My husband and I were watching your deep marriage advice and he said "This is so good." I was touched that he was listening, but when I looked over I saw him staring at the chicken tender in his hand 😂🐔
Yes, I had my third child after 15 years and boy was I in for a rude awaking. It was definitely easier with 2 young ones then it is with the 1! I didn't think about that before getting my tubes removed. My 1st 2 are only 16 months apart and were best friends. This little guy is a handful by himself!!
@@Contrarian-v7p thank you for making me aware of this. If it were not for you i would have had no inclination of such things. I actually LITERALLY thought that what i said in my previous comment was how ALL men felt, every single one of them on the planet! I was blithely unaware that not all men were the same and in fact are individuals with their own minds and likes as well as dislikes because i am just that ridiculously shallow minded and dense! Thanks courtney, for that very riveting, eye opening, life changing perspective. 😂
I feel like if you're like meh about kids, maaaaaybe its totally okay if it's not for you 🤷🏻♀️ I wish people would accept that you can be married and fulfilled, happy and complete WITHOUT kids. There doesn't have to be a reason. This is coming from a mom of 3 LOL. I love you two ❤
I love woman like you bcuz I’m 35 with no kids and so many women are like “ awww your not getting any younger hurry up” and I’m not unfulfilled not having kids and don’t wanna feel sad about it. So thank you for saying this ❤️
@@wendybarron2768 awww, you are so welcome but I'm sorry you don't hear it more often! ❤ I wish we'd stop with this pretense that it's for everyone. It isn't and that's perfectly okay. My daughter is only 9 but I remind her often, she is under no obligation to procreate simply because she will be biologically able to. It's not an end all, be all. Keep honoring yourself 🙌🙌🙌
@@Contrarian-v7p don’t listen to them, it’s your life, not theirs, women don’t exist just to have kids and it isn’t for everyone! People reaalllly need to stop thinking it’s ok to pressure women to start having babies, smh. Sorry I just really can’t stand it when people act like they have a right to tell others what they should be doing with their own lives and bodies.
I'm in my 30s and very unsure about kids too but my parents believe everyone should have the opportunity to have kids, just because they enjoyed having kids so much, but I agree it's not for everyone and not everyone is good parent material. There are also a lot of financial and environmental problems in our world, so it really makes you hesitate before thinking about bringing kids into this world.
@@Contrarian-v7p "The wall" is just an imaginary concept invented by misogynistic men to put down women in their 20s and 30s who don't follow the domestic life with kids they believe all women should live.
Jaime is one of the few TH-camrs that can make me genuinely laugh. I’ve been legitimately crying, unable to breathe, laughing out loud while watching her. I love seeing her laugh with Nick. I love seeing this- their humor and chemistry makes me smile!
Learning that you've known each other since you were kids totally explains why you are so comfortable together and truly good friends, not just spouses. I love it! When you guys answered your favorite things about each other it literally made my heart smile.
"You're blessed with voluptuousness and daddy like" I nearly peed my pants laughing🤣 And don't feel pressured to have kids. I have 3. I love them, of course! No "ragrets"! But it is a massive responsibility and the job of being a parent doesn't end when they turn 18. Like Celine Dion's heart, the parenting job will go on. Forevvverrrrrrrrrrrrrr... So just chew on that nugget of knowledge. Ok, byyyeeeee!
I have two kids and I wouldn't change them for the world, but boy oh boy is it hard work this parenting business!! Especially trying to raise them right in this crazy crazy world we currently live in.
My kids are in their 20's and I still miss them, worry about them, fret about whether I was a good parent. You are definitely making a life-long decision when you have children, but that's OK. That's what it means to be a family.
He has become so comfortable with himself and he's letting his hilarious self shine in this one. The video from a few years ago was great! But he's just grown so much and I love thisssssss
Oh man, you make me feel so less strange about not needing to constantly call/text my husband. I don't need to know what he's doing every minute of every day.
Same!! I don’t live with my boyfriend, but on the days we don’t see each other we’ll usually check in at the end of the day but sometimes that’s about the extent of our interaction aside from sending memes and cat pics back and forth 😂 And I don’t think twice about it!
As someone who’s been married 27 years - spot on with patience! Also, one of the most priceless things you have with your spouse is shared experience. We remember being so poor we could only afford rice and beans - and you build that life together and no one else has that with you. You can’t buy it or manufacture it; it’s precious, like a second witness to your life story. Thanks for the awesome QnA!
This brought tears to my eyes. I’ve been married for about 7 years and it’s hard sometimes. Thanks for the reminder to look at all the things we do have. I love the shared experience part.
Amen! We were really broke for our first year or two, and I hated it. I’m ashamed to admit I resented it a lot at times and let it diminish my happiness in those early days. I wish I would have just trusted that things would work out okay, and viewed those days as an opportunity to grow closer with my husband and a learning experience.
Omg ! My husband and I literally feel the exact same way about having kids. It’s so refreshing to hear other couples my age talk about it and feel the same way.
You guys are adorable! What I instantly liked about Nick was that he always seems to have a a smile in his eyes. Just a happy demeanor. That's the whole package to me. Jaime - well you are so talented and smart and funny. Im so happy I found your channel!
I love that y’all are the most relatable and down to earth you tubers I’ve ever watched. And most couples on here try and be something they aren’t. And y’all have so much NATURAL chemistry it’s crazy!!!
This was so great. I really felt it when Jaime said she's surrounded by women who don't have an emotional support husband. It makes me so sad and also feel guilty to talk about how awesome my hubby is. We also have struggled really bad financially, especially in the beginning. I think the trick is to marry someone who's your friend! My hubby is my best friend and we just work together. It's hard to explain. Y'all are so great together.
