THE BIRDS AND THE BEES WITH GEORGIE NDIRANGU & OVER 25
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 5 ต.ค. 2022
- IT'S FINALLY HERE! Our much awaited collaboration with Over25 and Georgie Ndirangu, courtesy of Durex Kenya, is finally here!
In today's episode, the Panel decodes the spicy topic of sexual performance and how it influences social behaviour among African youth today.
Through dialogue, they go through various topics such as the relationship between sex and intimacy, whether money affects sexual performance and who bears the responsibility to buy condoms in a relationship.
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an absolutely wholesome conversation. Hope you guys know that this is the first time a lot of us are hearing a structured, mature convo about sex, by Kenyans on top of that! and we've been on earth for two decades. mantalk ke is the gift that keeps giving.
wishing yall the best as you keep up the good work
Ivy is looking superb 👌...outfit, makeup drop dead gorgeous girl
Also when she gets into this reflective, present & observing mood 😍 Just full of grace🙌🏾
She is sooooooooooooooo beautiful ❤❤
Jules is soo intelligent. I love her
Yees. So intelligent!
Absolutely love the flow. No one is talking over the other, respectful and yet you are 7 whole people.
Everytime I watch Jules talking, I cant help but admire how real and intelligent she is!
I love this episode😊
She's so relatable...kwa ground venye kuko😁😁
And the confidence
This is such a RICH conversation. I bumped into Eli a week ago and I will repeat the same thing I told him right here.
I am a mother to one wonderful son and seeing the 3 men on this set and the kind of conversations they have I know there is hope for Boy child!! We see you and we appreciate you.
i see you mami :)
'Successful people smell nice.' My high school teacher used to say.
I can relate to Georgie talking about smell in between conversations.
When Georgie called Jules Baby! Oh,my heart!!!!! Love to see it!
I heard this & I was like hold up!!
I think I'll have to rewatch now😅😅 which minute was it?
Might she be his baby fr aki...juu he said it effortlessly😍
Which minute? 😂
@@mercymurugi259 lmao, i went back to get this part, lol... at minute 1.01.01... 'on the same baby, before we continue'... 😍😍😍😍 we internet in laws are ready
The way Ivy looks at Eli, like a good small brother
Okay, Ivy's outfit and make-up!🔥🔥
Whoever does her makeup is amazing. I keep staring at her. ❤️
Her shoes are just perfect for the outfit 😮
I agree with Georgie there is just something about a woman who has her stuff together ,not only finances but also self presentation etc so attractive
In a conversation with my friends we found out that most of us our first experiences were not overtly consensual. And in those blurred lines were young girls who had never planned to be in those positions in the first place. Leading from Georgie's story, I think its important for ManTalk Ke as the male thought leaders of our time to address this question of non-consensual sex as men, especially first time sex or drunk sex. And to put tyre to the road on what vulnerability REALLY looks like.
My mum was in the HIV space and she made it her mission to educate us and all her friends/families children. First time she intentionally had the bird and the bees conversation with us was after church. She bundled all my "cousins" to our house and we watched some of the tapes she used to educate communities on HIV. Then after we had a conversation. As time went on she incorporated a session in the teens and youth sessions in church especially during the holidays.
When we got older (campus) she would give my male friends/ neighbour's condoms and make sure they knew her door was open to have a conversation and /or if they needed a restock.
Great job with this episode!!!
This is so fantastic, so powerful to have an adult that you can openly converse and seek answers and learn without judgement.
Wow , this is nice .....
God, I love Georgie! Such a wholesome being.
I literally just said that outloud 🙂
Yes. There's something about him.
Same WhatsApp group. TOO MUCH LOVE FOR THE GENTLEMAN 😉
@@carolinewanjiru3175 there's everything about him!
NOW THIS IS A PODCAST. Informative, respectful, and we'll leveled voices.
Can we please have part 2😭. Great minds. The conversation was gold. I enjoyed every second of the podcast
1:09:02 Ivy Clapping Them Hands For Shiko Like That's My Bestie. Go Bestie.💛
This Was Heavily Loaded And Very Informative. Thank You All.🎉
Oscar gets lost in his conversations sometimes.
I love Ivy so much. She's smart, strong, focused, driven. Aaah !
