Big Age Gap in relationship in Ukraine: does it work?

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  • @TheTraveler2222
    @TheTraveler2222 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    They are placing woman on a pedestal over men, the truth is once a woman is over 30, they are as good as expired goods, don't under sell yourself guys please!

    • @markhall6306
      @markhall6306 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree don't listen go for it

    • @one80srocker89
      @one80srocker89 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      In Ukraine there are 3 age ranges. They do tend to expire. They also become damaged goods. It is recommended no matter how old the man is, she needs to be under 25. But, F that, I don't want kids!

  • @amarjitminhas1202
    @amarjitminhas1202 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I too think if a guy looks good and active then age difference doesn't matter.

  • @dannukesem
    @dannukesem 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Of coarse the rules don't apply to everyone. If you are in shape, intelligent, and not boring, then it's a different deal.

  • @jdjd2059
    @jdjd2059 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I married my wife from Ukraine when I was 40, she was 23, and it works fine,

    • @magnummesiona72
      @magnummesiona72 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I believe you, 'coz my father was 20 yrs older than my mom and they both happy together with 6 children including me....

  • @maverickgood5204
    @maverickgood5204 8 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Olya, you left out a very important point. It's not just about what age a guy feels he is. It's also about what age he looks like. A large majority of older guys are not in good looking shape. They have not taken care of themselves over the years in a healthy way. Therefore, they are not aging well. I believe your video is tailored to these guys. There are other guys that live a healthy life and look very good. Even if they are 55 they look better than Ukrainian guys who are 35-40. These guys can still attract younger women.

    • @Olga_Reznikova
      @Olga_Reznikova  8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      yes, you are right)) And those guys mostly time want good looking girl, not just some average Ukrainian woman

    • @fulconer
      @fulconer 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She is talking about what MOST Ukrainian woman would be thinking.
      After the photo, the next thing a man or woman will be looking at is the person's AGE.
      Most 25 year old women that hear that a 55 years old men are interested in them would CRINGE at the idea ... even if the men are living healthy lives and look younger. 25 vs 55.
      Just as they said, it can happen but it is unusual.
      14 year age difference would be the max that MOST ladies would be comfortable with

    • @maverickgood5204
      @maverickgood5204 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Olga Reznikova that is exactly the problem. you are referring to in the video.

    • @maverickgood5204
      @maverickgood5204 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      wutsup do you live in Ukraine?

    • @ezrandre
      @ezrandre 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Agreed totally. That was another aspect of what I had in mind.

  • @jeffreyd508
    @jeffreyd508 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    As much as guys want to believe there is some magical place on Earth where beautiful, young girls want 55yo plumbers from Cleveland to marry, it doesn't. It certainly isn't here in Ukraine. Girls maintain high standards here, even though they lack leverage in the dating pool, as they are surrounded by beautiful girls and the girl to guy ratio is horrible for them. If you want girls 20+ years younger, go to SE Asia, more normal there.
    .
    I would say the girls here want guys near their age, and most prefer to date local guys and don't want to leave Ukraine. (Which is good, because the #1 rule is never bring them out of their environment).
    .
    Waitress at a cafe near my flat worked for Anastasia Date for 6 years as a letter writer, and translator. She tells all the stories that you probably know about, fake letters, girls pretending to not speak English to split translator fees, scam restaurants they work with etc. Shes not attractive, so she worked 'behind the scenes' on the scams. She summed up her work like this "If an out of shape, 50+ guy who drives a taxi comes here to marry a 22yo supermodel, he deserves to be scammed. And we actually did a good service by scamming all the guys, because they lost so much less than if the relationship was real and he DID get married"
    .

    •  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I do agree, though, they'd prefer local guys but only in a very general sense. If a foreigner *lives* there and speaks the language then he has as good of a chance as anyone. Perhaps even better due to the 'foreigner curiosity' aspect. But obviously thats not most foreigners who go there. Most live elsewhere and don't speak Russian or Ukrainian.

  • @jes4k4
    @jes4k4 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Olga hello and thank you for your videos. Some people just don't want to listen.... but please keep posting your videos for those with open ears!
    I know you are honest and you care about your viewers.
    Thank you

  • @crossroaderbuster6801
    @crossroaderbuster6801 8 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    there's alot of older guys that have young girlfriends or wivies no big deal.

    • @MartinSabol
      @MartinSabol 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Because their girls are Golddiggers. But Yeah if they both are ok with it than it is not a big deal. :D welcome 21 "century

  • @jdjd2059
    @jdjd2059 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I would not worry about age diffrentces, many girls especially in Ukraine prefer an older guy for relationship stability, serious love and ofcourse financial abilities. in other words, many local young men are not looking for marriage, and the girls had enough with nonsense.

    • @naveedahmed3384
      @naveedahmed3384 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      john doe I want marrage Ukraine Gil's help me quickly

  • @VictorFursov
    @VictorFursov 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Very funny and optimistic discussion, but a reality can be different. :)

  • @anaydenov
    @anaydenov 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This lady has awesome English! No accent, no nothing! I'm impressed.

