"Men Need Respect, Women Need Love" | Yasmin Mogahid
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- Men need to be respected and to feel proud, and to know that their woman supports them, pushes them forward, and loves what they do. That’s what men need. But women, on the other hand, women need to be loved unconditionally. As Muslims, it is incumbent on us to respect our husbands because it's deserved and not because it's earned, and that is one aspect of respect. The other aspect is that when you show your spouse more respect, in return you will get more love because respect to a man is maybe more important than love.
When we learn about the differences between ourselves as male and female, as well as study our role as husband and wife in Islam, we will understand our husbands more and have less relationship issues. This helps to know our differences and respect one another's uniqueness.
She is 💯 percent correct. Instead of arguing with your husband do the opposite show respect and talk to them how you feel. I always say to myself first is you cannot change the other person but change yourself first. The ayah Allah SWT say’s, “Verily, Allaah will not change the (good) condition of a people as long as they do not change their state (of goodness) themselves (by committing sins and by being ungrateful and disobedient to Allaah)” [al-Ra’d 13:11]
Show your love to your husband by kind words, when he comes home smile at him, have hot food ready for him, pray your salah with him and comfort him. Then see how beautiful your lives will be and how much he will love you and how your children will grow up in sha Allah.
barakAllahufik
Your words are amazing sister . I wish more women thought like you
Well said sister👍.Well it all depends on parents to give proper Islamic education to the kids especially daughters May Allah SWT guide women to obay and respect their husbands
of course
What if you work? How are you going to have food ready for him?
As someone who’s still trying to get married (make dua for me everyone) and as a male, I can attest from the outside perspective that in many marriages today, women CAN make that compromise for respect - however, men REFUSE to emotionally develop themselves and their emotional intelligence. They still don’t soften their character to show love and appreciation to women. I’m not even trying to take sides, I’m just reported what I’ve seen from the marriages of close friends. I think men don’t make enough of an effort to understand what women want from marriages and relationships and their nature. Sister Yasmin has helped me a lot in understanding women which in turn I hope is preparing me to reach that compromise for whoever my future spouse is going to be.
Very well said!!!! 👏👏👏
you need to get married first because the one who's married has more knowledge than the one who is not
Yes you seem emotionally intelligent and ready for marriage ❤
What exactly women want from marriage???
@@tupacisalive1236i think its stupid , he did not even know what women want from marriage?
This comment section shows that there are not a lot of happily married sisters out there. 😢 … May our daughters and granddaughters have worthy husbands who will be pious and take pride into the love and care they show to their wives!
Or there’s a lot of dumb feminists who reject the hadiths
This is all I’m seeing here
Aameen
Expression of love patince of each others mistakesand respect for each other is part and parcel of marriage life. Without it
Difficult to be happy
Aameen
Respect is for ESSENTIAL for ALL human beings and ALL relatonships on this planet to flourrish. It is NOT restricted to a gender.
I have said it before and will say it again that I love this sister for the sake of Allah. I wish more women were like her, she gets it.
Excellent explanation of responding in the proper manner and gaining the respect and love of the husband in return and not getting entangled in the" crazy cycle. "
This is the character recommended by the Prophet, peace be upon him, for both the husband and wife and he must be right because he's the Chosen One by Allah.
Well speech sis.. Ma shaa ALLAH..~
May God bless you dear sis for this reminder, Insha’Allah. Alhumdulillah, I’m honored to have been obedient to my father and other men in my family and gladly obey and serve my husband who takes extremely good care of me. I must confess that this was a tough pill to swallow, but I’m privileged to have parents that disciplined me earlier to block the toxicity of today’s feminism. If Allah blesses me with a daughter, I will make sure to raise her to be obedient to my husband and her future husband Insha’Allah. May Allah accept all our good deeds. Ameen. 💕
you know you have to be obedient to your mother as well right...
@@MH-bf4uu Yes, mother and husband. Did you miss this part of her comment? "...I’m privileged to have parents that disciplined me earlier..."
I’ll highly highly pray to Allah to not to give you a daughter. Because you are a slave and you will also make her a slave. It’s very hard for me to believe you exist. Who thinks man should be respected because they were born man. You are just brain washed and oppressed.
May Allah bless and protect you
I hope if I marry one day, my wife has a good attitude like that
Even though I am not a Muslim I find your words very wise and true. Apart from what you already mentioned, each individual should really look more inwards and work with their own triggers and communicating about them in a calm manner so that they don't have to react with an attitude whenever they experience something unpleasant.
