I can attest to the loss of friends during an awakening. My experience was jarring and happened overnight. I didn't discuss spiritual things or talk about what was happening. It was like my vibration suddenly changed and they were immediately repulsed.
Being alone has to be one of the hardest challenges for us people. The sad thing is no one will understand. But that's how it is. You have to be willing to be misunderstood, and thus be free of perceptions and judgments from others. Stay strong people
My personal experience was not friends/family leaving me but the higher conscience me seeing my relationships exactly as they were and most no longer met my criteria and or new principles.
That’s the same with me. I’ve moved on from the Christian faith and all my Christian friends. I now have my own understanding and interpretation of life but this means I can’t connect with them in the same way anymore. I want to find friends who are more understanding of science and the older, simpler beliefs.
I can so relate to this. In 2018, my Dark Night of The Soul began - the universe literally stripped me of all friends, my husband and other social supports. I was completely dismantled physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually. I am much better for it. I no longer fear death or fear being alone, and much more able to handle whatever challenge I am presented with. Do not fear friends.
MegaChelsea25 It’s so strange how i feel alone, and when i see comments, i can’t belive how much people are right now in this moment feel the same like I do, just so strange..
@@phoenixbg2096 You are not alone my friend I can guarantee it. Everything that could go wrong for me went wrong within the space of 3 months in late 2018, and I went through psychic and spiritual hell for it. But, I cannot even begin to describe to you the very clear evidence I was repeatedly presented with that I was loved and protected from the other side. My guides literally saved my life. It was then that I realised I am NEVER alone, none of us are. You are not and NEVER are alone, even if you feel it.
@ MegaChelsea25 Aww dear😌❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼💕🌸🌅❤️ Thank you for sharing your feelings with us, God bless you dear and Thank you very much for your honest answer❤️🙏🏼❤️
@@MegaChelsea25 it’s like you soul has dipped in the holy waters to scrub yourself anew. What’s interesting is, even if you try to maintain contact with old folks after they’ve drifted away by their choice or yours, you are repelled by some negative consequence again. It just doesn’t work anymore. The cords have been cut.
Your energy frequency changes, and so your external frequencies that no longer vibe, naturally fall away..... Yet new people that match your new frequency, begin coming your way...
What about when you continue to attract narcissistic people? It all began with my mom, then with other family members, at school, etc. now at age 25, I feel like I’m surrounded by them.
@@LovelyFlyShy I had to learn how to deal with narcissists in myself. Learn the behaviors, their tactics of drawing you in and keeping you. This will give you the ability to stop them in their tracks. In that process you will learn when to walk away. And it's not as easy as it sounds but it's doable. Just keep trying once you learn what a narcissist does and how they control, you can learn to turn the tables on them... Never never give up
@@LovelyFlyShyI know I'm 1 year late but I too experienced attracting narcissists (it started with co-workers, and then I started to see narcissistic traits in a lot of my family members.) One of the most important things i've learnt is that everything happens for a reason, and your surroundings don't define or control who you are, they only push you further on the journey of self-realization. One of the key weapons that narcissists use to get validation is Gaslighting. But the thing is, you can only be gaslighted if you either let your surroundings define you, or you're a people pleaser who find it difficult to say "No", set boundaries and walk away from provocations. I personally think people who are on a spiritual path will at some point find themselves surrounded by narcissists. Why? Because when being bombarded with all their false self-righteousness and gaslightings, it forces you to look deeper into your spiritual roots and fundamentals to stand your ground, remain a clear view of life, and most importantly, to learn to truly accept and love yourself first even when nobody validates or understands you, because you already validate yourself. On the other hand, encountering multiple narcissists may also pushes you on the process of Shadow Integration. When you understand that everyone, including you, possess both Light and Darkness within ourselves, you will stop personalizing it when a narcissist tries to attack you. Because you realize that within each and everyone of us, there are narcissistic, even the so called "evil", "psychopathic" tendencies which are defined by today's society. The only true difference between an awakened person and a toxic person is that: an awakened person is Aware of their own Light and Darkness, thus has the ability to balance both sides. While toxic people are Unaware of their Dark side, which then unconsciously manifests