Jay Shetty and his wife Radhi discuss ANNOYING habits and communication in their RELATIONSHIP 😭❤️‍🔥

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    Jay Shetty and his wife Radhi discuss how to deal with feeling annoyed by your partner. Radhi admits that Jay has never annoyed her, but there are times where she has gotten agitated and snappy with him. She also finds it annoying that Jay tries to resolve their arguments too quickly, rather than indulging in a heated argument. However, Jay is thoughtful about his words and never says things he doesn't mean, which is a quality that Radhi admires. Additionally, they discuss how much of their personal life they want to share with others, and how they have different comfort levels with being open about their lives.
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  • @SubhalakshmiKumar
    @SubhalakshmiKumar ปีที่แล้ว +53

    "Sometimes you just need to have a fight" ha ha ha ha ha.... love you Radhi

  • @bufnitasacra839
    @bufnitasacra839 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    How he stopped and got up to check in on her really shows how compassionate he is 🥹

  • @Halllihallo
    @Halllihallo ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I feel like everyone thinks that jay is just perfect and never hurts radhi bt there must be moments where she would get hurt bt she cant rly express it and plus nobody will believe it bec everyone got that perfect image of jay

  • @madeinaotearoanz
    @madeinaotearoanz ปีที่แล้ว +14

    She's such a beautiful soul. 💜 I appreciated her vulnerability.

  • @Halllihallo
    @Halllihallo ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I felt sooo soooo sad when i saw radi cryy bec sometng is makkng her rly sad and i rly hope jay asked her about what made her sad.. i hope jay had a conversation with her afterwards about what is makkng her hurt... may god give her endlesss happiness bec she rly seeems sooo sweet.. may she always be happy

  • @kimberly3837
    @kimberly3837 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Crying is a healthy expression of release. Vulnerability is appreciated from both of you. This could help so many couples see that a healthy relationship isn’t perfect and how communicating and understanding each other’s responses is essential.

  • @sandhyarrakesh7923
    @sandhyarrakesh7923 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    U made me cry girl.... I was hearing what u guys were talking and suddenly .. In seconds I felt what u felt.. I felt i was there with you...

  • @andreasuarz
    @andreasuarz ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You "seem happy" however i think you are over sharing the uniqueness of your relationship ! Its good to share just a bit. If you continue you'd ended up separating !
    Our true nature of relationship is between 2 people.
    Stay Strong and the most you can Stay Private all you do is for you two ❤

  • @miriamwilliam3853
    @miriamwilliam3853 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    It's like there's a pain or hurt underneath the woman is not expressing, maybe uncomfortable to share, but there certainly is something there that cause cry, Jay stop talking, ask your wife what she's not telling you that makes her unhappy or sad... there's a pain she's hasn't express

    • @JJ_Sparks
      @JJ_Sparks ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Seems like just an emotion

    • @monikaverma913
      @monikaverma913 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are right Miriam... I too think so 🤔

    • @pv4685
      @pv4685 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I was actually shocked that he just passed over her getting upset. I would have hoped he would be interested in what was making her cry. Maybe he didnt want to make it too personal infront of camera, but still for me showed a husband not attuned to his wife. I expected more from Jay.
      And if you're writting a book about your relationship, you ask the other person's permission!

    • @princessjulia5646
      @princessjulia5646 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I gree with you definitely

    • @princessjulia5646
      @princessjulia5646 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes I really felt for her. Jay seemed to be rather hard to her I was very surprised

  • @nooza9628
    @nooza9628 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I think in their relationship, Radhi wants to enjoy their union whatever it is...whereas Jay is trying to build & improve their union and wants to share it with others as an example to help people.
    In my opinion biggest mistake one can make is going public with such very private things...it should be between two people only.
    Hope they can survive in the long run.

  • @Halllihallo
    @Halllihallo ปีที่แล้ว +6

    How rude that jay isnt askkng her if he can share this and that about their relationship... like shes clearlyy telling him that she doesnt know what is shared about them in a podcast or book sooo jay should ask her before sharing.....

