As someone who dated Japanese, I think one of the worst things is the lack of PDA. Personally I'm not even a big fan of it cause I hate making people uncomfortable, but it's so discouraging when you can't even get a quick kiss or hug when nobody's looking. Even holding hands is too much sometimes, and it's hard to get out a sweet compliment or "I love you" out of them in public. They try to make up for it with nice gestures, but if you're somebody who needs constant love affirmation then it can get hard.
I am not a really boomer or something but I can understand from where Japanese boys don't like doing public stuff. From my experience (not from dating or something) (but from people complaining about them doing in public) is a big issue I guess. People dislike it for some reason.
not saying "I love you" is quite a common in Asian culture, and even more so for the Japanese. most East and South east Asian perception of romance is that you should show affection through duty, kindness, and action, not through body intimacy or lipservice. The word "I love you" is very precious therefore it should savored for the right moment. You see this a lot with the older asian generation but I can a sure to you that Asian youth nowaday kinda moved on from that, however Japanese youth still haven't catch up to this yet.
I've been going steady with my Japanese boyfriend for 19 months now. While I don't want to put him in a box, I will agree that he was shy at first (but not so shy as to hide his feelings! ☺️). He's also quite responsible and enjoyed taking the lead while we were in Japan together. 🇯🇵
As someone who's been there, yes it is. Thats why it shouldn't be a give and take situation, both party should give. Also, you should have a partner who's interesting and have a good chemistry with u. After 5 months of dating or so that initial attraction would slowly fade.
I dated a guy for a while here who was always working. At first, it was cool but slowly I began to realize that I was definitely the other woman in the relationship and he was DEFINITELY married. He lied a lot about things but did it with such an unsuspecting disposition. I don't think all guys are like that here but I was very surprised that he would be so clever in hiding it without me knowing... I just want to meet a nice normal guy. Haha...
Dating in japan is interesting as shown in anime and in real life. There are so many places where one can enjoy their date in a peaceful and romantic way. Both girls and boys get butterflies when dating each other thinking they are so beautiful/handsome but due to Japanese women/men not being so open and thinking that the other person would negatively react to each other causes problems a lot when they settle down or think of marrying. Many times it does not work out because as they become more intimate they tend to negatively react to each other's thoughts, ideologies and secrets due to not settling those before marrying or having kids and then being depressed!
@@christophermichael.w.7577 there are also a lot of younger Japanese who have Tattoos and give a fuck on Onsen 😃 but I know what u mean. My girlfriend asked me if I have some because she wanted to go there together. I said no I don't have one. At the same time we both said: "but I wanted one in the past... I was thinking about..." Anyway she loves Onsen, so I don't think she will have one in near future. Haha
i am Ethiopian and i am dating Japanese...he is shy but as you say he is so responsible for our r/ship...and the thing that he doesn't rush things is a good for me it's makes me to trust him than my past boyfriends...but i hope he doesn't cheat on haha
Great interview, but...Dear Cameraman, please just raise your f-stop value so both people are in focus at once. The focus switching between speakers is very distracting. Not everything needs to be toneh 1.4 😉
“… they are responsible” but cheat. Where is the emotional responsibility? I’ve had many conversations to males friends here in Japan, and the way the guys think about cheat and marriage is crazy. After many years making questions to my male and female friends, I’m not surprised about the massive loveless marriage in Japan.
I had a bad experience with dating a Japanese girl once she wasn't very nice in a few ways. But her whole friend group was like that, had a very gold digger/ boy surfer attitude. So it didn't work out in the end but definitely for the better. I hope I have someone more genuine one day :)
Boy/Girl relationships are hard in all cultures and doubly hard across different cultures. Without honest communication, meeting the needs of any partner is difficult especially when their physical needs and/or emotional needs can be very different between couples...just my 2 cents.
I've been subscribed to Asagi for a awhile, and this is the first time I noticed how Monotoned she is. I guess Cathy really makes it apparent with her personality.
