Increase your WORTH in 3 Simple Tips & Earn their Respect | Drishti Sharma
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- I was a kid who used to be shy, introvert and underconfident. I had faced a lot of difficulties in making new friends and I thought if I would help others in their task, I could make new friends. But there is a difference between helping others and hurting your self esteem to make new friends.
In this video, I have shared my 3 effective ways to get people to respect you and to know your self-worth. I want you guys to understand the difference between protecting your self-worth and helping others. Do not let people use you and be a smart person to identify other's intention.
Comment down "I know my worth" if you liked this video or if you understood the message that I want to deliver from this video.
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00:00 - Intro
01:11 - Respect yourself first
03:26 - Set boundaries for yourself
05:08 - Learn to say NO
06:26 - Last message
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#knowyourworth #respectyourself #howtogetpeopletorespectyou #howtoknowyourvalue #drishtisharma #drishtiispeaks
I don't know why her channel is underrated, her mindset is so clear
every Gem is waiting to see their True value....Its just matter of time soon the gem get it's Best place
1. Self -respect
2. Set boundaries
- figure out reason for talk
- if their something wrong , tell them but politely.
-learn to say no
- be with people who make u feel good/cosy
3.RESPECT IS MUTUAL!
THANKS 👍
I can relate my situations with your childhood friends.
Self respect is everything 💯
Thanks 👍🏻
Hi Whenever I watch your videos I feel like you are infront of me physically and like a friend we are discussing about new topics.. I feel soo connected with your thoughts.. and every single video is like that -- 'yeah!! This is the topic I am craving for'.
Words can barely express my feelings about you.🥺❤
Damn! This means a lot to me❤️thank you Dost!
Yes,self respect is very important
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So relatable...
When I was in my primary school same happened with me...
But I'm thankful to myself that I realized my self worth before things got worsened and didn't let anyone take me lightly in my high school...
Speaking truth from heart. It is hard to accept this kinda things publicly.
Your way of storytelling, the way you say about yourself/any incident/any other aspect is just wow.
Your intension of not only making yourself positive & better but also sharing your journey to inspire others is amazing.
Your contents are worth watching.
It's been a couple of weeks, I'm watching your videos and I don't get bored watching it 🙂
Thank you so much 🥰
Hare Krishna 🙏🏻🙏🏻💖💙
I respect you how you share your every small thing with us even if the thing was very awkward or sometime feels like ashmed ..you are first love of every introvert..❤️✨
Relatable,I was introvert and shy in my school days but now I am expressive and introvert
Wonderful 👏 expressive and introvert!
I can totally relate your school time story!! Even I faced the same challenges and took exact decisions like yours to come out of that.
Acha laga sunnke ki koi aur bhi hai jo mere jaisa path se guzar Chuka hai..
Btw proud of you drishti di ❤️ keep going
Never put emphasis on talking to someone who is not showing interest talking to you..bcoz end of the day you will end-up with embarrassing thoughts ✌🏼
This video made me recall my my schooling days aswell i also did few awkward things for them however that quote was super amazing applied for all TH-cam videos "information is not knowledge, knowledge is gained by experience and experience leads to wisdom" thanks dristi di lods of love from my side💕
Hey drishti, iam really glad that you have changed a lot from your childhood. You realised that you were losing your self respect and stopped repeating those mistakes. But it really takes a lot guts to share your own mistakes. Keep going! 😊
Drishti , I'm 20.5 years old . I'm lost . Financially not from a good family and not in a financially good situation right now as well. Graduated. Have a lot of bad habits. Want to improve. Trying. Falling down again and again.Confused. Don't know what do. Struggling with different things. I just felt like sharing these things to someone. Your energy feels very good through videos. So shared. 💛
Wish Love , light and positivity to you always. 💛
Dear Chetan don't feel down. I would like to recommend you few things.Just list things in diary which you want in ur life and take action.And see how will ur life change..
Checking if energy is draining or gaining. Such a valid point 👏👏 The way you're conveying is pretty much osm.
