Chris Perez Talks About His Pain Over Selena's Death - 1997

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  • @MAGAISKLAN
    @MAGAISKLAN ปีที่แล้ว +56

    I always felt the saddest for Chris Perez, Selena’s young newlywed husband. He lost his wife in such a tragic way. I cannot imagine his pain.

  • @downtoearth8661
    @downtoearth8661 3 ปีที่แล้ว +237

    He wanted to crawl under her casket and be buried with her😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢Broke my heart!💔Prayers for you Chris!

    • @orlandobabe
      @orlandobabe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I strongly believe that. Reading his book I can feel the love he felt and still feels for her.

  • @TianaLadySteel
    @TianaLadySteel 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Here in 2024.. continuing to send him warm hugs and i hope his children rock his world in the best way🎉

  • @indy3240
    @indy3240 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I don’t think I could have endured if I were him. I’m proud of him!

  • @Angelaaa1015
    @Angelaaa1015 3 ปีที่แล้ว +157

    Abraham faked accepting Chris for Selena. But after a while he made sure Chris had nothing to do with her. I think if my man died I couldn’t love anyone else ever

    • @reign_3090
      @reign_3090 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      But chris remarried right? Got divorced and now engaged with someone

    • @Amaddiegrace
      @Amaddiegrace 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Chris even said himself he knew Selena’s father never liked him. He just dealt with him for Selena

    • @starlight-tour777
      @starlight-tour777 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Right!? But life goes on I guess 😞 but it's just crazy to me how quick some of these ppl move on 😔

  • @evaeagle7887
    @evaeagle7887 4 ปีที่แล้ว +167

    I came here cause of Chris book about the love for his wife Selena..What a great video! It shows how much he loved her after she passed.

    • @veronicamoreno2397
      @veronicamoreno2397 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me podras traducir que dice Chris porfavor

    • @evaeagle7887
      @evaeagle7887 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Chris dice: daria todo lo que tengo para tenerla otra ves de nuevo.
      Siento que un gran pedaso de mi Corazon esta vasio sin ella
      Me siento solo en la casa donde vivia con ella porque ella ya no esta es dificil.
      No quiero vivir en la casa sin ella porque todo me duele sin ella.
      Su familia de Selena es como mi famila porque sufren como yo sufro por selena
      Selena era muy buena y por eso era vulnerable y la mataron.
      Cuando escucho una de las cansiones en el album de Ingles que iso Selena no puedo terminar de escucharla porque me duele profundamente en el alma.

    • @brittanyfarias5211
      @brittanyfarias5211 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Which video are you talking bout??

    • @Nutty151
      @Nutty151 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@veronicamoreno2397 He said he was trying the best he could to deal with his feeling of grief.

    • @jdoe6689
      @jdoe6689 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's crazy how Selena dad got him to sign over all rights while he was grieving.

  • @Face_Reality
    @Face_Reality 3 ปีที่แล้ว +258

    He considered her family as flesh and blood and now they treat Chris like crap💩

    • @blessedbythebest1003
      @blessedbythebest1003 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Foreal. That families crap not loving him like a son, married and all. Smh

    • @Face_Reality
      @Face_Reality 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@blessedbythebest1003 right and Abraham Quintanilla, Sr., Selena's dad is the diablo devil himself. That man is straight evil.... He belittles Chris so much. Just like in the movie how his character said he's a bum musician. I'm sure he said that to Chris in real life because in his recent social media posts, he says stuff like Chris isn't doing anything with his music, that Chris didn't do anything for Selena, and that he plays music in little small clubs and whatnot.. he compares himself to Chris like how he's such a successful business man and Chris isn't diddly squat basically. I was like dude is straight evil yo lol.. how could he say those things about his own son in law that he knows his daughter loved so much? It's like he doesn't even consider him as a son or as family. He treats Chris like he was just an opportunist when Chris really loves Selena. Abraham can't possibly really care about Selena. There's videos of him pushing and pulling on Chris and Selena when people were trying to talk to her, trying to hurry them along. In the video, Chris knocked Abraham's hand off of him lol.. sometimes i wonder if Abraham even really loved Selena or if she was just a tool for him to fulfill his dream through her. She didn't even care that much for that music thing. She said she would have been satisfied with running away with Chris and being a clothes designer like she always wanted to be anyways. Abraham is so disrespectful and it's clear he looks down on Chris as if Chris is a nobody and like he didn't even deserve Selena. It's so sad.