  • @UnderstandingU
    @UnderstandingU ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You both are humans at the end of the day. Perfection doesn’t exist in anything in this world. They say, you get to know someone by traveling, doing business, and living with them.
    So anyone who hasn’t done any of those things, aren’t even close to know you both in how you both really are. This holds true for all of us. I pray that you both continue to blossom on your own and in your relationship

  • @KD-tr7cu
    @KD-tr7cu ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I feel for her, she can’t truly be herself. She has to carefully choose her words and is probably over everyone having to read about them. She just wants to be her authentic self and is smoothered by him. He’s always right and talks over her, almost brushing her emotions away. He’s too serious for her, she’s too carefree for him. Just my thoughts!

    • @yessica7021
      @yessica7021 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Damn I realize that! Very hard in the relationship

  • @missyelious
    @missyelious ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I often see comments about how perfect and cute they are together, and I often find myself wanting to say the same. As their audience, we should be mindful of not labelling them a perfect couple , because 1) it's not true 2) the pressure it puts on Radhi is very visible. ❤

  • @darlenesaldana6665
    @darlenesaldana6665 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I appreciate and love Radhi's vulnerability. I am the same in being comfortable with sharing personal stuff. It takes practice to share. I came from a place where I was criticized for being sensitive. So thank you Radhi for helping me see thus. I see why Jay is a great partner for you. Thank you to both of you for being beautiful human beings.😌🙏💐

  • @rashmigadag25
    @rashmigadag25 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    It's such an organic conversation, It's amazing to see you always 😊

  • @Fay685
    @Fay685 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow. This is really deep . So true on so many levels.

  • @marizakaidze1696
    @marizakaidze1696 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I am so happy to see you guys valuing your relationship and portraying how it in an actual, real way

  • @VibinWithKK
    @VibinWithKK ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Practice makes perfect and you both practicing is perfect ✨️ I feel as though society has put such "high" expectations on what perfectionism is and tbh I believe that everything exists. Exists as it is for what it is and with that being said there is beauty within it all. We cant redo or undo what has already been created but I believe that we are all co-creators with the universe and whoever created perfectionism gave us the opportunity to identify with it in our own unique way. You both are perfect, perfect exactly as you are. Thank you both for practicing, progressing, and sharing these parts of your journeys. Love you guys 🤍🙏🏽✨️🌹

  • @mjdavid3786
    @mjdavid3786 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I love the vulnerability you've both shared with us. The weight of "perceived" perfection is so heavy. Learning to embrace our individuality and embody it just as it is, is truly a day by day experience. And we're constantly changing, learning and growing so this part of us is always evolving. Being kind, accepting, loving and forgiving with ourselves just as we are makes a huge difference in how we see ourselves and others. Sending much love to you and Radhi ✨🙏💗

  • @conversationswithboluwatife
    @conversationswithboluwatife ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The authenticity of this..omg the emotions I really felt that thank you so much for sharing, and Jay just how quickly you noticed she was about to cry 🥺 that was amazing and I just love guys so much thank you for always inspiring us 🥺 ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @sanaali8092
    @sanaali8092 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    True ...we all need to accept each other with our imperfections!
    Love you guys...❤

  • @indiangirl.uk.8420
    @indiangirl.uk.8420 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I thoroughly enjoyed watching this the authenticity of this, the emotions, the tears, I love you guys ❤ you guys are such great example and I really appreciate you sharing this thank you ❤

  • @gautayasmin6365
    @gautayasmin6365 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This is so beautiful. Thank you for being so vulnerable, and showing us that there's no perfect person or partner. I relate to Rhadhi, I cry with every emotion too and I think that's a strength to be able to express yourself like that and feel everything ❤

  • @barbaraschultz1442
    @barbaraschultz1442 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Jay, Radhi has every right to know what what your saying if this bothers her. Emotions, feelings are what you practice every day and with others. By this definition, you will grow in this area.
    I remember when my Ex would come home, wait for dinner and on the couch quiz me about current events from the Wall Street Journal! That was the best day because I stopped cooking, cleaning, shopping, put myself first instead of the marriage and read the Wall Street journal! Now I had a say, constantly challenging. He wanted someone to mirrior himself.
    Don’t compete. Of course we could have emotional relationships better then our partners. I’m sure that scares Radhi. She’s a doll! Respect. She does need her own podcast, or something she loves to call her own.
    My quote “The world is a classroom”. It’s not right or wrong, it’s what works for each of you both individually and in the marriage.

