I'M A BAD MOTHER? BEING MOMMY SHAMED...

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  • @dianarivas3858
    @dianarivas3858 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1092

    If you don’t show your baby there all gonna say that you don’t spend time with him ... you really can’t please everyone . Just do your thing girl .

    • @yeseniacorona3094
      @yeseniacorona3094 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Diana Rivas 🙌🏻 yes!!! Girls just find anything to bash others! Smh!!

    • @yessicaceja-paniagua3175
      @yessicaceja-paniagua3175 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I fkn hate people that mommy shame!!Like it's her baby she can do what ever she wants. I agree with you girl ^.

    • @RrRr-pw8de
      @RrRr-pw8de 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Well said!

    • @shanasheree5563
      @shanasheree5563 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes people always got shit to say
      ..jeez. Your fine who cares what people think it's their opinion...

    • @erikalove219
      @erikalove219 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree

  • @emelycontreras7904
    @emelycontreras7904 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1254

    She’s a first time mom, let her learn by her mistakes not everybody was a “ perfect mom “ with they’re first baby!

    • @GabyTitoVlogs
      @GabyTitoVlogs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Emely Contreras ❤️👏🏻

    • @cynthiamart217
      @cynthiamart217 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ✋Yess!!!!! Preach

    • @tiamarrow6366
      @tiamarrow6366 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Emely Contreras preach!!! Plus all moms are different, and are going to raise their children differently.

    • @genesisorozco9669
      @genesisorozco9669 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Even with 3 kids no one is a perfect mom but some people like to call out other people's mistakes or decisions. I felt like a bad mom sometimes with my first born because I had no idea what I was doing I have a baby rn and it's so much easier this time around

    • @royalty111
      @royalty111 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Yeah but Im pretty sure everyone knows to hold the babies head, they tell you that at the hospital 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @sjm4396
    @sjm4396 4 ปีที่แล้ว +384

    Whether y’all consider it “mommy shaming” or not, unsolicited advice/tips about motherhood is annoying! She didn’t ask y’all for your tips, let her live and learn how to be a mother on her own. She doesn’t have to share this journey with us, yet she still does! So shut up and appreciate it, or move on!

    • @kenetrice
      @kenetrice 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@user-jn1xw6gf9c Are you goofy or what? The shit that people are pointing out or complaining about is not the type of shit that gets you reported to child services. She's not neglecting her child or beating him, etc. People are finding stupid little shit to nitpick about. It's the type of shit that child services does not have time to worry about or entertain.

    • @alexiyahxoxo1377
      @alexiyahxoxo1377 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      V R social services? Are you mad? Unless she’s harming her child which she clearly would NEVER do what reason does someone have to report her? She would never do anything intentionally to harm her child so no she doesn’t need your “tips” get out of here

    • @alexiyahxoxo1377
      @alexiyahxoxo1377 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      V R where in my comment did I say “cases are only opened if someone is intentionally harming their kids” i never said that. I CLEARLY said nobody has a REASON to report her if she’s not harming the child. I never mentioned anything about cases so please take your irrelevant information somewhere else trying to be a smart ass🙃

    • @alexiyahxoxo1377
      @alexiyahxoxo1377 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      V R you think you know everything about social services, they ain’t shit. Haven’t you seen the case of gabriel fernandez, they had multiple social workers visit his home right before his death, he went to school with bruises on his face and nobody questioned it, he was fed nothing but cat litter and nobody even thought to suspect his parents who ended up killing him. Child services don’t always protect kids so you need to chill.

    • @alexiyahxoxo1377
      @alexiyahxoxo1377 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      V R at least we’re not stupid 🙃

  • @ChefPiggy
    @ChefPiggy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    hate when I’m reading comments and a freaking Ad comes up and takes me all the way up. Like bro! I was in comment 98!

  • @lingaroundmf704
    @lingaroundmf704 4 ปีที่แล้ว +277

    Two airhead? Sis she ain’t 16 living with her parents and there’s nothing wrong with that either but they have a beautiful home been in a relationship for 9yrs y’all just mad cause she’s a beautiful doing it the right way!

    • @karenjandres7023
      @karenjandres7023 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ling Aroundmf 🙏

    • @AyeeeItsCam
      @AyeeeItsCam 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why would that make people mad tho? Lmao

    • @animeadits3268
      @animeadits3268 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ling Aroundmf these bitches mad af they Would do anything to get noticed what do y’all expect from these dumb bitches lol

    • @sg-dv7xo
      @sg-dv7xo 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      If she was doing it right, she’d be married.

  • @mireyahdaleyzah3323
    @mireyahdaleyzah3323 4 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    no one should be judging no one on how to be a mom no one is perfect she’s a first time mom she’s learning I have 2 kids and I’m still learning how to be a mom my self

  • @arelyjj1377
    @arelyjj1377 4 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    I get one or two comments but that video was full of the same thing she gets it ! Alot of people dress up shadyness as advice. Bri you are a great mom and definitely get where you are coming from !

