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- Lately, we've been getting quite a few comments about PDA in Japan vs Europe, as well comments asking why Rin and other Japanese men sometimes seem a bit distant or cold in videos. The reason for this can be found in the Japanese culture and traditions, and there's more to it then meets the eye!
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What do you think about PDA (Public Displays of Affection) in Japan or in your own country?? :D
in my country its ;mostly okay to show affection ^^ like hugs, kisses, saying i love you ^^
I am Brazilian and I've been married to a Japanese man for almost 5 years. In Brazil, it's part of our culture to compliment our partners and friends on an array of things and I really miss that in my relationship with my husband. I know that he loves me and he tries to show his love by doing things for me, such as cooking dishes I like, buying things he thinks I will like, taking me to places that he thinks that I will like, taking care of my clothes, and things like that. And I try to feel that it's enough. Sometimes, though, I miss the random "You look so beautiful today!", "I love to spend time with you", "I love you", and also hugs and pecks during the day at home. But, like your partner, it seems that no matter how much we talk about missing those things, they don't feel it's important in their culture and sp it's hard for them to understand us and try to do those things.
Hello Laura ^^ it was really interesting to hear you talk about this ^^ i think its okay to show your emotions in public but i can also understand that some people might feel uncomfortable if thye see someone hugging or kissing outdoors ^^
Thank you for the insight!! I just really enjoy your videos!! Stay safe ❤️
Hi Lory! Thank you for watching and I'm glad it helped you get a better idea of what being in a relationship with a Japanese person is like :D I hope you'll have a nice weekend!! :D
Yup, I agree- it's much better to show love by actions rather than words ^-^
The "letting the girl walk away from the cars" is super cute in my opinion
I live in Japan as well and when I’m starting to date someone the problem with the PDA, it becomes kind of annoying, because I feel that it kind of creates a lack of steps, if I’m just getting to know the person I don’t feel confident to have that person over, but at the same time I’m missing the skinship that gradually will lead to intimacy, in my experience in private then things tends to escalate too quickly, not really a fan of that. And I heard from someone of my male friends as well that they were really surprised as well how things go from 0 ( for quite a few dates) to 100 in a blink of an eye. I think it would be interesting to know how actually Japanese couples develop in time in sense of intimacy or if the experience is different since we are foreigners.
Hi Silvia! The comment you wrote gave me some matter to think about! Sorry for the late reply 😊I would personally also not feel very comfortable if things moved from 0 to 100 too quickly. Especially if you don’t have a lot of dating experience. Rin is my first real relationship so I has no idea what is normal or what to do at all 😊but in our case I would say some things moved a bit slowly and others quite fast. For example, we took it quite slow where intimacy was concerned. When we were just friends we would simply hug goodbye and that’s it but after starting our relationship we started holding hands, hugging etc but it took us a couple of months to take things further than then. We both felt completely comfortable at that pace but for some it might have been either slow or too fast. When it comes to major steps like moving in together etc we were quite fast I believe. I moved in to him 5 months into our relationship and felt it was the natural thing to do 😊I don’t know about other international couples but it seems like it really depends on the person. If you feel things are moving too fast or too slow to your liking, the best advice I can give you is to communicate those feelings to your partner. It might not always be an easy conversation but it sure helps to prevent misunderstandings and possible problems down the road 😊
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