Luxury is really an after thought. After the house is paid, the car is paid, pension is funded, emergency money is in the bank, then it’s the time for luxury. Then there is no guilt and only enjoyment. Be wise!! Great video.
Every TH-camr should watch this video. There are so many who are constantly buying and buying but what people don’t realize is that there’s some void they are trying to fill. I just hope they’re not going into total debt, especially the ones with families.
The French are well known for luxury minimalism. They buy few pieces of high quality luxury goods that will last for many years or decades with the possibility of passing them on to the next generation.
Minimalism is luxurious. Whether it is clothing, handbags, shoes, Knick knacks, just all stuff one can accumulate or collect. In the end it is hoarding. Just because they are expensive items, it’s still hoarding. It’s not a collection to own hundreds of bags, slg’s shoes etc. It’s hoarding. It is so wonderful to realize this and truly enjoy, love and use the few good items we have. To me, the realization of this and the journey to reach this point is true luxury.
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 joy of having less. YES! She is so relevant to where we are as a community living through a global pandemic. Other vloggers who keep hoarding seem so out of touch. Love this channel for a healthy whole mindset.
@@nadinenc3097 Exactly! How do you even use all of your bags? I get stressed out when I have to change bags, I can’t imagine how it’d be having 30+ bags.
I can't imagine that someone disliked your video. This is a great topic! One of my favourite channels on TH-cam to watch. I love your approach. It made me realize I don't need to chase the trends and I don't watch unboxings or any other content that can drive my feelings of having not enough.
I'm not aiming to be a minimalist but I agree that less is more. When I started collecting luxury pieces, I just want a good variety in my collection. While I'm happy for those who can afford so many things, I'm glad that I was not influenced to do the same. I'm glad that I became your follower just when I was still starting. Your advices are very practical and I was able to apply them in most of my purchases. I'm done buying bags now, I'm looking at jewelries now but I'm still following the rule to buy less and only what I need. Happy holidays Eileen, thanks for all your videos!
I love the balance that your channel gives me! ❤️ After watching luxury hauls, i immediately watch your videos for a “reality check” hehehe. This video is just right on time 😊
I was happier when i had 5 bags. Open the closet, and i see 5 and not overwhelmed. Now i have 19 bags and i feel a heaviness. These are 19 bags i have to bring with me throughout my life. It's so pointless. Less is more. Wonderful video!
I have over 10 bags, purse and clutch . in my closet that I don’t think I have touched for the pass few years. I’m not even a clutch person. My items are still in good condition but selling price is so low. I don’t think it worth selling. But at the same time keeping them can stressed me out. Seeing expensive things that we paid so much to buy. And now I don’t know what to do with it. I wish I find her channel sooner.
I’m in the same boat. I have a little under 20ish luxury bags and want to downsize to about 12 bags, but don’t want to sell any this year since it’s been an unusual year.
I’m sure you hurt a lot of feelings with this video. Lol it is so true that people with all these lavish and obscene collections are really just trying to fill a void and “keep up with the joneses”. I have unfollowed so many you tubers these year bc they just became so un-relatable.
I'm glad to have a platform where I can share my two cents 💛 It might not resonate with everyone but I'm so lucky to have come across so many like-minded people xx
I love this!! I think it’s also important to consider not accidentally putting yourself in the mindset of buying items you aim to have for your capsule luxury collection. For example thinking to yourself “i better buy a chanel bag because it’ll be the only black bag I’ll need”. Rather being happy with what you already own and slowly work up to selling other items you no longer need, then after lots of thought, purchasing items you realize you need for a specific function.
I completely agree with this. It’s pointless to have too many of one thing. I think lot of people do it just to show off. Better to have the iconic, timeless, signature ones that you can always use and it will never go out of style.
You have thought of everything...every reason to become more intentional in regard to possessions. And I admire you because you have achieved this decades before many of us do. Maintenance is also something to consider. An extreme example: I know a woman who has such an extensive fine arts collection that she hangs her paintings from wall to wall, floor to ceiling. She is constantly having to get her paintings professionally restored due to the dogs hitting them with their tails as they walk by and maids bumping cleaning implements into them. Her calendar is full of time- and energy-consuming expensive home maintenance items.
Hi Eileen! I think you might be the only luxury minimalist I know of on YT. I consider myself a luxury minimalist since having to reduce my collection to move from San Francisco to Sweden. I feel I could downsize further though. Your videos inspire me and keep me on track to shop smart and avoid future purchases.
There are several reasons I’m trying to minimalize my belongings. I feel very stressed when I see clutter and so much STUFF everywhere. The less I see the better I feel. The more you own the harder it is to clean your home. Also the more you own, the more you have to worry about and maintain. We are so influenced by the media in all it’s forms. I grew up when all we had was television to be influenced by. Now it’s hard to get away from people constantly bombarding us with the next new thing we have to have. I’m at a point in my life and having poor health that I just want to simplify my life.
The older I get, the more I believe in 'investing in myself' instead. I've started to read a lot, join classes and eat healthy. It's so much more fulfilling! xx
Hi Eileen! I am so thankful I found your channel. I really love your balanced mindset and approach where you don’t deprive yourself of the luxury items you truly enjoy, but you also don’t need an excessive amount of items to be happy. Your channel and content is very refreshing and I really enjoy your classic style choices.
There’s nothing better than being satisfied with what you have. I want to declutter my home and try to be as minimal as I can in my belongings. It doesn’t mean I don’t love nice things but I only need so many handbags, shoes, clothing, jewelry, etc. I think the more you have, you won’t appreciate or possibly even use all that you own. I truly believe that less is more. Wise words from you as always Eileen.😊❤️🙏🎄🎅🏼
I wholeheartedly agree! I have bought every handbag I want and doing that just presented me with more options than I need. As you said, I think I appreciate them less also. Looking forward to decluttering and being more intentional with my luxe purchases in the future.