She is pretty and she seems to have a nice personality, but in truth we do not know all the details. Her overall image maybe "godly", but the "devil" always hides in the details. We all have that, which is why there will always be a reason for some people not to like us very much, while in the eyes of others it may be considered impossible.
I think the issue with American men not saving their money and spending it on stuff has something to do with the idea of opulence and showing your “worth”/wealth to the world.
3 Dates!? Lol typically for me it's 3 months. Although having the 3rd date, it would be easy to be like "hey, I don't think this is working out" and they're ready for it.
🤣 "Kids are expensive (Especially the goat kind)". 😅 I'd never get a Japanese boyfriend, I'm too old. Microphone ducky! I haven't seen the poo in awhile... Music was slightly loud at some points when they were talking. 😓
Probably would be a good change of pace for me to date someone who's a bit slower paced. I've only dated western boys (and girl) and they didn't end well and because of this experience, I've been very reluctant to jump back into dating anyone. It'll definitely take some time for me to open up and if my partner is the same way, then hopefully we can meet up in the same place of trust.
In Japan it's always 空気を読む and guessing the feelings of others .... but please give me an official press conference statement when you want me to believe you love me!! How should I know otherwise, man?! .... what?
Can you ask people more about the cheating culture that is starting to become more apparent in Japan? I've heard about it from a lot of youtubers who live in Japan, so I'm curious to hear what citizens have to say about the topic. Like if they have been victims of cheating, do they know anyone who cheats, possible reasons for cheating, and stuff like that. I feel like that would be such an interesting video! I'm very curious haha
@@AsagisLifeNoBSJapan Wow, really?? Why do they do that?! I'm curious to know what goes on in their minds haha, so I think a video would be a great idea! Thanks Asagi!
I think with western guys the three date rule would be mostly redundant, due to the fact that we're easier to read for Japanese women. I know I'm not difficult for Japanese women to read, western women seem to be less able to read me which is good😁
In Mexico guys do ask the girls to be their girlfriend, but the time depends on the guy, if he doesn’t ask after a while he probably doesn’t see the relationship as serious
I learn so much about Japanese boyfriend because I didn’t know that they like to save money for marriage, house and having kids I was so surprised I thought they send money for shoes, clothes and videos like boys and guys usually do. I have to be honest I like to have a Christian Japanese boy someday but when I watch the video I learn so much about them they just like me because I love to save money I like to spend less of buying things. Thank you for the video I learn something new everyday:)
About being ghosted, or maybe the guy thought that the date didn't go as perfect as he expected and then was afraid that you weren't interested in him :)
well I don't know if this is common or not , I met a Japanese boy while we where learning English in a English country lol haha I speak Spanish as my native language , so we have like a lots of party and this kind of stuff around us , what makes me surprise about him , was he really loves to flirt with girls in general , doesn't matter the girl he always want the attention of the other person , so that's make me feel really uncomfortable. being a new girlfriend after that every time we hanging out outside as restaurant or bars , always a young , atractive girl appear he just can't being a normal guy and he flirts with the other person just in front of me . I don't know if this is normal or what haha maybe not ,but yes is something that is still in my mind.
Do they not have student loans like in America in Japan? Also, the car thing. I feel like the average American will go to college and need some loan assistance (5,000-10,000$ at least a semester. 2 semester in a year. 4 years if you always pass your classes.). Also, when you do get the job (that you just gained debt to be able to understand it) than you have to must have a reliable way to get to the workplace. A car is the best option since most places are rural and don't have public transportation. Debt is too wired into America. :(
I usually do, but after a few days since it gives me time to think about what happened. Then I usually tell them what went wrong and then I don't talk to them anymore.
There are plenty of frugal guys from the West. We just tend to be very conservative socially as well. But you'd never need to worry about me when it comes to money and finances - I have that covered pretty well. On the other hand I've not been known to prepare a lot for dates. In fact I'd rather not since I want to find common ground and do things we both like.
