Forgiveness without enduring abuse but rather pursuing healing not just for her but for her husband as well is another level of faith we all need to learn about
The first testimony I ever watched from anyone was Noel’s. I was searching for encouragement at the time as I am going through my own trial of infidelity where my husband Edgar left me for someone else almost a year ago now. He pursued divorce and even though our divorce is finalized I am trusting wholeheartedly in the Lord with my future. It was through this trial that the Lord met me in my deepest darkest pit and I surrendered my life to Jesus. What the enemy meant for evil, God turned it for good. By His amazing grace, I am saved! I believe in His resurrection and healing power if it His will to save Edgar and restore our marriage. I pray daily for His salvation, for Him to come back to the Lord. What a blessing to see this testimony today. Thank you Delafe
Amen! I stand in agreement with you for your husband’s salvation and restoration of your marriage! I am believing for the Lord to save my wife that divorced me 4 years ago! I am also believing for the Lord to resurrect and restore our marriage and family! He is able!
This was soooo helpful to me…i cried at the end knowing that the Devil wants you to stop serving God at your lowest point!…and uses our marriages to do so…im currently going through but God just reminded me through this testimony to lean on Him and that “All things🙌🏾🙌🏾work together for the good of those who love God”….Hallelujah
I am currently going through this but I have a joy in my soul. That joy is Jesus Christ! Not even my husband understands it. He can do whatever he wants I have the real , true and LIVING JESUS. HE IS REAL! I suffered through loneliness, I was abandoned, blame, neglected, loss of my mum……… but the intensity of it all sent me into a real deep relationship with Jesus Christ.
Nope he likely wouldn't have. Men don't have that type of fight in them to save their marriage. It is only when we leave that that type of "fight" kicks in and it's usually not in a healthy way. I think a lot of women are so desperate to have a "restoration" testimony that they don't realize they are the only ones really fighting for it. 🤷♀️
@@mrenae6798 women initiate 70% of divorces, so I disagree strongly. Sounds like you’re speaking from personal experience, so I totally respect that it worked that way for you from your perspective, but the statistics say otherwise.
Thank you for your testimony. It ripped open my soul where there are so many wounds. I'm in the brink of leaving my husband because of the things his doing but God is faithful. I realize I have not given God a chance in this situation. I Praise God for your testimony my sister. Bless you
Thank you for sharing this testimony! I did not finish watching her husband's testimony when it was released because I couldn't. I walked in her shoes and heard all the excuses. As for me it didn't work out with my ex. "BUT GOD" has redeemed my life just like Job!!! He gave me a true "God-honoring man" praise be to the LORD! May the Lord continue to grow this family of God for His GLORY!! GOD BLESS YOU ALL!!! ❤❣️
I think people are sugar coating sin now.. I pray I don’t commit adultery I pray my husband doesn’t commit adultery and I pray that the person reading this does not commit adultery and their spouse does not as well. It’s wrong. God wants us to know right from wrong. There is no excuse.
"You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives.” God can redeem and restore❤️✝️ (I'm not excusing sin)
I don’t know if anyone else had to stop, rewind, think and laugh when she dropped that revelation around the 35:00 mark. Even the interviewer had to take some time to marinade on that lol. It took me back to some trials and why I had to go through certain things. This is why it’s important to have a deep prayer life. ❤
I felt this on so many levels. I love how God reminds you how he forgave you. He will heal you first so that he can heal what's going on around you. He needs you whole. Please keep sharing this! It's beautiful.
Yall please call it what it is. It’s important to call it what God calls it. It’s ADULTERY! Affair sounds like a party to bring a gift to! Like the world calls it abortion but God calls it Murder! Words are important and powerful. It will Change the views of others when we call it what our father calls it.
I totally agree. The word affair sounds wrong. It’s plain adultery and it’s so serious God made it one of the Ten Commandments. It causes so much pain and devastates a marriage no matter how they try to put it under cover. The root of the adultery needs to be found and true total repentance and deliverance needs to happen for healing.
Wow, this woman is so wise. I love how she brought in her Job moment, specifically naming how the devil was being legalistic and inquired of her. Her love for God is amazing ❤
I've shared this with a family member who has been through a very difficult time please pray that it ministers to them and brings healing. Thank you for this amazing testimony. Hallelujah praise God.
