It's okay to grieve people who haven't died. It's okay if you miss someone who you hurt or who hurt you. It's okay to regret loosing people you cut off. You'll heal. You'll get better and move on. Mourning is part of the process. Let yourself cry. I promise your get stronger and one day, you'll be able to breathe again.
@Oregano im glad it resonated with you. Its not dumb to try and avoid the grief, but its a good thing that you've been processing it. Forgive yourself if you can. Im proud of you and I hope you have a lovely life.
I do know this song is about relationships. But back in 2016 I fell into a depression hole when my favorite dog ran away. She was so sweet and she always helped me calm down with my anxiety. That year was so bad. I hate everything about it. I found this song one November day in the evening.. and well I fell in love with the band since then. This band helped get through my Ana and lift me up from that hole .. I owe a lot to them. Unfortunately this year I’ve been revisited by Ana..and it’s getting so bad. I miss you Lucy, whenever you are I love you so much.
hey, just wanted to let you know that you’re strong as hell for getting through everything you have. i know how hard shit can get sometimes and i relate to you and what you’ve been through. you’re not alone. life gets better, you just have to be there to see it. if you ever need anyone to talk to, you can snap me (s.karo5) or dm me on ig (s__karolina). if not, that’s perfectly okay! just stay safe and stay healthy♥️
I think of this song when I just leave the house and walk off to... Somewhere. Randomly into the countryside,or woods or some shit. I long to just leave it all and go somewhere unknown and enjoy myself. Then I feel bad, and I'm torn up between going and doing that and staying with my friends. I like both options. Fuck. And then I feel like they'll find better people than me, but they're the best people I've ever found. I just don't know.
guys, if you're on your computer/laptop, open another tab w rain noises and listen to this like that, trust me i-- tHANK Y'ALL SM DHDGSJD I DIDN'T THINK YOU GUYS WOULD LIKE IT AS MUCH
I've been ghosting, I've been ghosting along Ghost in your house, ghost in your arms When you're tossing, when you turn in your sleep It's because I'm ghosting your dreams And this is why I have decided To pull these old white sheets from my head I'll leave them folded neat and tidy So that you'll know I'm out of hiding I've been ghosting, I've been ghosting along Ghost in the world, ghost with no home I remember, I remember the days When I'd make you oh-so afraid And this is why I have decided To leave your house and home un-haunted You don't need poltergeists for sidekicks You don't need treats And you don't need tricks You don't need treats You don't need tricks You don't need no Halloween You don't need treats You don't need tricks And you don't need me Me Hey, would it be so bad if I stayed I'm just a ghost out of his grave And I can't make love in my grave I won't put white into your hair I won't make noises in your stairs I will be kind and I'll be sweet If you stop staring straight through me And this is why I have decided To pull these old white sheets from my head I'll leave them folded neat and tidy So that you'll know I'm out of hiding And this is why I have decided To leave your house and home un-haunted You don't need poltergeists for sidekicks You don't need treats And you don't need tricks You don't need treats You don't need tricks You don't need no Halloween You don't need treats You don't need tricks You don't need treats You don't need no Hallows Eve You don't need treats You don't need tricks And you don't need me
listening to this at night on a bridge over the river and singing along is just perfection, i felt like i was singing to someone but no one was there, it was literally amazing
This is by far my favorite slowed down version of any mother mother song. It's maybe because I prefer o my heart over all the other albums (it's on the same place like eureka aka. place nr 1)
the part of me that pushed every friendship, relationship, and family member away resonates deeply within this song. I know they're better without me, but my selfishness ends up bringing me to a chaotic back and forth until they leave themselves; which makes me feel dopey by always thinking they will in the first place. The biggest war is yourself. Mostly the war involves knowing your better than your thoughts, and you aren't them.
