It depends on what state she lives in. Some states will not consider alimony unless the spouse was unemployed during the marriage for at least ten years.
This happened with my parents.. I wished my parents divorced sooner. Would have saved us kids a lot of drawn out strife and misery. She may think her kids don’t sense what’s up but I can assure you kids are very attuned. They model after depressed, anxious, sad, mad, or secretive parents.
I have a huge issue with people hiding such information then getting married. I wish people will leave other people until they figure out what they want to do exactly with their lives. This information should be said from the get go of the relationship. Then adding kids to the mix , when the relationship didn’t start on a honest foundation.... makes things even harder. I hope God gives her the strength & wisdom she needs to handle it the best way.
@@Jaguar7444 From what she said , it sounded clearly he did it way before they were married as he equally was in a relationship with a man prior to being with her. So no , he knew exactly where he stood but intentionally choose to hide it.
@@robshala1763 she said she did. 🤷♂️ But I guess she still got married. But people don't always have an inkling... Sometimes the guy doesn't know themselves.
...Why do people like this end up together and have kids? Seems he never wanted her and she never wanted him so how does their friendship end with multiple kids and years of marriage?
This women just fell out of love with her spouse and is using the cross dressing as an excuse for the divorce. She said they were already becoming less intimate and such. It's not about what he wears, she just isn't that close to him anymore. And with straight couples, relationships can still reach a point where the love has died down.
He's a stay at home dad and she is a doctor. They may not stay friends when he goes for full custody and support and buries her in attorney fees along with those student loans. Hopefully that he won't do that, but it happens.
Uh oh yeah didnt think of that so he isnt a dr? cant support himself? Wants spousal support and the kids. Plus her support checks for THEM as well as him...this is where that road leads..??
"I don't think our kids know there's anything wrong with our relationship." They know. They don't know the specifics but they feel it. Just because your kids are little and may not understand doesn't mean they won't feel your pain. Kids are so intuitive.
She needs to put herself first while still youthful because today's kindergartner is entering high school by end of this decade, and a 30 year old will be trudging toward 50.. time passes very quickly.
As a friend of mine use to say, “If I put God first, everything falls in place. If I don’t put God first, nothing is in place.”We are all broken people, but in different ways. God created us in his image. “Male and female He created them.” We all have two choices, to grow into the image of God, or to follow our own desires. “ I have put before you life and death, now choose life.” Because God was not put first they will now experience the death of the marriage.
Yeah, I think they dropped the ball by not asking her if she was part of a solid church and seeking support/counseling there no matter what she decides to do financially.
This sounds like the other lady who called in not too long ago about her husband transitioning into a woman...I mean, what else can you do? It's not what you want so there's no other option but to divorce. Life is too short to spend it with someone who has a lifestyle you don't agree with
@chiefs you should stop watching the news and do something with your time that brings you actual happiness. Extremists on either side are very small groups of people and politics aren’t the root cause of everything.
This is something that he definitely should have mentioned during the course of their relationship prior to getting married. The fact that it is creating a problem now it’s totally on him.
The children still have their dad, a divorce doesn't just make him disappear. Well it shouldn't. You have to be healthy for yourself and your children.
@@MyLifeThai371🙄 He’s still a dad. Kids need both parents, especially boys as they really need a father, assuming the parents aren’t abusive or anything like that.
If he is a crosser dresser and you’re not OK with it then its over, End of story. I would put money aside for divorce. He is not interested in anything towards your feelings. Your partner should always know their partner’s feelings are more important than their own.
You need to tell him he can’t act like this. He entered into a covenant with you and has responsibilities he can’t neglect. If he wanted to act this way he shouldn’t have gotten married.
It is hard to believe such an intelligent woman would put up with this for so long. She should get out now and start her life. The children will understand when they're older for sure.
Seriously???!!! No intimacy, no cuddling, make-up is disappearing, etc. The panelists are probably thinking, "We need to look for another career, maybe IT..."
Career isn't enough, get a cabin in the woods and take your family, everyone else is losing their minds and you don't want to be on the ship when it sinks
If this isn’t proof enough that society is falling apart, I don’t know what is...It’s suspicious as well. Dave smart letting the younger guys handle these calls.
@@s3ntryplays449 nothing wrong with it however everyone has their own preferences. If she’s not comfortable with that and doesn’t like it they both need to sit down and talk about it someone has too make a compromise.
