 Nympho's together isn't a fix cause they just feed into each other and multiple symptoms. Unless the physical exhaustion from real activity manages to slow em down.
Yeah and contradictory to movies, it isn't a good thing.
@@Mirkk47 A lot of guys would be "Oh, I'd love a nymphomaniac girlfriend". Right up until they actually have to deal with that very real problem.
@@DragonKnightJin the memes where they show the guy a skeleton with skin on it but for real
0:58 Yeah, i read that h3ntai too
Mad respect for being that open about it. Open and honest is not easy to come by and you all have my respect for that.
My goodness. The most times in a single happy time session for me was 4 times. That was done only one day tho
Hypersexuality is no joke either. I know some people might think that it sounds sexy to imagine someone masturbating that often, but the reality of excessive sexual behavior is huge. In order to dull the libido, some people can turn to substance abuse when they cannot feel satiated, and other times they may even genuinely consider suicide an option to escape the endless sexual hunger that can ruin your social life. Especially for a woman (as there is no refractory period), the possibility of hypersexuality causing problems can be quite high. Skipping friend outings, spending excessive time away from family, or even just ducking out of a party to go masturbate in a secluded spot can be real problems. The emotional damage of feeling so out-of-control can genuinely lead to those aforementioned coping mechanisms, especially if people aren't taking your condition seriously. Often partners of Hypersexuals will become exhausted trying to keep up with the libido of their partner, which leads to relationship strife, which leads to splitting up, and which leads to further depression as the individual blames their incessant drive for the failure of the relationship. In addition, sometimes the drive is so great that a Hypersexual will seek out just anybody they can to get a little relief, and numerous partners with no attempt to vet their background can be risky. There's nothing wrong with two consenting adults having casual sex, but when you're just taking anybody and at such a high rate, you're risking STD's.
It's genuinely good to hear Mel was able to recognize there was an issue and to try and reclaim some control. It can feel embarrassing to admit it to a doctor, but if you can relate to Mel's plight of just needing to stop, or masturbating to the point of it becoming an injury or problematic to reach the next orgasm and still continuing anyways, seek help.
I feel this one. Never took medicine for it as I have a pretty good handle on myself now-a-days, but the rest... Yups.
I wonder of this is a more common thing among girls as I never met a guy with this problem.
Well as a guy your limits catch up with you way sooner. Women can get multiple feelgood moments during a single sploinky session so the 3X the extreme guy amount makes sense.
I thought 3 times a day was a fairly normal amount.
It depends on a number of factors, but especially your age. You definitely feel more compelled when you're younger, the urge mellows out a bit as your hormones stabilize.
@@pearperapare I'm 33, I used to do more when I was younger
Use to play like 5 or 6
Then hormones just stabilize.
I only do 1 or 2.
No more.
@@nurglefaceIt's only gotten worse as I've gotten older.
No that's not normal actually. That's very not normal.
Sounding like a Bao story
MEL + MICHI would make a normal person lol one doesnt do it the other does it too much.
Na, they'd still be doing it more often than usual lol.
The average is still 6 times a day. Mel is truly incredible.
Imagine being a male and already having trouble/pain on your third attempt... biology needs to adjust these things.
We already knew Mel was chaotic horni but holy moly... that is a lot of exercise to do in a day.
Yeah those stories of people that use two protectors and end up with bad burnings
Yikes....
The colour of my skin changed to that brown colour you get between your thighs coz I used to edge it for 6 hours straight. When I went onto cyproterone it helped though.
Not back to back, but I usually do it between 3 and 7 times per day, depending on plans and work. It never hurts. I'm a dude. It's not that crazy
That's actually a clever way to use the side effect of a lot of antidepressants out there, because most antidepressants on the market that I know of have the side effect that they massively put a tamper on your libido.
ive done 2-3 daily for decades lol
Damn. You know it's bad when it starts affecting social and personal obligations like school or work.
I could see it being difficult to decide to take pills to do it less with her other streams in mind. But, that just sounds exhausting. It's good most people are responding with actual concern and understanding from what I can see, probably because of what a viscerally unpleasant image that is. 12 times a day? Ffs my dopamine system is already broken.
So many wow moments in such a short conversation.! Awesome how life can be sometimes..even when it's not an entirely good thing.
Being able to go at it all day long is a gift and a curse.
Queens of gooning o7
taking a day off school is CRAZY
12? Damn that wild even 3-4 a day sounds a lot😂😂 hope everything getting better
Honestly even as a guy I can do it four to six times a day in if I want to. Heck I can just keep going for multiple rounds in a row without going soft. I just stay hard for some reason.
Lol I imagine it, after doing the deed you wait for it to go soft, but it does not fast enough, and then you just think "eh, while I’m at it, why not go for another shot ?"
@@Serom_974 I once had that problem and by the time I was done and went to get a drink my mom asked "why I was up so early"; I had jacked off a full eight hours on a school night.
@@Serom_974You're right on the money for how it works.
Yeah, when I was in my 20's and 30's I was also doing it 4-6 times a day. And a few more on weekend getaways to the beach... Now I'm just shy of 50, with a degenerative, terminal illness and I'm still managing 2-3 times a day. I really can't relate to people who talk about this stuff in per-week or per-month timeframes; I'd be so fucking backed-up.