This testimony has transformed my relationship with healing and my Saviour! Pastor Noel and Prophetess Shelly are a breath of fresh air to the kingdom of God. Thank you for your obedience, my life is a testimony that your transparency is necessary ❤ God bless you abundantly ❤
“The Lord is good” …… smile on her face shows Gods love , his mercy , and his grace…. Complete humility… I trust in God my savior.. he will never fail me
MY GOD THIS WAS POWERFUL 🔥 as someone who too was in involved in witchcraft practices - hearing her break down the revelation about how the enemy wanted her to run back to the very thing Jesus delivered her from when going through relationship trials. And instead of running to the counterfeit of healing, love, or acceptance. She ran to the mighty restorer, the mighty deliverer, the healer, the redeemer. And you can just see His Holy Spirit dwelling in her. God bless you my sister in Christ. Thank you for your obedience in sharing because this was beyond timely and very needed. ❤
I have let go of my sadness anger from 3 abortions that I had towards the woman I was with and forgave my mom be who she is being a witch and trying to sacrifice me 3 times and forgave my father for mental abuse and physical abuse never thought I was not able to let go thinking that's life and your message opened my eyes to give it to God and he will lift the burden and anger. Thank you
I just feel so icky about all of this. Usually these testimonies are about people coming out of darkness into the light. This one, and Noel story weren’t really that. His testimony was just a repeated pattern of brokenness and rebellion towards the Lord over many years of walking with Him, and even being a minister. I’m thankful that their relationship ended up working out, but if you listen to Noel‘s testimony, he almost paints a picture of really just never having been faithful to his wife for most of their relationship. And similarly, never really truly being faithful to the Lord for most of his relationship with the Lord. Although he was doing ministry, there were still things that he was doing behind the scenes that were inconsistent with his walk with the Lord. Something about them being featured here feels less like testifying about the goodness of Christ, and more like reveling in unrepentant sin, for a long time before it finally caught up to them. This whole thing is just really sad, and I’m super thankful that the Lord got it straightened out. But, I wish neither one of them had walked through this. I wish Christ had been enough much sooner than He was. And I know I’m in the minority here, but I just feel really uncomfortable about this.
Her testimony really encouraged me so much about the power of forgiveness. ❤❤😊I could say that this is one of the testimonies that i came across that is so powerful and very useful in my working with God. May God bless this lady❤😊
I have been standing faithfully for my marriage for 7 years. The Lord has told me this situation the way that it is will be ending and I can’t wait to feel detached and be able to share the way she described. I love the Lord and know that he alone has given me the strength to do what he’s called me to do. I had given my life to Jesus before my husband left me and our kids, but I know I really dove into the word and His presence out of desperation. It hit me what she said she was asked for because I can say I now know I love Him for Him and not for what he can do for me. I will follow Him wherever he takes me. Please pray for Him to be glorified in this situation and all things blocking blessings either in me, my husband, the spirit realm, or anywhere else be removed and that the Lord would restore the years that the locusts have eaten. In Jesus’ mighty and glorious name.
Oh my goodness I needed this testimony in the worst way. It was so timely for me and what I'm going through. Thank you so much for sharing. And God is definitely good. His grace and mercy forgiveness unconditional love for every single human being. Is More than I know I deserve
I’m going to be completely honest-God forgive me-but as a young, single, unmarried woman, I struggle to find these types of testimonies encouraging. Many times, when I see women speaking about the experiences, I still sense some despair as they speak about what happened. I understand that we are all sinners and fall short of the glory of God, but it can be frustrating to hear these stories repeatedly. I don’t want to judge how someone chooses to handle their marriage or what they believe God is calling them to do, but it’s hard to ignore the fact that infidelity seems almost normalized among men, even within Christian circles. It often feels like some men take advantage of their wives’ faith, knowing they might endure such behavior. I’m not saying this is the case with every couple, but it’s something I’ve observed. I’ve also noticed that some women, due to internalized misogyny, are quick to blame external forces, like the “other woman,” even if she didn’t know the man was married. They might say she was a “strange woman” sent by the enemy to attack the marriage. But when society-and sometimes the church-teaches that it’s normal for men to fall into this type of sin, it fosters a defeatist mindset. Men may give in to temptation, knowing their wives, like many other Christian women, have been conditioned to endure it. This narrative is even perpetuated in popular Christian culture, where movies often portray a mistreated wife-whether through abuse or infidelity-who is expected to pray in her “war room” and fast until her husband miraculously changes by the end of the film. I see this trope so often in Christian media and teachings that it’s hard not to notice how one-sided it is. It seems women are expected to endure and tolerate unreasonable behavior from their husbands. I know it makes many people uncomfortable to discuss gender issues, but I can’t help but see how worldly patriarchal ideas have infiltrated the Christian church. Women seem to be conditioned to expect and accept behavior that should not be tolerated. But i digress....
This is also why people seem supportive of certain testimonies, but when I’ve seen the rare instances where the wife has committed infidelity and the husband chooses to stay with her, the reactions are noticeably different. These comments often come from people who profess to be Christians, which reveals a troubling double standard within the Christian community. It seems more acceptable for a wife to stay with her unfaithful husband, but the same grace isn’t extended when the roles are reversed. I recall seeing something on Twitter a few years ago that disturbed me deeply. It was men making fun of Christian women, saying things like, “You should date a Christian woman because if you cheat on her, she’ll blame the devil and pray for you.” Many men were laughing and joking about how naïve Christian women can be. It made me really sad, but now, knowing what I do about spiritual abuse and manipulation, I understand that, unfortunately, some Christian women can be naïve. They may not realize that they are falling into the hands of Christian narcissists who exploit their faith.
