Realising that we don't have control of outside events, but only our minds, is the most empowering experience out there. From now on, no complaining, no blaming, only action. *ACTION* is what counts.
My ex walked out on 5 of us! myself and 4 amazing kids! (aged 10,9.8 and 5,months old) My kids are the most intelligent, funny, crazy, fun bunch of people you will ever meet! I have always felt sorry for my ex! I feel sorry for him missing out on experiencing the joy ( and a whole lot of drama! Phew!) as the children grew up! Not a single moment have I felt bitter! Roll on 10 and a half years later! TODAY: My 1st child is about to graduate with LAW degree, 2nd is about to graduate in Business and IT and 3rd is about to go into Medical school! And my baby he is 11 yrs old now, well he is just growing up too fast copying his older siblings! I love life too much to waste one day of it in bitterness or anger! Life is for the living!
It's been a freaking 18 years and I've never seen my father he told me the other day he was coming home and I don't actually know if I would hit him or hug him if see him on the door I know it's not easy to forgive some one but life is too short to carry all that baggage i hope you have a great day 💖
What I love about my dad the most is how he changed for us. I was 5-6 years old when my father divorced my mother after arguments. Although my dad would be there for me, he did some things I didn’t like. But over time, he came closer into my life and was there for us. He would always ask us about our life to make sure we are ok. That was he first time I felt that I was loved. My mom is there for me as well. I love them both but most importantly, thank you dad.
I never met my mom. My mom didnt leave me. My mom didnt abandon me. She died. This made me cry so much because I never felt love because everyone told me nice things about her and when it comes to me they just change their topic. Like I'm nothing. Thata why I help people with their problems to make them happier and not be in the position I am.
This channel's videos helped me soo much through my depression . I am so grateful that I found this channel . And whoever is reading this I just wanna say everything will be fine , you are stronger than your problems so don't fear , fight against your problems with all your strength and i promise you will definitely win 💗
You’ll get through this. I beat it May 21 of 2019. I never even knew I was gonna win. The mentality was horrible. I prayed to God but no luck. I questioned if he hated me so much, he gave up on me. No. He did not. I won the battle. Humanity was killing me. January - May was my lowest point. You see; people believed a lie and that small thing became big. I wanted to give up. I beat it. You will. Reach out to God. Good luck
shivika ranjan + Be hopeful. Everyday you didn’t give up because you are strong. Because if you weren’t, you would not be here today. God bless and good luck.
Sorry, unsweetened tea, but you are wrong about yourself. You have sweetness inside you nobody has even seen yet. Thank you for your genuine statement. I was a very damaged child at eleven. You sound like you have a good head on your shoulders. God bless!
This is like the same thing my brother told me he said he’ll always be by my side and I love him so much for being there and he told me to forgive my dad
I always had issues with my brother in law..I love him a lot and did everything for him more than I do for my brother..He is basically a nice person but somehow never acknowledged me.his basic character was like that he was not expressive .he never calls me but he calls my husband and talks.I used to feel very sad and avoided by him.I told him the same many times.he used to tell that's his nature.But now he is married. I see him talk and is close to his wife mom,dad and brother.only i am left out.I feel very bad and I keep thinking about it all the time.I used to feel bad when I see him being friendly with others and just ignoring me.but now I realise that this is a box for me..I have to destroy..I have to reduce my priority for him and love the ones who love me.That's life
He came to my school today and he is truly inspiring, so much so that I had to find it again. It is just as moving no matter how many times you watch it.
I know his story cause my dad does not want me but i am sure that when i am old enough and become a sucessful person in life he will suddenly show up in my life ..... 😥😥
If u r unloved , love other underprivileged, u will never be feel the pain of neglect on the contrary u will be blessed with lots of Happiness. Believe in ur self first, u r an Unique in the universe
Man from big mouth episodes to watching on youtube depressing cartoon moments then watching alooott of meaningful videos at 3am gon blow my mind and ill burst into tears until i fall asleep , i can feel it heating me rn
What is the soundtrack in the background? The speech was incredible and touching, but that moving music brought it to a whole new level, it made the emotion so real. If I could get the name of the song in the background that would be greatly appreciated
I've never spoke to my father he wasn't in my life I had a rough life growing up but I managed taught myself everything how to shave how to work on cars how to build things I built a box to a box saying that I could do everything on my own they had a chance to talk to my father when I was older but I want nothing to do with him
My friends push me when Im hanging in the tree and then I broke my arm because they push me so hard that I cant help but to let go of the tree, but instead of me being angry, I'm just being calm and let's just forget it because it cant bring back the past, the moral is learn to forgive and don't hold grudges
I have the same.feeling. Just talk to him and if it goes well that is fantastic and I hope you can build a good relationship, if there is a chance to have your father in your life grab it. But if not let it just so Why should you make someone happy while his job is to make you happy. Your life went well without him. Sometimes you can leave things better.If he really wants to build a relationship he will start a conversation. But try maybe he does not know how to start.