I want a video related to your editing skills please make video if you seen comment and reveal your secrets😁😊😊😇 such a awesome👍 ❣️
Definitely 💯
Hie.. those 50 days videos were awesome
Can you teach thumbnail editing skills ??
This content is so relatable to me.your words are enough to create a good mindset. Thanks a lot.. 🌼
Dii due to academic pressure i really feel depressed and i was a good student so my teachers n parents are expecting a lot from me .. but I'm not able to fulfill their demands and I'm not getting time for me .. from your channel i seriously got a lot of health you are like my mentor thank you so much Dii nh i want you ti make 1 more video on failure nd depression .. it will help alot 💗
Actually, maine bhi khud ke respect ki dhajiya uda di thi when I was in school 😟
Anyway, great to have learnt something from this and as you rightly pointed, from the experiences too! 🙌
I'm glad my video helped you Neel❤️
Such a wonderful valuable content ❤️
Though I believe we're of same age but I look upto you as my elder sister showing me the right path to take and follow good values in life 💯
Awesome video didi
And apke videos dekhne ke baad energy level charge ho jata hai 😀
Knowledge ke saath saath ek rasta bhi dikhta hai zindagi ka 👍👍
Keep it up didi.
I'm glad my videos are helping you Gouri🙏💯
Such an informative video..Thank you so much for making this. And yes, I too follow couple of things religiously, which you had mentioned in the video such as,
1. Setting boundaries
2. Saying No
3. Identifying the vibe of the other person and deciding myself whether or not to be friends with them..❤❤
Literally I like your nature,not melody drama ,mirch masala,just practical things, I just love it ❤
Mind set is everything .. as you see your self in your head you will get in your reality .
Love your videos!Your videos always give you good vibes!❤
The major takeaway for me from the video is that I really need to improve my self respect on my love life..Like when I love somebody I give that person all of mine but often I don't get acknowledgement for my efforts in that extent(though the love is one sided, but I know her very long and we are good friends).. She always eulogise her crush's efforts in front of me though she knows that I love her immensely and put many Many efforts...But still idk why when her message pops up, I feel Happy though I know that all my efforts will never be acknowledged...
More power to you Abhirup❤️💯
Thanks di 😀🫶🏻di mai apn mental health ko priority dena suru krdi hu ab phle mai har bat me ye sochti thi log kya sochnge mai ye ki to aur khudko sad rkhti thi but ab mai apn man ka krti hu jo mujhe shi lgta aur ye mujhe happy aur confident feel v krata h😀🫶🏻
I love that BYE in the end !!
It has a different wibe !
I went through a similar low self respect childhood in school, and also college, this video was an eye opener for me and also very pleasing to listen, thank you
I don't watch these kinda videos but i saw you in nova's video and apko dekh kr meeko meri best friend wali vibe aati h not only by behavior or way of talking but by face and expressions also .
You both look dam alike.
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Haha! Thanks Raj❤️
@@drishtiispeaks ♥️
I totally relate to you ...i was also switched from state school not to icse but cbsc and same things happened with me too .... ...i know my worth and today i speak far better English then they do
Drishti video bohot accha hai sahi kaha tumne jab tak hum apni respect khud nahi karenge to dusra to bilkul bhi nahi karega and tumhara neckless bohot accha lag raha hai☺️
I was from ICSE board in mumbai, but here we only spoke in hindi and that to shararat and some pari...all mumbai kids would relate to that show
Didi these are the things which usually people don't care about or wanna teach to there kids but according to me in life these are those valuable lessons which are priceless.✨
So true! 👏💯
I just found your channel two days back while scrolling youtube. I love love love your content. Amazing stuff! Even I had some of these experiences and used to be the same introvert child. I relate to your videos so much.
I want to connect to you. Like I wana talk to you once. Just like that. Because I get your vibe. Please let me know if it is okay with you. Thankyou.