@@GlendaRammitsu No. I think I would enjoy living there - it's probably been my favorite country to visit. I live in the Seattle area. (I work for Microsoft.) And honestly Japanese companies don't pay computer programmers enough to get me to move there from the states. And while I also think it would be a great place to retire early to, the Japanese government doesn't really seem to want people there on long-term visas unless they are working there or are married to a Japanese citizen. I'm just not willing to take a job as a Japanese salary man with all the associated long hours and low wages when I don't really need the money. And while it might be nice to find a beautiful Japanese wife (I love how most Asian women look), I've been married before and I'm not in any hurry to jump into that again quickly...
as a westerner beeing able to be open all the time, and not have to become a part time alcoholic for the rest of mý life to solve everýthing makes me reallý happý 😄 life can be easý
i have a question about the three date rule... as a girl if you said “can we get to know each other a little bit better?” do you think the japanese guy would take that as a rejection? 😅
very serious about dating but they cheat a lot.... nice juxtaposition think if women dating Japanese men were somehow aware of men who asked more than one woman out, then decide to rat out those men to other women, that _might_ mitigate the problem, or at least discourage it
Holaa! Wow I hope I can come to Japan in 2022 🤩 I don’t know if I’ll meet any Japanese man in that way but at least o have the tips and the differences 😌
@@AsagisLifeNoBSJapan yaaas! I’m also putting in to the universe that Covid is DONE by 2022 🙌🏽 so this year I will make myself learn enough Japanese so I won’t be totally lost while touristing
I think when it comes to foreign girls Japanese guys don't really have that mentality of a serious relationship. It's more like scoring a white girl so you can have something to brag about. Of course not all of them, but I would say it's not that easy to find a guy who will actually view you as a potential partner for life.
You're damned if you do and damned if you don't. This did not clear up anything and contradicts other videos. These stereotypes are not accurate. 🤷🏻♂️
Is thinking of marriage and kids very early in a relationship really an advantage - especially when you are still in your 20s ? A lot of people barely know themselves at that age, should you really rush into big plans with a partner you have only known for a few months ? I'm probably thinking about this with too much of a "Westerner" mindset, but I would put this one in the "not an advantage/disadvantage, just different"-category.
Western this , Asian that. There again she's basing every western guy off of coastal western guys.......mistake number 1. Fly over state guys are more frugal and in less debt than a coastal guy by statistics. So she should say.......she's interested in coastal western guys.......which is fine if she does but the east and west coasts are NOT the whole of ......well at least this western country.
if japanese guys are so serious, have good credit, planning well and are responsible for the future, I wonder, why Japan has the highest proportion of elderly citizens of any country in the world ... what is going wrong?
@@jujugarcianyc I stan Stan too 💜 I don't think he covers Japanese relationship-relationships tho, but who knows. Our Boi is too busy getting the dough 💰🤑✨
I don't think I'd like to meet a guy for the first time over drinks. He might create an ideal persona based on liquid courage and spend the rest of the time sober trying to match it.
@@PentragonCosplay first you obviously didn't follow her enough, secondly that would be even worse and hypocrite that someone not interested in relationship has basically a channel related to that.Everyone is entitled to their choices but I am also free to not buy their bulls***.
Interesting. For me it's more frustrating when I have friends with benefits. It makes me feel uncomfortable. I want fun / serious relationship! Lol Of course it depends on the person though.
@@AsagisLifeNoBSJapan うん，そうだねー。（＾ω＾）For me it’s like, I keep getting cheated on even when I do things right or make the guy feel comfortable. Or they become toxic and to the point where they just become butts! So I’d rather just date and hangout, have fun lol. Explore what I like in depth and if it happens it happens. The life of being single with two dogs is attractive atm |(￣3￣)| XD I’m an artist too so that may also be a reason I’m like this. I love cuddling and having company around me but, I need me space at some point :3
Be Patient, Save as much as you can, Plan ahead Common sense really I would love to have an Japanese girlfriend but of course won’t happened in my lifetime ;~;
I sit on the fence about the 'responsilibity; aspect. Although looking towards the future and planning is mature to do, rushing into something after 3 dates seems dangerous for longevitiy? I dont understand the rush, but then again, im English. So i dont know anything about Japanese culture. Taiwan society seems to resonate with Japan, minus the 3 day thing.
