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What if u had a friendship going & then he unexpectedly discards u after u did all those wrong things , so u lean back into the feminine energy, won't that make him forget about u if he said he didn't want to be in a relationship to begin with..u both were only a passing fling..what do u have to say about that?
How do u know if they'll forget about u like a passing fling if u had a casual friendship relationship going on & then they ignored or discard u after they figured out red flags about u they didn't like & couldn't accept cause their standards were higher than urs & values weren't the same. Ex: he didn't value family cause he was a loner & was a shy introvert, didn't like it want any kids, u didn't own a home & he did, had a lot of $ & u didn't. He was intelligent & u weren't on his level of intelligence..was prejudice & couldn't accept that of ur family..tadaaah
My mom once told me when she saw I was upset over a guy, "If he likes you nothing will keep him away. You will feel a little annoyed, because he wants to be around you so much " if he doesn't, like you his science is a sign ". To this day that advice sticks with me, my mom knew what she was talking about!
I didn't realize pursuing a man, trying to get his attention and his focus back on u or putting him on a pedestal was masculine behaviour Thanks for enlightening me
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But then he will call and it will start again？@Poweide Thompson, did you keep that amazing energy level? seriously asking - can we be free and not all or nothing type?
I just want to know how is it going. Did he ever call you, if so, how long did it take ?🤔 I just 'fell' back and I haven't heard anything from him in two weeks. Maybe he's gone for good. If so, great! I leaned back and stopped trying and the RIGHT thing happened! I'm moving with the flow! 💪🏽
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Helena is so right! I did everything she warned against and he just dumped me after 5 months, part of which we were quarantined together. I focused too much on him, put him on a pedestal, tried to convince him how good I was for him, I overdid taking care of him and trying to please him. It was all from my heart and I thought he would feel I was sincere and not want to lose that genuine love but it just pushed him out the door. The pandemic made me feel needy and insecure which was not the way I was when we met. I had a fun, busy and active social life. I ended up suffocated him. In the end, I don’t think he’s the right person for me because he broke up with me in a really cowardly way and apparently he didn’t have the same feelings I had for him. I still have hope that I’ll meet the right one.
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I love this. The feelings point is so good. I am feeling at peace and outside my comfort zone at the same time! At peace because for the first time I'm trying these new approaches of leaning back and seeing what happens and know it's the right route. Outside my comfort zone because I'm used to being the one anxiously trying to make things happen, so it's not the usual head space I'm in. The peace is the main feeling though... and excitement because I know this route is the quickest way to either (a) let something blossom organically or (b) let the man's lack of effort reveal he's not the one for me! It's win-win! :D
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That is the best way to put it honestly. I'm trying my hardest not to blame myself or think it's my fault. It's just his head space is in a different place than mine right now. I like him and he likes me too. He has has a lot going on and needs time to breathe. I don't want to come off as clingy or needy by calling him and texting him. My behavior is revealing that I have a hidden agenda. That I'm expecting answers when I am not currently receiving any. Instead, I am working towards focusing on myself. Not talking to him right now and letting him get a grip on what's going on in his life right now. Let him reach out to me when he is ready. I think that's what he meant by taking things slow to see how things go. I do not want to make him uncomfortable or push him away
Your channel is like the friend I've always needed. I will go through all your videos gradually at a healthy pace. Your words are true, deep, honest and no games. I made almost all the mistakes, but I'm ready to bring myself back. I'VE REALLY MISSED MY BEAUTIFUL AND CONFIDENT SELF
Thank you. Enjoyed this. Focus on you and use your feminine energy for yourself to make you feel happy inside. When you are truly happy with yourself, that's when you attract the right man to you.
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I really admire the way you don't talk about some general aspects only, but you go deeper and give us some insights and detailed knowledge. That's something hard to find on other youtube channels of dating coaches. I find your work incredibly helpful in my dating process. Thank you.
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It’s so true that men can feel the mental piece even when a word is not said. I’m a month in to a silent period with a man. I got upset and called him and then everything fell apart. Now I’ve taken him off of everything, deleted everything and it’s helping me focus back on myself. Even though I’m sad I didn’t stay in my feminine power for longer time, I know this is the way to move whatever is in my future forward in a healthy way.
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@@sharonbartley808 I’m so much happier since I started practicing feminine energy, since I wrote this comment. It’s okay to feel what you’re feeling. I would watch more of these videos and have faith.
The guy I’m dating recently mentioned that I have a very impressive ability to speak up my needs and ask him to do things for me in a very authentic and non-pressure way. In my heart, I’m kind of testing him if he want to invest in me. Sometimes people have different way to invest, so I think I need to let him know what I want. He said it is very mature, authentic and vulnerable, yet no one was able to do it before, they either get angry or upset. I’m still a little bit unsure if it is right to do haha, cuz I’m trying to make him invest more so that he will come forward.
Hi Dolores, this article I wrote should help you give you some clarity around this: helenahartcoaching.com/how-to-ask-a-man-for-what-you-want-without-pushing-him-away/
I wish I knew all of this before. I did all of that and if only I leaned back I’d have seen that he was never going to step up. It was a one sided relationship. Maybe deep down I knew but was afraid of the answer. Afraid to let him go. Thank you for opening my eyes. Lots of love ❤️
You’re very welcome, Maria! Thanks for sharing your experience here, I know SO many women can relate. One of the benefits of getting into your feminine energy is that your perception clears up and you’re able to see the man and the situation for what it really is. ❤️
I think it is the most painful thing to let someone go, when you still love him. I experienced that, too. But the pain also sets free the power to transform and to Change your patterns, to love yourself even more. Wish you all the best
I grew up with brothers, was a tom girl. Ppl believe my mom was jealous of me & she treated me like a guy. She didn't teach me how to cook etc... as an adult & many failed relationships & a current one on the brink with some hope left... I realized it's my masculine energy that's been pushing him away. I used to fight the idea of feminine energy.. I was just being me... but when I actually lean back & focus on me I start to feel more peace & more in control of my life & more attractive. In the beginning of dating I get this dynamic, but I guess bcuz most of my life I was treated like a boy... welll... I just have to relearn how to take back my feminine natural power. Thank you Helena 🌸
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Thank you Helena for your guidance - it means the world to me right now. I am actually crying in a good way as you are bringing my exact situation right now to light and letting me know the solution. When I get out of my head and into my body and heart, I feel so much better and less annoyed at a man who put me on pause. He might move a few hours away, so there was a good reason. It annoys me that he has pulled at my heartstrings as only known him for 6 weeks, haha! Crazy how we women can get attached so fast for sure.
You’re very welcome Jodi, I’m glad this was helpful for you! I know so many women can relate to what you wrote here, thanks for sharing your experience! ❤️
I absolutely love how you express yourself very clearly and to the point. There’s no waffle with you. You’re so beautiful too with such a warm and loving personality. Your husband is a very lucky man.
Wow its like you have read my mind!! This is happening to me right now, after a first date my man seemed to pull back and I did everything you said in 1,2 and 3. Realising my mistake I have asked for a 2 week break so that I can work on my own self esteem and hopefully he will come back to me stronger than before. Thankyou for this amazing advice xxx
This has been hard especially since I fell for a nice guy I was using to distract myself for the grief and depression of losing my dad, mom & grandpa within 13 months. While saying yes to nearly anything he asked including moving in with me, I don't regret cause it made me happy for awhile. But now that I'm trying to openly deal with my depression he has no idea how to truly care for or support me. And it's really making the process of me healing so much harder cause I no longer feel I can be freely myself at home.