@@s3ntryplays449 It’s not a sexist. If she wanted to marry a women, she would have. She married a man. It’s not unreasonable to want your man to be a man.
Sounds like Dave should tell her to man up and stop being a wuss. Because from the sound of things it seems that she's the man of the house. it's like the one in a thousand situation that ends up being Mrs Doubtfire.
The dude can crossdress If he wants to. Doesn't make him any less of a man. Men and women are equal now, remember? Just because he's a man, it doesn't mean he has to wear the pants. Just because she's a woman, it doesn't mean she has to walk around the house barefoot, pregnant, and in the kitchen...
@@s3ntryplays449 it's funny watching people's reaction to traditional gender roles. Because women wanted to be equal to men. so she should enjoy paying alimony and child support to her cross dressing spouse. it's equality!
@@jeffreytufaro Haha you believe that? This is a bait call. They are trying to get Ramsey in the stupidest ways. This lady isn't crying about anything.
This is so sad and gross. He is dead wrong for starting a family and marrying a woman. You knew you didn’t want a woman. Let me guess... People will call him “courageous” for living a lie and tearing a family apart. Delusional is more ways than one
But I think he’s attracted to women, the cross dressing I’m sure is a turn off to many men and women. But at the same time, this is Virginia, I don’t think it’s that accepting of LGBTQ+, if more people can be accepting of LGBTQ+ people as individuals (minus the woke agenda), then these things would happen a lot less.
Or depressed due to the incredible loneliness she's feeling. The kids shouldn't see that's how a marriage is supposed to be. "Mommy's sad all the time and that's normal."
This is grounds for divorce. He wanted to live a lie and now he wants her to give him the green light & alimony. If she can prove they are his debts, he will have to pay them.
@@maxrequisite No, it isn’t. Almost all straight people see transgender folks and cross-dressers going hand in hand. I can assure you that any person who has an issue with a man cross-dressing is inherently transphobic. Stop deflecting.
I have a friend whose husband came out as a cross-dresser after 30 years of marriage. When it first came out my friend was devastated and went through all the emotions. As her friend, I was stunned. I never saw it coming at all. He left and lived in a hotel for a few weeks while the dust settled. Their children were grown and out of the house. They ultimately ended up deciding to stay together. As an outsider, I was glad to see them stay together because they were a great couple and they physically and emotionally still loved each other. He also was a great husband and father. They made the right decision for them. But if it had happened to me, I think I would have left. I'm not sure I personally could handle my husband wanting to dress up as a woman. Too weird for me, but different strokes for different folks. Oh and as for the debt Lindsay and her husband incurred, they are married and whether she leaves him or not, they both are responsible for that debt. So she can pay back the debt before or after she divorces him.
She should’ve addressed as a couple years ago when she found out he was a cross dresser because wait for it wait for it She could’ve filed an annulment which means the marriage never happened and she would never have to pay alimony. When you find out that they committed fraud which he did that is a major thing she needed to act on it right away when she found out and filed for an annulment that would’ve been the best thing and no alimony to him
If the husband has hardline said he has no intention of trying to improve on the intimacy (and/or she has cut off the intimacy because the cross dressing is a dealbreaker for her) then yeah work out an amicable separation. But don't just walk away until you've exhausted all efforts to work out the difference. Irreconcilable differences does not mean difficult-to-reconcile differences.
So if they divorce, it’s a possibility that she may have to pay him alimony and because he is the primary caretaker of the kids, he could be awarded primary custody then that could be child support. Don’t be fooled. He’s not your best friend. A best friend would want what’s best for you and he’s only thinking about himself. When you serve him with the divorce papers he will no longer be that best friend you think he is. This sounds like a setup from the beginning. He trapped you.
Yes, that is exactly what should happen. Primary care giving women are usually awarded alimony, child support, & custody. So since he is the primary care parent who is not working he should be awarded all that.
Before her kids get older and pick up the signs that they have a platonic relationship, she should get divorced. She is worthy of being happy & valued. A Happy mom is able to help her kids to continue to strive in maturing and growing. I wish her the best. .
Agree! DO NOT bad mouth your kids dad or mom! It reflects back on their own self because they often perceive themselves as half mom and dad. Also, even if one parent IS at fault, the child STILL LOVES THEM! Be very careful!