  • @lydiabek163
    @lydiabek163 4 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    I love how mature she has become. And I also love how she has taken on board the criticism from her last vid. Some of ya'll need to remember she's a first time mom just trying to do her best for her baby. Even if you want to tell her she's doing something wrong, remember its not what you say its how you say it. Bri and Fern your doing a great job xxx

  • @modestyduarte4948
    @modestyduarte4948 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    I don’t understand how people are soo mean like she is a FIRST time mother like she’s stressed and also anxious I mean every first time mother has gone through this don’t mom shame like wtf! Also postpartum depression is a thing as well.

    • @juliezamora8148
      @juliezamora8148 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Modesty Duarte anxious but drinking at the club lmao

    • @Betterme3132
      @Betterme3132 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s the problem with social media tho lol they dont realize everyone’s knew at everything at some point in there life. This just gives people a platform to throw their opinions that nobody cares about.. people will spread hatred at any chance they can you should honestly turn comments off when it comes to your baby you don’t need to see all that negativity.

    • @daisymartinez8280
      @daisymartinez8280 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@juliezamora8148 so moms cant have fun? Man u ugly fuck mind yo business

    • @juliezamora8148
      @juliezamora8148 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@daisymartinez8280 🤪🤪🤪 did i struck a nerve bbgirl 😂😂

  • @modestyduarte4948
    @modestyduarte4948 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Also hearing harsh things like this on what she should and shouldn’t do with her baby can get frustrating and stressful that could lead to postpartum depression.

  • @tiffanygarzaxo7929
    @tiffanygarzaxo7929 4 ปีที่แล้ว +223

    You aren't a bad mom 💖 matter of fact no one can judge your mom skills except baby Evi. People just look for excuses to shame anyone because they are not happy with their own life. No mom is perfect and we will make mistakes here and there without meaning harm but as long as it gets fixed everything will be fine. 💖💖💖

    • @tiamarrow6366
      @tiamarrow6366 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Tiffany Garzaxo exactly!!! Like I guess a lot of mommy shammers have forgotten that every mom is different. There’s no rule or law saying that every mom must raise their child, or children the same way. Plus nobody is perfect, and nobody is meant to be perfect. We were put on this Earth to make mistakes, not to fake perfection....so just as long as we are aware of an issue, and fix it....that’s all that should matter. Plus Evian is Briana and Fern’s son....not anyone else. Those mommy shammers should worry about their own kids, not someone else’s kids.

    • @dominiquexo4772
      @dominiquexo4772 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I’m tired of mothers judging a new mother on how to treat their child. Everyone learns and teaches differently. 😔😳

    • @marcellacisneros98
      @marcellacisneros98 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Nobody was Mommy shaming her they were just giving her advice on holding the babys head. So you ass kisser need to stop with the they're just hating cause they can't be you bs!

    • @tiamarrow6366
      @tiamarrow6366 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Marcella Cisneros did you read the comments that she posted in the video? Because those comments were kind of rude. I’ve seen even more worse comments on her Instagram. Like there’s a way to leave an “advice” comment, without being rude and disrespectful about it.

    • @tiamarrow6366
      @tiamarrow6366 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Britney Mendoza exactly, and some of those comments are really disrespectful and nasty. However, all Bri has to do is block those haters, and report the comments or the pages in general. That’s what I do, and most of those pages and comments end up getting taken down.

  • @kategalvan9660
    @kategalvan9660 4 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    I LOVE how you blast the negative people. You’re great parents that are learning. And you’re beautiful sis!! 💜

  • @karileilany9815
    @karileilany9815 4 ปีที่แล้ว +153

    You’re a new mom to your FIRST child. You learn as he grows ... being a mom doesn’t come with a handbook, me personally think that you are doing a good job and you love your child. Keep doing you mamas💛 god bless your family ✨

  • @lenarey2539
    @lenarey2539 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    That was soooo adorable when fern said “you need to be nicer to my baby” he’s so sweet to her I love it!

