YOUR EX WILL ONLY Miss YOU And FEEL DEEP LOSS When THIS HAPPENS

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  • YOUR EX WILL ONLY Miss YOU And FEEL DEEP LOSS When THIS HAPPENS
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  • @deltabravo1969
    @deltabravo1969 วันที่ผ่านมา +22

    I broke all contact with her. I’m still suffering from emotional withdrawals. However, I will detox and rise from the ashes. Thank you coach.

  • @Queenschris718
    @Queenschris718 วันที่ผ่านมา +33

    I’ve lost everything . All I do is workout and live like a hermit

    • @drickreacts
      @drickreacts วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Keep pushing, you're doing your best

    • @di114n2
      @di114n2 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      You and me both man . There’s really nothing wrong with it but it does get lonely at times

    • @Queenschris718
      @Queenschris718 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @ yeah it does

    • @correythomas4331
      @correythomas4331 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Me too

    • @ragnarlodrbrok2561
      @ragnarlodrbrok2561 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      we pray for you bro❤ you are not alone. You didn't lose everything bro everything lost you❤

  • @reese9510
    @reese9510 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    He drained me emotionally, mentally and financially!

  • @Honest-Words
    @Honest-Words วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Before you take them back, remember all the things they did to you. Thats what you want back?

    • @cabiles96
      @cabiles96 วันที่ผ่านมา

      😮 ty 🗣️

  • @MrTurtluv
    @MrTurtluv วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thank you Coach. Right now I feel broken in a million pieces. I felt I had to leave my home and my 23 year marriage because of his abuse. He literally moved right on to some piece of trash. I don’t know why I expected anything different, but it still hurts.

  • @christianbarrientos8267
    @christianbarrientos8267 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you for making these videos coach Blac it really do help me get me get through the tough days

  • @ejioforlouis
    @ejioforlouis วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thank you Coach Blac for all that you do. It's been a month NC. Her Bday is this weekend, I miss her daily and I wish I was with her still to celebrate her life and all that she means to me but I understand I gotta respect the break up and focus on myself and my own growth. 🙏🏾

  • @louann5545
    @louann5545 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Coach blac looking real good these past few videos 😂❤

    • @maemaez9749
      @maemaez9749 วันที่ผ่านมา

      He always looks good that's why I watch and if I get good advice great

  • @LeslieCorral-g2j
    @LeslieCorral-g2j วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    Currently no contact last month and a half. It’s been difficult to say the least but I’m slowly starting to feel better after refocusing my energy time and love towards myself. 💕💪🏼

    • @marguskiis7711
      @marguskiis7711 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Let some other women talk to you how good you are.

    • @Euvfhu
      @Euvfhu 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Letting go of someone you love is incredibly hard. I went through a similar experience when my four-year relationship ended, and moving on felt almost impossible. I tried everything to reconnect, including seeking guidance from a spiritual counselor who ultimately helped me. I'm sharing his contact here, in case it might be helpful to someone else:
      ✛66836855474👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾🔥🔥🪴🪴❄️❄️🔮香港的决定令人高兴。

  • @joshleo3135
    @joshleo3135 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I was NC with my ex for 44 days until she reached out, she asked if she could get her stuff cause she was coming to the area I lived in, she couldn't even remember the stuff she left her which isn't much, I said I'm not in the area those days cause I have a trip, so I'd leave them where I work and she got super offended

  • @danielnargiso2614
    @danielnargiso2614 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Dam Coach!!!!Spot on 100%correct

  • @CliffordMyers
    @CliffordMyers วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    It's been 4 months. She's not coming back. We didn't even know about my diagnosis at the time and I've got on meds since and getting the proper help. But never discussed the context that created the burnout. I love her. Wish we could have at least had that conversation. But I think it's just over.

    • @ADaun75
      @ADaun75 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Mine was gone for 8 mos. He came back. However we r on another “ break”. Keep hope alive and wk on u

    • @CliffordMyers
      @CliffordMyers 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @@ADaun75 thank you and same to you - sorry you're on another break - was it a bit better second time around?