By the same token, don't gaslight your children that their dad is a good man, etc. Children know when you're b.s.-ing and will only wonder why you're lying to them. I was one such child.
It might be good for Lindsey to get counseling to get through all & to face any issues she may be in denial about concerning the situation.Children aren’T dumb. They, too, might be sensing or seeing something is definitely wrong. If so, how is it effecting them not receiving help to cope with it all, too? Something to remember: He is at home with the children acting as their primary “teacher” & role model.
He should get custody of the kids as well as alimony & child support. This is because he is the primary care giver while she is at work. If the genders were reversed no one would be upset at the primary care giving women getting custody of kids.
@@TehFlush No, courts favor the stay-at-home parent, which is usually the woman, but in this case it is the man. Most likely they will get joint custody, with the husband having physical custody.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣FACTS!!! and she knew from jump that something wasn't right...this is the wrong show for all this tea..she needs to talk to an attorney and a shrink
There is a difference between just merely "getting laid" versus "having intimacy". It might be that he is emotionally disconnected to the point that she is experiencing the former but not the latter.
Impossible that she got admitted for depression and the kids are completely unaware. They might not know the ICD 10 code for mom's diagnosis but i can assure you they know something is wrong. Kids are small. Not stupid.
I can't believe she was not aware of his lifestyle before they got married. Women tend to have very good intuition. She must have been blinded by love.
Some men are VERY good about hiding this area of their lives from their significant others. I was in counseling once with a woman who'd been married like 25 years and just found out her husband had been cheating with women and had a porn addiction like 15 years and she honestly had no idea.
@@ThreeNTheMornin maybe not this year but definitely after next year with it being the 30th anniversary of the show he will start to step back a bit and transfer over to either Anthony or Chris or to Rachel
He's mentioned that he's gonna slowly phase out of doing the show since he's already done it for 30 freaking years and would probably like to start enjoying his money to the fullest by having more free time and less obligations such as the show.
Friend of mine in college asked to have relations with me, I turned him down nicely. He got married to a girl he was dating a few years after that and had a kid.
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Lol, this caption is very comical to the actual question
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Don’t become a weird clickbait factory
Caller: “my husband cross dresses”
Dave: “and what’s his household income?”
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😭😭😂🤣😄😅💀💀 sell the car, deliver pizza, if the kid's meals are free, only go out to eat there.
@@nme.00104 How much could you get for his dresses if you sold them today? 🤣
Sell the Dog.
@@coreylauck3310 I love how in the Dave Ramsey community we've arrived at the point of everyone making memes about it hahahaha
@@stephensantiago603 I haven't laughed this hard in a long time 😂
Caller: my husband cross dresses
Dave: neither of you is going to see the inside of a Victoria's secret until this thing's paid off
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LMFAOOOOOO!!!! Thanks for the laugh
I just howled laughing
Good one.
“Perfect! He can get a job as a drag performer”
Caller: “my husband cross dresses. What should I do?”
Dave - “Beans and Rice, Rice and Beans”
Awful! Just.... hilarious
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It never gets old! 😂🤣😂🤣. I wish Dave was on this call!
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I feel like I was robbed of Dave Ramsey's reaction to the caller.
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Same 🤣
He would of told her to make him get a job on the corner to pay off some debt
@@kmoney4270 😆
@@huskiefan06 😅🤣
Dave: “Sell the dresses!”
L O L 😂😂😂 I was thinking Bras and heals 😂😩😂 I literally laughed out loud when I read that
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Caller: “Husband Cross-dresses”
Dave: “Sell the car” 🤣🤣🤣🤣
CASH IT TONIGHT
Lol 😂
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“Beans and rice rice and beans budget, drive an 800 dollar car”
can't stop laughing
Caller, "Im 200000 in dept and my husbands a cross dresser"
Dave, "wear each others clothes instead of buying new ones"
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Omg, this is too much 😂😂😂
Funniest comment I have read this year. well done
Her husband lied to her by omission. It's so sad and so hard to hear, especially when you can tell she's heartbroken over this.
Caller: "my husband crossdresses."
Dave: "how much of that is student loan debt."
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Dave: “what’s MSRP on the dresses?”
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With his pen and pad out !
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Caller : My husband is a cross dresser
Dave : How much is he worth ? Sell him.