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I love your teaching but I’m struggling to stop obsessing about a guy... I believe I need more practice, this concept of feminine energy is new to me and I’m glad you made me discover it. Thank you 💕💕💕
OMG, I so feel you... I know there's truth in what's being shared here, but it seems so impossible. I don't know how to like a guy and not think of him 24/7. When I don't like a man he rarely enters my thoughts, and it seems so unfair that I'm supposed to honor my feelings by not feeling and just pretending I'm less into someone than I am and having to consciously push him out of my mind. It feels like a total denial of self. My feeler and my thinker work together. To stop thinking of him is to stop my feelings for him, good or bad... I don't even know how to turn it off when all I have left are hurt feelings... I swear I'm starting to think my only hope I'll ever find love is going to require a partial lobotomy.
Hi Amber, pretending ANYTHING will never work for you long-term (as I’m sure you’ve experienced). That’s why my work is not about superficial “strategies“ or tactics - it’s much deeper than that. It’s about aligning with your TRUE self, and putting your desire for a great relationship above your desire to be with one particular man who’s not showing up fully for you. 💜
Wow I just stumbled upon your channel and you’re absolutely right with everything that I’ve been doing the anxiety, the sadness the wishing he would reach out to me. I definitely need to refocus my energy and I’m so glad I saw this video!
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I was so so emotional since morning ... Missing missing and missing him ... To the point that I was constantly checking my phone every half a minute ... Then a call came from my mother .. since I was frustrated because of the missing energy .. I ended up taking to my mom not interested way .. after two minutes we cut off our call .. After the call got cut off .. thats when I thought how wrong of me to put my emotional disturbing energy and not giving my mom good energy .. immediately I sat down and started inhaling and exhaling five times and took myself to a book reading and giving complete focus on what's written in the book and after reading two full pages of funny things in the book I completely forgot about missing energy . Came to balancing my energy and called back my mom .. talked with her imwith enthusiastic energy she was like what happened before you were sounding so dull .. I said yes mom I sorry it was realy stupid of me and thanks for calling me it made me snap out of my stupid missing energy . And you won't believe .. immediately I got attention from him via texts lol .. seriously it's all in energy .. balancing ourselves is the real key just like you've said .. tha k you so much for always reminding this to us . Even though this has happened many times . I so many times forget balancing myself . Thank you so much for this video dear . 🌹❤️🗝️
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Oh how I wish I had this knowledge 6 months ago...although I am so grateful to watch your videos now... I pray it isn't too late for me 🙏 thank you Helena your videos comfort me and keep calm.. I am so grateful🙏.
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You’re welcome, I’m glad you enjoyed it! 🩷 I actually have a podcast about feminine energy called, “Master Your Magnetism.” If anyone would like to check it out, it’s available on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/show/2sQpQcwuijinXm5y8G06O3 …and on Apple Podcasts here (feel free to leave me a review!): podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214
Loved this. I am on a journey of exploring my feminine energy. Covid has been a blessing in disguise for me personally as I have for the first time in my life really slowed down and taken all the pressure off myself, my life goals and ambitions. I am realising how much I have been in my masculine both personally and professionally, and while the masculine energy has been great for some things, it has been stressful and detrimental to others. Acknowledging my true feelings and focusing on myself is so right. Thank you so much for sharing this content 🌷🌷🌷🌷
Omg I just want to say thank you ... I used to think that the African American experience is too different to get anything from a video like this one... but this is sooooo for me. Another thing that helped me so much is when you did a video with your boyfriend and said that you tended to be awkward and he did also... That is so me! Thank you so much ☺️ because I’m learning to accept that part of me and to see you creating such success for your self and at the same time have this awkward appeal ... again just thank you 🙏🏾
Helena was one of the first channels I began watching for relationship advice. I really learned about feminine energy from her. Our community may be different in some ways but it shouldn't be. Good luck in your journey 💖
3:00 I am confused when it comes to this part of making it easy for him, how does this apply when we are in a relationship? In the beginning, I'd let him plan everything at set the dates and all and then when I was in a relationship I felt like I had no say in when to see each other and I was told that that's the result of never initiating anything, everything was for his schedule and time. I think its also cause I rarely was unavailable in the dates he'd set. Where is the balance of being able to call him when I want to talk or see my own boyfriend but not fall into masculine energy?
It’s definitely not about never initiating anything - it’s all about where you’re coming from. If you’re feeling confident and you know a man is crazy about you and his energy is coming towards you, you can do whatever you want! Most women run into trouble when they’re initiating with a man because they’re feeling a sense of urgency or anxiety, or they’re trying to “make something happen” in the relationship. These videos might be helpful: th-cam.com/video/y47RPrCmERE/w-d-xo.html, th-cam.com/video/9ibz_6-k7Ac/w-d-xo.html and th-cam.com/video/e_TvgJsZgtA/w-d-xo.html.
Fantastic tips here, Helena. You're so right about pushing a man and trying to move things forward too soon. That turns most guys off and will make him vanish. This is why I occasionally run into guys who want me to drive to their house! They don't want to meet in a public place or even buy me a coffee. YUCK. I want a guy to actively pursue me so I'm not doing all the work. You really have the best videos, girl. Probably because you have that master's in psychology and really care about us girls.
Great information and insight Helena. Appreciate your content.👍❤️ Feminine energy is vital and plays a very very important role when it comes to forming stable, healthy and loving relationship with someone. As per astrology when we see afflicted and bad Mars in female chart (and when Mars forms relation with the houses of marriage, domestic happiness, relationship and pleasure), then she experiences a lot of hurt, disappointment, lack of love and affection, along with unsuccessful marriage sometimes. Since Mars is masculine, so if in a female chart the masculine energy takes over, and its coming out as too strong, the natural charm of Venus which is Feminine energy, suffers to a great extent. Which is why the moment she gets more close to a guy, he will start pulling himself away because the impulse of masculine might get her moving very fastly, followed by certain amount of desperation. This usually makes a guy pull away. Masculine energy is about taking spontaneous action, being proactive and sometimes losing the calm when things don't happen the way it was thought or planned. Obsession, grief, anger, excessive outburst are the few common factors, that a woman gets to experience in large amounts, if her masculine energy is not organised. The best way to organise masculine energy is by being in touch with your feminine energy and let it guide you towards creating more affection, love, care, composure and high vibrations for yourself. The rest will follow on its own and very soon the beautiful ladies out there will end up meeting the right ones 💕✌️
Thank you for sharing this information. As someone who did not have the best role models and went on to unfortunately repeat few toxic patterns- this is such positive message of hope. I now feel more confident that i can unlearn these unhealthy patterns and eventually let a true love find me. ❤️
Thank you for your comment on my comment and the recommendation to watch this video. I love the way you lead us viewers from one video to another...all good stuff! And you're an inspiration to me re how to have your own business while leaning back and preparing for increased love and abundance! Thank you! I love the lighthouse imagery you shared in one of your videos!