    • @blessedbythebest1003
      @blessedbythebest1003 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@Face_Reality booooo you make great points! I so agree.
      Either fulfilling his dream thru her or really obsessed with her and talent she had, with the machista part of being Mexican makes me wonder if he was low key jealous that anyone else have her. Remember he didn’t even want anyone looking at her when she bust out with the bustier. She wasn’t that young then either. Idk he is who he is tho, he obviously doesn’t hide it since they continue to portray him on the shows. She didn’t want any of this you’re right. She was humble and simple. Then fell in love and IS loved by Chris. The dads a CREEP smh. I’m sure everyone in his family has once crossed their mind how much more he like her then anyone else. 😖😖yikes!
      What’s crazy also is that their “religion” people supposedly are supposed to be super nice to everyone even if they fake it but not this dude. 🤷🏿
      The good thing if this series is that it gave Chris a lot of sympathy and support. 😇

    • @Face_Reality
      @Face_Reality 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@blessedbythebest1003 yep. They didn't even want Chris to be a part of the series

    • @robinjohnson3365
      @robinjohnson3365 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Oooh I can’t take the Quintanillas - I’m so against how they did Chris!!!

  • @MsChic-jm8wo
    @MsChic-jm8wo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    *Look very closely at **3:31*
    A shadow on Chris’ right shoulder makes him turn very quickly and he touches his shoulder. I believe it’s Selena letting him know that she’s there. So sad! 😭

    • @odalis6138
      @odalis6138 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ur crazy

    • @HeatherLynseyMusic
      @HeatherLynseyMusic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Oh..my god. You’re not crazy.

    • @MsChic-jm8wo
      @MsChic-jm8wo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@HeatherLynseyMusic Yessss!!! You see it too, right?!??

    • @lasagn
      @lasagn 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@odalis6138 so true, “hood barbie” nerd 🤓

    • @steveking9514
      @steveking9514 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You’re ruining it…stop.

  • @drutalero2962
    @drutalero2962 4 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    Poor Chris dude, I imagine me and my boyfriend being in that situation and I fucking cry because I think I'll die with my man if this were ever to happen. The fact that he's still trying to live his life is a testament to how strong he is..

    • @zenzation3651
      @zenzation3651 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Don't deer stop living because of a man smh

    • @allthatgirlcoronado
      @allthatgirlcoronado 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@zenzation3651 that’s not what she meant, but you wouldn’t know cus you’re probably single.

    • @SuperZombiepimp
      @SuperZombiepimp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@zenzation3651 you’ve never truly been madly in love I see if my woman died and she looks like a mini Selena I wouldn’t want to go on the woman is my soul she keeps me strong when I want to gave up I pray one day you find that other half of your soul

  • @lea9977
    @lea9977 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Rewatching any of it is always making me cry. She was such a light to this world, and it is incredibly sad.

  • @Amaddiegrace
    @Amaddiegrace 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I honestly think when he married Vanessa after Selena died she was like a comfort for him. Cause Selena was gone and he felt alone. The family dropped him right when she died, so what does he do? He finds some one for comfort as an escape from his feelings. I know he loves his children but their mother I don’t think he ever did. I feel bad for her in a way cause she probably felt like how can she compete with someone who’s passed away? The whole situation sucks. I pray he finds peace finally and just lives his life to the fullest the way Selena wanted him to

    • @reign_3090
      @reign_3090 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lol the quintanilla didn't drop chris after selena passed away they were there for him during his grieving moment..it was chris decision to stay away from selena's family specially when he became a father and with vanessa already so kindly don't blame the quintanilla at all..they still treated chris as part of the family until this movie series came up when chris wanted to do based on his books..and abraham sued him for that

  • @brinas.c.1112
    @brinas.c.1112 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Selena was to special for this earth god needed his angel back home

  • @SingersDream
    @SingersDream 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    This is true love! This woman was everything to him! This is so beautiful. 🥰🥰

  • @Celenite384
    @Celenite384 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    She will always be in our 💕 heart's forever.

  • @JulianoHuerta
    @JulianoHuerta 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    At 3:32 you can see some thing touch Chris his shoulder and he reacts. I believe it was Selena or Jesus or even a Garden angel giving him comfort. Wow amazing!

    • @bsbncandey
      @bsbncandey 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I bet you that was Selena!. There was no reason for him to touch his shoulder, he only did it after the shadow passed by him. It was most definitely Selena!