Believe it or not, but he actually came to my school yesterday. He said similar things about the "box". Told us about his father, his nephew, same thing from the video.
I love this idea and story, but 9 years old is a bit too old to want your dad for dinner, my dad left for 3 years and I didnt really care he was Nice and all but I didnt care, I had my mom. But I feel for you and Im happy for you.
Sure you can forgive, but why would you waste time on someone who just left you behind and started caring when you got successful only. Give that time to the ones who less fortunate somehow. Forgiveness is a bliss, but do not let these people in your life again. They never cared and they will never do. 🤙🤙🤙
You can *_FEEL_* the passion from this speaker. His sweat, voice, all powerful stuff
Absolutely amazing delivery! He is definitely one of the best. :)
Realising that we don't have control of outside events, but only our minds, is the most empowering experience out there.
From now on, no complaining, no blaming, only action. *ACTION* is what counts.
That's the core believe in stoicism. And like all of stoicism, it is powerful and wise.
*Take responsibility for your life. You can control the outcome if you’re willing to do what it takes.*
Most of time you won’t be able to control the outcome whatever’s gonna happen is gonna happen if if you do what it takes
Absolutely right, some stupid are calling it Bullshit
Its been 42 years now and i still do not know who my father is. You will come out of darkness once you forget the people that don't care about you.
Michael Harer it’s ok homie
Perfectly said!
Absolutely right, thank you for sharing your story
Only now that I’m no longer a teenager my dad keeps saying to how much he loves me , to be honest I wish could believe him!!
Da -gama DA -gama
Your dad wouldn’t say ‘I love you’ if he didn’t love you because there’s no point. You’re father loves you.
My ex walked out on 5 of us! myself and 4 amazing kids! (aged 10,9.8 and 5,months old) My kids are the most intelligent, funny, crazy, fun bunch of people you will ever meet! I have always felt sorry for my ex! I feel sorry for him missing out on experiencing the joy ( and a whole lot of drama! Phew!) as the children grew up!
Not a single moment have I felt bitter! Roll on 10 and a half years later!
TODAY: My 1st child is about to graduate with LAW degree, 2nd is about to graduate in Business and IT and 3rd is about to go into Medical school! And my baby he is 11 yrs old now, well he is just growing up too fast copying his older siblings! I love life too much to waste one day of it in bitterness or anger! Life is for the living!
U have lit kids
Wow. You have an amazing legacy. They all sound incredible. Thanks to you!!
It's been a freaking 18 years and I've never seen my father he told me the other day he was coming home and I don't actually know if I would hit him or hug him if see him on the door I know it's not easy to forgive some one but life is too short to carry all that baggage i hope you have a great day 💖
What I love about my dad the most is how he changed for us. I was 5-6 years old when my father divorced my mother after arguments. Although my dad would be there for me, he did some things I didn’t like. But over time, he came closer into my life and was there for us. He would always ask us about our life to make sure we are ok. That was he first time I felt that I was loved. My mom is there for me as well. I love them both but most importantly, thank you dad.
I never met my mom. My mom didnt leave me. My mom didnt abandon me. She died. This made me cry so much because I never felt love because everyone told me nice things about her and when it comes to me they just change their topic. Like I'm nothing. Thata why I help people with their problems to make them happier and not be in the position I am.
May god bless you!
May she rest in peace
This channel's videos helped me soo much through my depression . I am so grateful that I found this channel .