*What’s crazy is my husband and I are currently watching this together, and we’ve also been together for 11 years (in August!) and I, too, am afraid to have children. We could totally kick it with you two!! (I watch and love all of your vids, btw!)* 💕
Love the candid talk on potentially wanting kids. It's okay not to know or want to bestow your love to your nephews/family. Personally, I always 100% knew I wanted kids. Now I have two and there are some days when I'm like, "why the heck did I do this??" JK of course, but I feel like you have to be SO sure you're ready. Thanks for doing this q&a and always being 100 on here. Really enjoy your content. ❤
I've met new people that have kids and they ask if I do, and when I say no, they're like "good choice." Lol so I get it. Heck, my ex step mom said if she had her life to do over again, she would have never had kids. It's interesting. I've always been 50/50 on wanting kids.
Couples that laugh together stay together.....You two are clearly soulmates and are lucky to have found each other at a young age. Such a great couple....
Thank you, Jaime, for that answer about kids. I feel you 100%. I need to hear something like that especially from you. You are the goals, love you as a couple and individually. Thanks for being there for us. ❤
It was like I was hearing my thoughts about this topic! I have the same mindset. Plus my catholic country hates woman and it begins to be dangerous to be pregnant because you will receive no help whatsoever.
It's ok to not know if you want kids. I've been married for 16 years, together for 19. We once were on the fence about it too, but decided not to have any We love it just being the 2 of us, we're both almost 40, and it's great to have time together to just do whatever we want to. Whenever we do want to hang out with some kids...our nieces and nephews and now some of THEIR kids do the trick. Then we can hand them right back! Enjoy the time you have together! And congrats on 11 years! 🙂
I loved watching this. Me and my husband have been married 12yrs and together 15. When people ask me how we have made it so long(so sad to think that’s long), the first words out of my mouth are always if you can make it through the first 5yrs you can make it forever. Now we are so much in sync that our marriage just flows. (Also we found out I was pregnant with our first kid only 3 months after we moved in together.) I love you Jamie and your videos like that this. Keep on, keeping on!! 😍♥️😍
It makes my heart SO HAPPY that you have a love like this. As someone who has been abused and told "that is just disney, making you think life is a like a movie", it's heartening to know that this kind of love DOES exist. Praying ALL the best for you guys!❤
I hope you have saved yourself from the abuse you went through (hopefully not going through anymore). Life is better than a Disney when you find that right person. Life is too short and beautiful not to make your own epic story.
Coming in as my favorite couple ever just for the fact that you're both obsessed with The Sandlot. I also really appreciate what you said about not CONSTANTLY calling each other all the time. I'm in the first relationship I've ever been in at the age of 28..My boyfriend is 31 and when I wasn't into him texting me non stop and giving me space he thought I didn't like him when .....I was at work
Awww. I hope he knows how special he actually is. You waited a long time to actually give your time, love, & energy to another person. The beginning of a relationship can be an awkward mess at times lol. 😂 I’ve been with my boyfriend for 5 years & he was the same way when I was working 12 hour shifts at a tourist packed bar &restaurant. (I swear people really buy the whole “fun/laid back” attitude we have to pretend as servers🤣). I got a text saying “if you’re not into me, just be honest and tell me.” 🤮 I hate how insecure ppl can be at the beginning. I think it just means they really liked us & probably really appreciate having us now. 🥺💙💙
He is special!!! I wish he was here right now to read your comment. That's more encouraging than you think to hear it's not uncommon for that adjustment to take place... especially as adults with demanding schedules. I'm such a relationship newb that I didn't know how to react at the time other than getting frustrated with him . It was a big change for me after being so independent off in my own little world.I wasn't used to all the attention or even having him around. He ended up sharing that his previous relationship ended badly after she cheated on him , so I think that lack of confidence made him sensitive. I had just had a rough year after dropping out of college due to a mental health diagnosis so we both had some healing to do at the start. It is difficult to hear " just tell me if you don't like me" because you know in your heart that you care about them and wouldn't intentionally hurt them.
It's so crazy your thoughts on kids. I have felt the SAME WAY my whole life. When I was 31 I had my tubes removed because I could never shake the feeling of not wanting or liking children lolol. Still so weird to hear someone else verbalize my thoughts!!
@@Capricornbeats Could you please name a few for me? I'm 23 and dont want kids but I'm surrounded by men who constantly tell me it's my only value a woman and I'll regret it in two decades as having ruined my life. Seeing women who pushed passed that stigma would really help.
My SO has the same scar going from ear to ear. Only his was from a car accident and they had to literally peel his face down and reconstruct it. They also had to do skin grafts from his legs and stomach to his face. It’s absolutely insane how they can do stuff like that!! Also, y’all are adorable couple goals!! You both gave Great marital advice!!! 👌🏼🎯I couldn’t possibly LOVE this video anymore than I already do!!!! ♥️♥️
@@ayn3862 🥰 Yes, he is healed (for the most part, he also had a broken back and leg, so he’ll unfortunately have problems all his life) but he is doing much better now! Thank you for the love and well wishes🥰♥️
It’s almost painful to watch this video because of how great you guys are together and I’m recently single. God bless you two, I’m so happy for you to have such a special connection ❤️
Jamie I just wanted to tell you I was 100% the same about pregnancy. It really struck a chord when you said that. I was terrified, anxious, and had major OCD. It was not easy but I survived and my little guy is sitting next to me right now. If it does get into your heart that you'd like a child... find the right team of people to surround yourself with. I hope you feel confident no matter which path fits your life, just know you are NOT alone in those feelings and they don't speak to your ability.
Oh my goodness, my husband becomes an absolute toddler when he wants something, and does the penguin flap too! It's so cute and really hard to deny him anything.
