I'm just so fucking miserable and I can't remember truly being happy or proud of myself, I feel like my family and very very few friends are growing more distant from me everyday and there's nothing I can do about it and I won't find someone who truly loves me for who I am because today's generation has nothing in it but selfishness, greed and toxicity.
i feel you man. i tbh dont have these problems i think that i isolate myself from most people and now that im focused on self improvement i try to talk to people and start a conversation but now i dont have any friends but im trying my best. yesterday i just realised that im never focusing on the fact that i always hide my emotions and when i start crying i cant stop. this made me realise that i just need to make peace with my self. i would recommend to focus on self improvement and dont focus too much on no fap or this and that. just focus on your mind try to accept life and live it to the fullest. im 17 and i know that i have enough time to live life. so please focus on being happy with yourself and i think that all the good things will follow. when u have reached inner peace u will probably automatically watch porn less, go outside more, talk to people, start convos first, stop overthinking and start appreciating the small things in life. please start focusing on yourself try to make inner peace. wish u the best
I wish you the best in life bro, just focus on what you love to do in your life and don't listen to anyone who tells you otherwise, thank you for understanding my problems, believe me we will find that one true happiness, someday with someone, just keep going.
Stop being a silly billy and talk to someone about it. Have a genuine conversation with someone you care with in their spare time, a lot of the time that’s all you really need, just to talk to someone.
The worst part is not the loneliness, the social pressures, or the spiraling depression. What truly stings are the years of falling up and down, the moments of hope that turn out to be false, only to find yourself back where you started, all alone. No matter how much self-improvement, introspection, or effort we invest, this world owes us nothing and will continue as if we weren't even here in the first place. Forever lost, we wander through the days gone by. We navigate this life, with hope as our trace.
I felt that. 3 AM summer night, alone and watching my life flying by. What was I meant to be/accomplish down here? If I'm just an extra in someone else's movie, why should I have feelings and consciousness to be aware of the non-sense that is my life... 😢
I miss it too cause I wasnt getting triggered by these god damn emotions all the god damn time. I used to fear death. Now I laugh at the fool who whishes to live forever.
but many have childhood trauma and because of that they have now those problems lul I had both extra cool and extra harsh parents, but that can´t safe you from other evil...
I don't know how relatable it is for anybody else, but I fall into the trap of feeling comfortable in myself, believing in my heart that i'm better off alone. it feels fine, you feel content with life, and then suddenly it hits you that you're not, and that you've set aside all your friendships to pursue some fallacy. Yesterday I met up with some friends, it was the first time I've had a conversation with anyone aside from family in weeks. They jokingly described me as "a lone wolf" but in reality only part of that is true, I'm alone. I think it's very hard to break out of a defeatist mindset without some external force of positive influence, It's easy enough to say "just be happy" but to enforce that is a whole different game. I obviously don''t expect to find friends or a partner to carry my burden for me, I just know it's something I must work through to come out the other side. I've chosen to leave the city (where I feel most alone, but less out of place for being alone) to return to live with my parents but can't work out if that's a step forward or backwards.
@@deutscheBratwurstEnte thanks man, I've moved back with my parents. It sounds weird to say but some of my friends are going though much tougher times than I right now, and in being there for them I've strengthened the friendships I do have. It's not ideal circumstances and I would never wish for it to happen like that but my perspective is definitely improving as a result
I listened to this song in the background when my grandma was in the hospital. Hell, i've known this song for a while now. I have a playlist that I can't even describe how it makes me feel. I have so many people around me to help me all the time. My parents, my very few friends... but i feel lonely? why is it like this? Im only 13, have almost no problems, but the world makes me feel alone. why?
You will not find answers here kid. All the answers are within you start asking the important questions like "who I am?" , "Who I want to be?". Then take responsibility do the actions of the person you want to be. Somehow having a purpose makes you not feeling lonely even though you are alone.
@@xanderfay1300 in a world filled with misery and uncertainty, it is a great comfort to know that in the end there is light in the darkness. You are welcome kid take care now live a life you can be proud of, show god the beauty of his creation
I love you man fr we will get through this, I’m 20 rn in the hospital cuz I’ve been having bad seizures and I’ve had mental health problems since elementary and I tried to kms sophomore year of high school when I was like 15 and I’m telling you it gets easier magic mushrooms have helped me the most and my family. I’ve tried talking to psychologists and tried dozens of meds. Been diagnosed with bi polar,adhd, depression etc and shits changed it’s made me stronger cuz I’m never going to give up on myself. I think being peaceful, loving and positive really helps. Being present is really important too I get anxious thinking about the future and depressed thinking about the passed. I’m just trying live my life to the fullest in my eyes. I fractured my left hand cuz I punched my wall and hit a support beam and it was just last year so yea it’s been tough but I’m looking at all the bad shit as a cookie in my cookie jar anytime I feel like giving up I just reach in my “cookie jar” and remember everything I’ve overcome. I’m writing this from the hospital rn just came back to conciousnes today I’ve been in the hospital for 3 days now I had a really bad seizure and I’m not letting it get me down even though I’m in Colorado rn and I live in Arizona. Life has been crazy and I’m gonna stick around cuz it has to get better man. We will get though this is I feel there’s more people struggling than not in this world.
I ain’t taking this mentality bro, you gotta get up and work for happiness, some people die completely in peace, there can be pure love and family within birth. It’s hard but try not manifest illusions and pain if it’s not necessary.
The temporary problem has been going for me since 7th grade I’m now a sophomore in high school and haven’t felt happy since 8th grade and it was because a girl gave me a compliment bout me staying calm bout people making fun of me and giving me nicknames they still call me till this day. I haven’t heard my real name for a while from a student only hear my name from a teacher.