I feel at ease everytime I watch your channel and it reassures me that the path I'm on is worth it. I'm so into minimalist luxury and it has taught me to be thankful and use what I have and to carefully plan for future purchases. Thank you Eileen
This is the video I needed to see right now. I am in the process of downsizing everything. I have a fairly large collection of nice handbags and they actually take up a small closet in my downsized small house. I really do not need them all so time to donate and sell. Thank you for the great reminders on the benefits of reducing my collection & just keeping the ones I really love and use.
I stopped watching the "haul" type videos on YT for this reason. I don't need more: I need quality, not quantity. While I still indulge in my weekly/biweekly thrift shopping habits, I am buying less. Love you channel and videos
This is irreplaceable advice and such a rare & wonderful consideration in this manic paced world of social media, Instagram & feeling the need for more, more, more. As a mother, I'm even learning how simplicity & less "stuff" in a child's environment (choices, toys, media, marketing, and other adult content) equals greater peace, ease & well-being for the child. There is something strangely fulfilling in less, in simplicity--in occupying that place of healthy balance in any & all areas of your life. Thank you for sharing & Happy Christmas to you!! 🌸
hi there! i'm mya & we're from the same country, Malaysia!🇲🇾 i'm so glad to have found your TH-cam channel where you discuss on luxury minimalism. i, myself love designer handbags. not all designer items like SLG, clothes or shoes, just handbags. i'm practicing extreme minimalism lifestyle here in 🇲🇾 but i can't seem to let go my love towards luxury handbags. i'm glad to say that i've curated a small designer handbags collection (5 in total). but this month, i've come to a realisation that there are some bags i don't normally reach out for. i don't use them to their fullest potential. starting 2021, i'm starting fresh. clean slate. sold all my designer handbags & kept only 1 Balenciaga everyday tote. honestly, none that i regret selling. i feel lighter, freer to go anywhere without thinking all these bags i've left behind at home. btw, super great jobs of making such awesome vids! people like me need this kind of content!👍🏻😄
I am in the process of moving to London from San Francisco and I feel that everything that you have said is so true for me at this moment. I really enjoy watching your bag videos as well as the videos on lifestyle choices.
Agree with every point you’ve made I also think that it takes buying many items to actually learn what you actually like and will use. One needs to re-evaluate their collection and sell items they don’t use. Otherwise, we will accumulate a lot of clutter that takes up space physically and mentally. Great video,
Well said Eileen. True Minimal is more. I do enjoy luxury with good quality items that can last me many years to come. I enjoy seeing people dress with (be it an accessories or handbag) just an item of luxury that makes it pop rather than luxury from top to bottom which is so tacky in my opinion. That is why i intend to get a curated wardrobe since i am just starting my luxury journey. And yes and yes, do not need to worry about our items when we travel.
I currently maintain a curate luxury bag collection and I'm so happy with my 7 bags. I love and use each of them! Love your topic Eileen. Thank you for sharing!
Wow I love your calm voice! This video really helps out things in prospective. I’ve been luxury shopping and just shopping in general to feel better but this is a good reminder. Thank you!
I totally agree with you. I've always prefered buy only one thing but if it had good quality ,design and an atemporal style. I usually to check the tags of the items and check if the composition is well ( i prefer natural materials like cotton,wool,cashmere,line...) and i don't like to pay more for something if it hasn't good quality ( i dont care the brand). But sometimes when you see a lot of TH-cam Videos it's easy to fall in these dinamic and start to buy more and more. But you always can stop it, think and realize what you want, what you need and what things you are going to use for long time ( a good inversion). I've discovered your channel recently but i like it so much
I indulge my curated collections but sometimes I still look for new ones to buy , but this time with the sense of being practical. I appreciate having less stuff to worry about with less to lose. Your idea is very instructive!!! Thanks Eileen!!!🥰🥰🥰
I sold all my bags and SLG’s and purchased my Chanel classic flap with GHW. I have 1 bag now and I wanted it ever since I first read vogue in high school. I agree with you 100%.
I totally agree. I cleared out four huge bags of clothes earlier in the pandemic. I donated them to a local charity. I love the idea of only having things I truly love and are beautiful. Impulse and sales shopping frequently results in clothes you wouldn’t have bought under other circumstances. I’d rather have one beautiful handbag than a dozen that I could live without.
Love your channel Eileen. I totally agree with minimal luxury collections. I WAS (past tense) a recreational shopper and that lead to overstuffed closet and drawers filled with items that didn't really bring me joy.
I completely agree. Lately I've wanted to purge and have less clutter, which tends to stress me out. I grew up with hoarders and it was really hard on me having to compete with the "things" that took up the space. I also start to feel a bit overwhelmed when I see these crazy hauls from other TH-camrs. I can't help but wonder what they do with all their things...it just feels excessive to me.