My husband and I have been together 5 years and married for a month. My mom always tells me some Of the hardest but best times her and my dad had was when they were flat broke. I hoping 10 years from now my husband and I will be saying the same thing about now 😂😂 y’all deserve everything you’ve been blessed with ❤️
Oh my goodness, I recognized your scar! You must have had metopic craniosynostosis. It's probably a little thing to you, but it's always a relief when I see an adult with that scar and history! My two year old went through surgery when he was 10 months old for the same thing. Thank you for sharing your story!! 💕 ❤
This is not a typical video I would watch, but I am quite fond of your videos. I find you to be so organically humorous, but so is your husband. Not to detract from your sense of humor, but I am surprised that I find him just as funny. You both are incredible ❤️
You two remind me of my husband and I! There is nothing sweeter and more fulfilling than being married to your best friend where you spend nearly every day laughing and loving. And when days are hard, you know you can talk it through and be okay before bed. You have a beautiful thing! We are so so fortunate
Yes, definitely do a part 2! I loved this! You two are great together 💞 Your husband seems like such a sweet guy, and is hilarious. Mine is the same way with the whole "fixing any situation" for me 😊
Come to Louisiana if y’all love to eat!!!!! We have the BEST food. Not just seafood. Everything is good!!!!! Love y’all and Jaime you always bring a smile to my face!!!!!
I think marriage in the first few years is rough for everyone especially if you marry young (married at 19!) As a mom of four, kids are wonderful, but also not for everyone. If you (or someone reading) don't want kids, don't feel bad. The people who have that natural want for kids will have them and those that don't shouldn't be shamed. Parenthood is not easy and if you don't want to from the beginning, it makes it that much harder. I love your channel so much! ❤️❤️ It's one of the only channels that makes me laugh throughout the whole video!
Yea, my hubby and I have been together almost 5 years, and we now have a 3 yo daughter, and we are so SO VERY HAPPY TOGETHER! Not that rich , but very happy, lol!! I love you and Nick so much, y'all are hilariously AWESOME!!!!!!
Oh my gosh! You asked my question! I feel so honored! I love you guys tho. You both make my bad day a lot better. You remind me a lot of me and my husband. We got married early in our 20's and went thru that whole having only $10 to our name after everything. But I really didn't really want to ask why he had a scar on his head and it be like a big offensive kinda thing. I love the channel. Keep it up ❤
Nick- your scar makes me feel okay with my scar 🥺 Mine cuts right thru my part on my head so mines always hella visible too. I dont have the same.story but hearing yours and seeing it be so normalized is so comfy. thank you both lol
It's so nice to see a married couple who actually likes each other 😂😂 Reminds me so much of My Honey and Me! We have known each other since kindergarten, grew up as best friends, and got together around the end of high school. We have been so broke we ate refried bean sandwiches because that's all that was in the cabinet...we have struggled with infertility but man we have bonded and laughed and even traveled. It's been a blessing to us both! Also, if you are able, have the kids...BEST. THING. EVER. I. EVER. DID
There’s only one thing that worries me about my relationship with my boyfriend and it’s that he thinks he might want kids and I 100% do not. We recently talked about it and I told him I love him but I need him to figure out if that’s something he needs in his life to be happy because that’s the one thing I just can’t give him. Thinking about it has caused me a lot of anxiety, but hearing you two talking about it so candidly and still being unsure after many years together made me feel better. Thank you.
My hubby and I consistently talk sh!t to one another and some people don’t get our humor but we’ve been married 13 years and have never been happier. That roughness through the 20’s I felt that hardcore but those times no matter how hard made us absolutely unbreakable now.
I’ve been married 9 years this week and I can relate to this on so many levels. You guys are perfect for each other. 🤗 Also, my hubby and I have three kids. If you ever do have kiddos I promise having your own is different. I used to babysit and have many cousins and I was always glad to give them back too.
Yup, I was just going to comment this. The affection you feel for other people's kids doesn't even come close to the deep, indescribable love you feel for your own. I don't miss other people's kids -- but I genuinely miss my kids when they're away. (And I say that as someone who never wanted children.)
Been with my huz 18 yrs & there are SO MANY similarities with these vibes...I can tell you are in love. Yes, PLEASE, a PART 2! I laughed out loud a bunch of times during this...thank you, Jaime!
When we got married (together since 2009) we were so poor, his card got declined when he tried to buy me a Slim Jim. We also bought Taco Bell with loose change from around the house 😬
Hands down y'all are my favorite couple to watch on YT, I remember the first vid I watched w Nick in it was when he was helping you put on makeup with a McDonald's napkin and I was just sitting there laughing my butt off like "I cannot believe how healthy this marriage is". Love y'all so much and congrats on eleven years of marriage!
Dude… it’s ridiculous how similar our stories are… like freaky similar… I just turned 30 and husband and I have been married 11 years.. it’s really nice seeing other young couples with each other so long! It’s inspiring. Love it!!! 💕 congrats!!!! 🥰
It is so nice having couples openly discuss not being sure about wanting kids. I feel the same way, like my partner wants them more than me and I backflip all the time. It's hard when you know the clock is ticking but like.. you can't send them back for a refund if you discover you're not cut out for parenthood. The health factor is a huge issue for me too. So I feel like if I'm not 100% sure, my answer should probably be no. It's an important discussion and I appreciate you guys being so open about it
My kids get to watch you for their treat once they get done with homeschool. You are both a delight. Fun seeing your sweet relationship and Jamie realizing how bad for children movies are.
Watching all your videos from when you were little is motivating me to actually download and save my videos of my kids for future posterity. Thanks, Jaime!
