Your View Ladies Discuss Things Women Should Do To Look Exciting To Their Husbands
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- Relationship expert, Theo Akatugba shares tips on what women need to do to remain exciting and youthful to their husbands. #YourViewTVC
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Why should women always have to be the one prevent their men from side chicken, there's nothing any woman can do to keep or loose a man. You can only keep a man that wants to be kept
Ade,you can keep a man by pretending he is the one inflicting the sexual pain
Because it is easy for men to lust after a woman flaunting her sexuality because women knew the game too well among themselves because that is how some won their husband. The females body power is real & is what they have deplored over centuries & till tomorrow it will continue to happen. Men become more attractive as they grow older & that is why some women preferred older men.
That's a smart statement. This is the most intelligent words I have heard from a woman, the fact that " there is nothing any woman can do to stop a man who wants side chicks from going for them". The earlier woman realise that the better for women especially Nigerian women who leave in false marriages for financial reasons and status.
Thank you my sister! The thing just tire me with this matter of husbands side chickens. MTCHEEEEEEEW.
@@ogunsoladare2613Majority of women don't find men attractive as they grow older. It's their money.
A woman's Beauty comes from her state of mind.
But men do not read minds
@@azukaorumgbe7856 what she is trying to say is that beauty radiates out from within. If she is passing through stress and her husband does not appreciate her, then the beauty fades. Not only the woman, even men look more handsome when they have less stress and supportive wives.
Explain, Jegus, Dr of psychology
@@azukaorumgbe7856 if you are a man worthy of a good woman and you cannot “read her mind”, it simply means that you are uncaring and selfish not to know or guess when ur woman is hurting, and make an effort to ask. You expect women to read ur own minds and attend to ur every need but you don’t even care to make an effort to reciprocate.
The man just said the whole truth. Marriage is the CENTER of our lives
Every woman should look good for themselves period!!!
I just hate this mindset of making men feel it is their right to cheat....as in we are taking it like it is normal
I don't know why o🤣🤣🤣😂
I know right it's crazy
Talk to Abraham's wife in the Bible. Start from there.
These men need to marry their sidechicks and give their fellow men a testimony on whether the grass was greener on the otherside. Couples who work together consciously to make each other happy succeed. Marriage is not one way, where the responsibility is on one person to make the marriage work. If a woman marries a man who's a womaniser, it will continue in their marriage, and to save face, he will blame the wife. If a man marries a woman who is materialistic, it will continue in marriage, and she can go as far as leave him when life gets tough financially. Marriage is who you marry. If you don't want wahala, ignore romance books and movies - they are fiction. KNOW a person before you marry them. Heck! Be best friends. If you are a go-getter, marry a go-getter like yourself. If you love money, marry someone who loves money. If you love sex and kinky stuff, marry same. If you are a fitness buff, marry same. If you love travelling and adventure, same. If you love God, marry someone who loves God. A lot of people claim to love God, but you know what I mean by marrying someone who loves God. Don't marry someone who claims to share similar interests with you "in words" but have no history to back it up. Even their close friends will be like: "really? since when do you like skydiving?". If you are vain person, marry someone who is vain also. Because .... Some women are pressured to look good, but it's not their natural self to wear the wigs, lashes and make-up. Some men like simple life, but feel pressured to have it all. Know yourself, know what you want, marry someone with same thinking .... not someone who is being someone they are not, because of whatever reason.
What men don't realise is that when they marry that side chick the cycle continues. The side chick becomes a wife bears children cooks cleans she doesn't give the man the attention he was enjoying b4 etc its men that have the problem. Let them work on themselves
Mariam, "we should have a class where they sit these men down and teach them about pregnancy🤰"😂🤣🤣🤔There is so much talk about age, getting old, old age etc.but age should not stop us from enjoying life,there should be planning in life. Raise the kids and start enjoying your life again rather than thinking you're old and life is passing you by.That thought of getting old alone is enough to age anyone.Thoughts create reality. Sending lots of love and light. Thank you.
To be fair though, there aren't classes to teach women about pregnancy. You learn about it when you are pregnant, and so does or should your partner if they care.
