She can sing; just because she doesn’t sound like Beyoncé doesn’t mean she can’t sing there’s different voices for a reason; I’m hoping she gets the confidence needed because she is talented
Rihanna is NOT a singer. Let's NOT start that Fuckery Narrative. There are LEVELS. RiRi has good songs... but she can't SANG. And Fuck Beyonce and her gate keeping tactics. Latoya been a singer and she's a better actor. #Facts #ItIsExactlyWTFitIs
LeToya Luckett may be the only person to ever get kicked out of an extremely successful group & go on to have a #1 album, sell a million records, have a hit song, another top 20 album, and have great success as an actress. She isn’t just talented; she’s the definition of a survivor.
Right and her voice is so beautiful whoever told her she couldn't sing should be smacked . Torn ,obvious , she don't ,not anymore are my songs. Sometimes singers just need to find their sound and not try to sound like anybody else she definitely found hers.
Also apparently the line saying “she was tone deaf and a originally was a rapper” they meant that toward LaTavia cause if you look back LaTavia was a the rapper in Girls Tyme
I remember when Latoya became solo and she went on 106&park to release her song and the audience showed her so much love she broke down crying, I cried with her I felt like that group did something to her then .. been rooting for Toya ever since ❤
Same 💯❣I also remember that her debut single stayed at #1 for a long time and was at record for being the #1 song on 106 & Park⭐⭐⭐ I read the article in Vibe Magazine and Kelly was the one that called her "tone def" 🤔and that's when I really was rooting for LaToya & Latavia. At the end of the day, she has the most successful solo career outside of Bey, Beautiful memorable moment where the world was rooting for her more than she imagined 💞
It’s so good to hear her be honest about what her struggle was internally and not blaming anyone else for it. That’s real. Comparison is the thief of joy.
But this is why you should not share your true feelings with strangers . Look at how they twisted her words and honesty for click bait. Keep your business to yourself!!!!
But they are to blame. They tried to destroy her hound spirit and.ake her feel less pretty less talented less everything shiiiiit look at all the girls outfits and Beyonce's when they were on DC. Beyonce was made to outshine them . They would make thee girls tan Soo they can be darker then Beyonce and Beyonce would stay inside . Beyonce bullied them just as much as Mathews did.
Do U Guys Remember The 2 Replacement, It Was Michelle, And The Other Girl who Was A High Color Version Than Beyonce, And Prettier, But They Color Her Skin Down, Or the 🟤 Brown Not To Be S👀n Over 👑 Queen-B Who's The High Light Of The Group, So Yes Those/That Young Lady Was Prohibited To Showing Her Voice To The 🌎WORLD🌍. choice of
I loved LaToya's voice when she went solo and I'm very surprised she feels that way because I always felt she had a strong confident and unique voice. Her vibrato is unmatched and she doesn't need to change a thing. If anyone needs to know that she can sing listen to "Not Anymore" or "Just Be" But she has such an original voice and range
@stryfetc1 that’s not true… Leroy’s went solo and did ok.. not beyonces fault y’all so called “fans” didn’t support Latoya music 😂😂😂 go cry in the corner with her no one cares anymore
@@purrinkittyz4737 Didn't support her music? If I'm not mistaken, didn't her solo debut go number one and platinum? LOL, y'all be doing way too much with the Bey Captain-Save-Em ish. 😂 I don't believe it's true that Beyonce don't want no one shining around her but she did make comments about Letoya and Letavia's lack of vocal skills during the beef (probably moreso in defense of her father) that could've affected their confidence when they started going to look for other deals and getting turned down. It's not somehow being less loyal to Beyonce to see that side of things you know...
In the words of Julia Robert's character in "Pretty Woman";; "When people start to tear u down enough, u'll believe it." LaToya is a force to be reckoned with. She has a natural voice; it doesn't feel forced or pre-recorded. The more she starts to believe in herself again, the confidence with start to return. I wish her nothing but the best. P.S., I admire here character role of Raising Kanan.
She also said “….I got the green I got the yellow I got the red, the champion of all condoms, nothing is getting through this sucker….” Yeh the confidence will get there, she just needs to “work, work it baby, own it…..”
Janet Jackson went through the same thing, she's even admitted to feeling like she couldn't sing, compared to her brothers and sister Rebbie. But, thank God she found the confidence to realize that she can sing and that her voice was unique to her and her alone. I can't imagine the Entertainment industry without Janet; she's now an Icon, Legendary and the blueprint!
@Michaela Mitchell Lol. I think more people agree that she can’t really sing. Just because you make good music, doesn’t mean you’re a good singer. She made good music.
I’ll never forget one of the girls from her 2nd group “Anjel” said an ex boyfriend tried to run up on Letoya and they got in his face to defend her. Letoya broke down crying saying no one had ever protected or stood up for her like that before. That story always stuck with me.
Oh wow that’s crazy sad but honestly it really is telling how some girls (especially black girls) are always left to fend themselves with nobody and not even a man to protect them leaving them to be vulnerable.
“Torn” is one of the best displays of LeToya’s voice for meeeee! Sis always could sing but the confidence thing is a totally separate thing. I’m literally in the same boat she’s in. Like her, we’re still fighting that a lil bit. Just know panic or anxiety attacks are truly real. Playing it off takes a lot… I would never compare myself to someone socially greater but never giving up takes a lot.
Torn is great also “Lazy” and “Good to Me”. I’m shocked she doesn’t have that confidence especially when listening to that big note in “Good to Me”. Then the vulnerability she gives in a song like “Disconnected” from her last cd. Wow.
LeToya stood out to me from Day 1… I was in middle school when No, No, No came out and she instantly became my fav. It was just something about her and I thought she was so pretty. So glad she’s getting the love she deserves ❤
Me too. When I saw her, as a kid in 1997-1998, in No No No, I was instantly drawn to her (LeToya) and I wanted to look like her and I'm white lol For some reason, at the time, Beyonce, to me, seemed much older. I think LeToya also resembled a girl I knew during 90s. I was heartbroken when the two original girls left. It was all about Beyonce and not the group. Not hating on Beyonce.
One thing about it tho.. Latoya isn’t seen as being in Beyoncé’s shadow.. she made a name for herself! I was so proud when she dropped that first solo track
Latoya I feel you. When I was in grade school and high school all I wanted to be was a lawyer. I had several lawyers in my family and I was good at debates, research and communication skills. But baby, when I went to college to study law, that was a whole different ball game, my grades slipped and my confidence was shot so i had to switch majors. Sometimes when you get thrown into the fray you realize your true strengths and weaknesses so I totally understand how she felt back then.
Girlllllll, get yo ass back and live your dream . Go get your confidence , no one can tell you how it'll feel to achieve your childhood dreams except you achieve it. love
@@itsyourgirlval6457 Typically I don't like villains in movies/TV shows but that Rochelle I love her character and her fashion was on point she also played and I think it was either single Ladies or Hit the floor show back in the early 2000s that's when I really noticed her as an actress.
@@ladybayoutalesthetruth6788 Single Ladies she was Felicia Price and she was everything. And of course Rochelle in Greenleaf! Man she use to have my blood pressure up watching her!
I'll say this: It's easy to become an icon if everybody is clearing your path and supporting you the whole way. To establish your own path in the aftermath of a very public breakup shows what Letoya is truly made of. I keep hearing her say she struggles with confidence. Her whole career screams confidence. To step out of the shadow of DC and Beyonce and stand unapologetically in your own multi-faceted talent and truth is truly remarkable. I am a fan. I am also a Houstonian. If you're from Houston, you know how to call a thing a thing. Yes, Beyonce is talented. LeToya is beyond talented. She is an inspiration to anyone who has faced rejection and kept going anyway. She didn't let someone else's success dim her light. I'm glad Empressive did this story. It blessed my Spirit.
No one cleared any hurdles or paths for Beyonce to walk through. Clearly you didn't listen to your favorite, Ms. Luckett. She said they, as a group, were rejected many, many times but it was hard work and persistence that finally paid off. She said, as we all know by now, that B's work ethic and dedication to her craft is beyond this world. Now, I'm also a fan of Ms. Luckett, but let's pretend Beyonce was just handed the platinum spoon by someone. She's worked very very hard for a very very long time for every cent and fame she enjoys today.
@@neahkrayou8730 ALL the hurdles were cleared for Beyonce, the name of the group is even about her! The UK version of Kelly Rowlands album has an whole page advertising Beyonce's unyet released album.
I hear you LaToya. I’ve struggled with my confidence since I was young after hearing my dad call me ugly and my mom say I “ain’t gon be shit.” I’m in my early 30’s now and although I get compliments about my physical appearance, it’s hard to receive it because in the back of my mind I don’t believe it. I’m also a cop now and have made a good living but I’m always searching for better.
My love forgive me for saying this 💕 but your parents ain't shit 💩 frfr and are ugly ppl inside and out. Anyone that can say such to a child had no business procreating in the first place. I'm quite sure you are a beautiful ❤️ person inside and out. Your own parents were jealous bc you ARE better than them. I hope you have nothing to do with toxic waste like that. They don't deserve someone like you as their daughter.
most of these groups (90s/2000s) had a lot of deep rooted issues that affected their confidence, self esteem etc. I feel these dark stories begin with how record labels, managers mistreat the talent Its good that artists have started speaking out
Not just groups but artists period and even before the 90s. At the end of the day, these people are human too. We're at a place now where these artists feel more comfortable sharing their experiences.
I watched her on Single Ladies, Greenleaf, etc... even in music videos... her strength really is acting, she's à natural and even better than most of the actors she's worked with. I hope to see more of that in the future.
Agreed. She should leave singing alone and get a contract with the Hallmark channel. And if she needs to “feel better than Beyoncé” just know Beyoncé could never 😊. Beyoncés thing is singing NOT acting.
@@LibertyMadison yup it goes to show each of us have our strengths and weaknesses. Beyonce isn't good at everything she does. Bey's main strength is in performing and she successfully exploits that as good as she possibly can whenever she has to do it.
I can relate on a smaller scale. I was a singer. I went to performing arts schools all my life, auditioned and got in every time. When people are constantly telling you to “sing like this”, “sing this, not that”, “you should be singing this kind of music”. And you’re getting it from every angle, the adults in your life, teachers, the other kids. It dampens your passion. My passion was GONE by the time I was 18. Now i only sing for my close friends and family.
Oh God, as someone who was a choral singer from 2nd grade all the way till college, I GET IT. I can sing, but I can't SANG. And that's ok, we're not all meant to. The amount of times you get singled out and corrected tho😑... and it doesn't come from a bad place, but that doesn't mean it isn't sometimes embarrassing or hurtful. Even more so when you're really trying and still not quite getting it. We were high school students competing with college students cuz my teacher pushed us THAT hard. But Jfc were we GOOD lol One day I realized it was about more than just my vocal ability. I can read music... that's an accomplishment! I know how to count my notes, I know how to site read, I know how to count sing, I can listen to a song a few times and not only pick out my part (2nd soprano/ 1st alto. I used to be a 1st soprano), I learn the words very quickly. Oh, you wanna 'Do Re Mi' and see if I can randomly hit that top Do then the Fa? I gotchu, Ill even do the hand signs with you. Sis. YOU ARE MUSICALLY TRAINED AND THAT SHIT IS NOT EASY. AND DON'T YOU EVER FORGET IT LOL 🥰
@@flushthecatnip that’s a GREAT point that I completely forgot. Thanks sis. I absolutely am classically and musically trained and not everyone can say that!
