Lizzie is paying the price. She needs to continue asking for forgiveness not just from OP but to judgement as well. Otherwise, only the worst will come to her in the end. The parents are no better they need to see that they messed up and need to let everyone know what they did was wrong and need to atone. The dad is a hypocrite for not seeing this as a sign of his past trauma before it happened to OP and didn't try to prevent it for his daughter from going through the same experience.
It amazes me how the parents expect OP to just get over what the sister did. I know any affair is terrible. You don’t mess with neighbors partners,friends partners or family partners. You literally have to be the most awful person to do this. I’m not saying any adultery is okay. I’m just saying those 3 aren’t forgivable for any reason.
There's family loyalty and sticking together. Then there's blatant favoritism and dismissal/enabling of wretched behavior simply cuz "They're family" all while not behaving like real family to one or more members of said family. Unfortunate how Lizzie life turned out, but all from decisions SHE CHOSE to make, and it's not OPs responsibility to use her wedding or family ties as a rehab treatment for her.
So the dad was betrayed by his brother in a similar way yet he still took Lizzie's side ?! If i was OP, they would be uninvited the second the threatened to boycott my wedding.
Betrayal never comes from your enemies, only your friends and family. And some things can never be fixed or forgiven. OP is a fool to re-friend Lizzie. People like that don't change, they just get better at fooling you.
Glad that you're getting back together at sisters!! And I'm glad your husband is your rock!! But always keep an eye on your sister because once they do something slimy like that they'll try again you know it just happened she'll come on to him and stuff you never never let your guard down once a person shows you who they are believe them!! Yes people can change and forgiveness is not just for the person that loves you it's really for you so you can move on but be cautious!!
Op i have learned that sometimes you have to be the villain in order to make families know that you had enough. Be strong and move forward, your sister is jealous of you and will always will be, be cautious when interacting with your sister just incase she will do it again.
I'm glad things work out between you and your sister at the end. Unlike many stories i'm listening (where family cut 100% ties with eachother) yours has a better ending. Having both parents and her been able to understand your pain and taking your times show how much they want to make it right. At least your not married with your first one, if he had done it with her he could had continued with others in the future.
@@RedditFamilyTales Forgiveness is overrated religious garbage intended to maintain the status quo. It it rarely deserved & hurts victims who think it is something they must achieve to attain healing. It’s a farce & anyone trying to sell it is dangerous.
Forgiveness is for the forgiver, doesn't mean you have to let them back into your life. She's seeking help, wish her well. Once trust has been betrayed it is hard to trust that person again.
Why is everyone mad that the o p wants to forgive her sister? It's Everyone's choice where they want to forgive. And Lizzie wants to change not for everyone else, but herself that's how you know they truly want to be better
Because they can't imagine a world where people can actually change for the better. It doesn't happen often, but it does happen. They would rather writhe in their bitterness and hatred.
You can forgive someone without allowing them back in. Forgiveness is so you can move on, not the other person. It’s to release your own heart from the anger trapped inside and so their betrayal no longer has a hold on your own heart. Trust me. I cut my own sister out of my life years ago. I’ve forgiven her for all she did and would still do if I had stayed in contact but I have no intentions to ever allow her in my life again. I no longer feel bad because the hurt she caused me has no hold over me anymore. And her wedding is not the place to try and force a reconciliation.
Why is it the crazies always go into therapy, like why are you putting your crazy onto other mentally ill people, it's just crazy encouraging crazy out there.
Did you know therapist have their own therapist it is also mandatory, because humans are weak emotionally and mentally even after "hard raising" or tough situations. But therapist are just the crazy people who were finally able to see a new perspective in hopes or turning other crazy people into new perspective seerers
Normalize undying and unrepentant hatred, grudges that get taken to the grave and beyond.
Preach!!
I Like that....
if it's not normal already then it doesn't need to be
@@btchysehun9480there’s a lot of things that aren’t considered normal that should be.
@dreamidiot6769 name 3of them
Before the teeth was added to the cake, it gradually looked more and more inappropriate 😅🌮
I was wondering what I was looking at for a while. 😂
I was looking at it like “uuuuh, what’re they trying to do there????”
I was literally about to go to sleep. I read your comment and had to stay up to check lmao
I’m glad I’m not the only one thinking that 😂😂😂
Very inappropriate
Lizzie is paying the price. She needs to continue asking for forgiveness not just from OP but to judgement as well. Otherwise, only the worst will come to her in the end.
The parents are no better they need to see that they messed up and need to let everyone know what they did was wrong and need to atone.
The dad is a hypocrite for not seeing this as a sign of his past trauma before it happened to OP and didn't try to prevent it for his daughter from going through the same experience.
If not inviting the sister that slept with the your fiancé is petty, what does it take for something to be significant?
It amazes me how the parents expect OP to just get over what the sister did. I know any affair is terrible. You don’t mess with neighbors partners,friends partners or family partners. You literally have to be the most awful person to do this. I’m not saying any adultery is okay. I’m just saying those 3 aren’t forgivable for any reason.
Settle this in four words or less: "FINE. DON'T COME."