@fierceclan2221 I wish I could tell you it gets better, I finished off high school, did college while working and homeless / estranged, now im working a job getting close to 6 figs and driving my 15 year old dream car (mustang convertible) and buying a motorcycle and a car for my sister. I can't tell you it gets better and honestly I feel like it's harder and I had more hope at your age. But it does seem like life itself does get easier to handle, comfortable hell. Wish you the best, just try to lose yourself in homework or extracurricular activities. Remember that if it's impossible for other people to love you the only option you have left is to try again and again come to a point where you love yourself enough to resign to life.
typically, people will overcome their depressive episodes- especially in their teenage years, but there are still many who don't. depression is a lifelong mental illness but that doesn't mean there is no light at the end of the tunnel even if you haven't found it yet (and of course that light is not in the form of heaven or anything like that).
@cc3 Why can't heaven or death be that light, I am middle aged almost not a teen anymore, I know what to expect and none of it is working in my favor, why can't I just idk, hand in my cards for an eternal nap?
To every single person that reads this comment (hopefully you came across it) I promise you it will get better. These tough times you are going through will all pay off as long as you’re taking initiative. Please understand that no matter how hard it is you have to persevere. It’s hard, so fucking hard as a young adult. But please do not harm yourself anymore. Treat yourself with more respect and keep moving and you’ll really start to make some progress. I wish everyone that has tough times going on, the bets of luck and love. I promise you got this just believe in yourself.
Its never gonna get better bro no matter what I do even If I earn a ton of money everyone respects me my parents won't they never understood me and they never will
i’ve never really had a friend before, i would find myself in friend groups when younger but would always feel like i was left out, they’d constantly make plans in front of me, always excluding me. As a kid i always thought that i’d grow up and eventually make friends, but have yet to do so still. I’ve never had a real conversation with someone outside of family it’s always whatever the other person wants to speak about and if i try to speak they become uninterested, including with family. I’ve never even had a real human connection, i always find myself questioning whether or not i’m even real, no one treats me as if i’m human, i always feel alienated as if i was born to be alone.
In the depths of my solitude, a profound sense of loneliness engulfs me, wrapping its cold tendrils around my fragile heart. Each passing day feels like an eternity, devoid of connection and genuine companionship. The weight of isolation settles upon my shoulders, suffocating any flicker of hope that dares to emerge. I am adrift in a sea of despair, lost in the vast expanse of a world that seems indifferent to my existence. The echoes of laughter and joyful chatter haunt my thoughts, serving as painful reminders of the happiness I yearn for but cannot seem to attain. Hope, like a distant star, glimmers faintly in the distance but remains forever out of my reach. I watch as others forge meaningful relationships, find purpose in their lives, and chase their dreams with unwavering determination. Meanwhile, I am left behind, condemned to a solitary existence where the concept of a happy ending feels like a cruel illusion. The days blur into a monotonous rhythm, devoid of meaning and devoid of the joy that others seem to effortlessly embrace. I find solace in the darkness, my only constant companion, as it mirrors the desolation within my soul.
To anyone watching this I must say that I’ve been dealing with issues lately like everybody else, but that’s okay. Shit happens, may u never let those things control your behavior and never (I mean never) let those feelings derive you from hitting your goal. Rise tall and proud of who you are, it’s okay to feel empowered
Don’t stop your self from feeling angry or depressed. Let it rise and you’ll be able to control it at its height. Embody that feeling and go conquer what you desire. Know one cares already you have nothing to lose.
1:16 Not me, bruh. I am a woman and I am clearly a social reject. I have no friends, I have never had any lovers, no one ever wants to even get close to me physically. Loneliness plagues me and I am trying to improve myself, after years of suffering, yet I keep on going back to square one.
As a girl I hope you'll get through the hardships you are going through cuz looks like nobody notices y'all pains and idk what to say honestly its the same for me it sucks,just hang on there we'll get through this sooner or later, take t
@@keag5561 thank you so much 🥰 this made my day coincidentally today is my birthday and not many people remember that so this especially made my day, thank you so much 🫂I hope you stay happy and your wishes comes true and take care of yourself 💗
Real, these comments i relate to is the only place i can feel like home. Being alone is more than just a feeling, it’s no one being there for you especially when you need it most.
1:06 as a gay virgin (yup we’re real too) this probably irks me the most. The woman in his example doesn’t have a skill issue, it’s not because she’s ugly or boring she just lacks self assurance or simply desires a model to feel valid lol (hookup culture in general just seems like the young adults version of a midlife crisis, “I’ve got to fuck 30 people or I wasted my youth” lol like whatever if you’re having safe sex go for it but its not solely tied to your happiness imo) I don’t know many people with a 15+ body count but my straight bro friends that do hookup often are exactly like the woman in that dudes example. “I never get any girls man, dating is just so hard dude” and they literally hookup on a month to month basis. Bruh women don’t even make PLATONIC eye contact with me. AND NO I’m not giving them the “Kurt “Peepers” Angle Stare” every one becomes neurodivergent when they see my face and lose all of their social skills pleasantness. If I don’t wear my sexuality on my sleeve women treat me like SENTIENT FLESH IN THEIR FUCKING WAY but then flip on a dime on some bipolar shit when they find out and act like they didn’t grimace every time I talked to them beforehand. Are straight dudes just rapist 😂 why is that a straight girls default setting when talking to a dude…….. idk I’m gonna kms lol
You know that feeling that everyone is better than you and no matter how hard you try you can never seem to improve how terrible of a person you are, that's my life now.
Guys, little lesson for you all. Fuck the loneliness, you have yourself, you have your mind. Please yourself, the world is a big place with a lot of experiences waiting for you. Youll be fine. You are your own company and once you love yourself other people find it easier to love you.
what if you learn to turn off your emotions in order to get over your social anxiety so you can reach out to people, then once you realize you've found a few fulfilling people you turn your emotions back on or like get a GOOD therapist?
I know this will get hated, but I found Jesus and that hole in my heart that was God sized is filled. Pray even if you don't believe when things are at the worst and just try it. See if it works. What does it cost but a moment to try? I was an atheist and I really didn't think it would work and it did because I followed this same advice at the bottom.