Letoya can sing her behind off! I need her to gain her confidence back ASAP, because she is very talented. Sidenote: “She Don’t” is one of the most underrated R&B songs. That song is STILL on repeat!
I love listening to Letoya speak. There is no pretense with her…just realness. She is true with her faults and seems humble. Whatever she lacked in the singing department she more than made up for with her great acting ability. She found other lanes to showcase her talent and I’m proud of and respect her for that. Everyone doesn’t have to be a Beyoncé to have made it. Finding what your own passion is and sticking to it is what makes greatness.
SO RELATABLE! Everyone wants me to sing again but this is how I feel ..sad thing is no one rejected me, I did it to myself thru comparison with others. Never compare yourself man... it takes a second to do and YEARS to undo mentally...I think I needed to see this 💕
Toya is a beautiful soul from the inside out n that's what makes her confident. I'm sorry that she had to experience that but she is one of the originals from Destiny Child. Her talent both in music n acting is felt n quiet as it's kept she could venture into fashion cuz she's always on point. Keep doing you Toya we all have insecurities that's what makes us human n grow stronger. You are who you are without DC you can now stand on your own. Go be great!!!!
There was an interview of Naomi Cambell (forgive me If I misspelled her name) she was asked why was she so intimidating to approach or work with? She said “that’s on you, not on me” it totally changed my perspective on confidence, intimidation, comparisons and so on! You literally decide whether others greatness put you down or not! You literally decide whether you are intimidated by someone or not! No matter how aggressive and unwelcoming the situation was! You are the the denominator in the equation! That’s something I try to internalize myself hopefully one day Myself and others who experience insecurities and intimidation could overcome whatever it may be with the least collateral damage possible!
Yaaaasss! Thank you. It really comes down to people being told all the time they are wonderful and when you get around other wonderful people you can end up being just ordinary. And that has everything to do with YOU and no one else.
I agree 100%, it’s like asking someone to dim their light in order to allow yours to shine. Anybody who is confident knows nobody can dim your light !!!
For grown folks this can help but not as much for youngsters. And really while putting power into our hands makes us feel good because if we are the problem we are the solution, it's not always that simple. We may have to spend time undoing scripts and wounds given to us on our way up.
Great video! LeToya had her whole career snatched away from her then rebuilt herself from the ground up. Her story is so positive and i think more people need to hear it and learn about it because her story could help a lot of people.
Latoya’s voice is so beautiful 😢 Even though I like Michelle and what she brought to the group, I often hoped and wondered what the group would have been like with Beyoncé, Kelly and Letoya as the 3 in DC. I was a kid when Destiny’s Child was out, so I never got to see them in concert. Really hoping they reunite for a reunion tour or do another album.
@@onlyh8720 It would be nice if all 5 ladies could come together. Latoya and Latavia included. I’m not sure if Latavia actually can sing, but she was apart of the core 4 ❤️
@@SassyDivalyrics Oh no, LaTavia can sing too! she has a beautiful voice. Very sultry and rich. She sounds something like T-Boz but fuller and heavier. You should listen to some songs of LeToya and LaTavia's group Anjel, they're great. The songs are here on youtube. Also LaTavia sings on the first verse on DC song Sweet Sixteen ☺
@@Miketendo93 oh so the other girls could sing. But since it wasn't like the managers's little girls, who couldn't be outshined, that was the false narrative spread. They were right about the problems with the manager, in ways they prob didn't yet know
@@BEATSofDevil Pretty much. Yeah, DC's vocal coach David Lee Brewer wrote a book. He tells a real in depth story of the time he spent with the girls from 1989 to 1998. The book is called 'Raising Genius'
It’s like when you are one of the prettiest girls in your high school in your home town and then you go to a hbcu and you you realize the world is a lot bigger and there is always someone better. It humbles a person. However it shouldn’t take away from your beauty, your worth- Letoya is very talented.
It did humble her which was great for her craft development, but I think what she was saying (and a lot of the other members have spoken about) is that she felt like she was being told and treated like she wasn’t as talented or had no talent. They used Beyoncé as the standard of what a good singer was and anyone who didn’t sound like her or could do the things that she could with her voice weren’t as talented. When any singer will tell you ppls voices are built different and not everyone starts on the same starting point, some ppl are just more naturally gifted singers or learn faster or have put in more hours of training, that’s why it’s not fair to compare. Because by breaking someone’s self esteem you guarantee that they’ll never reach their fullest potential, because they’ll stop trying all together. And that’s where the anxiety and depression comes in. No one wants to be mediocre, but a voice like Whitney or Aretha or whomever isn’t just an overnight thing. It takes years!!! Of dedication and consistency. Singing is the epitome of trusting the process.
She can sing really good. I do feel like they did make her feel less than on purpose. Treat kids well they grow into adults that never forgot what was done. I was so happy for her first project. Hope she finds the confidence she’s looking for. 💙
@@AtlCinderella80 there's literally video evidence and quotes in newspaper articles that were used in this very video. But no one is blaming Beyonce anyhow
Latoya is a whole package as well! Crazy thing…listening to the original members harmony was SOOO much richer and had more depth because of Latoya’s soprano range and Tavia’s deep rich low tone. The music they would’ve made as they aged woulda been fire!! Crazy…Be’s insecurities of speaking in public of which Latoya is a natural vs Latoya’s singing solo of which Be’ is a natural!! Both extremely gifted young ladies. I love Toya’s style and personality!
As a non professional singer I can completely understand feeling unworthy or not good enough! She actually went for it though and her debut album was good both number wise(charts) and sound wise. The devil is always busy coming for our mental agility! We are our own worst enemies.
I can honestly relate to her. Imposter syndrome is very real. Especially when you go from an environment where you’re shining on your own to one where you’re sharing the spotlight with other equally talented individuals. This is why they say comparison is the thief of joy. But it’s also very natural. Especially when you’re trying to enter an industry that is competitive or you’re constantly being told what you’re doing wrong and not receiving the same amount of attention to what you’re doing right. I was in performing arts my entire childhood and experienced this too. It’s very heart breaking to go from feeling secure in yourself and your abilities to struggling to even believe ppl when they say you’re talented.
Struggling with this now. I just started a new job in a medical lab and the lab I had before that I was thriving. Now I feel like I’m the weak link because I’m not as knowledgeable as the veterans there because they have 20+ years of knowledge and experience than me. I was told they would teach me but my supervisor and everyone in lead is expecting me to learn these concepts in 6weeks and I have to jump through hoops just to be there which I think is unfair. They’re on my ass and I will admit the pressure is becoming a lot but the pay is so much better than I’ve ever had and I need this job.
Absolutely! I grew up in performing arts, got awarded, but never felt like I was "good enough" because my parents didn't champion my confidence. Never stood up for me in school environments, and found my confidence "cocky" because they were shy themselves. Their apathy actively dimmed my light. Parental support, compassion, and comfort is the medicine to all of these natural feelings. Beyonce had all of these x10. Her family, their connections, and being upper middle class contributed a LOT to supporting her prodigal talents.
That confidence is super important. You need methods of holding it and building it that is independent of being compared to others. Confidence in your preparation, confidence in your work
@@BlackGirlLovesAnime6 I know what this feels like, but you will eventually catch up, don't let them get to you and don't let them see that you feel this way because they are going to use that against you a lot, try to keep your cool even when you're panicking in the inside, they tend to respect someone more if they don't think that person is feeling the pressure.
I know how she feels... Words are very powerful. I'm a singer as well, and my former producer made a joke and it still sticks with me 12-13 years later. Letoya and Latavia are extremely talented. Latavia goes through the same insecurities, and I'm so sorry that someone made them feel like they are less than.
To be in the entertainment industry , you gota develop tough skin !!!!Beyoncé got a lot of backlash and criticism too but not once was she fazed by all that coz she knew she wanted to be a star . No one goes far in the entertainment industry or any other industry by being a crybaby😏
@@davidemerald7690 the entertainment industry is no excuse for anyone to talk to you like you're less than. Tough skin doesn't mean that you don't have feelings.
@@novalove4790 Having a thick skin is absolutely crucial though. Yes we all have feelings, but thick skin is needed so that we don’t fold. Plenty of artists were told they weren’t good enough or didn’t have ‘it’. Yet they didn’t let those opinions stop them. You gotta believe in yourself no matter what or who says whatever. That’s just what it is. There’s no way around it
I can relate to her story so much. I remember when I was a little girl and all I ever wanted to be was a singer. Then, a grown adult told my 8-year-old self that I couldn’t sing and it broke my heart. 20 years and I still can’t fully bring myself to sing in front of others. I’m trying my hardest to. My sound is different. I have a classical sound. Most people think it’s funny whenever I tell them that. Another reason why I don’t sing in front of people. One thing I know, my vibrato in first soprano is a beautiful thing to hear.
What do you mean by classical sound? Like operatic or classic Soul? Either way that adult was wrong and mean spirited to do that. I'm Sorry it affected you because that's what they intended it to do: affect something or someone to take out their own issues on. Work on rebuilding you. I had a bad performance as a teen which was a bit of a disaster. I even had nightmares for years after- until five years later I made the deliberate effort to join a singing course and perform publicly again.
And that’s something that is more relatable than you know. I encourage you do find an open mic with a live band. I use to co host one so I can tell you it definitely helps with getting comfortable and explore what your voice can do. Don’t let people keep you from doing what you may love. That little 8 year is ready for you to bust out!
This is interesting.. I remember years ago in a sociology class we had a whole discussion on singing groups (can't even tell you how that came up). One student had a great point on how having a "lead" could actually imprint some level of insecurity on the other members of the group and they could be nurtured to become somewhat docile. Of course I can't articulate it as good as he did and don't remember his exact wording, but listening to LeToya speak now instantly made me remember my classmate's general point. Seems like he was on to something.
That insecurity comes from arrogance. You don’t have to be the center of attention to be great. Kelly and Michele will be rich and respected as performers forever because they made peace with their position. I always say the destiny child story is a good lesson in playing your role so you don’t get written out of the script.
'Back 2 Life' is my favorite LeToya Luckett cd and I wish more ppl heard it. It's her best work to date. She was always my favorite and I wish she knew just how special she was; music wise and acting. So much love and respect for this woman.