  • @sphillips6111
    @sphillips6111 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thank you for this one. I can move forward without any fear. In other words I have the power in the end to be with them or not. Even if they ended it with me. I have the power of choice. Again, thank you for this video.

  • @drickreacts
    @drickreacts วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Been NC for a month and it has been great. The first few days were hard but now it's easy, I do have moments where I think about here but I don't have a strong urge to text. I decided to start dating again and it has been very positive so far. Thank you coach!

    • @marguskiis7711
      @marguskiis7711 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      You never loved her.

    • @drickreacts
      @drickreacts วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@marguskiis7711 LMAO, that's crazy. How can you be so confident? If someone walks away from you, the best thing you can do is work on yourself to increase your value and elevate your mood. Hanging on to someone who doesn't want you only causes pain. I think you should watch coach's videos and you'll understand. I still love her but I'm not sitting around feeling sorry for myself while she carry on with her life. As a Jamaican life still a keep cuz bowy

    • @marguskiis7711
      @marguskiis7711 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@drickreacts I have had every kind of relationships. From FWB to marriage and everything between them. And I know, FWB is the easiest to let go bc you never loved her really. You just do not care. And marriage and LTR are the hardest because you really loved. If you really love a woman it is hard to let her go bc you are afraid something bad can happen with her, she can suffer, she can die. Without you besides her.

    • @drickreacts
      @drickreacts วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@marguskiis7711 This is why you are single bro, you do too much. She was fine before you and she'll be fine after you. It's not your job to save her. Stop being a simp man, and stop chasing. If she loved you she wouldn't leave so why chase her after she showed you how she feels? It's not worth it

    • @marguskiis7711
      @marguskiis7711 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@drickreacts It your choice not to love anybody and be happy with it.

  • @maemaez9749
    @maemaez9749 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yep doing all that to show he making mistake......all his bread crumbs will become a whole piece I hope soon

  • @Claret-s9h
    @Claret-s9h 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Still haven’t had my things back she hasn’t replied to me about me getting my things back in over 8 weeks so I guess I’m in no contact, I doubt I will get my things back when I gave her the benefit of the doubt. She was my first relationship and I miss her it ended in June and it recently has just gotten worse. I know I deserve better but I miss her and wanted to grow with her, why’s it so hard?

  • @kiki-jt9lu
    @kiki-jt9lu วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    If I get invited to his parents/siblings funeral should I go? What should I do? What should I say? Do I even say anything to him about his loss at all? We’ve been broken up for 4 months and we dated for two years. (Wonderful healthy relationship btw) I wish I had seen your videos before my sudden unexpected breakup so I was sending messages to him on and off. Now I’m trying NC. Thank you so much for your content I appreciate all that you do, take care.

    • @di114n2
      @di114n2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Me personally I would especially if they asked you to or you’ve met this family member before

    • @Champ1988
      @Champ1988 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      If you get invited to his parents' or siblings' funeral, should you go? Here’s what I think. Since you’ve been broken up for four months after a healthy two-year relationship, it makes sense why you’d be unsure.
      If he reaches out and invites you, it’s probably okay to go, as long as you’re comfortable. Just be mindful of your intentions and don’t go with any hope of rekindling things. Your presence alone is enough, so a simple “I’m sorry for your loss” works, and you don’t need to engage beyond that.
      If you’re sticking to no contact for your own healing, sending a short condolence message instead might be the better option. Just make sure you’re doing what feels right for you, without expecting anything in return.
      Good luck, and take care!

    • @paradisoxl7865
      @paradisoxl7865 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I think you should go if you knew the parent/sibling. Not for your ex but for them.

  • @haroldhollingsworthesq
    @haroldhollingsworthesq วันที่ผ่านมา

    thank you!

  • @AnnaMubita-i7z
    @AnnaMubita-i7z วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    My ex comes and goes

  • @throng5092
    @throng5092 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I just choose not see her she don't text me call or even come to visit or anything so I'll give her the gift of silence and absence in the moment I'll just focus on myself

  • @ramissaleem
    @ramissaleem วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    thank you

  • @TheBoyLito
    @TheBoyLito วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Her loss

  • @joydipchowdhury5557
    @joydipchowdhury5557 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My ex is a avoidant creature, she came a week before now she is giving tantrums. I did mistake , i should not have met her, again my mental turmoil starts....