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I agree with Dave on that one
Hahahhahahahaha funny
He is a stay at home parent.. she will be taking care of him financially. Get ready to pay that alimony.
Yep
@@nikolas_schreck Bbbeta!!!
It depends on what state she lives in. Some states will not consider alimony unless the spouse was unemployed during the marriage for at least ten years.
Dave Ramsey: Lady, JUST SELL THE FREAKING CAR!!🤣🤣
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IF Dave was here:
Caller: My husband crossdreses
Dave: What's your household income?
Lollll
Lol funny as heck.
😭😭😂🤣😄😅💀💀 deliver pizza, only eat out if the kid's meals are free.
@@nme.00104 you made my day.
Probably put them in Ramsey plus
Dave Ramsey show has turned into Jerry Springer
Right! Lol
All they need is an audience in the studio...🤐
Accurate lol
So sad, yet true
Sadly, you’re right. I wish there was a way to only unsubscribe to these types of clips.
This happened with my parents.. I wished my parents divorced sooner. Would have saved us kids a lot of drawn out strife and misery. She may think her kids don’t sense what’s up but I can assure you kids are very attuned. They model after depressed, anxious, sad, mad, or secretive parents.
Sell the husband
you can't be in love with a liar or someone who keeps secrets and cannot be intimate with you
Thanks coming from a guy (hopefully) that’s really nice.
I really don’t think they called into the right show on this one
Facts. This video is just insulting.
@@neoeyebeleave to whom?
Imagine they called when it's just Anthony and Chris.
If Dr. John wasn’t on, I think I’d agree with you. But, this seems like a perfect question for him to answer.
@@ppa1fs I agree. I actually think the real question was "Dr. John, can you give me the permission I need to move forward with a divorce?" And he did.
Gotta say, these two guys handled this call like true counseling pros.
Definitely need to be clear on each other’s sexuality way before marriage.
LOL
I come home.
She's in latex.
She tells me what to do.
I say yes ma'am.
I get nookie.
She says good job.
I say thank you ma'am.
We're good. 😎
Ummm that's kind of the problem with purity culture. People get married and find out what their sexuality is not.
@@maam-yj8phI believe she said he was with a man before they got married???
@@maam-yj8phpurity culture is a problem?
I have a huge issue with people hiding such information then getting married. I wish people will leave other people until they figure out what they want to do exactly with their lives. This information should be said from the get go of the relationship. Then adding kids to the mix , when the relationship didn’t start on a honest foundation.... makes things even harder. I hope God gives her the strength & wisdom she needs to handle it the best way.
Might have been something he started doing over the years.
@@Jaguar7444 From what she said , it sounded clearly he did it way before they were married as he equally was in a relationship with a man prior to being with her. So no , he knew exactly where he stood but intentionally choose to hide it.
It's abusive.
How do you not have an inkling that something may be off though?
@@robshala1763 she said she did. 🤷♂️ But I guess she still got married. But people don't always have an inkling... Sometimes the guy doesn't know themselves.
...Why do people like this end up together and have kids? Seems he never wanted her and she never wanted him so how does their friendship end with multiple kids and years of marriage?
Desperation, like ALOT of desperation.
This women just fell out of love with her spouse and is using the cross dressing as an excuse for the divorce. She said they were already becoming less intimate and such. It's not about what he wears, she just isn't that close to him anymore. And with straight couples, relationships can still reach a point where the love has died down.
@@gamerji-li4755 Bingo!
Allies feminists
@@gamerji-li4755 It definitely is the cross-dressing and his bisexuality that bothers her... That's why they are distant.
Caller: "My husband cross dresses"
Dave:"I'm gonna put him through Financial Peace University"
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Dave: Uh…you need to sell your husband LIKE YESTERDAY.
She needs to get a STI test now!! Talk about living in denial. Poor lady
Caller: My husband cross-dresses
Dave: Stay on the line I’m going to give you a copy of Christy Wright’s Business Boutique
Caller: "my husband cross-dresses"
Dave: "Sell the husband, sell the car. You gotta cash out TONIGHT!!! And you're gonna start eating beans & rice"
He's a stay at home dad and she is a doctor. They may not stay friends when he goes for full custody and support and buries her in attorney fees along with those student loans. Hopefully that he won't do that, but it happens.
