Falling In Love With A Married Man | 2 Do's And Dont's!
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 8 มี.ค. 2019
- Are you falling in love with a married man? Do you want to know what to do?
This is a tough situation and I will always tell you to be careful… it's not a good idea to project yourself in relationship that cannot be stable. In This type of situation, your happiness and your future are not in your control, which makes this dangerous.
If you fall in love with a married man, you have to be sure to maintain some distance because the odds of him ending his marriage in choosing you are very slim. Married men are afraid of losing what they've built with their family…
So if you want to stand out then you have to be a challenge. Don't give 100% of your attention to someone who can't give you the same amount of attention.
I know it's hard, but here are some tools:
1. Keep space between you
That way, you can ensure that you are a challenge.
2. Make it easy for him to see a future with you
All married men want to be happy and if they can see their future with you, the entire situation changes. So how can you make him see a future with you? The easiest way is to talk about your life and your goals with tangible enthusiasm. The way you talk can create emotions in other people… This guy wants to see an exciting future for himself, whether it is with you or not.
If you want to make sure that he can give you what you want, then you have to talk about your life and your projects and see how he reacts.
Remember there are 7 billion people on this planet, so I encourage you to find someone who is available to love you and the way that you deserve.
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Met a married man at work, we built a relationship and he told me he is in love with me....I told him: I am in love with you too but I don't want to be a third wheel. If you truly loves me you will make me a priority. So I broke up with him, I said I need to put my self as a priority I cannot treat my self this low as your mistress....I feel so relieved, I feel like the power is in my hand! I gained my pride and dignity and I let justice to serve me....I also told him that I will never be desperate for love as love will always find me....I feel so good abt my self right now I feel so powerful
Continue to stay strong!
Alex Cormont - The French Relationship Expert the POWER of walking away, letting go, surrender and living on the end result is STRONG, I'm so happy that I don't have any fear of losing anyone who can't prioritize me. I'm gorgeous, I work out, super fit, I've a great high paying job, I'm independent, I'm beautiful inside and outside, Love will find me....I'm not desperate for love, I have been in love with my self to begin with. Not dependent on anyone for my own happiness. Btw this guy is crazy now chasing me and miserable, he is in so much pain and fear thinking abt a future without me. Not that I am arrogant but sorry, no one is irreplaceable in my world.
@@fireeye33 Awesome you! Just be careful bcuz we never really know what these guys are capable of or how far they're willing to actually go...guys like this have been known to flip when their lights finally do come on and they realize that YOU'RE SERIOUS AND YOU ARE REALLY GONE! Prayerfully he'll move on or has. STAY SAFE! FROM HIM & COVID-19 😉❤
Wish i can do the same☹️
I was in the same situation for three month i ended it too yesterday.I keep finding myself questioning him and i had no trust.He is upset but i feel like i made the best choice for me ,i can't be second in a relationship i need to be number one .
Train yourself not to EXPECT anything from a married man. Just enjoy the moment.
Thank you just enjoy the moment
Never be a second to a man. Ladies you deserve someone whos love and attention is focused to only for you and not share it with other woman the next day.
Thank you for this supportive comment!
Its hurts but respect ur self🙂
We all deserve hell. Thankfully, we don't always get what we deserve.
It's easier said than done
If he does it WITH you, he'll do it TO you. Be smart, ladies.
This kinda true but it's kinda not...what if he actually divorced and remarried and cheat but he end up stayn with them.. And not leaving them I say that because somtimes people bring out the different side
In another person
Not necessarily!
Do what to you?
They will.do it with you whether you get a married man or not, people like instillimg fear in others, love is complicated whether we like.it or not
I had to tell my friend who's having an affair with a married man this to open her eyes, " You're falling for a man who is not available and who is using you as an outlet because he's not fully satisfied in his marriage."
You were right .
Yup
That's only because the man has not cleared the polygyny hurdle with his wife. If he started out honestly with her to begin with, she could then become his second wife.
You are so right and married men will NEVER LEAVE THEIR WIFE FOR YOU , no matter what they say, if you find out that the man you love is married, run, leave, it will save you so much heartache
@@wendygraham6863, married men leave their wives all of the time. Idk why people act like it doesn't happen.