Great advice sister
You are so captivating, i become engrossed with your talks
I think people are misinterpreting what she said. When she mentioned giving someone unconditional love/respect she also said ‘depending on the context of course’. Your spouse who’s done something to upset you, a spouse you love and respect (and vice versa) and you know didn’t actually mean to hurt you, you wouldn’t respond with disrespect. You wouldn’t retaliate by trying to disrespect him too. You would deal with the situation maturely and solve the issue and he in return will recognise his fault and apologise and not do it again. You don’t do this to someone who’s not worthy or deserving of your love and respect for example an abusive man. Hope that makes sense
Good understanding
The key word here is 'unconditional '
What is an abusive man?
Noo a men them will continue and continue does it will never change because the society is manure head all men's head is manure head there head will not functioning properly when they see womens butt it only manure head only it start because these men's are drinking the womens when they are seeing the womens all her body see in this thing all men's is the same thing in everything only huh
All Men when they see womens they drinking womens all her body knows what I am talking .
Allah Hu Akbar sister is absolutely correct. May Allah grant you more knowledge
Excellent speech
MashaAllah sister! May Allah bless you! True wisdom is spoken by you. This is actually the main culprit in the families, and this is why many families are getting divorced nowadays...
Zajakkallah khairan❤
Absolutely true
Assalaamu alaikum dear sister. I love all your talks, very inspiring indeed n also following the sunnah of our beloved Prophet Muhammad (SAW). I am so blessed to have a kind n caring hubby who does so much for me like guving me a break on weekends by cooking for the family n he always spends his free time with us. I truly care n respect him n appreciate him for everything that he does for me n our kids. To my namesake, Yasmin, may Allah always bless you n ur family. Love from South Africa.
Men need love too
MashaAllah sis, nicely said. InshaAllah this reaches more wemen out there that are having communication issues with their husband's and don't understand where men are coming from or simply what's all we ask for.👍👍
Wow!!! I’m Hispanic ✝️. I agree with her.
This sister is experienced and there seems to be many people in the comments triggered, maybe it's due to current or past experiences or maybe the western way of thinking (such things as the me2 movement).
Yes both need respect but She has not said deal with physical or straight up abuse but highlighting what men find important in a marriage, just as much as women want love.
Some women realise what she is saying too late and will end up unmarried or even divorced later in life, until things like this make sense. Now this is not saying you can't just be with a bad partner (or stay in an abusive one) but it's saying do what you can to make a marriage work but generally knowing what is important, not just what you want but your spouse. Women appreciate love and affection and men respect. Arguing for both can be draining but there are ways you can discuss things without disrespect or constantly nagging. Sometimes a breather is good, to see if it is worth discussing or communicating and explaining things clearly and calmly without disrespect as sometimes with men (not generalising) we can often be unaware but also do not like hostile conflict. But work together, build together and love and respect eachother unconditionally
Totally agree
Nice ... Thank you
I have learned alot from this.. and I will try my best to give unconditional respect. I just hope that men too can try harder on the unconditional love. In as much as we are women of the book, our mental health really matters. I say this because what some women are dealing with are not just any men but crazy narcissists. Narcissists look at submission and respect as a way to take advantage of their spouses. Many women look away from the bad, forgive but end up even more hurt.
What advantages women give to those narcissist????🤔🤔
True ..at times we try our best to respect our husbands calm down their tempers but still yells back and roars...
Don't give unconditional respect, have boundaries,
It's kinda the most Bitter truth of life
It's too too hard to accept And follow
But She is absolutely right
This is actually pretty great relationship advice, whether or not you are Muslim
The best way to conquor husband and make him do what you want is showing love and respect
Everyone's nature is different. As a woman I don't want the men in my life to love and care for me primarily. I want them to respect me, my decisions, my opinions, words and existence. I would be happy if they show love too but if they do that without showing respect by disregarding my decisions, opinions and my existence then their love and care would be of no value to me.
I know might sound ungrateful but, as a wife I would want my husband to respect me before anything else because love is not everything to me. I want him to support in whatever I do, respect my words and actions, respect me in front of his family. Love comes second hand. Also love is not something we should except instantly when you get married. Don't expect your spouse go all lovey dovey on you. But, attraction is necessary.
As a desi girl I've known marriages to be more of responsibilities, respect, child care, etc. Romantic love isn't common.
Respect and care is. My opinion is that woman shouldn't expect love and romance from marriage too much. Your husband caring and respecting you is more than enough. Marriage is not a bed of roses. Respect and care for your husband and expect that in return. Don't give someone the privilege to disrespect you and be harsh to you when you aren't doing anything wrong.
Let your husband know when he disrespects you instead of arguing. Tell him you won't tolerate it calmly and ask him to never do that. Don't show attitude and aggression. Don't sweep it under the rug and pretend nothing happened by giving him more love. Tell him to give you the respect Islam has given you.