Thank you. This song made me happy today and not feel like trash. I went to sleep crying in a good way getting out emotions. Edit: Jesus this is like 9 months old 😂
Dear editors this song has so many great parts to edit with depending on what vibe you want so here, 1:01 2:16 3:09 3:24 edit: you dont get notifications for when someone likes a comment you post so i didnt realize people actually liked this lmao, thanks
I listened to this song on the way home from getting our first dog cremated in July of 2020. I imagined her visiting each of us and trying to make us feel better. I miss you Bonnie
i personally love to interpret songs my own way. i know that this is not the actual meaning of "ghosting" though i wish i were someone more extroverted, and outgoing like the others. i really want to be one of them. i am tired of making new friends just to end up losing them at the end of the school year because i ghost them to protect my own feelings because i feel overwhelmed when i am friends with more than 2 or 4 people. i want to keep my circle small, but i feel like this time it is getting smaller because of me, and there is no going back. sometimes i want to be alone but i just end up feeling lonely because i push everyone away and this is my fault but i still convince myself that it isn't my fault. i am tired of hearing people complain about their friends not ever responding to them, as if they even tried to check up on them to see what the actual problem is. i am tired of my best friend passive agressive's way of telling me things i already know and hated myself for those things, like not being able to confront people or "just say no" to someone. i try my best, but i always end up isolating myself, i truly think this is self-sabotage. maybe i am the problem. i will become a better person and i will always put myself first.
This song reminds me of my life growing up how better off people were without me, how I took advantage of everything around me and so foolishly thought nothing of those suffering. I hurt her so much, she is better off without me but it hurts me so much but I know that to love someone truely is to let them go…..I wish nothing but the best for you *Jenny.* I hope you’ve found peace, wherever you are…. Kind regards - your soulmate from the right time wrong place 💙
With the desc, the song lyrics themselves as well as it being slowed, and the background pic, I'm guessing your mental state isn't the best and that's ok, if you ever need someone to talk to I'm here, just using my knowledge, my guess is that you're dealing with a broken close friendship which you feel like is your fault, something is never really your fault and if it ended then it's for a good reason, so focus on the good
When I hear this song, it sometimes makes me zone out, thinking of nothing but hearing the song, it feels so amazing. Thats why this song is my 2nd favorite song in the whole earth 💕
I have started realizing how shallow my friendships have been. It is a sad realization to have and I wish to meet people who want a deep friendship. A friendship shouldn’t be based on status or only similar interests but rather care. Genuine care for the other. That is what I believe and I hope someday to find others who feel the same. Much love, Hannah, your friend-to-be There is beauty to be found in everyone, every single person on this planet Never forget that Until we meet again
I have recently learned what this term "ghosting" is used for. I think it may be a sign of the effects this perfect image social media paints. People's lives can be messy there's no benefits in portraying something else or hiding from people because of it. I'd much rather get to know someone who understands struggle, who's honest. Imperfections are what make someone special, makes them feel genuine. Life is suffering sometimes.....and without it JoY just wouldn't hit the same. ❣Don't be discouraged darlings. Xo
im listening to this to try to get myself hyped up about finishing the last of my WIP--- barely 5 chapters in, I still have 11 left, and I'm trying to get it done and edited for the 11th of January. This is hyping me but in like, a really sad way, y'know?
Still miss you, and sometimes I want to reach out, just to wish you well. You told me if I needed anyone to talk to I could count on you, to be honest I avoided doing that for as long as I could because I didn’t want to bother you or let you remember I existed. Eventually I did, just once, but you never answered, so I took that as you leaving me behind. I will never reach out for you again unless you do.