I hear you! I’m going to wait until the end of next year to purge..since this has been an unusual year I want to make sure that I won’t have any regrets. I also wonder about these other youtubers. I think we have to remember that they sell to their subscribers or followers and it’s much easier for them to purge without losing money or time. When I sell on eBay I have to factor in the 13% Fee that e ay and PayPal charge. Anyway, I’ve started to look at many of these youtubers as shopping addicts that are stuck in a cycle and fueled by free stuff and sponsorships, etc.. That is not real life. It is clutter even when it’s organized nicely. Didn’t mean to rant in my response! heheheh
Thank you for sharing! My little boy is a bit of a hoarder (not sure where he got it from lol) and it's hard to tell him not to drag along his toys wherever he goes xx
Another amazing advice Eileen :). I started having migraines / headaches when I am swamp with too many items/clutters. That is also the reason why I let something go before I buy something new. I am unable to deal with overwhelming stuffs. Irene xx
Exactly the video I needed to see! In the beginning of the year, I have downsized my luxury collection to about 10 bags. And then my mother passed away unexpectedly in February and well. I’m an emotional spender and also if I’m stressed I turn to shopping. I have shopped so much this year it’s become so overwhelming for me. And we are preparing for a move and I am in that situation where I’d rather pack up and haul my household good myself cross country because of the luxury items I own. Which shouldn’t be like that. I should have to give more effort and time and money just to accommodate all my luxury items. At first we were suppose to move overseas and my luxury items (shamely) was holding me back. Which is such a shame. I’m in the process of selling almost everything I bought this year and it has eaten up so much time and money. 2021 is the year to let go of my stuff and just enjoy a small luxury collection. And to get in the practice that it’s ok to not to have bag and to be ok with just admiring it from afar. And for me it’s not just about the money wasted. But the time that I wasted to search and buy and wait for it to arrive and then having to sell it and all that jazz. I just want to enjoy the things. But on a much smaller scale! Thanks for the inspiration and push.
I think you should run workshops Eileen, teaching people about money and how to take the stress away from their lives. I would happily pay for my ticket 💕💕 Have a wonderful Christmas; I wish you and your family all the very best for 2021!
I just literally received my iPhone 13 pro max rn, and after watching this video, I'm having thoughts of opening it! Like I want to sell it... I prefer gadgets rather than luxury bags, so I think I will keep this 😊 Thank you so much for sharing your ideas about saving money.. 🙏🏻
Thank you so much for another insightful video. Your take on luxury is refreshing. It's so nice to have someone promote being discerning when choosing luxury instead of being pressured into excess.
This is a really informative and wise video for those who just started buying luxury items. I used to have quite a few handbags that was bought impulsively and later on regretted it. Now I'm quite content with my very small collection after selling more than half of my bags.
I adore your videos Eileen. I will always stand by less is more. I would much rather have a minimal curated wardrobe then own too many items and not be able to enjoy those pieces individually. I see so many luxury influences buy so many items so frequently.... Hardly giving enough time to enjoy their recent purchase they're onto the next one, it's just a never ending cycle. I do enjoy watching luxury hauls but it's just seems like they make purchases every other week.
Perfect summary! You pointed each reason out so perfectly and eloquently. I strive for the same but somehow I struggle here and there with my inner “collector” instinct.
Always loved a capsule wardrobe...i had a large bag collection and streamlined to about 10..in colours and styles that i can easily mix and match wirh my clothes 😊 ...saving space and money!
I loved this, I agree with everything you said and you made good points. I do not own luxury pieces but I used to shop a lot and after a few years I finally figured out that it was such a waste of my time and resources, and the things would make me happy only temporarily... I still buy things, I do not deprive myself of what I need, but I focus on the purpose and quality. I am planning to do a very low-buy year 2021
Hi Eileen , you are just spot on as usual. Really agree with the saying 'less is more' and think if you really need tgat particular item. I must say that I have been always wanting to buy a luxury handbag for years and years, as this has been my dream ..and I mean years. but have been very patient and waiting for the right time . So my children are sorted with education and a good work , house etc ...... Also when i finally buy my well deserved bag :) it has to be one that is not going to sit in my wadrobe and look pretty but also functional. Again. Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts with us. . :) x
Thank you so much, I am just starting to build my collection but you caught my eye on being specific, intentional and purposeful in what you need or desire that is luxury. Have a great Christmas and thanks for sharing.
I totally agree that most of the time we shop for happiness and excitement and to bring joy into a bad day . 2020 was the year that I shopped the most and spent much money on luxury items although it was the worst year to do so ! Anyhow for next years I am honestly planning not to buy anything and try to handle the stress and pressure by others ways
Same for me too! 2020 is the year I spent so much money on luxury items and I have mixed feelings, part joy and part guilty...working hard to steer clear from influencers so that I won’t be easily influence to purchase luxury items. Hope you will attain your goals in 2021! 🙆🏻♀️
that's so true. that SM does promote excessive buying. That's why I try not to follow influencers and those who promotes buying new things. I think I got Diderot effect. lol After I got my first luxury handbag, I wanted to collect all the classic ones from most popular brands, especially since their price keeps increasing. That's so true that when we have more, we also worry more. Man I also worry about my handbags whenever the fire alarm go up in my apartment building or when I am away. :( Thanks for this video. this is definitely something to reflect on.
Mam, I get so much inspired by your videos of curating your wardrobe and luxury minimalism. I also like your style. So, mam please make a video on how to identify your personal style.
Very good points. I love your point of saving time on researching, buying, selling. Love your channel! For 2021 I will focus on having less in general. I compare myself to others and I need to stop doing that. 💕
This is really my goal. I just realized that I have so much SLGs 🤯 I am stepping away from Instagram and to a lesser extent, TH-cam, because I realized how much it influences my purchases.
I have never liked nor bought any branded stuffs. And I do appreciate your video and totally agreed with you. I appreciated my items and enjoyed with them however, I don't grow tremendous emotional attachment to them. I'm emotionally attached to my husband, my daughter and dog instead. I'm considering to get few luxury items for the first time, only for special & social occasions with my husband. Luxury bags such as Hermes don't look fancy to me but it does boost social image. That's weird though but maybe I have to experience it to understand why many women bought it. It's like carrying lots of cash in your hands in the form of a bag and showing it off. I'm looking for some videos and advice from experienced women and your video is quite helpful and healthy.