That being said some women tolerate disrespect thinking over love. Marriages today aren't marriages like in the times of prophet. People have become selfish, competitive and greedy. Love is not common. Trust is rare. Don't let anyone trample over your respect. Respect is your power. Love is often an illusion or something that comes after a long span with someone.
That being said before getting married sit down with your potential spouse and voice out your expectations as a wife from him. Conversate instead of ignoring, arguing and showing attitude. If you want love over respect then it's your call. I would demand respect over anything else as I can't respect someone disrespecting me. I shall respect my husband as long he respects me.
I am no feminist. These thoughts aren't coming from a western society. As a woman and living in a struggling middle class family respect is more important to me than anything in this world. I know there's no such thing as a fairytale and prince charming. I don't expect my husband to go all lovey dovey. He must respect and care for me though. I will do the same.
I understand what that these is considered a technique to a good marriage BUT I believe in Respect is the result to a caring and loving marriage. Both husbands and wife need to to feel loved, cared for and respected. If a man need to feel love cared for just as much as a woman. A woman need to feel like she is respected in her husband eye in order to maintain that love and care. Marriage is unique but without respect and love from both parties there is no longevity in a marriage. Most importantly trust is the glue, a wife need to feel secure of respect and love from her husband in order to continue to respect him and a husband need secure of respect and love in order to continue caring for his wife . Guide each other not just one party .
What if the husband does not respect,love or fulfill his duty to his wife or children? This has been my struggle for 32 yrs and I have respected him and his family I never take knee jerk reactions yet he has used me firstly mentally abusing me having affairs and is a narcissist I’ve been in my own for 20 of these yrs bringing up my children alone yet he comes and goes as he pleases I never faltered in my duty towards my husband his family or my children I’m 52 now and still alone so how much more respect can I give?
@@noorunzaman4586 😢…I do not even know what to tell you. I’m 35, second marriage and of all the challenges I had to overcome, I deem marriage to be hardest…I wish you the best.
Thank you mama H so much may I be steady in my deen and imaan Ameen it certainly is hard Allah swt sends trials may we succeed in over coming them with his help and mercy,however I have been tortured from an early age by in laws and husband.and all I’ve done is be respectful and loving may Allah paak help us both maybe not for here but in akhira Ameen
@@noorunzaman4586 Ameen!! Inshallah!!
So do you think women and men are some then? Meaning there's no difference between female and male
all praise be to ALLAH
Women also has to be respected unconditionally
Of course, but she's talking about primary needs.
The woman must make the first action.
no
Why does she need respect she's just a woman?
But very few understand this.🤷🏾♂️🤔
everyone is different. I need respect more than love as a woman. not just in romantic but every other relationship. love will come but without respect love doesn't mean shxt
This feminist thinking will ruin your life
As a marriage...we both need love and respect if u don't love ur man u can't respect him..i guess something is less wrong there..we both need love and respect...u also will want ur husband to love and respect u..
@@lagend_only_believe_in_comment why?
@@lagend_only_believe_in_comment Any stable normal human born into this world don't like to be disrespected so what is your point? Was the notion of respect non existent for women before feminism and men should feel no remorse for mistreating them and disregarding their dignity?
@@lagend_only_believe_in_commentIm sorry but men finding respecting a woman and treating her right a feminist behaviour not a natural human behaviour is just disturbing.
like islam taught us to respect and not hurt people in general especially other muslims how does that not apply on women ?
Where can I find the full video?
Incredible speech 🎤 💪🏾👍🏾❤️
The truth. 🥇🌹🏆👌👍
Link of full lecture plz
Very true sister how did you know that????
The thing is, both genders deserve unconditional love and respect. It is a horrible relationship to be in if one side doesn’t respect the other as much as they respect them. If your husband is wrong then say they’re wrong. Argue if needed. If your wife is wrong say they’re wrong. Argue if needed. Respect is deserved and needed by both genders and if your husband only loves you and does not respect you then fuck him. Find someone else. Same thing the other way around
The funny thing is though, if a man respects his wife it will cut off this issue completely (with a good woman). Women are disrespected and hurt and we are told to show respect. Do you know HOW HARD it is to respect someone who is disrespecting you? Women unconditionally respecting men can stop the issue from escalating. But if men show respect then it cuts off the issue entirely.
Lol, good women 😂😂😂😂
They don't exist
They don't even build up themselves
Their ignorance is at level where building up themselves means, being a bit*h 😂
@@abdullahabbas2769maybe they are lacking in ur country
Asalamualaykum. Gosh just... Thank you habibty. Thank you SO much...
"Women's rights, women's needs, women's this and that-" I KNOW... I've had this drilled into me. What of the MANS RIGHTS? What about US? So often I get spit at and disrespected and treated like "haha you're a dumb boy."