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this has brought so much clarity and peace in me especially #4! i can rest well knowing that feeling my emotions is key to coming back to myself! thank you so much beautiful Helena, namaste
I’m just learning these concepts now and came across your video, it all makes complete sense. I’m taking time for myself for once in my life and I have never felt more liberated. Thank you for a helpful video
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Thank you for showing me the mistake so made in my previous relationships.. We cannot learn to do things right until we have made mistakes!! I have taken a couple of years off on my own to reflect.. And they now conscious of the things to avoid doing next time! 🤗👌💯❤🎄 Merry Christmas @Helena Hart xx
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I needed this video today. I have been focused on POI and put him.on a pedastal. You are right, allow him to initiate contact and take the initiative. I blame it on being stuck at home during Covid lockdown in So Cal. I have been way too bored. Your video content is excellent and right on. I have been reaching out too much recently. I will stop and focus my energy elsewhere.
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Dear Helena! Thank you for your presentation. You come across well! I have been married for 33 years, the dynamics I loathe in my marriage is that my wife claims she is a people’s person and has worn that as a badge of honour. She is more fulfilled in building external friendships which she gives more priority over, and family than building a one to one intimate marriage relationship, right from the very beginning of our relationship so it’s not a case of me causing her hurt, she says she is wired that way! This has been a battle ground and very disheartening over the years. I have experienced close intimacy before and I miss the feeling off being wanted, my wife independent spirit was birth as she lost her father at 14 years old. I also allow and respect autonomy but she is slightly on the control spectrum along with enmeshment behaviour, and doesn’t observe boundaries. What you have presented doesn’t play out in my situation, it’s the reverse!
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Ahaa now I get it! I must love, care, and focus on myself rather. Kinda like focusing on myself just I initially focused on my man👌🏽. Substitute him for myself💡🤗. Love it💃🏽 and thanks Helena
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I stopped focusing on him and mostly just felt a sense of disappointment and I realize I was ignoring my feelings stuffing them down and doing exactly what you said up in my head and in my case laser focused on him and trying to convince him we were meant to be, we weren’t. I stopped focusing on him for about a week now and literally woke up to a text from him
@@ritaoktavia6558 instead of being super sad over us breaking up I just felt disappointed that things ended the way they did and that things didn’t work out with us. I think the shift in my thoughts put me in a better place to move on with my life and stop wallowing so much, if that helps. I still have my moments but it’s less and less these days. I was single for 17 years before I met him I became a widow at 31 had a 4 year old son at the time so I spent most of those years raising him and taking care of various elderly relatives so after that long being single I really took the breakup pretty hard. Life does go on though...
You make it make sense and someone needs to because man are flat out wired backwards... Being sweet and showing what's great about you and how you feel about him are things that indicate your interest is mutual with his. But the kinder you are and the more you show up for him, it only makes him want to go away... So seriously, they are wired backwards AF. A woman they desire being honest, treating him well and making sure he knows she's into him makes him run... But if you ignore him, reject him or treat him as unimportant, second to our own selfishness, THEN he will want us. Ugh. So frustrating.
Women do this to men too. I’m now realizing that this isn’t gender specific. It just happens when you’re picking men that don’t want a relationship or a relationship with you. When both people have the same values and desires out of life then you really don’t even have to worry about all these games.
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Thank you Helena this video is right on time! My ex pulled back after we had an amazing time with friends hasn't called or messaged since one day after and I'm nottttt reaching out either....leaning allllll the way back in recliner mode!
Helena, I’d like to know some tips for leaning back into my feminine energy in a long distance relationship because it feels like you have to be more purposeful and make it happen in this situation, and I’m having difficulty with it. I want to lean back and let it take its natural course, but I think LDR brings a different dynamic. Thanks!
Allison W LDR’s are incredibly difficult but I have many friends & relatives that have been in many forms of LDR’s 1 of which just got engaged to her BF in the Marine Corps!! Lean back into your female energy by never calling or texting him first. I think this works both ways, you get really excited by hearing from him that good morning or good night text/call is even that much more exciting & then there’s that bit of a chase for him so to speak....
Allison W Yeah you are!! Just listening to Helena’s videos are incredibly insightful I’ve learned so much from her!! I’m in truly the best relationship I’ve ever had, Granted he lives 15 minutes from me so it’s nothing like a long-distance relationship but I don’t think that really matters, it’s just a little more difficult in your situation... but men are men & women are women and it’s always important to keep them chasing just a little bit 😉😉
My boyfriend was in a way slowing down. I would get one text a day just to check in where as I used to get ten and I just felt a distance. Anyway after trying to explain nicely that I felt he was pulling away, I wanted to get to know him better and I would like him to stop sending me generic checking in texts like "hope your day is going well"........he did it again!! The next day!! So I said to myself that's it. I'm done. I withdrawal ALL my energy, stopped responding to him for a full month. Then I popped back up again like nothing was wrong with "hey how you been?" Text. Well he was really shook up by my leaving (which I did not expect at all) & he asked me why. I explained nicely and I said-- plus you never compliment me, I feel like you don't even really like me. Since that day he has been a totally different guy. Compliments, texting asking me questions about my day, making plans for dates a week in advance, doing special things for the dates to impress me but best thing is we talk now about more meaningful things. He's let me in finally. And I do nothing, I just sit back and let him lead. I will text him first every other day...that's it...I never will call or make plans...ever. I will always be responsive when he does though. May not work for everyone but for some reason the jealousy he felt when I left him woke something up in him, he didn't want to loose me. I think he was just too comfortable before and I'm not a strong communicator...If I tell you I need something, listen up cause I will not do that often and if you don't listen it will be the last time I ask...I either will live with it it leave. That's my motto. Anyway good luck ladies! Love this channel!
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I am a successful founder of beauty brand and a single mother and am a complete ‘doing and action ‘ person By watching your videos I’m realising that I’m pretty masculine in the way I am and I was wondering why I’m still single ! I can’t stand it when a man fannies about and is indescive like a wet lettuce- just get on with it man! I realise I’ve gotta lean back.. a lot. Lol
Thanks for sharing your experience here! I know many women can relate. 💞 My latest podcast episode should be VERY helpful for you - you can listen to it on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/episode/01MPOyUMxqzmyRGf4FQ9sz?si=H9hh3ajoSDqJCXNLPS83KA&dl_branch=1 …or on Apple podcasts here (feel free to leave me a review!): podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214?i=1000535950267
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Thank you for this useful information. Coming out of a 20+ year marriage, I made all of these mistakes with my first post divorce relationship. I thought I was doing what I was supposed to do because it’s what was expected of me by my ex-husband. Obviously, that was a mistake because my marriage ended (for that and other reasons). I guess my relationship with the new guy was ruined by all that masculine energy. Thank you for explaining this. I will definitely keep it in mind for future use ♥️
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@@HelenaHartCoaching I was in a relationship with an avoidant personality. He was great at the beginning. Very slowly did he regress. Started dating the middle of July this year. A few days before Christmas he said he no longer had feeling for me and no longer loved me. Gut wrenching for me. As my daughter her boyfrien and myself were invited to spend Christmas with him and his 2 lovely daughters. He said he is aware that he is an avoidant personality. He needs help He is going to get some therapy He feels like he is letting the best thing that has ever happened to him go. I cant expect for you to wait for me. Wants to be alone. Put the relationship on hold for at least 2 months. I am so sad. I will let him be. I was devastated. I spent Christmas alone. I will give him space. Continue on with my life. Gabrielle
Great information. I've been told by some guys that I didn't seem interested because I wasn't calling or texting daily or planning our dates. Maybe I was too into my life for these individuals, IDK.