( I am a girl from Ahmedabad, mother on one, my name is Manali)
I am not an introvert but yes I am underconfident. because my English speaking skills are not at par. but after watching this video I feel it's ok I will improve myself... so, thank you so much for this video. it really helps lots of individuals. ♥
Hi, This video made me recall my school days that people bulling me , they don't respect me ....Their meaning of friendship is about drinking and smoking...I understood all these things after 3 years so I decide to leave the school after my 10 and make some amazing friends who gave me respect and also respect my feelings . so I leave my school 2 months ago( I'm just 16 now )......this is totally worth it for me because I found some new friends who always encourage me for my dreams and goals .'
This only because of you Didi ........I started To give respect my self ........😊😊( Waiting for you hear di :)
Thank you for sharing your story with us Nakul!
Hi Drishti,I Love all your videos. You have a great flair of explaining your knowledge. And I can see the amount of hardworking you are putting in your work. Really appreciate your work, from the bottom of my heart. Keep going sister. You are meant for the skies.
drishti dii thank you so Much I can Totally Relate. my story with You I am also in 12 TH standard I am so Underconfident I have Hardly One Friend but but I want to inprove Geneuinly not ( kisi ko dikhana ke liya friend banana) but Genuinly feel Ho. to.... I learned this thing in my EXEPERIENCE OF WHOLE STD 11 ...
thankss so much... you are the BIGGEST REASON OF CHANGING MY LIFE 😊
I'm glad my videos are helping you Vivek❤️
Wow kafi had tak relatable video tha, isi baat pe subscribe kar dia 🥰 ek time pe me bhi dosti ke piche pagal thi,one sided friendship,unko meri koi value nhi thi,bas mere samne queen banna rehta jaise bas wo hi sabse mahan h jaise koi movie ki heroine ho wo, aur me side character,aur me kya chahti hu kya pasand hai kabhi jaane ka try nhi kia,bas apni life career bf baate krna rona dhona,n me samjhti aur sunti thi,jab samjha aaya yaha na value h na respect,to ek din in sab toxic friendship se me nikal gai,aur un logo ne ilzam lagaye ki me badal gai,fight bhi ki 🤣 kafi akela pan bhi lagta tha,but ok ab khud ke sath time spend karana pasand hai 🥰 aur khud me improve bhi kia hai aur bhi karna hai ❤️ khud ka best version banna h 😘
Yes didi!! Same mere sath bi asahi hua tha ..... ab mein kudki respect karte hoon ..✨❤️
You know what ! Even I had a bad schooling period. Same as you I was also studying in an ICSE school but from the very start till my 12th. My school mates were just obsessed with English like they used to judge everyone be it teachers or students for their English speaking skills. I was so scared and self-conscious while saying anything. I wasn't that good at speaking English. Unfortunately this is not the only thing I had faced in my schooling years. When I was in school, I had a very low self-esteem, judgemental school friends, average student etc..etc. It was only after schooling got ended I realized that..I was never dumb or stupid. Making mistakes is a part of learning process. But those experiences has affected me a lot. And I'm still learning to overcome those fears and judgements.
Me comment kiye bina ja rahi thi but last me apne kaha ki aap 3-4 yrs baad bhi reply krte ho means aap ye comment read kroge.. Meri school life till 10th aisi hi rhi he, i can relate with every single word. Really apne ek dam sahi kaha mene bhi no kahna seekha aur ek boundary set ki aur seriously vo log to shyd nhi badle, actually idk because me unse kabhi nhi mili aaj tk but aage jitne bhi mile na vo sab literally apni limit me rehte hai or utni hi respect dete h jitni me unhe deti hu.. :)
Thank u so much di. Much needed video for introverts. ♥️🌟🙂
Hope you gained some knowledge out of it Aakash❤️
@@drishtiispeaks 👼🍫
Every day's you. teaches sumthing new .. ❤ Thanks you soo much 💞
Thank you so much for making these type of videos I love to watch your video on self respect and awareness ❤️
Glad you enjoyed it Sneha❤️
I really started loving your videos and the way you convey your message . Thanks a lot ❤️ . By making these videos you are doing great job.