Seriously, too many sisters want to mimic liberalism... Spit on men, call us trash, say we're useless... The arrogance and disrespect, it drives us up the wall.
THANK YOU for considering the men... Thank you... It really warms my heart to see this.
What about you? Doesn't your culture put men on a pedestal?
@@purplelove3666 Say you've never read Quran or Hadith, without saying you've never read Quran or Hadith.
No, we ARE NOT put on a God pedestal, unlike Western women who are, and constantly use that status to try and hurt their own men.
Men are in charge of society (Like 99.9% of all societies in human history) because men are best fit for it. This does not mean we are given infinite rights to hurt whoever we want.
We're put in charge to make sure the ship runs smoothly and to take care of the women.
And if a man makes a grave error, he is liable to be punished. We do not have the right, (unlike Western women) to do whatever we want, and shirk our duties. Men in Islam have to provide and we get no say in the matter. And the wife has NO obligation to financially provide.
Cuz no, working a job is NOT "glitz and glamor." It's RESPONSIBILITY, PAIN, and WORK.
Now buzz off and actually do some studying before you go espousing, stupid platitudes.
Full video link?
women are subconsciously more attracted to love, men are subconsciously more attracted to respect
And how do you know that? So you think women don't mind being disrespectful as long as they are loved? Hollywood is not real ok?
That is missing now a days due to the free mixing and social medias. Alhamdulillah ✨
Let me tell u in simple way in islam if it was not shirk womens would had do sajda to their men but its haram thats what islam says.. if your wife is good toward you loves you respect you still u dont care about her then let me remind u Allah is the best disposer of affairs and u r a sinner .. may allah guide us all
Welcome my sister 😘 ❤ 💕 💓 💗 💖 😘 ❤ 💕
I believe that respect has to be given reciprocally no matter of your gender type. Most men disrespect women because of their ego and that they are higher than women…women being their slaves. That is a fact
No. The woman must make the first steps and start respecting the man.
Yes you are slave
For a paycheck you can behave like a slave happily to your boss, but cant respect your man. That need , yeah he need to feel like a man, but you are showing him that he is nothing to you.
Thwn i must say, you are slave kind, and if this is your thinking, may you get a person who enslave you. Otherwise you are gonna abuse someone and make his life hell.
@@esskay430A man should make his woman comfortable with me emotionally and physically both.She'll definately gave him respect.But if a man is cold and jerk and expects a woman to give respect
@@esskay430no,you need to make the first step, AREN'T YOU LEADERS?LOL, LEAD THEN!
It's funny most who are commenting against her her non hijabi awrah exposing feminist Modern wahmen.
Noo it only she is creating Muslims. Men's is pervert and some men's is pervert too they are growing in these things and every where men's is pervert even some men's Muslims too but their wife should respect and let them do this they will learn by their mistakes never this it only increases the pervert things in everything then tomorrow is sexuel society plus rape culture too
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Dear sisters, most or the comments here reflect a lack of understanding and ignorance regarding your own self-worth and your own self-respect. It absolutely must go without saying that obviously, if you are involved in a marriage or partnership (friendships, work, family, etc) that is constantly disrespecting you, we must then uphold Islamic values and keep away from anything that harms our well-being and our relationship with Allah.
I fail to understand your defensiveness with this speech. Don't ever forget that Allah gave each of us the gift of free will to do with it whatever we need to do in order to reach Him. Please understand that the man you have in your life that has hurt you, disrespected you or treated you with no value, has done so because you have allowed them.
Don't fall into the trap of shaytan to think you are stuck with a man like that, or that you must stay with him for the children. We will all be questioned in the Day of Judgment about what we did with our free will in order to reach Allah.
Get out of your comfort zone, get out of the darkness and ignorance of your actions that keep you dealing with people that don't want to grow towards Allah. May Allah heal us all.
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We want the detailed version on this topic. To know the reason behind why. Because in Pakistan women compromises alot rather than men. Of course exceptions are everywhere. By giving real life examples or stories of both women who shows an attitude after men being uncared or do something insensitive to the women and vice versa.This topic is such a sensitive topic So we need to go deep.
This is what the Bible teaches as well but sadly here in the west and many places who claim to be Christians don’t follow the Bible meaning they don’t follow Christ.
Respect should be mutual...
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I agree but some times women need respect too
@@paralleluniverse298 respect goes both ways, wether it’s a son to his father or a boss to its employee .Respect should always be mutual, that’s where society flourishes the most. Respect isn’t just entitled for men & men only. To grow both parties must be respected. End period.