  • @terriasmith1572
    @terriasmith1572 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    May Selena Rest In Peace you are still remember by thousands of your fans I am one ☝️ of them

    • @gamingpro908
      @gamingpro908 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Not even thousands bc she had way more than millions of fans so you meant to say millions

    • @anything4selenas813
      @anything4selenas813 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Millions

  • @kendramccord7836
    @kendramccord7836 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Chris your the strongest man ever to survive what you have after loosing her the way you did. I still ball watching anything with her in it. She didn’t deserve what happened to her, she’s a legend and always will be!! ❤️😭🙏🏼

  • @КристинаСвирина-д3в
    @КристинаСвирина-д3в 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    When he says honestly I still feel maried😭

  • @adritorres9378
    @adritorres9378 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I can understand that feeling Chris, it's like a part of us is dead inside but honestly God, can take that pain and excepting it wish that's the most difficult part to do now that I'm Grandma it has been a little easier for me too. Except life isn't fair but to try to live it to the fullest Selena, was your soulmate she will always be there for you spiritually she is your Angel, watching over you!🌺

  • @princessalysonsweatwinter
    @princessalysonsweatwinter 4 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    I Can Understand That Chris Perez Wants His Wife Selena Back

    • @fairytale8681
      @fairytale8681 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      :-(

    • @Cinderella640
      @Cinderella640 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Let's get a time machine no joke and save her life and have Yolanda arrested for real
      Go to Ronald L. Mallett is making time travel a reality

    • @KenRising1996
      @KenRising1996 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Cinderella640 I get 1st blood on Knocking Yolanda Teeth out

    • @jaclynschilt4699
      @jaclynschilt4699 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@Cinderella640 time travel is impossible!

  • @Joetixs10
    @Joetixs10 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    This is so tragic man but Selena will always be in our presence, LEGENDS NEVER DIE 🧡

  • @consuelobuenafe2154
    @consuelobuenafe2154 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    May each waking moment be filled with lovely anticipations for you Chris. I followed your life post Selena. By now, maybe the pain had lifted. I believe she is with you, always had looked after you. You may have remarried and had kids, and you of course needed to.... but the love didnt , wldnt, cldnt die. So you go on, life swinging you by. ❤

    • @HeatherLynseyMusic
      @HeatherLynseyMusic 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@zaniyahlott8820 Hes been married twice, one being Selena. Rumor has it he is engaged, but neither her or him have confirmed it. His second marriage ended because he was never home and using substances, those are his wifes words. She encouraged him to write his book.

  • @taro3414
    @taro3414 3 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    2 days before their wedding anniversary? 😭

  • @blessedbythebest1003
    @blessedbythebest1003 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    So alone and then to not have loving in laws. Smh ..........

    • @offthewallbts4697
      @offthewallbts4697 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      They were all close for a while .... I’m not sure what happened tho

    • @Angelaaa1015
      @Angelaaa1015 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@offthewallbts4697 they only were close because Abraham faked it...

    • @HeatherLynseyMusic
      @HeatherLynseyMusic 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ariana Grande Yeah Selena’s dad sued him, he’s been estranged ever since. He was at her walk of fame reveal though with the family.

    • @reign_3090
      @reign_3090 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Angelaaa1015 nope he accepted him wholeheartedly it's just that something happened recently that made their relationship shaky

  • @famf6234
    @famf6234 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I understand how Chris felt...😭😭😭

  • @Joetixs10
    @Joetixs10 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Wishing Chris nothing but the best & blessings!! 🙏🏽

  • @emelitamercado2808
    @emelitamercado2808 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    there is still pain in his heart….till now

  • @jeff0247598
    @jeff0247598 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Selena was a beautiful light in this ugly world. I feel for Chris. It's the worst kind of pain to have someone you love taken away in such a traumatic way. A broken heart never mends.....we just learn to live with it and go on...day by day.

  • @jaileenavila1194
    @jaileenavila1194 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I can’t imagine finding the love of my life. Such a beautiful wife inside and out and literally not finding someone who will ever even measure her soul and beauty. It must be a real pain.

  • @christianvalencia5993
    @christianvalencia5993 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Man he never found someone else like her I mean you can’t 😢

  • @scperez9901
    @scperez9901 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Oh my God I can't stop crying.

  • @jpadma9
    @jpadma9 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Her dad is kind of bitter, why does he sue him etc. He is his family too because he was loved by Selena. He is a good person and had his fair share of pain too. I know to this day Selena materials make money but he sincerely loved her, just as the dad, they also benefit from Selena legacy, the dad sucks because he is very ok with creating divisions as if Selena was his property only.

  • @ARMYEEUU
    @ARMYEEUU ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I wouldn't be surprised if he had suicidal thoughts but he had to live for both in her memory, that selfish trash that took her she'll be burning hell soon.