I follow you and watch every VDOs. I think you have perfectly collection,bag,fine jewelry and don’t want any thing else. Love ❤️❤️❤️. your thinking. Merry Christmas Eileen🎁🎄🎉
Totally agree, actually I lost my interest towards luxury goods since the last 2-3 years. Most of them I don’t even wear or use anymore, this is a pure mindset changing for me
@@ColourfulNoir The trend of minimalism i am actually using it as a chance to learn about myself and discover myself. everybody is different, in my case, i realized the moment of buying i am actually not that happy as i thought. The change, of course, has an impact on me and also on my friendship, because most of my female friends are still in buy buy buy mode, my focus has shifted. i still need to figure out how to handle this and i guess i am not alone.
You have truly made some relatable points I am so happy to be a subscriber to your channel because you always bring me back to reality with the points you make. You help me to not go down the path of spending money unnecessarily. Thank you!
Well said. Conscious buying shd be on those pieces that you really love... having said so... some brands do make you to buy a lot more than you really need to just ‘build’ the relationship :(
You've made such great points. I too am at that point where i'm trying to focus on a small luxury collection as it was getting out of hand, I mean honestly how many handbags do we really need? . Thanks for addressing
I am in progress in reducing my collection and hope I can attain purse peace ✌🏻 Thank you for continue to inspire us with your small curated collection 😘
Luxury is really an after thought. After the house is paid, the car is paid, pension is funded, emergency money is in the bank, then it’s the time for luxury. Then there is no guilt and only enjoyment. Be wise!! Great video.
Exactly my thought and you've put it beautifully! xx
Every TH-camr should watch this video. There are so many who are constantly buying and buying but what people don’t realize is that there’s some void they are trying to fill. I just hope they’re not going into total debt, especially the ones with families.
Glad you enjoyed my video! xx
This is my goal - luxury minimalism, less is more. That’s why I love your chanel ❤️
Thank you so so much! xx
The French are well known for luxury minimalism. They buy few pieces of high quality luxury goods that will last for many years or decades with the possibility of passing them on to the next generation.
Minimalism is luxurious. Whether it is clothing, handbags, shoes, Knick knacks, just all stuff one can accumulate or collect. In the end it is hoarding. Just because they are expensive items, it’s still hoarding. It’s not a collection to own hundreds of bags, slg’s shoes etc. It’s hoarding. It is so wonderful to realize this and truly enjoy, love and use the few good items we have. To me, the realization of this and the journey to reach this point is true luxury.
That's so true, it's liberating to want own less xx
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 joy of having less. YES! She is so relevant to where we are as a community living through a global pandemic. Other vloggers who keep hoarding seem so out of touch. Love this channel for a healthy whole mindset.
That really means so much to me. Thank you, Diana xx
They might have a problem. When people buy like that, regardless if they can afford it or not, they’re usually filling a void.
I agree 1 million percent. So relevant and not obsessed with mass consumption like some bloggers and their constant hauls.
I get turned off seeing people with huge collections. There's no way they are actually enjoying all their items.
@@nadinenc3097 Exactly! How do you even use all of your bags?
I get stressed out when I have to change bags, I can’t imagine how it’d be having 30+ bags.
Intelligent commentary. Always chasing the next purchase is stressful. I have plenty already and feel at peace. Clutter is very unhealthy mentally. 💙
So true! Clutter takes up both physical and mental space xx
"The easiest way to be unhappy is to compare yourself to others" Yes completely agree! Fewer items, but better, prioritizing what's important for YOU!
Well said xx
Absolutely!
The voice of reason in my shopping world!
I'm so honoured! Thank you xx
I can't imagine that someone disliked your video. This is a great topic! One of my favourite channels on TH-cam to watch. I love your approach. It made me realize I don't need to chase the trends and I don't watch unboxings or any other content that can drive my feelings of having not enough.
Thank you so much!xx
I'm not aiming to be a minimalist but I agree that less is more. When I started collecting luxury pieces, I just want a good variety in my collection. While I'm happy for those who can afford so many things, I'm glad that I was not influenced to do the same. I'm glad that I became your follower just when I was still starting. Your advices are very practical and I was able to apply them in most of my purchases. I'm done buying bags now, I'm looking at jewelries now but I'm still following the rule to buy less and only what I need. Happy holidays Eileen, thanks for all your videos!
Thank you so much for taking the time to write to me! It really makes me so happy that my content helped someone in the smallest way xx
Whenever I feel like I am about to spend a stupid amount of money impulsively, your videos save the day. 😅😘❤
Thank you! I'm glad my video was helpful xx
I love the balance that your channel gives me! ❤️ After watching luxury hauls, i immediately watch your videos for a “reality check” hehehe. This video is just right on time 😊
I'm glad my video was helpful! Please come back for more xx
I was happier when i had 5 bags. Open the closet, and i see 5 and not overwhelmed. Now i have 19 bags and i feel a heaviness. These are 19 bags i have to bring with me throughout my life. It's so pointless. Less is more. Wonderful video!
I have over 10 bags, purse and clutch . in my closet that I don’t think I have touched for the pass few years. I’m not even a clutch person. My items are still in good condition but selling price is so low. I don’t think it worth selling. But at the same time keeping them can stressed me out. Seeing expensive things that we paid so much to buy. And now I don’t know what to do with it. I wish I find her channel sooner.
Thank you for sharing! I hope you'd find a way to downsize and not lose out too much 🧚♀️
I’m in the same boat. I have a little under 20ish luxury bags and want to downsize to about 12 bags, but don’t want to sell any this year since it’s been an unusual year.
I’m sure you hurt a lot of feelings with this video. Lol it is so true that people with all these lavish and obscene collections are really just trying to fill a void and “keep up with the joneses”. I have unfollowed so many you tubers these year bc they just became so
un-relatable.