Um These issues can be taken to God, because ultimately, if she can find freedom and he can find freedom in Christ after an event like this happened then anyone can.and I believe that that's the main thing that many will capture from this testimony and many others This is mainly for folks who want to work on their marriage And for folks who are willing to lay it down to the Lord, in full reliance. The Lord will lead in all situations, that's what I captured from the testimony But from the other side, maybe they'll have the other side but we gotta understand, the devil is prowling, roaring like lion seeking whom to devour. And his goal is to break homes. If we know that the devil is a home breaker, we, in the Spirit of the Lord, will act differently than how the world would act
I totally understand what you’re saying. But it’s also not uncommon for women in the secular world to remain in marriages where similar things happen. So, I think the issue goes beyond how the world responds to these situations. There’s a deeper problem at hand, and part of it has to do with how women view themselves and find their worth in their proximity to a man and idolize men/ marriage. Christian women are not immune to this-like many women in the world, they can also struggle with low self-esteem. Just as some women in the world make excuses for their abusers due to trauma bonds, I believe some Christian women may use God as a way to excuse the behavior of their abusers. This isn’t the case for everyone, of course, but I’m starting to see things from a more nuanced perspective, rather than over-spiritualizing people’s decisions when they might be rooted in something else. For example, some people hide their childhood traumas behind hyper-spirituality, without really dealing with them. When these unresolved issues come to the surface in marriage, they might influence the decisions being made. The person may believe they are acting on God’s guidance, but in reality, their choices might be driven by those unaddressed traumas. Like I said, if someone truly believes that God is leading them to work on their relationship, I won’t judge. I don’t believe this is applicable per se to the couple in this testimony ,But this is a common observation I’ve made.
I understand and agree by what you said. I do trust her testimony but also believe its rare and 1 in a million. God can restore but I do agree there is men out there who take advantage of their faithful wives. Not okay.
This is such a powerful testimony! Hear my prayers Adonai and restore what the enemy has taken, especially those in ministry! Thank you for sharing your wisdom and testimony bc I am in that place. Father have mercy! 🙏
I’ve been going through some really tough times for several years now. God has been with me through it all. Recently just a couple of days ago I started listening to some of the testimonies on this channel. They are another way God is giving me hope. Thank you for what you do.
34:55 this floored me. Literally-on my knees, on the floor. Seeing the direct connection from the pain to the meaning gives a context to the process that Satan wants to deny us when we’re caught up in the suffering of the moment. So, resolved: all the mental stuff I’m going through with depression and su_
I have seen your videos for a long time and i love them, but i think it is important to not make it seem like we need to go back to these abusive partners or cheating spouses if they don’t change. I understand god forgives and he retores and i have faith in that, BUT if a person does not welcome jesus in, and is not changing i think it is important too while forgive that person is important to not make it seem like jesus says too take that person back because that’s wrong.
I agree. I also feel that many people, especially Christian women, struggle to recognize when they are being spiritually abused. They might see testimonies of others and think that these experiences will automatically apply to their own circumstances. However, some may be married to manipulative individuals who weaponize their faith against them. This is something I’ve seen happen quite often. As Christians, we should be accountable for certain traits within ourselves that may not align with living like Christ. When challenges arise in marriages, I’ve noticed people are often quick to blame Satan, but many of these issues stem from traits that both individuals had before marriage-traits that were always going to cause problems in the relationship. In cases where there seems to be genuine repentance, it’s important to acknowledge it. But I’ve observed that some Christian women, for example, might be married to men who were womanizers even before marriage. Each time the man is caught in adultery, he knows he can weaponize his wife’s faith against her, showing no real intent to change. The wife may be in denial, continually blaming outside forces, such as “strange women,” when in reality, the problem lies with the man she is married to.
Jesus mentions that that's a grounds for divorce But it's up to the individuals to choose whether to stay together to split. But I'm sure others testimonies will favor what you're looking for. Theirs isn't the one that has that kind of outcome
@@ceasarjuarez1593 yes that’s a clear example . Prophet Hosea and Gomer . The Christian community seems to relish on testimonies where it’s the husband that has strayed .
Thank-you Sister Shirley for sharing your very personal powerful testimony. Truly our LORD God Almighty is great and mighty to heal and restore broken life and relationship etc. May the LORD blesses you and your testimony to reach those who needed to hear the love and forgiveness of our ABBA Father. LORD, bless and expand Shirley family and ministry. In Jesus Christ name I pray. Thanks for your prayers, I received your prayers. Take care, stay strong and courageous in the LORD. God bless! 🙏🙏🙏
Wow this is so deep! God is so good! He is always there with his hand extended to us. He gives us the choice whether or not we want to take his hand. But HE is ALWAYS PRESENT 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
You don’t know how God used both of their story for me for deliverance and healing. I just thank God that He used this for me to search my heart bcuz it’s been a crazy ride, crazy wars like she said… and in times of rest, I was a foggy blurry road to navigate in my heart and yet, God has never left or forget about me. Thank you for this. Really. I pray for yall walk as you stay obedience to the Lord and you go everywhere to share your testimonies for the kingdom of the Lord Jesus Christ before His second coming. I felt every word you have shared in this video sister in Christ. I want what you had. And honestly about a month ago was when I heard your husband’s testimony and I was wondering what about the wife’s perspective. So I know that this is God’s timing for us to witness. Thank you both for being vulnerable and I do believe I’m in a somewhat similar talk with God some different situations and struggles but the same spirit of bitterness and frustrations. Thank you again.