    • @eddysolano4493
      @eddysolano4493 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      wrong , both ladies speak very good English but both ladies speak with Eastern European Accents .However, I wish I could speak Russian or Ukrainian the way they speak English

  • @doctorkoshmiralda918
    @doctorkoshmiralda918 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am happy to be one of the exceptions. When I was in my thirties, I married a beautiful young woman and we have been together happily now for over thirty years now in spite of the age gap (almost 15 years) and the fact that we have different tastes and habits. When I met her, she wasn't looking for an older guy (she had a young boyfriend then), but somehow we ended up together. I am very thankful for that. I do, however, agree with most things said in the video.

  • @leoinswlondon
    @leoinswlondon 8 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    In English we call Sugar Daddy.

    • @asithajayasundera1631
      @asithajayasundera1631 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Stop watching "Star Wars" and use Internet to educate yourself. I don't know where you are from but you sound like a typical North American. First, You have to understand the cultural differences. In Eastern Europe, young men tend to be abusive and alcoholics. (Dont take me wrong cuz this does not apply to every young man in that part of the world ) So Eastern European Women think that they can find stability and security with an older man. Every Woman seeks stability and security regardless which part of the world she lives.

    • @leoinswlondon
      @leoinswlondon 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Asitha Jay Right, right, right. I am sure you hold an PHD degree on this topic, so I will not going to argue at all.

    • @MsAmgrace
      @MsAmgrace 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That`s true,in Ukraine as well,just women from marginalised circles can agree for such marrige,so,if you see girl,who agree,means only her low social status

    • @MsAmgrace
      @MsAmgrace 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@asithajayasundera1631 What the nonsence,if man is alkoholic,he will be such at any age,the further,the worth, and in Ukraine less demanding women are women from bad families and marginalised social circles,and yes,they can have alkoholic parents,but question,what kind of men will selecn them,even if they agree for older men/

    • @Sanatani7727
      @Sanatani7727 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂😂 porn

  • @douglasweedman8088
    @douglasweedman8088 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good Common Sense Advice!
    Olga- Does your friend have an agency for introductions or dating?
    Congratulations to both of you for a job well done!

  • @mauriciovandrade
    @mauriciovandrade 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Right, My own experience, if she likes you the age is not problem, if she doesn't like you can even are with same age, she will not want you.

  • @hemihead001
    @hemihead001 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I love the truth you tell us Olga Thank you ! Now , with that being said , again I hear money . You are saying that if man makes an average income woman are not much interested in him . But , if you are wealthy then the women don't mind your age .
    Did you ever speak to Ukrainian women and explain to them how young men their age don't rarely have money ? Also , young men their age won't spend lots of money to bring them to their country because , if the young man is wealthy , he already has many women at home . And young men will not treat them well . They will use them because there are more young women that want him also . So maybe the women there need to put some thought into trying to find a young wealthy man . maybe lower their expectations and realize life isn't about traveling the world and living the lifestyles you see in Hollywood movies .
    I'm not being mean , I'm just living in reality .

    •  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      To be fair to them young women also look at the long term. They don't want to take care of an old man when she's still relatively young. Say she's 25 and he's 50. Well in 15 years his health could be very bad, as many men's health is at age 65. She will only be 40 and maybe even still raising children. Thats a lot to take care of at 40. Or maybe at 45 and he's 70. She'd still be relatively young, still maybe raising children. Why take care of a sick 70 year old man when you could have originally married someone the same age? So I get THEIR mindset, as well.

    • @MsAmgrace
      @MsAmgrace 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What tell this women,it`s not the truth-it`s big business,when owner of such sites and agencies write letters instead of women and make man to pay for them-but practically they communicate with workers,and most never will see real girl,who even don`t know,what`s happening

  • @robertglas5854
    @robertglas5854 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Fantastic video Olga! Your guest expresses herself so well!

  • @FishHeadBiologist
    @FishHeadBiologist 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She doesn't understand the average man in USA looks 8 to 10 years younger than the same man in Ukraine. The hard life of smoking, drinking and bad nutrition makes Ukrainian man age badly. So a man can get the younger lady 15 yrs younger because of the look.

    • @one80srocker89
      @one80srocker89 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Those habits age alot of Americans too. Not all Ukrainian men have these habits and they don't age any different. That statement is false. The opportunities for work in Ukraine aren't glorious. The way business is done in Ukraine is like a wild wild west. There is a lifestyle with less appeal. There are lots of ladies in Ukraine that don't want or are not interested in foreign men as well.
      Alot depends on the individual. As for me, I don't like American women. I've always been drawn to European women my whole life. I also am Slavic by blood. But Ukrainian women belive in many cases that western men treat women better. I think there are many of us who don't like what we see in the west and how toxic it is and are rejected for being good guys. I met several western guys visiting in Ukraine and we shared our stories about experiences with women in the US. Ukrainian women appreciate more of what we have to offer in terms of kindness and what is in our hearts.
      Ukrainian women have also encountered nightmare situations with western men. And it's not like there haven't been cases where she gets to the US and goes crazy. That can happen. She gets exposed to all the temptation and finds a better deal. And others are just as loyal and devoted as can be.