And whoever is reading this I just wanna say everything will be fine , you are stronger than your problems so don't fear , fight against your problems with all your strength and i promise you will definitely win 💗
You’ll get through this. I beat it May 21 of 2019. I never even knew I was gonna win. The mentality was horrible. I prayed to God but no luck. I questioned if he hated me so much, he gave up on me. No. He did not. I won the battle. Humanity was killing me. January - May was my lowest point. You see; people believed a lie and that small thing became big. I wanted to give up. I beat it. You will. Reach out to God. Good luck
@@markl.5432 Good to know, hope all is good now, I finally beat mine too
Adam Morsel + All is good now, I’m glad you found your purpose. I try to help those who need it most. God bless.
@@markl.5432 I am glad you won over your problems and thanks, I believe that everything will be fine and I will beat my problems too 🙂
shivika ranjan + Be hopeful. Everyday you didn’t give up because you are strong. Because if you weren’t, you would not be here today. God bless and good luck.
May God give strength to All wounded Child to heal Themselves 🙏❤️
This is a man I can respect and I'm usally sceptical about men but I can relate to him. Thank you for this I won't forget it
I'm eleven years old
Sorry, unsweetened tea, but you are wrong about yourself. You have sweetness inside you nobody has even seen yet. Thank you for your genuine statement. I was a very damaged child at eleven. You sound like you have a good head on your shoulders. God bless!
This touched me personally. This is my life story with my ex and my son. I cried so much. Thank you for this channel
This is like the same thing my brother told me he said he’ll always be by my side and I love him so much for being there and he told me to forgive my dad
I was looking for this for so long, my dad was never in my life
This made me work on forgiving people and myself
I always had issues with my brother in law..I love him a lot and did everything for him more than I do for my brother..He is basically a nice person but somehow never acknowledged me.his basic character was like that he was not expressive .he never calls me but he calls my husband and talks.I used to feel very sad and avoided by him.I told him the same many times.he used to tell that's his nature.But now he is married. I see him talk and is close to his wife mom,dad and brother.only i am left out.I feel very bad and I keep thinking about it all the time.I used to feel bad when I see him being friendly with others and just ignoring me.but now I realise that this is a box for me..I have to destroy..I have to reduce my priority for him and love the ones who love me.That's life
Man this is the best inspiring video I’ve seen for years.
He came to my school today and he is truly inspiring, so much so that I had to find it again. It is just as moving no matter how many times you watch it.
I know his story cause my dad does not want me but i am sure that when i am old enough and become a sucessful person in life he will suddenly show up in my life ..... 😥😥
If u r unloved , love other underprivileged, u will never be feel the pain of neglect on the contrary u will be blessed with lots of Happiness. Believe in ur self first, u r an Unique in the universe
If you're absent during my struggle, don't expect to be present during my success- Will Smith
This is so emotional
you can feel it in his voice
No
I love my dad but my dad always busy, there no time to play together :' this video make me cry :''
Woo .My God . he’s speech is such powerful .he speak so fast .....
It brought tears in my eyes!
God
I know that you are taking
care of my Dad, the same
way he did to me.
Papá I love ❤️ and miss you.
Whatever your parents did they're always there loving you and you must respect them❣
Same story of mine. Wow it puts me tears. I learn something new today..
I needed this i don't want to hold gradges
THIS HIT HOME HARD... MUCH LOVE . BE BLESSED
Man ,many learning BRAIN out there suffer this A LOT,wish they see this before they face THOSE REAL LIFE SITUATION.
is my comment working ;D
I'm glad you didn't get that part. I'm even more grateful I got to hear your story because of it. Thank you
Man from big mouth episodes to watching on youtube depressing cartoon moments then watching alooott of meaningful videos at 3am gon blow my mind and ill burst into tears until i fall asleep , i can feel it heating me rn
Be proactive towards life. Don't be reactive.
Now THIS is a motivational speaker!!!!!
This brung me to tears. I could relate. I felt this , thank you
Don't let's your future be destroy by your past..we got to move on...
Video inspired me to stop holding grudges and express my emotions in different ways
This made me cry so much
I needed it, at this right opportune moment!
I miss my dad so much 💔💔💔
This has inspired me and helped me so much thank you
Wow. Thank you so much!!
I needed this thank you
I forgave those who hurt me and my dad for never telling me that he loves me ,for not congratulating me and for not knowing my birthday ...