    • @gemmaburns6407
      @gemmaburns6407 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You didn’t lose her she lost you!

  • @marguskiis7711
    @marguskiis7711 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Women just do not regret and care of their exes at all. They have too many options for that. All men are too easily to replace. NEVER seen ANY woman regretting or going back. Never.

    • @Andetria
      @Andetria วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I want mine back 🙂 trying hard

    • @Euvfhu
      @Euvfhu 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @@Andetria Letting go of someone you love is incredibly hard. I went through a similar experience when my four-year relationship ended, and moving on felt almost impossible. I tried everything to reconnect, including seeking guidance from a spiritual counselor who ultimately helped me. I'm sharing his contact here, in case it might be helpful to someone else:
      ✛66836855474👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾🔥🔥🪴🪴❄️❄️🔮香港的决定令人高兴。

  • @mar61182
    @mar61182 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    open to suggestions, but how do i do no contact if we had a kid together. we have a 10 month old together and outta of the blue she tells me shes no longer in love with me and she moved out as of yesterday. definitely blindsided and hurt . how should i move ?

  • @brolyinstinct4972
    @brolyinstinct4972 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Your the best🎉🎉

  • @dang9269
    @dang9269 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hey coach i made alot of mistakes in the relationship and was a toxic drunk I've been sober since the break up and want her to come back. Shes blocked me though and didn't give any closure.. any advice?

  • @ericsaravia8325
    @ericsaravia8325 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What if she left from a wandering eye.
    Says that I deserve someone else.
    Now she is cold and does not want me to reach out.
    Also she's is not pursuing a relationship but is just messing around.
    What would all this mean??

    • @Jaymoe316
      @Jaymoe316 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      She doesn't take you serious. Wants to look for better options, or just be for the streets. She most likely think you are a good person and felt bad for liking other people.

  • @ragnarlodrbrok2561
    @ragnarlodrbrok2561 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My ex is in a new serious relationship and in public she came to me to say Hallo. I said go away pls i am not comfortable with this. She then went away and said she did nothing to me. Did i do right or am i too hard in your opinion guys?

    • @dreamworldent.8538
      @dreamworldent.8538 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Should’ve never responded

    • @Euvfhu
      @Euvfhu 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Letting go of someone you love is incredibly hard. I went through a similar experience when my four-year relationship ended, and moving on felt almost impossible. I tried everything to reconnect, including seeking guidance from a spiritual counselor who ultimately helped me. I'm sharing his contact here, in case it might be helpful to someone else:
      ✛66836855474👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾🔥🔥🪴🪴❄️❄️🔮香港的决定令人高兴。

    • @bsharp3
      @bsharp3 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      You gotta be indifferent, even if you care don’t show it, a chess game out here smh she wanted your reaction

  • @TheLonerGirl39
    @TheLonerGirl39 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Why would my ex add me on snapchat but doesn't interact or watch my stories! Its because shes in a relationship duh lol

    • @Euvfhu
      @Euvfhu 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Letting go of someone you love is incredibly hard. I went through a similar experience when my four-year relationship ended, and moving on felt almost impossible. I tried everything to reconnect, including seeking guidance from a spiritual counselor who ultimately helped me. I'm sharing his contact here, in case it might be helpful to someone else:
      ✛66836855474👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾🔥🔥🪴🪴❄️❄️🔮香港的决定令人高兴。

  • @robbello1000
    @robbello1000 วันที่ผ่านมา

    hey couch you got a pimple on your forehead just to tell ya sorry.........But I hope your doing well ...!

    • @blacademic
      @blacademic  วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      lol I’ll survive

    • @robbello1000
      @robbello1000 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@blacademic You Better! All The Best Rob Bello 'KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK'!

    • @jordan_r11
      @jordan_r11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Stupid comment

    • @mazzamaz3827
      @mazzamaz3827 วันที่ผ่านมา

      COACH*