  • @ellleceee2586
    @ellleceee2586 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    being a mom doesn’t come with instructions, you learn how to be a mom day by day, and you’re a first time mom, you’re learning and growing with your baby, only YOU know your baby and you’re doing a amazing job! oh and we bought my 2 year old son a tricycle & it was the smallest thing ever he looked so huge in it! 😂♥️

  • @priscillah3713
    @priscillah3713 4 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    I gotta hand it to Bri at least she acknowledged she should have been holding his head. Proud of her for admitting this!!! Other youtubers just go off and act like they are perfect and refuse to admit that they too can make mistakes just like anyone else.
    You handled this well Bri, shows maturity and class 💕

    • @ezUbz
      @ezUbz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Priscilla H yess! Absolutely love her. 💕

  • @LupithaXO
    @LupithaXO 4 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    I don’t think you’re a bad mom. I read some comments in your other video and some people were being as nice as they could to give you advice. Especially because you’re a new mom. Even I commented, but I was nice about it😧😧

    • @lalamartinez123
      @lalamartinez123 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wavey she did mention some were nice about it & appreciated those comments 😀👍🏼

  • @azulcelexte
    @azulcelexte 4 ปีที่แล้ว +150

    Sometimes I wonder if the girls who leave mean comments do the same to their friends/family on their personal Facebook/IG. I feel like most mean people are so quick to be internet thugs to people they don’t know in person or know they won’t meet. How people feel good about judging others I will never understand 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @michellewilliams1386
      @michellewilliams1386 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Azul you are so right

    • @loveusfamfive7966
      @loveusfamfive7966 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      yup, pitiful. there are a lot of... keyboard killers out here!

    • @amason5332
      @amason5332 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Trust me, they do!

    • @gina4196
      @gina4196 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Course they do they evil bitches!

  • @m_ayyraa
    @m_ayyraa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    I laughed so hard at the pillows lmaooo girl you gotta start reading the description and the reviews 🤣

    • @LifewithCee_
      @LifewithCee_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      First Name Frfr 😂😂😂😂

  • @annamendez8807
    @annamendez8807 4 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    Babygirl you do your thing. Half of this “mommies” didn’t even raise their kids. Maybe their mom would watch this kids or take care of their kids while they out party every weekend. And I’m saying this for what I’ve seen. Females this days they give birth and right away they go out every weekend while their mom watch their kids. Smh 🤦🏻‍♀️
    But babygirl your doing amazing ! And like everyone said you don’t got to be perfect to be pleasing people who been saying you a bad mom which your not ! ❤️

    • @letimartinez6713
      @letimartinez6713 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Anna, is your family from Superior? I went to school with David

    • @melissalove460
      @melissalove460 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She isn't raising hers either like her twin all they do is drop their kids off at mom's house n go club n party

  • @cristalaguilar1212
    @cristalaguilar1212 4 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    When Bri said, ‘’I’m just... I’m just gonna walk away.’’ It’s mood for 2020

    • @AZilla520
      @AZilla520 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    • @GabyTitoVlogs
      @GabyTitoVlogs 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cristal Aguilar Same lol

    • @AZilla520
      @AZilla520 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I kept replaying that part. She's so funny. Omg. I love how she said that and her expressions😂💕

    • @trinarodriquez1878
      @trinarodriquez1878 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I thought that part was so funny

  • @keniaa6671
    @keniaa6671 4 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    I love how she didn’t mind to post their names😂 they deserve that she’s a first time mommy and no one should judge her how she raises her baby y’all let her learn she’s learning as he grows, we love you beautiful and your gorgeous baby❤️

    • @erikalove219
      @erikalove219 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      kenia altamirano 👏🏼👏🏼

  • @cinrog2627
    @cinrog2627 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Girlfriend STOP weighing yourself, just be you and eat "healthy", also, you will never make everyone happy, so keep doing your mommy things.

  • @zitlaliceron6087
    @zitlaliceron6087 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Bri, please keep your hair like this! It’s looking so much healthier and that length looks beautiful on you! ❤️

  • @brittanycalhoun8568
    @brittanycalhoun8568 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    New moms, moms having their 1st 2nd 3rd and 4th all need positive support. Everyone should be telling her how great of a job she's doing. I agree with supporting their head but he didnt look like he was in any distress, babys will let you know.
    Yall stop telling her to lay that baby on his side, drs recommends babys only lay on their back while they are asleep
    The risk of sids goes up with side or tummy sleeping. Both my babys slept on their back and neither of them had a flat head. Babys will roll and sleep on their side and tummy when they are ready.
    And its almost impossible to over feed. Babys go through so many growth spurts and cluster feedings, let babys eat when they want to eat, dont time. Its called "demand feeding"
    Anyways, youre doing great mama . He looks happy and healthy💕

    • @irmarodriguez1390
      @irmarodriguez1390 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly, I am so tired of the comments regarding his head and being bald in the back because she keeps laying him that way. News flash you are suppose to lay them on their backs.