  • @mansourjaber7450
    @mansourjaber7450 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    awesome video as always olga

  • @sweeteric76
    @sweeteric76 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    in many cases she feels like she is dating someone her father's age. If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is =)

  • @merlinvikinghorn379
    @merlinvikinghorn379 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Olga Reznkova this is my plan:
    Pull up my Harley after I'm all pumped up from working out at Ukraine gym , with my leather Jacket/ gold chains
    Then Stop At " Rest home" and try to find " old women" who wants to go for a ride with someone her own age, ha ah,
    Sounds like winner yes or no ? Olga

  • @syco98
    @syco98 8 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I have a lot of experience in this, my girlfriend is Ukrainian, we just have a 5 year difference which is okey, most of the times I seen how men from the UnitedStates, Canada, U.K, Germany, France , Italy and some other European countries think that Ukrainian women and other Eastern European women are going to fall on their knees for them just because they come from these countries these men think that Ukrainian women are very easy to get and many of them in their 50's or 60's are trying to find very young girls 20 or even 30 years younger than them, which at the end they get disappointed 😔 to know that there is no way they are interested in them no matter if they come from these rich nations, these old lonely men are very delusional, many of them have had many divorces throughout their lives or simply couldn't find somebody due to their attitude, they go to Ukraine thinking these poor girls are so desperate to get out of Ukraine and poverty that as soon as I show them my passport they will instantly fall in love with me and won't care about the huge age gap, these are the kind of men that are so lonely back home and desperate to find someone young, and these men are also the most vulnerable men to get scammed. These are the kind of men that are pathetic and losers and that Ukrainian women need to avoid at all costs, unless you are dumb girl and don't love yourself enough you will fall for these idiots which are only looking to take advantage of you because you are young.

    • @corriescrivener1937
      @corriescrivener1937 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      go f--k your self u fool what if thiese guys in there 40ts wont a kid older woman cant have kids for the most part

    • @wariswrong4920
      @wariswrong4920 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're a feminist western male insulting normal men for wanting to date hot young women. You see life experience as a negative and something pathetic to foist on what can really be a lucky young woman whose looks may be gone in 3 years leaving her to a life of poverty had he not come along in the short time she was hot

  • @cursino1
    @cursino1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So, if a man is 40 and looks 30 and a woman is 25 but looks 35, he is still too "old" for her???????????

  • @LonskiBig
    @LonskiBig 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ...Well.....that's me in that picture.....next to me is an ITALIAN girl 20 y/o....I am 61 y/o....she asked to take a photo with me in Prague....I didn't ask her, she asked me....I regularly get letters from 19 y/o girls from the Ukraine.....

  • @tonytowers5889
    @tonytowers5889 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    3 years ago I married my lovely Ukrainian wife. She is 35, I am 53. Last year we had a beautiful baby boy. I love her, she loves me. I really love your videos, but this video (and you say little) really annoyed me. Who is this person who has joined you? She seems to think she knows all. In our case she knows nothing. Grrrrrr.

    • @innotafanofanyofjlbjlbissd6777
      @innotafanofanyofjlbjlbissd6777 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Keith Gardner hi Keith what city in the Ukraine were you in ?

    • @allenofatlanta
      @allenofatlanta 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Keith Gardner, you're the " exception " that they referred to in the video. You're a lucky man.

    • @PhilLaird
      @PhilLaird 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Keith Gardner, I totally agree with you. This is such a bias video and ignores the success stories.

    • @TheDarrenO
      @TheDarrenO 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Not the exception really. I lived in Russia and Ukraine for a few years in my late 40's and it was extremely easy to hook up with 19-25 year old women. I'm 52 now and live in S.E. Asia and STILL have young Russian women looking to hook up. No I am not rich nor am I particularly good looking. Women like confidence and especially women from Eastern bloc countries. Not arrogance, confidence.

    •  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheDarrenO : Yeah as long as you know enough of the language and have CONFIDENCE and an alpha male demeanor then you have a chance. I've known plenty of 50+ year old western men who've had gf's 20 years younger. And I mean genuine relationships, of course. Its not always easy, but it can be done if you are the *right type* of older guy..

  • @gregorythoman8281
    @gregorythoman8281 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you for the video. I am involved with a much younger girl. She says that the age difference is not important. Of course I worry about it. I do not believe in long letter writing. I prefer to write gor a couple if months and then go meet the girl. Unlike most men I am in a position to spend a long time in Ukraine and I am not opposed to moving there. That is always one of my "test " questions to a girl. If she really wants to move to the US I look for someone else. The girl I am now writing was very excited to know that she would not have to leave her family. I don't have a question I'm just rambling.

    • @bullwingsc6216
      @bullwingsc6216 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      This makes a lot of sense and smart. I am also thinking of living there part time. Most of the girls I met do not want to move to the United States...regardless of what the dating sites tells you.

    • @jdjd2059
      @jdjd2059 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      i would not worry about age diffrentces, many girls especially in Ukraine prefer an older guy for relationship stability, serious love and ofcourse financial abilities.
      in other words, many local young men are not looking for marriage, and the girls had enough with nonsense.

    • @gregorythoman8281
      @gregorythoman8281 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      bullwings c I wish you great luck.

    •  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bullwingsc6216 Youre right, most dont. Not because they dont like the U.S., I think most do. But because they'd be so far away from family. Even moving from east to west Ukraine is difficult LOL. But at least there the culture is very similar. Its a lot different in the U.S.

    • @wariswrong4920
      @wariswrong4920 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      If you worry about it, you should. That is because low confidence turns women off

  • @2ndTim3_1-6
    @2ndTim3_1-6 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think the key here is how you carry yourself. You can be a young 50 year old or an old 30 year old, she will forget your age if you act right.

