Kid finds out his brother is in love with his best friend | "Filip" - by Nathalie Álvarez Mesén

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  • When seven year old Filip witnesses something unexpected, he is forced to confront his feelings of
    admiration towards his older brother, Sebastian.
    This short film won the Jury Award at the Palm Springs International ShortFest, 2016
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    Original title - Filip
    Director / producer - Nathalie Álvarez Mesén
    Cast - Josef Waldfogel, August Segerholm, Simon Reithner, Emma Swenninger
    Year - 2015
    © Licensed by Salaud Morisset
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ความคิดเห็น • 110

  • @talkinghead2004
    @talkinghead2004 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    The little boy is anxious for his older brother. he doesn't want him to be mocked and hated. he is really concerned and troubled. But he loves his older brother -- who is clearly a very good brother -- and he decides, in the end, to support him.

  • @MrMonsens
    @MrMonsens ปีที่แล้ว +206

    My heart melted at the ending scene, Filip enter his big brother's bed telling me he accepted his brother. A small act explaining without words ❤❤❤

    • @harolddavis2580
      @harolddavis2580 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Very well said, thank you 😎 cool

  • @jadendavis1124
    @jadendavis1124 ปีที่แล้ว +378

    It was good I just felt that the ending was a little unresolved. But it was also peaceful seeing how little Philip accepted his brother in a way.

    • @Tom-cn4cm
      @Tom-cn4cm ปีที่แล้ว +49

      The fact that Philip felt comfortable sleeping in the same bed as his brother shows Philip (Filip?) has decided to not be hateful like the kids at school.

    • @geebyleo
      @geebyleo ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Acceptance is the resolution. If you explain it too much in the movie, it will take away from its beauty and simplicity.

    • @andrewhughes7642
      @andrewhughes7642 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I don't agree. He was shown what the issue was and he took sides.

    • @natasjaromain376
      @natasjaromain376 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@geebyleo agreed, but I would also have liked just a slightly different ending. Not too obvious of course, but it would have been nice if the acceptance from young Filip was shown in a way that would make his older brother wonder if he knew… like Filip drawing a picture of the 3 of them, and he had very casually drawn his brother and big Filip holding hands like it was no big deal. Not saying anything, no confrontation, nothing. Just the drawing left in his brothers room, or something like that 🤷🏼‍♀️ I would just love for Sebastian to kinda know about his little brothers acceptance, it would have brought a feeling of hope to the end, I think ❤

    • @robettgriffin1904
      @robettgriffin1904 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@Tom-cn4cmdo you want a boyfriend❤❤❤❤

  • @EmilyTienne
    @EmilyTienne 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    The kid’s acting skills are superb. Completely natural looking.

  • @Evan1060
    @Evan1060 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I really appreciated the use of actions and observations in this film to describe the process a young person experiences when they are processing new ideas and feelings. It's hard to put words on feelings that are new and confusing. This film allows one to ebb and flow with the young boy and his young conflicts as he does. Beautiful film.

  • @1mezion
    @1mezion 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Wonderful ending no words needed just quiet acceptance.

  • @MatteBlack2024
    @MatteBlack2024 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    He embraces his older brother though he is confused. That’s love.

  • @marta9127
    @marta9127 ปีที่แล้ว +154

    It seemed like Filip really felt the weight of the world falling on his shouders. He had a great relationship with his older brother, but still was so scared and confused about what he saw. The most precious thing was that even though this new knowledge had messed with his vision of the world it didn't take away his love for Sebastian...
    Filip needed to talk and share his feelings and uncertainties with someone. It felt like if Sebastian had only known, he would definetely reach out and help him understand everything in the best, the most gentle and caring way possible.
    The film stops with Filip's confusion, his fear for Sebastian... This kind of situation must be really bad for a child as young as him. But we aren't left with the feeling he will stay there suspended in his unasked questions for ever. It seems that Sebastian is going to notice there's something different about his little brother and will find a way to have an honest conversation with him...
    This film was beautiful. Made so gently, portraying a really important moment in a boy's life with touching simplicity and honesty. Loved it 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

    • @harolddavis2580
      @harolddavis2580 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How wonderful, thank you for saying that ❤

    • @marta9127
      @marta9127 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@harolddavis2580 Wow! You're very kind. I am deeply moved. I didn't realize my point of view could mean something and be received so positively 🙂

  • @kit4796
    @kit4796 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    A lot of people are commenting how they didn’t like the ending, but they’re missing the point. This short film was not meant to be all about the ending, it’s about seeing moments through little Filip’s eyes. The ending where he still feels comfortable with his brother is not meant to show whether he accepts Seb or not. That’s not the point. The point is that he saw something that could’ve changed his admiration for his brother, but he ultimately decided not to let it affect him. Acceptance is not the goal. The ending is not what makes this film good. It’s about witnessing the experience and being able to feel however you feel about it, but without necessarily seeing the brother as a bad person.