Thanks for sharing, Marie. While I don’t know the details of your situation, this video might be helpful if you’re not in contact right now: th-cam.com/video/4CbO9qRmvDM/w-d-xo.html
OMG! I have done the first three like clockwork! Boy, have I been with the wrong men! I think falling into your masculine behavior so consistently with a guy is a red flag that he’s not the right guy. Thank you for your wisdom, Helena! 🤗 I really appreciate you breaking this down and hearing what to do instead. You are a treasure! 💎
Helena Hart ❤️ I have been used to feeling that if I’m not thinking/overthinking about him and leaning forward, then I feel myself lose interest in him. Perhaps I have trust issues? 🤔 Or am I just conditioned to be doing something (rather than sitting back and receiving) because we are in a male dominated society? Or have I just been with the wrong men? You’ve given me a lot to think about! I’ve watched this video twice already, but I think I need to watch again. I appreciate the insight into me that you’ve inspired in me by raising these points, as well as prompting questions for me to sort out. Thanks again! 🤗
Helena Hart I agree, the familiarity is definitely a factor! I think I need to consciously retrain myself to lean back. And hopefully with the right man for me, it will feel natural to do so! 😉 Thanks again, Helena! You are so helpful and wise 🤗😘
I have been deliberately trying to follow your advice and drive myself in this situation where the guy I have been dating for 6 months has asked for a break (because he has some issues with the family and I was coming out as needy too since I lost my job).. but I am constantly feeling that mental breakdown and anxiety, on and off sleep routine, over/ under eating.. I think I need to fire myself up and realise my worth altogether more..
Sorry to hear you’re going through this right now. This video should be really helpful if you haven’t seen it yet: th-cam.com/video/VEkz-OSVDbo/w-d-xo.html
Hi sweety...U. May have already said what the 3 texts are to send a man? I personally did not see it. Can u send ne those 3 texts again? Thanks!!-- love u
This podcast episode would be a good place to start - you can listen to it on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/episode/5dMRVDFazCnh2NjuQ5ap57?si=YwxDdfQgTMeWX0b78Sd4fQ …or on Apple Podcasts here: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214?i=1000537562909
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Enjoyed your free report and audio. Now digging into "The Art of Getting The Commitment You Want".
Awesome! Hope you enjoy it! ❤️
Yes, I did. I got so much from it and I'm implementing now.
I’m happy to hear that, keep me posted on how everything goes! 💕
Ok, will do.
She has a point when YOU FOCUS ON YOU & YOUR LIFE THATS WHERE THEY COME RUSHING IN & ITS TRUE PEOPLE CAN SENSE ENERGY SUBCONSCIOUSLY 🙌🏼🧲💚
Yes, absolutely! 💞
So true ☘️
Feminine flow
What if u had a friendship going & then he unexpectedly discards u after u did all those wrong things , so u lean back into the feminine energy, won't that make him forget about u if he said he didn't want to be in a relationship to begin with..u both were only a passing fling..what do u have to say about that?
How do u know if they'll forget about u like a passing fling if u had a casual friendship relationship going on & then they ignored or discard u after they figured out red flags about u they didn't like & couldn't accept cause their standards were higher than urs & values weren't the same. Ex: he didn't value family cause he was a loner & was a shy introvert, didn't like it want any kids, u didn't own a home & he did, had a lot of $ & u didn't. He was intelligent & u weren't on his level of intelligence..was prejudice & couldn't accept that of ur family..tadaaah
My mom once told me when she saw I was upset over a guy, "If he likes you nothing will keep him away. You will feel a little annoyed, because he wants to be around you so much " if he doesn't, like you his science is a sign ".
To this day that advice sticks with me, my mom knew what she was talking about!
Thanks for sharing, Linnae! 💞
I didn't realize pursuing a man, trying to get his attention and his focus back on u or putting him on a pedestal was masculine behaviour
Thanks for enlightening me
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I’m in this process right now, I am beginning to not care if he calls or not, it’s been three amazing days
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Yes 2 weeks refocus on me and KNOWNING MY WORTH.. HE WILL MAKE TIME FOR U IF HE WANTS YOU..
Sooooo, what happened?
But then he will call and it will start again？@Poweide Thompson, did you keep that amazing energy level?
seriously asking - can we be free and not all or nothing type?
I just want to know how is it going. Did he ever call you, if so, how long did it take ?🤔 I just 'fell' back and I haven't heard anything from him in two weeks. Maybe he's gone for good. If so, great! I leaned back and stopped trying and the RIGHT thing happened! I'm moving with the flow! 💪🏽
This just cured my anxiety and gave me clarity on why he is pulling away. Such sound advice, thank you.
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Helena is so right! I did everything she warned against and he just dumped me after 5 months, part of which we were quarantined together. I focused too much on him, put him on a pedestal, tried to convince him how good I was for him, I overdid taking care of him and trying to please him. It was all from my heart and I thought he would feel I was sincere and not want to lose that genuine love but it just pushed him out the door. The pandemic made me feel needy and insecure which was not the way I was when we met. I had a fun, busy and active social life. I ended up suffocated him. In the end, I don’t think he’s the right person for me because he broke up with me in a really cowardly way and apparently he didn’t have the same feelings I had for him. I still have hope that I’ll meet the right one.
Sorry to hear you just went through this, Cassandra. You can definitely meet the right one who will reciprocate your feelings and won’t pull away - this video should be helpful for future reference: th-cam.com/video/x-EbpQS0wa4/w-d-xo.html
He just wasnt the right man gurl, he doesnt deserve you. The right man would appreciate the things you did for him.
Sorry to hear that.. The right man is looking for you.. Hope you feel better.. Hugs for you dear. 🤍
Marie joyce Acorda Thank you so much. I’m slowly healing.
Cassandra Morrah Glad to hear that! You are a strong, lovely woman.. You will get through this. 💪🏻 will be praying for you🙏🏽❤️
I fully knew I was doing all these things but hearing you say them out loud actually drilled it into my mind! Thank you!!
You’re welcome, Erin! 💕
Most Definitely Did Thank You💕
I love this. The feelings point is so good. I am feeling at peace and outside my comfort zone at the same time! At peace because for the first time I'm trying these new approaches of leaning back and seeing what happens and know it's the right route. Outside my comfort zone because I'm used to being the one anxiously trying to make things happen, so it's not the usual head space I'm in. The peace is the main feeling though... and excitement because I know this route is the quickest way to either (a) let something blossom organically or (b) let the man's lack of effort reveal he's not the one for me! It's win-win! :D
I love everything you said here, thanks so much for sharing your experience and insights! 💖 These videos should also be helpful for you: th-cam.com/video/qA6BgG246bU/w-d-xo.html, th-cam.com/video/7r_ba4kReaQ/w-d-xo.html and th-cam.com/video/_VRQpgSdmbo/w-d-xo.html.
That is the best way to put it honestly. I'm trying my hardest not to blame myself or think it's my fault. It's just his head space is in a different place than mine right now. I like him and he likes me too. He has has a lot going on and needs time to breathe. I don't want to come off as clingy or needy by calling him and texting him. My behavior is revealing that I have a hidden agenda. That I'm expecting answers when I am not currently receiving any. Instead, I am working towards focusing on myself. Not talking to him right now and letting him get a grip on what's going on in his life right now. Let him reach out to me when he is ready. I think that's what he meant by taking things slow to see how things go. I do not want to make him uncomfortable or push him away
Your channel is like the friend I've always needed. I will go through all your videos gradually at a healthy pace. Your words are true, deep, honest and no games. I made almost all the mistakes, but I'm ready to bring myself back. I'VE REALLY MISSED MY BEAUTIFUL AND CONFIDENT SELF
Thank you, I’m happy to hear that! 💗
Thank you. Enjoyed this. Focus on you and use your feminine energy for yourself to make you feel happy inside. When you are truly happy with yourself, that's when you attract the right man to you.