The heart wants what the heart wants…true love prevails
Thank you for sharing your vision
Don't fall in love with a married man
Big Mistake! Run 😐😅😥🏃♀️🚶♀️🏃♂️
Being there 😔😔🙌
You do not choose who you fall in love with, shit happens. You just need to decide, how you want to deal with: Just accept the challenge and enjoy every moment that is on your behalf or live in an illusion that he/she will be yours someday and become a nervous broken person. If you do accidentally fall for a married person, be strong and dare to cope with the circumstances. Whatever you do, never disrespect or have hateful emotions towards his/her family or marriage. You really love somebody, love them with their baggage. Have a wonderful pass time, untill you discover your true self and calling. Make the most of your adventure.
Polygyny is Biblical!
Thank you for this piece of wonderful advice ❤️, am pregnant 4 a married man who even didn't tell me that he was married n I didn't know that. And right now am depressed 😔😔😔 n my spirit is dying I need advice
@@dudugrace7006 make it work but keep your options open don’t act like a wife to him once he sees that you are keeping your options open and dating other people he should be motivated enough to get a divorce it’s not cheating if you are legally single it’s cheating on his behalf because he is legally married this is what a lot of people don’t understand and often forget about please stop feeling like it’s cheating if you are legally single even if they are legally separated it’s not cheating 💯
@@danieldeluca4936 Where do you get that from?!
In others people it's wrong but it what you both want and understand it's not always sex and gifts it's about understanding caring loving and love no one is perfect but we bot all the same
Thanks for the advice Sir I was falling in love with a married man, you've woken me up from a dream that will never be a reality I've changed my mind now.
Fantastic!
I love that you say keep distant… if it’s meant to be it will happen in a natural and ethical way. I believe that soulmates will find each other but waiting until it’s possible is best
Dont build your life on another woman's tears
What do this mean
You are right marryann James
There are several components to what to do to keep him interested. One plan I discovered that successfully combines these is the Covert attractor audit (google it if you're interested) it's the no.1 blueprint i've seen. look at the interesting information.
@SPREADING TRUTH So your saying a person shouldn't be upset and cry over their husband or wife cheating on them ? Harder said than done, when u been with someone for 20 years and they have been having affairs it's pretty damn heartbreaking.
if that person loved that woman he wouldn't fall in love with another woman. sooner or letter that woman have to cry living with this man.
It is really hard to find someone who is both available and compatible, at least for me it was always a challenge. I once fell for a married man and it was mutual, a sort of a soul-bond, but apart from holding hands on one occasion, nothing ever really happened between us. I could not imagine myself having sex with someone who is taken, or building my hopes around the potential end of a marriage. Luckily, he wasn`t into cheating either, so he always tried to arrange other people in our company, to avoid the two of us being alone.
The whole thing made me realise that it is easy to say "don`t fall for a married person", cause you never really know and are not supposed to judge, either.
You never know who you will fall in love with
Same here..nothing happened between us, just friendship. If you really love him, just pray for his happiness, his peace and respect for his marriage. I respect you btw. We can't control whom we fall in love with.. just to learn how to love someone unconditionally.
I do everything I am supposed to: running away from him, letting him alone, not chasing him, trying to move on, find another person, everything that is "correct to do" in this case. Still, after years, my feelings are there, for him, and cannot do anything about that, even if i created myself a wonderful life, active, challenging, exciting, i did everything that i have in control to move on...so, even if i do the right actions, like staying away, because this is what it is well to do, i love him more than anyone else...so, learning to live with these feelings inside for all my life
How are you doing now?
Have you moved on?
Pregnancy will change the whole game
I’m fed up with not finding a suitable partner honestly my heart really ache 💔
I'm glad your here and hopefully my videos will inspire you to change your mindset.
The ocean is big you can find anyone
As u have arched eyebrows u will get attracted to bad souls only i.e people with straight eyebrows. They will use you.
Diva Diva I am with u girl.
Haha
You can't help who you love especially when they love you right back.
Agre 💯
Never give in. Nothing serious and real can start based on a lie. Put brain before heart. It will save you from pain.