I had heard his testimony when it came out and it was my favorite one since then. And now that I can hear the other side of the testimony..... My goodness it was amazing and a blessing to hear it all together now. Thank you for sharing.
Thank you for sharing, i really needed this as my relationship is going trough a storm...I will be still, forgive and wait for the lord to guide me and forgive me for not running to him as i should have ..thank you Jesus for speaking to youre children🙏🕊
I’ve been with my boyfriend for eight years now and I have struggled with forgiveness with him because I had spiritual and flesh wounds that I had not forgiven, as to why I couldn’t forgive him or myself. God put this on my timeline and I now see how to do it.
LORD, Help me forgive thise who have maliciously and deliberately hurt me...please pray for me to overcome my anxiety and depression from narcissist abuse and find a good Godly husband
Glory to the Lord Jesus Christ... I'm in this season right now.... BUT GOD is Good.... we talking laughing and joking even doing thoughtful things 4 each other.... I'm Grateful 2 GOD thank you Lord Jesus Please pray for full reconciliation, forgiveness, no bitterness, and continued friendship into luv again and Deliverance in Jesus Christ Name Amen thank you
Yes. I heard this person on this phone say to me, it will never happen. I knew that it wasn't that person but the demonic spirit/spirits in them. I just kept on talking to the person and ignore the spirit/spirits. Because I know that the spirit just wanted negative attention and to intimidate at the moment.
Forgiveness without enduring abuse but rather pursuing healing not just for her but for her husband as well is another level of faith we all need to learn about
Amen 🙏🏾!! and that comes from a very ✨very close relationship with The 👑Lord👑✨
@@jamesberryiii Also dying to self
@@anng7514 Amen 🙏🏾 dying to self daily!! 💯
The Great transformation in a FAMILY. AWESOME
Your family in Spanish. The View. Buena Vista. BEAUTIFUL View
The first testimony I ever watched from anyone was Noel’s. I was searching for encouragement at the time as I am going through my own trial of infidelity where my husband Edgar left me for someone else almost a year ago now. He pursued divorce and even though our divorce is finalized I am trusting wholeheartedly in the Lord with my future. It was through this trial that the Lord met me in my deepest darkest pit and I surrendered my life to Jesus. What the enemy meant for evil, God turned it for good. By His amazing grace, I am saved! I believe in His resurrection and healing power if it His will to save Edgar and restore our marriage. I pray daily for His salvation, for Him to come back to the Lord. What a blessing to see this testimony today. Thank you Delafe
Amen! I stand in agreement with you for your husband’s salvation and restoration of your marriage!
I am believing for the Lord to save my wife that divorced me 4 years ago! I am also believing for the Lord to resurrect and restore our marriage and family!
He is able!
🙏🙏🔥 in Jesus name amen 🙏
In Jesus' name, Amen and amen 🙏
Let GOD'S WILL BE DONE!!!!!!!!
This was soooo helpful to me…i cried at the end knowing that the Devil wants you to stop serving God at your lowest point!…and uses our marriages to do so…im currently going through but God just reminded me through this testimony to lean on Him and that “All things🙌🏾🙌🏾work together for the good of those who love God”….Hallelujah
I am currently going through this but I have a joy in my soul. That joy is Jesus Christ! Not even my husband understands it. He can do whatever he wants I have the real , true and LIVING JESUS. HE IS REAL! I suffered through loneliness, I was abandoned, blame, neglected, loss of my mum……… but the intensity of it all sent me into a real deep relationship with Jesus Christ.
Amen, 🙏🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽 ❤🎉❤🎉
Amen🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Such a PRECIOUS testimony. your SALVATION. Revival Glory
Awesome attitude! Spiritual goals ❤
She's a strong woman. She fought for her marriage. Most people just quit.
Spiritual battle, God is good ❤️✝️
Yes!!!!! Fight in prayer, on the knees!!!
Do u think he would’ve stayed if it was the other way around! Am honestly just curious.
Nope he likely wouldn't have. Men don't have that type of fight in them to save their marriage. It is only when we leave that that type of "fight" kicks in and it's usually not in a healthy way. I think a lot of women are so desperate to have a "restoration" testimony that they don't realize they are the only ones really fighting for it. 🤷♀️
@@mrenae6798 women initiate 70% of divorces, so I disagree strongly. Sounds like you’re speaking from personal experience, so I totally respect that it worked that way for you from your perspective, but the statistics say otherwise.
That prayer was POWERFUL!! Do NOT miss the prayer at the end 🔥🔥
This testimony and pray got meOn Fire for God. 🔥🔥🔥
Whew!! That sister can PRAY do you hear me!!! That prayer was so powerful and needed you literally can see the spirit all over her!
26:48 - Whatever happens, do not stop serving God! RUN to him! He is the only one who can help!