  • @tanyacollier9878
    @tanyacollier9878 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I see the opposite, I don’t know how happy she is with jay

  • @sonalijootun1712
    @sonalijootun1712 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He is such a good boy hugging her while she was crying. 😁

  • @Isabelmaryj
    @Isabelmaryj ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love this sharing. You two are very sweet and humble and I feel for you putting yourselves out there. Very grateful for your example ❤

  • @TinyBudha
    @TinyBudha ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I could be projecting here but I feel like Jay lost his childlike innocence and is getting lost in the Media machine. It’s clear these two used to be like two peas in a pod but Jay is changing and Radha feels like she lost him somewhat. It’s crazy saying that considering he started as a monk. But I suppose that could be used as an Ego trap in itself to believe you could never flip to the other side

  • @klerain5774
    @klerain5774 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is so beautiful 🙏💚🙏
    I absolutely love how Rhadi knows herself so well and can explain herself so wonderfully.

  • @shannonbross9507
    @shannonbross9507 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Absolutely love the two of you . Great talk . And like I say both of you have stunning eye color 😊

  • @noeoleole6911
    @noeoleole6911 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I really like her... it's a risk to be vulnerable and they do it as a service to others; if it helps others, there it is. And that's a beautiful thing. Still, being exposed like that, it doesn't have to be easy, it still has an uncomfortable side for sure. I feel it is important to transmit that hope, especially from people that are imperfect people (none is perfect) that keep fighting in life and don't give up. We are all fighting together in this crazy life. Anyways, thank you.

  • @milaschon7209
    @milaschon7209 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He is so so HSP and sensible.

  • @user-gv7pj1go5c
    @user-gv7pj1go5c 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love you both so much..❤ relationships are for growing and overcoming some challenges.. with ourselves and others .. thank you for the beauty of sharing.. it’s helps us all and appreciate you both

  • @07neera
    @07neera ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I don't know what you are talking about but I like to hear this beautiful couple..❤

  • @mikam472
    @mikam472 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love this, but no, I’m sorry, if my husband is in loved in a business project, especially one in this space, I’m gonna know what he’s sharing

  • @juhi4
    @juhi4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I get Radh welli.I cry like her.All my emotions make me cry.

  • @Deepika1001
    @Deepika1001 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I find it strange that you don’t know what’s in your husbands book and find out from others!? Wouldn’t u have read it?

  • @zeebacchus
    @zeebacchus ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I get frustrated, I take a time out. think about the situation and defuse my ego. Later, when I have had the time to revaluate the issue/s. For me this is giving us a window to think of a resolve without us hurting each other.
    I’m a hugger. 🤗

  • @oyandakona5994
    @oyandakona5994 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    geez fite a little bit hahaha
    Beautiful couple

  • @chrissylew4669
    @chrissylew4669 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Oh my! You guys talks alike ... Just like me and my husband 😊🤣

  • @ijeshwardhillon4927
    @ijeshwardhillon4927 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Shes dry down there thats where her frustration is coming from

  • @tharunyap4896
    @tharunyap4896 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Well communicated

  • @gowtham5168
    @gowtham5168 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I feel like Radhi feels she has to be careful around him .

    • @ijeshwardhillon4927
      @ijeshwardhillon4927 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Have you noticed how they have a best friend relationship I mean you can tell with just listening she's dried up by this man...this just shows being nice and compassionate will dry your partner up

    • @gowtham5168
      @gowtham5168 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ijeshwardhillon4927 jay has set a huge mission to himself. He needs to get out of himself. Instead of passion and craze over his wife , he has kindness and care .I feel that dries up the relationship .