@@prettygirlclub.7719 No. Women need love, not respect. Respect is hierarchical and a marriage is not an equality contest
@@EV-EV-EVdon’t be dumb. Respect isn’t js for marriage. You should respect everyone, regarding their status, power race & gender. Marriage is a partnership, where respect is shown and reciprocated and love is aswell.. to say women don’t need respect is subjective & a false ideology yall needa stop trying to spread.
Not sometimes always
@@prettygirlclub.7719 I understand you lack femininity and that's fine, you do you. But unless you're speaking a different language, 'respect' is a word that functions in a hierarchical structure where the one in position of authority is shown respect while the underlings are shown love and affection for good behaviour and discipline for bad behaviour.
In an ideal marriage/relationship, the man leads and the woman follows. A man earns his respect for his responsibility and authority while the woman earns her love for her obedience and loyalty.
Now, I speak for a healthy traditional relationship dynamic; this principle does not apply if you subscribe to a modernist equality marriage that lacks gender roles...or worse, where man takes in the feminine role and the woman wears the pants.
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It's like what do you do when you don't feel respected by your husband, but he certainly shows other women respect.
He always talks fondly of his ex girlfriends.
He always keeps you guessing if he will be faithful.
Most interactions are negative.
He seems annoyed with you and rolls his eyes and disrespects you in front of complete strangers.
Likes to be the one talking and that i as his wife should be good and shut up.
He hates when i talk he doesn't even compliment me very much and when he does it just makes me want to cry, because of all the damage he's already done to my self esteem.
He tried to convince me im a closet lesbo so he could bring another woman into our relationship and this happened multiple times, even thiugh e every time i freak the F out.
He pay better attention to any other womanin the room but me.
Every time we watch movies i look and see him googly eyeing the girl in the movie and smiling alot its so gross.
He has told me he feels disgusted by me now that i gained weight. But even when i was younger and skinnier, he never really treated me like i was anything but a tool for his pleasure.
So i don't even want to lose weight, not for him, because what do i have to look forward to.. being used again like a sex doll?
He's says i want only two things from you;
1. Look pretty
2. Be skinny
After all the hell I've been though and body image issues. I have dreams where im standing in front of a mirror and my face is static and distorted.
Or he says things like, why can't i go and F other women, your not doing it, so why not let another woman?
And the list goes on and on, he constantly hurts my feelings.
Oh Allah is it impossible to find a woman like her ?
Send your proposal to her. She might agree!
It might seem difficult, because some women think that they are human.
@@SaymaAmin Sayma even if I could deliver my purposal to her, she wouldn't accept. But Allah is great. Maybe one day he gives me a pious woman with whom I could find peace and tranquility.
She is married. Also, fear Allah.
@@holdshiftt2run308 I didn't say anything bad about her.
as a woman, i alway respect others ( it doesnt matter what their race, ages, gender ,or Wealth ) .
and as women i demand respect from others, i dont take crap/disrespect from others ( even if they are my family ) . if marriages mean lost self respect,bounderious and my human right . i will never getting married . being single isnot sin after all .
OK
@@khanhamid3744 yes
You seem emotionally frustrated
Would love to keep in touch with u ..u like ur quote mashaAllah ..
@@sheysheba2123 no gain,
These kind of girls fell for crap
These are just after effects.
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With what? One finger one thumb?
With no offence I fully agree to u sister but why a man is not made understand to love n respect his wife unconditionally which will trigger a woman to b more gentle n soft to his husband howz dat sistet?
How do you remain respectful when your spouse is disrespecting
you, isn't that not having a backbone?
I always said that to my wife, she knows but never respect me.always have aggressive way with me. I do everthing.. Am living just for my children
Are you sure?
For woman who will respect their husband if they are pervert them it not this and these men's will never change because knows the all society men's mind is pervert it will never change it will only increases but their wife should respect them noo noo their wife has full rights to made their husband walk in good path only
Women born with more Aggressive than men
Respect is only in both wife and husband don't have sexuel pervert with other people body then in inside the Respect is start too but if the wife husband don't live a life as her wife is not satisfied her wife can tell her husband to change his behavior in everything too For a better husband for future only.
Yasmin sister don’t do brow plug, it’s not permitted. Zajakallahu khair for your lesson
How do you know if that's what she does? Do you wake up and sleep with her in the same house?
I am a Muslim looking for a good wife
It fake this to respect her husband. My mother will never does these things because it if her husband is looking at women butt when the stranger women is bend over and her husband is just watching the women butt she get angry in lot she will scream at him and all his life will live with her she will hurt her husband in same thing anytime she wants to hurt him in the same things because she dont like this she will never do these respect her husband but in respect her husband is like taught her husband Muslims things this as respect her husband but not like you to respect her husband if her husband will do bad things she will tolerate her husband. Well me I don't in this because noo noo it hurt this thing not this 😔 if my wife does this with me oh noo I will cry with her I can't this any time will get this situation I can't 😢 well my mother is like this
I want to convert to Islam to marry a muslim girl.. but main thing , are muslim girls loyal? 😢
I am taking youtube advice seriously. I don't want to disappoint my man, I want to understand a man's psychology and needs. I will love him so much & I want to take care of all of his needs so that he can focus on himself. Unhappy man will wander around 😔 but, if I give him everything he desires including space or privacy, he will be able to give his 100% on himself and on his career.