Aww I’ve been with my husband since we were 11 years old! Now we are 41 so 30 years together total (20 married). You all have great advice! I would say it’s important to have your own interests… always tell the truth to each other, and ALWAYS laugh- it helps get you through the tough moments 🫶
I freaking love you. The part about being young and having only 10 bucks driving around and ending up with a dollar on accident, reminds me of scraping change with the love of my life to split cheese fries and sit in the car togethrt.💖🥺 jaime you're my fav & nick is always a fav any time he shows up💖
My fiance just started a new job and he calls me during breaks literally today i said "Ya know, you don't have to call EVERY break" 😂 I felt bad but I had to I'm glad that's a thing for other people. Like I can't miss you if your not gone lol
I'll keep saying it, y'all are so cute! You remind me of my hubby and myself. Being married to your best friend is the BEST! Anyway, your marriage advice is SOLID. The don't expect perfection is so good especially since we were raised with the Disney movies where everyone was almost perfect and so was their relationship. Nick's miss each other comment, also solid. It's a great feeling when my hubby worked out on the road for months at a time only coming home for one weekend out of a month and getting to see him that weekend was absolute bliss!!!❤ Best high ever! ( Side note: I used to watch "Say Yes to the Dress" before we got married, so when I went to look for a wedding dress I had such high expectations of what that would be like with my mom and sister. I was let down when it didn't go exactly like the show where everyone cries seeing you in every dress you put on. 😂😂😂 Instead, my sister was tired and was rushing me to just pick one already. I did end up finding "the one" that day and got a great deal. "I just knew" though, like the show, and was beyond excited about it.) Soooo anyway, thank you for this video! It answered so many of my own questions. Love y'all. ❤
Jaime- I just have to emphasize how much I absolutely love and enjoy your new content and format. It just all feels so fresh and authentic and personal, and I absolutely love it! So proud of you for stepping out to do something new and so excited to continue to follow your journey.
I literally spit out my cherry/vanilla Coke laughing and almost choked because you're so naturally hilarious, relatable, and so fucking genuine. Adore you! Xx Steven PS your humility is very endearing
My husband and I were watching your deep marriage advice and he said "This is so good." I was touched that he was listening, but when I looked over I saw him staring at the chicken tender in his hand 😂🐔
Thank you for this comment for some reason it gave me a great laugh. I bet that was some good chicken 😂😂😂
😅😅
Oh man. Classic. Made me laugh out loud for real.
I laughed so hard at this because it sounds like something that would happen with me and my husband. 😂🤣
@@jenniferowens4403 same!
My own mother always said: there’s more to life than having kids. Nothing wrong with remaining a couple and enjoying all life has to offer
Amen to that!
Yess! A family can be just two people.
Yes, I had my third child after 15 years and boy was I in for a rude awaking. It was definitely easier with 2 young ones then it is with the 1! I didn't think about that before getting my tubes removed. My 1st 2 are only 16 months apart and were best friends. This little guy is a handful by himself!!
@@Lizzypoohxo My 3rd one is a doozy too 🥴 🤣
@@Lizzypoohxobig ick!!! You don't have a child to take care of your kid for you so you complain? Poor kid :/
Omg nick describing what he likes physically I spit laughed
"Daddy liiiikes" 😂
That’s cracked me up!!! 😂😂
Cackling!!
"nailed it!"
I busted out laughing loudly and everyone looked at me weird 😬
The clip of you two dancing at the wedding is EVERYTHING!
The vintage home movie clips you always ad are next level.
I agree 💯❤
That “daddy likes” caused me to laugh out loud and wake up my hubby.
I adore you two.
Nick: You're just blessed with voluptuousness.... and.... 😏😏 Daddy like 😏😏
I DIED.
SAME! My husband says the same thing all the time, it cuts right through my insecurities! Made me chuckle cause Nick said it the same way
Me too and my husbands name is also nick. Bones are dogs men like meat!
I died too xD
@@princessgn1487 No, men like what they like and lots of men like skinny women.
@@Contrarian-v7p thank you for making me aware of this. If it were not for you i would have had no inclination of such things. I actually LITERALLY thought that what i said in my previous comment was how ALL men felt, every single one of them on the planet! I was blithely unaware that not all men were the same and in fact are individuals with their own minds and likes as well as dislikes because i am just that ridiculously shallow minded and dense! Thanks courtney, for that very riveting, eye opening, life changing perspective. 😂
I feel like if you're like meh about kids, maaaaaybe its totally okay if it's not for you 🤷🏻♀️ I wish people would accept that you can be married and fulfilled, happy and complete WITHOUT kids. There doesn't have to be a reason.
This is coming from a mom of 3 LOL.
I love you two ❤
I love woman like you bcuz I’m 35 with no kids and so many women are like “ awww your not getting any younger hurry up” and I’m not unfulfilled not having kids and don’t wanna feel sad about it. So thank you for saying this ❤️
@@wendybarron2768 awww, you are so welcome but I'm sorry you don't hear it more often! ❤ I wish we'd stop with this pretense that it's for everyone. It isn't and that's perfectly okay. My daughter is only 9 but I remind her often, she is under no obligation to procreate simply because she will be biologically able to. It's not an end all, be all. Keep honoring yourself 🙌🙌🙌
@@Contrarian-v7p don’t listen to them, it’s your life, not theirs, women don’t exist just to have kids and it isn’t for everyone! People reaalllly need to stop thinking it’s ok to pressure women to start having babies, smh. Sorry I just really can’t stand it when people act like they have a right to tell others what they should be doing with their own lives and bodies.