I’ve always wished Latavia and Letoya got more shine during the DC era. Toya can sing, has a dope personality and she’s relatable. I still play her debut solo album 💕
Wow I didn’t expect to cry but this mini doc definitely had me in the feels. I love to sing and had such a joy as a child singing until I had someone tell me that I was the worst singers she had ever heard. I lost my confidence in my voice then and basically did the same thing that LeToya did and played my role in the background. I appreciate you putting this together because seeing the timeline and success of her story was inspiring. ❤
Letoya made a good point when she said, people don't realize the seeds they plant in a child's mind. Those seeds grow and that child believes it and sometimes it stays even after they become an adult. @Lisa, stay encouraged. And just know, most of the time when people make those type of comments they are just projecting their own insecurities.
@@mekakoop9777 Thank you so much for this encouragement Meka. You are so right though. I still remind myself at times not to internalize someone else’s hurt and their projections. It takes a lot of unlearning on my part and replacing the negative words of my past with positive affirmations. 🤍🤍🤍
@lisafreeman am sure your voice is amazing! Other ppls opinion is just that, their opinion. Don't dem your light for no one. Also your voice is uniquely yours. Can you imagine the amount of ppl your voice will touch? 🌟 ✨️ 💕
Sorry to hear that, and I bet they were jealous of your beautiful voice, but yes, people putting their insecurities on us as children has such long lasting effects! Truly hurtful, I really hope you get back to it , I'm positive we are missing out on SO much beautiful music from you!! 💯🔥💕💕
I love to sing too and I’m good at it. Some bish told me I sounded airy ( probably true( because I really can sing but I need voice lessons. But how she said it affected me. It’s crazy how someone’s opinion can affect you.
I believe it. I remember it took me a while to trust Beyonce and Kelly after the departure of Latoya and Latavia. Because they were going around telling anyone who interviewed them that neither of them sang. They only lip synced and all vocals were Beyonce's and Kelly's including backup and harmonies. They had people thinking they didn't make any vocal contributions on the albums.
@@marissawilson4644 she had every right to Sue Matthew not them.. but I’m sure she was advised to sue everyone so I don’t blame her but I understand both sides
LeToya was ALWAYS one of my favorites when it was DC4, and she was in my opinion, the most beautiful at that time. She had that “edge” as a group member. Her vocals are actually great and her music is beautiful! All of her albums!
Kelly was such a pick me, just grateful to not be on the "reject side" she carried alot of reject energy for a long time, thank gosh she could sing! Definitely got time for everything Latoya does such good vibes and a treat to see.
They played the game and won. They were not going to move Beyonce and they were not gone be bigger than her because Beyonce was set up to be the star. Ride her coat tail make ya money keep those connections and love a fabulous life debt free. Beyonce can have the spot light. They smart about it
I respect her testimony and ppl better not twist it and come for her over Beyonce. I went thru the same when me and a couple of my friends tried to start a group in highschool. I felt like being the darker one and thicker one - me and my voice didn't match up to my friend Diamond and I lost confidence so I took another route-rapping and it made me a double threat which helped a lot later. Now why I quit music- that's a different story lol
@@MPPG663 Girrrrrrrrrrrrl I'll have to gather my words and thoughts first but it's definitely worth a listen for girls to hear or be able to relate to as a aspiring artist.
@@brandydanielle6212 I would love to hear your story. Ever since I was younger I always wanted to be an actress, but lack of confidence didn't let me pursue it.
No shade at Beyoncé; she is insanely great. But back then, I was in love with Letoya. I loved her voice, she seemed so nice, and I felt she was the most beautiful of the four. And look at how humble she is in this video. Love u Letoya.
As a kid I wanted to be Letoya in our school tribute Destiny’s Child group, they wanted me to take Beyoncé’s parts but I identified more with Letoya Tbh she was a big fan favourite, hope she knows that ❤
@@alkahinat4558 and that’s what Letoya needs for her confidence. Yes Beyoncé is great but Letoya is great in her own way and she will have her own fans. But I can understand getting torn down a bit as a child and that sticking with u throughout ur life. I’m glad she seems to have found some success and keeps her positive and humble attitude.
My thoughts EXACTLY. LeToya has always been my favorite in the group. Her and LaTavia didn’t have many vocals to sing but it was always LeToya’s beauty and presence that I always admired.
She's a beautiful soul and a big person to acknowledge Beyonce as a part of her growth process. She's a dynamic singer and it's crazy how people around you will see your budding talent and put a stop to it before you gain the confidence to sustain it. Like, embracing it, being supportive and helping her to nurture it wasn't an option?
LeToya can sang and always could sang. The adults around her when she was in DC were toxic and created a toxic environment that caused her low self esteem. It takes years to repair such damage. Thank you for featuring her she’s made a name for herself in the music, film and television. She’s never focused on the past took the high road and God has blessed her abundantly.❤❤❤❤❤❤
@@snijanafleur8442 and that is so crazy that ppl think Bey can't sing. Bey's background vocals on any song are insanely top tier! Her background vocals be having background vocals ! Who does that !!!
Latoya has an amazing voice. When she came out with Torn I thought that was her telling us she could SANG. I also thought she had recovered from her ordeal enough to make a fresh start. That's to show you never know what people are going through internally...
Letoya's acting skills are truly exceptional. Her "Destiny" was to become an actress. She is the actress I like the best. When "Here we go again" on TV did not continue, I was extremely disappointed. That show was FUNNY!
Honestly as a singer, I completely understand loosing your confidence thing. Prior to meeting my voice coach at 18 I thought I was a good singer. Then when he opened his mouth and I heard the power and agility in his voice, I got nervous and sort of faded in the background when he sang. It took years of encouragement to realize I’m just as good. If you’re not confident in your craft, sometimes you can start to second guess your worth. Glad she over came it.
While this is a perfect example of why you should watch what you say to people HOWEVER if you really think about it Beyonce didn't win every competition, was told by many she couldn't sing BUT YET SHE PERSEVERED AND WENT ON TO SELL MILLIONS OF RECORDS AND BE SUCCESSFUL. The point is, it's not what people tell you it's what you answer to.
Latoya can sang and she doesn't need to sound like Beyoncé. They crushed her confidence on purpose so that Beyoncé can get all the shine in the group! I really hope that she gets her confidence back and Sing "HER" under a bus because she can do it but she has to really push herself and silence all the naysayers!
Her confidence wasn’t crushed on purpose. That’s just a natural response when you’re around talented people. In addition to a great voice, Letoya even said she’s never met anyone who has worked as hard or who has wanted it more than Beyoncé. And no, no one is singing HER under any bus.
@Faith Dobson: Letoya is cool. But she’ll never “sing Beyoncé under a bus”. She can sing, but she never really had the hunger to get it that Beyoncé had. She’s a borderline perfectionist at her craft. I’m not sure if Letoya had that same drive.
Nobody crushed her confidence. She was just surrounded by someone that had MORE confidence in the craft and had a bigger voice. Letoya felt insecure on her own and only attracted more of what she felt on the inside.
I'm so glad LeToya shared her personal struggles. She is a talented singer. I'm glad Beyonce and her mended their friendship. When you're young, ppl say things to you and it can affect you later in life. I'm glad she did the work and turned it around.
Latoya was actually my favorite in the group andi loved and still love her voice. Her solo album i still have and loved it. Still waiting for more music from her. For now I also watch her channel on TH-cam and I love her how real and down to earth she seems.
OMG Same!! Back then, my friends and I always had to "claim" to be someone in a group or date someone in the group. I was Latoya. lol..like Nick Carter from BSB was my boyfriend 🤣🤣 I always loved and even more now. Back 2 Life is my ish as well!
Man I was so heartbroken during the DC break up era, so much major shade was thrown at Toya and Tavia. But I was so proud of Letoya’s solo debut. It was major in Houston, the city was proud of her. I wish they would do a reunion tour!!!
This is why it's so important for parents to instill and help their children maintain confidence. Both are brilliant women. However, one had the support, backing, and training from a Family who pushed her into Stardom. Toya your voice and presence is so beautiful. Honor the gift of today, music still needs you.
Yes and watch who your children are around because people will tear your kids down just to build confidence in their own. We all know Mathew was that type of parent.
I had lost confidence as a singer as a child too and it lasted until adulthood. I tried to sing in front of people and I would sound terrible until one day I sung for the kids I used to work with and it blossomed from there. I sung at church and everyone was shocked that I could sing. That's kind of sad because I went to that church for over 10 years. I will never forget one of my coworkers told me to use the nerves in my singing and that really helped me. I even made it on the praise and worship team. Self confidence definitely plays a big part in those desires. I'm not a professional singer but I sing every single day of my life
*Can you imagine if Letoya was kept in DC and it was Beyonce, Kelly, Letoya, and Michelle. Now that would have been a powerful four part harmony!! So glad she found her own voice and path back to stardom!! Super proud of her!!*
Letoya can sang!!!! I loved Torn. She really is talented. Beyonce is a performer. She leaves it all on the stage. I saw her perform when l lived abroad and she was amazing and l wasn't really a Beyonce stan after but after seeing her and her energy on stage, she goes hard.
Beyonce can perform and SANG!!!! ppl need to stop putting Beyonce in to a box of just being a performer. She is a singer who can SANG, and a dancer that can put on a show.
@@Beytheevocalist. CHILE THEY KILL ME WITH THIS SHES JUST A PERFORMER. SHE'S MORE THAN THAT. THESE PEOPLE NEVER WANT TO SEE BEY IN THE STUDIO WHEN SHE DOES THOSE HARMONIES, HER VOCAL ABILITY AS A MEZZO IS PHENOMENAL! BREAK HER FUCKING SONGS DOWN AND HEAR ALL HER HIDDEN VOCALS. THEY WOULD BE STUCK.
Words have power and I understand why her confidence was knocked. It prob hit her even harder because someone else was constantly being propped up above her. Then they went on to make it seem like she was the problem and wasn't a real singer. That would shake anyone going through what they were going through. She has a beautiful voice and I hope she knows that.
I own all 3 of LeToya's albums. They are all exceptional, and her musicianship only gets better & better!! LeToya's albums haven't aged at all. Her contribution to the R&B genre should most definitely be celebrated. 👏🏾☺️
She was always and still is my favorite Destiny's Child member. And one of my favorite female singers. She's gorgeous with an amazing spirit that was always heard through her singing to me. She always resonated with me. When she went solo , I played "Lady Love" CD to death 😂. Don't even get me started on her new hits. "In the Grey" and "Back2Life" . Eargasms.
I’m not gonna lie…when Beyonce said LeToya Luckett was _”tone deaf”_ (after she left the group) …I can’t get it out of my head, every time they’re mentioned together. That would make ANYONE lose confidence. That may be Bey’s truth, but that didn’t have to be said 🤷🏽♀️
I respect Latoya a lot because of her maturity. Beyonce's father kicked her out of the group. Even Beyonce and Kelly said she can't sing. She never one day in public say something bad about them. She just internalized everything and moved on. She's really a calm soul! Not like these artists these days who thrive on drama, drama and drama. Smh!