  • @auroracampos8244
    @auroracampos8244 4 ปีที่แล้ว +230

    Did the hate get out of control; definitely! As a mother myself, you going out a week after you gave birth wasn’t a good idea only because you’re body doesn’t fully heal from the INSIDE for a good 6-8weeks; especially since having the epidural it can cause back pain and have long term effects. It looks like your doing good and feeling fine just remember that you don’t always have to “bounce back” so fast. Your body and health is the most important ❤️ id like to add; being a new mom is definitely hard we see you doing a great job and it gets easier ❤️

    • @Melissa-pf8cd
      @Melissa-pf8cd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I agree with you 100% i was surprised when she went out a week after birth but I don’t think it makes her a bad mom, the people commenting rude things just don’t have anything better to do

    • @anitabonita707
      @anitabonita707 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I agree! And even if you feel good... not waiting and taking care of yourself will eventually caught up to you.. with my first, second and third kid i was like nothing... but my 4th mess me up.. it took me like a month to recover fully and i had a natural birth.. no pain meds and easy labor..

    • @desij5355
      @desij5355 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      That's her business not yours or ours! Period ..👏 Worry about your damn self 🤭🤣

    • @miasanchez2772
      @miasanchez2772 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It doesnt make her a bad mom as moms we make mistakes just like any other woman I made the mistake but I was a teenage single mom and I regret it. You will want to spend as much time with your babies as you can because once they grow you realize that u cant turn back the hands of time 😿

    • @jenniferguzman195
      @jenniferguzman195 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      It's her body who are you to decide when she should go out wtf is wrong with ppl smfh!!! Like as long as she takes care of her kid and home it's no one business what she does "ain't nobody paying her bills but her" so let her be and if she wants to go out after a whole 9 months being stuck home, then let her be dam smfh ppl are weird

  • @shirleysantos369
    @shirleysantos369 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Love when fern said" block their ass" just don't pay attention negative people. When we are first time mother's we learn as we go! It's a beautiful journey to go thru! Sometimes are are good sometimes are not! You are doing great bri! Much love 😘♥️

  • @ajcreations7558
    @ajcreations7558 4 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    I ordered 2 clear chairs for my office from Amazon. I thought i got a deal!! They were super cheap. I get home and guess what???
    The reason why they were so cheap is because they were for a doll house!! Ugh!

    • @angelinacorinaperez5383
      @angelinacorinaperez5383 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      A&J Creations omg 😂😂

    • @Brianaa97
      @Brianaa97 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂😬

    • @GraceLove33
      @GraceLove33 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      A&J Creations wish ? Lol

    • @ajcreations7558
      @ajcreations7558 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@GraceLove33 Amazon! Lol

    • @OurBestLifee
      @OurBestLifee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hahahahahaha stuff like that always happens to me but with electronics lol I end up getting a cover or a charger and not the device 😂

  • @mayberrymom7613
    @mayberrymom7613 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Evy smiling at Britt on the phone was the absolute cutest!

  • @launajim1180
    @launajim1180 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    LMAOOOOOOO she said “I’m just gonna walk away” MEEEEE whenever I get disappointed and I don’t want nothing to do with it after lol

  • @paolabautista2665
    @paolabautista2665 4 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    People are going to talk regardless about how to raise a kid even when you aren’t an influencer, you’re a great momma 💕

  • @bsoto9468
    @bsoto9468 4 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    Omg i'm fkn cracking up with the pillows

  • @v.valeria5842
    @v.valeria5842 4 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    Honestly that someone comment about you need to be more careful with Evis head is not mommy shaming. But people comment in a rude way I get it. You are learning... do you, Boo

    • @josiemontoya2000
      @josiemontoya2000 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      V. Paizano that’s what she said

    • @dominiquexo4772
      @dominiquexo4772 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sometimes I forget to hold my baby head 🤷🏻‍♀️ I’m a new mother and still learning but people are too judgmental

    • @v.valeria5842
      @v.valeria5842 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Josie Montoya I know I see the whole video & the comment.

    • @v.valeria5842
      @v.valeria5842 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jessi Cruz True but I think because the baby is so frágil.

    • @josiemontoya2000
      @josiemontoya2000 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jessi Cruz yes it’s new to you!

  • @jadediaz2932
    @jadediaz2932 4 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    “I just washed my hands too , before you guys start” fern tired of everyone’s shit 💀

  • @EatwithElvia
    @EatwithElvia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Being a mom is not easy. As long as you know that you're trying your best, then you are doing great Bri! Don't let the rude comments get to you. Much love Bri & Fern!❤️

  • @mayraramirez1548
    @mayraramirez1548 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Girl don’t listen to the negative comments no one is perfect everyone makes mistakes keep up the good work mamma ❤️

  • @mitziuribe9988
    @mitziuribe9988 4 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    You guys it’s her first kid she’s learning y’all be acting like you guys were pros with ur first child 🤣 you do you bri you only know ur baby the best !

    • @nancys9800
      @nancys9800 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mitzi Uribe ikr whether you’re 15 or 30 having a first kid you’re learning like sheesh 🤣

    • @mitziuribe9988
      @mitziuribe9988 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nancy {s} yesss

    • @ccv5340
      @ccv5340 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Factsss ... im now pregnant with my 2nd , my son is now 6and im still trying to figure shit out 😅 its something new everyday.