Thank you i really needed to hear this.
Amazing testimony. Forgive!!! Yes forgive!! YHWH said forgive others.
There is one thing
’’Forgive all people which is making u unhappy
But
Don’t ever forget them’’
Wow it was amazing. Great content
Very passionate.
Great story
I hope GOALCAST has podcasts. More convenient to listen to it on the go. Thank you for your service though.
Seconded!
WAUW!
AUW!
greets,GREENS,love....BaasBas,the Netherlands
What is the soundtrack in the background? The speech was incredible and touching, but that moving music brought it to a whole new level, it made the emotion so real. If I could get the name of the song in the background that would be greatly appreciated
I am only 9 my dad is gonna b leaving so thank-you this this helps a lot
I might forgive others, but prefer them punished.
And others feel the same about you. And me. And ...
verry good lesson
This some good motivation i watched this in ms.madsen class
I’ve hated my dad forever now and he’s trying to come back into my life but when my mom died from cancer he wasn’t there for me or my bother 🙄😒
I lost my father when I was 3😭 I miss u dada
I can’t find a video I relate to more on this app.
Real first again
I've never spoke to my father he wasn't in my life I had a rough life growing up but I managed taught myself everything how to shave how to work on cars how to build things I built a box to a box saying that I could do everything on my own they had a chance to talk to my father when I was older but I want nothing to do with him
Respect for you
👍❤️ loved it
Awesome
FAIL BIG TO MAKE IT BIG
Nobody wants nor needs to hear my full story but currently my dad doesn't see a problem.
Amazing 👌
Awe ❤️
Thanks
Power
My friends push me when Im hanging in the tree and then I broke my arm because they push me so hard that I cant help but to let go of the tree, but instead of me being angry, I'm just being calm and let's just forget it because it cant bring back the past, the moral is learn to forgive and don't hold grudges
I feel this same way i just dont know how to speak to my dad hes not emotional or talking type
I have the same.feeling.
Just talk to him and if it goes well that is fantastic and I hope you can build a good relationship, if there is a chance to have your father in your life grab it. But if not let it just so
Why should you make someone happy while his job is to make you happy. Your life went well without him. Sometimes you can leave things better.If he really wants to build a relationship he will start a conversation. But try maybe he does not know how to start.
Have a nice say.greetings and success from a guy in Belgium.
So true
Believe it or not, but he actually came to my school yesterday. He said similar things about the "box". Told us about his father, his nephew, same thing from the video.
1st 💯
Can anyone please tell me what is step 1 2 3? I couldn't catch it. Thank you.🙏
Watched this in ms Madison class College Comp
Nice Sir
I love this idea and story, but 9 years old is a bit too old to want your dad for dinner, my dad left for 3 years and I didnt really care he was Nice and all but I didnt care, I had my mom. But I feel for you and Im happy for you.
He left when I was 5
what song?
Man, if anyone really relates to this. read Alice Miller's writing. she has the key to what he is saying.
If I was you I never forgive my dad
Funny bc I can somewhat relate
Sure you can forgive, but why would you waste time on someone who just left you behind and started caring when you got successful only. Give that time to the ones who less fortunate somehow. Forgiveness is a bliss, but do not let these people in your life again. They never cared and they will never do. 🤙🤙🤙
Wow
I love you, A’ric. 4444
But how do I forgive
Was this my suggestion of video?
LOVE YOUR CHILD'S BASTADS LOVE YOUR CHILDS BECAUSE YOU WILL NEED THEM BUT THE WONT BE THERE FOR YOU AFTER
What if you don't know or remember who made you put up the box?
Then it's probably not Someone else but u yourself, you've placed a limit on yourself that needs to removed
@@sandyhercules3067 No actually I found out who they are but thank you for the answer. Much love ❣️
What’s the most confusing day in the black community?....father’s day!
The music was too much , at the end we can't hear what he is saying
Forgive my dad? He used his 1 prison call to smuggle drugs into prison then ring me
😭💗
Oh
First
You know what - sometimes, having a Dad is overrated. Just saying.
lol
Man what’s the thing that shut me up,ow yae thats my math lesson
I have faced the same......🤣😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
I can't forgive my father
I'm not sure I can ever forgive my father...