  • @TheShanjutt
    @TheShanjutt 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    wow you done a good job, you make a mind to think about Ukrainian women

  • @tomsimpson197
    @tomsimpson197 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I talked to several women from Ukraine and Russia and age was not a problem with them because I looked a lot younger than I am.The problem came when I talked to my sister and she asked me how many children I wanted. My kids are grown she said two of her doctor friends married much younger women and the doctors had a reverse vasectomy and their younger wives had babies.The women I talked to didn't want to come and live in the United States either they wanted me to come over there. I tried to send a woman I taked to all the time on the phone some money just to help her but she wouldn't take it.

  • @kc4ril
    @kc4ril 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I lived in Ukraine for 1.5 years. I was 33 and had an 18 year old girlfriend, but she pursued me. I told her several times that I thought our age difference was too much but she said she didn't feel the age difference and in the end I couldn't resist her. However I never looked for young girls, there are plenty of very attractive girls there in there late 20's and 30's and I know that I have a better chance of stable long term relationship with them. If your going to date someone from a different country then you'd better try to find someone you can have a serious long term relationship with, because it's going to take a lot more effort then dating someone from your home country and it's not really worth it for short term relationships.

  • @Fredoleronjomjohanse
    @Fredoleronjomjohanse 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Olga if you are a "old" guy in your 40 you do not go to Ukraine looking for girls that are 40 years old, you look for younger girls. If not i advice you to stay at home where you can find "old" ladies.

    • @maxbrockner5842
      @maxbrockner5842 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Cyberboy_no makes sense to me, I'm 52 and would never look abroard for a 52 year old, I'm looking for eye candy like Olga.

  • @daynaparquette4248
    @daynaparquette4248 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Olga, I loved your video. I do believe your age gap is correct. The man is usually older by 7 to 10 years. I would never want a 25 year old girl. I would prefer someone 32 to 35 years of age. The same rule applies in the U.S. These old men should cherish their younger years and seek to grow old with someone compatible.

  • @solorsix
    @solorsix 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hell no it doesn't work if your looking for love. Olga, regarding your shirt; is it a political statement where the word "home" is located? Do you sympathize with DPR?

  • @horiboyablemgtow7842
    @horiboyablemgtow7842 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    My wife is Ukrainian and there is 16 years age difference. Married 12 years so far and two children. Her mother married an older guy too.
    Traditionally men have been much older than their wives because years ago a man had to go out and prove himself and get some resources behind him so he could support a family. Today too many people watch Hollywood movies like Pretty Women (as though that would ever happen) and women have replaced husbands with the state but it is not going to last.

  • @mattingray5651
    @mattingray5651 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well, for me, if the girl focus on age solely. I say GOOD BYE. Next. No time for that, there are more interesting things to do than just the age.

  • @ricardosanchez2518
    @ricardosanchez2518 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    I also think is VERY important when that age gap take place... For example: It is very different if a man is 20 years older than the girl when she is on her 20s, but when she is already 32, 35, 37 then, that difference will be easier to tolerate by her. My fiance is 33 years old, I am 56, and I am completely convinced she love me sincerely and like me as a man in all aspects of our relationship. I am not saying that we are the ordinary, but.. Yes, all rules has some exceptions. Men... If you find a woman that is a lot younger than you, make sure she REALLY love you and not only love you, but like you and accept you as you are.

    • @Dovenpeis
      @Dovenpeis 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It is all fine and well when you still can somewhat keep up with her, but what do you think will happen when you are 70?

  • @onetrubrit6151
    @onetrubrit6151 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    100% true from my perspective.

  • @BorderGuards
    @BorderGuards 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Who is she? Put her on more often.

  • @bobdavis6511
    @bobdavis6511 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Im 51 and still want olga

  • @rt.240
    @rt.240 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    all older men seem to have gone mad.trying to.date a girls of there daughters age.maximum shud be + - 8.

    • @Dovenpeis
      @Dovenpeis 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This has actually been the norm for men for thousands of years. Marrying within your age range is actually a brand new thing within the European civilisation. In previous years, men needed money to marry girls, and since young men usually do not have money, men usually did not get married until they were old and had accumulated money, and young girls usually married old men who had the money to provide for them. Do you know what drove the Vikings to pillage English villages? You guessed it, the young men in the tribes were usually drawn to the prospect of plunder so they could afford to marry a sweetheart back home. So if you are a smart man, you better start thinking about the obvious connection between women, men, sex and money. It is deeply rooted, not just in culture, but in biology as well.

    • @anonymous2575
      @anonymous2575 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣🤣🤣

  • @broadcastdave
    @broadcastdave 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am 17 years older than the girl i have been talking to for a year. she has never asked for money. i will meet her next month. we will see if there is a connection in real life. i am active and young at heart. people often mistake me for being much younger.

    • @Olga_Reznikova
      @Olga_Reznikova  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      broadcastdave and you do not pay for letters?

    • @broadcastdave
      @broadcastdave 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      no. i paid for a phone call once to talk to her and get her information and have not paid anything since. she has not asked for any money or anything either.
      i did the same thing with another girl, but she didnt give me her information and wants to communicate on the site only. i havent talked to her since.

  • @Ryan_Revier
    @Ryan_Revier 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Similar to Japan's age gap, they had been struggling with low birth rates and this could probably happens in Ukraine also. major Asia-Pacific region had the lowest birth rates since then. Even Taiwan experienced the low birth rates also. since then, marrying a older men in Japan isn't a serious thing happens, instead it builds a balanced growth of the nations populations. That isn't a worse part after all. It's just happens in the developing nations and Ukraine night also felt the same way within it.