as the toxic, narcissistic tendencies. Hence why you will never see a narcissistic person who admits his/her Dark side, simply because he/she is truly ignorant and unware of it. It is important to remember that: the Dark and Light are equally as important, and none is better than the other, nor can it exist without the other. With that being said, here are some of the things I did that helped me immensely when dealing with narcissists in my life: - Meditation and Yoga, or any form of physical exercises. (In shorts, meditation does wonders with calming the mind and balancing your emotions.) - Watch educative videos on Narcissism. I highly recommend watching Dr Ramani's TH-cam channel. She is an expert in the field of Narcissism. - Learn to set healthy boundaries one at a time, and learn to say "No", walk away from toxic arguments and stop caring about what others might think of you. - Last and most importantly, learn to always Love yourself first, without seeking for validation and acceptance from others. I know it is harder than it sounds, but trust me when I say: It is worth it, especially with the lesson of Loving Yourself. I strongly believe that, only when we learn to truly love ourselves first, can we attract individuals with the same frequency, and give love away authentically while still remain happy and peaceful for being ourselves
@@BEMEISM I've been following you now sir for a long time. I find your words of wisdom very profound and I utilize them every day in order to get to the other side of the Dark Night.
I think the truth is you leave them , they would have you back anyway but you cant fit in with them anymore, you see people for what they really are unfortunately, not how you thought they were originally
Divorce started my journey -- getting cheated on and being alone shook me out of my safe little hidey hole. Then all the others started to fall away as the transformation continued. I'm currently at the very bottom of the well, my last friend I was speaking to finally bid me farewell, and even my mother doesn't want to talk to me. So I'm truly alone, no friends, family, or even pets. It's like looking at the aftermath of a warzone -- devastation and shocking horror in every direction. But there's also a sense of peace. I do trust the process, I wouldn't be here without it. But this might be the toughest part. For the rest of my days I will have swelling compassion for anyone going through this or any other form of social isolation -- it's the worst pain I've ever felt. Trusting God now, He's the only one left :'). I hope everyone here finds their peace, you deserve it.
I understand. There seems to be a kind of 'separating' process going on right now, actually, the process of changing began for me about 30 years ago. Several painful emotional JOLTS began a long and painful awakening, a dark night of the soul, if you will. This process or changing of my soul or spirit has caused a pulling away of friends and family. Who is my NEW family? Those of us who have changed 🙏. You are not alone☺️.
Same, I lost family and friends. But sometimes I feel jealous when I see enjoying their children and grandchildren. How I can't be a normal person? It's painful for me.
That was exactly what I needed to hear this morning. Thank you Trevor. I moved away from my hometown to a canal boat in the countryside to get away from all the opinions and voices of my friends which were too varied, confusing and almost pressuring, and were about to lead my journey down paths i wouldn’t have been happy or successful in. I had to get away from people who didn’t understand the journey I wantEd to be on and would try to discourage me because of their own ignorance, self-importance and even jealousy. It’s right what you say about getting that distance and separation so you can be you. I don’t want to go back yet as I need to establish myself in my work and be strong in my own beliefs so they can see I am alright without them and so I can be my own person and free to lead myself.
I left a big friend group I had a couple years ago over some drama having to do with a relationship and at the time felt like they were treating me particularly poorly compared to each-other. After the year passed I couldn't be more happy that I stopped hanging out with them. They were limiting my potential, getting me closer to full on drug addiction, were very politically naive, and would never be vulnerable would always be on the defense when it comes to talking about personal issues. It is a total blessing to leave a friend group like that, it doesn't have to be so dramatic too. I still run into them sometimes, I act extra friendly as I honesty harbor zero ill willed feelings to those of them that were value-able friends through the time we actually were friends. I wish them the best and wish I could have saw the impending issues sooner.
I also lost my friends over night. One Night i was in my Bed and all the day i felt weird, it was like i had 20 kilos more to take with me. So when i went to Bed i had like a “vision“ of my future where i finish school, go to university etc and i dont know why but it freaked me totally out and i had massive panic attacks in the months coming. My life went down to the point where i lost all of my friends and im slowly learning life again.