  • @amyleefan85
    @amyleefan85 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Wow the acting is so good for such young actors, very impressive!

  • @CuentaBackUpBaby
    @CuentaBackUpBaby ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Well let's all think that his feelings towards his brother didn't change much! He didn't seemed angry or sad, just a little confused which is expected from a kid that young.

  • @samovarov1726
    @samovarov1726 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This little boy is very tactful! He didn't burst into his brother’s room, but only observed the process through a hole. This speaks of proper upbringing and universal respect and love in this family. I think it is necessary to give this child some gifts from TH-cam so that he feels the support of people. But his brother sleeps too much. I would advise him to drink pomegranate juice. Maybe TH-cam should send these people the products they need.

  • @harolddavis2580
    @harolddavis2580 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    A beautiful movie, very well done in a tasteful way . Loved it

  • @alasdairmacmillan5359
    @alasdairmacmillan5359 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    lovely.... the ending so sweet

  • @user-do2qr8cq6k
    @user-do2qr8cq6k 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great movie emotionally charged and well produced and acted. Thanks👍❤️❤️

  • @totosangsaranghaeyo7706
    @totosangsaranghaeyo7706 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Brotherly love is good, very sweet, only brotherly love.
    🤟"...

  • @davidslife989
    @davidslife989 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Where can you find Filip? Is there a longer version, or is this it?

  • @MattEddsworld
    @MattEddsworld ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I wish there was a lil more of a ending but this film was a treasure

    • @dylantitanium6452
      @dylantitanium6452 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I liked the ending. It was unspoken love for his big brother, yet another facet of why he looks up to him. This world can be so cruel, as he saw with the kids on the playground, but his big brother showed him nothing but love the entire time.

    • @MattEddsworld
      @MattEddsworld ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Dylan Titanium After rewatching the film I think I have a better understanding of the ending. I get what you mean now

    • @sentaisuper5913
      @sentaisuper5913 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@dylantitanium6452 the playground and the ending sence are where im still a little confuse. Could u explain to me? Like, wio is that girl get bullied, why when he walk to her she ran away and why in the ending he just come to his brother room and sleep with him and people alreadycseen that the kid accept his brother? Thanks so much!!!

    • @dylantitanium6452
      @dylantitanium6452 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@sentaisuper5913 I believe it was just a random moment in time, where the younger brother stumbled across a situation that brought awareness to the future his brother might face. The aloneness he might feel having not shared his sexual orientation with his family - let alone his brother, as they are so close. The child on the playground - that probably happened all the time, the homophobia, and our main character just never saw it as relevant to notice until the situation literally hit home. Kids, and society, can be ugly, not realizing that a simple act of kindness or cruelty can affect the outcome of a life’s moment and future.

    • @sentaisuper5913
      @sentaisuper5913 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@dylantitanium6452 man after hearing what u just said im gonna watch the whole video again, that's deep!! Anyway, thanks man!

  • @MidnightSonnet
    @MidnightSonnet 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I felt that it was rather rushed during the last half. I loved that Filip went through a lot of confusion and sorting in his head (fantastic little actor, btw), but it never got resolved. Yes, he ended up accepting the relationship his brother has with his bf, but a kid that young would definitely have questions. You portrayed the brotherly relationship in such a sweet, caring way, so I would imagine he'd feel comfortable asking said questions. He seemed very close to the bf, too, so they could've all sat together and had a nice chat.
    Don't get me wrong, this was a sweet little film about familial love and acceptance. I enjoyed it immensely. :) I merely feel like tacking on an extra 10-15 minutes to hash out the kid's feelings would've been good. Also, I know him seeing that one kid get bullied was a turning point for him in gaining empathy for LGBTQIA people, but it would've been cool if he later became friends with him. :)

  • @Bigbird108
    @Bigbird108 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I was really hoping he would stick up for the kid getting picked on.

    • @harolddavis2580
      @harolddavis2580 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My thoughts exactly. In light of his older brother. But the ending led me to hope...

    • @ronalddean3630
      @ronalddean3630 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I thought the same thing...

    • @charliepugh9436
      @charliepugh9436 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I thought the same thing too....!!!

    • @user-ou3rs6wn5r
      @user-ou3rs6wn5r 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I guess he was just to mad at his brother.

  • @keithss67
    @keithss67 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very sweet story

  • @Maloy7800
    @Maloy7800 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Is there a reason why a handheld camera was used? Other than pretending to be von Trier?