    • @harmanitapuari-metuatini3033
      @harmanitapuari-metuatini3033 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mitzi Uribe mfknn oath✊🏽✊🏽

    • @joana2331
      @joana2331 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Even if its the first to the 5 child its always a learning lesson u never stop learning

  • @nenalapalacha7751
    @nenalapalacha7751 4 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    My gosh, Evi is the cutest baby, he’s “talking” is too darn cute! Fern at the shelve store is hilarious 😂

    • @thinamonique1353
      @thinamonique1353 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Rt he looks like his cousins lowkey 😍

  • @MADKILL4
    @MADKILL4 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    NO BODY KNOWS HOW TO BE A MOM! Those that are mothers, including myself, learn as we go and try to do the best we can. Even when we think we know and got it down, we are always learning! PEOPLE PLEASE DON'T GIVE "ADVISE" IF NO ONE IS ASKING YOU, if you have a way of doing things, good for you, let other learn and find the best way that it works for them. Smh, my your own business. I don't really comment on videos but man, sometimes is just so annoying to see this.

    • @daisyrodriguez4340
      @daisyrodriguez4340 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mad Kill 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @vickyjones7905
    @vickyjones7905 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The little pillows had me 😂😂🤣 EBay plays with me. I ordered a bodysuit once, and got a baby onesie 😑

  • @annettemesa5250
    @annettemesa5250 4 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    I love you Bri, you have such a good personality. You can tell your genuinely a good person..Baby Evi is so adorable. Block all the haters? Majority probably don’t even have kids.. they are just jealous. I hate the People that always think they are giving motherly advice.

  • @greenbeanhandsomemachine
    @greenbeanhandsomemachine 4 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    🤣🤣🤣 she hella called them out I love it!

    • @tiamarrow6366
      @tiamarrow6366 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Uma Asaeli-Save lmao 🤣 I noticed that to. Like she didn’t even cross out the names. She put some of those ugly, and pathetic haters on blast. Whenever I see hateful comments about her on Instagram....I immediately report those comments, and I report the people who post those comments for bullying....their pages have gotten taken down.

    • @yeo2311
      @yeo2311 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Tia Marrow you got too much free time

    • @tiamarrow6366
      @tiamarrow6366 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Amour Dream okay and? I can do whatever I want with my free time. That’s not hurting anyone. I got all the time in the world to say whatever I want.

  • @alee222
    @alee222 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    There’s no perfect mother even if you have multiple children. The most important thing is that your baby is being loved.

  • @taliina00
    @taliina00 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really love how you responded to all of the negativity. You were so chill about it and didn’t allow these lames to get you out of character. Mas vale un loco que dos! Evie is a cutie and his mommy is so beautiful. Keep learning on your motherhood journey and don’t allow others to make you feel like you’re doing something wrong because it’s different from what they would do! God bless! ❤️

  • @dianaestrada8711
    @dianaestrada8711 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love that you put them on blast! Like give her a break she’s doing her best. Plus she didn’t plan on being a mommy this soon but she’s doing a great job at it. You go baby girl 😘💕

  • @Ejavalos05
    @Ejavalos05 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Cmon ladies let’s help build each other up instead of tearing one another down! We were all 1st time mommies at one point and we didn’t know it all either.. 😒 it’s sad that she has to plea people to be nice.. Bri you’re doing a great job! There are girls who are genuinely trying to help but those haters... IGNORE THEM... 💕

  • @sandraamaya590
    @sandraamaya590 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Being a parent is hard,different,and we all learn throughout every single day.Everybody is going to judge or like u said give u advice in a good way but is your decision whether u want to take it or not.Even when they get older your still not going to know what to do sometimes,but it's ok.No parent is perfect.

    • @ADIKATV
      @ADIKATV 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/Ti2gST1LTjs/w-d-xo.html

  • @noemimoreno9851
    @noemimoreno9851 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Coming from a mother your doing great it’s your first baby your learning with him just remember as long as your baby is good let them talk, also just because you had a baby doesn’t mean your life ends she is allowed to go out and have fun have a nice day and keep doing you we love you ❤️

    • @GabyTitoVlogs
      @GabyTitoVlogs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Noemi Moreno 👏🏻👍🏻👍🏻❤️

    • @yessicaceja-paniagua3175
      @yessicaceja-paniagua3175 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Girl, people talk shit about me because I never go out 🤦‍♀️. I hate people.. my fiance and I take our baby girl everywhere.

  • @dianamorales4704
    @dianamorales4704 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    She handled the mom shaming so well and so mature. Props to you girl!

  • @CassandraPerezxo
    @CassandraPerezxo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love how calm and nice you were about addressing the comments! 💗

  • @SallyM-7777
    @SallyM-7777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    That is so cute, when you asked him “do you want another brother” and it totally sounded like the baby said yes!!!!