Leaving habits and friends behind with those habits is essential for self development, now I hear the herd from afar. They enjoy getting people into a habit, me I grow daily. Many thanks Mr Ilsley you will not be forgotten.
I’ve never really had friends even though I had the illusion of having lots of friends but it was just me trying to make it appear that I had friends, which worked, but I eventually realised it was pointless so I’m now a happy loner :)
I’ve been alone all my life. I’m not expecting that to change in this lifetime. I have people who like to talk at me but I’m finding I can’t listen to anymore grisly detail. I don’t want or need to share my life with anyone, it’s more peaceful & simple that way. My grown up kids are amazing & we have wonderful talks when we connect. That’s enough for me.
Truth. Our individual path is just that - individual. As difficult as it seems at times, it is necessary; allowing us to blossom into our soul awareness. 🙏🕊☮💖🌞♾💯
I lost friends during my transformation bc I had negative encounters w friends or just drifted away -me or them. I’ve had to not care if people judge me /don’t understand me.. but it’s hard. I didn’t always act how I wish I would have but it was honestly the best I could do. I understand that I needed to spend a lot of time alone to disconnect from the reality I was in before- it was a “good” reality compared to most of society but i wouldn’t have been able to find my soul path/soul knowledge within that reality bc my work is a pretty fringe... they might actually have supported me but I didn’t know how to be outside of reality while maintaining lots of old connections in a reality I no longer lived in.. too hard for me to have people respond to me as my old self when becoming new self. As I’m stronger in my new self snd work I’ll reach out to good friends and it might be great.. I just can’t slip into old ways of being that no longer serve me- high energy entertaining people super social bubbly etc
The Devil in my head , is a chatty fella , he always says , i cant , i will never get it ,, it is too hard ,,, All the time in the world alone , with the devil in my head 😂 nobody here all the time too ... i bought me a guitar ,,, Devil said ,, you cant play dummy ,, you will never get it ,,, , Nobody says , time,,,,,,, is on my side , yes it is ,, 2 years later ,,, Getting better al the time ,, 😁
As I grew up I started isolating myself more and more, from childhood into adulthood. I would like to have friends but I found it either hard to keep them or they'd drift away from my life, often literally as I move from places.
never had too many friends anyway, as of now i have only one true friend who does not judge me an excepts me though that may change as this goes on we will see as for being alone i have all ways been alone since no one understands me an most think im cray cray lol ,thanks Trevor
No, I won't lose my friends. My friends are amazing people, I am a great person and we will support each other all the way - sorry for those of you who may have lost your people
Yes, my DM is experiencing this. The last 6 months his one buddy moved out of state to live with his daughter, they were friends for like 40 years. His other buddy ended up in prison for stupid mistakes he made, shocking mistakes. And friends for 40 years as well. He keeps telling me he needs more friends. I just tell him, you need to be by yourself and listen.
I know I am probably an exception but I am actually moving back to my hometown after losing all my friends. I believe my message is better received from the community I once belonged. I was my trueself when I was younger and moved away and became someone else and made new friends. Now I am returning home in more way than one.
Sorry to hear you lost people to talk with, I did too, but then I realized true friends celebrate you going inward. People can surround you or be with you, that is a real difference. I for one applaud you for speaking with such bravery and vulnerability. Have a splendid day and play; je ne regrette rien By Édith Piaf to celebrate your birthday
Bless you. I prayed for this information and now I understand. I believe you when you say they were being removed from my life, almost forcefully for the ones I was hanging unto. I was really angry with my guides and God, the universe, the whole thing till now. I will trust my journey though I still don't get it. Thank you
I have and am going through a change, brought on by a devastating separation, And with my obsession with the nature of reality and philosophy and truth and cosmology and psychedelics has caused a noticeable change in myself, and I do feel lonely now and see mob mentality everywhere and I hate it as it seems so false, But I will never use the term awakening because it’s a cliche and used for egotistical reasons to much BTW, I like that phrase “you can’t be a prophet in your own town”
Love your funny videos, with so much good wise wisdoms ;) They are a Good Company to have here. .... and that glimps in the eyes, to get in touch with humor again. Really Good Medicine. Thank You
In 2018 going through the dark night of the soul friends moved away from me its now 2020 and im still alone its ok iv become my own best friend strange thing is when i have met people i really don't want to be around no one as i feel im on a diffrent planet lol thank you trevor great video ❤ The thing that gets me nos is people piss me of i see through the illusion not sure why i feel that way
Trevor, Firstly Thank you for your unique perspective, incorporating the b-me philosophy into my life has been very helpful. You vids are always timely and seem to strike a chord every time! Keep up the good work!