  • @jeremywilson5872
    @jeremywilson5872 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Two sweet. Cute older guys and hope they are a couple in real life

    • @ricktomlinson5481
      @ricktomlinson5481 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Wow... good question, look them up and see if they are however I would doubt it as they are only😍 actors in the film only??

    • @badassteak
      @badassteak ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You don't know what "acting" is isn't it?

  • @Alex-vl7cn
    @Alex-vl7cn ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Filip sei molto bello complimenti sei veramente fico. Alex.

  • @Alex-vl7cn
    @Alex-vl7cn ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Bellissimo filip

  • @user-ov1fh3qf2m
    @user-ov1fh3qf2m 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Is there a full film I want to watch and am curious about?

  • @ronalddean3630
    @ronalddean3630 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Good short film, I guess Filip had a double dose. Since he was so close to Sebastian, thinking he may lose some of his attention, and two, processing what he saw between Sebastian and his best friend. He handled it well I thought.

  • @KarlMarxBR700
    @KarlMarxBR700 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    boy got flabbergasted

  • @slowreverbsong610
    @slowreverbsong610 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    movie name please

  • @olivesareoliver
    @olivesareoliver ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Jag gillar hur slutet på ett sätt visar att Filip inte tycker annorlunda om Sebastian bara för att han är gay. Filip är väldig ung, så det är helt naturligt att han är förvirrad över såna saker, särskilt eftersom han verkar vara kompis med den äldre Filip han också. Helt generellt en bra kort film, den var både informativ och vackert estetisk.
    Som en annan ung gay kille i Sverige måste jag säga att jag älskar såna här korta filmer med lgbt tema, det minskar det typ tabun även om det är legaliserat och "vanligt" i Sverige.

  • @franciscodelacruz840
    @franciscodelacruz840 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh,for me i like to next episode if theres

  • @williamfithern5664
    @williamfithern5664 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The worst part of being gay is how family and friends react

  • @Hayleybrook08-ud8fq
    @Hayleybrook08-ud8fq 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He is a good big brother as an older sister I always wanted a older brother

  • @jjk8237
    @jjk8237 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Pekný.chlapec 👍👍👍

  • @alcivarsilva6940
    @alcivarsilva6940 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    mas eu gostei muito e amei

  • @Alex-vl7cn
    @Alex-vl7cn ปีที่แล้ว

    Sei un amore Filip bellissimo e simpaticissimo ti amo tanto tanto loveyou da alex italia ciao ciao ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

  • @davidvelasco8917
    @davidvelasco8917 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Son cosas que pasan en la vida real👍👍👍👍🙏

  • @afsalachu2444
    @afsalachu2444 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    👉👉🥰🥰For life to be full of color, I also need a small one. Let's love the child once. If you want love, give it another step😌😔😴

  • @ameliabailey7499
    @ameliabailey7499 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What language is this in?

  • @minolsandeepa8857
    @minolsandeepa8857 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Super ..

    • @Alex-vl7cn
      @Alex-vl7cn ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Bel video Filip mi piace molto sei carino

    • @Alex-vl7cn
      @Alex-vl7cn ปีที่แล้ว

      😛 😛 😛 😛 😛

    • @jjk8237
      @jjk8237 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Alex-vl7cn 👍👍😋😋👍👍

  • @alcivarsilva6940
    @alcivarsilva6940 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    eu gostei muito de verdade parabéns

  • @DanielSweeting-kt1ke
    @DanielSweeting-kt1ke 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The little brother thought about his discovery of brother then excepted it cool

  • @larissamarcosroldao931
    @larissamarcosroldao931 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ❤❤❤

  • @charliepugh9436
    @charliepugh9436 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Real Life...!!!

  • @franklynteixeira9504
    @franklynteixeira9504 ปีที่แล้ว

    What name this is movie please me friends.

  • @Alex-vl7cn
    @Alex-vl7cn ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Filip mi sono innamorato di te sei troppo figo e bellissimo ti amo tanto tanto loveyou da alex italia ti darei un forte abbraccio mi piaci tantissimo ciao da alex italia ciao ciao ❤️ 🇮🇹love alex

  • @kefren16w44
    @kefren16w44 ปีที่แล้ว

    Something confusing is seeing this, I think the message they wanted to give is not understood but it's good.

  • @alcivarsilva6940
    @alcivarsilva6940 ปีที่แล้ว

    mas tem que ter um filme dublado

  • @gerardomedel3480
    @gerardomedel3480 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    (lastima que no entiendo bien el Ingles), pero lo que si puedo explicar que para un niño/a entre los siete y los doce años se le hace muy confuso el sexo...y mas si lo ve en el entorno que el ama...(entiéndase padres, amigos, hermanos etc), se siente "DESPLASADO", porque hay algo que no comparte con el (BESOS, ABRAZOS, EL LECHO ETC), y depende en el caso en que se de se puede volver "CELOS COMPULSIVOS", saludo desde Argentina...!