The only reason why i feel lonely is because i try my hardest in every conversation to include myself, but i never get around to be able to do that, and i am so afraid to "fail" Or do the most smallest of shit that i start to call myself a failure wherever im getting told "not to do that" even when it's not that serious I just don't know what to do with my mental stability bc i always hit my mom with the "yeah im ok"
i feel so lonley. It's not that im ugly or smth but it's that im so introverted idk what to do but im gonna work hard in the gym for 2 years and see what happens. Im only 13 and i want to be above average. Wish me luck....
I have been struggling with my existence for a while. Even if I felt a little bit of happiness, Ik that happiness in my life ain't gonna be there forever. I feel so out of place with the people that I love and I feel like I'm losing them. Pills are helping for a little while until that horrible feeling comes back to tear me apart. Idk what I'm gonna do with myself...
Im getting better after a couple months me and my girlfriend broke up, but in the beginning i was literally starving myself to the point i would only have drank water. Ive worked out more, ive worked on my mental more, ive been trying to going outside more and Ive been connecting with nature. But now im falling back into the depressive state again and i dont know why, shes back on my mind 24/7 and i know she doesnt want to be with me anymore because if she would she would come back, i think i wish. But i think what i need is to just generally talk to her, i havent been myself in weeks and its been harsh...
No you don't bro you don't have to talk to her to feel like the old you....everything takes time you will feel better remember for every step back you take two forward some days you feel like your getting over it some will feel like square one in these time YOU KEEP MOVING FORWARD. ❤ GOD BLESS YOU BRO
I work so hard it seems for nothing. I over came poverty from my childhood but im not happy, i put on muscle and is no longer that skinny kid still not happy. Everyone said I'd be a drop out now working an another degree. Even people i invest in and and dedicate myself to their success forget my existence the second Im not in their presence; I disappear
My childhood was based on a lie.. I thought these people around me were my friends, real friends, but in the end, only a few years ago in high school I realised I did not have friends, these people I once called friends, never asked to have a playdate with me, I was never invited to a birthday, I was never told a secret when I released this that I was never their friend, it hurt me a lot. I am still struggling to find friends, the older you get the more difficult it will be trying to find friends. My one best friend has lost interest in speaking to me, I put so much effort into all of these friendships yet the other party never seemed to care enough to put any effort into talking to me. Now I'm paying someone to come hang out with me... I need a friend:(
i love anyone here. Take time to find yourself again, its not a race. People care about you no matter how much you may think they dont . Theres ALWAYS that one person
the world is filled with hate and misery, im feeling horrible right now due to stupid stress but i believe that rejection is one of the main stresses of men today, it could be in girls but from my experience rejection is a main problem in guys that causes us a lot of thoughts
Ik it’s not as bad as people cases. But I liked this girl and I was going to compliment her and call her pretty. She ignored me. All of her friends said she would say yes to me but they where actually misleading me. The girl I liked liked my bsf. I don’t blame him but it hurts. I was already depressed but idk why. Ig it’s cuz I don’t have any true friends and my family is just fucked up in a weird way. What should I do? I sometimes have thoughts of suici** but then I just remember that I would make my “friends” sad. (Btw their my friends I just don’t connect with them) anyway life was going great. Now I’m back low. I understand that my situation is nothing compared to some other. I am average looking Ig. I am called good looking by some moms and I This was my first time getting rejected out of 3 other girls but sometimes I don’t think I’m even average. I have a big nose. I think I have big ears but people say I don’t. I have straight hair, skinny, widows peak, regular forehead, little acne but not noticeable, 5’4 and I’m 13. I also play soccer but I’m average at everything. I get good grades and am a A+ student but I’m not exceptional. Thanks for letting me vent. I’m 13 btw. I was manipulated for my entire elementary school life and first year of middle school, that changed my entire life forever. Now I find myself manipulating other people subconsciously. I don’t want to but it’s hard. I’m scared Ig
Hey man, you've don't have info about the music in the description. If you could add it, it would be nice :). Take care The music is: daniel.mp3 - green to blue (slowed + reverbed)
im only 15 and i am already a failure in life every thing is a piece of shit and i wake uo with 0 motivation 0 reason and 0 purpose. Im failing school, i cant learn i cant do anything. I hate it. i wish i can dissapear and start over and actually try and actually do soething cause at this point id rather be dead than live a already damaged life
I want you to give me one more day and what I want you to do that day is do something productive it could be for you a friend a family member or for someone you don’t even know. Life is like A roller coaster you go up down left right and sometimes your whole life flips upside down but with productivity comes results and with those results you can try to get your roller coaster back on track your life is so precious and you are so young remember this quote “one day or day one” it’s never too late to improve yourself
Y'all romantize being sad and immerse in your misery instead of concentrating on something nice, there is always somethin good, keep focus on good thing and the things that can control and dont give up and remember nobody will do it for you, i got to go thru all of that yourself and that's it. A girl rejected? Oka, moving to the next person. Dont concetrate on that fact, focus on good things first and then on the things that you control and do somthin about them.
I’m tired. Tired of everything. I got the shit end of the stick growing up and haven’t been able to process it. I’m 26 now and it’s coming back to haunt me. I’ve let this shit slide for so long that I no longer remember what it’s like to feel love. I feel dull. Mundane. I’m tired.
I just feel so empty and alone I’m not the kid I used to be I missed my old self and I know I will be like this for a good minutes tbh I don’t feel anything when someone tells me I love you tbh I don’t feel it I know it’s sounds dumb and corny but it’s true I don’t all about my problems because I just don’t wanna worry my loved ones and I just wanna handle it alone(each morning I wake up and I just don’t wanna exist)
Honestly I have felt the exact same way sometimes.At times it’s easy to feel guilty about it.Knowing your in pain,but also knowing that you have good things in your life.Other things other people don’t have.Yet it does not change the pain you feel is real.And your loved ones are the people you need to tell the most. I’ve only really recently started talking to the people I love about my mental health issues,and I wish I did it so much sooner.