@Elize Kelly right because it's been said years ago that it was Beyonce's dad who said Letoya was tone deaf and if anyone was the rapper of the group it was Latavia. We know how the media tries to cause unnecessary drama so I'm sure things were flipped around.
@Elize Kelly yes Beyonce said in an interview that when they finally got Michelle she was happy bc now everyone could sing. Implying that the ones before couldn't. Yall don't sit here and act like Beyonce wasn't a mean girl back in the day. Glad she grew out of that. I think her dad made her a mean girl probably would say bitchy stuff to her behind the other girls back. She was brainwashed by him back in the day
I felt what Latoya was saying 💯 Anyone who’s a vocalist can understand what she’s talking about. Comparison and lack of confidence in your voice are things you really have to work on, because it will give you anxiety and make you feel defeated. Everyone’s voices are different. Some ppl are belters, some are good at their head voice, some their chest voice and then there’s those who are solid all the way around. Don’t compare yourself to others in anything, comparison is the stealer of joy. And NEVER ever let ppl make you doubt yourself. Hold on to your confidence!! All the members in Destiny’s Child talk about how their confidence was diminished while being in the group. Not because Beyoncé was talented, but because they were being told and treated like they weren’t talented.
It’s crazy how I stumbled upon this comment and the reply …it’s something how I stumbled upon the video itself. I haven’t sang in years due to the lack of confidence experienced from others even family members ..the comparisons can be critical without them even knowing the damage they are doing and the negative seeds they are planting. I’ll be 42 Nov 15th and still haven’t gained my confidence back. This was really encouraging understanding that I am not the only one who’s experienced this. Ty for sharing your thoughts . This response was really good ❤
@@angelamarie222 I’m so sorry to hear that. I encourage you to keep singing!!. Your voice is a gift from God, and there’s purpose behind it. As a vocalist one thing that’s helped me a lot with my confidence and comparison is taking away the pressure of trying to be the best or a legend. You don’t have to be Whitney or Mariah to be a good singer, you don’t have to strive to be legendary. As long as your progressing everyday and love what you do that’s good enough. Comparing yourself to legends or trying to be the next best thing is soo tiring and will cause you to look at others to compare where you’re at. But focusing solely on how your voice compares to only your voice, I guarantee you’ll see how much you love your voice and wouldn’t change it for some else’s.
I love how much they've all grown from the acrimony of their youth. Letoya's saying those commendable things about Beyoncé in her interview just goes to show how much they've matured from the teenagers who bitterly split to adult women who've forgiven each other. I love this for them. ♥
Beyoncé and her dad were kinda shady back in the day. Her dad stringed along those girls knowing the group was a stepping stone to Beyoncé’s solo career
This video was the first time I heard Latavia sing on her own and she’s got a great lower register! Also, I can’t believe I never heard of their group Angel, will definitely research them more. Letoya’s tone is amazing ❤
Things said to young children even things said in love can mark them even into adulthood, I can understand her feelings. As young girls it's very easy and common to compare yourself to those around you. I hope she can continue to grow her confidence and move forward🙏🏾
Letoya has a beautiful voice. I always felt Michelle was her replacement based on looks and voice. Letoya tone is just more brighter then Michelle’s but they both can sing. I just wanna say, all singers don’t have to sound the same to be able to singer. That’s why in choirs you have different sections. Beyoncé don’t sound like Mariah, does that mean Beyoncé can’t sing? Mariah don’t sound like Whitney? Does that mean Mariah can’t sing? We should celebrate different singers for their ability and not be quick to compare. All the women I’ve said on here can sing and have different voices and different skill set.
I seen several interviews where Beyoncé said something to the effect of “Now we ALL can sing lead” after LeToya left the group. That shows the attitude of her which she probably inherited from her father who made her feel like she was better than the other members because he managed the group. Had all the girls been treated equally from the very beginning, the outcome of all of their careers would’ve been different. I can only imagine how stressful it must’ve been being in that group. Everything was designed for her to succeed and only her. Everyone else had to kiss her and her family’s ass. Unbelievable. And we’ll never truly know what went on in the group because a lot of them are afraid of the backlash they’ll receive.
Did you watch all of that interview... You're taking what Beyonce said out of context.... Let me educate you on what was actually said. Beyonce said that earlier in the group because she had the stronger voice her father and the label wanted her to sing lead. She also talks about how miserable she was because when everybody else was chilling out and going to the movies she had to be in the studio singing and practicing because she was the lead singer. She then went on to say that when the group had years in the business and had gained a lot of commercial success everyone was finally able to sing lead because basically they had made it. What she said had nothing to do with LeToya specifically.
Letoya was my favorite from DC since day one! She has a beautiful voice and I pray that she lets the past go and realizes she's that CHIC!!! Love her ! ❤️🎉❤️🤗
Latoya Luckett when she sings she bring tears and chills into my body especially when she's saying them church songs she should have never lost her confidence
She can sing; just because she doesn’t sound like Beyoncé doesn’t mean she can’t sing there’s different voices for a reason; I’m hoping she gets the confidence needed because she is talented
Yup! Unfortunately people see Beyoncé voice as the norm. Wich there are different voices! Just like that doesn't mean you can't sing!
LeToya has a beautiful voice.
That's why I love rhianna! She has her own unique voice
Rihanna is NOT a singer. Let's NOT start that Fuckery Narrative. There are LEVELS. RiRi has good songs... but she can't SANG. And Fuck Beyonce and her gate keeping tactics. Latoya been a singer and she's a better actor. #Facts #ItIsExactlyWTFitIs
@@tonybluestar4954 let’s be fr I love Rih but she can in no way sing lol
When she mentioned “the seeds you can plant in a child” I felt that on a personal level
Seeds have been planted in me as a child that held me back until this day
👍THISS!!!🎯💯👍
@@wimseycrafts9965 Same
Same
This hits deep
"even with love..." I felt that one harder
LeToya Luckett may be the only person to ever get kicked out of an extremely successful group & go on to have a #1 album, sell a million records, have a hit song, another top 20 album, and have great success as an actress. She isn’t just talented; she’s the definition of a survivor.
And to add to that… a true testament of what God can do. Cuz, he definitely turned things around for LeToya.
Agreed I have said out of all the groups this group did justice they didn't just let beyonce rain. They kept going and made #1 hit after the group
Right and her voice is so beautiful whoever told her she couldn't sing should be smacked . Torn ,obvious , she don't ,not anymore are my songs. Sometimes singers just need to find their sound and not try to sound like anybody else she definitely found hers.
Also apparently the line saying “she was tone deaf and a originally was a rapper” they meant that toward LaTavia cause if you look back LaTavia was a the rapper in Girls Tyme
In some ways she’s about as successful as Kelly Rowland - props to her
I remember when Latoya became solo and she went on 106&park to release her song and the audience showed her so much love she broke down crying, I cried with her I felt like that group did something to her then .. been rooting for Toya ever since ❤
Same 💯❣I also remember that her debut single stayed at #1 for a long time and was at record for being the #1 song on 106 & Park⭐⭐⭐ I read the article in Vibe Magazine and Kelly was the one that called her "tone def" 🤔and that's when I really was rooting for LaToya & Latavia. At the end of the day, she has the most successful solo career outside of Bey, Beautiful memorable moment where the world was rooting for her more than she imagined 💞
Right! When she came out with Torn I was so hype and happy for her! N
@@NAJAI1 ⁰0⁰
Same same
I think beyonce THEN was Mean and driven at the same time … with the help of her father as well among the group
I always thought Letoya can sing. She killed it on Torn
one of my favorite songs of all time
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Facts, I love that song.
Definitely killed it and I love Regret
“ Not anymore “, “ Torn “ and “ Regret” STAYS in rotation! She needs to make a come back honestly.
Facts
Yess
She sang her butt off in "Not anymore " still gives me chills. "She don't" will forever be a bop.
PERIODT!
Torn, Regret, Hey Fella, and In The Name of Love still in my rotation
It’s so good to hear her be honest about what her struggle was internally and not blaming anyone else for it. That’s real. Comparison is the thief of joy.
But this is why you should not share your true feelings with strangers . Look at how they twisted her words and honesty for click bait. Keep your business to yourself!!!!
@@chiantibliss5846 Amen to that!
It truly is. Just makes you feel horrible and doesn’t change anything for you
But they are to blame. They tried to destroy her hound spirit and.ake her feel less pretty less talented less everything shiiiiit look at all the girls outfits and Beyonce's when they were on DC. Beyonce was made to outshine them . They would make thee girls tan Soo they can be darker then Beyonce and Beyonce would stay inside . Beyonce bullied them just as much as Mathews did.
Do U Guys Remember The 2 Replacement, It Was Michelle, And The Other Girl who Was A High Color Version Than Beyonce, And Prettier, But They Color Her Skin Down, Or the 🟤 Brown Not To Be S👀n Over 👑 Queen-B Who's The High Light Of The Group, So Yes Those/That Young Lady Was Prohibited To Showing Her Voice To The 🌎WORLD🌍. choice of
I loved LaToya's voice when she went solo and I'm very surprised she feels that way because I always felt she had a strong confident and unique voice. Her vibrato is unmatched and she doesn't need to change a thing. If anyone needs to know that she can sing listen to "Not Anymore" or "Just Be" But she has such an original voice and range
“Worlds apart” and “Higher” also. Actually her back 2 life album showcases her voice.
I loved her solo music. I hate she’s still struggling with her confidence. She’s such a great talent.
She’s full of shit
Me too
@stryfetc1 that’s not true… Leroy’s went solo and did ok.. not beyonces fault y’all so called “fans” didn’t support Latoya music 😂😂😂 go cry in the corner with her no one cares anymore
@@purrinkittyz4737 Didn't support her music? If I'm not mistaken, didn't her solo debut go number one and platinum? LOL, y'all be doing way too much with the Bey Captain-Save-Em ish. 😂 I don't believe it's true that Beyonce don't want no one shining around her but she did make comments about Letoya and Letavia's lack of vocal skills during the beef (probably moreso in defense of her father) that could've affected their confidence when they started going to look for other deals and getting turned down. It's not somehow being less loyal to Beyonce to see that side of things you know...
@@purrinkittyz4737 Right they always trying to blame Beyonce
In the words of Julia Robert's character in "Pretty Woman";; "When people start to tear u down enough, u'll believe it." LaToya is a force to be reckoned with. She has a natural voice; it doesn't feel forced or pre-recorded. The more she starts to believe in herself again, the confidence with start to return. I wish her nothing but the best. P.S., I admire here character role of Raising Kanan.
She also said “….I got the green I got the yellow I got the red, the champion of all condoms, nothing is getting through this sucker….” Yeh the confidence will get there, she just needs to “work, work it baby, own it…..”
You admire that she abandoned her child and let her get abused?
Latoya is killing it as Kenya
Indeed! 💕
@@yoyodre No she is seeing her as a good actress and she is playing that role well good job Toya
Janet Jackson went through the same thing, she's even admitted to feeling like she couldn't sing, compared to her brothers and sister Rebbie. But, thank God she found the confidence to realize that she can sing and that her voice was unique to her and her alone. I can't imagine the Entertainment industry without Janet; she's now an Icon, Legendary and the blueprint!