Yes, absolutely! 💖
Spending time with horses can help a woman to overcome anxious needy behavior. Horses are repelled by these negative emotions and they can train a woman to stop the needy pushy behaviors.
I’ve never heard that before, thanks for sharing! 💕
I really admire the way you don't talk about some general aspects only, but you go deeper and give us some insights and detailed knowledge. That's something hard to find on other youtube channels of dating coaches. I find your work incredibly helpful in my dating process. Thank you.
You’re very welcome Pola, I’m happy to hear that! ❤️
Excellent video! I love the concept of not even thinking about him and focusing on your life and your heart first.
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It’s so true that men can feel the mental piece even when a word is not said. I’m a month in to a silent period with a man. I got upset and called him and then everything fell apart. Now I’ve taken him off of everything, deleted everything and it’s helping me focus back on myself. Even though I’m sad I didn’t stay in my feminine power for longer time, I know this is the way to move whatever is in my future forward in a healthy way.
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@@sharonbartley808 I’m so much happier since I started practicing feminine energy, since I wrote this comment. It’s okay to feel what you’re feeling. I would watch more of these videos and have faith.
Just gonna sit here with my chips and watch your videos back to back tonight 😊
Awesome Christina, love it! Hope they help! ❤️
Lmao me too 😂🥺
I'll need to lean into a bag of Cheetos 🧡
Same lol
I just broke out the fritos!
The guy I’m dating recently mentioned that I have a very impressive ability to speak up my needs and ask him to do things for me in a very authentic and non-pressure way. In my heart, I’m kind of testing him if he want to invest in me. Sometimes people have different way to invest, so I think I need to let him know what I want. He said it is very mature, authentic and vulnerable, yet no one was able to do it before, they either get angry or upset. I’m still a little bit unsure if it is right to do haha, cuz I’m trying to make him invest more so that he will come forward.
Hi Dolores, this article I wrote should help you give you some clarity around this: helenahartcoaching.com/how-to-ask-a-man-for-what-you-want-without-pushing-him-away/
You've got right Helena. Everything starts from inside to outside.. kisses from Greece
Thank you, Synthia! 💞
I wish I knew all of this before. I did all of that and if only I leaned back I’d have seen that he was never going to step up. It was a one sided relationship. Maybe deep down I knew but was afraid of the answer. Afraid to let him go. Thank you for opening my eyes. Lots of love ❤️
You’re very welcome, Maria! Thanks for sharing your experience here, I know SO many women can relate. One of the benefits of getting into your feminine energy is that your perception clears up and you’re able to see the man and the situation for what it really is. ❤️
Helena Hart yes, absolutely. If I only let it be I’d have seen. Thank you Helena. You’re amazing ❤️😘
Likewise! 🙂
I think it is the most painful thing to let someone go, when you still love him. I experienced that, too. But the pain also sets free the power to transform and to Change your patterns, to love yourself even more. Wish you all the best
kuhkjg ijih yes, it’s incredibly painful, however it has to be done to stay healthy. Love not returned is soul destroying.
I grew up with brothers, was a tom girl. Ppl believe my mom was jealous of me & she treated me like a guy. She didn't teach me how to cook etc... as an adult & many failed relationships & a current one on the brink with some hope left... I realized it's my masculine energy that's been pushing him away. I used to fight the idea of feminine energy.. I was just being me... but when I actually lean back & focus on me I start to feel more peace & more in control of my life & more attractive. In the beginning of dating I get this dynamic, but I guess bcuz most of my life I was treated like a boy... welll... I just have to relearn how to take back my feminine natural power. Thank you Helena 🌸
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Thank you Helena for your guidance - it means the world to me right now. I am actually crying in a good way as you are bringing my exact situation right now to light and letting me know the solution. When I get out of my head and into my body and heart, I feel so much better and less annoyed at a man who put me on pause. He might move a few hours away, so there was a good reason. It annoys me that he has pulled at my heartstrings as only known him for 6 weeks, haha! Crazy how we women can get attached so fast for sure.
You’re very welcome Jodi, I’m glad this was helpful for you! I know so many women can relate to what you wrote here, thanks for sharing your experience! ❤️
I absolutely love how you express yourself very clearly and to the point. There’s no waffle with you. You’re so beautiful too with such a warm and loving personality. Your husband is a very lucky man.
Thank you so much! ❤️
We’re all sensitive to those heavy energies, we all want freedom. But such a great video. Thank you!!
You’re welcome! 💕
Wow its like you have read my mind!! This is happening to me right now, after a first date my man seemed to pull back and I did everything you said in 1,2 and 3. Realising my mistake I have asked for a 2 week break so that I can work on my own self esteem and hopefully he will come back to me stronger than before. Thankyou for this amazing advice xxx
You’re welcome Nina, I’m glad this was helpful! 💜
Thank you, Helena! I feel he loves me very much, he loves me with real man's love that will last forever. ♥
You’re welcome Marina, I’m happy to hear that! 💞
This has been hard especially since I fell for a nice guy I was using to distract myself for the grief and depression of losing my dad, mom & grandpa within 13 months. While saying yes to nearly anything he asked including moving in with me, I don't regret cause it made me happy for awhile. But now that I'm trying to openly deal with my depression he has no idea how to truly care for or support me. And it's really making the process of me healing so much harder cause I no longer feel I can be freely myself at home.
That doesn't sound good
Would it be too hard to be on your own again?it sounds like you would be better off.i hope you'll be ok.
Sorry to hear you’re going through this right now. Here’s a livestream I did earlier this year where I talked about my own struggle with depression, it might be helpful for you: th-cam.com/video/MglLXzW59io/w-d-xo.html
When I receive I feel worthless, threatened and vulnerable. Now I know that I don't have to start doing and just notice my feelings. Thank you.
You’re welcome! I’m going to be doing a livestream on Monday, August 10th on the topic of receiving that should be helpful for you. 💞
I love your teaching but I’m struggling to stop obsessing about a guy... I believe I need more practice, this concept of feminine energy is new to me and I’m glad you made me discover it. Thank you 💕💕💕
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OMG, I so feel you... I know there's truth in what's being shared here, but it seems so impossible. I don't know how to like a guy and not think of him 24/7. When I don't like a man he rarely enters my thoughts, and it seems so unfair that I'm supposed to honor my feelings by not feeling and just pretending I'm less into someone than I am and having to consciously push him out of my mind. It feels like a total denial of self.
My feeler and my thinker work together. To stop thinking of him is to stop my feelings for him, good or bad... I don't even know how to turn it off when all I have left are hurt feelings... I swear I'm starting to think my only hope I'll ever find love is going to require a partial lobotomy.