  • @stm7460
    @stm7460 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lot's of love from Nagaland India

  • @MadamGato7
    @MadamGato7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    The relationship perception difference between an Introvert and Extrovert in a 10 minute video. 😊
    I'm a lot like Radhi here. I need time to settle and process my volcano of emotions. If there was no love to begin with there'd be no volcano of emotions to deal with... So taking 2 days away is absolutely necessary for an introvert who is more a private person and doesn't like bouncing off of others.
    I really enjoyed this video and Radhi's volnurability because it reminded me of me. 💜
    P.s: I hope this is taken well but Jay should always always always run these subjects by Radhi if they involve her, before putting them in print. He probably didn't know the extent of how she felt about it, but he knows now.
    Sending you both SO much love and blessings. ❤️🍀

  • @Di7fe
    @Di7fe 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    When Radhi cried ,I cried too🙂

  • @lumbiwekalipenta4974
    @lumbiwekalipenta4974 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love the Sherry’s❤️🙏🏾🔥

  • @dannotes9396
    @dannotes9396 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    05:26 love them 🥹♥️

  • @yukisanderson6907
    @yukisanderson6907 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    No one is perfect. Only God is perfect. 🙏
    They look good together, though.

  • @faustinembeh
    @faustinembeh ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Girl I’m like you . I like to argue and he annoys me sometimes too

  • @learnwithmonika4923
    @learnwithmonika4923 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    my cutie🥺

  • @ramasamyraj
    @ramasamyraj ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thse things are not for public. End. Bye.

  • @mwenyachisanga6727
    @mwenyachisanga6727 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I don't understand my wife I feel their is communication break down we have an argument and the person literally shuts off and expect things to blow over just like that

  • @namastachi9030
    @namastachi9030 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I’m wondering if she’s comfortable with the whole sharing altogether. Maybe because it’s so inatural to broadcast your relationship- but she’s trying!!

    • @anuradhamasand6066
      @anuradhamasand6066 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sometimes...coz it's an emotional space u get reminded of something tender...# crying in video. I am soo glad this wasn't edited. We need real....

    • @namastachi9030
      @namastachi9030 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@anuradhamasand6066 if you 'need' something, then that's a problem. We shouldnt need to see or watch anyone. It's very unnatural to be so public. I'm not sure this is the path she chose...but it's just an observation xx

  • @Zeneyez
    @Zeneyez หลายเดือนก่อน

    He should really credit the people whose quotes he stole, it would have all been ok if he had said ‘I saw a quote I love and I’ve adopted it and live by it ‘ or something. How did he think he wouldn’t be found out trying to present them as his own thought

  • @devanshidesai6368
    @devanshidesai6368 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Radhi seems to think & overthink alot before speaking and sharing her stuff like she doesn't seem like she can just speak without a thought in her relationship, i thought relationships are supposed to be carefree safe spaces & not so careful. But if they are ok with it and they are happy and in love . Best wishes and God bless to them . Cause in the end it's none of our business

  • @Andrea-Rose
    @Andrea-Rose ปีที่แล้ว +1

    💖💖💖

  • @vp7027
    @vp7027 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So all these years of gyan , book on love relationship and did not do the basic courtesy of discussing with partner on what the other person is also comfortable sharing !

  • @rachelp9051
    @rachelp9051 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I feel like he shares but she’s not good with the attention of the world judging her, that’s difficult for her…He is open and wants to share to help us

  • @38babe1
    @38babe1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Radhi, thank you 😊 my beautiful daughter's and i are sensitive. I find it hard to communicate let all our emotions out at once.
    I appreciate my husband for his patience.
    Thank you, jay, for that example of processing. I am the person who used to hide and fight.
    I am still learning to control my outburst.
    Radhi, thank you for being vulnerable we felt your authenticity. Thank you.

  • @nandini2999
    @nandini2999 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Both are bro n sis from last life

  • @faithclifford5893
    @faithclifford5893 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I would be very frustrated if my husband wrote a book about our love, well maybe if he kept it all sweet and corny. Then nobody would believe any of it. Radio's emotions are valid.