That's 3-
@@serenityestrada5407 they said "or less"
Any relatives that have OP grief about not inviting Lilly should be told explicitly to get effed.
There's family loyalty and sticking together. Then there's blatant favoritism and dismissal/enabling of wretched behavior simply cuz "They're family" all while not behaving like real family to one or more members of said family.
Unfortunate how Lizzie life turned out, but all from decisions SHE CHOSE to make, and it's not OPs responsibility to use her wedding or family ties as a rehab treatment for her.
OP is being worked again. She can be glad her sister is better, but OP needs to protect herself. Her voice. You reap what you sow.
So the dad was betrayed by his brother in a similar way yet he still took Lizzie's side ?!
If i was OP, they would be uninvited the second the threatened to boycott my wedding.
Thank you for sharing
“All that they’ve lost”=> all that Lizzie threw away.
Betrayal never comes from your enemies, only your friends and family. And some things can never be fixed or forgiven. OP is a fool to re-friend Lizzie. People like that don't change, they just get better at fooling you.
Glad that you're getting back together at sisters!! And I'm glad your husband is your rock!! But always keep an eye on your sister because once they do something slimy like that they'll try again you know it just happened she'll come on to him and stuff you never never let your guard down once a person shows you who they are believe them!! Yes people can change and forgiveness is not just for the person that loves you it's really for you so you can move on but be cautious!!
Thank you for sharing
Normalize forgiveness when the offender is genuine in their remorse and the offened is in a place to forgive. Forgiveness DOES NOT EQUAL ACCESS
Op i have learned that sometimes you have to be the villain in order to make families know that you had enough. Be strong and move forward, your sister is jealous of you and will always will be, be cautious when interacting with your sister just incase she will do it again.
The sister wasn't loyal.
And never will be. She'll try something again if Op lowers her guard.
I'm glad things work out between you and your sister at the end. Unlike many stories i'm listening (where family cut 100% ties with eachother) yours has a better ending. Having both parents and her been able to understand your pain and taking your times show how much they want to make it right. At least your not married with your first one, if he had done it with her he could had continued with others in the future.
Avoid toxic people
not me watching thislike some movie
ngl i need popcorn i ant liying
Lizzie is selfish and the golden child, OP should keep her at a distance
Lizzy deserves no forgiveness. OP is weak.
Forgiveness is for OP’s peace, not excusing Lizzy. Setting boundaries while healing is her choice, and everyone handles betrayal differently.
She set her bed and now she needs to sleep on it😊
@@RedditFamilyTales
Forgiveness is overrated religious garbage intended to maintain the status quo. It it rarely deserved & hurts victims who think it is something they must achieve to attain healing. It’s a farce & anyone trying to sell it is dangerous.
How juvenile.
Forgiveness is for the forgiver, doesn't mean you have to let them back into your life. She's seeking help, wish her well. Once trust has been betrayed it is hard to trust that person again.
Why is everyone mad that the o p wants to forgive her sister?
It's Everyone's choice where they want to forgive.
And Lizzie wants to change not for everyone else, but herself that's how you know they truly want to be better
Because they can't imagine a world where people can actually change for the better. It doesn't happen often, but it does happen. They would rather writhe in their bitterness and hatred.
Finally a Reddit story where the parents aren't absolute arseholes
[2:10] Just dived in and already hooked! Can't wait to hear all these wild stories. 😲📖
You can forgive someone without allowing them back in. Forgiveness is so you can move on, not the other person. It’s to release your own heart from the anger trapped inside and so their betrayal no longer has a hold on your own heart.
Trust me. I cut my own sister out of my life years ago. I’ve forgiven her for all she did and would still do if I had stayed in contact but I have no intentions to ever allow her in my life again. I no longer feel bad because the hurt she caused me has no hold over me anymore.
And her wedding is not the place to try and force a reconciliation.
anyone else plays this at 1.5 speed because it sounds too fkn slow
1.75!
This was a nice story
Thank you so much 🥰
first story so far from reddit, made my eyes wet and its not a easy task for sure lol
OMG what a bunch of crap
A lovely hand painted letter. AI NEEDS TO DO BETTER.
Ok stopped listening after OP talked to Lizzie.
love htis but just so u no ther is another word for word i came accross whn transferring my watchin devic but still love
This is fake. This is a creative writing assignment.
Don't watch.
So. Still entertaining enough to listen to. No different than watching scripted tv shows.
What does op mean
Anyone else thought it was a vagina cake?
Why is it the crazies always go into therapy, like why are you putting your crazy onto other mentally ill people, it's just crazy encouraging crazy out there.
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Did you know therapist have their own therapist it is also mandatory, because humans are weak emotionally and mentally even after "hard raising" or tough situations. But therapist are just the crazy people who were finally able to see a new perspective in hopes or turning other crazy people into new perspective seerers
@yoongisrose6968 that is crazy, their new perspective should contain a whole lot of accountability, or it isn't a new perspective it's a copout.
Frkn AI generated story. Ugh.
It’s no different than watching scripted television shows. 😂.
comment social 😅
Social! 💚😺
Calios
his boyfriend and his bf slept with his sister!!!