Didi...you know what...you exactly give me the thing that I want and I should not say but I really think like you...whenever I see your videos I get only one thought that our thoughts are somewhat same type...like the way u talk and think...I really like that...lots of love from south india...I commented now because at the end of the video u said that u will reply even we comment after 4 years ..I guess u will❤❤
This was so amazing ❤️😉
Thank you so much drishti 💃🤍
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How does yt know what video i need to see ...... This was something I really needed .. this will gonna help me to deal with some toxic text messages
Take away- Unsaid boundaries and being informed
This is so relatable. Even I had toxic friends till 9th grade. (Except for a few friends who were actually genuine and decent with me. Some are still my best friends) And they used to use me and disrespect me. But when I reached 10th grade I found one friend who is genuine and straightforward. And she is my bestie till date ❤️ And after that my list of genuine friends added on from when I started my PU. That is why I always admit that I have always enjoyed my college days more than my school days because I got the respect I deserved in college.
I’m also introvert faced same problems but in different way ,,,glad to know that there people like me, and ur tips really helpful ..hope I wil remember them all the time
Aap se positive energy milti hai 😊 Thanks for your suggestions
U have an amazing clear mindset, soo well said....really knowing & valuing yourself is an Art and You are the Artist. Every time I watch your videos i can just feel your confidence, clarity in your talks. #keepthisup ❤❤❤
I have been following you for so long on social media but as you said you reply to every single comment , so just thought to share something . I love your videos & the way you express yourself . When you communicate seems like you're directly communicating to me. I have read books you suggested and I must say they were quite good especially "Attitude is everything" , it's my fav too. So yes, keep growing ...lots of love !! ❤
That means a lot for me dude❤️❤️❤️thank you so much for dropping this comment! Happy reading buddy💕
I had already seen this video a while ago but I watched it again because "That Incident" happened to me today. I'll not disclose it but it was similar to yours. Btw the video is amazing and it gave me the right path to walk on and I'm feeling really Positive,Thanks to you😄
That's very helpful for me thanks drishti di🎉❤
I m here bcoz of ur kindness❤the way u explain ur thought's that's hit my heart❤
I'm glad you liked it Jyoti❤️
Your videos just earned another subscriber 🤗
Addicted to your videos these days 🤞
I love it.. friendship mein bhi self respect ka dhyan rakhna padta hai.... Never knowing that ..⭐⭐⭐ 🥺
Being respected is more important than being loved🌺..,
I just want to say that I love ur videos and it helps me a lot! Thanks dii 🐼❤
Glad this helped you ☺️
" If you give respect you get respect " ye sach me sahi tha guru 🤓😊 I really like that 👍😁😁
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This was exactly happened with me in college and now I don't care about them i enjoy my own company and accept myself the way I'm
Love your content di ❤️🖤✨
The way your present it is just amazing ;)
😌✌️ You are my favourite TH-camr 🖤
Keep growing ✨
I'm glad you liked the video Aishwarya ❤️
Yaar...yeah video muje pehle kyu nahi mili 🥲
Toxic people can really destroy ur life...it's better to stay away from them.
Thanks Drishti...osm video ❣️
Glad you liked it Shraddha ❤️
I can dam relate to U💯I too used to be that pleaser to get fit in bt when u know u r one of kind❣️u get rid of that inferiority complex & embrace your real Worth.Good work 👍👏
Di , whenever I watch you I remember my school days mine also same 🥲 but know I'm also change, and loving myself first ❤ wish i found friend like you ❤ good luck for your chanle
Such a relatable one I've ever found !
I can absolutely relate with you dristhi di ..tqsm di 💗
I did have countless Bullies, frenemies, etc. Even went through Counselling. Thanks for Such Relevant Content!!
Oh! I hope you're over it now Manas❤️
Hi, i am really relating to you since i started watching.... i also go through same issues but after listening to you it feels like i am not alone. All the best!