Jules and Oscar would make a beautiful couple 💑 😇
Intellectually and in all levels phew 🙏😁
I feel like they would not last though. Jules wears her emotions on her sleeve and Oscar on the other hand seems to love building emotional walls time and time again. Just my opinion😊
My thoughts when I saw them yaani
Truee
False! Based on previous episodes, he sounds like a complex man (or at least tries to act like it) that is looking for a woman that doesn't exist. Good luck to him.
Jules is a beautiful and real soul!
The "Nimechill" advert was my first experience of knowing that abstinence was cool. If not for that advert i probably would have had sex too soon. Mainstream media is very influential especially on young adults and teens. I'm glad i abstained. This is a great podcast and i hope we can see more of Mantalk and Over25
This conversation had so many gems! Not just sexual performance, interests in relationships, how relationships have evolved, intimacy versus intercourse, financial situations for both men and women. I loved this! I am so curious do men become more attracted to women who have higher financial status as they get older?
My experience has been so different, I have heard men want to feel needed and for us independent women( financially) I find there’s a struggle to signify that need. Simply because we can do/provide for ourselves and do so often.
T4m
The answer is in the question. Men are conditioned to provide and protect and women want to feel secure in the relationship. Jules alluded to this when she spoke about the pregnancy and postpartum period. So no, men would not ordinarily put themselves in a situation where they are the underdog.
And yes yes yes women are supposed to be chosen. We are chosen! That’s the normal way. We only get to choose after we’ve been chosen. We don’t get to choose first and we shouldn’t really. A man will choose you as a woman and then you decide whether you’ll accept him that’s where women get to choose.
Do you have a podcast or TH-cam channel?,I'm a fan of yours already!
They're aren't many women who follow God's natural law. And it's hare to find such a tribe of women with a conservative value system.
You know its gonna be lit when you have Georgie, mantalk and over 25 together. Thank you for the great conversation guys.
That moment when Jules explained having to strategically place the condoms (under pillows) so they are within reach, and Oscar laughing deeply is 'television gold'. 🤣 I almost fell off my seat. Like surely, why are we doing all these acrobatics as if safety isn't a priority for all involved?
A much needed conversation. Not just for Kenya but also a lot of African societies where talking about sex is taboo or frowned upon. Y'all are doing the Lord's work.
I love Ivy’s outfit😻
Every time i always want to say this but i find it hard comment but today i had to say that Jules is absolutely beautiful...like damn...if i ever meet you I'll tell it to you on your face because damn aren't you beautiful!
Yea, I was also staring at her like damn!!! 😍😍😍Kwanza as oscar was speaking... Was even wondering in my head, "how is this babe single???"
@@carol76798 I knoooow.... combine the beauty and the words that come from her mouth... I'm obsessed...i wanna be Jules when i grow up🤗😂...wisdom and beauty...deadly combination
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Beauty and wisdom is top notch 🔥🔥🔥🔥
As Lorelai said, "A guy having money is like a girl being pretty. You might not marry a girl just because she's pretty, but it sure does help!"
I miss Gilmore gals
@@marylineachiengoduor5920 I think she's referring to Marilyn Monroe's quote in Gentlemen Prefer Blondes😁
Its definitely true that gen z doesnt fear HIV... the conversation definitely needs to be aired early enough.
Waah! Jules, your wisdom knows no bound.❤
My favorite people in one set. I love you guys so much.
💙 💙 💙 Now, men need to understand that sex is something you do with a woman. Not to a woman... That's where the problem begins...
Also, not all people love sex. When we understand this, we shall explore other forms of intimacy in our romantic relationships...
Women have been shamed for having sex for so long. It's like we are not supposed to have or want sex...
Im happy for such conversations. They are opening doors to sexual freedom and safe sex.
This was such an insightful conversation. The goal for my channel, is to be as bold in my truth as y'all are❤️. Loved the episode. As a Marketing major, I like how you managed to push the brand without being so much 'in the audience's face'. Y'all are such good vibes. Synergy on 💯. Manifesting this for my channel 🕯️🕯️🕯️. Y'all are dope ❤️
Would love another episode of all of you again but this time add Bien aimé too🔥🔥🔥
At 16:40 I like how they all agree with Eli in unison Yeeeaaaahh like as if they're in a choir ,he must have hit the nail on the head
The way Ivy is looking at Eli!!!!