Lmao. Girl, Janet can’t sing.
@Michaela Mitchell Lol. I think more people agree that she can’t really sing. Just because you make good music, doesn’t mean you’re a good singer. She made good music.
@@michaelamitchell1603 the world’s opinion.
Janet whispers lol but I love her whispers
She can't tho
I’ll never forget one of the girls from her 2nd group “Anjel” said an ex boyfriend tried to run up on Letoya and they got in his face to defend her. Letoya broke down crying saying no one had ever protected or stood up for her like that before. That story always stuck with me.
Oh wow that’s crazy sad but honestly it really is telling how some girls (especially black girls) are always left to fend themselves with nobody and not even a man to protect them leaving them to be vulnerable.
She's a drama queen. ALWAYS crying about something.
@@trawlins396 Get the F out of her troll
@@Igboman87 ⬅️ actually YOURE the troll! 😂😂😂
@@trawlins396 Come up with a smarter response! Based on your attitude and choice of words, you're clearly trolling.
She expressed her feelings so beautifully and respectfully. Incredible interview! :)
“Torn” is one of the best displays of LeToya’s voice for meeeee! Sis always could sing but the confidence thing is a totally separate thing. I’m literally in the same boat she’s in. Like her, we’re still fighting that a lil bit. Just know panic or anxiety attacks are truly real. Playing it off takes a lot… I would never compare myself to someone socially greater but never giving up takes a lot.
Torn is great also “Lazy” and “Good to Me”. I’m shocked she doesn’t have that confidence especially when listening to that big note in “Good to Me”. Then the vulnerability she gives in a song like “Disconnected” from her last cd. Wow.
Yes, she’s a beast of an artist! She deserves her 💐
Literally was singing it in my head as I was scrolling 😂
I'm sorry "torn" was not vocally phenomenal
@@mel...s And that’s OK the whole point is to understand that she does have a beautiful voice. You can pick any song you love of hers.
That’s so crazy because she can actually sing. She sounds like an Angel
Naw Beyoncé can actually sing, not her
@@stars8924 They all can sing. Except luggage lol
@@angechrisman1694 you so petty😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@stars8924 letoya can sing. Her confidence was destroyed by Beyoncé dad as a child. And she's a great a actress too.
@T T They call her the Queen for a REASON. Respect that!!!
LeToya stood out to me from Day 1… I was in middle school when No, No, No came out and she instantly became my fav. It was just something about her and I thought she was so pretty. So glad she’s getting the love she deserves ❤
She was my favorite too!! I love her!
Agreed she definitely stood out and was my fave when they were first coming out with their videos
She was always my favorite
Same here, she was ALWAYS my fav🤷🏾
Me too. When I saw her, as a kid in 1997-1998, in No No No, I was instantly drawn to her (LeToya) and I wanted to look like her and I'm white lol For some reason, at the time, Beyonce, to me, seemed much older. I think LeToya also resembled a girl I knew during 90s. I was heartbroken when the two original girls left. It was all about Beyonce and not the group. Not hating on Beyonce.
One thing about it tho.. Latoya isn’t seen as being in Beyoncé’s shadow.. she made a name for herself! I was so proud when she dropped that first solo track
She has a better voice to me
True unlike Kelly and Michelle sadly
Latoya I feel you. When I was in grade school and high school all I wanted to be was a lawyer. I had several lawyers in my family and I was good at debates, research and communication skills. But baby, when I went to college to study law, that was a whole different ball game, my grades slipped and my confidence was shot so i had to switch majors.
Sometimes when you get thrown into the fray you realize your true strengths and weaknesses so I totally understand how she felt back then.
Candie, did you ever become a lawyer or did you find a new career path?
Sorry that happened...I hope everything worked out for you..
@@jeremiahborders2959 No I work in finance now. Mostly wealth management.
Girlllllll, get yo ass back and live your dream . Go get your confidence , no one can tell you how it'll feel to achieve your childhood dreams except you achieve it. love
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She's not just a great singer she's a phenomenally great actress as well.
She was really good in Greenleaf ❤️
@@itsyourgirlval6457 Typically I don't like villains in movies/TV shows but that Rochelle I love her character and her fashion was on point she also played and I think it was either single Ladies or Hit the floor show back in the early 2000s that's when I really noticed her as an actress.
@@ladybayoutalesthetruth6788 Single Ladies she was Felicia Price and she was everything. And of course Rochelle in Greenleaf! Man she use to have my blood pressure up watching her!
Thank you! And a better actress than Beyoncé
YEASSS, she's very likeable as well,
I'll say this: It's easy to become an icon if everybody is clearing your path and supporting you the whole way. To establish your own path in the aftermath of a very public breakup shows what Letoya is truly made of. I keep hearing her say she struggles with confidence. Her whole career screams confidence. To step out of the shadow of DC and Beyonce and stand unapologetically in your own multi-faceted talent and truth is truly remarkable. I am a fan. I am also a Houstonian. If you're from Houston, you know how to call a thing a thing. Yes, Beyonce is talented. LeToya is beyond talented. She is an inspiration to anyone who has faced rejection and kept going anyway. She didn't let someone else's success dim her light. I'm glad Empressive did this story. It blessed my Spirit.
No one cleared any hurdles or paths for Beyonce to walk through. Clearly you didn't listen to your favorite, Ms. Luckett. She said they, as a group, were rejected many, many times but it was hard work and persistence that finally paid off. She said, as we all know by now, that B's work ethic and dedication to her craft is beyond this world. Now, I'm also a fan of Ms. Luckett, but let's pretend Beyonce was just handed the platinum spoon by someone. She's worked very very hard for a very very long time for every cent and fame she enjoys today.
@@neahkrayou8730 Her dad was the platinum spoon and he was the one in charge of the group.
@@neahkrayou8730 ALL the hurdles were cleared for Beyonce, the name of the group is even about her! The UK version of Kelly Rowlands album has an whole page advertising Beyonce's unyet released album.
Yes I know that’s right!!! God is so good and I personally love Letoya’s voice
@@liveinlove4945 Ummm what musical connections Matthew Knowles had in the music industry when DC was on the come up? Name them quickly.
I hear you LaToya. I’ve struggled with my confidence since I was young after hearing my dad call me ugly and my mom say I “ain’t gon be shit.” I’m in my early 30’s now and although I get compliments about my physical appearance, it’s hard to receive it because in the back of my mind I don’t believe it. I’m also a cop now and have made a good living but I’m always searching for better.
You go sis❤🤌🏿🙏🏾
Baby, the most High wipes those tears away instantly. Parents can be jealous too! Do you feel me ?
I am sorry you had to go through that. You are gorgeous and I am proud of for pushing through and being successful!!🤎🤎🤎🙌🙌🤎🤎🤎
Sorry you went through that
My love forgive me for saying this 💕 but your parents ain't shit 💩 frfr and are ugly ppl inside and out. Anyone that can say such to a child had no business procreating in the first place. I'm quite sure you are a beautiful ❤️ person inside and out. Your own parents were jealous bc you ARE better than them. I hope you have nothing to do with toxic waste like that. They don't deserve someone like you as their daughter.
most of these groups (90s/2000s) had a lot of deep rooted issues that affected their confidence, self esteem etc. I feel these dark stories begin with how record labels, managers mistreat the talent Its good that artists have started speaking out
I agree. So much in the background that went on finally being said as these artists work out of that childhood trauma 💯💯
Definitely!
Not just groups but artists period and even before the 90s. At the end of the day, these people are human too. We're at a place now where these artists feel more comfortable sharing their experiences.
Yeah, it's that 20 year rule. I'm glad stories are being told now too👍
I watched her on Single Ladies, Greenleaf, etc... even in music videos... her strength really is acting, she's à natural and even better than most of the actors she's worked with. I hope to see more of that in the future.
Yes Greenleaf 💪💪
Agreed. She should leave singing alone and get a contract with the Hallmark channel.
And if she needs to “feel better than Beyoncé” just know Beyoncé could never 😊. Beyoncés thing is singing NOT acting.
I agree!
@@LibertyMadison yup it goes to show each of us have our strengths and weaknesses. Beyonce isn't good at everything she does. Bey's main strength is in performing and she successfully exploits that as good as she possibly can whenever she has to do it.
LeToya is better than Hallmark! She’s definitely big screen worthy
Man Letoya Luckett is a multi threat. Singing, acting, dancing. She is unmatched. So much love for her.
She is also so beautiful as wey❤❤❤❤ she is definitely multiple talented ✨
I can relate on a smaller scale. I was a singer. I went to performing arts schools all my life, auditioned and got in every time.
When people are constantly telling you to “sing like this”, “sing this, not that”, “you should be singing this kind of music”. And you’re getting it from every angle, the adults in your life, teachers, the other kids. It dampens your passion. My passion was GONE by the time I was 18. Now i only sing for my close friends and family.
Oh God, as someone who was a choral singer from 2nd grade all the way till college, I GET IT. I can sing, but I can't SANG. And that's ok, we're not all meant to.
The amount of times you get singled out and corrected tho😑... and it doesn't come from a bad place, but that doesn't mean it isn't sometimes embarrassing or hurtful. Even more so when you're really trying and still not quite getting it.
We were high school students competing with college students cuz my teacher pushed us THAT hard. But Jfc were we GOOD lol
One day I realized it was about more than just my vocal ability. I can read music... that's an accomplishment! I know how to count my notes, I know how to site read, I know how to count sing, I can listen to a song a few times and not only pick out my part (2nd soprano/ 1st alto. I used to be a 1st soprano), I learn the words very quickly.
Oh, you wanna 'Do Re Mi' and see if I can randomly hit that top Do then the Fa? I gotchu, Ill even do the hand signs with you.
Sis. YOU ARE MUSICALLY TRAINED AND THAT SHIT IS NOT EASY. AND DON'T YOU EVER FORGET IT LOL 🥰
@@flushthecatnip that’s a GREAT point that I completely forgot. Thanks sis.
I absolutely am classically and musically trained and not everyone can say that!
Same!
What is wrong with singing just for your loved ones
I experienced this in the black church too
Letoya can sing her behind off! I need her to gain her confidence back ASAP, because she is very talented. Sidenote: “She Don’t” is one of the most underrated R&B songs. That song is STILL on repeat!
Agree with this entire comment. I love "She don't".
Yesssss, I love that song 🎵
Omg Thaaank you for reminding me of “She Don’t” 😩👏🏽 I can’t find it on Apple Music though so I’m sad
@@aliciab.4772 I bought the song on Amazon and downloaded to my Apple music! It’s the same quality and everything.
🔥🔥🔥
Latoya is a prominent part of all the early records. You can clearly hear her voice in the harmonies. Especially on Say My Name
I love listening to Letoya speak. There is no pretense with her…just realness. She is true with her faults and seems humble. Whatever she lacked in the singing department she more than made up for with her great acting ability. She found other lanes to showcase her talent and I’m proud of and respect her for that. Everyone doesn’t have to be a Beyoncé to have made it. Finding what your own passion is and sticking to it is what makes greatness.