I’m only 17 and I miss so much of my past that’s only been recent because of opportunities I haven’t took or memories that are completely gone…😓 at least I have my parents and God my path will come I have faith
I decided not to do it because my soul was like "you do this every time". And honestly I understand, it is bleak, but when I decided this I started to relax and the stress just didn't bother me the same. Maybe this will help someone, idk, this is just my thing
I’ve been in college for a couple months and I hate it, I have a girlfriend who goes there and she’s the only thing keeping me together, she is doing very well and making lots of friends and always doing things, while I’m always free and wanting to do something because I have nothing left but her, I feel like a loser and I feel like she pities me for being this way, I don’t know what to do, I’m a shy person and it’s hard for me to make friends, and I can’t stand the fact that she is always making friends and having a good time but I’m too afraid to express to her how I’m doing because I feel like a loser, and it’s hard when she complains about loneliness and how much she needs me, but I can’t build up the strength to tell her how lonely I am and how much of a disappointment I feel to her
Go to her now, and tell her Al everything if she feels like you don't care then go to her before she ends up leaving, you got this I believe in you you can go and make it work with her, I'll be rooting for you
I live with my family but I don't really spend time with them. I enjoy being alone in my room but not alone from family. I know they're always there and I help out. I remember Tom hardy saying once you feel the comfort of being alone it's addicting. It is but it's also kinda sad. So I got a dog 👍
I am not depressed, sad, alone or su1c1dal. I come here everyday to remind myself how I will end up if I don’t put effort in my life. I remind myself every damn day. I don’t want to be on dark spot. I don’t want to be any of the characters on video. I want to live on “popular kid” side of life. It’s so sad that’s not possible for some people. I am sad for them.
All my friends is a bunch of workaholics. It also made me invested into work too. Im too far away from my family to point i forgot who they are to me. My mother speaks like a life coach rather than a mother. My father dont know me. I am alienated.
the modern family clip is completely out of context 😭 Jay was tired of family therapy since he was missing a football game, so he came up with a sad story, so he could storm to the bathroom to listen to the game on his Radio 😭
When I was 23, I got a call from my mom at night saying they found my older sisters body in a creek. I didn’t know her favorite color, birthday, or how old she was when it happened. It eats at me, that maybe if I hadn’t been such a terrible brother, I could’ve made a difference. A few weeks before, she had left a voicemail saying she wanted to see her brothers. I didn’t know because I was so wrapped up in my own petty fuckin life problems.
I can’t stop watching these videos because it me 24/7 I fake to people because it’s better because no one really listens like really listen and events after a year I’ve if you say it doesn’t matter
I'm just so fucking miserable and I can't remember truly being happy or proud of myself, I feel like my family and very very few friends are growing more distant from me everyday and there's nothing I can do about it and I won't find someone who truly loves me for who I am because today's generation has nothing in it but selfishness, greed and toxicity.
i feel you man. i tbh dont have these problems i think that i isolate myself from most people and now that im focused on self improvement i try to talk to people and start a conversation but now i dont have any friends but im trying my best. yesterday i just realised that im never focusing on the fact that i always hide my emotions and when i start crying i cant stop. this made me realise that i just need to make peace with my self. i would recommend to focus on self improvement and dont focus too much on no fap or this and that. just focus on your mind try to accept life and live it to the fullest. im 17 and i know that i have enough time to live life. so please focus on being happy with yourself and i think that all the good things will follow. when u have reached inner peace u will probably automatically watch porn less, go outside more, talk to people, start convos first, stop overthinking and start appreciating the small things in life. please start focusing on yourself try to make inner peace. wish u the best
I wish you the best in life bro, just focus on what you love to do in your life and don't listen to anyone who tells you otherwise, thank you for understanding my problems, believe me we will find that one true happiness, someday with someone, just keep going.
Aye bro, you got discord?
Do some push ups. Take a shower. Drink water. Works every time.
Stop being a silly billy and talk to someone about it. Have a genuine conversation with someone you care with in their spare time, a lot of the time that’s all you really need, just to talk to someone.
The worst part is not the loneliness, the social pressures, or the spiraling depression. What truly stings are the years of falling up and down, the moments of hope that turn out to be false, only to find yourself back where you started, all alone. No matter how much self-improvement, introspection, or effort we invest, this world owes us nothing and will continue as if we weren't even here in the first place.
Forever lost, we wander through the days gone by. We navigate this life, with hope as our trace.
It is the human experience
Then you get back up and try again
I felt that. 3 AM summer night, alone and watching my life flying by. What was I meant to be/accomplish down here? If I'm just an extra in someone else's movie, why should I have feelings and consciousness to be aware of the non-sense that is my life... 😢
All these years later and I’m still laying in bed, alone, late at night, listening to Deathconsciousness
Felt the same way until I found God
i dont miss my childhood cause of the memories its cause of the happiness i felt
real.
I miss it too cause I wasnt getting triggered by these god damn emotions all the god damn time. I used to fear death. Now I laugh at the fool who whishes to live forever.
I feel this...
what the hell you just opened my eyes
but many have childhood trauma and because of that they have now those problems lul
I had both extra cool and extra harsh parents, but that can´t safe you from other evil...
I'm miserable..
Currently going through the lowest and most isolating point in my life so far, hope you’re doing okay and if not I hope tomorrow is a better day
We are, ur not alone...
You're not, you are a wonderfull persone, it's just a bad moment man, but it will pass like the night
Animals are not happy at the zoo the survive comfortably but misery haunts their soul. This is why most of us are unhappy.
it do be like that
that last part, " He had to have known right?" really got me
I don't know how relatable it is for anybody else, but I fall into the trap of feeling comfortable in myself, believing in my heart that i'm better off alone. it feels fine, you feel content with life, and then suddenly it hits you that you're not, and that you've set aside all your friendships to pursue some fallacy. Yesterday I met up with some friends, it was the first time I've had a conversation with anyone aside from family in weeks. They jokingly described me as "a lone wolf" but in reality only part of that is true, I'm alone.