  • @jenspflug7473
    @jenspflug7473 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Who is that nice, very confident lady by your side, Olga?

  • @cursino1
    @cursino1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    For this logic, is a woman date a man of her age, she could feel she is dating his brother???????????

  • @stanspb763
    @stanspb763 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    There is less age discrimination in Eastern Europe. Those who are having similar interests and life style seem to have less age restrictions. But flying in on a short vacation and only using words to convey life style and behavior is a no-go. IF a guy is serious, he needs to go live in Ukraine or Russia and life a normal(for you) life and other having the same social and intellectual pursuit will gravitate to each other. Most western guys have very limited cultural outlets, they work and watch tv on the sofa, life is stressful and insecure so going on a short vacation and reciting the fun activities and intellectual activities they are interested in is usually lying to themselves. They might say they love to travel or go dancing but in reality it is wishing because they are too busy working to pay the bills and never travel or go to clubs but maybe 1 time a year. It might be their wish but they have so little time for anything but work and paying bills and falling asleep in front of a TV and repeating. Now young Eastern European girl is interested in the life he actually leads. I advise my female friend in Ukraine and Russia(I have lived in Russia for almost 20 years) when asking about activities, or specific examples like everyone says the love to travel but few Americans travel except by cruise ship and nowhere near as often or as joyously as young people in Eastern Europe. If the girl is 25 it is likely she has been in far more countries than American men have. I go to the ballet, galleries, exhibitions, dance clubs, concerts, fine dining every week at least 4-6 nights so I meet many many women who are much younger but we hit it off because of similar lifestyles an interests. Because I am out all the time doing life, they see me as a contemporary and accepted into their social network even though I am much older. But I'm not after them but have so much in common we often develop close long term friendships. Most of the young girls I met on club dance floors 20 years ago are still friends. But occasionally, one 1/2 my age become interested in a relationship, so it seems normal. My current GF is a lawyer and my business partner in one business, we have been together 6 years and knew each other for several years before that. I am 70 and she is 36, very attractive stylish fit and active very feminine woman. No one thinks it is strange to see us traveling, dancing, running, attending cultural performances. She allows me my freedom so I go dancing in clubs without her often because I am more connected to that scene, everyone knows me in the clubs and jazz or rock clubs.I was in the music industry for decades in California so everyone here has albums I produced or recorded for top artists.
    I still have the same waist size I had at age 20 and fit but old. The only reason I did not date more age-similar women as they were not interested in the same activities, never wanted to go dancing until 6am or climbing mountains or backpacking across Turkey sleeping in caves but also exploring the great museums of the world or art, opera, ballet, etc.
    So my advice is for men to look at who their long-time friends are, and log what that actually do each month versus what they wanted to do or dreamed of doing. Most western men are actually older psychologically and physically than their actual ages and have almost nothing in common with women even 10 years younger. Just because someone wants a younger more attractive slimmer, smoother skin partner does not mean she could be compatible with them. It was their choice to have a routine life and get into debt in serial spirit deadening jobs. There life habits and choice are not attractive to women who the men want. I am of the belief that most western men are not suitable for any Eastern European woman due to the very different values and beliefs. IF a western guy really wants a woman from these countries they should move here and adapt to it because the only reason they want a foreign partner is the feeling that their own society is toxic for relationships. IT IS, or else they would not have to 7000 miles to find a date. They assume the problem is the women in their society but ignore that they grew up with identical influences and customs as the women who the reject. It is cruel to make an Eastern woman adopt to the very society that made the women...and men, so poor of life partners.

  • @mohammedrahman8311
    @mohammedrahman8311 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Age doesn't matter, it's just a digital number. If you have good character or personality & you don't have to be well-off in financially. As long you can feed yourself & your wife. Not everything about money & gold. If you like each other then go for it. Many men who are in their late 50s & 60s not so good-looking, marry girls who are 25 to 35 years younger. 👍🇬🇧

  • @TonkaGoldman-xd5iw
    @TonkaGoldman-xd5iw 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Women are a commodity. If you frame your objective around that then you will have no problems. We are stronger, we have more money and we have the power over them. Be a man and she will drop to her knees.

  • @Aqeel.sss.sultan
    @Aqeel.sss.sultan 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love Ukrainian people

  • @geethak3107
    @geethak3107 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Match makers will take a brokerage commission

  • @LovelySingh-pp4sc
    @LovelySingh-pp4sc 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oyla i am facing the same problem here in India, i am trying to remarry my parents because i am unsatisfied
    From my parents they never love or encourage me due to money and heavy stress

  • @markdancer9149
    @markdancer9149 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    this is nice and all but I just was wondering if you will make more language videos soon. you teach well.

  • @voiceoftruth1O1
    @voiceoftruth1O1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's all about sacrifice. Relationship not based on physical attraction.

  • @pablotzuarbenisrael9916
    @pablotzuarbenisrael9916 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's not impossible and great video.

  • @robertpuljiz1154
    @robertpuljiz1154 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    yeah the more money the better

  • @edwardhale4294
    @edwardhale4294 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    of course it works

  • @TheTriggerNZ
    @TheTriggerNZ 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    OMG! I like your shirt! Awesome design! Did you buy in Kiev?