SO RELATABLE! Everyone wants me to sing again but this is how I feel ..sad thing is no one rejected me, I did it to myself thru comparison with others. Never compare yourself man... it takes a second to do and YEARS to undo mentally...I think I needed to see this 💕
Toya is a beautiful soul from the inside out n that's what makes her confident. I'm sorry that she had to experience that but she is one of the originals from Destiny Child. Her talent both in music n acting is felt n quiet as it's kept she could venture into fashion cuz she's always on point. Keep doing you Toya we all have insecurities that's what makes us human n grow stronger. You are who you are without DC you can now stand on your own. Go be great!!!!
I hope it all comes back to you and then some. You more than deserve it. Life is hard enough. Peace, love, and light to you. ✌💫💞
Sang girl!!
@@majestywright8339 thank you for the kind words and encouragement, I really appreciate it 🙏🏾 💕
Comparison is the thief of joy. I completely understand and relate
There was an interview of Naomi Cambell (forgive me If I misspelled her name) she was asked why was she so intimidating to approach or work with? She said “that’s on you, not on me” it totally changed my perspective on confidence, intimidation, comparisons and so on! You literally decide whether others greatness put you down or not! You literally decide whether you are intimidated by someone or not! No matter how aggressive and unwelcoming the situation was! You are the the denominator in the equation! That’s something I try to internalize myself hopefully one day Myself and others who experience insecurities and intimidation could overcome whatever it may be with the least collateral damage possible!
Yaaaasss! Thank you. It really comes down to people being told all the time they are wonderful and when you get around other wonderful people you can end up being just ordinary. And that has everything to do with YOU and no one else.
100% AGREE
I agree 100%, it’s like asking someone to dim their light in order to allow yours to shine. Anybody who is confident knows nobody can dim your light !!!
For grown folks this can help but not as much for youngsters. And really while putting power into our hands makes us feel good because if we are the problem we are the solution, it's not always that simple. We may have to spend time undoing scripts and wounds given to us on our way up.
AMEN!!
Great video! LeToya had her whole career snatched away from her then rebuilt herself from the ground up. Her story is so positive and i think more people need to hear it and learn about it because her story could help a lot of people.
Latoya’s voice is so beautiful 😢 Even though I like Michelle and what she brought to the group, I often hoped and wondered what the group would have been like with Beyoncé, Kelly and Letoya as the 3 in DC. I was a kid when Destiny’s Child was out, so I never got to see them in concert. Really hoping they reunite for a reunion tour or do another album.
I agree! They definitely should have let Latoya sing some lead.
@@onlyh8720 It would be nice if all 5 ladies could come together. Latoya and Latavia included. I’m not sure if Latavia actually can sing, but she was apart of the core 4 ❤️
@@SassyDivalyrics Oh no, LaTavia can sing too! she has a beautiful voice. Very sultry and rich. She sounds something like T-Boz but fuller and heavier. You should listen to some songs of LeToya and LaTavia's group Anjel, they're great. The songs are here on youtube. Also LaTavia sings on the first verse on DC song Sweet Sixteen ☺
@@Miketendo93 oh so the other girls could sing. But since it wasn't like the managers's little girls, who couldn't be outshined, that was the false narrative spread.
They were right about the problems with the manager, in ways they prob didn't yet know
@@BEATSofDevil Pretty much. Yeah, DC's vocal coach David Lee Brewer wrote a book. He tells a real in depth story of the time he spent with the girls from 1989 to 1998. The book is called 'Raising Genius'
It's crazy what a lack of confidence can do. The way she was talking about herself, you'd think she was inept! She has a beautiful voice!
It’s like when you are one of the prettiest girls in your high school in your home town and then you go to a hbcu and you you realize the world is a lot bigger and there is always someone better. It humbles a person. However it shouldn’t take away from your beauty, your worth- Letoya is very talented.
It did humble her which was great for her craft development, but I think what she was saying (and a lot of the other members have spoken about) is that she felt like she was being told and treated like she wasn’t as talented or had no talent. They used Beyoncé as the standard of what a good singer was and anyone who didn’t sound like her or could do the things that she could with her voice weren’t as talented. When any singer will tell you ppls voices are built different and not everyone starts on the same starting point, some ppl are just more naturally gifted singers or learn faster or have put in more hours of training, that’s why it’s not fair to compare. Because by breaking someone’s self esteem you guarantee that they’ll never reach their fullest potential, because they’ll stop trying all together. And that’s where the anxiety and depression comes in. No one wants to be mediocre, but a voice like Whitney or Aretha or whomever isn’t just an overnight thing. It takes years!!! Of dedication and consistency. Singing is the epitome of trusting the process.
She can sing really good. I do feel like they did make her feel less than on purpose. Treat kids well they grow into adults that never forgot what was done. I was so happy for her first project. Hope she finds the confidence she’s looking for. 💙
How so? Where's your evidence bey did that? That is her own insecurities, don't blame it on bey
@@AtlCinderella80 girl watch old videos, she had SAID THIS with your delusional self 🙄
She's been bruised
@@AtlCinderella80 there's literally video evidence and quotes in newspaper articles that were used in this very video. But no one is blaming Beyonce anyhow
Latoya is a whole package as well! Crazy thing…listening to the original members harmony was SOOO much richer and had more depth because of Latoya’s soprano range and Tavia’s deep rich low tone. The music they would’ve made as they aged woulda been fire!! Crazy…Be’s insecurities of speaking in public of which Latoya is a natural vs Latoya’s singing solo of which Be’ is a natural!! Both extremely gifted young ladies. I love Toya’s style and personality!
As a non professional singer I can completely understand feeling unworthy or not good enough! She actually went for it though and her debut album was good both number wise(charts) and sound wise. The devil is always busy coming for our mental agility! We are our own worst enemies.
I can honestly relate to her. Imposter syndrome is very real. Especially when you go from an environment where you’re shining on your own to one where you’re sharing the spotlight with other equally talented individuals.
This is why they say comparison is the thief of joy. But it’s also very natural.
Especially when you’re trying to enter an industry that is competitive or you’re constantly being told what you’re doing wrong and not receiving the same amount of attention to what you’re doing right.
I was in performing arts my entire childhood and experienced this too. It’s very heart breaking to go from feeling secure in yourself and your abilities to struggling to even believe ppl when they say you’re talented.
Struggling with this now. I just started a new job in a medical lab and the lab I had before that I was thriving. Now I feel like I’m the weak link because I’m not as knowledgeable as the veterans there because they have 20+ years of knowledge and experience than me. I was told they would teach me but my supervisor and everyone in lead is expecting me to learn these concepts in 6weeks and I have to jump through hoops just to be there which I think is unfair. They’re on my ass and I will admit the pressure is becoming a lot but the pay is so much better than I’ve ever had and I need this job.
Absolutely! I grew up in performing arts, got awarded, but never felt like I was "good enough" because my parents didn't champion my confidence. Never stood up for me in school environments, and found my confidence "cocky" because they were shy themselves. Their apathy actively dimmed my light.
Parental support, compassion, and comfort is the medicine to all of these natural feelings. Beyonce had all of these x10. Her family, their connections, and being upper middle class contributed a LOT to supporting her prodigal talents.
“Equally talented people?!?!” That’s a stretch don’t you think?
That confidence is super important. You need methods of holding it and building it that is independent of being compared to others. Confidence in your preparation, confidence in your work
@@BlackGirlLovesAnime6 I know what this feels like, but you will eventually catch up, don't let them get to you and don't let them see that you feel this way because they are going to use that against you a lot, try to keep your cool even when you're panicking in the inside, they tend to respect someone more if they don't think that person is feeling the pressure.
I know how she feels... Words are very powerful. I'm a singer as well, and my former producer made a joke and it still sticks with me 12-13 years later. Letoya and Latavia are extremely talented. Latavia goes through the same insecurities, and I'm so sorry that someone made them feel like they are less than.
👍THISSS!!!🎯💯👍
Probably Beyoncé daddy
To be in the entertainment industry , you gota develop tough skin !!!!Beyoncé got a lot of backlash and criticism too but not once was she fazed by all that coz she knew she wanted to be a star . No one goes far in the entertainment industry or any other industry by being a crybaby😏
@@davidemerald7690 the entertainment industry is no excuse for anyone to talk to you like you're less than. Tough skin doesn't mean that you don't have feelings.
@@novalove4790 Having a thick skin is absolutely crucial though. Yes we all have feelings, but thick skin is needed so that we don’t fold. Plenty of artists were told they weren’t good enough or didn’t have ‘it’. Yet they didn’t let those opinions stop them. You gotta believe in yourself no matter what or who says whatever. That’s just what it is. There’s no way around it
I can relate to her story so much. I remember when I was a little girl and all I ever wanted to be was a singer. Then, a grown adult told my 8-year-old self that I couldn’t sing and it broke my heart. 20 years and I still can’t fully bring myself to sing in front of others. I’m trying my hardest to. My sound is different. I have a classical sound. Most people think it’s funny whenever I tell them that. Another reason why I don’t sing in front of people.
One thing I know, my vibrato in first soprano is a beautiful thing to hear.
What do you mean by classical sound? Like operatic or classic Soul?
Either way that adult was wrong and mean spirited to do that. I'm Sorry it affected you because that's what they intended it to do: affect something or someone to take out their own issues on. Work on rebuilding you.
I had a bad performance as a teen which was a bit of a disaster. I even had nightmares for years after- until five years later I made the deliberate effort to join a singing course and perform publicly again.
How old are you now? Just curious, because I can relate. I’m 30 now. We should virtually hook up and lay a track 😂😘
And that’s something that is more relatable than you know. I encourage you do find an open mic with a live band. I use to co host one so I can tell you it definitely helps with getting comfortable and explore what your voice can do.
Don’t let people keep you from doing what you may love. That little 8 year is ready for you to bust out!
sing babes
@@OneWorthwhile What kind of music do you sing? I also sing if you want to lay a track too! :)
This is interesting.. I remember years ago in a sociology class we had a whole discussion on singing groups (can't even tell you how that came up). One student had a great point on how having a "lead" could actually imprint some level of insecurity on the other members of the group and they could be nurtured to become somewhat docile. Of course I can't articulate it as good as he did and don't remember his exact wording, but listening to LeToya speak now instantly made me remember my classmate's general point. Seems like he was on to something.
Classic Diana Ross and the supremes tale
yup
Interesting. Because I do think Michelle and Kelly have more docile personalities.
Absolutely! You are so right. Especially Michelle.
That insecurity comes from arrogance. You don’t have to be the center of attention to be great. Kelly and Michele will be rich and respected as performers forever because they made peace with their position. I always say the destiny child story is a good lesson in playing your role so you don’t get written out of the script.