Thank you for your testimony. It ripped open my soul where there are so many wounds. I'm in the brink of leaving my husband because of the things his doing but God is faithful. I realize I have not given God a chance in this situation. I Praise God for your testimony my sister. Bless you
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Thank you for sharing this testimony! I did not finish watching her husband's testimony when it was released because I couldn't. I walked in her shoes and heard all the excuses. As for me it didn't work out with my ex. "BUT GOD" has redeemed my life just like Job!!! He gave me a true "God-honoring man" praise be to the LORD! May the Lord continue to grow this family of God for His GLORY!! GOD BLESS YOU ALL!!! ❤❣️
Amen !!! I hated that testimony as well 🥲 so many excuses, but God 🙏🏾🙏🏾 I pray that I’m able to understand both perspectives 🥲
I think people are sugar coating sin now.. I pray I don’t commit adultery I pray my husband doesn’t commit adultery and I pray that the person reading this does not commit adultery and their spouse does not as well.
It’s wrong. God wants us to know right from wrong. There is no excuse.
"You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives.”
God can redeem and restore❤️✝️
(I'm not excusing sin)
I don’t know if anyone else had to stop, rewind, think and laugh when she dropped that revelation around the 35:00 mark. Even the interviewer had to take some time to marinade on that lol. It took me back to some trials and why I had to go through certain things. This is why it’s important to have a deep prayer life. ❤
I felt this on so many levels. I love how God reminds you how he forgave you. He will heal you first so that he can heal what's going on around you. He needs you whole. Please keep sharing this! It's beautiful.
Yall please call it what it is.
It’s important to call it what God calls it. It’s ADULTERY! Affair sounds like a party to bring a gift to!
Like the world calls it abortion but God calls it Murder! Words are important and powerful. It will
Change the views of others when we call it what our father calls it.
Well said..💥🙏🏼
Hmmmmmm.
I totally agree. The word affair sounds wrong. It’s plain adultery and it’s so serious God made it one of the Ten Commandments. It causes so much pain and devastates a marriage no matter how they try to put it under cover. The root of the adultery needs to be found and true total repentance and deliverance needs to happen for healing.
Wow, this woman is so wise. I love how she brought in her Job moment, specifically naming how the devil was being legalistic and inquired of her. Her love for God is amazing ❤
Bitterness is a Door
Forgiveness is the Key
Now open the door and walk in forgiveness
I've shared this with a family member who has been through a very difficult time please pray that it ministers to them and brings healing. Thank you for this amazing testimony. Hallelujah praise God.
Wow - this testimony is HUGE!! Thank you Jesus!!!
THANK YOU LORD!!!!! IM GOING THROUGH EXACTLY THIS, AND THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I NEEDED TO HEAR.....THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU!!!!
@@anaelena0000 same. It has humble me and made me feel understood all at the same time!
Awesome testimony!!! I, too, was in your shoes. God restored our marriage!!!
She smiled when you mention her husband...so cute.
This testimony has transformed my relationship with healing and my Saviour! Pastor Noel and Prophetess Shelly are a breath of fresh air to the kingdom of God. Thank you for your obedience, my life is a testimony that your transparency is necessary ❤ God bless you abundantly ❤
“The Lord is good” …… smile on her face shows Gods love , his mercy , and his grace…. Complete humility… I trust in God my savior.. he will never fail me
Wow that revelation at 35, as a woman in separation from my nonbeliever husband living in sin, this is emotional.
MY GOD THIS WAS POWERFUL 🔥 as someone who too was in involved in witchcraft practices - hearing her break down the revelation about how the enemy wanted her to run back to the very thing Jesus delivered her from when going through relationship trials. And instead of running to the counterfeit of healing, love, or acceptance. She ran to the mighty restorer, the mighty deliverer, the healer, the redeemer. And you can just see His Holy Spirit dwelling in her. God bless you my sister in Christ. Thank you for your obedience in sharing because this was beyond timely and very needed. ❤
I have let go of my sadness anger from 3 abortions that I had towards the woman I was with and forgave my mom be who she is being a witch and trying to sacrifice me 3 times and forgave my father for mental abuse and physical abuse never thought I was not able to let go thinking that's life and your message opened my eyes to give it to God and he will lift the burden and anger. Thank you
Proud of you Sir❤
Glory to God for your continued healing and strength!!!
JESUS IS THE MESSIAH🙏🏾
Wooow Woman of God .. I understood, I know what to do about my bitterness. Praise God thank you 🙏🏼 thank you Jesus
She just know the name of Jesus and the love of God! That is why she will succed in every battle!🎉❤
Very needed testimony 🔑
Santoooooooo God is Good !
Thank you for your testimony. Bendiciones desde Popayán. Blessings from Popayán, Colombia!😇👏🇨🇴
I was asking for a story in the Bible to explain something I went through. And she just explained it 😮. I am in awe.