When its all about his kids,whatever you do even if he hates his wife he wont leave
Yah he won't never leave his wife just because of me😥you were right I have to move on even it hurts
This was my situation just in the eye of his kids need to be sweet with his wife and still not welcome and know his family
If he is so dedicated to his family who has given him right to spoil other woman's life just for his enjoyment. He is not real man.they dont cheat.
Lol now I'm broken wish I knew and understood this ,they never leave their wives even if she treats him like an animal
ButI had a deep relationship with a man who was not married. Sixty years later at 82 and 89, we foundeach other in a different continent, and he was married. I still love him like when I was 22. I don’t see anything wrong with that feeling, so powerful.
Don't fall in love with men periodt..it doesn't matter if they are married or not..once you catch feelings you loose your power. Periodt.
Lmfao facts
This is factz!!!
Sad. Sad. Sad. But true
Yall pretty good at that 80 percent of women file for divorce.
It's a crazy idea!
I got involved with a married man a year after my husband died. We were having an affair for 8 months and it never went anywhere. I began to back off more and more after he continually ghosted me and I was fed up with picking up crumbs when he finally came around. I decided I was worth more than what I was getting. It broke my heart but I knew I had to move on.
Yes, so happy that you are putting yourself first!
Such men are often Narcissistic sociopaths.
mi fa so la
The guy I’m feeling is married with kids he’s 36 and I’m 20 he looks like Tom Cruise he’s always staring at me smiling at me initiating conversations with me he’s so charming but I’m starting to develop feelings for him as in I’m crushing him I don’t know what to do now 🥴
mi fa so la yeah but unfortunately you were the crumbs for him. He wanted his whole wife all the way so therefore you were only the crumbs. It actually goes both ways. He made you his crumbs and gave you crumbs because he didn’t want all of you. All of you only applied to his wife.
I don't really know why some married men are too persistence sometimes you may try by all means to avoid them but they still come back,its so annoying and alot of people will not understand this
Because not many women are willing to be a mistress/ side chick. They can have their cake and eat it too. What is there to lose???
Sometimes you fall for a married man completely unexpectedly especially when you work with 98% men. You don’t plan it. It just happens. But I’ve never tried to develop a relationship from it. Just kept it a secret to myself. And sometimes you can tell the man feels the same in return by his actions and eye contact but he’s a good guy so he’s never acted on it and you both have never discussed it and nothing ever came from it because you and this good guy are practicing self control. And maybe one day, if something happens to his marriage, maybe then he will approach you as a divorcee. But until then, never let him know how you feel and don’t try to start an affair because it is wrong. You don’t have to act on your feelings just because you have them. Frankly, if he’s married and I feel he may share the same feelings, but he does nothing about it, I will have much more respect for him. After all, if he cheats on his wife then he’ll cheat on you too.
I feel the same way
Exactly!
I just started messing with a married man but we set our boundaries. I’m single and I found his ad on Craigslist and it doesn’t matter to me. We’ve talked and I’m going to be seeing other people because I’m single and i can do whatever I want. I’m not going to waiting on no guy. It’s my turn to have fun.
@Dillards Shopper married or not he is just a man just like all other men. A man. Life goes on.
Waste of time to fall for anyone married.. Man or woman. Think that should be common sense.
Belle O ... and now am realising.. lost my common sense
I lost my common sense just a month ago...I’m deeply in love with a married man, what can I do?
I love him but I am not interested in sexual relationships with him. Dont know if he understands me and my love 4 him. Wish I could tell him and wish he could respect my feelings. I really want him in my life in any form, friend or relative if not husband
Ah, because we all have control over who will fall in love with. Right! I just cut my heart out of my chest, because it choose the wrong man. Anyway, I am not going to act on it...I will try to let my heart to fall for some more suitable candidate...if possible. Love fades if I do not feed it. I wish.
@@cherrycooney4020, good luck you gonna need it, once karma pay you a visit.
For a second I thought you are guiding me. Thank you for being there. Your advice means a lot
In general those kind of relationships have no future and it's better to keep the eyes open for other oppertunities in those cases.
I think it's difficult to be in a relationship with a married man. I do agree with you.
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert Exactly and you might just remain his lover if you keep going on with this relationship.