I have been working from home since the pandemic. Everytime my husband comes back home, I'm always on the computer working; now I know why he's always looking seriously when he gets home. Thank you very much ladies and gentleman, you have really unveiled a lot today. God bless you all. I will make amends.
Oh wow Theo Akatugba used to live in Ghana 🇬🇭. Aging is looking good on him.
I like the guest,he is so funny and making sense.
this man is well informed he really understands men's nature and men dont talk about it enough.
The guest has really hit the nail on the head. It's a bitter pill that we've got to swallow as women. Marriage is highly demanding for a woman, so, if you're not ready for the whole package, pls just remain single and happy.
Unfortunately, when they are single they are often unhappy
Men can be of greater help too
Mr Theo Akatugba is aging gracefully. I have known him from his days on the radio, very brilliant journalist. He is even more brilliant on life issues, full of raw wisdom. From the comments section, it's obvious many people learnt a lot from his wealth of wisdom. Thank you Mr. Akatugba.
FEELS SO GOOD HAVING ALL MY SEXUAL CONTENTS CLEARED WITHOUT TRACE, IT’S ALL THANKS TO THIS GUY.
This man is so full of wisdom, I agree with everything he said.
Great discussion and the guest really spoke what a man desires above all else! Great work ladies
I listened to your presentation and read some of the comments and this us to the guys who commented they looked for a side chick or option ...
Hi. Have you changed in some ways since your early days? Physically and in the way you talk to your wife and morally support her? And are you providing at least 80% of the needs in your household. Hope you haven't grown a pot belly or added any extra fat to your waist line? It is ok for a woman to cate for herself and look good. But you can't ask a woman to have a perfect body after you become a father of 3. Do you realize how much changes pregnancy brings to a woman's body? Yet, if you have no kids together, all he'll will be released on the same woman. I hope you help with taking the kids to and from school and with their homework at home? Do you help make meals, or serve yourself after she finish cooking or do you sit and get served and cleaned after? Is she working outside tge home to pay the bills? Then come home to a 2nd full time and unending work. I am asking all these, and this is not an all encompassing list, because if your answer to any of these is a "no", then, you are the one killing that woman. And you actually can help her be and look what you desire. Your side chick gets her upkeep pay from you. Is mostly well rested. Have time for personal care and strategic moves to give you all manner of Do overs in bed while your wife barely has time for herself all because she wants her family to not fail. Think it through guys and do the needful and you'll get back what you put into her. Above all, respect her in your actions and words. She'll return the best to you because you treat her well. One more thing, that pot belly she's not complaining about or looking for a side guy about, try and exercise and diet so you can look the same way as you were when you met years ago. That is assuming you have a pot belly. Lol. All the best people.
Not pot belly...the noise the private makes after all...a woman should find a quiet place to make love...leave home, open her mouth to feign pains during sex,talk dirty...not at home where you dont want the children to know what you are doing at home or inside
They can't be Prime time for ever .that's why one must marry for love 💘
Regular customer
Exactly, husband and wife would grow old together if they really love each other and not looking for a substitute because one party looks older to the other
Not just for love, compatibility is a great key
Just watched this now. Very insightful. Mr Theo is right. Pleaee invite him more.
This your invited guest is something else oo. He's cracking me up 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I was rolling on the floors 😂😂
Today's topic was loaded, absolutely value packed. Women should endeavor to take one or two tips to help them in their relationship.
Thanks for bringing this guest on TVC. You ROCK!!?
Your guest is very knowledgeable.
This is a wonderful session
My husband has the empathy oh. If our children are sick, my husband stays awake. I don't know about men that can sleep when their kids are sick.
I have empathy as well but I think he was talking in general terms not to all men. Even your husband having empathy, you as a mom would have more concerns and empathy for you child when he/she was sick.
Keep riding that horse until he.....
He's a man who knows his job description. It's natural for a father to feel for his sick child
Hi I am loving this topic. I love when all of you are present. Happy birthday , you share same birthday with my daughter. May 24th. Mama o no gba
Great discussion and superb guest.
"a man is a beast when he's not cultivated properly",I m learning
Modupe mind your language
@@andrewomo5429 ,I am quoting the speaker....., excuse me
'That means he is enjoying' .Aunt Yeni wouldn't kill us. LoL.