As someone who dated Japanese, I think one of the worst things is the lack of PDA. Personally I'm not even a big fan of it cause I hate making people uncomfortable, but it's so discouraging when you can't even get a quick kiss or hug when nobody's looking. Even holding hands is too much sometimes, and it's hard to get out a sweet compliment or "I love you" out of them in public. They try to make up for it with nice gestures, but if you're somebody who needs constant love affirmation then it can get hard.
Aghhhh. I totally understand that Yoshiko. Many Japanese guys hate PDA just even a bit! It's sad when they refuse to hug in the public!
Ouuff this hit me hard
Im autistic and there acting like me. I would be delighted by the japanese, but annoyed at the copy cats.
I am not a really boomer or something but I can understand from where Japanese boys don't like doing public stuff. From my experience (not from dating or something) (but from people complaining about them doing in public) is a big issue I guess. People dislike it for some reason.
not saying "I love you" is quite a common in Asian culture, and even more so for the Japanese. most East and South east Asian perception of romance is that you should show affection through duty, kindness, and action, not through body intimacy or lipservice. The word "I love you" is very precious therefore it should savored for the right moment. You see this a lot with the older asian generation but I can a sure to you that Asian youth nowaday kinda moved on from that, however Japanese youth still haven't catch up to this yet.
I've been going steady with my Japanese boyfriend for 19 months now. While I don't want to put him in a box, I will agree that he was shy at first (but not so shy as to hide his feelings! ☺️). He's also quite responsible and enjoyed taking the lead while we were in Japan together. 🇯🇵
Aw how nice 🥰
Glad you are happy!
🤗
I envy ya take good care of each other
He will never marry you. Move on.
Relationships sound like such a pain...
Or don't on second thought.
Cuz there are many rules.
As someone who's been there, yes it is. Thats why it shouldn't be a give and take situation, both party should give. Also, you should have a partner who's interesting and have a good chemistry with u. After 5 months of dating or so that initial attraction would slowly fade.
Without pain, there can be no pleasure. Haha. But seriously, sometimes things that are worth a lot require a lot of work. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
It would be easy if people have healed and worked on their mental health
I dated a guy for a while here who was always working. At first, it was cool but slowly I began to realize that I was definitely the other woman in the relationship and he was DEFINITELY married. He lied a lot about things but did it with such an unsuspecting disposition. I don't think all guys are like that here but I was very surprised that he would be so clever in hiding it without me knowing...
I just want to meet a nice normal guy. Haha...
Same here.
im so sorry you had to go through that :/// being the second choice is always such a shit feeling
Sorry, what a gross man.. 🤢
Dating in japan is interesting as shown in anime and in real life. There are so many places where one can enjoy their date in a peaceful and romantic way. Both girls and boys get butterflies when dating each other thinking they are so beautiful/handsome but due to Japanese women/men not being so open and thinking that the other person would negatively react to each other causes problems a lot when they settle down or think of marrying. Many times it does not work out because as they become more intimate they tend to negatively react to each other's thoughts, ideologies and secrets due to not settling those before marrying or having kids and then being depressed!
I like Japanese women, but I feel like there are definitely cultural differences. For example I have tattoos on my arms .
@@christophermichael.w.7577 there are also a lot of younger Japanese who have Tattoos and give a fuck on Onsen 😃 but I know what u mean. My girlfriend asked me if I have some because she wanted to go there together. I said no I don't have one. At the same time we both said: "but I wanted one in the past... I was thinking about..." Anyway she loves Onsen, so I don't think she will have one in near future. Haha
i am Ethiopian and i am dating Japanese...he is shy but as you say he is so responsible for our r/ship...and the thing that he doesn't rush things is a good for me it's makes me to trust him than my past boyfriends...but i hope he doesn't cheat on haha
Congratulations...how did you meet him?
@@MeanGuy969 thank you...i meet him in Ethiopia we work together
Omg girl I’m Ethiopia too! It’s nice to see u are literally living my dream. Do u live in Japan?
no i live in Ethiopia bby girl
@@hiwotlegesse6532 Hi! Ethiopia women are gorgeous. I live in Japan and hope to meet someone from your country.