Totally true
Yes well said
I hope that many women will realize the truth of ur philosophy in love. Again many thanks! God bless u in ur work
Anyone trying to break other relationship/marriage, remember karma will hit them back
So true!
theres no such thing as karma.
@@geezee2921 No thing such as karma.I have been cheated on twice. Karma never came to hit them
True
No I dont believe this.cause if u r not accept him the other women accept him.because he like cheating his wife..this is not your fault this is his fault.
Its best to be a real friend and let them go. No sense in ruining a beautiful friendship due to having an affair with them. Wish the best for the man. That his marriage will be happy and pray for him to be safe and happy even though you must let him go. In the longrun the friendship will remain in tact, and the guy will respect you for standing up for whats right! ❤️✝️ dont take advantage of his weakness just because he may have some.
You cant help who you have feelings for but you can stop yourself from acting on it. Dont do it. Being with someone who lies and cheats wouldnt make me feel special, just like the next one
I AM sure God gave you many blesses because of this vídeo! You are an angel. 🙏
You reached my heart with this advice, because you gave it with such compassion and understanding! Nobody chooses to fall in love with a married man. And not everybody acts on their feelings. What is hard is to be condemned about falling in love with the wrong person when you did not intend it to happen. That does not help. Good, understanding advice does. I had decided to keep my distance anyway, but your advice strenghtened my resolve. Thank you very much!
Me too; and I’ll hold sacred space for you as well ❤
Thank you so much for this advice...I’m awakened and enlightened!🙌🙌🙌😥
Thistopic is great.Married man is married man but hey some of those small girls dont realize, when they meet with married man. People forget that no matter what, that married man will not leave his wife for no one. So people should. Stay away from any married man I called them just a long term pain killers not short term because if they gave me the whole world i dont have to think of them. I am writing it from the botton of my heart because. I am a grown up woman I dont want any body to do that to me; and i have the fear of God within me. Nice one sir.
Worst of all when you're single and fall in love with a married man o my gosh you are just his sexing machine ,handkerchief. I'm in love with Jesus then believing him for a Godly husband. Thanks for ur advise sir
You are welcome. Thank you for your support so appreciated!
Wow. This is very solid advice, Alex. I really like the angle you take to approach this topic. I am currently being pursued by a married man and your advice puts many things into perspective. Lots of love, best wishes
Ditto … it’s challenging and painful b/c we do have chemistry but that does not mean compatibility. There is a sacred covenant in place and there is an universal order to follow.
I was in love with married man but I feel bad coz I was truly in love with him : but the day he told me that he is married ,I decided to be single and I just told him that is over
It takes courage and strength to end this relationship. You deserve someone who is for you! Stay strong and positive.
Do not chase married men
I do agree...
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert how can I email you alex? I need advice
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert How can you give unbiased advice if you are already judgemental about this? I am sorry but what you say does not sound credible
How can I email you I need advice please
The Miscellaneous Miss
Who is talking about « chasing » , it sometimes happens to develop feelings for someone who is unfortunately married.
Point is : Don’t let it go past the feeling.
Leave it at that. And eventually move on.
You saved my life! Thank you!
Thank you for this video and being so gentle about it. Many women caught up in this were misled at first :(
Thank you so much for being here!
If he cheats with you he will cheat on you!! He is showing you his character
true,I cheated with one at work and he cheated with another girl at work,it ended messy.
Thanks alex! Im buying ur philosophy in love. I 100% believe in ur theory of us women should think of ourselves as challenge to men, the prize, the one to be in the pedestal. Its just too late that i encountered your videos. Im brokenhearted as of this time, torn and shatteered...
I'm glad you are here. It's never to late:)
Hi Alex! It’s my first time to watch a video of yours. So helpful. Be watching more of your videos. God bless you always.
Thank you for being here. So glad my videos are helpful!
I was in a relationship with a married guy for the last 1 year. Initially things were quite stable and good.But as the time was passing things started to get worse no communication from hos side i used to wait for days to call him...He was always cutting my calls saying i am with family not even calling me in his spare time. The moment i used to put my views and opinions in front of him he said nothing. He never gave me priority. I was always available to him but if i want to reach him to ventilate my emotions he evaporates. Initially i believed him saying he loves me too......i guess he was only filling the void with me which he didnt get in his marriage. I got fooled by his words .He started to pull my weak points.I feel so stuck and depressed😥
You deserve someone that is available to you!