Really the best person who knows solution to each and every thing best channel pn TH-cam ❤
Hey drishti even i use to do this things in my school day to be friend with someone, because as I have an INFJ-A personality I use to struggle to make friends, even now I also struggle. Because people also find it defficult to connect with me.
But whatever I realised that to make friends we don't need to do things like this.
I'm glad that you understood your worth Dhruv!❤️
Thank you Drishti ❤❤
(Can't express my gratitude 😶😶
Just wanted to say a bigggg thank you for all your effort )
Drishti di....u r my inspiration like literally needed a influencer like u which is my virtual big sister thanku🙂🥀...nd ur hand movements are so beautiful.😘..love u keep growing nd glowing..💫🦋♥️👏♥️.
Can you make a detailed video on set boundaries and how to say people own boundaries politely? It will help me a lot .
Man your editing.... Love it 🤍
Glad you did❤️
Hey Drishti I watch your videos,the same situation is here I'm also introvert person n training to come out of my comfort zone
Same mere maine bi bhut galtiya kiya achai ke chakkar me hmesa apne apko hi galat mana h thanku so much for sharing this pls ap ise or detailed me bnayiye
Same here sister.....I felt like it's my story..
My life and way of thinking is changing a lot bcz of you.... thnku ❤
Seriously this is true. I am too like this. Same to you. Aapke videos humesha helpful hote hain. Thanx dear.
I faced the same.. exact same... when I went to Convent. I studied so much that I topped the school in boards.
hey it was video that realizes we should not underrestimate our self steam.
Alag hi maza hai aapka video dekhne main
Your confidence is like you have 1M subscriber ( one Day you will have obviously)
Haha! Thank you so much❤️😂
Thanks for sharing contant like this drishti di🤩...these are really helpful & relatable 👍
Don't know why but whenever I watch your video it seems like my surroundings fill with positivity🌈 ... keep shining 🦋💫
Diii U r truly an ideal person, the best motivator and guide. ❤
What to do and feel,when SOMEONE u love the most and respect the Most ... even Their Friends and Family ... But also,AVOIDS u Always and Ignores u ??
If i delete thier contact also ...
Their message will come (forwarded message).. again thinking about them will start.. the same old feelings are back
Should i Block them forever?
Or what should I do for that person?? How to even know , whether that person is Interested In me or not ????
I watched your videos from last 2 3 days your content is awesome keep going mam.....
First of all I love the content 😊
I also do have same problem , I am not shy but I do agree to do all work .... And I just don't ever appreciate myself 🥺
I think I am the only who don't have good school memories but thank u soo much for giving me hope + right solution for it ✨✨🦋
Woowwww Drishti Di thanks for such relatable videos
I'm a cbse student from state board school, and i still find a lot of superficial people in my class and i used to think that i need to be like them. But hey, eventually I found out it doesn't really matter if toxic people don't wanna be my friends. It's okay. I'm cool by myself 😊😇🥳🤗🤪
Thank you so much I am very happy that I get lots of way to value myself
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Thank you
And I love you ❤❤❤😊
Thanks for this vedio.ye vedio meri life me bhot help Kiya h.I learn bhot kuch ♥️ thanks
Hey! Lots of love to you, you seem like a very effortlessly authentic and genuine person. Love your content, simple, straight forward,to the point and definitely applicable. ❤️❤️❤️
Means a lot Shruti!
Didi detail video banana , Tamara experience share karva mate Motu thank you, God bless you di ,
may your wish come true, jetalu samjavo chho badhu samjay Jay chhe, sambhadava ni maja Ave chhe
Hey Drishti. Awesome video. Loved it! Thank you so much.
Glad you liked it!
Hey Drishti, I wanted to know how to say No. Can you please make a video on this. Or can you please suggest me some good books so that I can learn how to say no😅
Also thank you Drishti. I'm really a big fan of you. I love watching all of your videos❤️🥳
I'm really grateful that you are on TH-cam. There's loads to learn from youu💕