Great interview, but...Dear Cameraman, please just raise your f-stop value so both people are in focus at once. The focus switching between speakers is very distracting. Not everything needs to be toneh 1.4 😉
True !! Cameraman onegaishimasuuu
“… they are responsible” but cheat.
Where is the emotional responsibility?
I’ve had many conversations to males friends here in Japan, and the way the guys think about cheat and marriage is crazy.
After many years making questions to my male and female friends, I’m not surprised about the massive loveless marriage in Japan.
I had a bad experience with dating a Japanese girl once she wasn't very nice in a few ways. But her whole friend group was like that, had a very gold digger/ boy surfer attitude. So it didn't work out in the end but definitely for the better. I hope I have someone more genuine one day :)
Sucks to hear that dude, hope u find someone better. For me, being single is good too after a relationship doesn't work lol.
It is always nice when you ask questions of us, and ask for those with experience to comment with their thoughts too!
“They are sneaky”
Old habits die hard do they.
Boy/Girl relationships are hard in all cultures and doubly hard across different cultures. Without honest communication, meeting the needs of any partner is difficult especially when their physical needs and/or emotional needs can be very different between couples...just my 2 cents.
I've been subscribed to Asagi for a awhile, and this is the first time I noticed how Monotoned she is. I guess Cathy really makes it apparent with her personality.
Can you delve into the Japanese dating world - dating apps - in your next video?
Good idea!
kids are expensive especially the GOAT KIND LMAO
I'm seriously jealous of both of you ladies, I'm studying Japanese vocabulary and barely able to speak. Still have not learned particles
Who in their right mind would ghost Asagi?
I know right? lol
Obvi someone with no taste!
Y’all clearly don’t know her well enough
She is pretty and she seems to have a nice personality, but in truth we do not know all the details. Her overall image maybe "godly", but the "devil" always hides in the details. We all have that, which is why there will always be a reason for some people not to like us very much, while in the eyes of others it may be considered impossible.
A guy who felt like he hadn't saved enough money to get her to be his girlfriend and move onto sex.....
Japan, you don’t spend money on Christmas because you save your money to spend money on New Years.
I think the issue with American men not saving their money and spending it on stuff has something to do with the idea of opulence and showing your “worth”/wealth to the world.
LMAO, at 11:33. After Asagi says she doesn't understand sarcasm. I see that, yet, This joke is almost British in it's humour.
3 Dates!? Lol typically for me it's 3 months. Although having the 3rd date, it would be easy to be like "hey, I don't think this is working out" and they're ready for it.
Totally agree. As a foreign women living in Japan it’s really difficult dating a Japanese guy because of their cheating habits.
Good interview but...apologies if I sound rude...why the loud music during the interview? It was very distracting. Thank you for the content.
🤣 "Kids are expensive (Especially the goat kind)".
😅 I'd never get a Japanese boyfriend, I'm too old.
Microphone ducky! I haven't seen the poo in awhile...
Music was slightly loud at some points when they were talking. 😓
Probably would be a good change of pace for me to date someone who's a bit slower paced. I've only dated western boys (and girl) and they didn't end well and because of this experience, I've been very reluctant to jump back into dating anyone. It'll definitely take some time for me to open up and if my partner is the same way, then hopefully we can meet up in the same place of trust.
I've dated two gay Japanese men. Both were emotional icebergs, and more than a little strange. Oh well, onto warmer, friendlier, saner guys instead...
Thank you for tips Cathy Cat!!!!!!!! I'm so happy!!!!! 😊
5:13 That song always reminds me of GTA III
Everything is not as beautiful as the drama. The reality sometimes feels bitter if you are not grateful.
In Japan it's always 空気を読む and guessing the feelings of others .... but please give me an official press conference statement when you want me to believe you love me!! How should I know otherwise, man?!
.... what?
