You guys give me so much hope 😭 I'm nonbinary and often attracted to cis men and have felt this conundrum of like "how is this ever going to possibly work" like I have to choose between being nonbinary and being attracted to who I'm naturally attracted and yall prove that wrong!!! Thank you for sharing your relationship, something so intimate, with all of us ❤️
Thank you for saying all of the stuff about sensitivity. I'm going to see my Grandparents soon and although they have no bad intent, they often get my pronouns wrong and it makes e sad so I've asked my parents to correct them so that i don't seem like I'm being a sensitive trans person as much and I don't feel so alone in asking people to use different words
How would the wedding thing be Obviously it wouldn't be wife/husband. I'm sorry. I'm asking more because I'm (hopefully) getting into a relationship with a non binary person, and I'm an cis male. We taking it slow. I don't want to get things wrong and you two seem to be the best help on things here
Thanks for asking, that shows a lot of love for your partner to want to learn. Every person will differ in how they want to be labelled, for me I like the word theyf instead of wife but some people just go with the neutral marriers or when referring to your partner phrases like "my other half" are neutral and cute. I would recommend speaking to your partner about what they'd like to go by instead of wife/husband and see what their comfortable with. Me and Max (who is a cis male) had lots of fun looking through the internet for different forums where people were coming up with gender neutral versions of husband/wife and so would recommend that too and see which one they're drawn too. Hope that helped at all and feel free to ask any more questions. Thanks for seeking out information to make your partner more comfortable and happier! You're a good soul. ✨
I understand! I'd say that if you ever propose or anything like that keep it very neutral. Ofcourse, "will you marry me?" is neutral, and from then on you can ask about their preferences for names when marrying at your own pace. Marriers and theyf or thusband is a neutral term but it's best to wait to ask them when you're both ready for that commitment. Hope that helps ✨ ask any further questions if you need (I can ask Max if you have any questions for him)x
The "diamonds are formed under pressure" comment was sooo sweet!! You two are such a good match!!
You guys give me so much hope 😭 I'm nonbinary and often attracted to cis men and have felt this conundrum of like "how is this ever going to possibly work" like I have to choose between being nonbinary and being attracted to who I'm naturally attracted and yall prove that wrong!!! Thank you for sharing your relationship, something so intimate, with all of us ❤️
wtf your fiancé is a Jesus
y'all looks very cute together!!!
Thank you for saying all of the stuff about sensitivity. I'm going to see my Grandparents soon and although they have no bad intent, they often get my pronouns wrong and it makes e sad so I've asked my parents to correct them so that i don't seem like I'm being a sensitive trans person as much and I don't feel so alone in asking people to use different words
I'm really glad your parents can help you and I wish you the best with going to see them, hopefully they pick up the pronouns quick!
How would the wedding thing be
Obviously it wouldn't be wife/husband.
I'm sorry. I'm asking more because I'm (hopefully) getting into a relationship with a non binary person, and I'm an cis male. We taking it slow.
I don't want to get things wrong and you two seem to be the best help on things here
Thanks for asking, that shows a lot of love for your partner to want to learn. Every person will differ in how they want to be labelled, for me I like the word theyf instead of wife but some people just go with the neutral marriers or when referring to your partner phrases like "my other half" are neutral and cute. I would recommend speaking to your partner about what they'd like to go by instead of wife/husband and see what their comfortable with. Me and Max (who is a cis male) had lots of fun looking through the internet for different forums where people were coming up with gender neutral versions of husband/wife and so would recommend that too and see which one they're drawn too. Hope that helped at all and feel free to ask any more questions. Thanks for seeking out information to make your partner more comfortable and happier! You're a good soul. ✨
@@MxMorphling do you see what I put as love?
I'm scared to go that far in my feelings for them yet
I understand! I'd say that if you ever propose or anything like that keep it very neutral. Ofcourse, "will you marry me?" is neutral, and from then on you can ask about their preferences for names when marrying at your own pace. Marriers and theyf or thusband is a neutral term but it's best to wait to ask them when you're both ready for that commitment. Hope that helps ✨ ask any further questions if you need (I can ask Max if you have any questions for him)x