I came to this song cause I'm sad but now im confused can someone please tell me what that shape in the video is idk why I never noticed but its really bugging me now
i thought my cat was dying yesterday night and i was crying to this for like 30min but nope, april fools joke she was fine just shat everywhere and it smells
well update on my cat: she might actually be dead now, great now this hurts 3x and can’t even have a room alone to cry in because we’re in a hotel 3.5 hours away from home haha anniversary day she still isnt back none of them are and I can’t even find closure bc i don’t want to give up on her!! hahaha fuck
I've been ghosting, I've been ghosting along Ghost in your house, ghost in your arms When you're tossing, when you turn in your sleep It's because I'm ghosting your dreams And this is why I have decided To pull these old white sheets from my head I'll leave them folded neat and tidy So that you'll know I'm out of hiding I've been ghosting, I've been ghosting along Ghost in the world, ghost with no home I remember, I remember the days When I'd make you oh-so afraid And this is why I have decided To leave your house and home unhaunted You don't need poltergeists for sidekicks You don't need treats And you don't need tricks You don't need treats You don't need tricks You don't need no Halloween You don't need treats You don't need tricks And you don't need me Me Hey, would it be so bad if I stayed I'm just a ghost out of his grave And I can't make love in my grave I won't put white into your hair I won't make noises in your stairs I will be kind and I'll be sweet If you stop staring straight through me And this is why I have decided To pull these old white sheets from my head I'll leave them folded neat and tidy So that you'll know I'm out of hiding And this is why I have decided To leave your house and home unhaunted You don't need poltergeists for sidekicks You don't need treats And you don't need tricks You don't need treats You don't need tricks You don't need no Halloween You don't need treats You don't need tricks You don't need treats You don't need no Hallows Eve You don't need treats You don't need tricks And you don't need me
I love how everyone loves Mother Mother and me, a veteran, I'm proud.
same here I am so happy they are getting recognition they deserve it sm omg ❤️
big same! i remember seeing them every chance i could in vancouver when they started getting big in the local scene
Same same, im so glad so many other people love their music now
frr
It's okay to grieve people who haven't died. It's okay if you miss someone who you hurt or who hurt you. It's okay to regret loosing people you cut off. You'll heal. You'll get better and move on. Mourning is part of the process. Let yourself cry. I promise your get stronger and one day, you'll be able to breathe again.
@Oregano im glad it resonated with you. Its not dumb to try and avoid the grief, but its a good thing that you've been processing it. Forgive yourself if you can. Im proud of you and I hope you have a lovely life.
Thank you so much
Thank you
But the question is how do i cry?
Loving this comment
possibly the most beautiful thing I have ever heard
Aimee Johnson agreed, it always hits me at 3:00
yes
I do know this song is about relationships. But back in 2016 I fell into a depression hole when my favorite dog ran away. She was so sweet and she always helped me calm down with my anxiety. That year was so bad. I hate everything about it. I found this song one November day in the evening.. and well I fell in love with the band since then. This band helped get through my Ana and lift me up from that hole .. I owe a lot to them. Unfortunately this year I’ve been revisited by Ana..and it’s getting so bad. I miss you Lucy, whenever you are I love you so much.
We stand with you🖤 here for you if u need me
hey, just wanted to let you know that you’re strong as hell for getting through everything you have. i know how hard shit can get sometimes and i relate to you and what you’ve been through. you’re not alone. life gets better, you just have to be there to see it. if you ever need anyone to talk to, you can snap me (s.karo5) or dm me on ig (s__karolina). if not, that’s perfectly okay! just stay safe and stay healthy♥️
Lucy is so proud of you 💛 keep going, we believe in you.. Recovery is possible 😊💛
I hope you're alright, and even if you aren't now, it's okay. Thank you for sharing this with us, we love you
This song makes me think of someone who just feels so worthless that they end up leaving everyone they meet. Idk, that's just the vibe I get
This. I feel so alienated from myself and everyone and this song just resonated with me
I think of this song when I just leave the house and walk off to... Somewhere. Randomly into the countryside,or woods or some shit. I long to just leave it all and go somewhere unknown and enjoy myself. Then I feel bad, and I'm torn up between going and doing that and staying with my friends. I like both options. Fuck. And then I feel like they'll find better people than me, but they're the best people I've ever found. I just don't know.
hi this me
You stalkin me??
who are you? and how do you know so much about my life-
Me, sad : *starts vibing to mother mother*
*body, burning pile, and ghosting slowly fades in*
@@ghost-xu3xw OMGG I JUST LISTENED IN THAT EXACT ORDER LMAOOO
Hey twinzie
@@User21248 hey
Y e s
guys, if you're on your computer/laptop, open another tab w rain noises and listen to this like that, trust me
i-- tHANK Y'ALL SM DHDGSJD I DIDN'T THINK YOU GUYS WOULD LIKE IT AS MUCH
holy crap, thank you so much
wow, holy fuck thanks
that fits the vibe so well, thank you!
holy shit wow- thank you so much!