    • @Olga_Reznikova
      @Olga_Reznikova  8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      TheTriggerNZ yes, this is brand "Folk Moda"

  • @sandeepcustnea8376
    @sandeepcustnea8376 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    very true and make sense

  • @wmfeagin
    @wmfeagin 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Interesting - I have gotten a great deal of interest from Ukrainian women between the ages of 18-30, many of them saying they don't mind the age difference. My profile on the site I've been using has my age right there next to my name.

    • @Olga_Reznikova
      @Olga_Reznikova  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      they can tell you anyhing)Did you married with one of them?

    • @wmfeagin
      @wmfeagin 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Olga Reznikova No, but there is one that I have been getting to know for many months now, and she seems to actually be interested in me as a person and a future life partner. I have bought a few things for her; she is aware that I have money problems, and has made sure to find some good deals. She seems to be sincere and serious about me. She is also nearly 22 years younger than me.

  • @johndeeregreen7949
    @johndeeregreen7949 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I identify more with women who are around the same age as me or 6 years older then me.

  • @LorenzoBlade
    @LorenzoBlade 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Do you think 10 years is OK? I meet a Ukrainian girl last month and she really look interested in me.
    She call me every night and is coming to work were I live soon. I do lot of sports and eat health so that might be a plus.

  • @kevinnus1
    @kevinnus1 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    good video can not do one about prices in odessa or just ukraine in 2018 from the supermarket and restaurant

  • @tenaga8899
    @tenaga8899 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    My gf is 16 years older than me.age doesn't matter for some people.

  • @dogolover4924
    @dogolover4924 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    WELL I THINK I HAVE TO GO TO RUSSIA 🇷🇺 DONALD TRUMP GET A YOUNGER WOMAN THERE 30 years younger !! 😃👍 💰

  • @karelkasek7705
    @karelkasek7705 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi, I'm from Czech republic (central europe, with neighbors Germany, Austria, Poland and Slovakia) next week I'm going to western Ukraina and I think why to looking for girls from another countries when we have pretty girls in our countries? Do you want to say that girl from your country are not so good?

  • @williambrown1065
    @williambrown1065 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    The rule I've heard is 'half plus 7." So if you are 40 you should only date people age 27 to 66. I've applied to teach English in Ukraine because I want to help the people advance, especially the women who have so few options that marrying a much older Westerner is their best option. But if you know some sweet, single babuska appropriate for a 65 year old, let me know. :)

    • @Olga_Reznikova
      @Olga_Reznikova  8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      William Brown I know, and she speaks English ;)

    • @williambrown1065
      @williambrown1065 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      OK, but does she have good job so she can support me?

    • @maxbrockner5842
      @maxbrockner5842 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      William Brown LMAO

    • @JD-hs7ib
      @JD-hs7ib 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Will Brown... you are correct but then you must divide by pi

    • @corriescrivener1937
      @corriescrivener1937 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      no one with a brain on how love works goes by that rule. that rule was made by feminist who hate men because men don't wont them. date who u wont over 18

  • @brijmohansharma172
    @brijmohansharma172 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    olya age gap beyond certain limit should not be allowed to get on with sacred nuptial nott.

  • @petertherock7340
    @petertherock7340 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is simply discrimination. There is no scientific evidence that age gap marriages are destined to fail any more than other marriages. One needs to be smart before they consider any international marriage. These marriage agencies overseas want you to play by “their” rules and give them your money instead. Use common sense in any relationship. You don’t have to go to Ukraine to find a spouse. These people also never talk about what really makes a marriage last- faith and values. If you don’t have this, your relationship (no matter your age or mutual interests) hasn’t got a prayer. These marriage agencies are also part of the “scam.”

  • @2qfiwefm9w
    @2qfiwefm9w 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    olga.. i want to ask,,
    how if the woman is older?
    if around 2-3 years different i think its oke..
    so i wanna ask, if lets say the man 25, and the woman 35.. how about this?

  • @fouadigout
    @fouadigout 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ukraine's girls are more modest
    And splendor and beauty
    My wish is to meet a beautiful girl and marry her and take care of her for a decent family and sweet children
    Where are you girls of Ukraine?😍🌷🌺🌻💘

  • @bikrammatharu3173
    @bikrammatharu3173 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    hi
    my name is bikram from India. right now i'm doing job in dubai. i'm 26 years old. could you guide me how to migrate easily?

  • @sardarpervezkhankhan4777
    @sardarpervezkhankhan4777 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice agree with you I am 52years who like married with me

  • @allon33
    @allon33 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Okay, I'm 60, opening my eyes :)

  • @christopherchristianity2379
    @christopherchristianity2379 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    I got a wife from Ukraine 16 years younger , skinny ,pretty , was Miss Charm in her city , 160 cm and from a good family . Now will be working in a prison for 45 dollars an hour .Anyone can top that ? No offence .

    • @maxbrockner5842
      @maxbrockner5842 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      CHRISTOPHER CHRISTIANITY she must be a on call Head nurse, they make really good money. I know nurses in CA that make 125k a year but no benefits.