Hey Trevor, been a long time mate ! ,Erik here, 🙏 so nice to see and hear you again ! .We have emailed so many times. So many times I thought I was out of the dark night , when i was not... until I also let that go and I even without knowing came out of the first phase....💫 You are so right , trusting the journey,..letting go..I also lost friends, but had that old thought pattern , like... but we knew each other so well , we experienced so much together, .....but you cannot pass by the awakening and growth within yourself... it is just there...and will lead you to your tribe... be the prophet there... so true mate, also nice your are keeping the message within 10 minutes this time ..lol...love mate Etik 🦋🛐
I am wondering about that…if we’re all one as every enlightened person states and you have a spiritual awakening wouldn’t the answer be integration instead of isolation? I find it difficult to understand that the journey is about awakened vs non awakened. Sounds like a new form of segregation.
I don't if it's something I did wrong ,but if asked I'm always there for the family I have still alive, I've lost all emedate family , mom dad two bros a sister, three aunts two cuzins , I sic of trying, I finally gave up, they think in crazy for believing in conspiracy theories, that turn into facts,alway down the road, did you ever think we would be not permitted to see you're dieing family members, you could put on the same personal equipment that all nurses doc wesr, some thing else is going on, next they gonna tell us what we can eat when and how much. The reason you can't see them in hospital, you would see what the are doing murder.
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So true, family members as well. I never fit in, now I don’t have to!
Same, family and friends went away. But sometimes I feel that I need somebody, too much loneliness. And I miss my daughter.
@@leonmiguel5984 ME TOO
I can attest to the loss of friends during an awakening. My experience was jarring and happened overnight. I didn't discuss spiritual things or talk about what was happening. It was like my vibration suddenly changed and they were immediately repulsed.
This is exactly what happened to me, it is so painful.
Yes just like that
they was repulsed by love? 🤣
Same. Family too. I have WAY BETTER friends now. WAYYY better. It took a long while tho.
It's because they see the light in us and they are of this world.
I think the whole Covid-19 thing is to 'help' us to focus more on ourselves and being 'confronted' with yourself as part of the journey.
Being alone has to be one of the hardest challenges for us people. The sad thing is no one will understand. But that's how it is. You have to be willing to be misunderstood, and thus be free of perceptions and judgments from others. Stay strong people
My personal experience was not friends/family leaving me but the higher conscience me seeing my relationships exactly as they were and most no longer met my criteria and or new principles.
Yes 💜🙏💜.
That’s the same with me. I’ve moved on from the Christian faith and all my Christian friends. I now have my own understanding and interpretation of life but this means I can’t connect with them in the same way anymore. I want to find friends who are more understanding of science and the older, simpler beliefs.
I can so relate to this. In 2018, my Dark Night of The Soul began - the universe literally stripped me of all friends, my husband and other social supports. I was completely dismantled physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually. I am much better for it. I no longer fear death or fear being alone, and much more able to handle whatever challenge I am presented with. Do not fear friends.
MegaChelsea25 It’s so strange how i feel alone, and when i see comments, i can’t belive how much people are right now in this moment feel the same like I do, just so strange..
@@phoenixbg2096 You are not alone my friend I can guarantee it. Everything that could go wrong for me went wrong within the space of 3 months in late 2018, and I went through psychic and spiritual hell for it. But, I cannot even begin to describe to you the very clear evidence I was repeatedly presented with that I was loved and protected from the other side. My guides literally saved my life. It was then that I realised I am NEVER alone, none of us are. You are not and NEVER are alone, even if you feel it.