This is why some men are late boomers in 20s and 30s they run after women for emotional or physical needs but when they are in their 40s and 50s they already have a family, their attention is less on woman and more on building their own life and family.
God, esi Soch wali lrkian kaha hein?
Respect is mutual....rest is subordination.
Yes it is mutual, but men has more respect and this is from out Nabi(PBUH) and Allah but Pseudo feminists needs mutuality in everything.
@@kidstv9634respect is a feeling. You can't force your heart to respect someone. If it doesn't have respect, it doesn't. Usually people marry someone they love. First the love disappears, then respect. If this has happened, it must have had reasons. You must earn respect by a good behaviour.
Hona to ye chahye tha k orat mard ko itna skoon deti k wo satisfy hu kr grow krta in his life,
But ho ult rha ha
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It’s very simple when in power women they looking at there self and there career and step on man head this take then wrong path
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how come this validates a man's disrespectful act, Respect is very much important in a relationship and women deserves it as they are equal living being like men. aren't the men matured to treat his women respectfully?
Women like you justify their bad behaviour with something bad. Thats why you stated this here.
Otherwise you would have known she didn't justified men's bad behaviour.
Are u stupid or something, when did she say men can disrespect her
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Man was not made for woman. Woman was made for man.
The woman must take the initiative to start respecting so that the man will want to show the love.
She is his his helper, and when a woman realises this , she will have peace.
We were made to worship Allah swt.
That might be inbred in your culture but men were made for women just as much as women were made for men. If you just wait for the woman to "step up" you're not being the spiritual leader in the home. YOU be the first and she'll follow.
Who told you that? Throw that silly knowledge ,away please and thank you, we are created to worship Allah, get that through your head.
Ki randue peraaan seneng .koe iso mati minggirswko urioku.
Well yes in all things but him will never see bad in his wife too only because he his wife only .but me see all you what you are talking is only fake you are faking the religion.
Thanks
I am sorry but this is making the entire thing again one Level more conplictaed or / and complex
SubhanAllah my problem was that i loved my fiancée uncondotionally
And that respect shouldn‘t be executed uncondotionally because Hello we have something called Tawhid until an amount of Limit we Canon extend because otherwise or would be shirk
So unconditional love is wrong and I am 100% sure that unconditional respect is even more wrong. EVEN MORE WRONG.
لا نسأل ربنا we must do ISTIKHARA on this, but AlhamdulillAh I asked Allah about this and we are heading towards the right path 😊Allah reward you goodnesses bless you and Allah reward me goodness and bless me and my family and put Baba in fordaous Al a3la ya Rab who taught me the most beloved thing to Allah TAWHID
All men are looking for motherly figures
The elders women knew how to get what they want and how to control there husbands.
Feed him and keep those legs open for him when he wants it!
They never worked an damn day in There life and everything was paid for them!
You won’t go nowhere with that mindset . May Allah guide us to righteous path.
@@ks-io3lc this is the reason how the elderly women maintained and remained married. Food and intimacy
Even the Hadith tells wives if your husband calls you for sex you must leave everything and attend his sexual needs
A mans weakness is women. Allah tells men first lower your gaze and protect your private parts, marry 1,2,34 wives
So men don’t fall into Zina adultery
Tell men marry virgins marry young as soon as they can afford sex and food will make any man fall to his knees
@@piqueny8872 that fact you can speaks about intimacy in that way tells me a lot about what you personal value are for a women. You take a part of Hadith giving it more light because it attracts you interested that most . Intimacy is one of the pieces to a successful relationship but it not all, a marriage can’t survive based on only intimacy without value . A Muslim is not required to cook for her husband. A Muslim woman is seen as royal in Islam. Cooking is as act in service which is option. Being one side by only focusing on Hadith the attracts your needs is a selfish way to think. If you can attract to a elder woman, sense you mentioned is twice I believe there might be some available. In this day and age not only men of Islam recite the Hadith but women too. Women do get answer directly for men anymore. They get is straight from the source the Quran. Please brother don’t be so one side, satisfy you for a small period and you will just end up feeling unjust and incomplete.