    • @BROWNBARB1E
      @BROWNBARB1E 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ikr this was so frickin cute I swear Bri & Fern gonna have another baby soon so Evi can have someone to chill w 💕

  • @alexisx6910
    @alexisx6910 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    as long as your baby is fed, well dressed, loved, as well as happy, then screw those feas. evi is gonna be so tall🥺

  • @Itsmebearwy
    @Itsmebearwy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    All of y’all needed understand, this her job and her life. So guess what she can do what she want,wear what she want. She pays her own bills, food,water,gas. Etc.... and honestly hate makes a person stronger so the only one who’s going to be mad is the ones mad, live life stop worrying about other people’s success, god bless y’all. And god bless you and your beautiful family bri and fern 💙🤞🏻🙏🏼✨

    • @tiamarrow6366
      @tiamarrow6366 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      the great yasss preach!! Plus one of the reasons for why she’s able to do what she wants, is because of all of us who constantly watch her videos....which gives her more attention and views, which will make her more money.

  • @michelledenise8482
    @michelledenise8482 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You have all right to defend your ground girl . Like you said everyone has their way of how to be a mom . People are ignorant 😒 do you babygirl ❤️

  • @tiffanyjimenez4880
    @tiffanyjimenez4880 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes Bri tell them! Then people wonder why youtubers disable there comments!! 🙄. Your doing an amazing job with Evian & being a mother!

  • @gabrielagovea7112
    @gabrielagovea7112 4 ปีที่แล้ว +192

    Try carrying him until he’s old enough to to feed himself, the way he was drinking his bottle can cause an ear infection. Just a a little advice no hate

    • @JDMHelloKitty91
      @JDMHelloKitty91 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Yes this is very true! It happens to babies a lot.

    • @gabrielagovea7112
      @gabrielagovea7112 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      JDMHelloKitty91 luckily it has only happen once to me when he was 5 months and it was a lesson learn (my son is 5 now) and after that I was so scared because an ear infection is so painful.

    • @RunningMyMouth_
      @RunningMyMouth_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yeah, good advice

    • @Mary-fg3ew
      @Mary-fg3ew 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Carry him until hes embrasildo lol ?

    • @janiemolina8570
      @janiemolina8570 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I worked in a daycare and we had a mom who worked for cps you know child protective services and she would poke her head in the baby room and one time she walked by and saw a baby in a bouncer with a blanket proping up his bottle to eat and she yelled to the lady in the room pick up that baby and feed him that is neglect and I'm required to report what I see. I was like wow you would never think of that being neglect but the state thinks different 😬.

  • @Tatibappin
    @Tatibappin 4 ปีที่แล้ว +188

    But half these people mom shaming you aren’t even parents yet.

    • @eldacelaya8413
      @eldacelaya8413 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Lol. Es pura gente envidiosa. You worry about your family and dont even pay attention about the negative comments. Love you❤

    • @LMamaBaddx
      @LMamaBaddx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank god young women need to live their lives and not have to worry about taking care of kids. Love your life mama! 100

    • @Iamtrash2
      @Iamtrash2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hahaha right😂😂know not one thing about parenting and want to talk shit

    • @hayleyac7296
      @hayleyac7296 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      noel murgia I’m not too young to be a mom I’m 23 and I’m not immature and judgemental it’s so annoying that people are hating on her not even knowing her at all..

    • @hayleyac7296
      @hayleyac7296 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      noel murgia I’m not a mom yet but will be in less than 10 weeks

  • @melvicci
    @melvicci 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Enjoy your precious baby hun.. you're learning every day just like every other first time mom. Tips from experienced moms are very helpful but hopefully they'll stay positive in just that "a helpful tip" here and there. Xo

  • @eileennatalia81
    @eileennatalia81 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love how you addressed the comments that were made, it was much needed. Brush off the negative. Positive vibes only people.

  • @stephanytlatenchi978
    @stephanytlatenchi978 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The little boy going up to you made my damn night 😂 he said "fren?" "Bean?" I love it he so cute hahahaha

  • @dielkaduran367
    @dielkaduran367 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Don’t listen to them babygirl, you’re a amazing person!

  • @cheetovr317
    @cheetovr317 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Mom shaming is one of my biggest pet peeves back when I used to be in fb mom groups I would see it alllll the time and it just bugs me bc not everyone is the same! Not everyone does things the same not everyone’s kids are the same neither. Why can’t people just live and let live. Love you mamas don’t let anyone make you feel like you’re a bad mom bc you’re not you’re a cool mom😘😘

  • @crystalrenteria7077
    @crystalrenteria7077 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Evi talks so much. He’s so cute!