Can you ask people more about the cheating culture that is starting to become more apparent in Japan? I've heard about it from a lot of youtubers who live in Japan, so I'm curious to hear what citizens have to say about the topic. Like if they have been victims of cheating, do they know anyone who cheats, possible reasons for cheating, and stuff like that. I feel like that would be such an interesting video! I'm very curious haha
Maaan! (Sorry if you are a girl) Most of my Japanese exes cheated on me! I think I can make a video about it lol
@@AsagisLifeNoBSJapan Wow, really?? Why do they do that?! I'm curious to know what goes on in their minds haha, so I think a video would be a great idea! Thanks Asagi!
"Yeah there are many bad dates" LOL
I think with western guys the three date rule would be mostly redundant, due to the fact that we're easier to read for Japanese women. I know I'm not difficult for Japanese women to read, western women seem to be less able to read me which is good😁
In Mexico guys do ask the girls to be their girlfriend, but the time depends on the guy, if he doesn’t ask after a while he probably doesn’t see the relationship as serious
I learn so much about Japanese boyfriend because I didn’t know that they like to save money for marriage, house and having kids I was so surprised I thought they send money for shoes, clothes and videos like boys and guys usually do. I have to be honest I like to have a Christian Japanese boy someday but when I watch the video I learn so much about them they just like me because I love to save money I like to spend less of buying things. Thank you for the video I learn something new everyday:)
a christian japanese person😂🤣😂🤣 good luck with that lol
Christian japanese???
Materialistic. Cheaters? So much for respect. Without respect, you can’t say someone truly loves you. Sorry.
That duck on the mic is pretty swaggy.
🦆😎
I mainly meet Japanese women in Tango classes.
Sounds good! It's easier to get closer when you both dance!
About being ghosted, or maybe the guy thought that the date didn't go as perfect as he expected and then was afraid that you weren't interested in him :)
Superb background music💖
well I don't know if this is common or not , I met a Japanese boy while we where learning English in a English country lol haha I speak Spanish as my native language , so we have like a lots of party and this kind of stuff around us , what makes me surprise about him , was he really loves to flirt with girls in general , doesn't matter the girl he always want the attention of the other person , so that's make me feel really uncomfortable. being a new girlfriend after that every time we hanging out outside as restaurant or bars , always a young , atractive girl appear he just can't being a normal guy and he flirts with the other person just in front of me .
I don't know if this is normal or what haha maybe not ,but yes is something that is still in my mind.
I have to say though it is somewhat disappointing that the Japanese boy is the one who decides/gives approval for the relationship to move forward.
But isn't the Japanese boy reading the atmosphere and deciding based on that if the relationship goes forward or not?
Isn't that the job of both genders? Both people in a relationship decide if it moves forward
men tend to have more specific preference (esp in appearance) compared to women (value more various things)
I’d be faithful as frick. Heck I’d be scaring other boys that have the nerve of trying to actively flirt with me.
Do they not have student loans like in America in Japan?
Also, the car thing. I feel like the average American will go to college and need some loan assistance (5,000-10,000$ at least a semester. 2 semester in a year. 4 years if you always pass your classes.). Also, when you do get the job (that you just gained debt to be able to understand it) than you have to must have a reliable way to get to the workplace. A car is the best option since most places are rural and don't have public transportation.
Debt is too wired into America. :(
Bad dates occur in all countries and all cultures. The right people tend to meet in the end (mostly?).
When a date goes bad in the west, do you call the guy/girl to say what was wrong with them? Who does that?
I usually do, but after a few days since it gives me time to think about what happened. Then I usually tell them what went wrong and then I don't talk to them anymore.
There are plenty of frugal guys from the West. We just tend to be very conservative socially as well. But you'd never need to worry about me when it comes to money and finances - I have that covered pretty well. On the other hand I've not been known to prepare a lot for dates. In fact I'd rather not since I want to find common ground and do things we both like.
Do you live in Japan?
@@GlendaRammitsu No. I think I would enjoy living there - it's probably been my favorite country to visit. I live in the Seattle area. (I work for Microsoft.) And honestly Japanese companies don't pay computer programmers enough to get me to move there from the states.