A man weakness and strength can come from a women. You are not obligated to marry 4 wives, there are requirements you most have before you have one than one wife . You financially stable to take of both wives and emotionally secure to treat both wives the same way. One should not be treated different from the other. Lower gaze should be seen as a burden brother, it is act of worship to Allah. For example a fourteen boy fears weak because he can’t lower his gaze, he should get married right away so he doesn’t not commit zina . But he is not financially stable to take care of a woman and he’s future household. This lead him to an unsuccessful marriage. I don’t know if you married or not but trust in this woman are very knowledgeable about Islam and a lot of Muslim men are threatened by it . Not at men are same and not all women are the same. You choose which paths you want to take the end result will tell you have kind of person you are.
@@ks-io3lc this is why marriage ends in divorce by 2-3 years. 75% of divorce rates are charted off by Muslims divorced.
Sex is halal through marriage it’s known as an act of charity you get rewarded for it.
Women get curse by the angles all night of she refuses sex to her husband for no good reason.
Like to said the elderly women wives were smart, they knew by cooking for the husband is how you control him.
Otherwise he will go to his moms, aunts , sisters, granny home looking for comfort and get brainwashed and controlled by them. They may feed him but sex is the only power a wife has over her husband.
The young women allow there husbands to go off with female coworkers for lunch instead of providing him with lunch
Off with “female” friends for dinner after work because the wife ain’t cook A meal
Food and sex is the only way o tame a husband
Prophet Moses was put into a basket by his mother she was given the inspiration (Message) from Allah when he was a baby and he floated to Pharaoh Firawn family his sister Maryam watch him float and followed Pharaoh Firawn . The wife of Pharaoh Firawn could not suckle him so Maryam said I know of a woman who can suckle him who was his mother . He grew up he killed a Egyptian mistakenly when their was a fight going on between The Egyptian and Israelite. the Israelite asked for help and Moses helped him but killed the Egyptian and made Found Allah and was given Dua and was forgiven .I seek refuge with Allah from Satan May the peace mercy and blessings of An Nur be upon you the Three Uncreated beings are Allah Subhanu Wa Ta Ala He created Himself He is not a man, a female or a duel He is Allah Subhanu Wa Ta Ala He is too much light for our perception that why we can’t see Him . The second uncreated being is the Kursi -(Throne) Allah Subhanu Wa Ta Ala sits upon
And the Third is the Prototype of the Qur’an Lawh Mahfuz (Mother of the Book) Original Qur’an these Uncreated beings are in the Seventh Heaven they are Ancient with no time that can measure how long they have been created .Allah sits upon his Kursi (Throne) while there are some Angels that bear the Throne while other Angels are continuously worshipping Allah Subhanu Wa Ta Ala that’s what goes on in the Seventh Heaven .Malaikah -Angels of Allah are Angel Jibraeel(Gabriel)-The Holy Spirit ,(Malakul Mawt)Azrail(Angel of death )Angel Israfil blows the trumpet(clarion when you die ), Angel Michael(Mikail) -handles the provisions for Mankind Angel Ridwan(guards Eternal Bliss ) Honourable recorders-Angel of the Left and Angel of the right(Good Jinn) One watches and the other records your good deeds and bad deeds, Some Angels guard the fire to make sure no one escapes, Munkar Wa Nakeer they interrogate u in the grave. Those are the Angels I’ve learned . Illiyin-Register fully inscribed for the righteous .Sijjin -Register fully inscribed for the wicked . Jannah is Heaven there are Gardens at which rivers flow ,Pure water , The fountain of Abundance Al Kawthur,Youths of everlasting youth like well guarded pearls, Wine mixed with Kafur Wine mixed with Zanjabil from the rivers of Salsabil (This Wine is The Purest wine ever Created it is in Heaven Wallahi. Pure Milk, Pure honey clear, Beakers(Cups) as of glass. Their will be Green brocades with Gold embroidery Fruits will hang low , and the Prophets will be there all 124000. and much more .Torah(Musa)(Moses Alaihis salaam) Injeel(Isa(Jesus)Alaihis Salam Zabur(Psalms)Alaihis Salam (Dawud David) Alaihis Salam Suhuf of Ibraheem(Ibraheem)(A.S), and Qur’an(Prophet Muhammad (Sallallahualaihiwasalam)
Risalah -Prophethood. Represent the countless ways Allah Subhanu Wa Ta Ala communicates with Mankind and Jinn Allah sends down guidance to the right path (Siratal Mustaqim)