I'm in my 30s and very unsure about kids too but my parents believe everyone should have the opportunity to have kids, just because they enjoyed having kids so much, but I agree it's not for everyone and not everyone is good parent material. There are also a lot of financial and environmental problems in our world, so it really makes you hesitate before thinking about bringing kids into this world.
@@Contrarian-v7p "The wall" is just an imaginary concept invented by misogynistic men to put down women in their 20s and 30s who don't follow the domestic life with kids they believe all women should live.
It's official: you two are the most adorkable couple on YT.
1,000%
absolutely! I would be crushed if they ever split, but that won't happen.
A lot of people talk about “cutest” internet couples. But y’all are LITERALLY the cutest and most fun couple I’ve seen on the net net 👏🏻 🧡
I thought that Jamie was crying in Colorado because she was touched by beautiful nature, and then Nick is like: “she was terrified” 😅😁
Same here 😂
🤣🤣 me too
I thought the same.
😂😂😂
Jaime is one of the few TH-camrs that can make me genuinely laugh. I’ve been legitimately crying, unable to breathe, laughing out loud while watching her. I love seeing her laugh with Nick. I love seeing this- their humor and chemistry makes me smile!
“When she is down, I look forward to picking her up” ❤️ BE STILL MY HEART
That was so sweet, him saying I wonder what it’s going to be that picks her up
Learning that you've known each other since you were kids totally explains why you are so comfortable together and truly good friends, not just spouses. I love it! When you guys answered your favorite things about each other it literally made my heart smile.
"You're blessed with voluptuousness and daddy like" I nearly peed my pants laughing🤣 And don't feel pressured to have kids. I have 3. I love them, of course! No "ragrets"! But it is a massive responsibility and the job of being a parent doesn't end when they turn 18. Like Celine Dion's heart, the parenting job will go on. Forevvverrrrrrrrrrrrrr... So just chew on that nugget of knowledge. Ok, byyyeeeee!
Me crying with 2 kids.
I have two kids and I wouldn't change them for the world, but boy oh boy is it hard work this parenting business!!
Especially trying to raise them right in this crazy crazy world we currently live in.
My kids are in their 20's and I still miss them, worry about them, fret about whether I was a good parent. You are definitely making a life-long decision when you have children, but that's OK. That's what it means to be a family.
@@aksez2u I'm kidding but it is alot of work. I wouldn't have it any other way
I freaking lost it! 😆 they are such a beautiful, hilarious couple!
He has become so comfortable with himself and he's letting his hilarious self shine in this one. The video from a few years ago was great! But he's just grown so much and I love thisssssss
Oh man, you make me feel so less strange about not needing to constantly call/text my husband. I don't need to know what he's doing every minute of every day.
Same
Same!! I don’t live with my boyfriend, but on the days we don’t see each other we’ll usually check in at the end of the day but sometimes that’s about the extent of our interaction aside from sending memes and cat pics back and forth 😂 And I don’t think twice about it!
Same with my partner and I ❤️
So true. My hubby has the worst timing. He calls to tell me he's on a break when I'm painting, dicing raw chicken, or on the toilet. 🙄
As someone who’s been married 27 years - spot on with patience! Also, one of the most priceless things you have with your spouse is shared experience. We remember being so poor we could only afford rice and beans - and you build that life together and no one else has that with you. You can’t buy it or manufacture it; it’s precious, like a second witness to your life story. Thanks for the awesome QnA!
This brought tears to my eyes. I’ve been married for about 7 years and it’s hard sometimes. Thanks for the reminder to look at all the things we do have. I love the shared experience part.
Amen! We were really broke for our first year or two, and I hated it. I’m ashamed to admit I resented it a lot at times and let it diminish my happiness in those early days. I wish I would have just trusted that things would work out okay, and viewed those days as an opportunity to grow closer with my husband and a learning experience.
“Daddy like” has me dying. Nick is so funny hahahah
Omg ! My husband and I literally feel the exact same way about having kids. It’s so refreshing to hear other couples my age talk about it and feel the same way.
Between his yawning and y'all not taking anything seriously I was dying laughing. I love you guys!
It's the laughter. ❤ Marriage is hard but finding someone who laughs with you is priceless. You guys are precious ❤
He has the warmest smile, he seems like a sweet and kind guy. Thank you for letting us into your lives. You guys are a fabulous couple.
You guys are adorable! What I instantly liked about Nick was that he always seems to have a a smile in his eyes. Just a happy demeanor. That's the whole package to me. Jaime - well you are so talented and smart and funny. Im so happy I found your channel!
Even though I'm British...I have to say Y'ALL'S SO CUTE. haha. Sending love. Xx
Seriously marriage goals! Thanks for reminding us of what a healthy amazing marriage looks like! 🖤🖤
Aww. I’m glad Jaime has a good man that understands her.
I love that y’all are the most relatable and down to earth you tubers I’ve ever watched. And most couples on here try and be something they aren’t. And y’all have so much NATURAL chemistry it’s crazy!!!
This was so great. I really felt it when Jaime said she's surrounded by women who don't have an emotional support husband. It makes me so sad and also feel guilty to talk about how awesome my hubby is. We also have struggled really bad financially, especially in the beginning. I think the trick is to marry someone who's your friend! My hubby is my best friend and we just work together. It's hard to explain. Y'all are so great together.
Completely agree. I was gonna say the same thing 😊
Hearing how y’all went through so much in your twenties makes me fee a lot better about the sh** that’s happening lately, I love your videos so much!!
“Your ability to…..” cricket’s…crickets…crickets 😂😂😂
I died at the "you can..you can.. you can...you can" and the stuttering meme after haha
@@bindibabeeh978 Right! I died! 😂
Anytime they laugh or smile, I smile. I love them.
“When she’s down I look forward to picking her up.”