Welcome to feminism. Equal treatment
Uh oh yeah didnt think of that so he isnt a dr? cant support himself? Wants spousal support and the kids. Plus her support checks for THEM as well as him...this is where that road leads..??
she admitted the guy also was with another man in the past he probably sees other ones while shes at work
@@SarahR2D2not when the husband cheated onher already...
@@kayjeffs3741 Not if they are in a no fault state
The Maury Ramsey show at its best
Jerry Ramsey? Dave Springer?
Caller: My husband is a crossdresser
Dave: What do you owe on your cars?
_”He doesn't have a car, but he has been known to throw a tantrum inside of GameStop."_
@@stephenshelton4267 "he?!? ITS MA'M!!"
Dave must be glad he didn’t answer this call.
I would have loved to see his face though.
I hate when people are confused about their sexuality get married to someone they are not attracted to just to have kids.
the pain in her voice is heart breaking
No she is. A pos
It probably would have been easier to have called into Dr. John’s show...
I agree……I feel like the other guy never gives good answers
"I don't think our kids know there's anything wrong with our relationship." They know. They don't know the specifics but they feel it.
Just because your kids are little and may not understand doesn't mean they won't feel your pain. Kids are so intuitive.
She needs to put herself first while still youthful because today's kindergartner is entering high school by end of this decade, and a 30 year old will be trudging toward 50.. time passes very quickly.
As a friend of mine use to say, “If I put God first, everything falls in place. If I don’t put God first, nothing is in place.”We are all broken people, but in different ways. God created us in his image. “Male and female He created them.” We all have two choices, to grow into the image of God, or to follow our own desires. “ I have put before you life and death, now choose life.” Because God was not put first they will now experience the death of the marriage.
Caller: "I have 20000 in debt and my husband cross dresses"
Dave: "Sell the dresses!"
I wouldn't stay married to him 🤷♀️
Riiiiight
Exactly. Attraction is on zero.
Correction her
@@SuperOshaine *him
@@SuperOshaine him. He was born a man not my fault he feels like a girl at the end there’s only two sexes.
Ma'am, this is a finance show
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Bless her heart 🤣
Ken Coleman Makes a great point that marriage isn't just a legal contract!
@@michaelpalumbo4880 ya, I was gonna say the same thing: it’s def a legal contract. Hence: marriage license
@@michaelpalumbo4880 the guy said ISNT JUST a contract
Well, It is.
It’s common sense but it’s not so common ppl know about it ironically
@michael smith I was agreeing with you. Marriage is nothing more than a contract.
I feel the lady's pain. She needs a strong support community around her. Dave would've asked her to turn to a church group.
Yeah, I think they dropped the ball by not asking her if she was part of a solid church and seeking support/counseling there no matter what she decides to do financially.
Most calls are staged
@@TalyaT922 might not be christian
Still needs a church. Even more.
Church 🤢
This sounds like the other lady who called in not too long ago about her husband transitioning into a woman...I mean, what else can you do? It's not what you want so there's no other option but to divorce. Life is too short to spend it with someone who has a lifestyle you don't agree with
If the husband had transitioned before the divorce then who would be raked over the coals in family court.
The radical left has single handedly turned men into women.
@chiefs you should stop watching the news and do something with your time that brings you actual happiness. Extremists on either side are very small groups of people and politics aren’t the root cause of everything.
@@chiefs816kc because a political party is responsible for a grown man wanting to be woman 😬.
Such a silly and ignorant comment
This is something that he definitely should have mentioned during the course of their relationship prior to getting married. The fact that it is creating a problem now it’s totally on him.
I think the fact that she ignored the red flags is on her
Not only that but how he is treating the marriage now and disguarding her feelings is sickening
How can you get married and not have intimacy 🗿 First red flag
Agreed. The room would smell like badussy.
The children still have their dad, a divorce doesn't just make him disappear. Well it shouldn't. You have to be healthy for yourself and your children.
A dad? Are you sure???
@@MyLifeThai371🙄 He’s still a dad. Kids need both parents, especially boys as they really need a father, assuming the parents aren’t abusive or anything like that.
She needs to file divorce papers asap
She should just start eating rice & beans; beans & rice
And sell her husband.
😭😭😂🤣😄😅💀💀 and deliver pizza, eat out only if it's half off, kid's eat free etc.