@@Serom_974
Got the job done
Alright, power down
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Alright then, Round 2, 3, 4, 5
I can't even do it daily, the difference between people is crazy
I can relate HEAVILY to this. When you can function because your mind is just FUCKED. At least now its controllable.
I saw this coming 😅
Even with medicine she's still active though that's crazy
She’s the hentai protagonist and we’re all NPCs
Her endurance is above 9000
3-4 times a day is base succubus numbers.
As a dude, my personal best wasn't that much, Danm Mel.
Damn. That's a hard condition to live with.
Reminds me of Marine from holo calling into er former office job cause she couldn't stop doing it
People talk about casual sex, they also talk about competitive sex. May I introduce you, to sex on single player? It turns out she was playing the equivalent of darksouls of single player sex.
A lot of ppl don't realise but yeah. My friends used to look me like I'm weird cause I don't like dating but I'm a gooner. Too demisexual for that
Mel like icarus gooned too close to the sun
after this video I got an ad blasting THE POWER OF LOVE~
Mel is not getting enough clearly.
it's strange cause there are days that i do it once or three times and then there are times i just am awake all night and reupping literally every 30 mins or so until dawn comes and i realize I've been up all night
Bro got that call of duty quick revive
....it was the machine wasn't it😂
man, I wish ... likely ... I mean, it's a nice thing to enjoy if 3 times a day ... I'm slowly moving toward 3 times a _month_ ... - life is about enjoying life, right? ...
It's also about going at your pace
Those are some respectable numbers
Man, that's wild. Thought was the only one. It's harsh in a way; I remember days not going to university or canceling plans with my friends just for that. I remember one day at my mid teens, that i started on a friday at 10:00pm and stopped the next day at 2:30 pm. (Was so depresed and had inverted time schedule at that time) I counted it between 15-17 times. Man, probably just carving for something to feel good. (I've never done drugs or smoke. Alcohol just a little)
Huh, didn't know Cobra provided house power washing services.
I think you should go most times you want as long it will not get in the way of your obligations.
Love these goofballs.
The max I could ever go repeatedly is 3 and that's only if I find some really good sauce.
it's really hard to control your desires .. sometimes medication helps but sometimes not controllable anymore and just go with instinct...but yeah .. take care yourself people... doing it 4 times or more is kinda normal but to others it's kinda excessive... always clean up and take a break
This video is exactly what it says on the tin.
I don't doubt that Mel would need to take such medicine. I DO doubt that she would willingly take it.
A wakeup call can do wonders
@@clayxros576 Not really.
I did not know this happened to girls too, i am right now flabergasted
I might need to look into those types of pills too. Lol
It does disrupt my life way too much.
My first GF I moved in with was like this as well, I didn't even realize it was anything strange until we broke up and I started dating "normal" girls
male 28, a couple of years ago i could reach 6 times on my days offs but if i tried to go beyond that my pp hurt............ now it dosent hurt anymore and i go beyond that xD
30, male, SAAAME 💪🏼
Max honry Mel is kind of scary.
Antidepressants do this to me, worth it as it is, I'd like my regular libido
I once dated a nympho way back. We did it 4 times in less than 24 hours. It was great, but I had to go to a sex clinic because it caused...problems 😅
At least you re okay
It didn't go worse.
@@AgnesBooth-zu7tw it was thankfully treatable, and I learned ways of controlling my libido a little bit better.
I relate to this way too much, man...
At least I didn't take days off school just to do it, but still...
That's nuts. good for her for seeking help. I cant remember who, but i heard a story on VH1 rock stories about a gut who was having so much sex, his phallus split in half from too much work.
3 is a lot, especially every day. 2 max for me but usually 1. You’ll fuck up your hands if you do it too much.
Mel is like Bao in horniness
Advanced Gooning
I love how Mel can make some of this shit up like this on the spot..... Right?😂
...Sounds like the opposite of a problem... i never get to meet fun pplz like that...
Oh it's not fun. It's all consuming and demoralizing, not due to "sex bad" but because it's basically a druggies "Why can't I stop?!"
Full [Reproduction] addicts have it even worse, cause human bodies aren't optimized for "relay races" without taking damage.
I wish I had the energy to do it that much, also I find very sex positive girls attractive just being so comfortable and open about it is nice
Mel could a different kind of 24 hour stream.
Go full send bros 💪💪💪 you’ll get abs on your op in no time
ngl i wanna say thats crazy but as a really *ACTIVE* guy myself i understand mel and candy XD
it's worse for me, I used to do it about 5 times a day when I was younger...then I injured myself...legit started peeing blood a little
I got kinda worried, but it did heal up, it took about a week or 2...so now I limit myself to about 2 times a day, I still can go for 3 but that's REALLY pushing it lol
3 times is fine. I try to limit it to 2 times a day now because I started to tear the skin off my thing from doing it too often.
I've seen a meme recently that said that orgasm is a "shut down" button for men... but a "reboot" button for women. Seems like that was a tad too literally true for Mel.