@ MegaChelsea25 Aww dear😌❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼💕🌸🌅❤️ Thank you for sharing your feelings with us, God bless you dear and Thank you very much for your honest answer❤️🙏🏼❤️
@@phoenixbg2096 Take care and keep the faith my friend xx
@@MegaChelsea25 it’s like you soul has dipped in the holy waters to scrub yourself anew. What’s interesting is, even if you try to maintain contact with old folks after they’ve drifted away by their choice or yours, you are repelled by some negative consequence again. It just doesn’t work anymore. The cords have been cut.
Your energy frequency changes, and so your external frequencies that no longer vibe, naturally fall away..... Yet new people that match your new frequency,
begin coming your way...
What about when you continue to attract narcissistic people? It all began with my mom, then with other family members, at school, etc. now at age 25, I feel like I’m surrounded by them.
@@LovelyFlyShy I had to learn how to deal with narcissists in myself. Learn the behaviors, their tactics of drawing you in and keeping you. This will give you the ability to stop them in their tracks. In that process you will learn when to walk away. And it's not as easy as it sounds but it's doable.
Just keep trying once you learn what a narcissist does and how they control, you can learn to turn the tables on them...
Never never give up
@@deborahbarry9421 thank you so much. I educate myself daily and I’ve started to put my foot down.
@@LovelyFlyShyI know I'm 1 year late but I too experienced attracting narcissists (it started with co-workers, and then I started to see narcissistic traits in a lot of my family members.)
One of the most important things i've learnt is that everything happens for a reason, and your surroundings don't define or control who you are, they only push you further on the journey of self-realization.
One of the key weapons that narcissists use to get validation is Gaslighting. But the thing is, you can only be gaslighted if you either let your surroundings define you, or you're a people pleaser who find it difficult to say "No", set boundaries and walk away from provocations. I personally think people who are on a spiritual path will at some point find themselves surrounded by narcissists. Why? Because when being bombarded with all their false self-righteousness and gaslightings, it forces you to look deeper into your spiritual roots and fundamentals to stand your ground, remain a clear view of life, and most importantly, to learn to truly accept and love yourself first even when nobody validates or understands you, because you already validate yourself.
On the other hand, encountering multiple narcissists may also pushes you on the process of Shadow Integration. When you understand that everyone, including you, possess both Light and Darkness within ourselves, you will stop personalizing it when a narcissist tries to attack you. Because you realize that within each and everyone of us, there are narcissistic, even the so called "evil", "psychopathic" tendencies which are defined by today's society. The only true difference between an awakened person and a toxic person is that: an awakened person is Aware of their own Light and Darkness, thus has the ability to balance both sides. While toxic people are Unaware of their Dark side, which then unconsciously manifests as the toxic, narcissistic tendencies. Hence why you will never see a narcissistic person who admits his/her Dark side, simply because he/she is truly ignorant and unware of it.
It is important to remember that: the Dark and Light are equally as important, and none is better than the other, nor can it exist without the other.
With that being said, here are some of the things I did that helped me immensely when dealing with narcissists in my life:
- Meditation and Yoga, or any form of physical exercises. (In shorts, meditation does wonders with calming the mind and balancing your emotions.)
- Watch educative videos on Narcissism. I highly recommend watching Dr Ramani's TH-cam channel. She is an expert in the field of Narcissism.
- Learn to set healthy boundaries one at a time, and learn to say "No", walk away from toxic arguments and stop caring about what others might think of you.
- Last and most importantly, learn to always Love yourself first, without seeking for validation and acceptance from others.
I know it is harder than it sounds, but trust me when I say: It is worth it, especially with the lesson of Loving Yourself. I strongly believe that, only when we learn to truly love ourselves first, can we attract individuals with the same frequency, and give love away authentically while still remain happy and peaceful for being ourselves
That's true. Your 'changing' happens at a deep spiritual level and it does change your energy level or frequency.
They’ve let you go to be able to move on to the next chapter of your life, that’s a good way of putting it.