Hi Amber, pretending ANYTHING will never work for you long-term (as I’m sure you’ve experienced). That’s why my work is not about superficial “strategies“ or tactics - it’s much deeper than that. It’s about aligning with your TRUE self, and putting your desire for a great relationship above your desire to be with one particular man who’s not showing up fully for you. 💜
Wow I just stumbled upon your channel and you’re absolutely right with everything that I’ve been doing the anxiety, the sadness the wishing he would reach out to me. I definitely need to refocus my energy and I’m so glad I saw this video!
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Struggling with this too...😊
@Helena Heart Thank You! For Your Videos You Helped Me In So Many Ways Over The Pass Months 💕
I was so so emotional since morning ... Missing missing and missing him ... To the point that I was constantly checking my phone every half a minute ... Then a call came from my mother .. since I was frustrated because of the missing energy .. I ended up taking to my mom not interested way .. after two minutes we cut off our call ..
After the call got cut off .. thats when I thought how wrong of me to put my emotional disturbing energy and not giving my mom good energy .. immediately I sat down and started inhaling and exhaling five times and took myself to a book reading and giving complete focus on what's written in the book and after reading two full pages of funny things in the book I completely forgot about missing energy . Came to balancing my energy and called back my mom .. talked with her imwith enthusiastic energy she was like what happened before you were sounding so dull .. I said yes mom I sorry it was realy stupid of me and thanks for calling me it made me snap out of my stupid missing energy . And you won't believe .. immediately I got attention from him via texts lol .. seriously it's all in energy .. balancing ourselves is the real key just like you've said .. tha k you so much for always reminding this to us . Even though this has happened many times . I so many times forget balancing myself . Thank you so much for this video dear . 🌹❤️🗝️
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Not even halfway through and I'm just relishing in how good this stuff is. Great interview!
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Oh how I wish I had this knowledge 6 months ago...although I am so grateful to watch your videos now... I pray it isn't too late for me 🙏 thank you Helena your videos comfort me and keep calm.. I am so grateful🙏.
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Best video I've heard explained on feminine energy. Thank you!
You’re welcome, I’m glad you enjoyed it! 🩷 I actually have a podcast about feminine energy called, “Master Your Magnetism.” If anyone would like to check it out, it’s available on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/show/2sQpQcwuijinXm5y8G06O3
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Loved this. I am on a journey of exploring my feminine energy. Covid has been a blessing in disguise for me personally as I have for the first time in my life really slowed down and taken all the pressure off myself, my life goals and ambitions. I am realising how much I have been in my masculine both personally and professionally, and while the masculine energy has been great for some things, it has been stressful and detrimental to others. Acknowledging my true feelings and focusing on myself is so right. Thank you so much for sharing this content 🌷🌷🌷🌷
You’re welcome! I love what you said here, thanks for sharing your experience and insights - that’s so inspiring! 💗
Omg I just want to say thank you ... I used to think that the African American experience is too different to get anything from a video like this one... but this is sooooo for me. Another thing that helped me so much is when you did a video with your boyfriend and said that you tended to be awkward and he did also... That is so me! Thank you so much ☺️ because I’m learning to accept that part of me and to see you creating such success for your self and at the same time have this awkward appeal ... again just thank you 🙏🏾
You’re very welcome, I’m so glad these videos have been helpful for you! ❤️
Helena Hart 🙏🏾🌹
Helena was one of the first channels I began watching for relationship advice. I really learned about feminine energy from her. Our community may be different in some ways but it shouldn't be. Good luck in your journey 💖
I’m happy to hear that, Kristen! 💞
@@HelenaHartCoaching thanks Helena! Your advice truly works, mainly "leaning back"!
3:00 I am confused when it comes to this part of making it easy for him, how does this apply when we are in a relationship? In the beginning, I'd let him plan everything at set the dates and all and then when I was in a relationship I felt like I had no say in when to see each other and I was told that that's the result of never initiating anything, everything was for his schedule and time. I think its also cause I rarely was unavailable in the dates he'd set. Where is the balance of being able to call him when I want to talk or see my own boyfriend but not fall into masculine energy?
It’s definitely not about never initiating anything - it’s all about where you’re coming from. If you’re feeling confident and you know a man is crazy about you and his energy is coming towards you, you can do whatever you want! Most women run into trouble when they’re initiating with a man because they’re feeling a sense of urgency or anxiety, or they’re trying to “make something happen” in the relationship. These videos might be helpful: th-cam.com/video/y47RPrCmERE/w-d-xo.html, th-cam.com/video/9ibz_6-k7Ac/w-d-xo.html and th-cam.com/video/e_TvgJsZgtA/w-d-xo.html.
Unrelated to the video, but you are so gorgeous, Helena!
Aww thank you, Jenn! 💖
You can see her feminine glow and energy. I heart your comment, shows that you're a diamond girl who raises other queens ❤
@@heather-louisemorley6040 Thank you so much! I almost used the word glow in my comment, describes her perfectly :)
Fantastic tips here, Helena. You're so right about pushing a man and trying to move things forward too soon. That turns most guys off and will make him vanish. This is why I occasionally run into guys who want me to drive to their house! They don't want to meet in a public place or even buy me a coffee. YUCK. I want a guy to actively pursue me so I'm not doing all the work. You really have the best videos, girl. Probably because you have that master's in psychology and really care about us girls.
Thank you so much, Lisa! ❤️
Great information and insight Helena. Appreciate your content.👍❤️ Feminine energy is vital and plays a very very important role when it comes to forming stable, healthy and loving relationship with someone. As per astrology when we see afflicted and bad Mars in female chart (and when Mars forms relation with the houses of marriage, domestic happiness, relationship and pleasure), then she experiences a lot of hurt, disappointment, lack of love and affection, along with unsuccessful marriage sometimes. Since Mars is masculine, so if in a female chart the masculine energy takes over, and its coming out as too strong, the natural charm of Venus which is Feminine energy, suffers to a great extent. Which is why the moment she gets more close to a guy, he will start pulling himself away because the impulse of masculine might get her moving very fastly, followed by certain amount of desperation. This usually makes a guy pull away. Masculine energy is about taking spontaneous action, being proactive and sometimes losing the calm when things don't happen the way it was thought or planned. Obsession, grief, anger, excessive outburst are the few common factors, that a woman gets to experience in large amounts, if her masculine energy is not organised. The best way to organise masculine energy is by being in touch with your feminine energy and let it guide you towards creating more affection, love, care, composure and high vibrations for yourself. The rest will follow on its own and very soon the beautiful ladies out there will end up meeting the right ones 💕✌️
I’m glad you enjoyed this! Thanks for sharing your insights here! 💖
You hit the bullseye 🎯 with this one! Thanks Helena!
You’re welcome, Audrey! 💗
Thank you for sharing this information. As someone who did not have the best role models and went on to unfortunately repeat few toxic patterns- this is such positive message of hope. I now feel more confident that i can unlearn these unhealthy patterns and eventually let a true love find me. ❤️
You’re very welcome, I’d love to hear how this goes for you! 💗
Thank you for your comment on my comment and the recommendation to watch this video. I love the way you lead us viewers from one video to another...all good stuff! And you're an inspiration to me re how to have your own business while leaning back and preparing for increased love and abundance! Thank you! I love the lighthouse imagery you shared in one of your videos!
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Revelation after revelation
Thank you, Mercedes! 💗
this has brought so much clarity and peace in me especially #4! i can rest well knowing that feeling my emotions is key to coming back to myself! thank you so much beautiful Helena, namaste
You’re welcome Nicole, I’m so glad this resonated with you! ❤️
I’m just learning these concepts now and came across your video, it all makes complete sense. I’m taking time for myself for once in my life and I have never felt more liberated. Thank you for a helpful video
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Thank you for showing me the mistake so made in my previous relationships..