I’d love another episode where all of you are together,I loved this one too
Jules' IQ is polished and it effortlessly shows....She got the 'Ooh wow' perspectives
This conversation was great. Clarifies so many misconceptions about sex and intimacy. When Ivy mentioned about types of initimacy i quickly related
Jules is just super beautiful 💖
How Jules looks at Oscar and How Eli looks at Ivy😄🤭Can't be the only one who noticed this. Especially in the first few minutes
Possibly one of the best episodes. You guys should have more episodes together. Always wholesome...and the humor is on point as well.👍💯
Wow. The flow of this conversation is everything to me.
I thought it might be noisy because of the number but I was exclusively disapproved.
Great Minds. Definitely thirsty for more from the three 🥂
Did Georgie just call Jules baby at 1:00:58. It sounded so niiice
Me returning just to hear it😂
Awwwww yessss 🥰🥰
Didn’t sound like a friendly baby. It would be odd if it was. I’m hoping it’s a romantic baby😊.
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@@africanqueen9567 I really hope it's a romantic baby too.
I can listen to Georgie Ndirangu all day
Thank you so much team for this information,i would love to hear more of this. I wish it was possible to subscribe twice. Anyway i have the notification bell on.
This is such a crucial conversation. There really are no condom ads like there used to be as Lornzie pointed out. It feels like the concern amongst Gen Z is only pregnancy because most of them don't want kids, and even so they are more open to abortion than previous generations. So there's a lot of recklessness that needs to be addressed.
I love what Jules said about buying condoms. I still buy, carry and have condoms with me. 😊😊😊😊😊🤣🤣🤣🤣. Best thing one can have for themselves as a lady. Some people ( both ladies and gentlemen) don't appreciate lady who carries or has own condoms. It's unfortunate
My namesake, its more liberating when one abstains from sexual engagements. There is no need to carry condoms with you. I know we are in a world we feel more woke, educated, exposed, moneyed, travelled etc but let your dignity as a woman not change with the world's patterns.
There is something in my gut...a big gut feeeeeeeeeeeeling that Jules and Georgie can make a perfect couple...Too bad relationships are not formed on my gut feeling.But Georgie pleaseeee try something with Jules...shoot your shot...There is something good here..#loveyouall.
As Gen z, yes i don't relate with those sites but this was such an eye opening and triggering conversation.
I loved every bit of it..such beautiful minds!👏👏👏
I love this team! I enjoyed the conversation. Very Educative!!
Georgie and Jules please😏
What a great conversation, and I love the conversations in the comments section too! Thank you for the duty of care to the next generation on safe sex education. I hope it is taken up with more tenacity , and on more platforms because we just need to village-in the next generation too.
Georgie’s ‘Warrrap’ took me out😂😂😂
Same 😂😂😂😂
You guys are just a vibe, we need more of this all of you..
This was such An amazing conversation…thank you so much for sharing .
Daamn, this was a deep dive kinda conversation, the authenticity and vulnerability in it is just incredible. Good job ManTalk
This was such an insightful and intimate conversation. Youthful spaces give a chance to openly talk about sex, however, having such talks with kids and teenagers at their level is something that parents and adults also need to learn. Otherwise, this conversation made me know the things I never knew I didn't know.
Love.
Just Ivy is just beautiful!
Please bring Georgie around more often ❤️
Here for Georgie honestly.
Thank you for this all participating performers hehehe. Enjoyed and learnt alot. Love from UG 🇺🇬.
Love love this amazing episode and alot of learning aswell 👏
Had this discussion on the background while doing some work and I'm sure as h** going to watch it again with much needed attention. It's broad and so insightful.
Love the episode and the balanced discussion.
Please work on the sound
Bravo! Now, this priceless information that every young person needs to hear. Growing, I honestly never got a chance to know all this. It was all self discovery and googling! I can relate with most of the panelists' experience. Good job ladies and gentlemen!
I've got to say, Eli's meticulous and articulate nature to subjects is goals. I enjoy Georgie's wit and perspectives I literally follow him everywhere to see what he's got in mind. P.S Just on media platforms 😊
This is my favourite episode this season...kudos guys
Loved this conversation and the openness of it all. We need more of these happening
Before having the knowledge on it...the responsibility is everyone's to teach on the safety precautions to take during sex including using a condom...(starting from parents...older siblings...schools...churches... government...)but immediately you have the information and are old enough to apply it...the responsibility is YOUR'S!!!❤️
The sound is good. I appreciate that.