Ugh ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
"Daddy like".... I cry laughed. Tears were flowing.
*What’s crazy is my husband and I are currently watching this together, and we’ve also been together for 11 years (in August!) and I, too, am afraid to have children. We could totally kick it with you two!! (I watch and love all of your vids, btw!)* 💕
The eye roll 🤣
Omg I love you girl 💗
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Jessica! Hey Queen! 🥰
Ahhhh, Jessica!! I watch your videos every day. 🤗 What a small world… 🤣 🖤 (black heart emoji for your wedding dress!) x
I nearly woke up my whole house laughing. And then teared up at the sweetness. You two are proof of soulmates. 😻💜💚
Love the candid talk on potentially wanting kids. It's okay not to know or want to bestow your love to your nephews/family. Personally, I always 100% knew I wanted kids. Now I have two and there are some days when I'm like, "why the heck did I do this??" JK of course, but I feel like you have to be SO sure you're ready.
Thanks for doing this q&a and always being 100 on here. Really enjoy your content. ❤
I was SO sure I wanted like 3 kids. Then I had one (who is absolutely wonderful) but the idea of having kids and actually having them is SO DIFFERENT!
I've met new people that have kids and they ask if I do, and when I say no, they're like "good choice." Lol so I get it. Heck, my ex step mom said if she had her life to do over again, she would have never had kids. It's interesting. I've always been 50/50 on wanting kids.
I love how your comedic styles and sense of humors compliment each other so well. I was laughing constantly, this video is the best 😂😂😂
"[...]the Christian Bale Batman Franchise." - YES GIRL! Those were THE days.
Yes
Couples that laugh together stay together.....You two are clearly soulmates and are lucky to have found each other at a young age. Such a great couple....
Thank you, Jaime, for that answer about kids. I feel you 100%. I need to hear something like that especially from you. You are the goals, love you as a couple and individually. Thanks for being there for us. ❤
It was like I was hearing my thoughts about this topic! I have the same mindset. Plus my catholic country hates woman and it begins to be dangerous to be pregnant because you will receive no help whatsoever.
@@anetaw.3742 Polska? :)
*bez tej emotki, w sumie. To, co się dzieje, nie jest powodem do uśmiechu. Musimy być dzielne 💪
@@eklektiskePolska niestety! Łączmy się w bólu i miejmy nadzieję, że jeszcze będzie normalnie.
It's ok to not know if you want kids. I've been married for 16 years, together for 19. We once were on the fence about it too, but decided not to have any We love it just being the 2 of us, we're both almost 40, and it's great to have time together to just do whatever we want to. Whenever we do want to hang out with some kids...our nieces and nephews and now some of THEIR kids do the trick. Then we can hand them right back! Enjoy the time you have together! And congrats on 11 years! 🙂
I loved watching this. Me and my husband have been married 12yrs and together 15. When people ask me how we have made it so long(so sad to think that’s long), the first words out of my mouth are always if you can make it through the first 5yrs you can make it forever. Now we are so much in sync that our marriage just flows. (Also we found out I was pregnant with our first kid only 3 months after we moved in together.)
I love you Jamie and your videos like that this. Keep on, keeping on!! 😍♥️😍
Happy 12 years, you two! ❤ - a wife who just celebrated 5 years 😊
This is great advice
It makes my heart SO HAPPY that you have a love like this. As someone who has been abused and told "that is just disney, making you think life is a like a movie", it's heartening to know that this kind of love DOES exist. Praying ALL the best for you guys!❤
I hope you have saved yourself from the abuse you went through (hopefully not going through anymore). Life is better than a Disney when you find that right person. Life is too short and beautiful not to make your own epic story.
Coming in as my favorite couple ever just for the fact that you're both obsessed with The Sandlot. I also really appreciate what you said about not CONSTANTLY calling each other all the time. I'm in the first relationship I've ever been in at the age of 28..My boyfriend is 31 and when I wasn't into him texting me non stop and giving me space he thought I didn't like him when .....I was at work
Awww. I hope he knows how special he actually is. You waited a long time to actually give your time, love, & energy to another person. The beginning of a relationship can be an awkward mess at times lol. 😂 I’ve been with my boyfriend for 5 years & he was the same way when I was working 12 hour shifts at a tourist packed bar &restaurant. (I swear people really buy the whole “fun/laid back” attitude we have to pretend as servers🤣). I got a text saying “if you’re not into me, just be honest and tell me.” 🤮 I hate how insecure ppl can be at the beginning. I think it just means they really liked us & probably really appreciate having us now. 🥺💙💙
He is special!!! I wish he was here right now to read your comment. That's more encouraging than you think to hear it's not uncommon for that adjustment to take place... especially as adults with demanding schedules. I'm such a relationship newb that I didn't know how to react at the time other than getting frustrated with him . It was a big change for me after being so independent off in my own little world.I wasn't used to all the attention or even having him around. He ended up sharing that his previous relationship ended badly after she cheated on him , so I think that lack of confidence made him sensitive. I had just had a rough year after dropping out of college due to a mental health diagnosis so we both had some healing to do at the start. It is difficult to hear " just tell me if you don't like me" because you know in your heart that you care about them and wouldn't intentionally hurt them.
@@ahoward3503 Take a screenshot and text it to him.
Well I guess I could do that! 🙃
It's so crazy your thoughts on kids. I have felt the SAME WAY my whole life. When I was 31 I had my tubes removed because I could never shake the feeling of not wanting or liking children lolol. Still so weird to hear someone else verbalize my thoughts!!
@@Capricornbeats Could you please name a few for me? I'm 23 and dont want kids but I'm surrounded by men who constantly tell me it's my only value a woman and I'll regret it in two decades as having ruined my life. Seeing women who pushed passed that stigma would really help.