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert thank you sir!
I didnt know that he was married, until he told me and i was really upset. We decided to do the right thing before entering into relationship. Yes - he is not gonna leave his wife and he needs to fix the marriage to make it work. Doing the right thing is not easy but it will save your self in trouble and complications. I love him so much but i need to run and save my self. Thanks alex yes BE DISTANT is the best thing to do while u can🙂
It's really important to be distant!
I know him before 6 month when we first meet he told me he divorced ..last week when we talk he told me he is married still it's break my heart 💔 and I feel so upset ..he stop talking to me now but I really love him but I feel he use me ..any advice?
@@NevenShtaya I'm going through the same situation as u.. it's really painful!
Evelyn Garcia
@@NevenShtaya save yourself and leave him
I currently have a crush on a married man. Instead of driving myself crazy by denying how I feel about him, I choose to appreciate him and the way he makes me feel. I want that kind of energy to propel me into the arms of a man (or a woman) that is 100% free to love me.
You deserve someone who is available to you!
Alex your videos always inspire me and reminds me my worth incase if I forget my boundaries. Keep it up👍 and love your accent as always 😍
I've been in that situation before...
I was already in love with a married man, (and we go way back), until I let him go and sent him back to his wife.
God indeed blessed me, so that I graduated from college with a Bachelor's degree in Liberal Studies, and finally got myself lured away by a beautiful stranger.
And the message?
If I were to think that he would leave his wife for me, I'd be foolish and dumber than a box of hair.
Thank God I got to marry the stranger on Facebook on November 1, 2013! I have never been happier since.
Congratulations you deserve all the happiness.
I aready was in love with this man for many years before he ended up getting married. I still am. We were going to be married and he chose another.
I love everything u are doing it has really helped me...God bless u Alex
You explain it so well and genuine. Good!
Oh my. Very educative.
Tbh its not love, its just lust -- because of the hormones 😝 been there done that and im deeply regret it. Love yourself. Because youre worth to be someones priority. Remember that
Its hurt to hear but its true 💔
Thank you for your advice sir
Just stopped by to view the video........good advice😀
Great vid! From Los Angeles 🌹
Thanks :-)
Lovely video! Thanks for sharing!
Why would a married man be so attracted, connected and have so much feelings for a woman that looks just like his wife? Also claims he has no problems in his relationship..this is so confusing.
Because they are players they have no feelings
Amazing ...thank you so much coach...
HI Alex, thanks for the good advice, I always watch your video every night when I finish from work, and it's really change My reaction and my emotions, thanks very much Alex,
I rate this video 5*. Thanks my love coach Alex. 👏👏👏👏👌
Thank you for your support.
Do - before dating anyone, make sure that you are not a third party. There is no way something can justify being a mistress. Don't let a man taint your image by keeping you as a mistress. Have your power by checking if someone is married or not. Marriage and divorce searches are available to check if someone has already a wife.
You deserve a man you can call your own.
Thank you so much for the advice.
Thank you for your wisdom.
:)
Hi Alex, I don't recommend women to fall in love with a married man. I was married 17 years ago when I found out my husband had a mistress. I'm no longer with him but unfortunately because of him I don't trust men anymore. I tried numerous times to date but I always felt insecure to fall in love again. I hope one day I can open my heart and trust a man.
I'm new to your channel and I'll be viewing your other videos. Thank you so much for sharing and making me believe not all men have hidden agendas.
Is he still with the mistress?
I am so sorry for your pain...I know how ypu feel. I found out that my husband is a Porn Addict. He had not only one mistress, but zillions of them, just by clicking the computer. It is devastating. I don't trust men anymore..but I won't lose hope. The pain of a betrayal is worse than losing somebody to death.
True
Such men are often Narcissistic sociopaths. You must educate yourself about NPD and ASPD (psychopathy/ sociopathy). They believe life is cruel and merciless and they have little to no empathy and don't feel emotions. They fake emotions and lie, deceive, manipulate and pretend to be in love etc. You must become aware and raise your self-value. Never continue with anyone who plays games etc.