  • @sammianderson4172
    @sammianderson4172 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    “He’s like how the hell did you get in the phone” 🤣🤣

  • @trufamily1644
    @trufamily1644 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    awww Briana you are still being nice about the rude people! And I felt bad for you because every mom knows that we as moms have guilt and question ourselves if we are doing a good job and then all the negativity makes it worse

  • @itsmaria111
    @itsmaria111 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    No Bri. We appreciate you being yourself. You are doing great. Keep doing you and don't let the ignorant comments change you or your videos.

  • @Cassandra-C
    @Cassandra-C 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    You’re sweet Bri & so is your cute lil family, it’s refreshing how well you handle all the shamers and you do it in a really mature way! What a great example of kindness even when people are so mean! Thanks for always keeping it real! Love ya Lady✨💕

  • @gabriellaandrade7993
    @gabriellaandrade7993 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I love how you exposed the rude ones, name and all everyone is so quick to give their 2 cents or hop on with opinions but like u said it was in the moment with out realizing it I’m sure, people swear they know influencers and feel comfortable to be disrespectful

  • @kiiikiii05.
    @kiiikiii05. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Aww Evi said "Yeah" when you asked him if he wants a baby brother 💙 Bri you're a first time mommy little by little you will adjust and learn. Don't let the shaming get to you, people have nothing better to do. What lashes are you wearing with the blue contacts?

  • @nennigonzalez92110
    @nennigonzalez92110 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You doing a hella good job hunn ❤️ it's your 1st baby and you just winging it shit! People always got some negative shit it comes with the public hunn. I am glad you don't let it get to you but do address it. YOU ARE HIS MOMMY not anyone elses! 😊

  • @lifeasamommy1750
    @lifeasamommy1750 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I love how you ss the rude comments and added there comment 😂 , so they can shut the hell up 🤦🏻‍♀️ your a new mom , you learn , there’s mistakes that happen , no mom is perfect ! Everyone parents differently , & no one should shame one another cause karma gets everyone back ☺️

  • @azulcelexte
    @azulcelexte 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Evi looks SO much like Fern.. except when he cries he looks exactly like Bri lol💕 he’s such a cutie either way 😍

    • @Iamtrash2
      @Iamtrash2 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Azul I thought so to! Looks just like Fern!

    • @adrieancortez3433
      @adrieancortez3433 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      He does, but lil evi is the type of cutie that look's like who he is with... that is my kids too

    • @lindacoronado2447
      @lindacoronado2447 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree that he does look like Fern but also like Bri’s dad ! ✨ su abuelo

  • @celestexo7086
    @celestexo7086 4 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    People need to learn how to be moms to their own kids and not everyone elses😅🤣

    • @dianan6174
      @dianan6174 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      celeste 66787 🤔👌🏻😂🤣

    • @y_flowers
      @y_flowers 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      right!!

  • @vanessagodinez6443
    @vanessagodinez6443 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Don't let these negative ppl put you down you're doing an amazing job you and fern !! Also I see he loves Brit he knows that's Tia and he acts all chill with fern and acts mad with u lol so cute

  • @MiSsTiTaGaRcIa
    @MiSsTiTaGaRcIa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Girl do you !! their is no such thing as a perfect mom. Throughout ur mommy journey it will be an everyday learning experience. Love it, enjoy it and have fun because kids grow so fast.

  • @liae7196
    @liae7196 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love that you talk to your baby...dont stop and read to him too...also maybe buy a little mat he can lay on with a little mobile on top so he can see things moving as he lays on his back...btw love your natural hair, looks sooo pretty!

  • @julievelasquez5805
    @julievelasquez5805 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Shes so sweet literally there the most nicest people.. like I dont know how people can be so mean to the MURILLO'S OMG we are human we arent gonna do everything Perfect. Let alone this is her first baby she wasnt raising her sisters kids so dont assume she just automatically gonna remember especially that her sisters kids are older now. Like wow you people have no lifee!!

  • @New-qy1sp
    @New-qy1sp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Lmfaooooo with the pillows 😂😂😂

    • @yessicaceja-paniagua3175
      @yessicaceja-paniagua3175 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I would've laughed so hard taking them out lol. I also hate shopping on amazon for this same reason.