My SO has the same scar going from ear to ear. Only his was from a car accident and they had to literally peel his face down and reconstruct it. They also had to do skin grafts from his legs and stomach to his face. It’s absolutely insane how they can do stuff like that!! Also, y’all are adorable couple goals!! You both gave Great marital advice!!! 👌🏼🎯I couldn’t possibly LOVE this video anymore than I already do!!!! ♥️♥️
Wow you must have been sick with worry seeing him go through it. I hope he is all healed and you both live a Long happy life together ❤️
@@ayn3862 🥰 Yes, he is healed (for the most part, he also had a broken back and leg, so he’ll unfortunately have problems all his life) but he is doing much better now! Thank you for the love and well wishes🥰♥️
@@christina71219 sending love. He has an incredible mother 💜
Not that I didn't crackup through this entire Q&A, but Nick flexing his soft spot got me! 🤣😂🤣
You need more videos with Nick. You’re so damn funny together.
It’s almost painful to watch this video because of how great you guys are together and I’m recently single. God bless you two, I’m so happy for you to have such a special connection ❤️
You guys are so darn cute together. Love how well you play off each other. And as someone with LOTS of scars, I think Nick’s scar is awesome!
“Your just blessed with voluptuousness and daddy like” 🤣love this man 🤣🤣🙏🙏🙏he is a keeper
You two are freakin' adorbs. Nick is hilarious with his "daddy like" 😏😏🤣
Jamie I just wanted to tell you I was 100% the same about pregnancy. It really struck a chord when you said that. I was terrified, anxious, and had major OCD. It was not easy but I survived and my little guy is sitting next to me right now. If it does get into your heart that you'd like a child... find the right team of people to surround yourself with. I hope you feel confident no matter which path fits your life, just know you are NOT alone in those feelings and they don't speak to your ability.
So much Jaimie French content lately :D Also Nick has beautiful eyes, dang!
Oh my goodness, my husband becomes an absolute toddler when he wants something, and does the penguin flap too! It's so cute and really hard to deny him anything.
My husband and I have been together 5 years and married for a month. My mom always tells me some
Of the hardest but best times her and my dad had was when they were flat broke. I hoping 10 years from now my husband and I will be saying the same thing about now 😂😂 y’all deserve everything you’ve been blessed with ❤️
I absolutely LOVED this. Your husband is so cute and you two are just stupid adorable together. 🥰
Oh my goodness, I recognized your scar! You must have had metopic craniosynostosis. It's probably a little thing to you, but it's always a relief when I see an adult with that scar and history! My two year old went through surgery when he was 10 months old for the same thing. Thank you for sharing your story!! 💕 ❤
You guys are super cute.
This video legitimately made me cry. It’s adorable seeing how in love you two are.
This is not a typical video I would watch, but I am quite fond of your videos. I find you to be so organically humorous, but so is your husband. Not to detract from your sense of humor, but I am surprised that I find him just as funny. You both are incredible ❤️
You two remind me of my husband and I! There is nothing sweeter and more fulfilling than being married to your best friend where you spend nearly every day laughing and loving. And when days are hard, you know you can talk it through and be okay before bed. You have a beautiful thing! We are so so fortunate
Yes, definitely do a part 2! I loved this! You two are great together 💞 Your husband seems like such a sweet guy, and is hilarious. Mine is the same way with the whole "fixing any situation" for me 😊
Come to Louisiana if y’all love to eat!!!!! We have the BEST food. Not just seafood. Everything is good!!!!! Love y’all and Jaime you always bring a smile to my face!!!!!
You two are so sweet together I cannot. You're so blessed.
Love your husband so much. You two create the funniest content. Moar Nick plz.
hahaha the footage of you two dancing was hilariously adorable, I laughed super hard. you guys are great!
I think marriage in the first few years is rough for everyone especially if you marry young (married at 19!) As a mom of four, kids are wonderful, but also not for everyone. If you (or someone reading) don't want kids, don't feel bad. The people who have that natural want for kids will have them and those that don't shouldn't be shamed. Parenthood is not easy and if you don't want to from the beginning, it makes it that much harder.
I love your channel so much! ❤️❤️ It's one of the only channels that makes me laugh throughout the whole video!
I've always loved the marriage you guys have. Truly the type of relationship I strive to have.
Yea, my hubby and I have been together almost 5 years, and we now have a 3 yo daughter, and we are so SO VERY HAPPY TOGETHER! Not that rich , but very happy, lol!! I love you and Nick so much, y'all are hilariously AWESOME!!!!!!
Oh my gosh! You asked my question! I feel so honored! I love you guys tho. You both make my bad day a lot better. You remind me a lot of me and my husband. We got married early in our 20's and went thru that whole having only $10 to our name after everything. But I really didn't really want to ask why he had a scar on his head and it be like a big offensive kinda thing. I love the channel. Keep it up ❤
I really think people with scars would rather you just ask.🥰
Nick- your scar makes me feel okay with my scar 🥺 Mine cuts right thru my part on my head so mines always hella visible too. I dont have the same.story but hearing yours and seeing it be so normalized is so comfy. thank you both lol
My grandson said I sounded like a hyena when I laughed at Nick’s comment “daddy likes”. You guys crack me up. Love you both!
It's so nice to see a married couple who actually likes each other 😂😂
Reminds me so much of My Honey and Me! We have known each other since kindergarten, grew up as best friends, and got together around the end of high school. We have been so broke we ate refried bean sandwiches because that's all that was in the cabinet...we have struggled with infertility but man we have bonded and laughed and even traveled. It's been a blessing to us both!