I never knew she felt this way about her voice because I always thought her voice was beautiful. Love all her songs to this day
'Back 2 Life' is my favorite LeToya Luckett cd and I wish more ppl heard it. It's her best work to date. She was always my favorite and I wish she knew just how special she was; music wise and acting. So much love and respect for this woman.
I have 2 copies I purchased it the day it came out in 2017.
Even the videos was on point fot that album def my fav. I def think it didnt get the recognition it deserves because it was independent😞
Yea mine too
Yaaaassss! The Back 2 Life album was so underrated and before it’s time.
That album is the best. It is underestimated.
I’ve always wished Latavia and Letoya got more shine during the DC era. Toya can sing, has a dope personality and she’s relatable. I still play her debut solo album 💕
Me too.
LeToya vocals can be heard in the background chorus in Say My Name. Sounds like when she went solo with Torn in 2006.
Wow I didn’t expect to cry but this mini doc definitely had me in the feels.
I love to sing and had such a joy as a child singing until I had someone tell me that I was the worst singers she had ever heard. I lost my confidence in my voice then and basically did the same thing that LeToya did and played my role in the background.
I appreciate you putting this together because seeing the timeline and success of her story was inspiring. ❤
Letoya made a good point when she said, people don't realize the seeds they plant in a child's mind. Those seeds grow and that child believes it and sometimes it stays even after they become an adult. @Lisa, stay encouraged. And just know, most of the time when people make those type of comments they are just projecting their own insecurities.
@@mekakoop9777 Thank you so much for this encouragement Meka. You are so right though. I still remind myself at times not to internalize someone else’s hurt and their projections. It takes a lot of unlearning on my part and replacing the negative words of my past with positive affirmations.
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@lisafreeman am sure your voice is amazing! Other ppls opinion is just that, their opinion. Don't dem your light for no one. Also your voice is uniquely yours. Can you imagine the amount of ppl your voice will touch? 🌟 ✨️ 💕
Sorry to hear that, and I bet they were jealous of your beautiful voice, but yes, people putting their insecurities on us as children has such long lasting effects! Truly hurtful, I really hope you get back to it , I'm positive we are missing out on SO much beautiful music from you!! 💯🔥💕💕
I love to sing too and I’m good at it. Some bish told me I sounded airy ( probably true( because I really can sing but I need voice lessons. But how she said it affected me. It’s crazy how someone’s opinion can affect you.
I believe it. I remember it took me a while to trust Beyonce and Kelly after the departure of Latoya and Latavia. Because they were going around telling anyone who interviewed them that neither of them sang. They only lip synced and all vocals were Beyonce's and Kelly's including backup and harmonies. They had people thinking they didn't make any vocal contributions on the albums.
Facts. I didn't know that Kelly was doing that too
@@marissawilson4644 I never heard of a person being nice to the person that’s suing them 😂
@@dreedwards6859 she had every right to sue them.... I love B and Kelly but they were wrong in that situation.
@@marissawilson4644 she had every right to Sue Matthew not them.. but I’m sure she was advised to sue everyone so I don’t blame her but I understand both sides
LeToya was ALWAYS one of my favorites when it was DC4, and she was in my opinion, the most beautiful at that time. She had that “edge” as a group member. Her vocals are actually great and her music is beautiful! All of her albums!
Exactly her face in pictures get all the attention in my opinion.
RIGHT!! When it was the original 4 I thought she was the most beautiful and funny enough, I didn’t pay Beyoncé much mind lol
Exactly she was my favorite 😍 awww none of us knew any of this
Facts
@@Brit943 right, ain’t that weird?😂😂😂 I think Beyoncé is cool, but all I saw was her
Kelly was such a pick me, just grateful to not be on the "reject side" she carried alot of reject energy for a long time, thank gosh she could sing! Definitely got time for everything Latoya does such good vibes and a treat to see.
Yesssss!I thought I was the only one who thought that. I hate that Kelly didn’t have a backbone.
@@suhaylamusna3524do you know her personally? No. You don't.
Michellle too like she said everybody knew to pay their part
They played the game and won. They were not going to move Beyonce and they were not gone be bigger than her because Beyonce was set up to be the star. Ride her coat tail make ya money keep those connections and love a fabulous life debt free. Beyonce can have the spot light. They smart about it
I respect her testimony and ppl better not twist it and come for her over Beyonce. I went thru the same when me and a couple of my friends tried to start a group in highschool. I felt like being the darker one and thicker one - me and my voice didn't match up to my friend Diamond and I lost confidence so I took another route-rapping and it made me a double threat which helped a lot later. Now why I quit music- that's a different story lol
I'd love to hear that story!
@@MPPG663 Girrrrrrrrrrrrl I'll have to gather my words and thoughts first but it's definitely worth a listen for girls to hear or be able to relate to as a aspiring artist.
I'd love to hear it as well. Your story may be a lesson or encouragement for someone, keep us posted Brandy if you do decide to share!
GOD bless you, I studied music extensively in college, I did not quit music; I do not want to be in Hollywood however due to its demonic nature.
@@brandydanielle6212 I would love to hear your story. Ever since I was younger I always wanted to be an actress, but lack of confidence didn't let me pursue it.
No shade at Beyoncé; she is insanely great. But back then, I was in love with Letoya. I loved her voice, she seemed so nice, and I felt she was the most beautiful of the four. And look at how humble she is in this video. Love u Letoya.
Yeah my eyes were drawn to her
As a kid I wanted to be Letoya in our school tribute Destiny’s Child group, they wanted me to take Beyoncé’s parts but I identified more with Letoya
Tbh she was a big fan favourite, hope she knows that ❤
@@alkahinat4558 and that’s what Letoya needs for her confidence. Yes Beyoncé is great but Letoya is great in her own way and she will have her own fans. But I can understand getting torn down a bit as a child and that sticking with u throughout ur life. I’m glad she seems to have found some success and keeps her positive and humble attitude.
My thoughts EXACTLY. LeToya has always been my favorite in the group. Her and LaTavia didn’t have many vocals to sing but it was always LeToya’s beauty and presence that I always admired.
@@Bad_Boi_86 no doubt.
She's a beautiful soul and a big person to acknowledge Beyonce as a part of her growth process. She's a dynamic singer and it's crazy how people around you will see your budding talent and put a stop to it before you gain the confidence to sustain it. Like, embracing it, being supportive and helping her to nurture it wasn't an option?
That is what I am thinking. I think it was pitiful behavior the way she was treated.
And she evolved from it and got past it that part
@@quarmainestephenson8403 Yeehhhs!!
Letoya’s voice has ALWAYS done something for me. I use to listen for the soprano line in DC4. I have all of Toya’s albums. I’m a big fan!
LeToya can sang and always could sang. The adults around her when she was in DC were toxic and created a toxic environment that caused her low self esteem. It takes years to repair such damage. Thank you for featuring her she’s made a name for herself in the music, film and television. She’s never focused on the past took the high road and God has blessed her abundantly.❤❤❤❤❤❤
She did not get added to Sistas
Oh gosh. You’re clearly not in the arts. Toxic environment… I’m sure people meant well.
She’ll be alright. Some loud members of the community have been saying Beyoncé can’t sing for years, yet she continues to do so beautifully.
@@snijanafleur8442 and that is so crazy that ppl think Bey can't sing. Bey's background vocals on any song are insanely top tier! Her background vocals be having background vocals ! Who does that !!!
Latoya has an amazing voice. When she came out with Torn I thought that was her telling us she could SANG. I also thought she had recovered from her ordeal enough to make a fresh start. That's to show you never know what people are going through internally...
This saddens me because she is really really talented. Her vocals on Torn were so good. I’ve always enjoyed her voice.
Letoya's acting skills are truly exceptional. Her "Destiny" was to become an actress. She is the actress I like the best. When "Here we go again" on TV did not continue, I was extremely disappointed. That show was FUNNY!
Letoya can BLOW! I love her voice, and she’s so sweet
Honestly as a singer, I completely understand loosing your confidence thing. Prior to meeting my voice coach at 18 I thought I was a good singer. Then when he opened his mouth and I heard the power and agility in his voice, I got nervous and sort of faded in the background when he sang. It took years of encouragement to realize I’m just as good. If you’re not confident in your craft, sometimes you can start to second guess your worth. Glad she over came it.
She has such a gorgeous voice and she very beautiful. It’s a shame that people put her down when she was young
She’s so good. She let others dim her light.
While this is a perfect example of why you should watch what you say to people HOWEVER if you really think about it Beyonce didn't win every competition, was told by many she couldn't sing BUT YET SHE PERSEVERED AND WENT ON TO SELL MILLIONS OF RECORDS AND BE SUCCESSFUL. The point is, it's not what people tell you it's what you answer to.
Sony also told her that her first album had no hits.
She is very talented! Torn, Regret, Over, and Not Anymore are my favorites from her.
Yup and the acronyms for all those 4 singles (T.O.R.N) is a way to remember their names.
Latoya can sang and she doesn't need to sound like Beyoncé. They crushed her confidence on purpose so that Beyoncé can get all the shine in the group! I really hope that she gets her confidence back and Sing "HER" under a bus because she can do it but she has to really push herself and silence all the naysayers!
She cannot
Her confidence wasn’t crushed on purpose. That’s just a natural response when you’re around talented people. In addition to a great voice, Letoya even said she’s never met anyone who has worked as hard or who has wanted it more than Beyoncé. And no, no one is singing HER under any bus.
@@bluedalia1114 she cannot what?
@Faith Dobson: Letoya is cool. But she’ll never “sing Beyoncé under a bus”. She can sing, but she never really had the hunger to get it that Beyoncé had. She’s a borderline perfectionist at her craft. I’m not sure if Letoya had that same drive.
Nobody crushed her confidence. She was just surrounded by someone that had MORE confidence in the craft and had a bigger voice. Letoya felt insecure on her own and only attracted more of what she felt on the inside.
Toya is so humble and positive, and she radiates beauty inside and out.
I'm so glad LeToya shared her personal struggles. She is a talented singer. I'm glad Beyonce and her mended their friendship. When you're young, ppl say things to you and it can affect you later in life. I'm glad she did the work and turned it around.
She can definitely sing. And hands down one of the best pure R&B albums I heard in that time period. It was phenomenal
It's weird that her albums are classed as RnB because the beats are hard hip hop.
Latoya was actually my favorite in the group andi loved and still love her voice. Her solo album i still have and loved it. Still waiting for more music from her. For now I also watch her channel on TH-cam and I love her how real and down to earth she seems.
my favorite 2 and Latavia was my 2nd fav
OMG Same!! Back then, my friends and I always had to "claim" to be someone in a group or date someone in the group. I was Latoya. lol..like Nick Carter from BSB was my boyfriend 🤣🤣 I always loved and even more now. Back 2 Life is my ish as well!
Man I was so heartbroken during the DC break up era, so much major shade was thrown at Toya and Tavia. But I was so proud of Letoya’s solo debut. It was major in Houston, the city was proud of her. I wish they would do a reunion tour!!!