When Jules_her keeps referring to hip hop lyrics and Oscar relating 😋😚and knowing they're both on theee journey
My ship HER_OS is definitely sailing 🥂🥂
I doubt.
Mamunju munju 😂😂😂😂 Man I've laughed so hard. Wah! Jules now like I feel really old. This conversation is needed especially with this young generation. I loved how you guys did it.
I think for me as a Healthcare professional, I think that we have a heavy duty to be educating everyone who rolls through the hospitals or clinical setting about sex and how to protect themselves.
Wow GREAT Conversation, am learning new perspectives.
Middle of ma-munju munju...loved this episode🤍
This has been very insightful and eye-opening. When I was 14, my mom had "the talk" with me. I wanted the earth to open and swallow me then, but now I'm more than glad she did. She told me I could always go to her if anything happened, like if someone took advantage of me or I got carried away. Her open-mindedness is something I hope to emulate with my children. Knowing I had her backing helped me abstain and stay out of potentially dangerous situations.
I love George ugh😍
Great conversation.
I believe it should be a mandatory course taught in schools...I live in the States, and here we were taught in 11th grade which is equivalent to form 3. This was about over 16yrs ago when I was in high school. Although, I believe they have changed the curriculum and begin touching on the subject a little sooner now, I believe 7 or 8th grade as kids have begun to be curious early. (It might not be as deep in depth as they do in 11th grade)
I worked with children as a swim coach and the stories I would hear were bonkers! I mean we are talking 11- 16yrs of age.
The Ministry of Education has a responsibility to educate and parents need to follow up and have the conversations early.
I'm a Mom of Two both boy and girl and I promise myself to make sure I have these conversations with them. (My parents didn't) I was just told "don't get pregnant and don't get AIDS!" I am with shikii I may not know how, but I'll make sure to find out how.
I learnt soo much from Ivy and Shikii's episode with the child psychologist...
I would request that they continue with the Issamotherhood platform and continue with that informative content. Oh how I miss it. I think that's what it was called.
How Georgie's face changes when lornzie says broke men have nothing else to offer 😂
It's such a horrible statement 😭😭😭
@@askmethings737 It's the truth and it hurts🤷🏾♀️
The uncomfortable truths 💯
Broke women too.
It's a turn off in both measures.
@@G_dan Ha! You're one of those boys who ask women "What do you bring to the table" aren't you?
Great conversation.
Ivy please tell is where you got those boots,they look bomb. Thank you.
Great combo of people..lol❤️ ... wisdom overflowing 🔥🔥👌
ABSOLUTELY the conversations we need to have.
Great and timely conversation!
The question abt the coloration between money and sex depends on where you are in your journey.
That was actually fun and so educative.
I looooooooove this conversations so much am addicted all of you soo wise sooo deep soo deep so informative witty ily all please do this more and more have this comnined podcasts weekly sooo cute
Imagine what the outcome would be when Man Talk Ke and Over 25 decide to drop an Urban Tv Show.
Good points @ min 42:09 - 44:00min. Well said. Emphasize more on that.
Sex was created by God for a husband and wife to enjoy it in the context of marriage. Singles abstain and honor God with your bodies (Genesis 39:9).
Exactly, however the world has disobeyed God's natural order and mankind do what they want.
Good job guys! Important conversation
Very good discussion ! I enjoyed every bit !
I have waited for this episode aki
Yeeeey🥳🥳🥳my favorite content creators
I love the art in the background. Could you let us in on the artist’s name 👩🎨?
Was very insightful wa shld have more of this conversation and have normality in them
I have been waiting all week....damn
Amazing conversation. We have youth friendly facilities funded by local and international donors that educate and provide SRHR ( sexual reproductive health & rights) and we have young people who are champions of this. I’m one of them. At county level we have tried to develop policies on the same . The only challenge is that this is not allowed in schools . We use the youth friendly spaces , inter-generational baraza and youth dialogues . The main challenge is also funding and sustainability
Lovely. I’m also a sexual and reproductive health rights advocate. The situation is exactly as you pinned it down. When it comes to schools and why they don’t allow educators is that unfortunately there has not been a structured source therefore there’s also a lot of people that can easily misinform children and give personal opinions rather than facts... I think the creation of a decent sex education structure with a uniform syllabus is badly needed. In the meantime let’s continue the work in the spaces that we can 😊
It's both the male's and female's responsibility, thank you for the wonderful episode
Ivy with the money pointers Everytime 😂😂
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