I think it's very hard to break out of a defeatist mindset without some external force of positive influence, It's easy enough to say "just be happy" but to enforce that is a whole different game. I obviously don''t expect to find friends or a partner to carry my burden for me, I just know it's something I must work through to come out the other side. I've chosen to leave the city (where I feel most alone, but less out of place for being alone) to return to live with my parents but can't work out if that's a step forward or backwards.
Just let it out man, we're here for you.
@@deutscheBratwurstEnte thanks man, I've moved back with my parents. It sounds weird to say but some of my friends are going though much tougher times than I right now, and in being there for them I've strengthened the friendships I do have. It's not ideal circumstances and I would never wish for it to happen like that but my perspective is definitely improving as a result
I listened to this song in the background when my grandma was in the hospital. Hell, i've known this song for a while now. I have a playlist that I can't even describe how it makes me feel. I have so many people around me to help me all the time. My parents, my very few friends... but i feel lonely? why is it like this? Im only 13, have almost no problems, but the world makes me feel alone. why?
You will not find answers here kid. All the answers are within you start asking the important questions like "who I am?" , "Who I want to be?". Then take responsibility do the actions of the person you want to be. Somehow having a purpose makes you not feeling lonely even though you are alone.
@@kosmas6023 thank you.
@@xanderfay1300 in a world filled with misery and uncertainty, it is a great comfort to know that in the end there is light in the darkness. You are welcome kid take care now live a life you can be proud of, show god the beauty of his creation
hey bro wht song is this?
I love you man fr we will get through this, I’m 20 rn in the hospital cuz I’ve been having bad seizures and I’ve had mental health problems since elementary and I tried to kms sophomore year of high school when I was like 15 and I’m telling you it gets easier magic mushrooms have helped me the most and my family. I’ve tried talking to psychologists and tried dozens of meds. Been diagnosed with bi polar,adhd, depression etc and shits changed it’s made me stronger cuz I’m never going to give up on myself. I think being peaceful, loving and positive really helps. Being present is really important too I get anxious thinking about the future and depressed thinking about the passed. I’m just trying live my life to the fullest in my eyes. I fractured my left hand cuz I punched my wall and hit a support beam and it was just last year so yea it’s been tough but I’m looking at all the bad shit as a cookie in my cookie jar anytime I feel like giving up I just reach in my “cookie jar” and remember everything I’ve overcome. I’m writing this from the hospital rn just came back to conciousnes today I’ve been in the hospital for 3 days now I had a really bad seizure and I’m not letting it get me down even though I’m in Colorado rn and I live in Arizona. Life has been crazy and I’m gonna stick around cuz it has to get better man. We will get though this is I feel there’s more people struggling than not in this world.
We are born in pain and we die in pain.
One must imagine sisyphus happy
I ain’t taking this mentality bro, you gotta get up and work for happiness, some people die completely in peace, there can be pure love and family within birth. It’s hard but try not manifest illusions and pain if it’s not necessary.
Honestly this is most realest thing I have ever heard hope you are doing okay
Get a grip
also we live in pain
"Let everything happen to you
Beauty and terror
Just keep going
No feeling is final"
-Rainer Maria Rilke
"Suicide is a permenant solution to a temporary problem" - Man who killed himself
I guess they weren't just temporary problems. They never really are.
The temporary problem has been going for me since 7th grade I’m now a sophomore in high school and haven’t felt happy since 8th grade and it was because a girl gave me a compliment bout me staying calm bout people making fun of me and giving me nicknames they still call me till this day. I haven’t heard my real name for a while from a student only hear my name from a teacher.
@fierceclan2221 I wish I could tell you it gets better, I finished off high school, did college while working and homeless / estranged, now im working a job getting close to 6 figs and driving my 15 year old dream car (mustang convertible) and buying a motorcycle and a car for my sister. I can't tell you it gets better and honestly I feel like it's harder and I had more hope at your age. But it does seem like life itself does get easier to handle, comfortable hell. Wish you the best, just try to lose yourself in homework or extracurricular activities. Remember that if it's impossible for other people to love you the only option you have left is to try again and again come to a point where you love yourself enough to resign to life.
typically, people will overcome their depressive episodes- especially in their teenage years, but there are still many who don't. depression is a lifelong mental illness but that doesn't mean there is no light at the end of the tunnel even if you haven't found it yet (and of course that light is not in the form of heaven or anything like that).
@cc3 Why can't heaven or death be that light, I am middle aged almost not a teen anymore, I know what to expect and none of it is working in my favor, why can't I just idk, hand in my cards for an eternal nap?
To every single person that reads this comment (hopefully you came across it) I promise you it will get better. These tough times you are going through will all pay off as long as you’re taking initiative. Please understand that no matter how hard it is you have to persevere. It’s hard, so fucking hard as a young adult. But please do not harm yourself anymore. Treat yourself with more respect and keep moving and you’ll really start to make some progress. I wish everyone that has tough times going on, the bets of luck and love. I promise you got this just believe in yourself.
Its never gonna get better bro no matter what I do even If I earn a ton of money everyone respects me my parents won't they never understood me and they never will
That four minutes felt longer than a thousand lifetimes
i’ve never really had a friend before, i would find myself in friend groups when younger but would always feel like i was left out, they’d constantly make plans in front of me, always excluding me. As a kid i always thought that i’d grow up and eventually make friends, but have yet to do so still. I’ve never had a real conversation with someone outside of family it’s always whatever the other person wants to speak about and if i try to speak they become uninterested, including with family. I’ve never even had a real human connection, i always find myself questioning whether or not i’m even real, no one treats me as if i’m human, i always feel alienated as if i was born to be alone.