  • @elsadiaz2308
    @elsadiaz2308 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I perceive she is not happy with him . She feels less than him or not worthy of him. She is crying because she is not completely at peace with him. But that is my perception of her. She is a beautiful soul trying to measure up to him.. he needs to stop been so perfect even though he says he is not but he acts to know everything.. everybody comes for his advise….to confess to him. He needs to pay more attention to his wife before is too late .. that is my humble opinion for how I see she cries.

  • @manasia5322
    @manasia5322 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Man, I would not want to be in Radhis shoes and married to a philosophical and ideological person. Life is too simple and short to complicate with a play of words and actions.

    • @surlespasdondine
      @surlespasdondine ปีที่แล้ว +3

      actually people like that often focus on what's important and that simplifies life a lot.

  • @laurie-felishalazarre2916
    @laurie-felishalazarre2916 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are husband and wife but you look physically alike

  • @jameshue388
    @jameshue388 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She’s yawning come on, I hope she’s honest

  • @honeyrenee01
    @honeyrenee01 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This was very personal and I appreciated this. Nothing is perfect and the absence of perfection is not imperfection. It’s called a blessing.
    Marriage is work in itself, and I would imagine it to be a little more divisive when you factor in that Jay’s career involves HIS learnt experiences and sharing them with others. And as much as we appreciate his blessing to us it may create a standard from which his wife becomes automatically judged.
    I do believe she understands he will always share his experiences and is comfortable in him doing so, and she appreciates how he does it but that doesn’t necessarily mean she may want to do the same.
    That seems like a challenging space to be in when you wholeheartedly didn’t ask for the thing happening while navigating how to respect and support her husbands choice to make people happy.
    I understand how at the same time however, it being compares her to a standard to judge perfection against.
    This was a wholesome reminder and good example of knowing the importance of how and when to be selfless and show humility for the betterment of your marriage. No one said it would be easy but she’s showing grace through its challenge and I respect her for revealing it. ❤

  • @himiyo8619
    @himiyo8619 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Strange they haven’t had these conversations before, in private.
    Also was this video sped up because the movements look jerky and unnatural, it’s distracting and weird looking.

  • @sunnydays2020
    @sunnydays2020 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I wish my partner would open up and be close to me. 17 years of marriage cannot even talk about intimacy or any issues around it. I am basically living to die at this point.

    • @jayshettyshorts
      @jayshettyshorts  ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Remember, building a strong and healthy relationship takes time and effort, but it's never too late to make positive changes. With patience, kindness, and open communication, you and your partner can work together to build a deeper connection and stronger intimacy. ❤️

    • @sunnydays2020
      @sunnydays2020 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@jayshettyshorts Thank you so much for your work and videos 🙏🙏I am so grateful for your reply. I will keep trying. I appreciate you saying there is still hope.
      Partner seems to be in denial and thinks that things are fine. So my first job is to convince him that is not the case. Also the ego comes into play and he shuts off and there is just no getting close to him. I don't want to end the relationship and I know every relationship takes effort no matter how compatible we are. I just hope he gets on the same page with me.
      Thank you so much again for taking the time to respond 💐

  • @Cindyrelisha
    @Cindyrelisha 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This man's look good at CVenergy is just too off for me and screams narcissist?! He callef her "bro" whike tryint to fake console her

  • @MMat-bs1qs
    @MMat-bs1qs 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It seems he is capitalizing on his relationship with her, and he really should consult with her before putting it in social media...he sounds like a narcissist...though he seems to try hard to be likeable, but his examples and research is pretty lame, not a scholar....I feel that she has to put everything now on social media and in the public as he wants to use it as currency...and want to portray this image him as this highly knowledgeable person, but in fact he is now become a capitalist, that can be commodify it...she sounds pretty unhappy and he doesn't seem to have patience or compassion, and not sure how he could actually be monk and even that is being capitalized. He's always looking for validation in her eyes and they are not really connecting.

  • @hscox3057
    @hscox3057 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wtf is wrong with their accents 🤣