This is why it's so important for parents to instill and help their children maintain confidence. Both are brilliant women. However, one had the support, backing, and training from a Family who pushed her into Stardom. Toya your voice and presence is so beautiful. Honor the gift of today, music still needs you.
Absolutely.
Yes and watch who your children are around because people will tear your kids down just to build confidence in their own. We all know Mathew was that type of parent.
Yep, sometimes I wonder why didn't they push Bey as a solo star from the jump?
That part.
I think you nailed it on the head even more than empressive. The same can be said about Kelly Roland.
@@Onyx-z3n ok now we're talking. The the others losing their confidence was not an unfortunate accident it was purposeful.
I love her first album. It is a shame that it is not available on Spotify.
I had lost confidence as a singer as a child too and it lasted until adulthood. I tried to sing in front of people and I would sound terrible until one day I sung for the kids I used to work with and it blossomed from there. I sung at church and everyone was shocked that I could sing. That's kind of sad because I went to that church for over 10 years. I will never forget one of my coworkers told me to use the nerves in my singing and that really helped me. I even made it on the praise and worship team. Self confidence definitely plays a big part in those desires. I'm not a professional singer but I sing every single day of my life
*Can you imagine if Letoya was kept in DC and it was Beyonce, Kelly, Letoya, and Michelle. Now that would have been a powerful four part harmony!! So glad she found her own voice and path back to stardom!! Super proud of her!!*
Omg wow never thought of that
Letoya can sang!!!! I loved Torn. She really is talented. Beyonce is a performer. She leaves it all on the stage. I saw her perform when l lived abroad and she was amazing and l wasn't really a Beyonce stan after but after seeing her and her energy on stage, she goes hard.
Beyoncé is a performer and a Sanger NEXT
she really is an amazing performer
Beyonce can perform and SANG!!!! ppl need to stop putting Beyonce in to a box of just being a performer. She is a singer who can SANG, and a dancer that can put on a show.
Girl, try singing "I was here" then we'll have this convo. She sings while dancing, try that
@@Beytheevocalist. CHILE THEY KILL ME WITH THIS SHES JUST A PERFORMER. SHE'S MORE THAN THAT. THESE PEOPLE NEVER WANT TO SEE BEY IN THE STUDIO WHEN SHE DOES THOSE HARMONIES, HER VOCAL ABILITY AS A MEZZO IS PHENOMENAL! BREAK HER FUCKING SONGS DOWN AND HEAR ALL HER HIDDEN VOCALS. THEY WOULD BE STUCK.
Words have power and I understand why her confidence was knocked. It prob hit her even harder because someone else was constantly being propped up above her. Then they went on to make it seem like she was the problem and wasn't a real singer. That would shake anyone going through what they were going through. She has a beautiful voice and I hope she knows that.
Latavia’s voice reminds me of T-Boz
I own all 3 of LeToya's albums. They are all exceptional, and her musicianship only gets better & better!! LeToya's albums haven't aged at all. Her contribution to the R&B genre should most definitely be celebrated. 👏🏾☺️
She was always and still is my favorite Destiny's Child member. And one of my favorite female singers. She's gorgeous with an amazing spirit that was always heard through her singing to me. She always resonated with me. When she went solo , I played "Lady Love" CD to death 😂. Don't even get me started on her new hits. "In the Grey" and "Back2Life" . Eargasms.
I’m not gonna lie…when Beyonce said LeToya Luckett was _”tone deaf”_ (after she left the group) …I can’t get it out of my head, every time they’re mentioned together. That would make ANYONE lose confidence. That may be Bey’s truth, but that didn’t have to be said 🤷🏽♀️
It's criticism. Everyone a snowflake these days.
@@arditd7724 but there’s a way to say things, that can be constructive…and not destructive to one’s confidence 🤷🏽♀️
@@arditd7724 that’s easy to say when it’s not your passion
@@arditd7724 go pray to your beyonce poster
I have that Vibe magazine article they did after the split...just a damn mess
i always thought Letoya could sing, she was my favorite in the group. I really wish they’d do a reunion tour!
I respect Latoya a lot because of her maturity. Beyonce's father kicked her out of the group. Even Beyonce and Kelly said she can't sing. She never one day in public say something bad about them. She just internalized everything and moved on. She's really a calm soul! Not like these artists these days who thrive on drama, drama and drama. Smh!
Kelly always has been nasty. She is the one who can't sing for shit!
@Elize Kelly right because it's been said years ago that it was Beyonce's dad who said Letoya was tone deaf and if anyone was the rapper of the group it was Latavia. We know how the media tries to cause unnecessary drama so I'm sure things were flipped around.
@Elize Kelly yes Beyonce said in an interview that when they finally got Michelle she was happy bc now everyone could sing. Implying that the ones before couldn't. Yall don't sit here and act like Beyonce wasn't a mean girl back in the day. Glad she grew out of that. I think her dad made her a mean girl probably would say bitchy stuff to her behind the other girls back. She was brainwashed by him back in the day
@Elize Kelly Did you even watch the video?!
@Elize Kelly It was literally in the video...
People will say hateful things to you when they know you got it.
I felt what Latoya was saying 💯 Anyone who’s a vocalist can understand what she’s talking about. Comparison and lack of confidence in your voice are things you really have to work on, because it will give you anxiety and make you feel defeated. Everyone’s voices are different. Some ppl are belters, some are good at their head voice, some their chest voice and then there’s those who are solid all the way around. Don’t compare yourself to others in anything, comparison is the stealer of joy. And NEVER ever let ppl make you doubt yourself. Hold on to your confidence!! All the members in Destiny’s Child talk about how their confidence was diminished while being in the group. Not because Beyoncé was talented, but because they were being told and treated like they weren’t talented.
You said a mouthful..when you compare yourself then you loose yourself
It’s crazy how I stumbled upon this comment and the reply …it’s something how I stumbled upon the video itself. I haven’t sang in years due to the lack of confidence experienced from others even family members ..the comparisons can be critical without them even knowing the damage they are doing and the negative seeds they are planting. I’ll be 42 Nov 15th and still haven’t gained my confidence back. This was really encouraging understanding that I am not the only one who’s experienced this. Ty for sharing your thoughts . This response was really good ❤
Yup, any lack of confidence literally shows through the voice
@@angelamarie222 I’m so sorry to hear that. I encourage you to keep singing!!. Your voice is a gift from God, and there’s purpose behind it. As a vocalist one thing that’s helped me a lot with my confidence and comparison is taking away the pressure of trying to be the best or a legend. You don’t have to be Whitney or Mariah to be a good singer, you don’t have to strive to be legendary. As long as your progressing everyday and love what you do that’s good enough. Comparing yourself to legends or trying to be the next best thing is soo tiring and will cause you to look at others to compare where you’re at. But focusing solely on how your voice compares to only your voice, I guarantee you’ll see how much you love your voice and wouldn’t change it for some else’s.
I love how much they've all grown from the acrimony of their youth. Letoya's saying those commendable things about Beyoncé in her interview just goes to show how much they've matured from the teenagers who bitterly split to adult women who've forgiven each other. I love this for them. ♥
She needs to make another album
She was always the prettiest one. I thought she'd go BIG with her song "Torn" her vocals are beautiful. 💕
Beyoncé and her dad were kinda shady back in the day. Her dad stringed along those girls knowing the group was a stepping stone to Beyoncé’s solo career
A Dad looking out for his daughter’s best interest doesn’t sound too far fetched to me. 🤷🏾♀️
As a biggest Beyonce fan, Beyonce did some shady things in Destiny 's Child
@@CandieP that why his own daughter don't want him anymore right
Right the group was ALWAYS temporary for Beyoncé to go solo.
Her father is super shady, isn’t that why Bey didn’t want him as her manager anymore?
Letoya was my fav n DC. I’m so glad she gave us some hits on her own. I’m so proud to see that she is still getting that bag. Acting n singing
Her voice is absolutely beautiful 💕
This video was the first time I heard Latavia sing on her own and she’s got a great lower register! Also, I can’t believe I never heard of their group Angel, will definitely research them more. Letoya’s tone is amazing ❤
LeToya literally had a successful solo career and scrap albums how can you forget?
Things said to young children even things said in love can mark them even into adulthood, I can understand her feelings. As young girls it's very easy and common to compare yourself to those around you. I hope she can continue to grow her confidence and move forward🙏🏾
This actually made me really emotional. I pray that she finds healing and her confidence back
Very heartfelt, inspiring, and rewarding for Letoya. Your journey is what you make it despite any obstacles.
Letoya has a beautiful voice. I always felt Michelle was her replacement based on looks and voice. Letoya tone is just more brighter then Michelle’s but they both can sing. I just wanna say, all singers don’t have to sound the same to be able to singer. That’s why in choirs you have different sections. Beyoncé don’t sound like Mariah, does that mean Beyoncé can’t sing? Mariah don’t sound like Whitney? Does that mean Mariah can’t sing? We should celebrate different singers for their ability and not be quick to compare. All the women I’ve said on here can sing and have different voices and different skill set.
I seen several interviews where Beyoncé said something to the effect of “Now we ALL can sing lead” after LeToya left the group. That shows the attitude of her which she probably inherited from her father who made her feel like she was better than the other members because he managed the group. Had all the girls been treated equally from the very beginning, the outcome of all of their careers would’ve been different. I can only imagine how stressful it must’ve been being in that group. Everything was designed for her to succeed and only her. Everyone else had to kiss her and her family’s ass. Unbelievable. And we’ll never truly know what went on in the group because a lot of them are afraid of the backlash they’ll receive.
Agreed wholeheartedly! Bey always seemed like a Narcissistic bully.
@@Godlywoman88 did you watch the video above, because Toya said the opposite about Bey
@@Godlywoman88 Beyonce was literally a child yall are weirdos.
@@myaebanks1121 18 and up isn't a child. Stop!
Did you watch all of that interview... You're taking what Beyonce said out of context.... Let me educate you on what was actually said. Beyonce said that earlier in the group because she had the stronger voice her father and the label wanted her to sing lead. She also talks about how miserable she was because when everybody else was chilling out and going to the movies she had to be in the studio singing and practicing because she was the lead singer. She then went on to say that when the group had years in the business and had gained a lot of commercial success everyone was finally able to sing lead because basically they had made it. What she said had nothing to do with LeToya specifically.
I love her voice. There is room for many singers. We need to stop comparing them and criticizing.
Letoya solo albums are INCREDIBLE!!! I love her music and her beautiful spirit. Girl keep shining, she’s so MAGICAL. 💫
thx for posting this empressive
Lets not act like "Not anymore" wasn't a whole Bop! Still play to this day. Love her voice!
She really is a good artist with a beautiful voice 😍
Letoya was my favorite from DC since day one! She has a beautiful voice and I pray that she lets the past go and realizes she's that CHIC!!! Love her ! ❤️🎉❤️🤗
Latoya Luckett when she sings she bring tears and chills into my body especially when she's saying them church songs she should have never lost her confidence