I just feel so icky about all of this. Usually these testimonies are about people coming out of darkness into the light. This one, and Noel story weren’t really that. His testimony was just a repeated pattern of brokenness and rebellion towards the Lord over many years of walking with Him, and even being a minister. I’m thankful that their relationship ended up working out, but if you listen to Noel‘s testimony, he almost paints a picture of really just never having been faithful to his wife for most of their relationship. And similarly, never really truly being faithful to the Lord for most of his relationship with the Lord. Although he was doing ministry, there were still things that he was doing behind the scenes that were inconsistent with his walk with the Lord. Something about them being featured here feels less like testifying about the goodness of Christ, and more like reveling in unrepentant sin, for a long time before it finally caught up to them. This whole thing is just really sad, and I’m super thankful that the Lord got it straightened out. But, I wish neither one of them had walked through this. I wish Christ had been enough much sooner than He was. And I know I’m in the minority here, but I just feel really uncomfortable about this.
Her testimony really encouraged me so much about the power of forgiveness. ❤❤😊I could say that this is one of the testimonies that i came across that is so powerful and very useful in my working with God. May God bless this lady❤😊
I have been standing faithfully for my marriage for 7 years. The Lord has told me this situation the way that it is will be ending and I can’t wait to feel detached and be able to share the way she described. I love the Lord and know that he alone has given me the strength to do what he’s called me to do. I had given my life to Jesus before my husband left me and our kids, but I know I really dove into the word and His presence out of desperation. It hit me what she said she was asked for because I can say I now know I love Him for Him and not for what he can do for me. I will follow Him wherever he takes me. Please pray for Him to be glorified in this situation and all things blocking blessings either in me, my husband, the spirit realm, or anywhere else be removed and that the Lord would restore the years that the locusts have eaten. In Jesus’ mighty and glorious name.
Thats my beautiful pastor/ sister Gods grace and mercy in her life has been quite revealing in our family ❤
37:03 mind blown. Yes, indeed, the Lord is Good.
That hit the nail on its head felt tht
It was a little difficult to follow this one but glad God is GOOD! Amen 🙏
@@elliesmith8139kind of frustrating
Oh my goodness I needed this testimony in the worst way. It was so timely for me and what I'm going through. Thank you so much for sharing. And God is definitely good. His grace and mercy forgiveness unconditional love for every single human being. Is
More than I know I deserve
I’m going to be completely honest-God forgive me-but as a young, single, unmarried woman, I struggle to find these types of testimonies encouraging. Many times, when I see women speaking about the experiences, I still sense some despair as they speak about what happened. I understand that we are all sinners and fall short of the glory of God, but it can be frustrating to hear these stories repeatedly. I don’t want to judge how someone chooses to handle their marriage or what they believe God is calling them to do, but it’s hard to ignore the fact that infidelity seems almost normalized among men, even within Christian circles. It often feels like some men take advantage of their wives’ faith, knowing they might endure such behavior.
I’m not saying this is the case with every couple, but it’s something I’ve observed. I’ve also noticed that some women, due to internalized misogyny, are quick to blame external forces, like the “other woman,” even if she didn’t know the man was married. They might say she was a “strange woman” sent by the enemy to attack the marriage. But when society-and sometimes the church-teaches that it’s normal for men to fall into this type of sin, it fosters a defeatist mindset. Men may give in to temptation, knowing their wives, like many other Christian women, have been conditioned to endure it.
This narrative is even perpetuated in popular Christian culture, where movies often portray a mistreated wife-whether through abuse or infidelity-who is expected to pray in her “war room” and fast until her husband miraculously changes by the end of the film. I see this trope so often in Christian media and teachings that it’s hard not to notice how one-sided it is. It seems women are expected to endure and tolerate unreasonable behavior from their husbands.
I know it makes many people uncomfortable to discuss gender issues, but I can’t help but see how worldly patriarchal ideas have infiltrated the Christian church. Women seem to be conditioned to expect and accept behavior that should not be tolerated.
But i digress....
This is also why people seem supportive of certain testimonies, but when I’ve seen the rare instances where the wife has committed infidelity and the husband chooses to stay with her, the reactions are noticeably different. These comments often come from people who profess to be Christians, which reveals a troubling double standard within the Christian community. It seems more acceptable for a wife to stay with her unfaithful husband, but the same grace isn’t extended when the roles are reversed.
I recall seeing something on Twitter a few years ago that disturbed me deeply. It was men making fun of Christian women, saying things like, “You should date a Christian woman because if you cheat on her, she’ll blame the devil and pray for you.” Many men were laughing and joking about how naïve Christian women can be. It made me really sad, but now, knowing what I do about spiritual abuse and manipulation, I understand that, unfortunately, some Christian women can be naïve. They may not realize that they are falling into the hands of Christian narcissists who exploit their faith.
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These issues can be taken to God, because ultimately, if she can find freedom and he can find freedom in Christ after an event like this happened then anyone can.and I believe that that's the main thing that many will capture from this testimony and many others
This is mainly for folks who want to work on their marriage
And for folks who are willing to lay it down to the Lord, in full reliance.