I'm glad to have a platform where I can share my two cents 💛 It might not resonate with everyone but I'm so lucky to have come across so many like-minded people xx
I love this!! I think it’s also important to consider not accidentally putting yourself in the mindset of buying items you aim to have for your capsule luxury collection. For example thinking to yourself “i better buy a chanel bag because it’ll be the only black bag I’ll need”. Rather being happy with what you already own and slowly work up to selling other items you no longer need, then after lots of thought, purchasing items you realize you need for a specific function.
It's wonderful how a little mindfulness can change the way we spend xx
I completely agree with this. It’s pointless to have too many of one thing. I think lot of people do it just to show off. Better to have the iconic, timeless, signature ones that you can always use and it will never go out of style.
Less is more for sure xx
On point!
Totally agree with what you have said :) I am happy with just 3 luxury bags
That's amazing! Thank you for sharing xx
You have thought of everything...every reason to become more intentional in regard to possessions. And I admire you because you have achieved this decades before many of us do. Maintenance is also something to consider. An extreme example: I know a woman who has such an extensive fine arts collection that she hangs her paintings from wall to wall, floor to ceiling. She is constantly having to get her paintings professionally restored due to the dogs hitting them with their tails as they walk by and maids bumping cleaning implements into them. Her calendar is full of time- and energy-consuming expensive home maintenance items.
I highly recommend a book called 'Googbye, things'. It really sparked my desire to own less xx
Eileen, you are the voice of reason of the beauty & luxury community here on YT. Thank you for your videos!
Thanks so much 😊
Hi Eileen! I think you might be the only luxury minimalist I know of on YT. I consider myself a luxury minimalist since having to reduce my collection to move from San Francisco to Sweden. I feel I could downsize further though. Your videos inspire me and keep me on track to shop smart and avoid future purchases.
Thanks for sharing!! I came to the UK with one suitcase many years ago. Sometimes I wonder how did I expand my collection so much lol xx
There are several reasons I’m trying to minimalize my belongings. I feel very stressed when I see clutter and so much STUFF everywhere. The less I see the better I feel. The more you own the harder it is to clean your home. Also the more you own, the more you have to worry about and maintain. We are so influenced by the media in all it’s forms. I grew up when all we had was television to be influenced by. Now it’s hard to get away from people constantly bombarding us with the next new thing we have to have. I’m at a point in my life and having poor health that I just want to simplify my life.
The older I get, the more I believe in 'investing in myself' instead. I've started to read a lot, join classes and eat healthy. It's so much more fulfilling! xx
Hi Eileen! I am so thankful I found your channel. I really love your balanced mindset and approach where you don’t deprive yourself of the luxury items you truly enjoy, but you also don’t need an excessive amount of items to be happy. Your channel and content is very refreshing and I really enjoy your classic style choices.
Thank you so much! You've made my day xx
There’s nothing better than being satisfied with what you have. I want to declutter my home and try to be as minimal as I can in my belongings.
It doesn’t mean I don’t love nice things but I only need so many handbags, shoes, clothing, jewelry, etc. I think the more you have, you won’t appreciate or possibly even use all that you own. I truly believe that less is more. Wise words from you as always Eileen.😊❤️🙏🎄🎅🏼
You've put it beautifully. Thank for for always showing up, Debbie xx
I wholeheartedly agree! I have bought every handbag I want and doing that just presented me with more options than I need. As you said, I think I appreciate them less also. Looking forward to decluttering and being more intentional with my luxe purchases in the future.
Love the thought!
I feel at ease everytime I watch your channel and it reassures me that the path I'm on is worth it. I'm so into minimalist luxury and it has taught me to be thankful and use what I have and to carefully plan for future purchases. Thank you Eileen
I'm so happy to hear that, thank you so much xx
This is the video I needed to see right now. I am in the process of downsizing everything. I have a fairly large collection of nice handbags and they actually take up a small closet in my downsized small house. I really do not need them all so time to donate and sell. Thank you for the great reminders on the benefits of reducing my collection & just keeping the ones I really love and use.
I’m so glad to hear this and I’m happy you found the joy of having less xx
I’ve decided to also have less on my journey to be a minimalist! Thanks for this video reminder of all the pros to less is more!
Glad it was helpful!xx
You are so spot on! My luxury items each have a purpose so it’s easy to grab the right one depending on the occasion and weather.
Absolutely!!xx
I stopped watching the "haul" type videos on YT for this reason. I don't need more: I need quality, not quantity. While I still indulge in my weekly/biweekly thrift shopping habits, I am buying less.
Love you channel and videos
Exactly! #bbbl is the way to go! Welcome to the club.
Thanks for sharing!!xx
This is irreplaceable advice and such a rare & wonderful consideration in this manic paced world of social media, Instagram & feeling the need for more, more, more. As a mother, I'm even learning how simplicity & less "stuff" in a child's environment (choices, toys, media, marketing, and other adult content) equals greater peace, ease & well-being for the child. There is something strangely fulfilling in less, in simplicity--in occupying that place of healthy balance in any & all areas of your life. Thank you for sharing & Happy Christmas to you!! 🌸
Thank you so much for sharing! I'm also trying hard to explain the joy of simplicity to my little boy xx
hi there! i'm mya & we're from the same country, Malaysia!🇲🇾 i'm so glad to have found your TH-cam channel where you discuss on luxury minimalism. i, myself love designer handbags. not all designer items like SLG, clothes or shoes, just handbags. i'm practicing extreme minimalism lifestyle here in 🇲🇾 but i can't seem to let go my love towards luxury handbags. i'm glad to say that i've curated a small designer handbags collection (5 in total). but this month, i've come to a realisation that there are some bags i don't normally reach out for. i don't use them to their fullest potential. starting 2021, i'm starting fresh. clean slate. sold all my designer handbags & kept only 1 Balenciaga everyday tote. honestly, none that i regret selling. i feel lighter, freer to go anywhere without thinking all these bags i've left behind at home. btw, super great jobs of making such awesome vids! people like me need this kind of content!👍🏻😄
Hello fellow Malaysian! I'm so happy to hear about your journey, please do drop by more xx
I am in the process of moving to London from San Francisco and I feel that everything that you have said is so true for me at this moment. I really enjoy watching your bag videos as well as the videos on lifestyle choices.