Please always bring him so much wisdom
Interesting conversation!
Really loved this discussion, an eye opener.
Fun...fun...fun....fun...keep it up. Poor people dont have share in this discussion. Middle class are curious....the working class is panting hard...hope katugba gives the realistic solution ...it is difficult to kick habits male or female. Wash boxers God help men..women are neater....
He is so correct thank you
I enjoyed the show, very interesting show and funny...your guest is amzing
i gbadun you guys , our guest today is brilliant and honest
Favourite episode...love how he kept making references to God's word
I suggest you have a men segment where mentor younger men. You will be amaze how many people will learn.
Awesome discussion 👏
Loving this
SOLUTION:
Bible days men where 100% the family's bread winner. That way women had all the time to keep the home front (children, home ambience and her body and spirit in most amiable state).
Where a man can afford to take care of all the bills as well as pay the wife salary to maintain herself to look good for him, the woman should be a full time house wife to ensure the children are well nurtured physically, spiritually, emotionally etc.
Where the man cannot pay 100% of the bills, and needs the support of the woman, he should be matured and reasonable enough to also share maximally the home front duties ( taking care of children, house chores etc.) so as to remove depleting burden from his wife.
Men should learn to see and operate marriage as a partnership with their wife and not with a lordship/superior mindset.
Thank you.
I LOVE THIS MAN
Everyman saw something before he married you, keep up that person that he saw and he will keep loving you..
Mr Akatugba is 100% correct. Men should be providers and women should focus on the home.
I love this man analysis
Beauty here and there. A woman gives a lot in marriage and general up keep. Men should learn to listen and appreciate and support the woman mentally. If you want her to remain good looking make her feel so. The side chick won't remain young for ever. Most men are selfish.
This same men grow pot belly and women bear and understand that life happens, we need to start talking to boys before they take peoples daughters and expect smtin that may not be quite obtainable anywhere
My thoughts exactly
Thanks alot Angel.
You are very right
Best show ever, he should come more often
God bless every Great, Good mothers out there. Not an easy task, however some are genetically lucky. We shouldn't forget the story won't fit for all.
My Mum is not a Millionaire, she's closer to 70 but still looks like 40 with 6 Son's. I am 45 but looks much younger like 35. This is another perspectives to whether women looks older due to childbirth or not. As mush I totally understand, but not for everyone and not in all situations.
I love dis show
This man is a genius
I love the guest
Weldone sir
27:39 “Ok” Aunty YK is speechless 🤣
I love Nyma! I'm always itching for her point of view
Same here 😇
Pls I would want u to please discuss about Menopause period and post Menopause stage, the signs and all that
Morayo, I feel you ja re. It's no crime oooo. Ha, women, women, may God help us.
Love your wife as a commandment👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Which culture...in Nigeria?
@@andrewomo5429 it is not a culture in Nigeria it’s a commandment in the Bible( read yours)
@@Bukola220 culture rule people not foreign religions. This is why a yoruba woman will not behave like an Ibo woman vice verse
@@andrewomo5429 your reply is actually not making sense Mr.. How does A simple” love your wife in every phase she is” metamorphose into so much words. If you don’t understand that. Keep your data
Bible over culture. We will all give account of everything eventually when our spirit leaves our body, and that matters most.
Ladies need to learn to release a man's responsibility on to him and fathers need to make it their duty to teach their sons. We have been programmed to think that things concerning children are left to a woman.
You have a point but do those fathers know their responsibilities? So many fathers can't give what they don't have, meaning many fathers don't know their responsibilities at home.
I dont totally disagree with your points BUT kindly observe how most women in a subtle manner in a bid to gain control of the kids as a weapon take up responbility of the man for immediate and future weapon against the man when the need arises.
Oluwa kemi Akinola dis ur quest is a some thing I enjoy him
Mr. Theo Akatugba, my husband’s favorite guest on YourView. He enjoyed the show.
Most men don't know what they want. YES!
I like the discussion and the guest panelist made some good points.