And while I also think it would be a great place to retire early to, the Japanese government doesn't really seem to want people there on long-term visas unless they are working there or are married to a Japanese citizen. I'm just not willing to take a job as a Japanese salary man with all the associated long hours and low wages when I don't really need the money. And while it might be nice to find a beautiful Japanese wife (I love how most Asian women look), I've been married before and I'm not in any hurry to jump into that again quickly...
Hi, Do you two have a opinion on going out on blind dates? Is it a thing in Japan or is it something you stay away from?
You should look up mixers, they're essentially group blind dates, AFAIK they're a bit more common than 1:1 blind dates
as a westerner beeing able to be open all the time, and not have to become a part time alcoholic for the rest of mý life to solve everýthing makes me reallý happý 😄 life can be easý
So true! 😂
i have a question about the three date rule... as a girl if you said “can we get to know each other a little bit better?” do you think the japanese guy would take that as a rejection? 😅
Love the lighting ijs
very serious about dating but they cheat a lot.... nice juxtaposition
think if women dating Japanese men were somehow aware of men who asked more than one woman out, then decide to rat out those men to other women, that _might_ mitigate the problem, or at least discourage it
Holaa! Wow I hope I can come to Japan in 2022 🤩 I don’t know if I’ll meet any Japanese man in that way but at least o have the tips and the differences 😌
Agreed!
Covid should be settled down by 2022! Wish you can come to Japan!
@@AsagisLifeNoBSJapan yaaas! I’m also putting in to the universe that Covid is DONE by 2022 🙌🏽 so this year I will make myself learn enough Japanese so I won’t be totally lost while touristing
Alright! It’s settled! I’m on my way to Japan! I need a serious guy!
Would be nice if Japanese boys could give others some lessons!
@@adora08phoenix not really, there is a A LOT of cheating from Japanese boys tho...
@@Mori1000 really? Tea please, but only if you feel comfortable
I think when it comes to foreign girls Japanese guys don't really have that mentality of a serious relationship. It's more like scoring a white girl so you can have something to brag about. Of course not all of them, but I would say it's not that easy to find a guy who will actually view you as a potential partner for life.
WAIT the three dates thing is true wth 😭😭😭
Cathy..i only have one question : WHY IS A RUBBER DUCKY HOLDING A LIGHT SABRE BETWEEN YOU 2???
Hahahahahahahahaha that's both weird and funny.
You're damned if you do and damned if you don't. This did not clear up anything and contradicts other videos. These stereotypes are not accurate. 🤷🏻♂️
They have inheritance, they don't save.
You are adorable 😂😂 Yes, the goat kids have their mom’s taste for Angelic Pretty 🐐👗
Truth! Lol
Cheating is the result of an UNETHICAL decision of the cheater. The other person is not at fault. Think of that.
Thanks for the insightful video! You are both adorable!
おかげさま で 元気 に なれた！thanks a loot
Is thinking of marriage and kids very early in a relationship really an advantage - especially when you are still in your 20s ? A lot of people barely know themselves at that age, should you really rush into big plans with a partner you have only known for a few months ? I'm probably thinking about this with too much of a "Westerner" mindset, but I would put this one in the "not an advantage/disadvantage, just different"-category.
Maji desu ka…sugoy… seriously..awsome… I’m slowly understanding Japanese..
I know you've done videos on how to date Japanese girls. I would like to see a video on how to date a Cathy Cat.
I would be happy to talk about my international marriage with my Japanese husband♡
How is it?? How did you meet? 😁
I have al. Lot of questions that would not fit here.
Hard ...
Western this , Asian that. There again she's basing every western guy off of coastal western guys.......mistake number 1. Fly over state guys are more frugal and in less debt than a coastal guy by statistics. So she should say.......she's interested in coastal western guys.......which is fine if she does but the east and west coasts are NOT the whole of ......well at least this western country.
if japanese guys are so serious, have good credit, planning well and are responsible for the future, I wonder, why Japan has the highest proportion of elderly citizens of any country in the world ... what is going wrong?
since they know marriage and kids are expensive, and they want to be responsible compared to irresponsible, poor parents who have dozens of kids
Cost of living rising faster than savings, usually. Also single income households are becoming more untenable
They have good credit ...SOLD!