That's quite a move! Have a safe journey xx
Agree with every point you’ve made
I also think that it takes buying many items to actually learn what you actually like and will use. One needs to re-evaluate their collection and sell items they don’t use. Otherwise, we will accumulate a lot of clutter that takes up space physically and mentally. Great video,
I definitely agree on selling the things that don't work for us xx
I do feel the same when I'm away from my home for trips. The stress level of leaving luxury items at unattended home is no joke.
Haha I feel you! xx
I agree. Worry about my bags when I am away!
Well said Eileen. True Minimal is more. I do enjoy luxury with good quality items that can last me many years to come. I enjoy seeing people dress with (be it an accessories or handbag) just an item of luxury that makes it pop rather than luxury from top to bottom which is so tacky in my opinion. That is why i intend to get a curated wardrobe since i am just starting my luxury journey. And yes and yes, do not need to worry about our items when we travel.
Thanks for sharing!! xx
I currently maintain a curate luxury bag collection and I'm so happy with my 7 bags. I love and use each of them! Love your topic Eileen. Thank you for sharing!
Thanks for sharing!!xx
Wow I love your calm voice! This video really helps out things in prospective. I’ve been luxury shopping and just shopping in general to feel better but this is a good reminder. Thank you!
Thank you so much!!xx
I totally agree with you. I've always prefered buy only one thing but if it had good quality ,design and an atemporal style. I usually to check the tags of the items and check if the composition is well ( i prefer natural materials like cotton,wool,cashmere,line...) and i don't like to pay more for something if it hasn't good quality ( i dont care the brand). But sometimes when you see a lot of TH-cam Videos it's easy to fall in these dinamic and start to buy more and more. But you always can stop it, think and realize what you want, what you need and what things you are going to use for long time ( a good inversion). I've discovered your channel recently but i like it so much
Aww thank you! I'm really happy you liked my content, do drop by more xx
Love, love, LOVE that I found a fellow minimalist that loves designer bags just like me ❤️❤️❤️
Yes! Thank you!xx
I indulge my curated collections but sometimes I still look for new ones to buy , but this time with the sense of being practical. I appreciate having less stuff to worry about with less to lose. Your idea is very instructive!!! Thanks Eileen!!!🥰🥰🥰
Thank you for sharing, Janice xx
I sold all my bags and SLG’s and purchased my Chanel classic flap with GHW. I have 1 bag now and I wanted it ever since I first read vogue in high school. I agree with you 100%.
Enjoy your beautiful bag in good health! xx
Beutifully said! Now THIS is something to aspire to! Thank you for expressing your peace and happiness with less.
Thank you so much! Owning less has given me so much more joy xx
I totally agree. I cleared out four huge bags of clothes earlier in the pandemic. I donated them to a local charity. I love the idea of only having things I truly love and are beautiful. Impulse and sales shopping frequently results in clothes you wouldn’t have bought under other circumstances. I’d rather have one beautiful handbag than a dozen that I could live without.
Thanks for sharing!!xx
Love your channel Eileen. I totally agree with minimal luxury collections. I WAS (past tense) a recreational shopper and that lead to overstuffed closet and drawers filled with items that didn't really bring me joy.
I completely agree. Lately I've wanted to purge and have less clutter, which tends to stress me out. I grew up with hoarders and it was really hard on me having to compete with the "things" that took up the space. I also start to feel a bit overwhelmed when I see these crazy hauls from other TH-camrs. I can't help but wonder what they do with all their things...it just feels excessive to me.
I hear you! I’m going to wait until the end of next year to purge..since this has been an unusual year I want to make sure that I won’t have any regrets. I also wonder about these other youtubers. I think we have to remember that they sell to their subscribers or followers and it’s much easier for them to purge without losing money or time. When I sell on eBay I have to factor in the 13% Fee that e ay and PayPal charge. Anyway, I’ve started to look at many of these youtubers as shopping addicts that are stuck in a cycle and fueled by free stuff and sponsorships, etc.. That is not real life. It is clutter even when it’s organized nicely. Didn’t mean to rant in my response! heheheh
Thank you for sharing! My little boy is a bit of a hoarder (not sure where he got it from lol) and it's hard to tell him not to drag along his toys wherever he goes xx
You make me want to cut down my collection again and be simple. Quality>quantity. Thanks for sharing💛
You can do it! It really does feel liberating xx
Another amazing advice Eileen :).
I started having migraines / headaches when I am swamp with too many items/clutters. That is also the reason why I let something go before I buy something new. I am unable to deal with overwhelming stuffs.
Irene xx
Thanks for sharing!! I love the 'one in, one out' idea! xx
I am glad that I found a role model for this minimalist luxury collection. Thank you for inspiring and motivating!
It really means so much to hear such positive feedback, thank you xx
Exactly the video I needed to see! In the beginning of the year, I have downsized my luxury collection to about 10 bags. And then my mother passed away unexpectedly in February and well. I’m an emotional spender and also if I’m stressed I turn to shopping. I have shopped so much this year it’s become so overwhelming for me.