The Lord will lead in all situations, that's what I captured from the testimony
But from the other side, maybe they'll have the other side but we gotta understand, the devil is prowling, roaring like lion seeking whom to devour. And his goal is to break homes. If we know that the devil is a home breaker, we, in the Spirit of the Lord, will act differently than how the world would act
I totally understand what you’re saying. But it’s also not uncommon for women in the secular world to remain in marriages where similar things happen. So, I think the issue goes beyond how the world responds to these situations. There’s a deeper problem at hand, and part of it has to do with how women view themselves and find their worth in their proximity to a man and idolize men/ marriage. Christian women are not immune to this-like many women in the world, they can also struggle with low self-esteem.
Just as some women in the world make excuses for their abusers due to trauma bonds, I believe some Christian women may use God as a way to excuse the behavior of their abusers. This isn’t the case for everyone, of course, but I’m starting to see things from a more nuanced perspective, rather than over-spiritualizing people’s decisions when they might be rooted in something else.
For example, some people hide their childhood traumas behind hyper-spirituality, without really dealing with them. When these unresolved issues come to the surface in marriage, they might influence the decisions being made. The person may believe they are acting on God’s guidance, but in reality, their choices might be driven by those unaddressed traumas. Like I said, if someone truly believes that God is leading them to work on their relationship, I won’t judge. I don’t believe this is applicable per se to the couple in this testimony ,But this is a common observation I’ve made.
I understand and agree by what you said. I do trust her testimony but also believe its rare and 1 in a million. God can restore but I do agree there is men out there who take advantage of their faithful wives. Not okay.
I feel the same exact way.
Thank you for choosing to be willingly obedient to GOD'S WILL AND PURPOSE FOR your lives!!!!!!!! 😊 🙏🏾
This is such a powerful testimony! Hear my prayers Adonai and restore what the enemy has taken, especially those in ministry! Thank you for sharing your wisdom and testimony bc I am in that place. Father have mercy! 🙏
What a POWERFUL POWERFULLLLLL testimony 😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ goodness…….
I’ve been going through some really tough times for several years now. God has been with me through it all. Recently just a couple of days ago I started listening to some of the testimonies on this channel. They are another way God is giving me hope. Thank you for what you do.
Oh wow! His testimony was the first I saw from your channel a couple of weeks back and led me to describe!
34:55 this floored me. Literally-on my knees, on the floor. Seeing the direct connection from the pain to the meaning gives a context to the process that Satan wants to deny us when we’re caught up in the suffering of the moment. So, resolved: all the mental stuff I’m going through with depression and su_
Amen! Praise the Lord, her speaking about Job and Peter really spoke to me. Praise the Lord for their testimony.
You are highly anointed - what a beautiful person in the Lord - Thank you for this testimony - Bendiciones.
Thank you Sis, this is no small thing ypu have done by sharing your testimony. May Gods blessing be on your family and ministry always.
Incredible testimony ! I got chills when she was praying ! God bless you all , the Lord Jesus our God can restore everyone and everything ! Amen !!!
I have seen your videos for a long time and i love them, but i think it is important to not make it seem like we need to go back to these abusive partners or cheating spouses if they don’t change. I understand god forgives and he retores and i have faith in that, BUT if a person does not welcome jesus in, and is not changing i think it is important too while forgive that person is important to not make it seem like jesus says too take that person back because that’s wrong.
I agree. I also feel that many people, especially Christian women, struggle to recognize when they are being spiritually abused. They might see testimonies of others and think that these experiences will automatically apply to their own circumstances. However, some may be married to manipulative individuals who weaponize their faith against them. This is something I’ve seen happen quite often.
As Christians, we should be accountable for certain traits within ourselves that may not align with living like Christ. When challenges arise in marriages, I’ve noticed people are often quick to blame Satan, but many of these issues stem from traits that both individuals had before marriage-traits that were always going to cause problems in the relationship.
In cases where there seems to be genuine repentance, it’s important to acknowledge it. But I’ve observed that some Christian women, for example, might be married to men who were womanizers even before marriage. Each time the man is caught in adultery, he knows he can weaponize his wife’s faith against her, showing no real intent to change. The wife may be in denial, continually blaming outside forces, such as “strange women,” when in reality, the problem lies with the man she is married to.
Jesus mentions that that's a grounds for divorce
But it's up to the individuals to choose whether to stay together to split.
But I'm sure others testimonies will favor what you're looking for. Theirs isn't the one that has that kind of outcome
Can you post one about a man forgiving his wife?
I would be very eager to see this too.
In the Bible there is one .
@@ceasarjuarez1593 yes that’s a clear example . Prophet Hosea and Gomer . The Christian community seems to relish on testimonies where it’s the husband that has strayed .
Glory Hallelujah thank you my beautiful sister, God bless you and your family
I feel so connected to her heart in the way she is so in love with Jesus ❤ 🙌🏼
Thank-you Sister Shirley for sharing your very personal powerful testimony.
Truly our LORD God Almighty is great and mighty to heal and restore broken life and relationship etc.
May the LORD blesses you and your testimony to reach those who needed to hear the love and forgiveness of our ABBA Father.
LORD, bless and expand Shirley family and ministry. In Jesus Christ name I pray.
Thanks for your prayers, I received your prayers. Take care, stay strong and courageous in the LORD. God bless!