A Perfect video that explains my situation where I have been through nd I'm still not enough healed up .To be in love with a married man means is making a diseasefull and dark life.We Should not fall in love with a married Man even in our dreams. Thank you so much for this most valuable lesson.
You deserve someone who is available to you.
Blessings to you
très bon conseil vraiment merci pour cela
Great video...thanks♥️
I lost myself already. I'm tired I don't know how to get back myself.😒😔
You will find yourself in Christ,if you allow Him into your life.
I'm also now the same your situation.. I'm getting more crazy every day thinking of him.. the fact that his happy now with his family 😥
@@julietmoraa5106 May God bless you:)!
Sometimes I am realize this is not easy time ,and realy hurts 😭😭😭,I try to walk away not to run very fast ,love is hurt sometimes,thanks you,hope I can think twice
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Thanks for sharing this video's 😊
Thank you for subscribing, so glad you are here.
Oh my God I only listened to this for your beautiful accent!!!!!! Bit what you said was also very clever :D thank you so much
You're very welcome!
It's wrong to fall in love with a married man
Imagine you are on her shoe as legal wife and how will you feel about it if your man cheated on you. I assure you, you will forget about that feelings and move on. That's the best thing you can do. Never be a home wrecker. Never be an option. You have to stop asap. You will hurt her,her children and your heart too. There are a lot of single guys out there and you deserve someone who will love you the way you wanted to be love. That's what i did. Being a mistress is a choice and thanks God it never happen to me.🙏😊
Thanx for the advice sir, u r so right ☺.
Thank you for your message
Im fall inlove with thE married men i hate this feeling 😪😪😓
Never be with married men...u can't be ever his priority...his wife is his 1st priority...he tells u she is only his responsibility but actually when u realise the things are totally opposite. He always ignores u for his wife. The pain u feel on that is tooo wrost.He will never understand u r feelings...he always looks towards his wife...i never suggest any one to be with married men...its better remain single instead being with him
Right
He will always ignore you for his wife! Is true and it hurts like hell. Not only does it hurt, but it starts to make you believe you don’t deserve any better. As much as u love him, leave him because he will leave u every time for her.
I love Being a mistress
I'm crying I'm in relationship with him for 2 years I really don't know how am I going to handel everything he never talked abt his wife but once I saw his wife's Instagram n found that they both are happy family ,I Just cant see him with his wife I know the reality but cant do it he will never marry me but he loves me what should I do?
God should be his priority, not any particular woman!
Alex. Thanks a lot. Your advice means a lot to me.
Hii
Alex, how to be/stay a challange? Please give us more advise on it.
People want what they can't have.. Sad 😔
Thank you,so lovely to listen to you.Never again will l fall for a married man,he promised me the world etc said he was getting divorced,his marriage was over ever bf he met me.He lied lied lied,when challenged he ran away,, He did not like me telling him the truth.He nearly broke me but TG l got thtough it.Thank you again gor your video.
Thank you for sharing, you deserve someone who is available to you.
Thanks so much.. This is helpful
Great video, tnx 4 sharing
You're welcome :-)
Now i understand why French is the language of love. ^^
If my husband is not good person not loving me and not rational & i cant take divorce for my son & society & if i found expectations fullfilling by officemate i feel good . What is advise to me
Solution: I will put my phone away and focus on myself and enjoy the present moment that will make me stronger!
Hi Alex thank you for this wonderful vedio
Thank you so much for watching!
I dont understand why i always attract married man.
It's very tough to be in this situation.
It's tiring:(
I think it's because you let men do the first step and most of the time, this guys are married...
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert i had always same Situation to the extent that i doubted myself.i take the first step somwtimes to single guys but it never never works out i don't know why
Alex Cormont - The French Relationship Expert but as a woman, naturally I want the man to make the first step.... is it not the correct way?
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert :(
Such men are often Narcissistic sociopaths. You must educate yourself about NPD and ASPD (psychopathy/ sociopathy). They believe life is cruel and merciless and they have little to no empathy and don't feel emotions. They fake emotions and lie, deceive, manipulate and pretend to be in love etc. You must become aware and raise your self-value. Never continue with anyone who plays games etc.