  • @thecomplexitiesoftheobvious
    @thecomplexitiesoftheobvious ปีที่แล้ว +6

    What culture is this? The teasing at 1:36 sounds pretty awkward, considering the boy is 7 years old. 🤨

    • @jiulliasilva773
      @jiulliasilva773 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I thought the same.

    • @ytmikeperu
      @ytmikeperu ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree with you

    • @olivesareoliver
      @olivesareoliver ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The film is Swedish but I don't know of a single parent that's like that, I think it's just a movie thing.

    • @frogfish1567
      @frogfish1567 ปีที่แล้ว

      Idk my parents are like that about my little brother bc he has a girl best friend

    • @ronalddean3630
      @ronalddean3630 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly, I was a little shocked actually. A product of watching others. That's a shame...

  • @user-bb4lw9pw8e
    @user-bb4lw9pw8e ปีที่แล้ว

    The little brother looks like Ashton Kutcher.

  • @Alex-vl7cn
    @Alex-vl7cn ปีที่แล้ว

    Filip sei bellissimo mi piaci tantissimo sei dolce molto simpatico goditi la tua vita come ti piace a te e alla persona che ti piace ciao filip ti amo alex italy ciaooooo ti bacerei dalla testa ai piedi da quando sei bellissimo love alex italia ciao ciao ❤️ 🇮🇹

  • @Alex-vl7cn
    @Alex-vl7cn ปีที่แล้ว

    Filip ti amo mi piaci da morire ti bacerei dalla testa ai piedi da quando sei bellissimo love alex italia ciao ciao ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ 🇮🇹

  • @SteveNoblin
    @SteveNoblin 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He is testing the grounds, He is curious but not in love.

  • @leticiadalea7581
    @leticiadalea7581 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    what language is it?

    • @justincronkright5025
      @justincronkright5025 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It sounds 'Off-Swedish' to me, but as a foreigner who has only ever learned it online a decade and a half ago in High School I wonder whether the sound difference I hear is just due to a dialect.
      Or it's Norwegian with a very mild/light nordic (in general) accent.

    • @chiguireenclosetado
      @chiguireenclosetado ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's Swedish, if I'm not wrong. It doesn't sound like other language for me. It's the pronunciation, I think

    • @martinfrostnas6610
      @martinfrostnas6610 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@justincronkright5025 Hardly "off-Swedish", it's as standard as it gets.

  • @mohammadrezajowkar8008
    @mohammadrezajowkar8008 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dude the title is a crime.

  • @gordonadams4793
    @gordonadams4793 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very odd

  • @vernonfrance2974
    @vernonfrance2974 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Filip was so obnoxious to his brother and his brother's special friend. Secretly he feels that he'd like to be Seb's special one and in a few years he probably will be.

  • @jorunnolisefjrvik1610
    @jorunnolisefjrvik1610 ปีที่แล้ว

    Storebroren skjønner ikke att lillebroren har det veldig ondt.

  • @StYouKnow
    @StYouKnow ปีที่แล้ว

    no shower scene?

    • @G0000fy
      @G0000fy 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why would there be a shower scene?

    • @StYouKnow
      @StYouKnow 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@G0000fy You wouldn't want to see one?

    • @G0000fy
      @G0000fy 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@StYouKnow no because I’m not touch starved and it would add nothing to the film. There are sites if you want stuff like that anyways

    • @StYouKnow
      @StYouKnow 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@G0000fy Actually the film lacks exactly what it's trying to be - provocative. Having the boy do a shower scene would correct that. Stop being prude.

    • @G0000fy
      @G0000fy 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@StYouKnow they showed the relationship it wasn’t a focus on those two but more so Philips reaction to it. The film is also mostly in Philips perspective so why would we see a shower scene. The kiss indicates what’s going on and we wait to see how Philip responds to it. And there’s no need to switch up, after asking if I’d want to see one, it’s clear that you didn’t want it anything for any particular reason other than being a horny (probably old) man. Go touch grass

  • @sevendegrees
    @sevendegrees ปีที่แล้ว

    Brothers aren’t that nice to each other. At least not in America.

  • @migueldeavalos8971
    @migueldeavalos8971 ปีที่แล้ว

    Powerful Message🥲

  • @imNickolo
    @imNickolo ปีที่แล้ว

    What’s his name on ig?

  • @mohammadrezajowkar8008
    @mohammadrezajowkar8008 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dude the title is a crime.