  • @Sujoanghosh
    @Sujoanghosh 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    That's correct it's the question of interests in life - I think we are talking about sterotypes - typical image of life travel, go out, do this do that - what if someone want a lady who's laid back , from the village and doen't have demands like horse riding, para gliding, going to Arjentian for tango , and go to Dubai for expensive marketing - IS it a relationship that 's going to be based on Love and selflessness or satisfying meaningless desires at the expense of others . WHat are we talking about here - We are not talking about what values will the lady pass on to her children - what she could do to make a family based on high moral values , what she could do be the pillar of the family to whom all themembers would get their emotional food and all other qualities that makes a woman very importanat - a woman is not important in the society because she has long legs and puts on expensive make up - but yes she is important because she is intelligent, emotional, caring, family oriented, has qualities that make us a human being - and yes when I say women , I mean men as well It goes for bopth the species - It's our qualities and finesse and intellect that makes the difference and not our external identity.

  • @Erik3E
    @Erik3E 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Now i'm not looking for a Ukrainian wife but I'm 27 so I think i'm good :D

  • @jasondaniel918
    @jasondaniel918 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    So, what you are saying is that Ukrainian women follow the money. That motivation is not peculiar to Ukraine. It is universal.

  • @rivughosh1230
    @rivughosh1230 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Olga, I want to quote from, a writer, considered, to one of best of our time, mark Twain, once said, age is a number over matter over mind, if you do mind it.dose not matter. And, if.say relationship is.calculate. game, then I am sorry to say dear, a man or woman can live with.each other, only.if they feel for.them.

    • @Olga_Reznikova
      @Olga_Reznikova  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Age is not so much matter, true... But I believe it is when you meet in life, first you get to know each other and later you found some attaction. But from the beginning if you are 30 years old girl, why you should look at man who is 55? It is still disadvantage for him

    • @rivughosh1230
      @rivughosh1230 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Olga_Reznikova yes Olga, that is true, in the sense of eventuality. Let, me explain you, you meet a man or think reverse, a man meet a woman, and to your word, they are say 30 and 55 , here if you want to calculate life, on material reality, ofcourse, you have derivative choice of variation, that can lead the life, with both of you in a certain specific manner. But Olga, a relationship and and literally and authentically true relationships, start beyond that point. I never disagree with you, that in this utter materialistic world, you need money or other comfort in every single, step. But, as you know.some say, money cannot buy you love. Every pleasure has its own right, age or other thing cannot specify it, the only thing that it specify, is your Willings and stability to stand at every situation. As life goes on, everything slowly become immaterial, that only matters the person you live with.

  • @sandeepcustnea8376
    @sandeepcustnea8376 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can you make a video about wedding tips,about how to save?

  • @darap9822
    @darap9822 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thats general issues especially western men/women look so much older than their age. Some of them may look 35 when actually they are about in their 20s................. :"(

  • @harleyss475
    @harleyss475 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    ... there are not many men in their thirties and forties who are financially responsible...

  • @ezrandre
    @ezrandre 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hi Olga and your clever colleague,
    Yes, that is true generally. And the wider the age gap the less likely it is that the relationship will be built on solid ground, but more likely on superficial considerations like romance, sex, and money. But there are always exceptions to the rule. Differences of age in years become less important when parties who have seen the vanity of it all, come together driven by the mutual need for stability in a relationship built on shared ethical and spiritual values. That is really the only sound basis for perfect marriage. 'Whomsoever God has joined together no man must (can) put asunder.' I suspect that this ideal has been severely eroded in your country? I notice not many ladies in the dating circuit list anything under the heading of religion. Could this be a reason for all the many available women floating around in your country? Is it perhaps a legacy of your atheistic/communistic past?

    • @michaelk969
      @michaelk969 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are right I have experienced this first hand. Compared to the USA many Ukrainian ladies are afraid of men that they would describe as "religious fanatics". A person qualifying for that term in the USA would really need to be very radical. But in the UA going to church every Sunday might be consider fanatical to some of these ladies. I think it is a legacy of being part of the atheistic USSR. They cannot see how that period of history affected their views on religion. Also, Notice how the marriage agency owner described Ukrainian ladies being taken care of by their sugar-daddy-provider. They think this is normal. It is a cultural difference to the USA. We have sugar-babies in the USA but we recognize them as an anomaly.

  • @bobski.personal
    @bobski.personal 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    does your cute friend have a channel too?? she seems awesome.

  • @shasamkhan9356
    @shasamkhan9356 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Olga please tell me this girl name

  • @cowpoke02
    @cowpoke02 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    maybe in ukraine . women are more mature . it is true. plus women like a real guy not fake and honest , funny . stable . option between trouble or not trouble your odds go up. good video;s . nice people.

  • @BelusTraveller
    @BelusTraveller 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    How old do you consider old, Olga, You know me very well, do you consider me old, I would love to date a women that is my age, but so many can't keep up. Money is really not an issue, I love the way you think!!! BAMMMMMM In your face!!!!

  • @alexanderlisin6500
    @alexanderlisin6500 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    15 years is probably a good maximum. But you have to be in shape, good looking, intelligent, etc... I see foreigners in good restaurants in Kharkov and Dnepr, 50+, fat and balding...and they are sitting with a cute 25 year old girl and her translator... if it's too good to be true, it probably is)

    • @corriescrivener1937
      @corriescrivener1937 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      there is no maximum age as long as shes over 18 date who u want and stop whining

  • @lewis7573
    @lewis7573 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have meet a lot of Ukrainian women that are in their 20's that don't want a young husband and only date men from 30 to 50 so I don't no what they are talking about

    • @maxbrockner5842
      @maxbrockner5842 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      LEWIS WAYNE that's what I'm talking about, I like that, I'm 52 years old and want me some Olga looking gal to play with.