  • @samyyyg
    @samyyyg 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    The look fern made when she showed him her freckles lmaooo he knew not to comment on them 😂

  • @marirodriguez9795
    @marirodriguez9795 4 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    The best parenting tip I could give u, is “change your smoke alarm batteries 🔋 “ 😫😫😫

    • @lovebltpn
      @lovebltpn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      mari rodriguez lmao 😂

  • @Flourishfaith
    @Flourishfaith 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Some moms forget that they were a new time mommy once before as well, People can be so critical, she’s learning it’s her first baby it’s not like we were all born with experience. I dislike how bad mom shamming is, you’re doing great it’s a learning journey. 💙🦋

    • @Iamtrash2
      @Iamtrash2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Helen Gonzales so so true. ❤️

  • @nathaliaaxi
    @nathaliaaxi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    People are crazy and need to worry about themselves you’re a great mom ❤️❤️ evi is luck to have you love you guys

  • @jocelynmorales6708
    @jocelynmorales6708 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Bri you are such a good mom don’t worry about what people have to say they talk regardless love you 💕

  • @ivetjimenez5794
    @ivetjimenez5794 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’ve honestly seen the most growth from Bri since baby Evi... I love it❤️ Some of us are actually rooting for you Bri pay no mind to the mommy shamers most likely they are not even mothers or they are mothers who aren’t figuring it out on their own🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @prpisces035
    @prpisces035 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Girl I feel ur struggle! Mommy shaming is so real!! Keep ur head up and dont be to hard on urself either! We all had to learn our own way.

  • @JenniferHernandez-el4qc
    @JenniferHernandez-el4qc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    They don’t know how stressful it is being a new mom...

  • @mariamontalvo468
    @mariamontalvo468 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    When bri said "look at that pretty face and fern said who me " 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @loldieok
    @loldieok 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I feel like there’s a way to give someone good tips or help them out instead of shaming someone else. GIVE ADVICE!!!!! You don’t gotta be rude about it and the ones who are do it in a way to feel better about themselves.

  • @Monica-xq4ev
    @Monica-xq4ev 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That is so smart putting foil on the pan to roast your chilles and tomatoes. Gonna start doing that from now on. Thanks for the tip bri ❤😜

  • @chicadorada4679
    @chicadorada4679 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bri dont worry about those ignorant people. Like if they never had done the same or gone thru the same. You are a new mommy so you learning. You doing a good job.

  • @crysma
    @crysma 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I would never mom shame another mother, but if you see something that’s crucial to a baby’s development or health...something should and can be said, with love! Bc nobody was born a perfect mother. You’re doing great Bri, just know it’s ok to learn from other moms when needed. Nobody is perfect, we’re all just here in this world trying our best 💕

    • @kpalma1991
      @kpalma1991 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      👏🏼👏🏼

    • @cambrona92
      @cambrona92 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      EXACTLY. PERIOD. Im so annoyed at this mom shaming word being thrown around like every mom that gives a caring suggestion/opinion is a bully. That is false. When you feel like everyone is attacking you then you really need to sit down and mature. People aren’t always attacking you. Raising a baby takes a whole village/community. Yes there are bad comments that are said and that needs to stop. But if your not learning and growing from the good advice then you need to mature some. When I was a first time mom I LEARNED to listen more. Listen to elders, experienced moms, and family. Once I listened then I took what I thought could be good for my baby and implied it to my life. Again doing what I thought was best for my baby but still learning from people.

  • @pattymelena3381
    @pattymelena3381 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Love the short hair on you Bri, looks so healthy

  • @mellos5988
    @mellos5988 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    And yes Amazon has played me, even after reading reviews 🤦‍♀️

    • @juliannam25
      @juliannam25 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mel Los same 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @condeeangeles2783
      @condeeangeles2783 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      People get products for free from amazon sellers which is why they leave good reviews.

    • @karinaperez3957
      @karinaperez3957 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I didn’t know this but a statistics professor told me that sometimes sellers leave themselves good reviews with different accounts🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @valeriaaranda9237
    @valeriaaranda9237 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bri is so cute and chill lol she showed those kids on her vlog from ikea and talked with them instead of ignoring them. Also to those mommy shaming her are fucked up and have no right to comment that! Bri is a first time mom and is learning as she grows with Evi every mom is new to this with their first born and will make mistakes, no ones perfect! Love you Bri keep doing you and I’m loving these type of vlogs!💗 hope to meet you one day! Love from Houston tx

  • @jennifergarza4164
    @jennifergarza4164 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Omg seriously don't worry about the couple extra lbs. You look so good

  • @F4RR3LLFamilyVlogs
    @F4RR3LLFamilyVlogs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Does your baby get confused when your twin is around?? Oh your baby is so cute btw.
    U are an awesome mother dont listen to the bad things people say.

  • @kristinarajo5192
    @kristinarajo5192 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    People need to leave her alone it’s her life like dam stfu lol worrying about even about if she cooks .

  • @101HotPockets
    @101HotPockets 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    evi is legit jaydens twin 😛

  • @mayberrymom7613
    @mayberrymom7613 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Efff the mom shamers! You’re a great mom! I see your day to day on insta and fuck anyone who wants to speak on you as a parent. You’re killing it!

  • @gloriavalle3515
    @gloriavalle3515 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Bri. Don't listen to no one the hell with all Those haters , don't feel bad their's no perfect mother's out there do not let them fool you ,
    Tell the haters to take care of their own kids or better yet mind your own business..