We cannot learn to do things right until we have made mistakes!!
I have taken a couple of years off on my own to reflect..
And they now conscious of the things to avoid doing next time! 🤗👌💯❤🎄 Merry Christmas @Helena Hart xx
@@HelenaSpells Im affraid you misunderstand..
I DONT WANT MY EX BACK!!! 😝🙃😅
But thanks..!!
I'm quite happy on my own.. doin ma own thang!! 😁👍
You’re welcome, Alison! Thanks for sharing your experience here, I know many women can relate. Merry Christmas to you, too! ❤️
You are so right, we have to love ourselves first!
Yes, absolutely! 💞
I really love your videos Helena ❤️ I am in a relationship for 5 years now and he is acting distant.This video is really helpful.Thank you so much.
You’re welcome Marshia, I’m so glad this was helpful! 💗
I wish I found this months ago, thank you for the clarity
You’re welcome! 💕
I wish I learned this forty years ago!
On point! I wished I understood this before. Thanks for the perfect description and examples. So detailed!
You’re welcome, Nancy! 💕
Great advice, Helena! Came back to listen to this again... after 6 months. Just to keep it in the forefront of what I do x
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I needed this video today. I have been focused on POI and put him.on a pedastal. You are right, allow him to initiate contact and take the initiative. I blame it on being stuck at home during Covid lockdown in So Cal. I have been way too bored. Your video content is excellent and right on. I have been reaching out too much recently. I will stop and focus my energy elsewhere.
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Dear Helena! Thank you for your presentation. You come across well! I have been married for 33 years, the dynamics I loathe in my marriage is that my wife claims she is a people’s person and has worn that as a badge of honour. She is more fulfilled in building external friendships which she gives more priority over, and family than building a one to one intimate marriage relationship, right from the very beginning of our relationship so it’s not a case of me causing her hurt, she says she is wired that way! This has been a battle ground and very disheartening over the years. I have experienced close intimacy before and I miss the feeling off being wanted, my wife independent spirit was birth as she lost her father at 14 years old. I also allow and respect autonomy but she is slightly on the control spectrum along with enmeshment behaviour, and doesn’t observe boundaries. What you have presented doesn’t play out in my situation, it’s the reverse!
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Ahaa now I get it! I must love, care, and focus on myself rather. Kinda like focusing on myself just I initially focused on my man👌🏽. Substitute him for myself💡🤗. Love it💃🏽 and thanks Helena
You’re welcome, Melinda! I’m glad this gave you a new perspective. 💗
I literally did all of these things today. Why didn't I see this video sooner lol.
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Aw, at least now you can change your behavior. Helena's work is so helpful to all of us.
lol
I stopped focusing on him and mostly just felt a sense of disappointment and I realize I was ignoring my feelings stuffing them down and doing exactly what you said up in my head and in my case laser focused on him and trying to convince him we were meant to be, we weren’t. I stopped focusing on him for about a week now and literally woke up to a text from him
Thanks for sharing your experience here, Kelli! I hear about this kind of thing happening ALL the time. 💜
May i know, why you felt disappointment? Thanks for sharing anyway 🙏🏻
@@ritaoktavia6558 instead of being super sad over us breaking up I just felt disappointed that things ended the way they did and that things didn’t work out with us. I think the shift in my thoughts put me in a better place to move on with my life and stop wallowing so much, if that helps. I still have my moments but it’s less and less these days. I was single for 17 years before I met him I became a widow at 31 had a 4 year old son at the time so I spent most of those years raising him and taking care of various elderly relatives so after that long being single I really took the breakup pretty hard. Life does go on though...
Good teaching. I need to try this. Thank you for making this video.
You’re welcome Merry, I’d love to hear how this goes for you! 💗
Omg. This might be the best and most useful video on this topic i've watched - and i've watched MANY.
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@@HelenaHartCoaching guess what, i've already watched it! Such a great video. Thank you
@@kristinb7488 You’re welcome! 💕
I really like it that’s the key for a healthy relationship
I’m glad this resonated with you! 💞
You make it make sense and someone needs to because man are flat out wired backwards... Being sweet and showing what's great about you and how you feel about him are things that indicate your interest is mutual with his. But the kinder you are and the more you show up for him, it only makes him want to go away...
So seriously, they are wired backwards AF. A woman they desire being honest, treating him well and making sure he knows she's into him makes him run... But if you ignore him, reject him or treat him as unimportant, second to our own selfishness, THEN he will want us. Ugh. So frustrating.
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Awesome. More to watch and consider. Thanx!
You’re welcome! 💕
Women do this to men too. I’m now realizing that this isn’t gender specific. It just happens when you’re picking men that don’t want a relationship or a relationship with you. When both people have the same values and desires out of life then you really don’t even have to worry about all these games.
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Thank YOU for your suggestions.
You’re welcome, Carol! 💕
Thank you Helena this video is right on time! My ex pulled back after we had an amazing time with friends hasn't called or messaged since one day after and I'm nottttt reaching out either....leaning allllll the way back in recliner mode!
You’re welcome, Gina! 💕
This was such an eye opener for me ...
Thank you.
You’re welcome Liza, I’m glad this gave you a new perspective! 💗
Helena, I’d like to know some tips for leaning back into my feminine energy in a long distance relationship because it feels like you have to be more purposeful and make it happen in this situation, and I’m having difficulty with it. I want to lean back and let it take its natural course, but I think LDR brings a different dynamic. Thanks!
Allison W LDR’s are incredibly difficult but I have many friends & relatives that have been in many forms of LDR’s 1 of which just got engaged to her BF in the Marine Corps!!
Lean back into your female energy by never calling or texting him first. I think this works both ways, you get really excited by hearing from him that good morning or good night text/call is even that much more exciting & then there’s that bit of a chase for him so to speak....
Kyla Crush that’s exactly what I’m working on! Good to know I’m going in the right direction! Thanks!!
Allison W Yeah you are!! Just listening to Helena’s videos are incredibly insightful I’ve learned so much from her!! I’m in truly the best relationship I’ve ever had, Granted he lives 15 minutes from me so it’s nothing like a long-distance relationship but I don’t think that really matters, it’s just a little more difficult in your situation... but men are men & women are women and it’s always important to keep them chasing just a little bit 😉😉
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I can relate to you. Thats how i felt now. Helena, can you help me please.
My boyfriend was in a way slowing down. I would get one text a day just to check in where as I used to get ten and I just felt a distance. Anyway after trying to explain nicely that I felt he was pulling away, I wanted to get to know him better and I would like him to stop sending me generic checking in texts like "hope your day is going well"........he did it again!! The next day!! So I said to myself that's it. I'm done. I withdrawal ALL my energy, stopped responding to him for a full month. Then I popped back up again like nothing was wrong with "hey how you been?" Text. Well he was really shook up by my leaving (which I did not expect at all) & he asked me why. I explained nicely and I said-- plus you never compliment me, I feel like you don't even really like me. Since that day he has been a totally different guy. Compliments, texting asking me questions about my day, making plans for dates a week in advance, doing special things for the dates to impress me but best thing is we talk now about more meaningful things. He's let me in finally. And I do nothing, I just sit back and let him lead. I will text him first every other day...that's it...I never will call or make plans...ever. I will always be responsive when he does though.