Also, if you are able, have the kids...BEST. THING. EVER. I. EVER. DID
There’s only one thing that worries me about my relationship with my boyfriend and it’s that he thinks he might want kids and I 100% do not. We recently talked about it and I told him I love him but I need him to figure out if that’s something he needs in his life to be happy because that’s the one thing I just can’t give him. Thinking about it has caused me a lot of anxiety, but hearing you two talking about it so candidly and still being unsure after many years together made me feel better. Thank you.
My husband initially wanted kids. I did not. We discussed it, and he was willing to give that up to be married to me.
My hubby and I consistently talk sh!t to one another and some people don’t get our humor but we’ve been married 13 years and have never been happier. That roughness through the 20’s I felt that hardcore but those times no matter how hard made us absolutely unbreakable now.
I’ve been married 9 years this week and I can relate to this on so many levels. You guys are perfect for each other. 🤗 Also, my hubby and I have three kids. If you ever do have kiddos I promise having your own is different. I used to babysit and have many cousins and I was always glad to give them back too.
Yup, I was just going to comment this. The affection you feel for other people's kids doesn't even come close to the deep, indescribable love you feel for your own. I don't miss other people's kids -- but I genuinely miss my kids when they're away. (And I say that as someone who never wanted children.)
Been with my huz 18 yrs & there are SO MANY similarities with these vibes...I can tell you are in love. Yes, PLEASE, a PART 2! I laughed out loud a bunch of times during this...thank you, Jaime!
Ya’ll are so friggin cute.
This totally made my day. I just love how you guys support eachother. So awesome to see.
When we got married (together since 2009) we were so poor, his card got declined when he tried to buy me a Slim Jim. We also bought Taco Bell with loose change from around the house 😬
“Hey guys , I’m here with “Him”….” Lol 😂
Wow, I just didn’t expect liking this video so much. My heart is full. You guys are so so cute and healthy! wow
Hands down y'all are my favorite couple to watch on YT, I remember the first vid I watched w Nick in it was when he was helping you put on makeup with a McDonald's napkin and I was just sitting there laughing my butt off like "I cannot believe how healthy this marriage is". Love y'all so much and congrats on eleven years of marriage!
Dude… it’s ridiculous how similar our stories are… like freaky similar…
I just turned 30 and husband and I have been married 11 years.. it’s really nice seeing other young couples with each other so long! It’s inspiring. Love it!!! 💕 congrats!!!! 🥰
It is so nice having couples openly discuss not being sure about wanting kids. I feel the same way, like my partner wants them more than me and I backflip all the time. It's hard when you know the clock is ticking but like.. you can't send them back for a refund if you discover you're not cut out for parenthood. The health factor is a huge issue for me too. So I feel like if I'm not 100% sure, my answer should probably be no. It's an important discussion and I appreciate you guys being so open about it
My kids get to watch you for their treat once they get done with homeschool. You are both a delight. Fun seeing your sweet relationship and Jamie realizing how bad for children movies are.
I personally love how supportive Nick is of your creativity, videos and comedy skits!
Watching all your videos from when you were little is motivating me to actually download and save my videos of my kids for future posterity. Thanks, Jaime!
Awe, I love that y'all have known each other for so long! Yall truly are the cutest, and my fave couple ever!!!
I smiled the whole way through this video! It’s so nice to learn more about the two of you.
Aww I’ve been with my husband since we were 11 years old! Now we are 41 so 30 years together total (20 married).
You all have great advice! I would say it’s important to have your own interests… always tell the truth to each other, and ALWAYS laugh- it helps get you through the tough moments 🫶
I freaking love you. The part about being young and having only 10 bucks driving around and ending up with a dollar on accident, reminds me of scraping change with the love of my life to split cheese fries and sit in the car togethrt.💖🥺 jaime you're my fav & nick is always a fav any time he shows up💖
Remember those state quarters that came out around 2000? We cashed ours in, that we had been collecting, we were so poor!
I love how real you guys are. You guys are def marriage goals! Cheers to many, many more happy years for you guys and on you tube!!!! ❤️
So nice to see an example of such a beautiful, happy & healthy marriage.
My fiance just started a new job and he calls me during breaks literally today i said "Ya know, you don't have to call EVERY break" 😂 I felt bad but I had to I'm glad that's a thing for other people. Like I can't miss you if your not gone lol
I'll keep saying it, y'all are so cute! You remind me of my hubby and myself. Being married to your best friend is the BEST! Anyway, your marriage advice is SOLID. The don't expect perfection is so good especially since we were raised with the Disney movies where everyone was almost perfect and so was their relationship. Nick's miss each other comment, also solid. It's a great feeling when my hubby worked out on the road for months at a time only coming home for one weekend out of a month and getting to see him that weekend was absolute bliss!!!❤ Best high ever! ( Side note: I used to watch "Say Yes to the Dress" before we got married, so when I went to look for a wedding dress I had such high expectations of what that would be like with my mom and sister. I was let down when it didn't go exactly like the show where everyone cries seeing you in every dress you put on. 😂😂😂 Instead, my sister was tired and was rushing me to just pick one already. I did end up finding "the one" that day and got a great deal. "I just knew" though, like the show, and was beyond excited about it.) Soooo anyway, thank you for this video! It answered so many of my own questions. Love y'all. ❤
Jaime- I just have to emphasize how much I absolutely love and enjoy your new content and format. It just all feels so fresh and authentic and personal, and I absolutely love it! So proud of you for stepping out to do something new and so excited to continue to follow your journey.
You guys are basically matching and I'm here for it
I literally spit out my cherry/vanilla Coke laughing and almost choked because you're so naturally hilarious, relatable, and so fucking genuine. Adore you! Xx Steven PS your humility is very endearing