  • @GreenTeaViewer
    @GreenTeaViewer 8 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Yikes...not liking the vibe here as I'm imagining the viewers are a bunch of fat, old guys fantasising about young Ukrainian women. And not liking Olga's guest as she seems pretty OK with fleecing these guys. I think what this channel could do with occasionally is the male point of view.

    • @Da1RiSiN1sMoKe
      @Da1RiSiN1sMoKe 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Exactly my thoughts. Lots of fetish sympathizers and old men here imagining love is just one click and one paycheck away.

    • @fulconer
      @fulconer 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Bullshit. Here guest didn't suggest in any way it's "OK with fleecing these guys."
      Idiot. She was simply stating the truth that MOST young ladies aren't interested in guys that they CONSIDER old. Twenty-five year age difference is old. A 7 -14 age difference is more acceptable. Where the fuck is she suggesting "fleecing" the old cunts?
      She was actually telling the OLD farts wanting a pretty young thing, to GET REAL..

    • @mohammedrahman8311
      @mohammedrahman8311 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      magicwheel1 😅😄😄😄🤣😂

    • @Elregar71
      @Elregar71 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      News flash, young and in shape guys are fantasizing about 'em too.

  • @vaughnnebeker4086
    @vaughnnebeker4086 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I needed some one inharit the estate & the siver "oil .

  • @sirhendro
    @sirhendro 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    What about the other way around? A younger man dating an older woman? :D

  • @saec1997
    @saec1997 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lol my grandmother is from Ukraine and she married my grandfather who is 20 years older than her. Soooooo....

    • @enzoorciuoli328
      @enzoorciuoli328 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      So she not bich lick de two winners

  • @miloscvoimsus1118
    @miloscvoimsus1118 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Were You In Lviv Yesterday, If Yes, I Saw You!

  • @humblebutperfect7281
    @humblebutperfect7281 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am unmarried.
    I have 40 years old.
    Could I get match.

  • @bajskorv766
    @bajskorv766 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Common values are key and with a big age gap values are often different. The oroblem is most loser guys think they are brad pitt and think some 22 year old model will ever love them.

    • @hemihead001
      @hemihead001 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      In the same sense , many young guys think they are the greatest thing under the sun and treat women like trash .

  • @bertreynolds8146
    @bertreynolds8146 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is a great video, not just for guys looking for foreign wives but just pure common sense, which so many men seem to painfully lack, or they THINK, just because a girl is from a different country she will somehow give up everything to be with any guy, even 40 years older, just to get out of her situation. Guys THEY'RE NORMAL WOMEN WITH POSSIBLY EVEN HIGHER STANDARDS than what your own country even offers, they don't just settle or become instantly attracted because they are from Ukraine or Russia. Some women will take advantage of having someone financially support them, but that's the rare ones folks, the majority of women do not want to be with an much older guy day in and day out in their lives. Also take care of yourselves for god sake's, don't be such a fat slob that doesn't take care of himself or his body, do something for yourselves. I'm not sure why some guys stop competing to look their best and still think they are sexy to women looking like trash.

    • @Fredoleronjomjohanse
      @Fredoleronjomjohanse 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bert Reynolds how old are you Burt?

    • @bertreynolds8146
      @bertreynolds8146 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      I meant 40 years older, not 40 years. That's probably what you're talking about. I'm below 40, older than 20, there's a clue.

    • @Fredoleronjomjohanse
      @Fredoleronjomjohanse 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think you like Olga video if you are younger, in general older men above 50 dont like it. It's a fact women look best below 35 years old.

    • @bertreynolds8146
      @bertreynolds8146 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well, women under 35 do look better, that's a fact. I know that doesn't change, neither for women nor men in many cases, but it still creeps out a lot of younger women and the way older men approach younger women makes them feel quite uncomfortable.

    • @Dovenpeis
      @Dovenpeis 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nobody tells them this in these days and age of feminism of course, but most women will start missing the lost male attention when they get past 40 and upwards. But then they just discover a new way of blaming all their problems on men, that men devalues them by not giving them attention anymore. In other words, a classic situation of damned if you do, and damned if you don't.

  • @tonytowers5889
    @tonytowers5889 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    My God. I am watching this for the second time. Your colleague really loves herself.

    • @Olga_Reznikova
      @Olga_Reznikova  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      maybe, she is beautiful)

    • @tonytowers5889
      @tonytowers5889 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      In your opinion, Olga. You are the beautiful one)))

    • @maxbrockner5842
      @maxbrockner5842 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Olga Reznikova your the one that's beautiful, but you are married.

  • @nickatanassov104
    @nickatanassov104 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Money ,money , money everything else is BS. Women have there way with words.

  • @ismailm.a6408
    @ismailm.a6408 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    ok but how meet for u an how relation ship with u

  • @belalfayyad7335
    @belalfayyad7335 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    My friend told me that if you finencially collapsed she would abandon you

  • @TonkaGoldman-xd5iw
    @TonkaGoldman-xd5iw 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    This advice they are giving you is the dating agency way to scam you out of money. I f you can't get a woman at home, you won't get a good one in Ukraine. They are aware of their value.