May not work for everyone but for some reason the jealousy he felt when I left him woke something up in him, he didn't want to loose me. I think he was just too comfortable before and I'm not a strong communicator...If I tell you I need something, listen up cause I will not do that often and if you don't listen it will be the last time I ask...I either will live with it it leave. That's my motto. Anyway good luck ladies! Love this channel!
Thanks for sharing your experience here, Jennifer!
Thank you ,Good day to you! 🌹 I appreciate your videos!
You’re welcome, Nancy! ❤️
This is very good I am going to take this advice
Thank you, Arianna! 💕
Yes this is so true, great advice. Thanks!
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That what am doing right now and it is working and am focusing on myself .so Thank you helen you are amazing .
You’re welcome, I’m glad this is working for you! ❤️
@@HelenaHartCoaching you are welcome
I am a successful founder of beauty brand and a single mother and am a complete ‘doing and action ‘ person
By watching your videos I’m realising that I’m pretty masculine in the way I am and I was wondering why I’m still single !
I can’t stand it when a man fannies about and is indescive like a wet lettuce- just get on with it man!
I realise I’ve gotta lean back.. a lot. Lol
Thanks for sharing your experience here! I know many women can relate. 💞 My latest podcast episode should be VERY helpful for you - you can listen to it on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/episode/01MPOyUMxqzmyRGf4FQ9sz?si=H9hh3ajoSDqJCXNLPS83KA&dl_branch=1
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Great video. I constantly fall on this trap of doing things for him. I have seen my mother do it for my dad.
Thank you! Yes, I know many women can relate to that (myself included!). 💞
Awesome information Helena.
I have learned so much from you.
Thank you Eve, I’m happy to hear that! 💗
I've been focusing on me but I did plan a at home movie date with snacks and stuff... I really hope I didn't mess up this rubber band process
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Thank you for this useful information. Coming out of a 20+ year marriage, I made all of these mistakes with my first post divorce relationship. I thought I was doing what I was supposed to do because it’s what was expected of me by my ex-husband. Obviously, that was a mistake because my marriage ended (for that and other reasons). I guess my relationship with the new guy was ruined by all that masculine energy. Thank you for explaining this. I will definitely keep it in mind for future use ♥️
You’re welcome Patricia, I’d love to hear how this goes for you! 💗
All very good advice and l find this is going to be helpful in the future. Many thanks Helena.
You’re welcome Kaye, I’m happy to hear that! 💕
Wow...very good explanation though it was my first time getting too see u.. Well done continue.😊
Thank you, Elizabeth! 💕
Thank you so much Madan I can feel it already workout for me as your sign thank you thank you thank you so much
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You are so beautiful like I said it’s hard to concentrate and I’m not a lesbian 🌸🌸💜
Aww you’re so sweet, thank you! 💖
thank you so much. i will keep wathching you,
You’re welcome, Gabrielle! ❤️
@@HelenaHartCoaching I was in a relationship with an avoidant personality. He was great at the beginning. Very slowly did he regress. Started dating the middle of July this year. A few days before Christmas he said he no longer had feeling for me and no longer loved me. Gut wrenching for me. As my daughter her boyfrien and myself were invited to spend Christmas with him and his 2 lovely daughters. He said he is aware that he is an avoidant personality. He needs help
He is going to get some therapy
He feels like he is letting the best thing that has ever happened to him go. I cant expect for you to wait for me. Wants to be alone. Put the relationship on hold for at least 2 months.
I am so sad.
I will let him be. I was devastated. I spent Christmas alone.
I will give him space. Continue on with my life.
Gabrielle
Great information. I've been told by some guys that I didn't seem interested because I wasn't calling or texting daily or planning our dates. Maybe I was too into my life for these individuals, IDK.
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Thank you!
You’re welcome! 💕
Totally off topic, but that blouse is beautiful.
Thank you! 💕
Thanks for the kind words
You’re welcome! 💕
Thank you. I needed to hear this ♥️
You’re welcome, Lynda! 💕
Torn... that's how I feel. 4+ days of no communication with him.
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OMG! I have done the first three like clockwork! Boy, have I been with the wrong men! I think falling into your masculine behavior so consistently with a guy is a red flag that he’s not the right guy. Thank you for your wisdom, Helena! 🤗 I really appreciate you breaking this down and hearing what to do instead. You are a treasure! 💎
You’re very welcome! I agree that this could be a clue that he’s not the right man for you if you’re consistently falling into this pattern. 💜
Helena Hart ❤️ I have been used to feeling that if I’m not thinking/overthinking about him and leaning forward, then I feel myself lose interest in him. Perhaps I have trust issues? 🤔 Or am I just conditioned to be doing something (rather than sitting back and receiving) because we are in a male dominated society? Or have I just been with the wrong men? You’ve given me a lot to think about! I’ve watched this video twice already, but I think I need to watch again. I appreciate the insight into me that you’ve inspired in me by raising these points, as well as prompting questions for me to sort out. Thanks again! 🤗
Interesting! It could also be that you’re being “pulled” towards what feels FAMILIAR to you, which is usually the case for all of us. 💞
Helena Hart I agree, the familiarity is definitely a factor! I think I need to consciously retrain myself to lean back. And hopefully with the right man for me, it will feel natural to do so! 😉 Thanks again, Helena! You are so helpful and wise 🤗😘
Yes, absolutely! You’re welcome! 💗
Thank you Helena. This is very helpful.
You’re welcome, Alexandra! 💗
Hi Helena I’ve been enjoying you so much. Turn the volume up a little bit more that would help those of us that listen through bed buds or Bluetooth
Thanks Sharon! 💜
Thank you Helena, this was helpful. Always appreciate your advices. 🙏
You’re welcome Brenda, I’m glad it was helpful! ❤️
@@HelenaHartCoaching ❤🙏
I have been deliberately trying to follow your advice and drive myself in this situation where the guy I have been dating for 6 months has asked for a break (because he has some issues with the family and I was coming out as needy too since I lost my job).. but I am constantly feeling that mental breakdown and anxiety, on and off sleep routine, over/ under eating.. I think I need to fire myself up and realise my worth altogether more..
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This absolutely correct!
Thank you! 💕
Thanks helena hart good ideas
You’re welcome, Amaal! 💜
This is such good advice thank you xxx
You’re welcome, Timea! 💕
My friend does this often when she leads the relationship.
Hi sweety...U. May have already said what the 3 texts are to send a man? I personally did not see it. Can u send ne those 3 texts again? Thanks!!-- love u
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this video is quite informative.....
Thank you, Simmi! 💜
Hi Helena, I just subscribed. Thank you for the information. 🙂
You’re welcome, I’m happy to have you here! 💕
Am confident with my feelings
I’m happy to hear that, thanks for sharing! 💖
Hi Helana, you mentioned other videos you have that teach about opening your heart and feeling your emotions. Which ones would they be?❤
This podcast episode would be a good place to start - you can listen to it on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/episode/5dMRVDFazCnh2NjuQ5ap57?si=YwxDdfQgTMeWX0b78Sd4fQ
…or on Apple Podcasts here: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214?i=1000537562909
Beautiful, Helena.
Thank you! 💕
Thank you 💓 so much for these words 🙋🏻♀️🧚🏻♀️
You’re welcome! 💕