Currently in the same state,, I think i'm just obsessed with this guy and not love because all my life I hated being in any relationship with any maried man,, but now I'm in one of which I feel it's not okay and I am fighting so hard to let go of the guy,, he's all I wanted in a man,a dad to two.the best thing is that my spirit is so strong as compared to my body that's weak hence I can overcome it by controlling my body
What did you do 😢
Wow you’re so right and best motivator ❤🥺🥺
I love your French accent. I was in Paris in July/2018 and I walked by the man of my life. He is a French Policeman, tall, blonde, blue eyes... I'll never forget his face. Unfortunately I live miles away from him. Florida-USA. 😥😥😥
Thank you for your support! :)
No one can change this, even before we have born we find this kind of relationship. And as for me I don't want a man to leave his family I just want to be happy. And to be honest I'm having fun, and I don't want to be married.i was married before so I compared and I enjoy being in relationship with married man is very enjoyable than to have a man every day who will control me and everything must be discussed, so I can't be married again,I will just enjoy
U right
it is so sad... to have feelings with a married man.... I avoid too good relationw ith a man who is married... I avoid married men friendships... I dont trust this...
but even tho I avoid all of this!... I met a guy who said he is single... after... faaaaar too long time... i found out he i smarried and has 2 small kids..... he knew how i think of all this... i would never have started meeting him if i knew he has a relationship...
but im so disapointed... he knew my point.. he gave me no chocie.. and made me fall for him... he knew i'm fallen all into him... and still he did lie and cheat and aaaaaaall the shit he did.... i found out myself about his wife....
it all hurts so crazy..... i had to leave! ofc i had to leave.... i'm the mistake in the family picture.. i'm in the wrong movie.... i'm very disappointed that he took me into this situation... it just shows exactly that he didnt really respect me.. or love me... to do it to me...
also i dont wanna stand between a couple.... i left... but im dying out of pain.... it wasnt my choice.... how could he lie... or am i so stupid that i didnt notice earlier?
Praying for you Lola🙏🏽
Where should i send my questions for you? And email or site?
Good advice.
Bonsoir monsieur, thank you for adressing this delicate topic. Sometimes you don't know that the guy is married at first, later when you know it is much harder to detach :( I felt a huge atttaction to this man and I am sure he felt the same as the signs were obvious. But the situation is complicated we only see each other in a group setting. So flirting is very subtle, but sometines intense. I tried to forget him, I even took a month break from going wherr he went to clear my head. During this time of not seeing him, I worked deeply on myself. I think he came to my life to reflect to me wounds that need to be healed. He is older than me which I find attractive bc subconsciously I am looking for the love and validation of a father figure which I did not have. Also, I was married to an older man myself, but I found out he cheated on me while I was pregnant with his child. I never really got the time to really get over this. The divorce aftermath was even more traumatic. I do know the pain and destruction caused by infidelity. That is why I do not want to get involved in sth like that again - even though on the other side this time. My problem is I really like him and the hobby that we share. I dont want to quit my hobby, so that means I have to continue seeing him every week. How do you handle your emotions when you have to meet this guy regularly? Do you think it is possible to turn romantic feelings into a friendship? I would really appreciate a second video on this issue. All the best to you and everyone reading this.
you are lying to yourself..u dont have to see him and choose another hobby or club for this hobby...u better stop...lying
Such men are often Narcissistic sociopaths. You must educate yourself about NPD and ASPD (psychopathy/ sociopathy). They believe life is cruel and merciless and they have little to no empathy and don't feel emotions. They fake emotions and lie, deceive, manipulate and pretend to be in love etc. You must become aware and raise your self-value. Never continue with anyone who plays games etc. You need to emotionally detach and look at other genuine people.
Anny
Get more oh professional help this will cause you depression and sickness!! Believe me!
I can never fall for a married man knowingly, am too possessive to share. Immediately I find out u are involved with another i lose attraction. I keep all married, engaged or attached men at a distance and brother zone them. No private convos, meetings etc, so many cute single guys around for me to get my heart involved with an unavailable man. No no
Thank you for being here!
Me too. You're smart
I like your advice.its really help feeling to calm and distanced.but pained is there😭
Very useful video. 👍