I’m the same way sadly
Can we be friends?... :(
@@lotuseater97 yeah ofc
In the depths of my solitude, a profound sense of loneliness engulfs me, wrapping its cold tendrils around my fragile heart. Each passing day feels like an eternity, devoid of connection and genuine companionship. The weight of isolation settles upon my shoulders, suffocating any flicker of hope that dares to emerge. I am adrift in a sea of despair, lost in the vast expanse of a world that seems indifferent to my existence. The echoes of laughter and joyful chatter haunt my thoughts, serving as painful reminders of the happiness I yearn for but cannot seem to attain. Hope, like a distant star, glimmers faintly in the distance but remains forever out of my reach. I watch as others forge meaningful relationships, find purpose in their lives, and chase their dreams with unwavering determination. Meanwhile, I am left behind, condemned to a solitary existence where the concept of a happy ending feels like a cruel illusion. The days blur into a monotonous rhythm, devoid of meaning and devoid of the joy that others seem to effortlessly embrace. I find solace in the darkness, my only constant companion, as it mirrors the desolation within my soul.
real
Did you write this? It's brilliant
has to be a copy pasta
Who wrote this man? It's good, you're talented
🤣
I am ready to die yet willing to live.
Sometimes the edge is comfortable.
fuck, i'm not even depressed but this hit me
You doing good now?
@@milkyways_2413eh, a little better.
To anyone watching this I must say that I’ve been dealing with issues lately like everybody else, but that’s okay. Shit happens, may u never let those things control your behavior and never (I mean never) let those feelings derive you from hitting your goal. Rise tall and proud of who you are, it’s okay to feel empowered
🍂
Thank you 🤙🙏🏼
I wish I could let myself fall apart, and actually have someone hold me together while I do
Wanna be freinds bro?, I mean it
This video is only 4 minutes long. Watching it felt like an eternity passed by.
Don’t stop your self from feeling angry or depressed. Let it rise and you’ll be able to control it at its height. Embody that feeling and go conquer what you desire. Know one cares already you have nothing to lose.
Im heading to a deep place and i know it and its sad i see it coming
Every single time I think I've hit rock bottom, I just fall further.
1:16
Not me, bruh.
I am a woman and I am clearly a social reject.
I have no friends, I have never had any lovers, no one ever wants to even get close to me physically.
Loneliness plagues me and I am trying to improve myself, after years of suffering, yet I keep on going back to square one.
I didn't expect Modern Family
You know when I get home I dead inside but when I leave the house I smile and you I'm watching this and will probably just wake and continue the cycle
As a girl I hope you'll get through the hardships you are going through cuz looks like nobody notices y'all pains and idk what to say honestly its the same for me it sucks,just hang on there we'll get through this sooner or later, take t
I love you whoever you are. know that there are people who value you. don’t give up.
@@keag5561 thank you so much 🥰 this made my day coincidentally today is my birthday and not many people remember that so this especially made my day, thank you so much 🫂I hope you stay happy and your wishes comes true and take care of yourself 💗
Ay, if you ever need to talk just reply here, I hope you have an amazing life, and continue to be a amazing person, stay strong.
No it’s not
Real, these comments i relate to is the only place i can feel like home. Being alone is more than just a feeling, it’s no one being there for you especially when you need it most.
so comforted in the void and lost the only person who i felt was here with me
You wanna be freinds?, I mean it.
1:06 as a gay virgin (yup we’re real too) this probably irks me the most. The woman in his example doesn’t have a skill issue, it’s not because she’s ugly or boring she just lacks self assurance or simply desires a model to feel valid lol (hookup culture in general just seems like the young adults version of a midlife crisis, “I’ve got to fuck 30 people or I wasted my youth” lol like whatever if you’re having safe sex go for it but its not solely tied to your happiness imo)
I don’t know many people with a 15+ body count but my straight bro friends that do hookup often are exactly like the woman in that dudes example. “I never get any girls man, dating is just so hard dude” and they literally hookup on a month to month basis. Bruh women don’t even make PLATONIC eye contact with me. AND NO I’m not giving them the “Kurt “Peepers” Angle Stare” every one becomes neurodivergent when they see my face and lose all of their social skills pleasantness. If I don’t wear my sexuality on my sleeve women treat me like SENTIENT FLESH IN THEIR FUCKING WAY but then flip on a dime on some bipolar shit when they find out and act like they didn’t grimace every time I talked to them beforehand. Are straight dudes just rapist 😂 why is that a straight girls default setting when talking to a dude…….. idk I’m gonna kms lol
You know that feeling that everyone is better than you and no matter how hard you try you can never seem to improve how terrible of a person you are, that's my life now.
we could think that we're miserable stupid and more but i know how hard you're working and somehow make me proud and you should too
Guys, little lesson for you all. Fuck the loneliness, you have yourself, you have your mind. Please yourself, the world is a big place with a lot of experiences waiting for you. Youll be fine. You are your own company and once you love yourself other people find it easier to love you.
Those movie scenes taken out of context lmfao
what if you learn to turn off your emotions in order to get over your social anxiety so you can reach out to people, then once you realize you've found a few fulfilling people you turn your emotions back on
or like get a GOOD therapist?
“Instead of forgetting her and getting over it, learn from the heartbreak”
I know this will get hated, but I found Jesus and that hole in my heart that was God sized is filled. Pray even if you don't believe when things are at the worst and just try it. See if it works. What does it cost but a moment to try? I was an atheist and I really didn't think it would work and it did because I followed this same advice at the bottom.
Yes, I found God in the Orthodox church and there is no greater joy than purpose
The only reason why i feel lonely is because i try my hardest in every conversation to include myself, but i never get around to be able to do that, and i am so afraid to "fail"
Or do the most smallest of shit that i start to call myself a failure wherever im getting told "not to do that" even when it's not that serious
I just don't know what to do with my mental stability bc i always hit my mom with the "yeah im ok"
i feel so lonley. It's not that im ugly or smth but it's that im so introverted idk what to do but im gonna work hard in the gym for 2 years and see what happens. Im only 13 and i want to be above average. Wish me luck....
I don't even want a relationship I just want a hug and someone to love me
Depression is when the soul is needing an alternate pathway in life. Travel. leave everything behind. Even if you have to walk
I used to fear death. Now I laugh at the fool that whishes to live forever.