Thank you
Ok ok children, get in we goin to therapy 🤗
finally
*buckles belt*
I CALL SHOTGUN BITCHES
@@oliverose5035 🔫👈
No me. 😴🤚
y’all got insurance 👀
finding mother mother was like scratching an itch i never knew i had
I've been ghosting, I've been ghosting along
Ghost in your house, ghost in your arms
When you're tossing, when you turn in your sleep
It's because I'm ghosting your dreams
And this is why I have decided
To pull these old white sheets from my head
I'll leave them folded neat and tidy
So that you'll know I'm out of hiding
I've been ghosting, I've been ghosting along
Ghost in the world, ghost with no home
I remember, I remember the days
When I'd make you oh-so afraid
And this is why I have decided
To leave your house and home un-haunted
You don't need poltergeists for sidekicks
You don't need treats
And you don't need tricks
You don't need treats
You don't need tricks
You don't need no Halloween
You don't need treats
You don't need tricks
And you don't need me
Me
Hey, would it be so bad if I stayed
I'm just a ghost out of his grave
And I can't make love in my grave
I won't put white into your hair
I won't make noises in your stairs
I will be kind and I'll be sweet
If you stop staring straight through me
And this is why I have decided
To pull these old white sheets from my head
I'll leave them folded neat and tidy
So that you'll know I'm out of hiding
And this is why I have decided
To leave your house and home un-haunted
You don't need poltergeists for sidekicks
You don't need treats
And you don't need tricks
You don't need treats
You don't need tricks
You don't need no Halloween
You don't need treats
You don't need tricks
You don't need treats
You don't need no Hallows Eve
You don't need treats
You don't need tricks
And you don't need me
thanks
Goooooooaaaaaaannnnnn
@@eliza9907 yOu DaMn NeRd
@@spleens6885 nay nay killua 🐴
@@becks.s7857 UNO REVERSE CARD
this seems to resonate with me more than the original
Slowed stuff *always* hits different
This is wonderful! I love it and the fact that it gives off a nice aesthetic vibe!
thank you so much!
dontattackthehippies I LOVE YOUR PROFILE PICTURE
listening to this at night on a bridge over the river and singing along is just perfection, i felt like i was singing to someone but no one was there, it was literally amazing
This is by far my favorite slowed down version of any mother mother song.
It's maybe because I prefer o my heart over all the other albums (it's on the same place like eureka aka. place nr 1)
the part of me that pushed every friendship, relationship, and family member away resonates deeply within this song. I know they're better without me, but my selfishness ends up bringing me to a chaotic back and forth until they leave themselves; which makes me feel dopey by always thinking they will in the first place. The biggest war is yourself. Mostly the war involves knowing your better than your thoughts, and you aren't them.
ohhhhhh my heart
i think it broke again qwq
SolTheCat_0w0 is that a pun-
@@StaleWildberryPoptart It’s the name of the album this song is from! ^ ^
Thank you. This song made me happy today and not feel like trash. I went to sleep crying in a good way getting out emotions.
Edit: Jesus this is like 9 months old 😂
mother mother has simply awesome music-
i saw a tiktok tody that said "when are we going to recognize mother mother music sucks" or smth like that an my jaw dropped.
Dear editors this song has so many great parts to edit with depending on what vibe you want so here,
1:01
2:16
3:09
3:24
edit: you dont get notifications for when someone likes a comment you post so i didnt realize people actually liked this lmao, thanks
Thank you! This helped me out a lot!
thank u
Thank you kind person ☺️
latom.
omg ty
we dont deserve mother mother
we really don't.
@@abbeycasey583 but we do need it
@@leilanymendoza9805 true.
Normally I can’t stand slowed or down-pitched versions of song, but this? Oh this is wonderful.
ok
whenever this turns on i just lay down and clear my mind and i start crying- YEAH
Mother Mother is my escape and the way I cope, I'm so glad I found out about these masterpieces.