You cant expect to soar like an eagle if you associate with turkeys
TGraham Andrews nice one
@@BEMEISM I've been following you now sir for a long time. I find your words of wisdom very profound and I utilize them every day in order to get to the other side of the Dark Night.
I think the truth is you leave them , they would have you back anyway but you cant fit in with them anymore, you see people for what they really are unfortunately, not how you thought they were originally
Rejection is Protection
Divorce started my journey -- getting cheated on and being alone shook me out of my safe little hidey hole. Then all the others started to fall away as the transformation continued. I'm currently at the very bottom of the well, my last friend I was speaking to finally bid me farewell, and even my mother doesn't want to talk to me. So I'm truly alone, no friends, family, or even pets. It's like looking at the aftermath of a warzone -- devastation and shocking horror in every direction. But there's also a sense of peace. I do trust the process, I wouldn't be here without it. But this might be the toughest part. For the rest of my days I will have swelling compassion for anyone going through this or any other form of social isolation -- it's the worst pain I've ever felt. Trusting God now, He's the only one left :'). I hope everyone here finds their peace, you deserve it.
I understand. There seems to be a kind of 'separating' process going on right now, actually, the process of changing began for me about 30 years ago. Several painful emotional JOLTS began a long and painful awakening, a dark night of the soul, if you will. This process or changing of my soul or spirit has caused a pulling away of friends and family. Who is my NEW family? Those of us who have changed 🙏.
You are not alone☺️.
Same, I lost family and friends. But sometimes I feel jealous when I see enjoying their children and grandchildren. How I can't be a normal person? It's painful for me.
I like being alone, I've never been lonely, I'm blessed to have two children who let me be me...always.
That was exactly what I needed to hear this morning. Thank you Trevor. I moved away from my hometown to a canal boat in the countryside to get away from all the opinions and voices of my friends which were too varied, confusing and almost pressuring, and were about to lead my journey down paths i wouldn’t have been happy or successful in. I had to get away from people who didn’t understand the journey I wantEd to be on and would try to discourage me because of their own ignorance, self-importance and even jealousy. It’s right what you say about getting that distance and separation so you can be you. I don’t want to go back yet as I need to establish myself in my work and be strong in my own beliefs so they can see I am alright without them and so I can be my own person and free to lead myself.
I left a big friend group I had a couple years ago over some drama having to do with a relationship and at the time felt like they were treating me particularly poorly compared to each-other. After the year passed I couldn't be more happy that I stopped hanging out with them. They were limiting my potential, getting me closer to full on drug addiction, were very politically naive, and would never be vulnerable would always be on the defense when it comes to talking about personal issues. It is a total blessing to leave a friend group like that, it doesn't have to be so dramatic too. I still run into them sometimes, I act extra friendly as I honesty harbor zero ill willed feelings to those of them that were value-able friends through the time we actually were friends. I wish them the best and wish I could have saw the impending issues sooner.
Even having awakening friends you lose too! We are having our own experiences and over time even their stuff don’t resonate anymore.
I actually chose to keep myself away from them as they never could understand me.
I also lost my friends over night. One Night i was in my Bed and all the day i felt weird, it was like i had 20 kilos more to take with me. So when i went to Bed i had like a “vision“ of my future where i finish school, go to university etc and i dont know why but it freaked me totally out and i had massive panic attacks in the months coming. My life went down to the point where i lost all of my friends and im slowly learning life again.
Leaving habits and friends behind with those habits is essential for self development, now I hear the herd from afar. They enjoy getting people into a habit, me I grow daily. Many thanks Mr Ilsley you will not be forgotten.
Perfect timing of seeing this video. Thank you
Thank you thank you thank you! I've lost all my friends after my spiritual awakening and it's so nice to listen to this video. God bless
Thank you Trevor. This rings true the past 3 years for me. I was feeling sorry for myself and I needed to hear this.
I’ve never really had friends even though I had the illusion of having lots of friends but it was just me trying to make it appear that I had friends, which worked, but I eventually realised it was pointless so I’m now a happy loner :)
I’ve been alone all my life. I’m not expecting that to change in this lifetime. I have people who like to talk at me but I’m finding I can’t listen to anymore grisly detail. I don’t want or need to share my life with anyone, it’s more peaceful & simple that way. My grown up kids are amazing & we have wonderful talks when we connect. That’s enough for me.