I cant cry.i don't know why.they say you feel better after crying.i wanna feel better
"stop trying to control everything and let go"
I have been struggling with my existence for a while. Even if I felt a little bit of happiness, Ik that happiness in my life ain't gonna be there forever. I feel so out of place with the people that I love and I feel like I'm losing them. Pills are helping for a little while until that horrible feeling comes back to tear me apart. Idk what I'm gonna do with myself...
Im getting better after a couple months me and my girlfriend broke up, but in the beginning i was literally starving myself to the point i would only have drank water. Ive worked out more, ive worked on my mental more, ive been trying to going outside more and Ive been connecting with nature. But now im falling back into the depressive state again and i dont know why, shes back on my mind 24/7 and i know she doesnt want to be with me anymore because if she would she would come back, i think i wish. But i think what i need is to just generally talk to her, i havent been myself in weeks and its been harsh...
No you don't bro you don't have to talk to her to feel like the old you....everything takes time you will feel better remember for every step back you take two forward some days you feel like your getting over it some will feel like square one in these time YOU KEEP MOVING FORWARD. ❤ GOD BLESS YOU BRO
getting used to abuse at a young age is like getting tortured your whole life so much that you cant feel anything in hell
I work so hard it seems for nothing. I over came poverty from my childhood but im not happy, i put on muscle and is no longer that skinny kid still not happy. Everyone said I'd be a drop out now working an another degree. Even people i invest in and and dedicate myself to their success forget my existence the second Im not in their presence; I disappear
I'll never forget about what you said, your existence is with me now, I love ya homie ❤️
The only thing that kinda kept me going is my mom saying I love you.
Proud of you for going on and props to your mom, love yall
"you are in pain, but do you want to be in it or want to enjoy sucess"
My childhood was based on a lie.. I thought these people around me were my friends, real friends, but in the end, only a few years ago in high school I realised I did not have friends, these people I once called friends, never asked to have a playdate with me, I was never invited to a birthday, I was never told a secret when I released this that I was never their friend, it hurt me a lot. I am still struggling to find friends, the older you get the more difficult it will be trying to find friends. My one best friend has lost interest in speaking to me, I put so much effort into all of these friendships yet the other party never seemed to care enough to put any effort into talking to me. Now I'm paying someone to come hang out with me... I need a friend:(
Hi?
This feels surreal.
Vent. Let it drain, and then start to heal. It's time to live for you.
You got this! Please keep your chin up and chest out even with those beautiful tears in your eyes❤️
“suicide is a permanent solution to temporary problems” - Robin Williams… but why does it feel like the only solution to all my problems
It's crazy because he actually killed himself
@@jeager6840to be fair he had dementia, scared and confused he didnt know any better.
i love anyone here. Take time to find yourself again, its not a race. People care about you no matter how much you may think they dont . Theres ALWAYS that one person
I don't know you, but I care about you More then you can imagine ❤️
the world is filled with hate and misery, im feeling horrible right now due to stupid stress but i believe that rejection is one of the main stresses of men today, it could be in girls but from my experience rejection is a main problem in guys that causes us a lot of thoughts
i still watch this everyday i dont know why
Being alone for awhile is dangerous. It's addictive. Once you see how peaceful it is, you don't want to deal with people anymore.
Is this a fucking bot wtf I've seen this same comment 3 times tonight on a video like this
Its true tho very addictive
@@breccmcdonald3387 i am not a bot no, please calm yourself.
Nah not u the bot deleted its comment
2:49 may he rest in peace 🙏 🕊
Ik it’s not as bad as people cases. But I liked this girl and I was going to compliment her and call her pretty. She ignored me. All of her friends said she would say yes to me but they where actually misleading me. The girl I liked liked my bsf. I don’t blame him but it hurts. I was already depressed but idk why. Ig it’s cuz I don’t have any true friends and my family is just fucked up in a weird way. What should I do? I sometimes have thoughts of suici** but then I just remember that I would make my “friends” sad. (Btw their my friends I just don’t connect with them) anyway life was going great. Now I’m back low. I understand that my situation is nothing compared to some other. I am average looking Ig. I am called good looking by some moms and I
This was my first time getting rejected out of 3 other girls but sometimes I don’t think I’m even average. I have a big nose. I think I have big ears but people say I don’t. I have straight hair, skinny, widows peak, regular forehead, little acne but not noticeable, 5’4 and I’m 13. I also play soccer but I’m average at everything. I get good grades and am a A+ student but I’m not exceptional. Thanks for letting me vent. I’m 13 btw. I was manipulated for my entire elementary school life and first year of middle school, that changed my entire life forever. Now I find myself manipulating other people subconsciously. I don’t want to but it’s hard. I’m scared Ig
Hey man, you've don't have info about the music in the description. If you could add it, it would be nice :). Take care
The music is: daniel.mp3 - green to blue (slowed + reverbed)
I`m not capable of crying anymore
Me too.
I wanted to cry for about a month now, I have yet to. I don’t know why, but I want to.
Inaction ruined so many chances for me, can"t talk to no one about it. Just gotta move on but I can't
Me realizing that every time i got left out while they discuss answer with each other, cause I was always the last in my class 😑
Being alone and feeling alone are fucked up places
im only 15 and i am already a failure in life every thing is a piece of shit and i wake uo with 0 motivation 0 reason and 0 purpose. Im failing school, i cant learn i cant do anything. I hate it. i wish i can dissapear and start over and actually try and actually do soething cause at this point id rather be dead than live a already damaged life
I want you to give me one more day and what I want you to do that day is do something productive it could be for you a friend a family member or for someone you don’t even know. Life is like A roller coaster you go up down left right and sometimes your whole life flips upside down but with productivity comes results and with those results you can try to get your roller coaster back on track your life is so precious and you are so young remember this quote “one day or day one” it’s never too late to improve yourself
Wow. I never thought I'd find myself on this side of the algorithm O .o
Pretty dope aint it? :3
I wish I would have a friend I could be myself around, I just can't be myself around the few friends I have. I feel so lonely most of the day.