If he is a crosser dresser and you’re not OK with it then its over, End of story. I would put money aside for divorce. He is not interested in anything towards your feelings. Your partner should always know their partner’s feelings are more important than their own.
Call was handled very well. The couple can probably divorce and still continue to be great parents.
You need to tell him he can’t act like this. He entered into a covenant with you and has responsibilities he can’t neglect. If he wanted to act this way he shouldn’t have gotten married.
Tell that to a leftist
You can tell him, but he won't listen.
It is hard to believe such an intelligent woman would put up with this for so long. She should get out now and start her life. The children will understand when they're older for sure.
Maybe she is religious.
Seriously???!!! No intimacy, no cuddling, make-up is disappearing, etc.
The panelists are probably thinking, "We need to look for another career, maybe IT..."
I think the cross dressing is just an excuse, the relationship was already going sour if they aren't intimate and close to each other anymore.
Career isn't enough, get a cabin in the woods and take your family, everyone else is losing their minds and you don't want to be on the ship when it sinks
@@SIGSEGV1337 Dramatic. Acting like cross dressers haven't been around for a long time now lol.
@@gamerji-li4755 Yes murderers have also been around for a long time. Uncle Ted was right
@@SIGSEGV1337 Comparing wearing different clothes to murdering. Yeah you are crazy dramatic.
Caller my husband wear dresses.
Dave : live like no other so later you can live like no other.
This is so funny😂😂
and give ;)
No matter what you do rice and beans need to get implemented.
Hahahahaha
hahahaha 💀
If this isn’t proof enough that society is falling apart, I don’t know what is...It’s suspicious as well. Dave smart letting the younger guys handle these calls.
My thoughts exactly. Feminism is part of the deal, then testerone levels .... feeling sorry for millennials as far as relationships go.
The line has to be drawn somewhere.
Its drawn right there. I would divorce my husband immediately if he was ctoss dressing.
@@agathachris9722 What's wrong with your husband wearing what you wear? Sexist much...
@@s3ntryplays449 nothing wrong with it however everyone has their own preferences. If she’s not comfortable with that and doesn’t like it they both need to sit down and talk about it someone has too make a compromise.
@@s3ntryplays449 Holy cow. You think what her husband does is normal?
@@s3ntryplays449 It’s not a sexist. If she wanted to marry a women, she would have. She married a man. It’s not unreasonable to want your man to be a man.
“My husband is cross dressing”
Dave: “You need a bigger shovel to clean this mess up!”
Caller-“My husband is a stay at home Mom”
Call a lawyer. Today. He's happy and you deserve to be happy too.
So sad and heartbreaking for someone who’s so successful and sweet to experience this. I hope she finds the right person and lives happy
Get out of here with that. Happens to men all the time and guess who cares? Wait for it, NO ONE.
Maybe you should start wearing a suit and tie. Might balance things out.
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“Husband Cross dresses”
Dave- tell him to man up and stop being a wuss
He needs to start delivering pizzas.
He needs to stop going to restaurants unless he works in one.
Sounds like Dave should tell her to man up and stop being a wuss.
Because from the sound of things it seems that she's the man of the house.
it's like the one in a thousand situation that ends up being Mrs Doubtfire.
The dude can crossdress If he wants to. Doesn't make him any less of a man.
Men and women are equal now, remember? Just because he's a man, it doesn't mean he has to wear the pants. Just because she's a woman, it doesn't mean she has to walk around the house barefoot, pregnant, and in the kitchen...
@@s3ntryplays449 it's funny watching people's reaction to traditional gender roles.
Because women wanted to be equal to men.
so she should enjoy paying alimony and child support to her cross dressing spouse.
it's equality!
Any marriage where one of the spouses said 'we're best friends' is on the rocks.
“Uhh, This is a personal finance hotline ma’am”
How do they keep their faces straight????
Because these are real people with real problems. It's this woman's life ya know, she's probably crying herself to sleep every night.
@@jeffreytufaro Haha you believe that? This is a bait call. They are trying to get Ramsey in the stupidest ways. This lady isn't crying about anything.