Thank you
listening on halloween
thanks for makin this my dude.
god this resonates so deeply in me oh my god.
i’m just about sobbing rn. i miss you so much. i know you’re okay without me, i know i wasn’t it for you. you left and i’ll learn how to move on.
I listened to this song on the way home from getting our first dog cremated in July of 2020. I imagined her visiting each of us and trying to make us feel better. I miss you Bonnie
This would go perfect with the movie “A Ghost Story” I would highly reccomend it.
i miss the time where when my parents told me were going to visit my grandparents, i thought of a house and not lots of graves
im sorry but i laughed 😭😭
@@keltiutoo wtf
@@keltiutoo girl what
@@keltiutoo ayo what-
hotter than the beach
This song makes me feel loved even tho it shouldn't it just has that sound to it
i personally love to interpret songs my own way. i know that this is not the actual meaning of "ghosting"
though i wish i were someone more extroverted, and outgoing like the others. i really want to be one of them.
i am tired of making new friends just to end up losing them at the end of the school year because i ghost them to protect my own feelings because i feel overwhelmed when i am friends with more than 2 or 4 people.
i want to keep my circle small, but i feel like this time it is getting smaller because of me, and there is no going back.
sometimes i want to be alone but i just end up feeling lonely because i push everyone away and this is my fault but i still convince myself that it isn't my fault. i am tired of hearing people complain about their friends not ever responding to them, as if they even tried to check up on them to see what the actual problem is.
i am tired of my best friend passive agressive's way of telling me things i already know and hated myself for those things, like not being able to confront people or "just say no" to someone.
i try my best, but i always end up isolating myself, i truly think this is self-sabotage.
maybe i am the problem. i will become a better person and i will always put myself first.
My lack of self control ruined a friendship, this song resonates
I'm crying, this song remembered me my cat
I think this is my new favourite mother mother song
when ur name is ghost and you ghost people this song hits
Im in the car and it’s raining and it’s perfect for this
The one person who disliked it probably listens to Justin Bieber and doesn't know what good music is.
Its 2019 and ur still making justin bieber jokes?
2020 and still making Justin Bieber jokes
it was 2019 then not 2020-
I would like this but it already has 69 likes and I don't want to ruin that. So all I'm gonna say is, Nice.
heyy!! music is ✨subjective✨ let people enjoy things even when you dont think they’re good. :)
This song feels like saying goodbye
god this music is beautiful
thank you for feeding me this delicious food😻
scrumptious mother mother 😼😼
This song reminds me of my life growing up how better off people were without me, how I took advantage of everything around me and so foolishly thought nothing of those suffering. I hurt her so much, she is better off without me but it hurts me so much but I know that to love someone truely is to let them go…..I wish nothing but the best for you *Jenny.* I hope you’ve found peace, wherever you are…. Kind regards - your soulmate from the right time wrong place 💙
Oh hell yeah this sounds so good slowed down.
This song is my entire life
With the desc, the song lyrics themselves as well as it being slowed, and the background pic, I'm guessing your mental state isn't the best and that's ok, if you ever need someone to talk to I'm here, just using my knowledge, my guess is that you're dealing with a broken close friendship which you feel like is your fault, something is never really your fault and if it ended then it's for a good reason, so focus on the good
Yo my dog was crying because he was scared,so I played this and sang to him. He calmed down and he took a little nap. So,thanks for this. 💜
1:30 🖤
when it hits 3:00 - DAMN
slowed mother mother gives me life
Dont je sorry man you re the best 👑
This is rlly good i love it ^w^
When I hear this song, it sometimes makes me zone out, thinking of nothing but hearing the song, it feels so amazing. Thats why this song is my 2nd favorite song in the whole earth 💕
ghosting. i can relate
i love the image of the song bc song's intro reminds me of desert and some parts of the song reminds me of the rain good job.
Perfection.
I feel at peace listening to this song
Here are the lyrics if you wanna sing along or something
this song is so underrated
I have started realizing how shallow my friendships have been. It is a sad realization to have and I wish to meet people who want a deep friendship. A friendship shouldn’t be based on status or only similar interests but rather care. Genuine care for the other. That is what I believe and I hope someday to find others who feel the same.