  • @scperez9901
    @scperez9901 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So sweet them two,u feel his pain. We luv them chris n selena true luv

  • @rosagonzales9451
    @rosagonzales9451 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    😭💔 my heart will forever be broken for him he lost his first love ,his best friend,and most of all his beautiful wife
    Selena Quintanilla PEREZ She loved her husband with all her life. 😢😢💔

  • @Tiggerozzy
    @Tiggerozzy 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Even if he’s with someone else there’s always gonna be that void…🙏

  • @Kimberly_11
    @Kimberly_11 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    NOT FAIR‼️💔💯

  • @tonydouglas334
    @tonydouglas334 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Selena 💜

  • @xxx_theoriginals_xxx2726
    @xxx_theoriginals_xxx2726 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Chris was a lucky man

    • @salvador3828
      @salvador3828 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not really because if you think about it he has to live with that loss

    • @TheShowtime85
      @TheShowtime85 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lucky and not lucky

    • @KenRising1996
      @KenRising1996 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lucky because he was married to Selena Unlucky because she died so young and it was around their 3rd wedding anniversary and close to her 24th birthday

    • @brandonmireles3249
      @brandonmireles3249 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not really lucky 😕

  • @meganpeifer5199
    @meganpeifer5199 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’m truly sorry for your loss Chris Perez I understand how you feel fo losing the love of your life

  • @1990sbabyyy
    @1990sbabyyy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    A piece of him died the day selena was killed 😔

  • @Priestesslife
    @Priestesslife 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    So sad

  • @jennybaker4452
    @jennybaker4452 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I think it was wrong for the Quintanilla family to hire Yolanda in the first place 🥇 so it would have never happened

    • @ernietalavera2112
      @ernietalavera2112 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well her dad talk about how it’s his fault for introducing Yolanda to Selena . But then again her family and Chris didn’t expect to what would happen to her

  • @DNiceKing
    @DNiceKing 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    💔

  • @Mai_belle_michelle
    @Mai_belle_michelle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omg HOW CRAZY, on TikTok or on youtube I've seen where Chris pauses and looks over his shoulder and then outs his hand on his shoulder. It's a coincidence that that exact clip is on here!

  • @latoyabrown4312
    @latoyabrown4312 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @ChrisDan94_
    @ChrisDan94_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    There was a report he called her and talked to her while she was at the motel parking lot but never heard him mention it in interviews?

    • @reign_3090
      @reign_3090 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes it's true chris called selena to remind her that she Need to finish some recordings and selena said I just need to do something

  • @DokiAndSaba
    @DokiAndSaba 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This broke my heart i hate Yolanda saldivar

  • @elchino7813
    @elchino7813 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😢😭

  • @cloeymorales5226
    @cloeymorales5226 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Is that Selena’s wedding ring he is holding ? 1:50

  • @oliviaquijano9018
    @oliviaquijano9018 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    4:37-4:38

  • @jaclynschilt4699
    @jaclynschilt4699 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I never would have gotten remarried if i were chris

  • @thalifeofmia
    @thalifeofmia 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    🥺🥺

  • @bernadettehernandez9624
    @bernadettehernandez9624 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I think her father had alot to do with her murder that's her killers secret

    • @kimberly3628
      @kimberly3628 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I believe so! I think she has stuff on the dad . . Come on now

  • @jemiscedeno6713
    @jemiscedeno6713 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    En español

  • @humanrights4allinstitution712
    @humanrights4allinstitution712 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Howdy,
    Selena Quintanillas story stands as the cornerstone foundation of the present day Human Rights/Anti-Human traffickicking, forced career, and Social Justice movements in a technologically advanced society. The modern day entertainment industry in particular the music industry as well as various communication and communications media have also been largely founded by those present involved in the production of these events which stand as a most severe matter. We see here in every instance the forced nature of the career of every female artist as well as others on hand in the most physically intrusive manners; who appear in this tejano so called racially commercialized and community destroying endeavour. Which has effectively silenced the voices of entire communities and the human rights movement as a whole. This behavior has continued till present day, simultaneously we see those personally accountable for what truly is a human catastrophe for all society as a whole and brazenly promotes complicity to an already at risk population. The abusive tactics used to intimidate persons vulnerable like Selena Quintanilla highlights the need for immediate societal education. Education on forced relationships, which clearly begets the norm here, and crime free atmospheres which are needed in an advanced tech society faced with long term accountability. Even one such instance resembling what we see here such as that of Ariana Grande has been globally lambasted for offensive volatility, why is this still being allowed in global silence here. Do good to be, question id imposition