I do think that the guest panelist was a bit bias towards men and not to the whole family dynamics (including women and children) because the needs and desires of women was not mentioned comprehensively🙏🏾
I kept saying the same thing while viewing.👍🏽
the needs of women are mentioned everyday, on social media. no one talks about the few things that matter to men. but he did and he got it right. if you hear this things about men often the way we hear treat a woman right everyday, he wont be sounding 'a bit biased to you'. it is a reality of life and it cannot change. now that you are aware how can you work with it? is really the way foward
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 love listening to this topic and I learnt alot
THIS IS SOOOO DEEP🔥🔥. INFACT I'VE COME TO REALIZE THAT RHEMA DOES NOT COME FROM THE CHURCH ALONE BUT THIS SHOWBIS LITERARILY A REVELATION.
She (side chick) see herself as the solution provider! Ouch!😂
Right in time for me. Am getting married in 90days
Congratulations 👏👏👏👏
Congratulations
Congratulations !!!
congratulations
Using absolute words like "always", "never" will create a lot of objections because there are always exceptions to every rule. He ought to have used words like "often", "typically".
Morayo, proving not guilty for not following hubby out for work out 😂😂😂😀
You either want to learn what men want or not. All this argument and points is not allowing people learn. It’s simple.
Thank you so much!
His voice sounds like that of Pastor Matthew Ashimolowo.
Keep warm, very important...ladies take note...money comes second but cus of the women, money now is first for men now
Yes, some women do not take care of themselves after they marry. Big problem. Women keep on doing and presenting the same things done prior to the marriage. Men get old too, men have medical issues that cause impotence that the wife has to deal with, so then, the wife should get a sideman for excitement? Yes.
@Yvette Daly; our sexual needs (men and women) are different so it's wrong comparison. However, although I detest this, there are women who have sidemen, usually younger men, too.
👍 Exactly!! 😂
Nice topic but let's also talk from the aspect of the man oh. Because some men also relax after they get married. They no longer excercise, have pot belly or become sweet like they were before, etc.
What We need to examine how to Train boys to share the responsibility of the Home, Chores, school Run and entertainiñg their Children and Collective Group Family Quality Time!
I'm really surprised that nobody is mentioning that attractiveness works both ways. Many married men gain weight and develop beer bellies as big as pregnancy! A lot of women feel repulsed by their husbands, but they focus on the good and don't allow themselves to be tempted by other men.
YK is beautiful at her age, love you and your style, Morayo went cold when she heard the better trust. please let's do the needful so that those side chicks will not steal our men. I'm guilty too.
Goat nah goat even when you feed am well at home , it will go outside to eat grass
You mean you are goat...ahhh pele.
These topic of today is loaded
Listen to this man. He can help us women. If you want to know what a man want, that information can come from a man. I have had my husband chasing me for over 39yrs. No one can look better to my husband than I can. I have the magic he needs! Hahaha!
@Shermain
More like you made him lie to you that you are the only sugar in his tea. 😂🏃🏃🏃
No magic hold a man that's not ready to be held. Your hubby chose to be responsible not all men chose to be responsible
The only man that can't cheat is one who is not just a Christian but a lover of God !!!!! Any other man,forget it ,he cheats times 10 ...no b only magic !!!lol...u can't deal with flesh with physical solution
On behalf of my husband; he shows amazing love and care for me. I do not have to wait for his love it is ever present. Just because you can’t stay focus does not mean no one can. I’m just all that and then some. @@dipoajax
@@dipoajax ...and my husband is a real man. One who honors his word, and a true man that honors God and his Word! Not everyone goes to church still seeking cheap assets!
Nigerian men are not involved in the running their homes hence they have the energy for side chicks.
A woman is beautiful if she is kind, respectful even she is getting old. A woman can be beautiful like a Queen but if she is nasty and wicked and no character she is ugly infront of everyone.