And we are preparing for a move and I am in that situation where I’d rather pack up and haul my household good myself cross country because of the luxury items I own. Which shouldn’t be like that. I should have to give more effort and time and money just to accommodate all my luxury items. At first we were suppose to move overseas and my luxury items (shamely) was holding me back. Which is such a shame.
I’m in the process of selling almost everything I bought this year and it has eaten up so much time and money. 2021 is the year to let go of my stuff and just enjoy a small luxury collection. And to get in the practice that it’s ok to not to have bag and to be ok with just admiring it from afar.
And for me it’s not just about the money wasted. But the time that I wasted to search and buy and wait for it to arrive and then having to sell it and all that jazz. I just want to enjoy the things. But on a much smaller scale!
Thanks for the inspiration and push.
I'm so sorry to hear about your mum's passing. Thank you for sharing your personal journey with us. Have a good Christmas! xx
Very good points. I retired five years ago and cleared out a lot of my work clothes and shoes. But I think you have inspired me to do more.
That's amazing! I love the feeling of decluttering, it's so liberating xx
I think you should run workshops Eileen, teaching people about money and how to take the stress away from their lives. I would happily pay for my ticket 💕💕 Have a wonderful Christmas; I wish you and your family all the very best for 2021!
Aww you're too kind! Maybe one day! Merry Christmas to you too, JayJay xx
I just literally received my iPhone 13 pro max rn, and after watching this video, I'm having thoughts of opening it! Like I want to sell it... I prefer gadgets rather than luxury bags, so I think I will keep this 😊
Thank you so much for sharing your ideas about saving money.. 🙏🏻
Your so clever in the way you educate me/us about luxury purchase. I can’t stop recommending my friends to watch your video.
That really means a lot, thank you so much for your support xx
Thank you so much for another insightful video. Your take on luxury is refreshing. It's so nice to have someone promote being discerning when choosing luxury instead of being pressured into excess.
That’s the spirit! I’m a huge advocate as well of #bbbl buy better buy less!
Thank you so much!xx
This is a really informative and wise video for those who just started buying luxury items. I used to have quite a few handbags that was bought impulsively and later on regretted it. Now I'm quite content with my very small collection after selling more than half of my bags.
Glad you enjoyed my video! xx
Love the honesty, and depth of each point. Just stumbled on your channel, can't wait to watch more!
Thank you so much and welcome aboard!xx
Moving with expensive items is definitely always stressful!
I can imagine! And the insurance for that must be hefty xx
I adore your videos Eileen. I will always stand by less is more. I would much rather have a minimal curated wardrobe then own too many items and not be able to enjoy those pieces individually. I see so many luxury influences buy so many items so frequently.... Hardly giving enough time to enjoy their recent purchase they're onto the next one, it's just a never ending cycle. I do enjoy watching luxury hauls but it's just seems like they make purchases every other week.
Thanks for sharing!! I agree, it's so important to slow down and find joy in what we already own xx
Less is definitely more. Hopefully we can start travelling again soon in the near future, have a wonderful Merry Christmas Eileen
Same to you! Happy holidays xx
Thank you Eileen, I totally agree! Luxury minimalism is my motto 😘
Love that!xx
Yes hunny keep up the minimalism content❤️
Thank you! xx
Perfect summary! You pointed each reason out so perfectly and eloquently. I strive for the same but somehow I struggle here and there with my inner “collector” instinct.
Thank you so much Christian! Sending you lots of positive energy! 😇
@@ColourfulNoir Thank you! ❤️
Always loved a capsule wardrobe...i had a large bag collection and streamlined to about 10..in colours and styles that i can easily mix and match wirh my clothes 😊 ...saving space and money!
I totally agree! Less is more xx
I applaud you for your decisions✊🥂🍾I am in the process of minimizing my entire wardrobe❣️
Thank you! And good luck with decluttering your wardrobe xx
I loved this, I agree with everything you said and you made good points. I do not own luxury pieces but I used to shop a lot and after a few years I finally figured out that it was such a waste of my time and resources, and the things would make me happy only temporarily... I still buy things, I do not deprive myself of what I need, but I focus on the purpose and quality. I am planning to do a very low-buy year 2021
Thanks for sharing!! All the best for 2021 xx
Great video. Everyone needs to watch this.
Thank you so much, Erin xx
HI Eileen. Great video as always! They're the content that keeps my shopping craziness in check :) All the best!
Glad you like them! Thank you! xx
I have been into Minimalism for a while now and love it.
It's amazing how owning less can make us appreciate more xx
Thank you for this, would you do an updated handbag collection video of which ones you decided to keep? 😜💖
Hi Amy, it's going live in a few weeks 🧚♀️
Thank you dear 💓. People should watch this video . I believe 2020 has benefits on most of us. Happy to see people get more wiser 😍🌞
It's been a challenging year but all the uncertainties in 2020 have also changed me to a better person in a way xx
Hi Eileen , you are just spot on as usual. Really agree with the saying 'less is more' and think if you really need tgat particular item.
I must say that
I have been always wanting to buy a luxury handbag for years and years, as this has been my dream ..and I mean years. but have been very patient and waiting for the right time . So my children are sorted with education and a good work , house etc ......
Also when i finally buy my well deserved bag :) it has to be one that is not going to sit in my wadrobe and look pretty but also functional. Again. Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts with us.
. :) x
You've certainly kept your priorities right, kudos to you! xx
Thank you so much, I am just starting to build my collection but you caught my eye on being specific, intentional and purposeful in what you need or desire that is luxury. Have a great Christmas and thanks for sharing.