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Wow this is so deep! God is so good! He is always there with his hand extended to us. He gives us the choice whether or not we want to take his hand. But HE is ALWAYS PRESENT 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Forgiveness is something we all have to learn in this walk somehow. That was powerful and so true.
very strong testimony. thank you for that. May GOD bless y'all even more.
Her testimony is amazing. The husband was as well. It helps other people who are IN IT currently to know that they are not too far gone. 43:26
Beautiful testimony of Restoration! Be blessed Mighty woman of God! Absolute 🔥! Thank you Jesus! Don’t miss the prayer at the end!!!
You don’t know how God used both of their story for me for deliverance and healing. I just thank God that He used this for me to search my heart bcuz it’s been a crazy ride, crazy wars like she said… and in times of rest, I was a foggy blurry road to navigate in my heart and yet, God has never left or forget about me. Thank you for this. Really. I pray for yall walk as you stay obedience to the Lord and you go everywhere to share your testimonies for the kingdom of the Lord Jesus Christ before His second coming. I felt every word you have shared in this video sister in Christ. I want what you had. And honestly about a month ago was when I heard your husband’s testimony and I was wondering what about the wife’s perspective. So I know that this is God’s timing for us to witness. Thank you both for being vulnerable and I do believe I’m in a somewhat similar talk with God some different situations and struggles but the same spirit of bitterness and frustrations. Thank you again.
I had heard his testimony when it came out and it was my favorite one since then. And now that I can hear the other side of the testimony..... My goodness it was amazing and a blessing to hear it all together now. Thank you for sharing.
Beautiful warrior of the King
Hallelujah
This spoke to me in so many ways.. insights, same or similar experiences.. thank You Jesus for using her and for her obedience.
Sister shelllllyyyy!! God bless you so muchhh!! To God be the gloryyyyy
When you prayed I got goosebumps. What a powerful testimony . To GOD be the glory!!! ❤
So So POWERFUL..😢 Thank you for sharing.❤❤❤
Thank you so much!!! Really beautiful testimony. Such mighty power of God working through her.
😭😭💛💛💛 God bless you. Thank you for sharing your story.
Praise God!!!!!! Oh my goodness that was powerful! Amen. Thank you for loving The Lord.
What an awesome woman of God. Thanks so much for sharing. And such powerful prayer. Amen. 👑👑👑
Thanks Shelly. You and your husband be blessed.💯
Hallelujah to Restoration and Reconciliation !!
Thank you for sharing, i really needed this as my relationship is going trough a storm...I will be still, forgive and wait for the lord to guide me and forgive me for not running to him as i should have
..thank you Jesus for speaking to youre children🙏🕊
Top 3 of all testimonies & thank you for sharing the very end. So powerful. No one sees this side of the testimony. This fed me so much. God bless you
Thank you both husband and wife for sharing!! ❤
I feel so encouraged! Praise the Lord! God bless this sister!
Powerful testimony, powerful prayer! Thank you for sharing, I was blessed! 💜🙌🏾
Thank you and now I can share my testimony of deliverance
God bless this couple
Thank you very much for your prayers, God bless you and I bless God for your testimony
I’ve been with my boyfriend for eight years now and I have struggled with forgiveness with him because I had spiritual and flesh wounds that I had not forgiven, as to why I couldn’t forgive him or myself. God put this on my timeline and I now see how to do it.
Powerful testimony ❤ Glory be to God for His healing.
Amazing thank you for this - glory to God !! ❤
Thank you for sharing this amazing testimony. May God bless you and your family abundantly.
LORD, Help me forgive thise who have maliciously and deliberately hurt me...please pray for me to overcome my anxiety and depression from narcissist abuse and find a good Godly husband
I grew up in witchcraft as well....from many generations i BROKE the chain
Wow! My birthday is July 5th as well. Your testimony is amazing!
Love the editor’s cut. This brought me to tears
Thank you for your testimony Sister ❤🙌🙏 You have given me hope. Thank you ever so much.
So powerful Hallelujah
Praise the Lord!!!!!
Wow! What an amazing testimony Praise God!!
Wow!! Powerful. Thank you Sister.
35:00 THATS SO POWERFUL!!!
Thank you Yahweh 🙌🏾🙌🏾💕💕💕🙏🏾
What a beautiful testimony, glory to God.
Glory to the Lord Jesus Christ... I'm in this season right now.... BUT GOD is Good.... we talking laughing and joking even doing thoughtful things 4 each other.... I'm Grateful 2 GOD thank you Lord Jesus
Please pray for full reconciliation, forgiveness, no bitterness, and continued friendship into luv again and Deliverance in Jesus Christ Name Amen thank you
I love your testimony and the way how you describe it. Oh yes, Jesus Christ is Good. You are a blessing! God bless you all!!
I needed this.
Yes. I heard this person on this phone say to me, it will never happen. I knew that it wasn't that person but the demonic spirit/spirits in them. I just kept on talking to the person and ignore the spirit/spirits. Because I know that the spirit just wanted negative attention and to intimidate at the moment.
Wow I could feel that shift (Power of God) when she says they run to each other! Wow
Powerful testimony. Thanks for sharing