I think this guest has a very bais mindset! He really thinks women are just for child rearing, house keeping, looking nice and answerable to males' pleasures. Seriously! I can't believe the nonsense he was saying to excuse unfaithful, adulterous, selfish, lazy, inconsiderate, greedy, moralless and irresponsible men! I totally disagree; once you're in a committed relationship both parties MUST act with integrity, love, consideration, care, and support; if the relationship is to organically flourish and evolve into an evergreen Union regardless of the NATURAL process of either side's maturation! How dear this guest be continously going on about the WOMEN being old, getting and looking old! Not once did he make reference to the man getting old! Some men are a hot mess after marriage too; l guess according to him it's the women's fault abi o? Also some men have beautiful loving women, but they'll still cheat because they lack integrity, self control and morals! ABSOLUTE NONSENSE!!!. 💯 BS!!! WHAT ABOUT WHAT THE WOMEN DESIRE??? Oh silly me; women are NOT allowed to desire anything except to please the man!
l defo won't be approaching this chauvinist for any form of relationship advice!
For future relationship disussions may l suggest the host have so called 'expert guests' from both sex as to reflect more balanced and realistic views!
Everyone grows old not only women....men grow pot belly too....central obesity....i agree with u....everyone learn to take care of self...married or not ...for health reasons not to please anyone
Indeed!
@Just Being Aderonke; Calm down dear and control your emotions. the guest was just narrating what he heard from the men so why attacking him? You are the one that are showing bias mindset towards him. Meanwhile he is spot on with all he said.
'to excuse unfaithful, adulterous, selfish, lazy, inconsiderate, greedy, moralless and irresponsible men!' Mrs judge are you a virgin? have you not ever kissed a boy before?
God bless u
@@ay1ism you made a good point
They forget that they also change
They don't look the same too just as you first met them
U can’t keep a glutton away from overeating
Marriage is for mature adults. Why would a man marry a woman who he knew was educated and would use that knowledge acquired to gain financial Independence now expect she should do jobs she can control? Why not suggest that they manage their time together? It is cooperation between the two of them? Times have changed. The marriage is work that involves the two parties.
In Ibo land or where?
@@andrewomo5429 hahaha
Yes put on make up not face but light sweet lipstick
Omg UK is 60!!!
Please make conscious efforts not to interrupt your guests. I understand that the temptation is very high but please try and take turns instead of talking all at once.
Morayo keeps referring to the guest as Mr Akatugba. Is he Mr or Dr?
Thanks ladies!
16.50 "without erection all this discussion about marriage has ended" :))
Another issue I get is wives now putting more attention and love to their kids than him...
Bro its deeper than that...it manipulation and deception tool or weapon prepared now in the present for the future against the man when the need arises for it to be used. That is they use the children against the man. THEY DONT JUST GIVE ATTENTION FOR NO REASON.
Honestly women needs to reduce this hustling thing and know they make the home. Stop the competition in all ramifications.
See morayo's face
Its very true..that the men should do the work, come home to meet conducive women to respond to their needs. ease their burden and there, exact their authority as men!
That man there among you is nailing it perfectly, but everyman operates in accordance to there wires, like a friend i know very close to me, like when his wife deprived him of often sex. According to him, it makes him have more urge to have her wife more, and because of that he has never cheated his wife. Think this dangerous to men like some men. what do you think sir?
No one can put a man away from sidechick except HIMSELF period, no woman. should be deceive, we ,women should do what is rightful as a wife period.
I have seen Mrs Morayo Brown exercise with her Husband and the first time I saw her she was looking tired
Lols
Well, we can't keep blaming women for everything even for the men mishaps. Pls, teach men to fully take up their responsibilities and also be supportive of their wives.
So you Think it's only the physical look that attract a man to his wife???.
No amount of pregnancy should make a wife throw a knife at her husband. She has anger issues to deal with. She shouldn't blame it on pregnancy.
Have you ever been pregnant? If yes. How many time? Because every pregnancy is different.
It’s not easy to be a mother
I'm not bothered about this sidechicks, thing.
Everything that goes round comes around. Sidechicks TODAY, tomorrow they too will get older and begin to fight their husband over sidechicks...21years Today, she choses to be a sidechick, after some years, she too becomes mummy, she begins to fight younger girls. She now understand the pains she has inflicted on another woman.......many years back.
HMMMM
Please, get professionals who understand Aging and Marriage. Women are Not house cleaners and only there to please the husband. Many husbands are not supportive of professional wives. Well, women have to look for younger men just as some men. This guy would have women with brooms and buckets only to be housekeepers.