Akhirah-Hereafter .I seek refuge with Allah from Satan May the peace mercy and blessings of An Nur be upon you the Three Uncreated beings are Allah Subhanu Wa Ta Ala He created Himself He is not a man, a female or a duel He is Allah Subhanu Wa Ta Ala He is too much light for our perception that why we can’t see Him . The second uncreated being is the Kursi -(Throne) Allah Subhanu Wa Ta Ala sits upon
And the Third is the Prototype of the Qur’an Lawh Mahfuz (Mother of the Book) Original Qur’an these Uncreated beings are in the Seventh Heaven they are Ancient with no time that can measure how long they have been created .Allah sits upon his Kursi (Throne) while there are some Angels that bear the Throne while other Angels are continuously worshipping Allah Subhanu Wa Ta Ala that’s what goes on in the Seventh Heaven .Malaikah -Angels of Allah are Angel Jibraeel(Gabriel)-The Holy Spirit ,(Malakul Mawt)Azrail(Angel of death )Angel Israfil blows the trumpet(clarion when you die ), Angel Michael(Mikail) -handles the provisions for Mankind Angel Ridwan(guards Eternal Bliss ) Honourable recorders-Angel of the Left and Angel of the right(Good Jinn) One watches and the other records your good deeds and bad deeds, Some Angels guard the fire to make sure no one escapes, Munkar Wa Nakeer they interrogate u in the grave. Those are the Angels I’ve learned . Illiyin-Register fully inscribed for the righteous .Sijjin -Register fully inscribed for the wicked . Jannah is Heaven there are Gardens at which rivers flow ,Pure water , The fountain of Abundance Al Kawthur,Youths of everlasting youth like well guarded pearls, Wine mixed with Kafur Wine mixed with Zanjabil from the rivers of Salsabil (This Wine is The Purest wine ever Created it is in Heaven Wallahi. Pure Milk, Pure honey clear, Beakers(Cups) as of glass. Their will be Green brocades with Gold embroidery Fruits will hang low , and the Prophets will be there all 124000. And much more .Torah(Musa)(Moses Alaihis salaam) Injeel(Isa(Jesus)Alaihis Salam Zabur(Psalms)Alaihis Salam (Dawud David) Alaihis Salam Suhuf of Ibraheem(Ibraheem)(A.S), and Qur’an(Prophet Muhammad (Sallallahualaihiwasalam)
Risalah -Prophethood. Represent the countless ways Allah Subhanu Wa Ta Ala communicates with Mankind and Jinn Allah sends down guidance to the right path (Siratal Mustaqim).Allah is the Greatest friend He was there when no human was there He was always there and His army of Angels will always follow his orders Wallahi
Akhirah-Hereafter
Isreal has 14 Nobel Prizes Arabs have shit. Which one will you have? Nusrat Rizvi Palm Beach Gardens Florida.
In all what you are talking is to take side of her husband in your video does huh it only bad and everything bad
Nonsesesesessesee The girl young women farhiashappiness young wife madam and one of in the womens on earth.exusemeeeeee5👋
What is this parrot talking? A woman doesn't want respect? Maybe she doesn't want. But I want.. ! And many other women want! Is it that only humans want respect and women not? I thought women are humans too...!
Most of the time, we are surrounded by our ego that we dont see things! This sister has a video on how to treat your wife too!
Ok,please don't call her a parrot
pure stupidity, either you love or not
Madam, please quote Quran or Hadith to support your speech
Women are familiar with unconditional love 😂; Madam there is nothing called unconditional love, there is nothing unconditional in human world!
You are free to give marriage counselling, but don’t use Allah and Rasul (saw) name without quoting Quran or Hadith verses
STOP talking.
STOP talking in the name of all women.
You don't believe it yourself.
Allaah ❤ ❤ ❤ The Almighty is The Most Just
STOP following man made ahadith.
You just quoted their pagan bible agording to mortals John Paul Marc...
This is SHIRK SHIRK SHIRK.
The Time is Near.
Allaah ❤ ❤ ❤ The Almighty Will INTERVENE.
@@poetlaureate7334 typical femisist.
No wonder miserable in their lifes
Man made Hadith😂. Are you even Muslim? How do you pray if you don't believe Hadith 😂?
@@Donotcare6
Man made and SHIRK SHIRK SHIRK
@@paralleluniverse298
Allaah ❤ ❤ ❤ The Almighty is The Most Just The Most Loving The Most Merciful. You are a liar.
You are arrogant. Who do you think you are???? Allaah ❤ ❤ ❤ The Almighty made you from dust
@@paralleluniverse298
You are the one who spread lies about Rassoelloellaah ❤ ❤❤
May Allah guide her, she needs to start respecting her own husband and her own self by getting off TH-cam. If this sister is the role model for today's Muslim women then we are doomed. Our role models need to be Khadijah and Aisha (may Allah be pleased with them) who sat at home and covered up, not women who want to be viewed in public and host talks in public and on the internet.
BS. as a human being you want to be respected and you want to be loved... it has nothing to do with being a man or a woman