This is so sad and gross. He is dead wrong for starting a family and marrying a woman. You knew you didn’t want a woman. Let me guess... People will call him “courageous” for living a lie and tearing a family apart. Delusional is more ways than one
But I think he’s attracted to women, the cross dressing I’m sure is a turn off to many men and women. But at the same time, this is Virginia, I don’t think it’s that accepting of LGBTQ+, if more people can be accepting of LGBTQ+ people as individuals (minus the woke agenda), then these things would happen a lot less.
The man was wrong? Both parties should bear some blame here for agreeing to marry each other.
“I don’t think the kids have any idea” yes they have some idea that mommy is mad all the time
Or depressed due to the incredible loneliness she's feeling.
The kids shouldn't see that's how a marriage is supposed to be. "Mommy's sad all the time and that's normal."
This is grounds for divorce. He wanted to live a lie and now he wants her to give him the green light & alimony. If she can prove they are his debts, he will have to pay them.
The depression & the lies will affect the children
I feel like on these calls,
I need to start chanting: “Dave, Dave, Dave, Dave, Dave......”
Great dad, good friend - sounds like the perfect ex-husband
This call is so sad. May God give her the strength and wisdom to move forward in this.
He's stayed at home for way too long.
This comment reeks of transphobia.
Dude watched too much hallmark channel 😅. Imagine thinking being a woman is putting on a dress and lipstick 😂.
when she said he needs to take on the mother role lol, he took it a bit too far
@@Nuslerosh are you saying someone who cross dresses is trans? Now THAT is transphobic.
@@maxrequisite No, it isn’t. Almost all straight people see transgender folks and cross-dressers going hand in hand. I can assure you that any person who has an issue with a man cross-dressing is inherently transphobic. Stop deflecting.
I have a friend whose husband came out as a cross-dresser after 30 years of marriage. When it first came out my friend was devastated and went through all the emotions. As her friend, I was stunned. I never saw it coming at all. He left and lived in a hotel for a few weeks while the dust settled. Their children were grown and out of the house. They ultimately ended up deciding to stay together. As an outsider, I was glad to see them stay together because they were a great couple and they physically and emotionally still loved each other. He also was a great husband and father. They made the right decision for them. But if it had happened to me, I think I would have left. I'm not sure I personally could handle my husband wanting to dress up as a woman. Too weird for me, but different strokes for different folks.
Oh and as for the debt Lindsay and her husband incurred, they are married and whether she leaves him or not, they both are responsible for that debt. So she can pay back the debt before or after she divorces him.
I don't think for the student loans though
She should’ve addressed as a couple years ago when she found out he was a cross dresser because wait for it wait for it
She could’ve filed an annulment which means the marriage never happened and she would never have to pay alimony. When you find out that they committed fraud which he did that is a major thing she needed to act on it right away when she found out and filed for an annulment that would’ve been the best thing and no alimony to him
A divorce is necessary but this doesn't need to be messy.
If the husband has hardline said he has no intention of trying to improve on the intimacy (and/or she has cut off the intimacy because the cross dressing is a dealbreaker for her) then yeah work out an amicable separation. But don't just walk away until you've exhausted all efforts to work out the difference. Irreconcilable differences does not mean difficult-to-reconcile differences.
So if they divorce, it’s a possibility that she may have to pay him alimony and because he is the primary caretaker of the kids, he could be awarded primary custody then that could be child support.
Don’t be fooled. He’s not your best friend. A best friend would want what’s best for you and he’s only thinking about himself. When you serve him with the divorce papers he will no longer be that best friend you think he is.
This sounds like a setup from the beginning. He trapped you.
Yes, that is a possibility.
Yes, that is exactly what should happen. Primary care giving women are usually awarded alimony, child support, & custody. So since he is the primary care parent who is not working he should be awarded all that.
In this case, that's the most likely scenario.
lol so by your logic all stay at home moms trap men ?
@@kelsiemitchell8499 More important, why didn't she pay attention to the signs that were telling her something was off about him?
My husband cross dresses
Dave: sell the car
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Haha
😭😭😂🤣😄😅💀💀
Did they even mention the car? Sell his body instead!
I wish they had asked more about the faith inclination.... nothing is irredeemable
Before her kids get older and pick up the signs that they have a platonic relationship, she should get divorced. She is worthy of being happy & valued. A Happy mom is able to help her kids to continue to strive in maturing and growing. I wish her the best. .
Agree! DO NOT bad mouth your kids dad or mom! It reflects back on their own self because they often perceive themselves as half mom and dad. Also, even if one parent IS at fault, the child STILL LOVES THEM! Be very careful!