Truth. Our individual path is just that - individual. As difficult as it seems at times, it is necessary; allowing us to blossom into our soul awareness.
🙏🕊☮💖🌞♾💯
I lost friends during my transformation bc I had negative encounters w friends or just drifted away -me or them. I’ve had to not care if people judge me /don’t understand me.. but it’s hard. I didn’t always act how I wish I would have but it was honestly the best I could do. I understand that I needed to spend a lot of time alone to disconnect from the reality I was in before- it was a “good” reality compared to most of society but i wouldn’t have been able to find my soul path/soul knowledge within that reality bc my work is a pretty fringe... they might actually have supported me but I didn’t know how to be outside of reality while maintaining lots of old connections in a reality I no longer lived in.. too hard for me to have people respond to me as my old self when becoming new self. As I’m stronger in my new self snd work I’ll reach out to good friends and it might be great.. I just can’t slip into old ways of being that no longer serve me- high energy entertaining people super social bubbly etc
I feel this. It's a confusing thing.
I lost even my family!
✌️❣️🌟
You are awesome
The Devil in my head , is a chatty fella , he always says , i cant , i will never get it ,, it is too hard ,,, All the time in the world alone , with the devil in my head 😂 nobody here all the time too ... i bought me a guitar ,,, Devil said ,, you cant play dummy ,, you will never get it ,,, , Nobody says , time,,,,,,, is on my side , yes it is ,, 2 years later ,,, Getting better al the time ,, 😁
@@carolinembugua5926 Tanx 😄 sitting alone is not that bad ,,, im good compani and the cat helps too ,,,
As I grew up I started isolating myself more and more, from childhood into adulthood. I would like to have friends but I found it either hard to keep them or they'd drift away from my life, often literally as I move from places.
never had too many friends anyway, as of now i have only one true friend who does not judge me an excepts me though that may change as this goes on we will see as for being alone i have all ways been alone since no one understands me an most think im cray cray lol ,thanks Trevor
Oh my goodness only this morning I was thinking of you! I needed to hear this 🙏
Friends come and go
Enemies accumulate
I have also no friends greetings from Holland
No, I won't lose my friends. My friends are amazing people, I am a great person and we will support each other all the way - sorry for those of you who may have lost your people
🙏💜
I'm binge watching your channel🌞🌞🌞
Thanks Trevor. It's not always easy to lose...so called friends
They are all gone...
Your channel is really good. i learn a lot from you. Thank you 🙏
Thank you dear for all your info I'm ok being alone taken me a long time to understand that I'm being protected from my friends and being me
I get exhausted around minds in action. Just cant do it anymore. Its falling away everyday... like a frequency detox . No ressonance.
Yes, my DM is experiencing this. The last 6 months his one buddy moved out of state to live with his daughter, they were friends for like 40 years. His other buddy ended up in prison for stupid mistakes he made, shocking mistakes. And friends for 40 years as well. He keeps telling me he needs more friends. I just tell him, you need to be by yourself and listen.
I believe thank you god bless you
Great Way to put our journey into perspective Trevor...Trusting it is such a relief when we finially realise it...Greetings from Ireland.
I've found this to be true when sickness or death arises.
I know I am probably an exception but I am actually moving back to my hometown after losing all my friends. I believe my message is better received from the community I once belonged. I was my trueself when I was younger and moved away and became someone else and made new friends. Now I am returning home in more way than one.
Makes sence to me
I would lose friends if I had any in the first place (I don't).