Glad it was helpful! Merry Christmas to you too xx
Loved knowing about the Diderot effect!! Amazing video as always 😍
Thanks so much 😊
I totally agree that most of the time we shop for happiness and excitement and to bring joy into a bad day . 2020 was the year that I shopped the most and spent much money on luxury items although it was the worst year to do so ! Anyhow for next years I am honestly planning not to buy anything and try to handle the stress and pressure by others ways
It might be tough at the start but I promise you, it will get easier and easier! xx
Same for me too! 2020 is the year I spent so much money on luxury items and I have mixed feelings, part joy and part guilty...working hard to steer clear from influencers so that I won’t be easily influence to purchase luxury items. Hope you will attain your goals in 2021! 🙆🏻♀️
@@indulgence12345 thanks dear . Hopefully will control myself more
that's so true. that SM does promote excessive buying. That's why I try not to follow influencers and those who promotes buying new things. I think I got Diderot effect. lol After I got my first luxury handbag, I wanted to collect all the classic ones from most popular brands, especially since their price keeps increasing.
That's so true that when we have more, we also worry more. Man I also worry about my handbags whenever the fire alarm go up in my apartment building or when I am away. :(
Thanks for this video. this is definitely something to reflect on.
I'm really glad to hear you liked my video! I found minimalism about 2 years ago and it's been changing my life in so many positive ways xx
@@ColourfulNoir yeah, i am going to keep this in mind when i feeling shopping. hahah
Mam, I get so much inspired by your videos of curating your wardrobe and luxury minimalism. I also like your style. So, mam please make a video on how to identify your personal style.
Sure 😊
Very wise advises my lady n I do get anxiety about traveling cuz I’m leaving my toys behind. 😅 happy holidays! ✨🎄✨😘😘😘Sandy
Hope you had a great Christmas, Sandy xx
Thanks for the great video. Luxury minimalism, less is more.
Absolutely! xx
Thanks for changing my life to luxury minimalism!
Welcome to the path of mindful spending! xx
For some reason I needed to hear this! Thank you so much, very well spoken!
Glad it was helpful!xx
Very good points. I love your point of saving time on researching, buying, selling. Love your channel! For 2021 I will focus on having less in general. I compare myself to others and I need to stop doing that. 💕
You can do it! I still catch myself doing it sometimes, but making the decision to give up on the comparison game really is liberating xx
This is really my goal. I just realized that I have so much SLGs 🤯 I am stepping away from Instagram and to a lesser extent, TH-cam, because I realized how much it influences my purchases.
Reducing the temptation is definitely a good idea xx
Love this video, wonderful points you have there! I only have 4 luxury bags and they are enough. Hello from Kuala Lumpur 🤗
Terima kasih! xx
I have never liked nor bought any branded stuffs. And I do appreciate your video and totally agreed with you. I appreciated my items and enjoyed with them however, I don't grow tremendous emotional attachment to them. I'm emotionally attached to my husband, my daughter and dog instead.
I'm considering to get few luxury items for the first time, only for special & social occasions with my husband. Luxury bags such as Hermes don't look fancy to me but it does boost social image. That's weird though but maybe I have to experience it to understand why many women bought it. It's like carrying lots of cash in your hands in the form of a bag and showing it off.
I'm looking for some videos and advice from experienced women and your video is quite helpful and healthy.
Much needed reminder.. thank you 🙏🏻
Glad it was helpful!xx
I follow you and watch every VDOs. I think you have perfectly collection,bag,fine jewelry and don’t want any thing else. Love ❤️❤️❤️. your thinking. Merry Christmas Eileen🎁🎄🎉
Thank you so much 😊 Happy holidays xx
Totally agree, actually I lost my interest towards luxury goods since the last 2-3 years. Most of them I don’t even wear or use anymore, this is a pure mindset changing for me
It's amazing how a slight change of mindset can completely change the way we live xx
@@ColourfulNoir The trend of minimalism i am actually using it as a chance to learn about myself and discover myself. everybody is different, in my case, i realized the moment of buying i am actually not that happy as i thought. The change, of course, has an impact on me and also on my friendship, because most of my female friends are still in buy buy buy mode, my focus has shifted. i still need to figure out how to handle this and i guess i am not alone.
You have truly made some relatable points I am so happy to be a subscriber to your channel because you always bring me back to reality with the points you make. You help me to not go down the path of spending money unnecessarily. Thank you!
I'm so glad! Thank you so much xx
Great video! Loving your content Eileen! xx
Thank you so much!! xx
Thank you Eileen. You are spot on. 💯
Thank you so much! xx
🙏🏼 Thank you very much for sharing your insightful advice 🙏🏼 Hope you had a wonderful Christmas 🎄
Happy holidays!xx
I love this video! It encompasses all of my thoughts. Thank you for sharing 💕
Glad you enjoyed it! Thank you! xx
Best luxury shopping advices!
Glad you think so! Thank you xx
Well said. Conscious buying shd be on those pieces that you really love... having said so... some brands do make you to buy a lot more than you really need to just ‘build’ the relationship :(
That's quite true! I believe in buying only the pieces I actually love, because that way, I wouldn't be disappointed even if there's no bag offer xx
Love this message!!!!!😊😊❤❤❤ I am trying to simplify my life and focus on self care. I agree with you 💯 %
You got this!xx
Yes learning to shop mindfully. Tq Eileen
Wonderful!xx
You've made such great points. I too am at that point where i'm trying to focus on a small luxury collection as it was getting out of hand, I mean honestly how many handbags do we really need? . Thanks for addressing
Thanks for sharing!!xx
I am in progress in reducing my collection and hope I can attain purse peace ✌🏻 Thank you for continue to inspire us with your small curated collection 😘
All the best with your downsizing xx
Love this. Very informative. Thanks for sharing.
Glad it was helpful!xx
Eileen another fantastic video thank you. I hope you have a wonderful Xmas and a great New Year.
Happy holidays!xx
Hello from Malaysia! Thank you for your wonderful content 🥰
Terima kasih! xx