LOL Is there anybody alive, including the kid who wouldnt look at a man dressed like a woman as a freak of nature?
By the same token, don't gaslight your children that their dad is a good man, etc. Children know when you're b.s.-ing and will only wonder why you're lying to them. I was one such child.
You knew something was wrong from the GET GO? Then Why?? Why?? Why?? did you stay in the relationship and even go on to have children??
Came here for financial advice, stayed for Ricky Lake drama
It might be good for Lindsey to get counseling to get through all & to face any issues she may be in denial about concerning the situation.Children aren’T dumb. They, too, might be sensing or seeing something is definitely wrong. If so, how is it effecting them not receiving help to cope with it all, too? Something to remember: He is at home with the children acting as their primary “teacher” & role model.
People and relationships like this really give me the creeps. HOW does this happen and how do these people maintain "relationships"
Really liked that this video doesn't have the loud intro music that Dave Ramsey normally does. So annoying, almost painful on headphones.
I sooooo dislike that intro
can you imagine you married a person have kids then this omg this is too much never ignore red flags prayers to her
No one is gonna mention how he is likely to get custody of the kids? That is probably a major factor on why she hasn't left yet.
I thought that the courts usually favor women. Can you explain?
The new society wants him to be a she too! Loool
He should get custody of the kids as well as alimony & child support. This is because he is the primary care giver while she is at work. If the genders were reversed no one would be upset at the primary care giving women getting custody of kids.
@@TehFlush No, courts favor the stay-at-home parent, which is usually the woman, but in this case it is the man. Most likely they will get joint custody, with the husband having physical custody.
Where are you stationed or are you still in basic training.
No intimacy, but we have children? I’m a little confused.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣FACTS!!! and she knew from jump that something wasn't right...this is the wrong show for all this tea..she needs to talk to an attorney and a shrink
There is a difference between just merely "getting laid" versus "having intimacy". It might be that he is emotionally disconnected to the point that she is experiencing the former but not the latter.
She obviously didn't mean 'none at all ever', she means she doesn't get nearly enough
At that point I'd be like
"Um... Ma'am, I'm a financial guru, not a counselor."
But Dr. John is a counselor.
Still, I think this topic is for Jerry Springer or Ricki Lake.
Impossible that she got admitted for depression and the kids are completely unaware. They might not know the ICD 10 code for mom's diagnosis but i can assure you they know something is wrong. Kids are small. Not stupid.
Why are people asking this questions this show is to manage your financials money . not to opinion on a husband trying to be a Bruce Jenner 🤦♂️
It’s getting out of hand for sure...It’s also suspicious
I think she called cos of the finance aspect as she was asking if she should start keeping money aside given the dilemma the marriage is at.
I can't believe she was not aware of his lifestyle before they got married. Women tend to have very good intuition. She must have been blinded by love.
I wondered about the same thing man
She was probably distracted by studying for medical school.
Some men are VERY good about hiding this area of their lives from their significant others. I was in counseling once with a woman who'd been married like 25 years and just found out her husband had been cheating with women and had a porn addiction like 15 years and she honestly had no idea.
Why the sudden change from "The Dave Ramsey show" to "The Ramsey show" is this the start of Daves retirement?
@@ThreeNTheMornin maybe not this year but definitely after next year with it being the 30th anniversary of the show he will start to step back a bit and transfer over to either Anthony or Chris or to Rachel
In short, yes.
@@BIGEAGLEDUDE probably Rachel since she’s his daughter.
It still says Dave Ramsey in the background. But I echo what other's have said. Dave is becoming a Sage, who may show up every so often to rant.
He's mentioned that he's gonna slowly phase out of doing the show since he's already done it for 30 freaking years and would probably like to start enjoying his money to the fullest by having more free time and less obligations such as the show.
Caller: "my husband cross dresses"
Dave: "perfect you can share underwear"
"Crossdressing is not bankruptable debt!"
Friend of mine in college asked to have relations with me, I turned him down nicely. He got married to a girl he was dating a few years after that and had a kid.
@Alan Doyle Correct, male. He was attempting a secret gender bender.
@@mph5896 LOL, how did that conversation go?
These men need to stop deceiving women, what is done in the darkness will one day be brought to light.