Music is distractingly loud on both this and the previous video. I can't watch it.
What are the best dating apps in japan for serious dates?
Very good
If they cheat, leave them!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
As a boy interested in a Japanese boyfriend, I feel very left out of CathyCat's addresses to the audience 🤣
@doesn't matter hahaha love worldofxtra
@@jujugarcianyc I stan Stan too 💜 I don't think he covers Japanese relationship-relationships tho, but who knows. Our Boi is too busy getting the dough 💰🤑✨
what's a girlfriend? :(
I don't think I'd like to meet a guy for the first time over drinks. He might create an ideal persona based on liquid courage and spend the rest of the time sober trying to match it.
This is good to know that japanese men expect foreign woman to lead. Now I know it's on me
Stop with "I'd heard that" Kathy...you've been living in Japan for years so you have personal dating experience
you do know there are people who like to be single? Or even aromantic?
@@PentragonCosplay first you obviously didn't follow her enough, secondly that would be even worse and hypocrite that someone not interested in relationship has basically a channel related to that.Everyone is entitled to their choices but I am also free to not buy their bulls***.
Poor Director-San, he must have squirmed in discomfort a few times when shooting this video, lol! 😋
Informative ;3 I’d rather have friends tho.
The relationship pool is so stressful, a stress I don’t want right now. I’d rather just date and be company lol.
Interesting. For me it's more frustrating when I have friends with benefits. It makes me feel uncomfortable. I want fun / serious relationship! Lol
Of course it depends on the person though.
@@AsagisLifeNoBSJapan うん，そうだねー。（＾ω＾）For me it’s like, I keep getting cheated on even when I do things right or make the guy feel comfortable. Or they become toxic and to the point where they just become butts! So I’d rather just date and hangout, have fun lol. Explore what I like in depth and if it happens it happens. The life of being single with two dogs is attractive atm |(￣3￣)| XD I’m an artist too so that may also be a reason I’m like this. I love cuddling and having company around me but, I need me space at some point :3
Notes written, and hint taken, Ladies!! some of us foreign guys can be taught!
I’m surprised by this that Japanese people don’t spend too much like Americans.
also damn i wish my boyfriend put that much planning into our dates! i always have to plan them and think ahead D:
Now I want a foreigner who speaks japanese as gf, how do I get one.
you know dating with russian woman or aussi woman is actually talk very fast i am reckon .
11:33 that face tho
Yes like he said BE PATIENT hahahahhahaha
He??🤔 I miss that, time stamp?
Go it, that rule applies to most introverts.
Ahhhh I seeeee
Be Patient, Save as much as you can, Plan ahead Common sense really I would love to have an Japanese girlfriend but of course won’t happened in my lifetime ;~;
Why not? Everything is possible!
Asagi, was it Derek who took you to Disneyland?
This whole topic is about Japanese boys why would I talk about him lol
@@AsagisLifeNoBSJapan That's true, lol; I don't know what I was thinking.
They ghost, the best ever you just don't go by their place or call.
2:35 I have never figured out why so many Japanese people say "date with"
I'm a big spender, can't help it 😭🤣
I sit on the fence about the 'responsilibity; aspect. Although looking towards the future and planning is mature to do, rushing into something after 3 dates seems dangerous for longevitiy? I dont understand the rush, but then again, im English. So i dont know anything about Japanese culture. Taiwan society seems to resonate with Japan, minus the 3 day thing.
Depends on the man! Don't know who she's been hanging out with hahaha.
Ooooooh.
Yo about the saving stuff you know that waifus ain’t cheap right? Just saying xD
I'm really surprised she didn't be honest and say her parents would be happier if she dated a Japanese boy
Those who need an official statement, shun them. They have problems with their feelings.
why this chick wearing a maid outfit, that's so cringe.
That's why cheating is talent
Just western girls?