Much love, Hannah, your friend-to-be
There is beauty to be found in everyone, every single person on this planet
Never forget that
Until we meet again
Reading to those comments while listening this song is just... I have no words... hope you guys are okay 🤗
I have recently learned what this term "ghosting" is used for. I think it may be a sign of the effects this perfect image social media paints. People's lives can be messy there's no benefits in portraying something else or hiding from people because of it. I'd much rather get to know someone who understands struggle, who's honest. Imperfections are what make someone special, makes them feel genuine. Life is suffering sometimes.....and without it JoY just wouldn't hit the same. ❣Don't be discouraged darlings. Xo
im listening to this to try to get myself hyped up about finishing the last of my WIP--- barely 5 chapters in, I still have 11 left, and I'm trying to get it done and edited for the 11th of January. This is hyping me but in like, a really sad way, y'know?
Still miss you, and sometimes I want to reach out, just to wish you well. You told me if I needed anyone to talk to I could count on you, to be honest I avoided doing that for as long as I could because I didn’t want to bother you or let you remember I existed. Eventually I did, just once, but you never answered, so I took that as you leaving me behind. I will never reach out for you again unless you do.
*boyfriend breaks up with you* well hello again mother mother!
Woof woof
I can just see this song as gin!sans ghost spectating ink!sans after his death, (sans aus)
ouchie
What’s that thing in front of the sign? It’s low key scaring me.
You may be on to something it still looks creepy af
To me it looked like an alien reaching towards the sky haha. But it's probably a camel like they said lmao.
I’m just a ghost
*banana fish flashbacks*
0:52
the song reminds me of Jojo rabbit
the beginning kinda sounds like when u first open up LFD2
Is anyone else trying to figure out what the white blob in front of the sign is
This is my song...
here again
tbh im not sad lol, i just like the vibe
I came to this song cause I'm sad but now im confused can someone please tell me what that shape in the video is idk why I never noticed but its really bugging me now
i thought my cat was dying yesterday night and i was crying to this for like 30min but nope, april fools joke she was fine just shat everywhere and it smells
Comments: 69
Me: _nice_
0:37 fo me
yes i scream cry this what r u gonna do abt it HUH
1:30
I’m so fucking sad lmao
well update on my cat: she might actually be dead now, great now this hurts 3x and can’t even have a room alone to cry in because we’re in a hotel 3.5 hours away from home
haha anniversary day she still isnt back none of them are and I can’t even find closure bc i don’t want to give up on her!! hahaha fuck
this song always gets me and this made it worse
I've been ghosting, I've been ghosting along
Ghost in your house, ghost in your arms
When you're tossing, when you turn in your sleep
It's because I'm ghosting your dreams
And this is why I have decided
To pull these old white sheets from my head
I'll leave them folded neat and tidy
So that you'll know I'm out of hiding
I've been ghosting, I've been ghosting along
Ghost in the world, ghost with no home
I remember, I remember the days
When I'd make you oh-so afraid
And this is why I have decided
To leave your house and home unhaunted
You don't need poltergeists for sidekicks
You don't need treats
And you don't need tricks
You don't need treats
You don't need tricks
You don't need no Halloween
You don't need treats
You don't need tricks
And you don't need me
Me
Hey, would it be so bad if I stayed
I'm just a ghost out of his grave
And I can't make love in my grave
I won't put white into your hair
I won't make noises in your stairs
I will be kind and I'll be sweet
If you stop staring straight through me
And this is why I have decided
To pull these old white sheets from my head
I'll leave them folded neat and tidy
So that you'll know I'm out of hiding
And this is why I have decided
To leave your house and home unhaunted
You don't need poltergeists for sidekicks
You don't need treats
And you don't need tricks
You don't need treats
You don't need tricks
You don't need no Halloween
You don't need treats
You don't need tricks
You don't need treats
You don't need no Hallows Eve
You don't need treats
You don't need tricks
And you don't need me
1:27