Wanna be freinds?, I mean it
Y'all romantize being sad and immerse in your misery instead of concentrating on something nice, there is always somethin good, keep focus on good thing and the things that can control and dont give up and remember nobody will do it for you, i got to go thru all of that yourself and that's it. A girl rejected? Oka, moving to the next person. Dont concetrate on that fact, focus on good things first and then on the things that you control and do somthin about them.
I’m tired. Tired of everything. I got the shit end of the stick growing up and haven’t been able to process it. I’m 26 now and it’s coming back to haunt me. I’ve let this shit slide for so long that I no longer remember what it’s like to feel love. I feel dull. Mundane. I’m tired.
Same. For many, it is a trend to be excluded and tested. Future looks interesting...
Outside im happy but inside im miserable.
I love you ,keep your head up.We need you(:
I don’t think I’m ugly (now) but you know it’s hard to think otherwise after all the „fun” things in life.
When you feel alone, remember GOD is there with you.
Stay Strong 💪 ❤.
I just feel so empty and alone I’m not the kid I used to be I missed my old self and I know I will be like this for a good minutes tbh I don’t feel anything when someone tells me I love you tbh I don’t feel it I know it’s sounds dumb and corny but it’s true I don’t all about my problems because I just don’t wanna worry my loved ones and I just wanna handle it alone(each morning I wake up and I just don’t wanna exist)
Honestly I have felt the exact same way sometimes.At times it’s easy to feel guilty about it.Knowing your in pain,but also knowing that you have good things in your life.Other things other people don’t have.Yet it does not change the pain you feel is real.And your loved ones are the people you need to tell the most. I’ve only really recently started talking to the people I love about my mental health issues,and I wish I did it so much sooner.
I exactly know what your going thru..
I’m only 17 and I miss so much of my past that’s only been recent because of opportunities I haven’t took or memories that are completely gone…😓 at least I have my parents and God my path will come I have faith
I decided not to do it because my soul was like "you do this every time". And honestly I understand, it is bleak, but when I decided this I started to relax and the stress just didn't bother me the same. Maybe this will help someone, idk, this is just my thing
Im a selfish miserable person, i pushed away all who has loved me,
Now i have nobody.
The only things you can control are your boundaries, when those become enveloped I always jump
whos the guy at 1:25
I’ve been in college for a couple months and I hate it, I have a girlfriend who goes there and she’s the only thing keeping me together, she is doing very well and making lots of friends and always doing things, while I’m always free and wanting to do something because I have nothing left but her, I feel like a loser and I feel like she pities me for being this way, I don’t know what to do, I’m a shy person and it’s hard for me to make friends, and I can’t stand the fact that she is always making friends and having a good time but I’m too afraid to express to her how I’m doing because I feel like a loser, and it’s hard when she complains about loneliness and how much she needs me, but I can’t build up the strength to tell her how lonely I am and how much of a disappointment I feel to her
Go to her now, and tell her Al everything if she feels like you don't care then go to her before she ends up leaving, you got this I believe in you you can go and make it work with her, I'll be rooting for you
A relative once told me "when I die, you will become a depressed recluse, and your siblings will not help you."
I haven't really been the same since
Hi. How are you doing?
I know the comments is a pretty serious place, but i just couldnt help but chuckle hard at the captions making Joaquin say he wanted a hot dad.
The water works started flowing as soon as Brian came on 1:56😢
Miss that guy 🙏
No one said life would be easy, but I still feel lied to.
happy new years guys. dont see much happy here though
she was beautiful. I was scared.
2:26 They treated that guy horribly. All the women on that show ganged up on him when tried to open up.
Where can I find that video?
@@halflife310 Face The Truth TV ‘I’m in a Dark Spot’ Son Shares of His Depression
today i sat through an assembly about mental health. knowing no one is going to speak out
I live with my family but I don't really spend time with them. I enjoy being alone in my room but not alone from family. I know they're always there and I help out. I remember Tom hardy saying once you feel the comfort of being alone it's addicting. It is but it's also kinda sad. So I got a dog 👍
I feel this on a deeper level that no one will ever understand 😔😔😔😔😔😔😔
I am not depressed, sad, alone or su1c1dal. I come here everyday to remind myself how I will end up if I don’t put effort in my life. I remind myself every damn day. I don’t want to be on dark spot. I don’t want to be any of the characters on video. I want to live on “popular kid” side of life. It’s so sad that’s not possible for some people. I am sad for them.
😂man are not in danger, they are the danger.
you need to end up alone, too.
hey man,its gonna get better and im proud of you. dont depend on other people,dont listen to their opinion. i love u
I don’t know how to make myself feel better
Change. Step out and make the change. You will fail and relapse back in the mix but for the most part you'll save yourself. Find your change
All my friends is a bunch of workaholics. It also made me invested into work too. Im too far away from my family to point i forgot who they are to me. My mother speaks like a life coach rather than a mother. My father dont know me. I am alienated.
i just want to feel loved.
I love you, even if you can't feel it. I love you.
When drs, therepists etc ask me if i ever have suicidal thoughts i always say no but in my head i know thats a lie...
the modern family clip is completely out of context 😭 Jay was tired of family therapy since he was missing a football game, so he came up with a sad story, so he could storm to the bathroom to listen to the game on his Radio 😭
When I was 23, I got a call from my mom at night saying they found my older sisters body in a creek. I didn’t know her favorite color, birthday, or how old she was when it happened. It eats at me, that maybe if I hadn’t been such a terrible brother, I could’ve made a difference. A few weeks before, she had left a voicemail saying she wanted to see her brothers. I didn’t know because I was so wrapped up in my own petty fuckin life problems.
I hate myself.
Damm man:( thats though hope your doing good
i should call my sister, im sorry that happened man
I can’t stop watching these videos because it me 24/7 I fake to people because it’s better because no one really listens like really listen and events after a year I’ve if you say it doesn’t matter