Sorry to hear you lost people to talk with, I did too, but then I realized true friends celebrate you going inward. People can surround you or be with you, that is a real difference. I for one applaud you for speaking with such bravery and vulnerability. Have a splendid day and play; je ne regrette rien By Édith Piaf to celebrate your birthday
Bless you. I prayed for this information and now I understand. I believe you when you say they were being removed from my life, almost forcefully for the ones I was hanging unto. I was really angry with my guides and God, the universe, the whole thing till now. I will trust my journey though I still don't get it. Thank you
I have and am going through a change, brought on by a devastating separation,
And with my obsession with the nature of reality and philosophy and truth and cosmology and psychedelics has caused a noticeable change in myself, and I do feel lonely now and see mob mentality everywhere and I hate it as it seems so false,
But I will never use the term awakening because it’s a cliche and used for egotistical reasons to much
BTW, I like that phrase “you can’t be a prophet in your own town”
This is so true. Thank you for this great video & perspective!
Wow 🤩♥️
Alone = all- one
I like that
I wasnt alone, my friend mr Carl Jung helped during dns.
One of the best things to have happen 🙏🏼💜🌸🕉
03:26 we had this dialogue in an episode of "This is us" Season 6
Love this. Yes soo much trouble they choose and I am free💜
Thanks I dont have to explain any more and hear that sound in there voice their she goes again.
Thank you for this message! I truly appreciate you.
Friends are given not chosen
Love your funny videos, with so much good wise wisdoms ;)
They are a Good Company to have here.
.... and that glimps in the eyes, to get in touch with humor again. Really Good Medicine.
Thank You
Thank you, Trevor. 🦋
In 2018 going through the dark night of the soul friends moved away from me its now 2020 and im still alone its ok iv become my own best friend strange thing is when i have met people i really don't want to be around no one as i feel im on a diffrent planet lol thank you trevor great video ❤ The thing that gets me nos is people piss me of i see through the illusion not sure why i feel that way
Angel Andrews you can learn for that not to happen. Next part of the initiation
@@BEMEISM for what not to happen not sure i understand trevor lol
Oh goodness. Very relatable. Thank you so much for speaking to this ♡
Trevor, Firstly Thank you for your unique perspective, incorporating the b-me philosophy into my life has been very helpful. You vids are always timely and seem to strike a chord every time! Keep up the good work!
Solitude is bliss.
I didn't lose any of them technically I did but I was the one doing the cutting
A fine video. Many good points.
You look young👊
lose friends, who cares! just grind harder!
Thank you. Blessed be.♡
Thank-you 🙏
But who or what is protecting you from your friends ??
On my awakening I too lost ALL of my friends.
Hey Trevor, been a long time mate ! ,Erik here, 🙏 so nice to see and hear you again ! .We have emailed so many times. So many times I thought I was out of the dark night , when i was not... until I also let that go and I even without knowing came out of the first phase....💫 You are so right , trusting the journey,..letting go..I also lost friends, but had that old thought pattern , like... but we knew each other so well , we experienced so much together, .....but you cannot pass by the awakening and growth within yourself... it is just there...and will lead you to your tribe... be the prophet there... so true mate, also nice your are keeping the message within 10 minutes this time ..lol...love mate Etik 🦋🛐
Erik hi Erik hope your well mate.
good work light worker
Thanks Trevor. Love ya man
Thank you Trevor!
Thank you.
Thank you again Trevor
Thanks😊
thank you for your information my mate:)
So true
Yes, I know, I realized now. Thank you
Thanks man.
nemo profeta in patria ;-* take care
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You're literally describing my life
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Your friends will be back when you are ready. You are your only trouble 😉
Not always ☝️
Lost friends and family :(
I am wondering about that…if we’re all one as every enlightened person states and you have a spiritual awakening wouldn’t the answer be integration instead of isolation? I find it difficult to understand that the journey is about awakened vs non awakened. Sounds like a new form of segregation.
There you go i lost you
I don't if it's something I did wrong ,but if asked I'm always there for the family I have still alive, I've lost all emedate family , mom dad two bros a sister, three aunts two cuzins , I sic of trying, I finally gave up, they think in crazy for believing in conspiracy theories, that turn into facts,alway down the road, did you ever think we would be not permitted to see you're dieing family members, you could put on the same personal equipment that all nurses doc wesr, some thing else is going on, next they gonna tell us what we can eat when and how much. The reason you can't see them in hospital, you would see what the are doing murder.
Also my friend are dead